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Speaker 1: There you crush me south pack Yoda SoC Ndaka does that?

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Speaker 1: I swear Ulka, I pray soccer Now Na my niece back,

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Speaker 1: crush me stame Yoda, doctab nat them granted? Canna does that?

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Speaker 1: I swear dat doc cot now now.

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Speaker 2: My niece bad, welcome back. This is good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica, I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: It's a beautiful day in l A. We have a

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Speaker 3: special guest, special guests. He has special, everyone's special.

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Speaker 2: You are actually our first single dad guest. Oh, so

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Speaker 2: it is special. Okay, I'm assuming that ship you sing

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Speaker 2: on that. I ain't seen that ring. Sharonis Jackson? Did

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Speaker 2: I say that right? This is your name?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 5: I say it again?

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Speaker 2: Sharon Sharon.

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Speaker 5: The spelling doesn't help at all.

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Speaker 2: So it's s A.

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Speaker 5: Are you in a s? That's that's how they are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you Lithuanian? A Lithuanian name? What does it name?

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Speaker 5: It means like witty, the fast one? Click on your feet?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but why aren't you?

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Speaker 5: But you gotta go back a lot.

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Speaker 4: My father he named me after there was a professional

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Speaker 4: basketball player in the late eighties and he was lithuan

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Speaker 4: He is Lithuanian. Sharona's Marshalonis played for the Golden State Warriors.

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Speaker 5: For a while. Yeah, good player. Okay.

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Speaker 4: My dad was like, man, and my baby brother his

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Speaker 4: name is Darius, right, and everyone knows that to be

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Speaker 4: a black name, but it's actually Lithuanian as well.

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Speaker 5: I just know that my dad named him out Lithuanian

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Speaker 5: hockey players.

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Speaker 2: Dad is an athlete.

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Speaker 5: It just don't happened. It just went like that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but my dad was like theres because

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Speaker 4: the hockey player name was Darius cast Writers And my

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Speaker 4: dad was like, I like that to Darius, and he

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Speaker 4: was like one, yeah, I was originally supposed to be

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Speaker 4: down te but my mom wasn't happening.

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Speaker 2: So it's safe to say your dad is a sports fan.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah he was. He was after himself and just

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Speaker 5: like you know he growing up. That's just how he is. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: my whole friend, that's how it is. The guy that

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Speaker 5: all the.

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Speaker 3: Boys were just were huge, huge, huge And obviously you

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Speaker 3: played football and football.

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Speaker 2: Obvious right.

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Speaker 4: No, it's funny because like people would never think that, right, yeah,

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Speaker 4: basketball idea, but I did play football as well, even

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Speaker 4: a little bit of my first in college. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 5: I played both sports, but basketball was.

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Speaker 3: I know you walked in my house and I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh ship, and actually I have kind I've seen you before.

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Speaker 3: I saw you at the Insecure Rat party from Afar.

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Speaker 2: I didn't say hi.

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Speaker 5: I was shy.

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Speaker 2: I was being shy and like me had a pearl party.

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Speaker 2: I was like, we went about to lock this down.

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Speaker 5: She came up to me. I was just like when

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Speaker 5: you said, I was like, what the You're a minute

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Speaker 5: to play everything together for a minute quick.

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Speaker 6: There's going to go really bad or he's going to

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Speaker 6: be cool. Well, here we go, Like you there, you

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Speaker 6: were stingy.

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Speaker 5: Like I was very I saw a very nice soft

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Speaker 5: and he.

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Speaker 6: Was walking by party in a super Bowl party and

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Speaker 6: we it was tentative. This was scheduled tentatively and he

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Speaker 6: was like communicating only with Erica. But I conveniently saw

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Speaker 6: him at a party on Sunday and I I saw

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Speaker 6: him walk by me.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, there's no way you're going to get away

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Speaker 2: with help. Come over here. Tapped him on the shoulder,

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Speaker 2: lit his waist because that's where I come to, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: timing on shoulders, you have to like jump up there. Hello.

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, are you coming to do to Milson

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Speaker 2: Dyls this week?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Yes, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: Talking, I'm very busy. I'm like, well we're very open,

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Speaker 2: so right it was.

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Speaker 4: Actually perfect because yeah, we haven't communicated since then, I

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Speaker 5: No, we did it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm locked out of my Instagram and I don't

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Speaker 3: have your phone number, so I can't. I can't currently,

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Speaker 3: I haven't been on Instagram in like five days, walked.

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Speaker 2: Five or six days. I even try to sign in

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Speaker 2: for her, they won't send the security I finally got

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Speaker 2: something today. I think I got to do it on

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Speaker 3: I've lost I broke my phone when I got a

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Speaker 3: new phone. Then I got locked out of my Instagram

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Speaker 3: and then I tried to log.

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Speaker 5: In safety reasons.

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Speaker 3: Is that what they're doing when they send you a

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Speaker 3: verification code, you know, and then but the verification code

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Speaker 3: isn't coming, so I can't enter anything.

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Speaker 2: So therefore I'm locked up, which is, you know what,

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Speaker 2: not so bad because I think been on I need

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Speaker 2: I need a cleanse. I need a clean I do that.

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Speaker 4: It's too much do yeah, I will purposely like set

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Speaker 4: time to you know, or I monitor my inteight.

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Speaker 5: I try not. I try not.

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Speaker 4: I don't want it to be the first thing I

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Speaker 4: do when I wake up, because I call myself doing that.

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Speaker 4: And then or like if it's Twitter or Instagram, you know,

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Speaker 4: I could I could wake up, really get my phone,

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Speaker 4: get into it, and I could be.

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Speaker 5: In bed way longer Than'm supposed to be. And I

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Speaker 5: don't like doing that. I like being productive. And then

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Speaker 5: and sometimes I get get very.

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Speaker 4: Social media can irritate you very easily, especially Twitter, just

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Speaker 4: because of the ignorance out there. I don't like being

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Speaker 4: affected just my social media so pharone stupid.

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Speaker 5: But that's how I am. I'm like, why am I

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Speaker 5: getting so mad?

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Speaker 2: I've been crying, Like you know, I'm angry. I'm like

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Speaker 2: the world's horrible, play right right right?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, it's important means me to take breaks.

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Speaker 3: We'll take I mean because on our Instagram, I'll be like, okay,

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Speaker 3: so I'm not doing Instagram this week.

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Speaker 2: You have to do it all week, right, because we

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Speaker 2: have two instagrams.

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Speaker 3: I have that I have to manage and that's my

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Speaker 3: personal but also for work and then also this which

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Speaker 2: So it's like I can't get right now, I have.

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Speaker 5: Social media clans. I got it from her.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, Yeah, you have to

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Speaker 2: do it. And speaking of social media, are your dms

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Speaker 2: lit or.

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Speaker 5: You know they are?

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Speaker 2: I know, I mean, I hear the women are pretty aggressive.

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Speaker 2: I know I want to see what I know?

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Speaker 6: Can you just like pull up like one am, like

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Speaker 6: just just like scroll, like close your eyes and see

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Speaker 6: what we get.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: So we had man Lathan on right, Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: and he he was showing his Instagram and he was actually,

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Speaker 3: he'll say he'll still send us like videos of like

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Speaker 3: girls working.

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Speaker 2: Lots of water toking. Is that have you gotten that shower?

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Speaker 2: A lot of showers turk like in the bath water splashing.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if he says something to get these

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Speaker 4: girls to do it, but if he don't know how

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Speaker 5: I've never got a water like a shower. I was thinking,

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Speaker 5: like a girl was in the pool, she was making

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Speaker 5: a way, but like she was the only one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there was a lot of torks.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know what, Actually I need

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Speaker 4: to show you my favorite one I ever got shot

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Speaker 4: of that.

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Speaker 5: It was very very interesting creative. You need to you

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Speaker 5: need to read it. I'll let you guys read it

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Speaker 5: aloud to when I get it to.

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Speaker 6: You know what, I'm happy got to because I want

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Speaker 6: to know, like, what's what's a successful creepy damn?

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Speaker 2: Like if I don't know you at all and I'm

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Speaker 2: coming out because clearly I'm not good at that.

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Speaker 5: You're not You're not good at damning.

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Speaker 2: was let me please tell you a little bit how

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, I'm listening with just mind, but go ahead,

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Speaker 4: go ahead, though, good morning.

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Speaker 2: I just woke up and you were on my mind

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Speaker 2: and I had a dream about you. I know this

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Speaker 2: is a long shot, but America, you seem really cool

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Speaker 2: and not just on the surface. First did not think

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Speaker 2: any of those things, yo, don't make me fair dream part. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I had a dream about you, and I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to say I really think like two paragraphs. She actually said.

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Speaker 2: I had to tell her the next day.

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Speaker 5: You got to forgot keep it short in compact.

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Speaker 2: You know, first of all, thank god he never read it.

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Speaker 2: We unsent to it. You know that he'll never know.

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Speaker 5: Nice were off? Can you tell me who? Oh my god,

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Speaker 5: it was Envy, it was Mike, it was so.

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Speaker 2: She was so she was so like literally walk up

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Speaker 2: that morning. I was like, I'm in love.

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Speaker 5: I know, you know, he knows, he said and everything.

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Speaker 2: So we be around. But I think you likes white girls.

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Speaker 2: So it doesn't matter anyway, my shots.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say that's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we don't have to comment on.

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Speaker 5: It, but it's just from my my all flavors for sure.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well, you know maybe he likes the

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Speaker 2: milk Choco.

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Speaker 5: I guess you know it's funny like so that yeah,

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Speaker 5: I guess that is lathing.

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Speaker 2: That's not great. So do you notice it as a man?

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Speaker 4: What is what? I guess A lot of black like black,

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Speaker 4: A lot more black women brought to my attention, not

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Speaker 4: that I you know, black women bring it to your

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Speaker 5: That that's how it is. Like, well, because you understand

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Speaker 5: from me, like I mean, I just like black women.

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Speaker 5: That's just how I am.

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Speaker 4: Well you know whatever for mix doesn't matter to me, right,

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Speaker 4: but that's how I am. So like in my head,

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm just like you know, and then the guys

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Speaker 4: like my homeboys whatever they like black women to black women,

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Speaker 4: to not all of them, Like I mean, I've seen

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Speaker 4: the mess with all like you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: but like there's I guess thinking about it, it's like

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Speaker 4: only me.

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Speaker 5: And maybe.

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Speaker 4: And my big brothers like that, Me and my big

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Speaker 4: brother and home boy mind probably the only ones I

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Speaker 4: know what we just like that's.

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Speaker 5: What does it for us.

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Speaker 2: It's really suxy to me because it's a loss.

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Speaker 5: It's like a loss which is it's weird wow to

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Speaker 5: me because everybody knows. I don't care what.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't care if you're racist, for everyone knows

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Speaker 4: that honestly, Like look all of our you know, be whatever.

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Speaker 5: All women are.

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Speaker 4: Beautiful, but black women are sexy, saying ever like touch

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Speaker 4: this planet like that, like that's not even a secret.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, but you came from a blackgel guys.

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Speaker 4: And they're like, well, because I'm talking about I'll talk

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Speaker 4: I'm like, of course it's not for you, and her

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, no, y'all make just now, holding y'all accountable.

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Speaker 5: Whatever. She's like the one of the sweetest people you

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Speaker 5: it's not what we.

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Speaker 2: It's her experience. She doesn't understand because and she'll never will.

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Speaker 5: She never feels pos is right now, can you read

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Speaker 2: Oh my guys, it's the damn Okay, so this is

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 3: I don't usually do groupy things like this, but I

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Speaker 2: You are a freak freak. I don't want to fuck

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let her her, let her get it out, let

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Speaker 5: her go. I don't.

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Speaker 2: No way, shit, you're a freak freak. I don't want

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Speaker 5: I went to her Instagram to confirm this something.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what did I do?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, I went. I went to Instagram and she

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Speaker 5: me liked that. I was like, yeah, girl like I

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Speaker 5: don't care like shot at me. I like that. I

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Speaker 5: need to get in nothing way. I was like, you

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Speaker 5: got a boy, It's just I'm just.

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Speaker 2: You know it.

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Speaker 5: Anywhere I could literally just do like this file driving.

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Speaker 5: Sorry I don't. Yeah, so shout out to Jess. You're

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Speaker 5: not No, I'm not gonna saying that.

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Speaker 4: Her name was generic enough for me to say that,

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Speaker 4: but yeah I got that. No, that's just because you see,

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Speaker 4: I didn't allow her to climate like I just so

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Speaker 4: I can say this my favorite. Matter of fact, I

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Speaker 4: don't lose it. But yeah, that was one of my favorites.

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Speaker 4: That one was let me see it has a date

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Speaker 4: on here this I'd have been like too much.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what did you say?

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Speaker 2: Did you mention like girls with like like I never

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Speaker 5: I never mentioned that, and just all I did was

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Speaker 4: I answered honestly, like it's hard for me now I'm

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Speaker 5: For me not to be you know what I mean

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Speaker 5: and be honest. I'm just very very you know, blunt

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Speaker 4: And I know I think they asked about certain like

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Speaker 4: something like that, or role play stuff and.

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Speaker 2: Not give examples.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm into it.

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Speaker 4: I've only I've only done it really once or twice.

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Speaker 4: Get Yeah, so like yeah, So I talked about that

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Speaker 4: it was it was a girl I was messing with

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Speaker 4: and well, no, actually, have we had sex yet? No,

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Speaker 4: we hadn't had sex yet, but we had fooled around,

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Speaker 4: We've done stuff. We just didn't have sex yet, right,

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Speaker 4: And so.

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Speaker 5: We were talking.

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Speaker 4: We you know, it wasn't nothing serious, but we you know,

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Speaker 4: talking about going to some party, like a function. It

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Speaker 4: was like a like a house party, mansion party type

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Speaker 5: She's I was all, yeah, what what are you doing tonight?

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Speaker 5: And she brought that up.

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Speaker 4: She said, yeah, I'm actually like, I guess you could

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go and I'm just like, you know, just

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Speaker 4: act like you don't don't mean you know, I don't

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Speaker 5: But then it just evolved into it like yeah, like

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Speaker 4: So like when we were strangers, we're complete strangers, you

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Speaker 4: know damn Like you know, we catch each other's out

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Speaker 4: of the party, you know, we're attracted to one another.

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Speaker 4: She's there with somebody, and I take her from her

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Speaker 4: man and I take her home whatever or not at home.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. We like there at the party we went to,

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Speaker 4: like it was a really nice house. It was like

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Speaker 4: the kids room had a bathroom.

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Speaker 5: So we went in there. We did that, and then

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Speaker 4: When we leave, it will come out whatever, and then

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Speaker 4: we just like go about our business, perfect perfect strangers.

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Speaker 5: And I was just like I got really into that ship.

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Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this is yeah, I like this.

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Speaker 5: Writes down. Don't know exactly exactly I played one time,

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Speaker 5: I want to be so bad. I want to do

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Speaker 5: that so bad, one of my favorite porn videos to

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Speaker 5: this house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that's.

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Speaker 4: Especially the other terminology right now, in fact, I make

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Speaker 4: it more than they take as possible.

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Speaker 5: I needed, you know, I needed.

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Speaker 2: The market is plummeting. It's very timing fast all in.

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Speaker 4: Because my favorite one I remember, she was like she's

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Speaker 4: like what she said something where she was like the

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Speaker 4: guy's like, I mean, yeah, it's nice.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Just she's like, well, I mean like she's like, well

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Speaker 4: just seem you know, you get get like everything that comes.

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Speaker 6: With the house, right and everything, everything that's in here

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Speaker 6: right now yours.

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Speaker 7: That's how she I was like, in here is yours

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Speaker 7: real estate, Michaels, that's the point of Michael.

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Speaker 2: That's a poorn you like, that's the porn I like.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm into this.

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Speaker 6: The only thing about playing in real play is like

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Speaker 6: I don't like, don't start and then try and get

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it really.

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Speaker 2: Too.

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Speaker 5: I will call it cut, cut, cut, We're gonna do

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Speaker 5: this again. I will get fast. If you're just like laughing,

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Speaker 5: don't laugh at me.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any like porn stars that you like specifically?

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Speaker 2: You don't watch for though when you search.

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Speaker 4: Who do you like?

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Speaker 5: What I used to?

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Speaker 2: You don't watch anymore.

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Speaker 4: You've retired not as much yeah, because like with guys,

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Speaker 4: this is a real thing. If you watch too much,

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Speaker 4: when you get down to it, man, your deck won't

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Speaker 4: get as hard because you like, yeah, it's like now

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Speaker 4: is it because visually you're getting used to certain things,

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Speaker 4: you're not gonna get those same visuals or angles. It does,

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Speaker 4: it does, it does, It's amazing whatever in the or whatever. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and so like it doesn't ruin sex. But for me

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Speaker 4: I noticed, like like when I was watching a lot

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Speaker 4: whatever and you know, yan and cranky, I would like,

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Speaker 4: let's just say I didn't do it for a week,

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Speaker 4: and then the next time I have sex, like I

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Speaker 4: like if I was like not that I wasn't ready

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Speaker 4: to go, but sometimes I could I could sense that.

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Speaker 2: You know, yes, you know I'm like that part.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe that.

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Speaker 3: I think it makes I think especially for like maybe

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like they have unrealistic expectations.

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Speaker 4: Of what sex is like absolutely, you know, absolutely and

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Speaker 4: like see because and it glorifies in a certain way.

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Speaker 4: And I mean like look like sex is great and everything,

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Speaker 4: of course, but like when they're over glorified like that

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Speaker 4: and these unrealistic situations and and these women is like

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Speaker 4: they now like all these guys want they girls have

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Speaker 4: this stuff, like they like whatever they're looking at, whatever

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Speaker 5: Senate or something like that, I was just like, okay,

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Speaker 5: or the step.

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Speaker 2: Mom step one, I'm like, something wrong with me, but

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Speaker 2: like I'm.

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00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 4: Not gonna get that situation and stuff, and so like

444
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 4: you as excited for something, I'm like, that's that's yeah,

445
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 4: that was way. So I remember I just randomly saw

446
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 4: like I mean, I just heard this clip I think

447
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 4: I want it might have been on TV, but a

448
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 4: dude was talking about what's talking about that. I was like,

449
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,919
Speaker 4: and I'm just remember.

450
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 5: Clicking to me. I was like, oh wow, like you

451
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 5: know yeah, so so like if I do do it

452
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 5: now see to me?

453
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 4: You know what I prefer is if like if you know,

454
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 4: like we have an experience and it's like okay, we

455
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 4: record our experience.

456
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,919
Speaker 8: I'd rather have my own your own real life experience

457
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 8: because my person I'm not even gonna be in it

458
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 8: like that as coming from pod so I like, you can't.

459
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 2: Afford you gotta keep you gotta keep the video.

460
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,400
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm like, no, this is I ain't getting

461
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 5: sent to you can watch it with me.

462
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I think, well for me like to.

463
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 3: Answer my own question about my favorite porn stars, Oh yeah,

464
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 3: I all my favorite porn stars are like not making

465
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 3: as many not making many videos.

466
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 2: I don't like, Like I go and look up Alexis

467
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: Texas and I'm like, bitch, where are you really?

468
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 5: Like I've seen all her anymore?

469
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 4: After like after her what she says, what she said,

470
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 4: but you know, because you see she's never had sex

471
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 4: with black man.

472
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 2: Right is she black?

473
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 5: She's white?

474
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 2: Like I just like a huge ass.

475
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 5: That's the thing for me to pog POGs what's POGs?

476
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 5: Fat ass white woman?

477
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: What is it?

478
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 5: What is the g A T? I mean girl, fat

479
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 5: as a white girl? Fat p h A T asked

480
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 5: a white w J girl.

481
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 4: Right now?

482
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 2: Fat oog p.

483
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 5: A w G fat ass white girl.

484
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: Oh, it wasn't about it wasn't about who she was sucking.

485
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 5: It was about her, but she has a fast yes

486
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 5: and in Israel pog was a was a was a

487
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 5: good Oay.

488
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 2: Well, now that I know she said something, she said.

489
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like she doesn't have some black guys because of

490
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 4: her her like her supporters, her because her.

491
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 6: Herb clientele doesn't like it, or like her fan base

492
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 6: wouldn't like that.

493
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 5: She says, I don't know.

494
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 2: I mean she's canceled. Jesus very jes it is. We

495
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: learned from King and Jasmine.

496
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 5: That's why I only I mainly watched.

497
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 3: Well, there's not a lot of black porns that are

498
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 3: like showing black people making love. It's always like very

499
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 3: like aggressive.

500
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 4: I don't like, man, what you can say whatever, Man,

501
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 4: the niggasn't and porn life sometimes man, they just it's

502
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 4: like sometimes I ruin it from him and shut the

503
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 4: fuck up man talking to Yeah.

504
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 5: I like yeah, because it's something I like the girl

505
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 5: and nigga. The way he talking, I'm like.

506
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 2: Jordan's naked like sugar feet. Oh here, okay, well and

507
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm about porn.

508
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 3: I actually, So we play this little game sometimes with

509
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 3: guests to get to know them better. It's called Trigger,

510
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 3: and basically we're going to ask you we're gonna say

511
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 3: a word. You have to say the first thing that

512
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 3: comes to your mind, and we're gonna go really fast,

513
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: so you have to try to just answer quickly.

514
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: So you ready, Yeah, Okay, here we go. Where's my

515
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 2: trigger list?

516
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 9: L a.

517
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 2: Work, travel, fun, basketball.

518
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 4: Passion, toes, suck them some trash, love, nice.

519
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 3: Thong or panties, Hate what you said? Hate strong curlier,

520
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 3: straight curly insecurity.

521
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 5: My back, your back?

522
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know I have scars from high school. I

523
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 4: broke out on my back. A lot, nice trash this year.

524
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 2: Period sucks down, Michelle Obahama, It's gorgeous. The Valley far

525
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: I knew that was gonna be it. Monogamy possible, black history, but.

526
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 5: Oh man, I.

527
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: Love McDonald's.

528
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 3: Taco Bell threesome Yes, fake ass, Nope, The Kardashians, vultures,

529
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: black women, gods, white women.

530
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 5: Oh man, Jesus Christ. Yeah, white women is one word, right,

531
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 5: that's okay? White women?

532
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 2: Slow, favorite color? Black favorite food?

533
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 5: Food? Wow, favorite food. We'll go with.

534
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 4: We'll go with.

535
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 5: One Korean skirt steak, I.

536
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 3: Will Henry Henry, Okay, the shade room, the shade room,

537
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 3: garbage CARDI me.

538
00:26:55,520 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 5: You mean, oh fine, Drake or jay z shit. Okay, Drake,

539
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 5: but it's not easy, all right, I'm saying Drake though.

540
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: Lebron goat zodiac sign, pisces age.

541
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 4: Twenty eight, strippers, waste of time, sorry, breastfeeding yes, healthy, healthy.

542
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 2: Harry.

543
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 5: Whatever man crush man crush Wow. Can't tell you who

544
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 5: used to be used to be Paul Walker before he passed.

545
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 10: No currently Lebron favorite body part on me mm hmm, shoulders,

546
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 10: dream job doing it.

547
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 2: It's a love crush.

548
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 5: Tessa Thompson m m m m.

549
00:27:48,840 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: Racism, ignorant, lover, money, love, baby mama one inspiration.

550
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 4: Black people, black culture, flaw, impatient, single mom, come here, oh.

551
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 3: Oh, subjective black China, sorry, garbage, favorite favorite fatherhood.

552
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 5: Blessing, dassie, that'll do pretty good.

553
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 2: Well yeah, really, what did you say to single mom?

554
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 5: Come here, come here, get it too?

555
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 3: So you're not scared of a single another of a

556
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 3: woman like previous to you having a child, would you

557
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 3: have dated a woman with a child?

558
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: Would you? Would you have avoided?

559
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 5: Yeah?

560
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 4: Okay, there was an age before after twenty five or

561
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 4: twenty six is when I was like, you know what,

562
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 4: it was too many amazing people in my life who

563
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 4: had kids, you know, and you're not wasn't that it

564
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 4: was just like you know what though, like, don't get

565
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 4: me wrong, there's definitely situations where I'm like, I don't

566
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 4: want to be a part of that, but the sole

567
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 4: fact of them having a child, like you know, it's

568
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 4: just I wouldn't base it off that. It has to

569
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 4: be the situation that's attached to it where I make

570
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 4: my decision if I'm like, oh, yeah, I fuck with.

571
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 5: That or not, you know what I mean.

572
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 4: So that's why I am can be like, yeah, it

573
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 4: can be too crazy the situation for me to adopt,

574
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 4: you know, because now I'm tied into that. People could

575
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 4: be like, no, it's not just like that is my business,

576
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 4: especially like into me. I'm a protector too, like just

577
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 4: natural as I've always been. And like say, like my

578
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 4: woman as a child by another man, and this nigga's

579
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 4: disrespectful at some point, like you got to see me, bro,

580
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 4: Like that's that.

581
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 5: I don't play none of that, you know what I mean.

582
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 4: So like I don't you know, and I don't want

583
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 4: to see the woman I'm with, like you know, someone

584
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 4: a nigg in the stress and.

585
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 5: This isn't that.

586
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 4: And also I'm very and also like it could cause

587
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 4: problems too because I will tell my woman straight up like, yo,

588
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 4: you're being very very inappropriate about the situation. You're being wrong.

589
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: I will tell a woman she's being wrong towards a

590
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 4: man too, and that can cause easy like you know,

591
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 4: because some women want you to be on nice side

592
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 4: all the time. Not just women, I'm sorry, people, some

593
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 4: people just like want you to be on this side

594
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: all the time. And I'm like, nah, I will I

595
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 4: hold people accountable no matter who you are.

596
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 5: You can be my mom and I'm black women, you're fair. Yeah, yeah,

597
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 5: I think so.

598
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

599
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 2: Do you think I mean, was fatherhood for you unexpected?

600
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 5: Like really unexpected?

601
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 4: I definitely wanted, you know, And I remember I always

602
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 4: like said, you know, obviously as you go through life,

603
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 4: clans change, but like you know, I always wanted a

604
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 4: child before thirty.

605
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 5: The circumstances were just different than what I thought they

606
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 5: would be.

607
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you and did you think that is it

608
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: what you thought it would be? Is it harder? Is

609
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: it easier?

610
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 4: Is it it's okay, it's not as hard as I

611
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 4: thought it would be. It's not easy, but it's not

612
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 4: as hard as I thought it would be m I

613
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 4: don't know why.

614
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 5: I I don't know.

615
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 4: Maybe just from when you talk to people, it just

616
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 4: seems like some people like make it seem like it's

617
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 4: this is like I don't know the hardest thing now,

618
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 4: mind you. You know, I'm very I'm very comfortable in

619
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 4: my life. So like that's a stress that I don't

620
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 4: have to think about that a lot of people have

621
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 4: to think about, especially when they add a child to

622
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 4: the situation.

623
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 2: You know, it also helps if you get along with.

624
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 5: Does it really does? And honestly, like I think people

625
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 5: have this well.

626
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 4: I well, first of all, a lot of people don't

627
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 4: necessarily know like my situation and the mother of my

628
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 4: child situation, just because you know, they get like just

629
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 4: wrong facts from such as the shape room stuff like that.

630
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 4: But like we weren't romantically involved and we weren't dating

631
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 4: or together, And honestly, that kind of helps our situation

632
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 4: in a sense because there's there's no bad history to

633
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 4: go off of.

634
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 5: There's nothing toxic holding is bad.

635
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: You guys were friends like having fun.

636
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like we just so happened to conceive and

637
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 5: now like honestly.

638
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 4: Like I'll hang out with I'll hang out with Dominique,

639
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 4: and that's the mother my child named Dominique and my

640
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 4: and my daughter's in Well we'll be hanging out whatever,

641
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 4: and we're laughing a lot of the all the time,

642
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I don't like I'm really lucky,

643
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 4: Like I don't have a situation where it's just like

644
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 4: like obviously no, don't get me wrong, Like do we

645
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 4: have disagreements. Yes, you know, there's like we're normal. You know,

646
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 4: there's there's things about it that's like, you know, could

647
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 4: be frustrating at times, especially at the beginning, but like now,

648
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 4: you know, just we're so easy with one another. And she,

649
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 4: I mean, like especially with her, like you know, she's

650
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 4: made it easy for me and you know, we just

651
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 4: talking stuff and yeah, that's fine, that's why or whatever.

652
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 5: You know, she doesn't ask if anything. I don't ask

653
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 5: if anything.

654
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 6: Cool because I don't know what that's I don't know

655
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 6: what's like to nat with somebody.

656
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that that's the problem most of the time.

657
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 2: Because how long did you guys or like know each

658
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: other before you guys.

659
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 4: Had we had the baby, And see if that was

660
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 4: because you guys met on the show and that's.

661
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, so we probably almost to year known each.

662
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 2: Other almost, which is like you don't really know that

663
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: person at that point. Fully, So you got lucky if

664
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,959
Speaker 2: you guys know exactly.

665
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, we do vibe now, don't get me wrong, Like

666
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 5: there are certain things because you.

667
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 2: Know, you're still getting to know each other.

668
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, when when you're getting to know someone, and I

669
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 4: mean for the most part, we we know for the

670
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 4: most part of one another. There's just I know, there's

671
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 4: certain things that we just don't dive into because we

672
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 4: won't agree on things like that. And yeah, there's certain

673
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 4: maybe ways that she thinks in the ways I think

674
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 4: is just like different.

675
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 5: Yeah. So but the most important thing is that we're very.

676
00:33:55,280 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 4: Understanding the patient with one another, and she's patient of me,

677
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 4: you know, I getting patient like something that says a flaw.

678
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 5: And we you know, zen's are priority, you know.

679
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 4: So it's so tough, like you know, yeah, well that's

680
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 4: common sense, we would think, you know, but a lot

681
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 4: of people don't make it about the kid.

682
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 2: And that's where it But that's because there's other things

683
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: they're making That's what.

684
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 4: I'm saying, and that but it's so sad that after

685
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 4: child's expense, you know what I mean, it's just like

686
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,879
Speaker 4: it's just like yo, like this, it's it's just selfishness.

687
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 4: You know that that ends up ruining a lot of

688
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 4: things in a relationship with what could be good, like

689
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 4: it'd be so nice you know for you know, for

690
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 4: people if you know, hurt people, hurt people, we don't

691
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 4: know that and stuff. So like, but moving forwards, like

692
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 4: if people can just embrace the past, you know it's

693
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 4: the past, and that they can sit down with one

694
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 4: another and moving forward, it's just like, you know, like

695
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 4: let's keep a positive for the child.

696
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 5: But you know, it's way easier.

697
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 4: Said than that.

698
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 3: It's just like, man, no, for sure, I mean it

699
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 3: in my situation with my like my dad is when

700
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 3: my mom and my dad broke up before I was born,

701
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 3: and my dad made my was not cool with my

702
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 3: mom and just made it ill and it affected me,

703
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 3: you know, And I think that's why I think that's

704
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 3: why I make such a it's such a priority for

705
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: me to always make sure even if me and her

706
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 3: father are not getting along, which we go, we have

707
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 3: really great moments and then we have not so great moments,

708
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: but at the but it's always about her, you know

709
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 3: what I mean, no matter for a fighting, I don't

710
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 3: give a fuck. You can take her, go take her,

711
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 3: it's fine. I will never keep your child away from her.

712
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: Like I'll always invite you to whatever I think. You know,

713
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 3: she is appropriate as long as it's not going to

714
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 3: trigger us and we're not gonna act a fool in

715
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 3: front of her, you know what I mean.

716
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes, yeah, we probably shouldn't go to karate class this

717
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 2: week together. You know, I'll take her to karate class

718
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 2: this week, you take her next. She's cool, it's all right, yeah, yeah,

719
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 2: but yeah, you know it should be that simple, but

720
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 2: it's it's it can be. It can be tricky, and

721
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 2: so that's amazing that you have that experience with her.

722
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 5: I mean, and like I think it was, like I just.

723
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 4: I just found I just took a great responsibility because

724
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, man, man, we could be so

725
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 4: egotistical and just like very selfish, and we're just taught

726
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 4: a lot of toxic way he's growing up, you know,

727
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 4: as a boy, and it doesn't help with expressing your

728
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: emotions or your feelings.

729
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 6: Clearly, because trying to to do that, you don't right exactly,

730
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 6: and then you're raging and that and that's.

731
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 4: Where your explode, which is how I used to be.

732
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 4: Like anger is is an emotion that I can channel

733
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 4: very easy. Like man, you know, filming, if it's the

734
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 4: same where it's anger, I'm like, okay, I'm not.

735
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 5: Even working hard. Let me get w I'm scary.

736
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: You know. Sometimes we're like WHOA. So I was actually

737
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 4: lucky with him with my father. He my dad, my

738
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 4: dad six seven, three hundred plus pounds, big guy. But

739
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 4: he didn't like I mean, there would have been there

740
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 4: certain times, but he didn't really you know, I could

741
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 4: cry during a movie or something like that, and it

742
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 4: was fine, Like he let me do that. He would

743
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 4: cry in front of me if you saw something touching.

744
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 4: So I saw that like I'll see him tear up.

745
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 2: You know.

746
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 4: Now there were certain certain situations that he might have

747
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 4: told me that whatever, and you know I was able

748
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 4: to you know, but to still have like that there

749
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 4: was like maybe a little balance of it. But to

750
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 4: still have that with my I think that helped me

751
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 4: to be like the man I am Dad. Well my

752
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 4: brothers too, you know, me and my brother we could

753
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 4: we could be very vulnerable on one another.

754
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 2: Man, we're very very healthy.

755
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 4: It is you know what I mean, and you would

756
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 4: think because I mean, look the shortest you know man

757
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 4: in my in my immediate family. I mean my baby

758
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 4: brother is my baby brother.

759
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 2: He's six six you know, no giant, right giants.

760
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 5: My oldest brother is six six and a half, you.

761
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: Know, supermodel or something.

762
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 5: I want to be a director, but whatever, like you know,

763
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 5: but yeah, so like just.

764
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 4: You know, with my brothers, you know, we could we

765
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 4: could express you know, I mean, you know, obviously gonna

766
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 4: be time with we how to just I just think

767
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 4: society as a whole will teacher you know, kind of

768
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 4: does that to us, especially black men. But yeah, we

769
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 4: uh we we we're very we communicate very well. And

770
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 4: I think that definitely helped me with like situations like this.

771
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 4: So with like, you know, I took a you know,

772
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 4: I told myself, you know, just be very patience with

773
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 4: the mother and my child. Be communicate with her, you know,

774
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 4: show put the effort into it. Try hard not to

775
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 4: you know, even if you're disagreeing, to not make it

776
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,959
Speaker 4: something like just like you know, disagree whatever, and also

777
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 4: be fine with that that you're going to disagree with

778
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: things and just and that's gonna be that, you know,

779
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 4: and you know, luckily she's been very like.

780
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 5: You know, open, and.

781
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 4: You know, even if she's messed up in certain situations

782
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 4: like okay, like I understand. I knew, like the fresh year,

783
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 4: it's gonna.

784
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 5: Be hard for the for the mother to separate from

785
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 5: her child. So I knew that.

786
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 4: I'm just like you know, there's times where you know,

787
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 4: I want to have my daughter just with me from

788
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 4: from for my own time. I want her to not

789
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 4: to be dependent on having her mama around time. I

790
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 4: know she's very young now, but I just want to

791
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 4: start the habit you know early.

792
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 5: Not Yeah, I know it's important, Yeah, I mean no,

793
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 5: That's why I was like, look as much as.

794
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 2: Don't call me, let's the buildings on fire right right, No,

795
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: but you know what, I can relate to that too though.

796
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 3: And even though like her father lived, we were together,

797
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 3: we were together during that whole like first two years

798
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 3: and or like no two years, but and even sometimes

799
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 3: like even him being around, like he would want her,

800
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: but she would cry when she was with him. I

801
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 3: just get rid of me, Like I wouldn't even let

802
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 3: him try because I would just I would just be

803
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 3: so annoyed, and I just wanted to stop.

804
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: That's not fair though, No, it's not it's not fair.

805
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: It's absolutely not fair. What this has to be centered

806
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 2: because there's still a situation. There's multiple situations happening here.

807
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: We need to be aware of it. Scoot out.

808
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 4: Sorry, that's all good.

809
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was apologizing to the listeners for having the

810
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 2: yellow air. She was yelling at me. Yeah, that's not

811
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 2: right either. I know that's not right.

812
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that, Like I think as women sometimes

813
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 3: have babies, like I mean, it's so attached, we can't

814
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 3: it happens naturally, honestly.

815
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I said, I understand me.

816
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 6: I didn't birth, but that's why, you know what it's

817
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 6: for me, it was more important because I breast been

818
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 6: for four thousand.

819
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 2: Years, but it was also it was also more more

820
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: important that I did carry her. So like here you go,

821
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: it's time for you.

822
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 6: I'm like, take that shirt offs, like because yeah, I

823
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 6: read about that, like it's important for the for the

824
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 6: for the fathers to have that bond too, and like

825
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 6: early because so so.

826
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,760
Speaker 2: Much we think mom mo mom, but we carried them already.

827
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 6: They've been inside us and we sometimes you breastfeed and

828
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 6: you know there's generally that mom thing anyway, But I

829
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 6: think a lot of times we make that habit too,

830
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 6: because I was very aware to be like balanced and

831
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,800
Speaker 6: like here you go because it's fifty to fifty. That

832
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 6: doesn't happen too often though, But I think because.

833
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: That Luna wasn't. I mean, she is very mommy, but

834
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 2: she'll be like daddy too.

835
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 7: Like sometimes even now should be like, oh, I want

836
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 7: to see at daddy's house and I'm like, why, I'll

837
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 7: see you tomorrow, I think, But.

838
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 3: I think also maybe like maybe it's because I think

839
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 3: as women, we are preparing for child, like to have

840
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 3: a child for nine months, we literally have all this

841
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 3: time prepare where guys are checking in, but they could.

842
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 2: Leave and like forget about it, you know what I mean.

843
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 2: And so I think once you have the baby.

844
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 3: That you've carried and like you know, given birth to,

845
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 3: and then you're going to give it to someone, and

846
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 3: you guys were not together. Not saying this is okay,

847
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 3: but I'm saying you guys were together. She was like

848
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 3: does he even know what like how to care for her?

849
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 2: Like is she do you know she has to change

850
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 2: her diaper when the line turns blue?

851
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 3: Do you know like she needs to eat every three

852
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 3: I don't forget, and that's not fair that she wasn't

853
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,720
Speaker 3: going to give you the opportunity, but probably.

854
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 5: Yeah told me like she would be like I need

855
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 5: to know that she's this isn't it. But I'm like, yo, like.

856
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 4: Like and these and these moments like you know where

857
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 4: we where we were, we we would disagree or something

858
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 4: like that.

859
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 5: I might look like like, this is your first child too,

860
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

861
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 4: Like you like, I'm like to me and honestly, like

862
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 4: in life, you know, I mean, it's not just for her,

863
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 4: but I just feel I'm like, look, I feel like

864
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 4: you know, I've been before the child leading up to this,

865
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 4: I've handled my business like I'm more mature than you this,

866
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 4: So how do I am I supposed to just trust

867
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 4: you that you like you talk about me. I'm like, yeah,

868
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 4: so I'm like, you know, I was just you know,

869
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 4: this would be things I said. You know, I'm like,

870
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 4: look like I said, unless you're breastfeeding, like now she

871
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 4: needs us equally. You had the one up on me

872
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 4: for a little bit first. But what's happening. You know,

873
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 4: it happens, you know what I'm saying. So I know

874
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 4: how to do this too, you know to you know

875
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,479
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, do this. I know, I like you whatever,

876
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 4: I know all that.

877
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 5: Exactly. I know I changed. I'll give her back all

878
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 5: that on top of that.

879
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: Like I've had cousins, you know, I've always called my

880
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 4: cousin's kids my nephews or you know, and I have

881
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 4: my practiced with them like changing. I was gonna have

882
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 4: my own some day. So let me start knowing this.

883
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 4: You know I got it in early whatever.

884
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: But so you.

885
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 5: Changedpers Yeah yeah, yeah.

886
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 2: Did you watch your baby be born?

887
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 5: Yeah?

888
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: How's that for you?

889
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 5: She had a seat session seat session.

890
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 6: Yeah.

891
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 5: I later start her inside good pull.

892
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 2: Now you know people miss this. People really don't know.

893
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 2: I tell people this like you do. Realize your intestines

894
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: are coming out of the video. They let you a

895
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: lot of times. They won't let you. They left Friday.

896
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 2: They encouraged it. They're like, take your car Friday video.

897
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 5: But I didn't record that. I have a week tim me.

898
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 5: So I got behind it.

899
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't all. But you didn't see that. You

900
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 2: didn't see this.

901
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 4: Well, the thing is, I don't think they knew how

902
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 4: tall I was. I walked in like, you know, it's high,

903
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 4: but I all picked over. I was like ship out,

904
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 4: like I was like, let me not d I was like,

905
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 4: because she's right here, I was.

906
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 5: Like, oh, what the fuck? She's dropped up though, so

907
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 5: she's like.

908
00:44:58,920 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 2: Is it bad?

909
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 5: I was like, cut she was she you know. And

910
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 5: then and then man, it was crazy, like what the fun?

911
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 4: Then they pulled in out right and and look, my

912
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 4: baby she's first of all, I was spoiled.

913
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 5: She doesn't cry, she sleeps through the night. She's just

914
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 5: like a good baby, you know what I mean.

915
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 4: Like I chill her like I don't know if you

916
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 4: look at my story, like I'm just chilling her. I

917
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 4: have her, you know, my baby's a little trap, you know.

918
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 4: I have her in there, and she's just like you know,

919
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 4: she's just there. Yeah, and you can handle it. If

920
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 4: I hand her to you right now, then she'd just

921
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 4: be like, you know, she won't cry, so like, no,

922
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 4: just wait till.

923
00:45:50,840 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 5: My thing is later right at some point, But she's

924
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 5: doing that now to be hitting me.

925
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 4: Hit me.

926
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 5: I'm a little.

927
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 2: But I'm not a cheesecake factory. Though, I'd be like,

928
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: it's only white right right.

929
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 4: You yeah, Like, yeah, I'm enjoying these times until when

930
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:27,720
Speaker 4: they become their own little person.

931
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 2: My child is white, goddamn valley, right, so I'm in

932
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 2: the valley water.

933
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 5: But I was gonna say she didn't. She didn't cry

934
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 5: when she came out right.

935
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 4: At first, like you know, scary it was so I

936
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 4: was like hell, I was like this thing on, but

937
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 4: like and the dominicque was like, I don't hear anything.

938
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 4: I was likely she's good because I didn't see the

939
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 4: doctor's panicing.

940
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: Like must be fine.

941
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 5: It could be cool, it's cool.

942
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 4: And I heard then I heard going like like I

943
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, I didn't like I

944
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 4: was just kind of like whoa.

945
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 5: I was like, this is crazy, it's surreal.

946
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 4: I was like, this is like, this is not happening,

947
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 4: Like I don't it doesn't click, like honestly, it might

948
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 4: have been real reason.

949
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 5: Where finally I'm like, yeah, I am a full on father,

950
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 5: like I am a father.

951
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 4: That is wild to me to say, because I was like,

952
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 4: you know, I was thinking, I was like, yeah, I

953
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 4: wanted one before my thirty but that's not happening.

954
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 5: I was thinking. I was like, okay, I you know,

955
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 5: mid thirties Leo DiCaprio and you know, I don't know

956
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 5: the way things gone. Say so.

957
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 11: And then.

958
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 4: I'm like man, and she came out of her eyes

959
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 4: open whatever, and I'm like lead, I'm looking for I'm

960
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 4: proud of this.

961
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 5: I'm like the first person. She sees the first person, right,

962
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 5: She's like, you know, finally and I see her.

963
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 2: I'm like.

964
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 5: I said that. I was like, oh ship because I'm

965
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 5: just thinking. I was like, wow, you is in my

966
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 5: and now you're here. God, so long, you swam so fast.

967
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 4: You are the winner because finished like, her eyes are

968
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 4: so big. My baby's eyes are so big and beautiful, right, baby,

969
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 4: I appreciate that really?

970
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 5: Do you guys are too?

971
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 9: I was like.

972
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 5: Right, right, right right.

973
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 4: So she was looking at me and she was so

974
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 4: alert from the get and she was staring at me,

975
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 4: and I'm looking at her and I'm making sure this yeah,

976
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 4: and I'm just like and I'm.

977
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 5: Like, yo, this my fucking looked like me. I ain't

978
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 5: no denying this. This is my baby looked like me.

979
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 5: So I'm looking at her and she's just like I'm like, oh, yeah,

980
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 5: I'm your dad. I am your father. Get this. Now

981
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 5: I'm looking around like yeah.

982
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 4: So then I first want to hold her, and she

983
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 4: was looking at me. I don't man like and like

984
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 4: she was looking at me and caught attention of her

985
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:05,919
Speaker 4: hand real quick.

986
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 5: She was like, I am doing this and then y'all

987
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 5: took her out to see a Dominique's mother.

988
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 4: Dominiqu's mother is such a strong woman, like this strong

989
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 4: black religious woman, like she's very you know, gave her

990
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 4: a blessing everything and then Dominique's out.

991
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 5: Of it, you know.

992
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,800
Speaker 4: So then yes, as soon as I was able to

993
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 4: do my skins, took my shirt off, had bones right

994
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 4: here with her. I did that first week when you know,

995
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 4: she had a sea sage so she was recovering. So

996
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 4: I stayed my uh Dominique from Houston. So we had

997
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 4: the baby in Houston. Yeah, I want you know, I

998
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 4: was like Philadelphia would be better, but whatever.

999
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 5: So even I was even like thinking like, well, we're

1000
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 5: gonna have her in La but but now.

1001
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 4: So he was okay, whatever, and I was like you

1002
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 4: know what, yeah, because Dominici, I have a lot of

1003
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 4: men in my family. So I was like, I don't know, John,

1004
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 4: how much help ya niggas will be? Like like my

1005
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 4: brother's honestly up until like around Christmas. They weren't even

1006
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 4: comfortable holding her, so scared because she's.

1007
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 5: So like little and stuff like that, and they're like no,

1008
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 5: I just look and they're just being her face. And

1009
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 5: when she's laying down, they'll be like over her, like

1010
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 5: push up like this giant right, She's gonna be so

1011
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 5: used to it, like you know, uh got a little

1012
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 5: army though, yea, the whole tribe.

1013
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 2: You see.

1014
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 4: Yesterday, Yeah, I went and we went to use my dad,

1015
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 4: my baby brother. My big brother was working, so my dad,

1016
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 4: my baby brother, me and then my baby and then

1017
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 4: they're like right here, she's just like in the middle

1018
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 4: of just kind.

1019
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: Of like right.

1020
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 4: But yeah, so that first like week, week and a half, yeah,

1021
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 4: I was taking care of, you know, my baby, which

1022
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 4: was like so it was such like it's a crazy

1023
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 4: special time for me.

1024
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 5: I was like, man, because I felt like good, like

1025
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 5: you know, I was like, yeah, man, I'm doing.

1026
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 4: You know, I'll need your help, you know what I

1027
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 4: did help me, Yeah, because like at first, her hours

1028
00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 4: were a little weird, you know.

1029
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 5: She she was born at eleven fifty nine PM, bro,

1030
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 5: you know, and May nineteenth, like.

1031
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 4: I with hers April twenty fifth, okay, stubborn, right, Yeah,

1032
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 4: I have a cousin that's a tourist stun but that's

1033
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 4: figure out.

1034
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 5: But she loves love, you know. I love that she

1035
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 5: loves love. Man, She's so excited. You know.

1036
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 4: You just give her like a lot of attention and

1037
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 4: you know, kissing on her or just playing with her,

1038
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 4: and she just she smiles a lot. And but yeah,

1039
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 4: so I was saying, like when I was taking care

1040
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 4: of her that first we feeding her and everything and

1041
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 4: just changing her or being on you know, on alert

1042
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 4: and stuff.

1043
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 5: Man. Crazy, how light of a sleeper you turn or

1044
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 5: something like that. It's like anything.

1045
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I would go in there and

1046
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 2: make sure she was still breathing.

1047
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 4: I was like, oh right, Yo.

1048
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 6: Did you ever have that moment where, like that first

1049
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,240
Speaker 6: week or two when you're doing something and you forget

1050
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 6: you have a kid and you're like.

1051
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 4: I'm like, Imber, I was what was I doing? I

1052
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 4: think I was watching some sports, like on my phone.

1053
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 4: I was just watching it on my phone for like

1054
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 4: a good minute. And then I remember like at one

1055
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 4: point it was the end of a quarter. I was

1056
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 4: watching the basketball game. I think, wait, yeah, something, it

1057
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 4: was the end of.

1058
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 5: A quarter and then I was like, oh ship and

1059
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 5: I went to go check. I was like, and she

1060
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 5: was sleep still.

1061
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, you here for real,

1062
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 4: like I gotta remember for life. So then I had

1063
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 4: a right next I ain't gonna hapen again, so I

1064
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 4: just put it right next me. And then like I was,

1065
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 4: I'll sleeping on the couch like because I wanted, like

1066
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 4: I don't want to ask her dominate or anything like that.

1067
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 5: And I was staying at her.

1068
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 4: We were at her mom's house, and like, like I said,

1069
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 4: Dominique has a lot of women in her family like

1070
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 4: sisters and cousins, you know, my mom, aunties, whatever. So

1071
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 4: I just thought, I was like in that hospital was

1072
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 4: like one of the top graded hospital, especially for child delivery.

1073
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 5: And so I was like, yes, that that that's smart.

1074
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:15,919
Speaker 5: She was out there for like three months. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1075
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 5: and her sister. Yeah.

1076
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 4: I was like fine, but yeah, so she was there

1077
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 4: for three months, which was like it was kind of

1078
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 4: it was tough, like you know, that's why we would

1079
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 4: have our back course about like you know what, I'm like, yeah,

1080
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 4: like I want to have time because like the first

1081
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 4: three months after that first we had to come back.

1082
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 4: You know, I was still filming. I had to come back,

1083
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 4: and so then I didn't see my baby getting out

1084
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:38,919
Speaker 4: you know, FaceTime of course.

1085
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 5: But like then she finally came out here.

1086
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,359
Speaker 4: She was out yeah, and then she was out here

1087
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 4: for a little bit, and then she had booked a

1088
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 4: role and she was doing the movie and then she

1089
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,919
Speaker 4: had to go to Atlanta. In my head, I'm thinking, okay,

1090
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 4: well I'm in l A, Like okay, well, like the baby. Yeah,

1091
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 4: hell no, she took.

1092
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:56,320
Speaker 5: I don't think I could do it.

1093
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 4: I could do it. She took the to Atlanta. It

1094
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 4: was like supposed to be like two three.

1095
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 5: It was like a month.

1096
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 9: I don't.

1097
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 5: I feel your pain, but I don't want my baby flying.

1098
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: Going on tour. Take I don't know. She was going

1099
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 2: to work. She was going to go work. So that's

1100
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: the only way I was thinking, Like, I mean, I

1101
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 2: don't know if I could do not fair. I know.

1102
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 4: Yeah she took, Yeah, she took.

1103
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 5: She took her.

1104
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 4: It was like for like a month, like another month,

1105
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be away from all right, my bady, Like no,

1106
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 4: it's cool, fun, I am right. So yeah, so that happened,

1107
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 4: and then when she came back and then anytime, I'll

1108
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 4: be like, all right, you know, like you know I'm

1109
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 4: trying to have over the weekend or like having for

1110
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 4: the night or something like that. Yeah, right away, I'll

1111
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 4: be like what what?

1112
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 5: But now what do you know? I'm like, are you magically?

1113
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 5: Are you magically producing? Are you?

1114
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 10: Are you?

1115
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 5: Are you breasting her? Now? Let me know so I know.

1116
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 5: And then I'm like and she'd always be something she

1117
00:54:59,719 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 5: had to.

1118
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know who I live with, like you

1119
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 4: know them? You know that you know where I live

1120
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 4: in Beverly Hills. I'm not in dangerous area like I

1121
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 4: live like savment in yours. I tell him, like everything

1122
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 4: points to like her being with me is actually saving

1123
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 4: but you believe what you want.

1124
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's so protected, like you know.

1125
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 2: Is that changed now?

1126
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 5: Like are you she's more so? Well now she's like

1127
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 5: more like you know, and I think the more time

1128
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 5: we have spent, you know, together and stuff like that, and.

1129
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 2: You know, and she'll see me with she needs to

1130
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 2: see you as.

1131
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think that's like help dropped, which I'm like,

1132
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 4: you see me as far. I'm like, girl, I was

1133
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 4: here first doing this, but like I just you know, yeah,

1134
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 4: and now that Zims Moore.

1135
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 5: You know, she could sit up you know what I'm saying,

1136
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 5: you know, dude, like that it is more it's come

1137
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 5: more comfortable for her.

1138
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 4: But now I'm at a point where I'm like, okay,

1139
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 4: so like where I live now, I just like my

1140
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 4: setup now, Okay, I don't have the proper setup for

1141
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:02,919
Speaker 4: my daughter stay with me right.

1142
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 5: Now because I get so much ship in my room.

1143
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,439
Speaker 4: Like right now, I just I just need to reorganize

1144
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 4: it and set up her corner properly.

1145
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 5: I have her things there, but like it's just not there, right.

1146
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1147
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 5: Well at the time it was.

1148
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 2: Set up actually needs a baby proof right I do.

1149
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so it's yeah, but I mean like at

1150
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 4: the time it was set up, but like and that's

1151
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 4: time I just started well because yeah, because I'm like, well,

1152
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 4: she ain't here, so I started putting my ship like

1153
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 4: in that corner.

1154
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, man, she out growing shit, I have.

1155
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:42,359
Speaker 4: More. Yeah.

1156
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 3: I think she just probably needs to spend more time

1157
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 3: with you guys together to see you as to see

1158
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 3: you as a father, you know what I mean, Not

1159
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 3: to say that you're not a great father, but like

1160
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 3: I just know, as women like we when these people

1161
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 3: these little humans come out of us.

1162
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 2: They literally are like attachments. So we go primal, yeah,

1163
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: and then mom, And not to say.

1164
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 3: The dads don't, because there's daddy there too, but I

1165
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 3: think we just it's she just probably needs to see

1166
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 3: you more.

1167
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 4: I get it, because it's like she's don't trust herself

1168
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 4: and mostly you know what I'm saying, But like that's

1169
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 4: how I trust myself. One I trust her was in

1170
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 4: but that's because I just know how how I am

1171
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,439
Speaker 4: and how protective I am, and like I just feel

1172
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 4: she'll be the most safe with.

1173
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 5: Me, right, But like it's not like she's in danger

1174
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 5: at all with either of us. Like yeah, we're just

1175
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 5: we're good. Like we're parents.

1176
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 2: I'm a great dad, I have a great mom, have

1177
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 2: a greater day ourselves, right, both are striving to.

1178
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 5: Be great parents, right right, right, right right.

1179
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 2: So you guys, you have good communication. You seem rather mature,

1180
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 2: which is refreshing.

1181
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 3: I have a question as a single dad so now

1182
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,439
Speaker 3: or just as dad or single dad, do you find

1183
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 3: that you get more attention from women when you're out

1184
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 3: with your child now it's like having a pupa.

1185
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 4: Child, Like, oh my god, he's nurturing first of all,

1186
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 4: I will say this, like because one, first of all,

1187
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 4: the expectations of being a great father so low.

1188
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, right right.

1189
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 3: Freddy takes Iriy to like any like ballet class, the

1190
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 3: way when they're like, oh my god, you're.

1191
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 4: Here.

1192
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 2: Like even my.

1193
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 3: Doctor that delivered delivered Irish I had to see section

1194
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 3: as well. He Freddy came to every single doctor's appointment.

1195
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 3: He did not know one, and she was just like,

1196
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 3: you know, I'm just so shocked, like honestly, She's like

1197
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 3: there's not a lot of husbands do this, but like

1198
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 3: I just can't believe he's here every week.

1199
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, why I'm here?

1200
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 4: But okay, because like well yeah, in my in my circumstance,

1201
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 4: like I wasn't told about all that point, so I

1202
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 4: wouldn't even know.

1203
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 5: Just had appointments and I'm like, oh, like you know,

1204
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 5: I wouldn't tell It made me feel some type of way.

1205
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 2: But my point is is just that my point is.

1206
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 4: Expectations are low for black men exactly so because and

1207
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 4: like to piggyback off that when Zim was born and stuff,

1208
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 4: and then like so dominiquees in the bed recovery and stuff,

1209
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 4: like I was, I was in her faced all time

1210
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 4: with my daughter, Like you know what I'm saying, I'm

1211
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 4: in her face, so like you know, feeding her, I'm

1212
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 4: cam bur or whatever. I'm changing her, I'm walking around

1213
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 4: with her and whatever allways and stuff.

1214
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 5: And they're just like about me.

1215
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, is this not what fathers do?

1216
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 2: This is not the parenting thing. It's so tall, it

1217
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: was black. He's feeding it.

1218
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 5: So good. Like it's just like I think it is.

1219
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 2: It's definitely it definitely is.

1220
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 6: Are you we're all paranoid because we know like the

1221
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 6: stereotype because sometimes when I do think my baby baddy,

1222
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 6: I'm like, look at us.

1223
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 2: We're at the museum right back. That's two parents and

1224
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 2: the baby right.

1225
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 5: Right right right.

1226
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 2: We're not together, but we don't know that exactly each other.

1227
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 4: Right, I say, I've had I've had my ive had

1228
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 4: dominique bring my baby to set, you know, to a

1229
00:59:58,240 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 4: business because hours are crazier.

1230
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 5: It could be away from so long.

1231
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 4: So I'm like, yeah, come especially I'm shooting in LA

1232
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 4: and you know, and people right now, even though I've said, like,

1233
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 4: people still think I said that that Dummlein's my wife.

1234
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 12: I'm just like, yes, yeah, that's where we are actually,

1235
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 12: but do you find that you get more attention from

1236
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 12: like women?

1237
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 5: Oh?

1238
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah, yeah so yesterday. Sorry, I get back to it. Yesterday,

1239
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 4: you know, being with my even being with my dad,

1240
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 4: my brother even made it. I think even more attention

1241
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 4: to because these big guys and it's just like it's

1242
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 4: just like they get softer for a man versus like

1243
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 4: you know, if I don't have one that a woman

1244
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: could be attracted to me and stuff like that. You know,

1245
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 4: they'll give me a look whatever like that, whatever the

1246
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 4: reason I come over, but right or some you know,

1247
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 4: because you know, literally, like man, that's the most harmful

1248
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 4: thing the woman of seeing me walk down the street

1249
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 4: is not necessarily you know, trying to avoid you know,

1250
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 4: they want to keep their life safe.

1251
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 5: You know, they don't know me from you know, candpaign,

1252
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 5: but with a daughter, then you're saying I am safe.

1253
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 5: So yeah, So I mean, and I can.

1254
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 4: Just see you on the gram is. I mean, I'll

1255
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 4: see the comments and stuff like that. But like you

1256
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 4: they're like, uh, where the applications that gives in the sibling.

1257
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh that's hilarious, yeah, like like stepmom applications.

1258
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 6: I'm like, but but I mean absolutely, Like, do you

1259
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 6: want to be married or do you believe in monogamy?

1260
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 2: With your monogamy, what did you What did you say?

1261
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 2: When we asked him? He said possible with that possible.

1262
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 4: Because there was one word. So I want to give

1263
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 4: as much context now. I do think it's possible. I do.

1264
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 5: I'm not there right now, but eventually.

1265
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 3: Because do you want a monogamous relationship or would your

1266
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 3: ideal relationship be one that's.

1267
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 5: Open more open?

1268
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 2: I do?

1269
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 5: Like I do like the open aspect of things.

1270
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 4: I do.

1271
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the world we live in. Know,

1272
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it is too. Do you think it's

1273
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 2: making the world a better I don't know.

1274
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 4: I do because I do believe a strong connection and

1275
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 4: unions and like, But to me, I don't think it

1276
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 4: for for me, it just it's based on the individual.

1277
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 4: Because there's gonna be a woman and that's very possible

1278
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 4: for us, and there's gonna be one, but that's just

1279
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 4: not for her. But if I want her and that's

1280
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 4: you know, then that's then that's the relationship I'm going

1281
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 4: to have with her.

1282
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 5: It's not necessarily like sacrificing who I am.

1283
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: Have you been in like if someone's not down for it.

1284
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 6: Have you been in an open relationship before or you

1285
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 6: just think that's something that and it was successful the.

1286
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 4: One So the one I was in, it was like

1287
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 4: at the tail end of a relationship that I'd been

1288
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 4: done for a while, you know, and like you're.

1289
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: A monogamous and then like, let's try this. Yeah, I

1290
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 2: think does that work well?

1291
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 5: The thing? I mean, I will say that was the

1292
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 5: best way I ever do. But but no, it wouldn't you.

1293
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 2: Transitioned into saying but I mean like, if you go

1294
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 2: for monogamy to it's.

1295
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 4: I think people really think that automatically it's about you

1296
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 4: having sexual other people.

1297
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 5: That's not true because I wasn't even really the case.

1298
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 4: It's just like now, for some reason, when you put

1299
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 4: that title on, people think, now you could be very

1300
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 4: vulnerable and honest and truth with your partner.

1301
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 5: Which is like that should be it.

1302
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 6: It's true, that's true. You feel like you have once

1303
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 6: you put that title onun shit, you suddenly feel like

1304
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 6: you have to lie and sugarcoat because now if I

1305
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 6: don't do this, you're gonna dump me.

1306
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 5: And then I'll be like this, I want you to

1307
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 5: feel this way.

1308
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 2: Right, I'm like I don't care. But when you're I care,

1309
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 2: but I don't care because we're not together, well we're not.

1310
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 2: We have these these boundaries.

1311
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 6: It's true, like you're then you're suddenly like honest and

1312
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 6: vulnerable because it doesn't matter.

1313
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 4: Because being in an open relationship also us open to

1314
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 4: like you know, maybe you have a drink with someone,

1315
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 4: you go out to eat, doesn't necessarily mean you're fucking whatever.

1316
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 4: You know, you have friends that maybe you're in a

1317
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 4: monogamous relationship. Your man would have been I would have

1318
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 4: been comfortable with or your woman.

1319
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 5: And I don't.

1320
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, so then and then after that, like there's but

1321
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 4: then you know, I do have a like a connection,

1322
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 4: you know, connection, union's both of those terms whatever with

1323
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 4: with someone and we but we do understand, like right

1324
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 4: now it's like at this point in my life and

1325
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 4: our life, you know, we're just you know, we're not

1326
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 4: going to be in this monogamous, committed relationship. I don't

1327
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 4: like to actually when people say, oh, but the committee

1328
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 4: you can be.

1329
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 6: Committed, I think you have to be that you have

1330
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 6: to be commitced to someone in order to be open

1331
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 6: or else.

1332
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 5: You're just exactly, I do have a connection with someone but.

1333
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: We're you know, there's no boundaries on what that means.

1334
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 4: But we're just like, you know, as long as we're

1335
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 4: honest with one another and everything, and that's you know,

1336
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 4: that's that's what it is.

1337
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 2: Is it hard?

1338
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 6: Have you had experience where you like have a like

1339
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 6: a union, union or whatever connection with someone and you're

1340
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 6: aware they're sleeping with someone else?

1341
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:55,439
Speaker 5: Oh? Is that hard?

1342
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 2: I think that's Has that happened?

1343
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 3: Oh?

1344
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1345
01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 2: So I think And was that difficult because as a

1346
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 2: man beginning, yes.

1347
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 4: Yes, it absolutely is. But because I'm very aware of

1348
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 4: that of being a man in our ego, because I mean,

1349
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 4: I just think about that with the woman put up

1350
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 4: with I'm like, like, God, do not to make me

1351
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 4: a woman because the strength.

1352
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 5: Y'all have and that we need.

1353
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 4: It was my thing was I mean, even to this,

1354
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 4: It's not like I'm gonna be like, yeah, gonna do it.

1355
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 4: It's not like that, like I want that innocence. But

1356
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 4: I understand, like you know, especially like hypocrisy is one

1357
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 4: of the despise is the number one thing I hate

1358
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 4: them mouse, you know what I mean.

1359
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:43,680
Speaker 5: So I'm gonna be fine with it. I have an

1360
01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 5: understanding of it.

1361
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 4: Also, like you know, you know, if if that's good

1362
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 4: with if you're good within your happy.

1363
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 6: But that's what you know, so you can't you can

1364
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 6: you can counteract ego and be like, yeah, we still

1365
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 6: have what we have and it doesn't And it's like.

1366
01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 4: Even the type of way you try nip it in

1367
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 4: the butt, like yeah, I'm just like I tell myself,

1368
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 4: I'm okay, Like it's okay, I feel some type of

1369
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 4: way or whatever, I have a connection, so yeah, okay,

1370
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 4: it's okay.

1371
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 5: But you know, okay, then that's that and I let it.

1372
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 5: I don't let it live, let it go through me,

1373
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 5: and then I just I'm about that, move on and

1374
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 5: move forward. That's what it is. So do you guys,

1375
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 5: what is your take on it? Are you a monogamous

1376
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 5: person or for both?

1377
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 3: I have traditionally been in monogamous monogamous yeah, you know,

1378
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 3: it was vice versa. Like I think early on in

1379
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 3: my you know, in my early twenties, I cheated a lot,

1380
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,200
Speaker 3: and but I was just monogamous and them to be monogamous,

1381
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 3: but I was not being monogous.

1382
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I still love you. I just

1383
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 2: wanted to try that real quick.

1384
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:51,959
Speaker 3: And then I think when I met my child's father.

1385
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 3: I told myself that I just fell in love so deeply.

1386
01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 3: I felt like he was my soulmate. I had no

1387
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: interest in anybody, so it didn't even seem like I

1388
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 3: was trying to be monogamous.

1389
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 5: It just is what it was.

1390
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 3: And I thought we were on the same pain. But

1391
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 3: he's also a rapper, so we were young, and you know,

1392
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 3: he made mistakes and you know, so did I. But

1393
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 3: I think now that I'm outside of that relationship and

1394
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 3: monogamy was so difficult in that relationship, I have a

1395
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 3: different perspective.

1396
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: But I do know that I am possessive and I

1397
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 2: know that I like to know I need some.

1398
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 3: Sort of security my relationship, So sometimes that counteracts that

1399
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 3: the idea.

1400
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 2: Of what an open relationship is.

1401
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 3: But I think, like currently I'm dating somebody and we've

1402
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 3: been dating for six months and he's not my boyfriend,

1403
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 3: but it feels that way a lot when we're together,

1404
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 3: but we are totally not. We can do whatever the

1405
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 3: fuck we want to do, and it's like I actually,

1406
01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 3: like feel so content with it absolutely because and it's

1407
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 3: been like a process. I've had to really work through

1408
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 3: this with him because I am so used to monogamy,

1409
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 3: and it's like I felt like that's what I was

1410
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 3: like my like intuitively or not intuitively, like not as

1411
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 3: even instinctively like just from what I've learned, I'm like, Okay,

1412
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 3: we've been dating this year, that's how you're familiar.

1413
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 5: That's like, I don't do well.

1414
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: I didn't ask that.

1415
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 3: I didn't ask him that, But in my I was

1416
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 3: struggling with this internally because I didn't want I knew that.

1417
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 2: That's not what I really wanted, but I could feel

1418
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 2: I had to check.

1419
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 6: But you feel like you would. It's that you start

1420
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 6: liking someone and you feel vulnerable on a plus own them,

1421
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:34,880
Speaker 6: like wait, hold on, I like you, and I don't

1422
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 6: want anyone.

1423
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 2: Else to help you. Yeah exactly, you're yeah exactly. And

1424
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 2: so I never really expressed that to him.

1425
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 3: We've talked through it, though, but like I felt that

1426
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:44,559
Speaker 3: inside and I was like, and I had to work

1427
01:08:44,560 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 3: through it because I'm like, whatever I was doing before

1428
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 3: has not been working. Monogamy for me or whatever, This

1429
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 3: idea of what I view a relationship supposed to be

1430
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 3: like has not been working, So I need to try

1431
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:57,880
Speaker 3: something different. And so I'm trying something different and It

1432
01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 3: wasn't until maybe like the last month or two that

1433
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, really, I'm okay with it. Like I go

1434
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 3: out of town and I travel and do whatever the

1435
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 3: fuck I want to do. I have my fun and

1436
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 3: I come back and I know that we share we

1437
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:11,600
Speaker 3: have a very like special relationship.

1438
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 2: We love each other, and yeah, I understand, and it

1439
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 2: feels good to know that, Like I do have someone

1440
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 2: that loves me. I do have someone that's out there.

1441
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 5: Caring for me, and there's no question about. That's what

1442
01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 5: makes it.

1443
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 2: There's no question about.

1444
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 5: It's like if the.

1445
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 4: Key to it where I was gonna say what you

1446
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 4: said earlier, as the key is if the reassurance comes,

1447
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 4: it's like dang, like I know that you love me,

1448
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 4: I love you, and like we are the priorities you know,

1449
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 4: in each other's lives, and.

1450
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 5: We do cherish and respect this bond and union that

1451
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 5: we do have with one another.

1452
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 4: Then as long as that and that's believed by both

1453
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 4: and we both feel that and it's like genuine, then

1454
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 4: that's where you could, I think, have a successful if

1455
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 4: you have an open minded person like openness with your relationship,

1456
01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 4: because then you know, even like I said, they do

1457
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 4: feel sometime like yeah, the one you know would feels

1458
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 4: some topic like are you like you know you're out there,

1459
01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:05,640
Speaker 4: are you going to see that such and such a right?

1460
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course those company because you're human.

1461
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, and this is fairly new as like like you know,

1462
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 4: I think we're like as a and this generation is

1463
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 4: like switched it for more shifted and it's fairly new.

1464
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 4: We're gonna be the ones that kind of like I

1465
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:24,519
Speaker 4: don't know, this says normal start the normalization of it

1466
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 4: in a sense, you know what, even.

1467
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 2: More love that way.

1468
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 3: But even I think so too, like even us, like

1469
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 3: I was thinking about he said, like the moment we

1470
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:33,000
Speaker 3: put a label on something, it just feels like I

1471
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:33,679
Speaker 3: have to change.

1472
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 2: I can't be who I am. And it's like and

1473
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,880
Speaker 2: it's like I can't I have to compromise something.

1474
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like, well, I love you just

1475
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 3: how you are right now, right and like I you know,

1476
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 3: and I know you love me the same and like

1477
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 3: even putting a label as a boyfriend or girlfriend, I

1478
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:48,600
Speaker 3: don't know if I'm I'm a.

1479
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 2: Place in my life where like I'm thirty one, I

1480
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:50,680
Speaker 2: have a kid.

1481
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 5: It's right.

1482
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 3: And so like it's so funny because just is going

1483
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 3: to listen to this my friend and she's been calling

1484
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 3: her boyfriend her partner for years and I used to

1485
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 3: make fun of her.

1486
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 2: I'd be like, yeah, people are gonna think he's okay, okay,

1487
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 2: like and she's like, no, that's just what he is.

1488
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:14,639
Speaker 3: And now I'm getting to the point in my life

1489
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, I get it, Like that's your partner, And

1490
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:20,519
Speaker 3: I think what what me and my guy talked about

1491
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 3: is like we need to know, like I think because

1492
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:25,599
Speaker 3: I'm like in the midst of being an open relationship.

1493
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 3: And he's also expressed open relationship isn't about sex for me.

1494
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 3: It's just like being open exactly, and he was and

1495
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 3: he's like, yes, I can go.

1496
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 2: Have sex with people, but honestly, it's not even what

1497
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 2: it is.

1498
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 3: And I was like, I think what for me as

1499
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,680
Speaker 3: a person who does I'm still working through my possessiveness.

1500
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 2: It's just knowing where home is, that we have a home.

1501
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 3: Exactly as here, and that there's something here that's not

1502
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 3: that's diffinitely being protected.

1503
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, And honestly, it's like because honestly, like this type

1504
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 4: of connection is just so rare. I'm like, honestly, I

1505
01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 4: sometimes I'm thinking, I'm like, damn, like I could. It's

1506
01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 4: just say like it's just you know, we're just all

1507
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 4: right this this is cut off whatever. I'm like, where

1508
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 4: the fuck else am I gonna get? Like, you know,

1509
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 4: because at this point, we like know everything about one

1510
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 4: another and same interests and same passions, were like you know,

1511
01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 4: very like minded, you know, like attracts like and that's

1512
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 4: what's happened in a situation. So it's like I just

1513
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:22,439
Speaker 4: don't you know, you know, I mean, I'm assuming especially

1514
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 4: if you are a certain way, you're going to keep

1515
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 4: attracting that because that's just what happened in my life

1516
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 4: at this you know, at this point in my life,

1517
01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 4: I just attract what I want basically track what I want.

1518
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 4: So but it but it started with that, you know,

1519
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 4: that kind of like started all this, but like you know, so,

1520
01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 4: but to have the understanding and for us to really

1521
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:47,720
Speaker 4: be you know clear, yeah, yeah, yeah, and yeah, and

1522
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:51,080
Speaker 4: just because I will say, like I mean, it was

1523
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 4: happening to a lot of guys, especially like we said,

1524
01:12:52,800 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 4: we're very fragile and egotistic, and uh, it's the more fragment.

1525
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 4: It's funny as I find it men in hip hop

1526
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:07,560
Speaker 4: like rappers. They are because anybody in the industry like

1527
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 4: being in entertainment business. The most I've gotten into it

1528
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 4: with like damn, you're fighting or something like that. It's

1529
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 4: always been rappers.

1530
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 5: That's it.

1531
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 4: An R and B singer, this islet ain't no other actors.

1532
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 4: Maybe a director might get on my nerves but off

1533
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 4: from work, but rappers. Oh my, I'm what I'm going

1534
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 4: back then yelling?

1535
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 5: But whatever anyway, But.

1536
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:36,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just about to say Jesus, oh yeah,

1537
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 4: that what really like what shook me was like, you know,

1538
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:46,599
Speaker 4: my first relationshism like me and cheated on I didn't cheat,

1539
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 4: you know.

1540
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 5: Me and cheatah, and just was like what the fuck? Yeah,

1541
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 5: I was like me and mind you, I was a

1542
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:57,440
Speaker 5: college hooper.

1543
01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 4: This time Holland tuber and two times in a row,

1544
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 4: two times in a row, you know what I'm saying,

1545
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 4: Like that one the.

1546
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 2: Next one, Like, but like, at least you don't hate

1547
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:12,120
Speaker 2: all women. You're admitting this because I feel like a

1548
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 2: lot of men would never know.

1549
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 4: A lot of look a lot of yeah, guys, man,

1550
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 4: I don't know why, guys. This is this whole thing man,

1551
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 4: And like guys had this whole thing, Like you know,

1552
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 4: they never want to feel like they got best about

1553
01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 4: it like a nigga like my bitch and like that

1554
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 4: type of ship like women because like you hear like

1555
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 4: a rap songs all the time like I'm gonna take

1556
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 4: yo bitch whatever like that you girl with me, blah

1557
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 4: blah all that. It's like, which is also weird fetish

1558
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 4: to me that rappers add too. Was like this this

1559
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,639
Speaker 4: like an obsession. Really would take another dude's women. Yeah,

1560
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 4: which is when we did the role play thing. The

1561
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 4: girl liked it too, you know what I'm saying. So

1562
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 4: it's like so it's like it's so weird to.

1563
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 2: Me, but like guys like you want to you want

1564
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 2: to be like one up the alphay.

1565
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 5: That that really like I remember, especially like you know,

1566
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:53,600
Speaker 5: I got you on.

1567
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,559
Speaker 4: It was like like I said, I was a college

1568
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 4: basketball player and you I mean come on, like I

1569
01:14:57,800 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 4: could have it was. It was really there was no

1570
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 4: shortage of it. It was knocking on my door where

1571
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 4: at first I was great share in that du cane

1572
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 4: and then I was finished school in Connecticut my last

1573
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 4: year and a half, but I was like outside of

1574
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 4: New York, not that far from New York.

1575
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 5: And it was just like you know what I mean.

1576
01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 4: So so when I was just like that, sh it

1577
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 4: was just like my stomach dropped out my ass. I

1578
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 4: was just like, yo, what the fuck? And that did

1579
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 4: shake me for a while because and after that, man,

1580
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 4: we stayed together, but like I was so spiteful, you know,

1581
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 4: I cheating her, I got with the Nasty Girl and

1582
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and like she you.

1583
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 3: Think, did you feel really embarrassed? Because I feel like

1584
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 3: a man might might be like I feel like a

1585
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 3: woman cheating a man treating a woman, it's embarrassing, but

1586
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 3: it's more like hurtful, whereas I think for a man

1587
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 3: it's embarrassing, it's embarrassing.

1588
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,040
Speaker 5: It was I mean, I was definitely hurt, but like

1589
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 5: it was, it's not embarrassing. But I feel like, you

1590
01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 5: know why I think why I think it is like

1591
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 5: I'll tell you why, just my belief with men, why

1592
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:02,480
Speaker 5: we find the more embarrassing. It's because.

1593
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 4: I see, like if we're cheating, it's like we're thinking

1594
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 4: like because we're like we're giving it too. Yeah, so

1595
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 4: we're thinking about our girl game, like you know what

1596
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 4: I mean.

1597
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 5: It's just like someone like it's such like some yeah,

1598
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 5: like you know, they dominated even look at you know

1599
01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, like, it's just but for a girl,

1600
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. That's and it's like, oh

1601
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:33,080
Speaker 5: my god.

1602
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 2: To start being more visual, like bigger than mine. Yeah.

1603
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:42,639
Speaker 4: I didn't even ask that. I know, like I don't

1604
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,799
Speaker 4: even ask. All that was but the thought but yeah, exactly,

1605
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:47,559
Speaker 4: I didn't ask about you give.

1606
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is like yeah, yeah, they want to know that.

1607
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 2: That's always the next question.

1608
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 4: I bet you're yes, you know, it's even worse if

1609
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:01,799
Speaker 4: she just suck this even you don't even ge you simple,

1610
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:07,000
Speaker 4: But I was so man, I was yelling, din, that's it.

1611
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 5: You didn't even get you didn't even get jumped.

1612
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:11,679
Speaker 2: You do the typical man thinking like you are huh.

1613
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 2: You know automatically.

1614
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 5: I wasn't really saying I was not strong enough for

1615
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:21,280
Speaker 5: me to be I have to say that, you know.

1616
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 4: It's just like yeah I don't yeah, I don't know,

1617
01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 4: but but you know what to give example about like

1618
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:29,679
Speaker 4: how these guys like you know something about fucking other dudes? Girl,

1619
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 4: weird ass dudes are here. Man, So like I remember,

1620
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 4: like because it was a my my second relationship. We

1621
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 4: were on and off a lot. You know, you can

1622
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 4: never keep tracking, you know whatever, always on and off.

1623
01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 4: And she ended up sucking with this one dude who

1624
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 4: I had asked about. Not that I asked, I knew

1625
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 4: about whatever. I was just like, you know, obviously denied whatever.

1626
01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:57,559
Speaker 5: So but like you's down.

1627
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 4: Actually, like last year there's this girl that you know,

1628
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:03,560
Speaker 4: me and her were kind of like, you know, just

1629
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:04,759
Speaker 4: entertaining one another.

1630
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 5: It was her birthday thing. So I go to birthday

1631
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 5: thinking he's there.

1632
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 4: I had met him once, I remember, like a while ago,

1633
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:15,760
Speaker 4: years ago, but like I didn't know him like that,

1634
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

1635
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 5: It wasn't cool with him like that.

1636
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 4: And it's like and then especially like I'm like, well

1637
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,040
Speaker 4: they obviously had did they thing whatever like that?

1638
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:27,400
Speaker 5: He well, he was like he didn't. He didn't say

1639
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 5: nothing to me, so like, you know, I didn't say

1640
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 5: nothing to him.

1641
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:30,680
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know, so I was just

1642
01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 4: like I don't care, Like I was just like whatever,

1643
01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 4: you know, and then it's just like but then it

1644
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:37,479
Speaker 4: was like this whole thing, like I think he thought

1645
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:41,559
Speaker 4: I left, but I went to the bathroom ship Yeah exactly.

1646
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 4: He was asking, you know, asking a girl. The girl's birthday.

1647
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 3: Now.

1648
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 5: It was she was like, I don't know. I like,

1649
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:49,479
Speaker 5: you don't numb me when I fucked this bitch or.

1650
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 2: Something like ah.

1651
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 4: And that's when it gets because niggas trying to barrass you.

1652
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:54,800
Speaker 4: And I was just like, and when you were saying that,

1653
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 4: it was like, right on you. I was like here,

1654
01:18:56,439 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 4: I was, Yeah, I came up to this little nigga,

1655
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 4: bron grabbed right here.

1656
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:05,280
Speaker 5: We're gonna talk, bro, come on, get off, you shut

1657
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 5: your ass up. And he's like, I'm not a tough guy.

1658
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 4: I was like myself. I was like and I told him.

1659
01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:13,840
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't don't know about the nigga,

1660
01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:17,680
Speaker 5: you bitch. I don't give a mind you did that.

1661
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:20,360
Speaker 4: And on top of that, like from with the girl,

1662
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:22,559
Speaker 4: like because the girl we had, the mutual friend we had.

1663
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 4: I was like, man, from what I know, bro, your

1664
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 4: ass was arguing with her again, and your feelings about

1665
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 4: that ship, that's your bits and about her you had

1666
01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 4: you didn't fuck, man, you had sex. Youre trying to

1667
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 4: make love.

1668
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:34,600
Speaker 2: To her talking about it.

1669
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:38,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly your feeling. I don't ever try to embarrass

1670
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 5: me like that again. Bro.

1671
01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,799
Speaker 4: I gave him a fair warning. I was like because

1672
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:44,040
Speaker 4: you was like, he's like five nine. I was like,

1673
01:19:44,160 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 4: I can hurt you right now.

1674
01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 2: He definitely thought she left the building. Yeah, I think

1675
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 2: it goes both ways. So I think women do this

1676
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 2: ship too. They would love a man who's taken.

1677
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:56,680
Speaker 5: That's coming. That so good.

1678
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 3: But yeah, well woman loves the man with the loves

1679
01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 3: the woman. I'm man loves a man with another woman.

1680
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:05,800
Speaker 5: They do, maybe not you that.

1681
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 2: Kind of looks smutty, bit.

1682
01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:11,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is that mutual woman.

1683
01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,680
Speaker 2: That's a certain particular type of money. Don't bring that

1684
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 2: bitch around.

1685
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 5: My boyfriend right right, Yeah, because they.

1686
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 2: Half sing at me and looking at my nigga. I'll bitch,

1687
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 2: I can see you and I'll cut you.

1688
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that.

1689
01:20:23,280 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 4: Same girl I'm talking about her friends. Man, you don't

1690
01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 4: think they my shir because here's my thing.

1691
01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 2: I tell her all the time.

1692
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 5: Yo.

1693
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 2: If you who's flying, I'm my bait. You did good

1694
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:38,240
Speaker 2: And if you need some help with that, holla, there

1695
01:20:38,320 --> 01:20:45,479
Speaker 2: is no and like no one. Okay, well we've already

1696
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 2: we hied over, we fight over, we have neutral, we

1697
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:51,760
Speaker 2: fight to the death.

1698
01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 5: Fine, you guys do also like women? Yeah, yeah, I

1699
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 5: know that. I don't know why I have a good

1700
01:20:57,800 --> 01:21:03,600
Speaker 5: like she likes like me.

1701
01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:06,799
Speaker 2: That's the same. They're my species.

1702
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 6: But for real, like I had my brother friend who

1703
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:14,240
Speaker 6: keeps it trill or not exactly okay, but and when

1704
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 6: I got a guess if I leave my nigger around you, no, no,

1705
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 6: I don't do those type of friends.

1706
01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 2: And I can sniff you out.

1707
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't dudes man like dudes would be like that

1708
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 5: to try and be like on some slip ship. Yeah,

1709
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:28,800
Speaker 5: some corny ship like DM and ship.

1710
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 4: They won't like those dudes like yeah, I don't have

1711
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 4: like we're not we're not cool anymore. But like my

1712
01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:37,080
Speaker 4: boys were shut up. I was like, hey, like, what's

1713
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 4: what's the deal with that? Y'all have y'all around like ship? Man,

1714
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 4: she looks like you get me energy?

1715
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:42,479
Speaker 5: What you what you said? I'm like, man, knock it

1716
01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 5: out the park and she don't you know, that's my room. Man,

1717
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:46,599
Speaker 5: Go ahead.

1718
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 6: Guys guys will do ship like that and be lying

1719
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:53,640
Speaker 6: into I feel like low key, But I'd rather or

1720
01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 6: to take friendliness as like you know.

1721
01:21:56,520 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 4: Right, I mean no, yeah, because guys lying dick all

1722
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 4: the time. But which is crazy, which is very crazy.

1723
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 5: We're gonna find out but ship man girlul be our headline.

1724
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:12,599
Speaker 4: So there's a list of I'm like, Dad, I don't

1725
01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:14,920
Speaker 4: know how I had these many bodies. I'm like, where

1726
01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 4: is this coming from?

1727
01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 5: Like that's just what? Yeah, that's just like trash, especially,

1728
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 5: you know.

1729
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,080
Speaker 4: What, I find a tra especially when girls trying to

1730
01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 4: make like maybe a girl I'm flirting with her into

1731
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 4: or whatever like that, trying to make her jealous and

1732
01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 4: trying to.

1733
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 5: Make it seem like they know you or like we've

1734
01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 5: never hugged in our life. Yeah, he's crazy.

1735
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, calm down, Corn, with that ship I don't know

1736
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 4: that competition between girls and you know what.

1737
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,880
Speaker 2: It's screams insecurity and that's that's not attractive.

1738
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:50,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like what, I'm like, damn what you go through?

1739
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1740
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 2: Like competition?

1741
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I have a questioning up, how has I know

1742
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 6: you have a good relationship with your baby mom, but

1743
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 6: have you had like how's your dating experience then now

1744
01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:08,720
Speaker 6: as a father, Like have is it?

1745
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 2: How has it changed? You know?

1746
01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:11,320
Speaker 5: I don't.

1747
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 4: I don't think it's necessarily changed, to be honest.

1748
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:15,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's.

1749
01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:20,760
Speaker 6: Changes for you the date like us and you get

1750
01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:22,719
Speaker 6: like once you get single or whatever, you've been single

1751
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 6: on then and then there's that time you're like like,

1752
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:28,200
Speaker 6: yes I am a dad, like because there's a point

1753
01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 6: where as a single mom, like a single mom's you know,

1754
01:23:31,280 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 6: there's a point where that was like.

1755
01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,240
Speaker 2: A I don't have any kids, I have a job,

1756
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:39,679
Speaker 2: I have on place, you know what I mean? Okay,

1757
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:41,200
Speaker 2: do you have a kid to have a baby daddy?

1758
01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:42,200
Speaker 5: Right right right?

1759
01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 4: That's how Yeah, it's funny because like that's how I

1760
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,640
Speaker 4: was out. I'm doing my day money, you know what

1761
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 4: I'm saying.

1762
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:48,280
Speaker 5: Whatever.

1763
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:53,760
Speaker 4: But now, honestly though, nah, I think a lot of

1764
01:23:53,840 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 4: even more now I'm like, yeah, I got a daughter, Like, yeah, I.

1765
01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:57,400
Speaker 5: Got a daughter.

1766
01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 2: Because it's not the same.

1767
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:04,360
Speaker 5: It's like it's not it's not because who I mean,

1768
01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:06,759
Speaker 5: you know, the child's with the mom more than the dad. Usually.

1769
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 3: What if she's dating, what would you like what ifah, like,

1770
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 3: do you care? Like does she need to like tell

1771
01:24:13,520 --> 01:24:15,800
Speaker 3: you when she is going to bring a man around

1772
01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 3: your child?

1773
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 5: Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah, I would.

1774
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:21,559
Speaker 2: You need to meet him like that whole thing.

1775
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 4: If it's serious, Yeah, if it's serious, But like also

1776
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:26,800
Speaker 4: if it's not serious, you shouldn't.

1777
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:29,040
Speaker 5: Be bring niggas around the baby. Yeah, it's not serious anyway,

1778
01:24:29,280 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 5: like at least not like not in a sense like

1779
01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 5: where he's just in the house.

1780
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 3: Have you guys ever had that conversation though, because you know,

1781
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 3: you think people are aligned, right and then they we

1782
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 3: kind of.

1783
01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:44,200
Speaker 4: Had it, no, man, Okay, yeah, we've kind of had

1784
01:24:44,240 --> 01:24:48,200
Speaker 4: it in a sense of like she talked about what

1785
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:50,680
Speaker 4: she's comfortable with, because I know at the beginning she

1786
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 4: wasn't comfortable with woman being around my daughter. And I

1787
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:54,600
Speaker 4: was like, that's fine. I mean, like I said, like

1788
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 4: if there were to be a woman around my daughter,

1789
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 4: there's just one know of that I was talking about.

1790
01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:04,600
Speaker 5: And then she.

1791
01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 4: Expressed I was like, look, man, I forgot you need

1792
01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:15,600
Speaker 4: to go on a date or something whatever like that.

1793
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:19,519
Speaker 5: And she but she's not. She's like she was and

1794
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 5: she can't tell you. She ain't tell you she could.

1795
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, she just yeah, you know, if anything's like

1796
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:31,120
Speaker 4: you know, I feel like maybe she was like she

1797
01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 4: would because maybe she's like, let we get some reaction.

1798
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:36,320
Speaker 2: Well you know what it is after you have a child,

1799
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 2: like you gotta get your sexy back.

1800
01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:42,919
Speaker 6: You gotta feel yourself against and and yeah, no like physically,

1801
01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 6: but then there's also that part like like okay, who

1802
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:47,360
Speaker 6: am I now?

1803
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 2: Like I'm somebody's mom, but am I still like young?

1804
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 2: Fun like you know right right faddy Caddy jamilla, or like.

1805
01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:04,320
Speaker 4: Sorry yours like thick thick?

1806
01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 2: I do I have a fat caast? I do have

1807
01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:10,280
Speaker 2: a fat pussy. It's facts, my friend.

1808
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 5: Everyone's told me very easy to you know, to snack on.

1809
01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:19,040
Speaker 5: I feel like they're just presented itself in a way

1810
01:26:19,160 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 5: where I know there were so.

1811
01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 6: Many variations until I dwelt like dilged into pussy.

1812
01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:26,840
Speaker 2: And like, oh wow, there's so many different kinds.

1813
01:26:26,880 --> 01:26:28,960
Speaker 5: There's so many, so many flavors.

1814
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:34,960
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, certain people just have certain body odors.

1815
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 5: You know, I know which one is.

1816
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 2: Are a real thing.

1817
01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:44,760
Speaker 3: Have you ever just even been around someone just their

1818
01:26:45,680 --> 01:26:48,200
Speaker 3: really clothed them, You're like, the smell is not for me.

1819
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 5: It's not that it's it's just like it's just their

1820
01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:53,360
Speaker 5: natural which is for somebody else.

1821
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:53,720
Speaker 2: Someone else.

1822
01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:56,760
Speaker 3: And then there is one like there's been like men

1823
01:26:56,800 --> 01:26:59,320
Speaker 3: in my life where I have their smell.

1824
01:26:59,720 --> 01:27:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm like put my nose in their beard, y'all are.

1825
01:27:04,320 --> 01:27:07,560
Speaker 4: Like women are so funny with this because I like,

1826
01:27:07,680 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 4: as I I know, there and deal with different women.

1827
01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:12,599
Speaker 4: I'm like, man, like the women really like I've had,

1828
01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:14,640
Speaker 4: Like I would be laying down and for just like

1829
01:27:14,840 --> 01:27:16,680
Speaker 4: I remember, she just would be smelling me.

1830
01:27:17,680 --> 01:27:18,280
Speaker 2: I'm a weird.

1831
01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 5: Baby daddy.

1832
01:27:20,240 --> 01:27:21,800
Speaker 2: I would literally be like in his beard.

1833
01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, like just like my aunt would be like this

1834
01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:28,200
Speaker 4: on the whatever like that and she just like like

1835
01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 4: TV like smelling me. Yeah, another one like I'll be

1836
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:33,639
Speaker 4: like this and she bare face.

1837
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:35,280
Speaker 2: I like.

1838
01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:40,080
Speaker 4: If it's not first like I'm like now like yeah,

1839
01:27:40,120 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 4: I'm like like I haven't put the odor or whatever

1840
01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:42,560
Speaker 4: like that.

1841
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 2: She like that because there's a nice Yeah, there's a

1842
01:27:46,800 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 2: I've once.

1843
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:55,640
Speaker 11: Googled right right right like smell like psychic smell, the

1844
01:27:55,720 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 11: psychic sense of smell, because like there was a time

1845
01:27:59,160 --> 01:28:01,240
Speaker 11: I smelled like sickness.

1846
01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:04,560
Speaker 2: On someone consistently and I'm like, am I trip in?

1847
01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:08,720
Speaker 6: I'm like googling, and there is absolutely certain people get

1848
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:10,880
Speaker 6: certain the strongest sense we have, Yeah, but.

1849
01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:12,400
Speaker 2: We're not familiar with of course.

1850
01:28:12,479 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, when everyone's gonna think, like, you know, you'd rather

1851
01:28:14,840 --> 01:28:17,639
Speaker 4: you lose your sense of smelling in sight of course

1852
01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:20,200
Speaker 4: or something like that. People think that, but like for me,

1853
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:22,719
Speaker 4: like I just know, like especially for memory. It's the biggest,

1854
01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:26,439
Speaker 4: like you know, brings it back somewhere and stuff like that.

1855
01:28:26,600 --> 01:28:29,760
Speaker 4: But so like, yeah, because especially women like be something

1856
01:28:29,800 --> 01:28:33,720
Speaker 4: I smell or whatever, or like certain things that you use. Man,

1857
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:36,040
Speaker 4: I remember, not that long ago. I think it was

1858
01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 4: like a certain like soap I smelled. I was at

1859
01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:41,880
Speaker 4: somebody's house and had a shower. I smelled it, and

1860
01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:44,240
Speaker 4: they reminded it fuller reminded.

1861
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:55,640
Speaker 5: Me of another girl that moment. It took me.

1862
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 4: It literally took me to the moment where I was

1863
01:28:57,479 --> 01:29:00,360
Speaker 4: like like I like this, like it would be like

1864
01:29:00,680 --> 01:29:03,920
Speaker 4: like a shot like angle, like you know what I mean,

1865
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 4: and it's.

1866
01:29:04,960 --> 01:29:06,360
Speaker 5: Just like me just right in and I was just

1867
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:08,000
Speaker 5: like it was like that, that's all right, but they

1868
01:29:08,200 --> 01:29:19,000
Speaker 5: like you and it's sorry. I wasn't not even right.

1869
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 4: Here.

1870
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:24,240
Speaker 2: That was a good one.

1871
01:29:24,280 --> 01:29:27,439
Speaker 5: That was right right, remember, she.

1872
01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:30,960
Speaker 4: Used to Yeah, sometimes I sometimes I don't know why,

1873
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:34,479
Speaker 4: Like I'll randomly think of someone, damn wonder like what

1874
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 4: somebody used to like or something like what I wonder

1875
01:29:37,320 --> 01:29:39,160
Speaker 4: what they're up to And then like I don't know,

1876
01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys are thinking that happens.

1877
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,200
Speaker 4: That happens a lot, which is wild or d M

1878
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 4: ME or something like that number somehow. Yeah, and then

1879
01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:50,280
Speaker 4: I think about this, like if I ran into them,

1880
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 4: like like you know, would be I don't know.

1881
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:58,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think you can. I mean sometimes I run

1882
01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:02,200
Speaker 2: into people. Yeah, no, why do that?

1883
01:30:02,320 --> 01:30:04,600
Speaker 4: I think since like basically twenty fourteen and I can

1884
01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:07,280
Speaker 4: run anybody, I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm my resumes.

1885
01:30:08,680 --> 01:30:11,320
Speaker 5: I gotta get one. Yeah, we go under like before

1886
01:30:12,080 --> 01:30:18,240
Speaker 5: a few arrow Oh but yeah, so I mean I

1887
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:18,560
Speaker 5: don't know.

1888
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:23,680
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, speaking of the last thing, pussies, Yes, we

1889
01:30:24,120 --> 01:30:28,440
Speaker 6: have a segment called Horris Horror Stories.

1890
01:30:32,320 --> 01:30:37,400
Speaker 2: Whose stories sex. Yes, horror stories. You can think of.

1891
01:30:39,360 --> 01:30:44,680
Speaker 4: The face too in the hands so fucking dirty. It

1892
01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:47,600
Speaker 4: was like white porn right now for a second, cock,

1893
01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:55,879
Speaker 4: that's that's work.

1894
01:30:56,920 --> 01:31:01,280
Speaker 6: Such an ugly word, right or sexual horror story that

1895
01:31:01,880 --> 01:31:04,639
Speaker 6: went horribly wrong, like scary horrific?

1896
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:09,960
Speaker 5: Oh man, damn yeah. Well, I mean, well a scary one.

1897
01:31:10,080 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 5: I just keep that breathing. This girl passed out, she

1898
01:31:15,160 --> 01:31:24,479
Speaker 5: full on out past. I'll get into something like the

1899
01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:26,680
Speaker 5: horror horror one whatever. But she fought on.

1900
01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:28,880
Speaker 2: What did you had to give her?

1901
01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:29,240
Speaker 5: CP?

1902
01:31:29,840 --> 01:31:33,880
Speaker 2: Like well wait wait wait, you on the top of

1903
01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:35,160
Speaker 2: her We hit it from the back.

1904
01:31:36,600 --> 01:31:39,519
Speaker 5: It was from the back. It was from the back.

1905
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:42,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she but I think what happened was like

1906
01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:46,160
Speaker 4: because she had came like back to back, like it

1907
01:31:46,280 --> 01:31:48,640
Speaker 4: was literally like she was coming boom boom boom, and

1908
01:31:48,760 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 4: then like three strokes later she came in and that

1909
01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:53,400
Speaker 4: one was even harder, and I think she just was

1910
01:31:53,520 --> 01:31:56,680
Speaker 4: like she lost, overwhelmed and stuff like that.

1911
01:31:57,400 --> 01:32:02,679
Speaker 9: And I swear like I was she was and that's crazy,

1912
01:32:03,479 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 9: like what kind of like it was just kind of

1913
01:32:05,920 --> 01:32:09,080
Speaker 9: like she was like like going, I was like, where.

1914
01:32:09,400 --> 01:32:11,759
Speaker 5: Running I'm going. I think she's running?

1915
01:32:11,800 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 4: What's why all my credit Like look, I'm proudly very

1916
01:32:14,400 --> 01:32:16,559
Speaker 4: like I'm probably I'm average. I'm averge for a tall

1917
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:18,360
Speaker 4: guy is very different from just average, but average for

1918
01:32:18,360 --> 01:32:19,920
Speaker 4: a tall guy tall average.

1919
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:22,680
Speaker 5: So I'm like, you can't be really running from it,

1920
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:25,000
Speaker 5: like damn, Like I know there's certain positions that make

1921
01:32:25,040 --> 01:32:27,720
Speaker 5: you run, but not just that right now right now.

1922
01:32:27,960 --> 01:32:30,479
Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, So then so like yeah, she's

1923
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:31,720
Speaker 5: like so but.

1924
01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:33,920
Speaker 4: Then like I'm like and like she kind of was

1925
01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:35,880
Speaker 4: like on side her face whatever, and then she was

1926
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 4: like I'm like and then.

1927
01:32:37,520 --> 01:32:39,600
Speaker 5: She it was just quick like she she was like,

1928
01:32:40,439 --> 01:32:42,920
Speaker 5: oh fuck, and I got it.

1929
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:44,720
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, yo, are you good,

1930
01:32:45,640 --> 01:32:50,680
Speaker 4: and like you know now right, I'm like right now,

1931
01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:51,639
Speaker 4: everything's not normal.

1932
01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:54,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, And then she just was like that was fucking crazy.

1933
01:32:54,920 --> 01:32:55,760
Speaker 5: I just passed it.

1934
01:32:56,600 --> 01:33:00,559
Speaker 4: I was just like, I mean, you need to keep,

1935
01:33:00,680 --> 01:33:03,439
Speaker 4: you want to keep? Should we stop? And she was like,

1936
01:33:03,640 --> 01:33:06,920
Speaker 4: and bless herself, she's such. She was like, did you come.

1937
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:09,600
Speaker 4: I was like no, and she was like, oh no,

1938
01:33:09,760 --> 01:33:13,040
Speaker 4: She's like she got on her band, she got a

1939
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 4: position I liked, and I was just like, oh, yeah,

1940
01:33:16,439 --> 01:33:19,360
Speaker 4: you know what, you deserve all this on you.

1941
01:33:23,640 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 5: But yeah, so yeah.

1942
01:33:25,400 --> 01:33:28,280
Speaker 4: I will say though, like one of my favorite stories

1943
01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 4: is that I was messing with this one girl and

1944
01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:33,679
Speaker 4: she was having a girl's night and you know, they're

1945
01:33:33,680 --> 01:33:36,880
Speaker 4: having a little slumber party, you know, like grown slumber parties,

1946
01:33:36,960 --> 01:33:38,040
Speaker 4: like the stories that come out of here.

1947
01:33:38,920 --> 01:33:43,880
Speaker 2: So it was a lesbian thing and it wasn't.

1948
01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 5: It was it wasn't.

1949
01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:53,000
Speaker 2: It wasn't, but we thought, good thing.

1950
01:33:53,040 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 5: We didn't go right, oh okay, well.

1951
01:33:56,640 --> 01:33:59,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, so because I remember asking her, I was like, well,

1952
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:01,240
Speaker 4: what you do She's always just I'm just hanging with

1953
01:34:01,280 --> 01:34:03,320
Speaker 4: the girls on my I was like okay, cool and

1954
01:34:03,479 --> 01:34:05,479
Speaker 4: you know, have fun whatever. Right, So I was probably

1955
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:10,200
Speaker 4: like at eight pm and then like now, I mean

1956
01:34:10,560 --> 01:34:14,519
Speaker 4: midnight happens. But yeah, so they're they're drinker wine, sharing

1957
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:16,519
Speaker 4: their stories, talking about whatever their lives, you know, you know,

1958
01:34:17,080 --> 01:34:20,000
Speaker 4: and so I get hit up and she was just like.

1959
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:25,160
Speaker 5: She's like, oh she saw I think she's saw me

1960
01:34:25,240 --> 01:34:25,639
Speaker 5: out whatever.

1961
01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 4: And then she was like, oh, my friends are such

1962
01:34:28,400 --> 01:34:29,880
Speaker 4: like saying to or whatever like that, and I was

1963
01:34:29,880 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 4: like okay, and I found the friends and I was

1964
01:34:32,040 --> 01:34:36,200
Speaker 4: okay cool, and like her friend was like pressing me

1965
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:39,000
Speaker 4: like I was like yeah, I was like yeah, and

1966
01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 4: then trying to make it be know, like I was like, oh,

1967
01:34:40,880 --> 01:34:42,519
Speaker 4: maybe she just thinks that I don't know.

1968
01:34:42,640 --> 01:34:45,400
Speaker 5: She just casually told her like oh, Sharon says there

1969
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 5: to say her and matrices and r with relationship. So

1970
01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:54,400
Speaker 5: I was like and she was really pressing me. I

1971
01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:56,320
Speaker 5: was like, oh, I was like yeah.

1972
01:34:56,360 --> 01:34:58,640
Speaker 4: I was like I was trying to have such and

1973
01:34:58,680 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 4: such coming out, but you know, she's she's at the

1974
01:35:00,600 --> 01:35:01,479
Speaker 4: crib with her friends.

1975
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:03,879
Speaker 5: I was I don't know, maybe I'll go over there afterwards.

1976
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:06,080
Speaker 5: We'll see, you know, like, and I'm trying to make

1977
01:35:06,120 --> 01:35:09,280
Speaker 5: it obvious, like okay, like you know your hungery.

1978
01:35:10,560 --> 01:35:13,479
Speaker 4: And she was like oh, She's like, oh yeah, just

1979
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:16,200
Speaker 4: breeze right through it. And then she was getting like

1980
01:35:16,360 --> 01:35:18,680
Speaker 4: kind of she started dancing. Was like, okay, we could

1981
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:20,519
Speaker 4: dance and there's no harm in that. The way she

1982
01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:21,880
Speaker 4: was dancing, there's a difference, I know.

1983
01:35:23,320 --> 01:35:29,600
Speaker 5: She was like, just really like it too, and my

1984
01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:32,280
Speaker 5: grown ass, I'm thinking okay, And then they started getting hard.

1985
01:35:32,320 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 5: I was like, what the fun I'm too grown for this.

1986
01:35:35,360 --> 01:35:36,439
Speaker 2: Grind out. You're so tall.

1987
01:35:37,439 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 5: She was tall. She was tall specializing. Yeah, you gotta

1988
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:44,759
Speaker 5: wine in your stance.

1989
01:35:44,840 --> 01:35:48,280
Speaker 4: You know, you gotta wight in there yet, but or

1990
01:35:48,320 --> 01:35:49,760
Speaker 4: the wall usually helps you, you know what I mean.

1991
01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:54,000
Speaker 5: I know I put it up on it. I've been

1992
01:35:54,040 --> 01:35:55,880
Speaker 5: here before, so I put it up on it. I've

1993
01:35:55,880 --> 01:35:58,280
Speaker 5: been tall for a while. I was six. For my

1994
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:01,400
Speaker 5: freshman year of high school, I didn't want to.

1995
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:03,479
Speaker 3: Break away from the word invisual and I was like,

1996
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:05,760
Speaker 3: I wasn't.

1997
01:36:05,800 --> 01:36:09,160
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah right, she was. She wasn't.

1998
01:36:09,160 --> 01:36:12,680
Speaker 4: She's like, why not, and so yeah, she's doing that

1999
01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:15,719
Speaker 4: and she's like I was like, and I was like okay.

2000
01:36:15,800 --> 01:36:17,800
Speaker 4: I was like, oh dang, you know my digging I

2001
01:36:17,880 --> 01:36:20,720
Speaker 4: feel like sometimes guys sometimes like getting bears up to

2002
01:36:20,840 --> 01:36:24,960
Speaker 4: not being like, oh they want you to feel I.

2003
01:36:25,000 --> 01:36:25,479
Speaker 5: Feel like we do.

2004
01:36:25,760 --> 01:36:28,240
Speaker 4: Like I was like okay, you know, I was like,

2005
01:36:28,360 --> 01:36:30,760
Speaker 4: oh okay, and she was just like, she's like, why

2006
01:36:30,760 --> 01:36:32,840
Speaker 4: you're stopping. I was just like and I was like,

2007
01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:33,760
Speaker 4: these ain't the right pants?

2008
01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:37,280
Speaker 5: Make the right pants for these I was like, anyway,

2009
01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:39,000
Speaker 5: you know, just tell them and she was just like

2010
01:36:39,120 --> 01:36:40,800
Speaker 5: she's I don't know. She's like they're the perfect pants,

2011
01:36:40,800 --> 01:36:41,760
Speaker 5: and she got right back on there.

2012
01:36:41,800 --> 01:36:45,439
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, ship like and then once I'll

2013
01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:48,880
Speaker 4: come on bless the DJ played genuine so anxious.

2014
01:36:50,040 --> 01:36:51,840
Speaker 5: One of my favorite songs of all time.

2015
01:36:51,960 --> 01:36:55,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like she saw she's like Benumban was black right,

2016
01:36:55,640 --> 01:36:57,599
Speaker 4: and she does somethinge she like put she puts her

2017
01:36:57,640 --> 01:36:59,680
Speaker 4: hand back and she starts grabbing all my ship out.

2018
01:36:59,920 --> 01:37:03,160
Speaker 4: I am going to fuck this girl right now. I

2019
01:37:03,400 --> 01:37:06,360
Speaker 4: like in my head, I'm I'm gonna come right now.

2020
01:37:06,400 --> 01:37:08,080
Speaker 4: I'm about the bus right now, because I was just like,

2021
01:37:08,160 --> 01:37:10,639
Speaker 4: this is like I don't know why whatever she had

2022
01:37:11,360 --> 01:37:16,240
Speaker 4: my dist touched because this was so so I was

2023
01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:19,160
Speaker 4: just like, yo, like my sensitive right now. So I

2024
01:37:19,240 --> 01:37:21,559
Speaker 4: was like, all right, I'm end up, I hit her

2025
01:37:21,560 --> 01:37:23,080
Speaker 4: friend up. I was like, I don't want I don't

2026
01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:25,880
Speaker 4: want this to be no trama. So I was like

2027
01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:28,240
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, man, like so yo,

2028
01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:30,640
Speaker 4: like man, I'm not being like you know, we're in there.

2029
01:37:30,680 --> 01:37:32,120
Speaker 4: I was like, well, I was dancing with your friend.

2030
01:37:32,160 --> 01:37:33,879
Speaker 5: It was you know, really.

2031
01:37:35,240 --> 01:37:35,400
Speaker 2: You know.

2032
01:37:36,160 --> 01:37:38,040
Speaker 5: She was like she was like yeah, really, I was

2033
01:37:38,360 --> 01:37:39,800
Speaker 5: getting real heated and stuff. I don't know.

2034
01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 4: She's just like this with everybody or she's like on me,

2035
01:37:44,120 --> 01:37:45,760
Speaker 4: but that so that's what it kind of seems like.

2036
01:37:45,840 --> 01:37:47,720
Speaker 4: Did you tell her like we're walking around She's like

2037
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 4: she's like, oh.

2038
01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:48,680
Speaker 3: She knows.

2039
01:37:48,760 --> 01:37:51,040
Speaker 4: She's like and it's fine. She's like she's like it's fine.

2040
01:37:51,080 --> 01:37:52,720
Speaker 4: She's like you want to suck around her. I was like,

2041
01:37:52,920 --> 01:37:54,479
Speaker 4: this is I'm thinking about here, I get to text all.

2042
01:37:54,520 --> 01:37:58,080
Speaker 4: This is a fucking test. The guys always think that, like,

2043
01:37:58,360 --> 01:37:59,720
Speaker 4: you know, get the fuck out of there. I was

2044
01:37:59,760 --> 01:38:04,560
Speaker 4: just like, I was like, you funny, you know, to

2045
01:38:04,600 --> 01:38:07,760
Speaker 4: test it out. She's like no, She's like no, for real.

2046
01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:09,680
Speaker 4: I was like, I can't tell if you're testing me,

2047
01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:11,360
Speaker 4: like if you fucking him. She's like no, I'm sick.

2048
01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:13,320
Speaker 4: She's like she's like she's like, you're around here for

2049
01:38:13,320 --> 01:38:16,360
Speaker 4: a little bit. She's like, and then and then come here,

2050
01:38:17,080 --> 01:38:17,799
Speaker 4: come here afterwards.

2051
01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:19,599
Speaker 5: So she's like, oh you can. She's I would say

2052
01:38:19,640 --> 01:38:21,080
Speaker 5: bring her here now, but you know, I have a

2053
01:38:21,120 --> 01:38:22,720
Speaker 5: friend here that doesn't like her and stuff like that.

2054
01:38:25,600 --> 01:38:28,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm like all right. I was like, yeah,

2055
01:38:28,040 --> 01:38:31,439
Speaker 4: I'm leaving. I was, but then I was like, maybe

2056
01:38:31,439 --> 01:38:33,080
Speaker 4: I won't do that whatever tonight. I was like maybe

2057
01:38:33,080 --> 01:38:33,479
Speaker 4: another time.

2058
01:38:33,520 --> 01:38:35,080
Speaker 5: So I told her. I was like, yeah, I'm leaving.

2059
01:38:35,200 --> 01:38:37,400
Speaker 5: I'm into such and such spy. She She's like, I'm

2060
01:38:37,400 --> 01:38:38,920
Speaker 5: on the way, can you take me home? I was

2061
01:38:39,000 --> 01:38:40,360
Speaker 5: like all right.

2062
01:38:41,560 --> 01:38:45,439
Speaker 2: She's relentless, all right, taking no for an answer, but

2063
01:38:45,640 --> 01:38:46,120
Speaker 2: like yeah.

2064
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:48,160
Speaker 5: So on her way home, she yeah, she.

2065
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:50,120
Speaker 2: Put it in.

2066
01:38:50,600 --> 01:38:54,479
Speaker 5: She started sucking my dicky. I was like, oh man,

2067
01:38:54,560 --> 01:38:56,679
Speaker 5: yeah yeah. I was just like okay, so now I'm

2068
01:38:56,680 --> 01:39:01,439
Speaker 5: gett my dicks. I'm like, wow, I uh her spot.

2069
01:39:01,880 --> 01:39:04,000
Speaker 5: I didn't bust her anything, but it was good. It

2070
01:39:04,160 --> 01:39:06,640
Speaker 5: was good because it wasn't that far away, you know

2071
01:39:06,680 --> 01:39:07,000
Speaker 5: what i mean.

2072
01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:14,439
Speaker 4: I'm not giving myself credit just saying quarterback right right,

2073
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:16,280
Speaker 4: that was there.

2074
01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:21,559
Speaker 5: So yeah, so yeah, I'll.

2075
01:39:21,439 --> 01:39:21,880
Speaker 2: Pull up.

2076
01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:25,920
Speaker 4: And she kes like she's going for a little bit,

2077
01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:28,400
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, okay, I was here, I'm here.

2078
01:39:28,479 --> 01:39:30,240
Speaker 4: She pop said she's okay. She was like, she's like,

2079
01:39:30,280 --> 01:39:32,599
Speaker 4: you're going over there now she's okay. She's like, well,

2080
01:39:32,800 --> 01:39:34,599
Speaker 4: she's like she you know, she does get she gives

2081
01:39:34,760 --> 01:39:37,200
Speaker 4: you know, pardy over me. She's like me upth you

2082
01:39:37,240 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 4: know tomorrow whatever.

2083
01:39:38,280 --> 01:39:40,320
Speaker 2: I was like, she said, she does get priority over me.

2084
01:39:40,560 --> 01:39:45,240
Speaker 5: I was like, yes, this sounds like a great situation. Yeah,

2085
01:39:45,479 --> 01:39:46,120
Speaker 5: I'm gonna be right.

2086
01:39:46,160 --> 01:39:48,400
Speaker 4: I've been like, I've been a lot of great situations

2087
01:39:48,400 --> 01:39:51,599
Speaker 4: that guys would like to I just think I love

2088
01:39:51,680 --> 01:39:53,519
Speaker 4: that we live in shout society because I'm six eight,

2089
01:39:53,600 --> 01:39:55,080
Speaker 4: so girls just gravitate.

2090
01:39:54,640 --> 01:39:56,280
Speaker 5: Towards the talk thank you.

2091
01:39:58,840 --> 01:40:05,240
Speaker 4: Here exactly. So So yeah, so she gets out. I'm like, man,

2092
01:40:05,400 --> 01:40:08,880
Speaker 4: so now I'm like here with this situation. I head

2093
01:40:08,920 --> 01:40:13,320
Speaker 4: over to the girl's house and like she's there and

2094
01:40:13,400 --> 01:40:15,080
Speaker 4: her friends are there, right, So I'm like, okay, we're

2095
01:40:15,080 --> 01:40:18,360
Speaker 4: about to but yeah, she we basically, you know, she

2096
01:40:18,439 --> 01:40:22,120
Speaker 4: came a little short, like she pulls me in and

2097
01:40:22,479 --> 01:40:23,760
Speaker 4: to fuck her basically on the couch.

2098
01:40:23,800 --> 01:40:25,160
Speaker 5: She was ready to go. She was getting on all that.

2099
01:40:25,280 --> 01:40:25,880
Speaker 5: She was ready to go.

2100
01:40:26,040 --> 01:40:28,400
Speaker 4: Fuck her on the couch and I am fucking her

2101
01:40:28,400 --> 01:40:31,680
Speaker 4: in front of her friends and they're like helping me.

2102
01:40:33,920 --> 01:40:35,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're helping me.

2103
01:40:35,960 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 4: Give it to her, like going like like one of them,

2104
01:40:39,479 --> 01:40:41,200
Speaker 4: one of them got behamed. Was one of the sexiest

2105
01:40:41,240 --> 01:40:43,000
Speaker 4: things in my life. I'm getting into this right.

2106
01:40:43,120 --> 01:40:46,160
Speaker 5: Look. So she's like, so, like I have her. I

2107
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:48,000
Speaker 5: get on my knees whatever, on the ground, put a

2108
01:40:48,040 --> 01:40:48,400
Speaker 5: pillow there.

2109
01:40:48,439 --> 01:40:51,040
Speaker 4: You know, she's on the couch on her back, legs open,

2110
01:40:51,840 --> 01:40:53,920
Speaker 4: do my whole thing, you know, getting ready.

2111
01:40:53,960 --> 01:40:54,200
Speaker 5: Okay.

2112
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:56,400
Speaker 4: So then when I'm getting ready, like one of her

2113
01:40:56,439 --> 01:40:59,240
Speaker 4: friends like it's like behind me and like grabs my

2114
01:40:59,400 --> 01:41:01,639
Speaker 4: joint and it's just like guys me and I thought

2115
01:41:01,680 --> 01:41:02,840
Speaker 4: that was one of those sexiest things.

2116
01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:05,560
Speaker 5: And I was like yes, man, I was like and

2117
01:41:05,760 --> 01:41:07,680
Speaker 5: like I was like, man, give the the you know

2118
01:41:07,680 --> 01:41:12,800
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, like open, I'm grabbing like her, ask whatever.

2119
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:14,960
Speaker 5: Like she she like pulled her pants. That's for me

2120
01:41:15,040 --> 01:41:16,639
Speaker 5: to get a good grip. I was like, man, good,

2121
01:41:16,840 --> 01:41:22,519
Speaker 5: this is a good squad. Yeah they are.

2122
01:41:22,680 --> 01:41:25,200
Speaker 4: And like not everybody was in volume. Some just want

2123
01:41:25,240 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 4: to watch. And someone was drinking and I was like, damn,

2124
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:28,960
Speaker 4: like you know, and so you can hear what I'm saying,

2125
01:41:29,040 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 4: like damn, like now I'm trying to get now I'm

2126
01:41:31,040 --> 01:41:34,200
Speaker 4: thinking about whole I can't serve everybody.

2127
01:41:34,320 --> 01:41:35,720
Speaker 5: But she was just talking about like she want to

2128
01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:39,400
Speaker 5: call her dude again. Okay, good god, I don't know

2129
01:41:39,439 --> 01:41:42,320
Speaker 5: what y'all think. I am like, thank you for the

2130
01:41:42,439 --> 01:41:43,240
Speaker 5: thought of the credit.

2131
01:41:45,160 --> 01:41:46,800
Speaker 13: I was just like so like yeah, I was like

2132
01:41:47,520 --> 01:41:49,080
Speaker 13: and I was just like and I was just fucking

2133
01:41:49,080 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 13: her and then like I like, you know, thinking to

2134
01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:56,599
Speaker 13: her what I did eat for a little.

2135
01:41:58,720 --> 01:41:59,400
Speaker 5: Because she was there.

2136
01:41:59,479 --> 01:42:02,080
Speaker 4: She was like damn with and then like and then

2137
01:42:02,160 --> 01:42:04,320
Speaker 4: she's like feeling that and we're like soshi positions and

2138
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:05,920
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and then she was like feeling and

2139
01:42:06,040 --> 01:42:08,320
Speaker 4: I was feilty and then she was like you want

2140
01:42:08,320 --> 01:42:08,560
Speaker 4: to take it?

2141
01:42:08,640 --> 01:42:16,080
Speaker 5: I was like right, I was just yeah.

2142
01:42:16,120 --> 01:42:18,479
Speaker 4: But now just other than that, like yeah, they she

2143
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:20,880
Speaker 4: would like some of them, you know, they were like

2144
01:42:20,960 --> 01:42:21,960
Speaker 4: kids on her life so too.

2145
01:42:22,040 --> 01:42:23,479
Speaker 5: But you mainly just be fucking her.

2146
01:42:23,560 --> 01:42:26,519
Speaker 4: Really really, it was like it was a light like

2147
01:42:26,680 --> 01:42:28,920
Speaker 4: because I still don't consider I still haven't had a

2148
01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:32,600
Speaker 4: real three soome yet. Yeah, I haven't like where i'd like,

2149
01:42:32,720 --> 01:42:35,519
Speaker 4: you know, like we're doing this and it's okay, boom,

2150
01:42:35,720 --> 01:42:37,040
Speaker 4: we're doing this and y'all whatever.

2151
01:42:37,360 --> 01:42:39,920
Speaker 5: No, no, that I never entered another woman while with

2152
01:42:40,160 --> 01:42:40,519
Speaker 5: this one.

2153
01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:40,680
Speaker 2: You know.

2154
01:42:40,840 --> 01:42:44,640
Speaker 5: It's I've had situations, you know, we're there, but this

2155
01:42:45,080 --> 01:42:45,920
Speaker 5: that was great to me.

2156
01:42:46,160 --> 01:42:47,639
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm pretty amazing.

2157
01:42:47,680 --> 01:42:50,920
Speaker 5: I'm pretty good. God yeah right. I was like, what

2158
01:42:51,120 --> 01:42:53,360
Speaker 5: is what did I do to deserve this? But yeah, no,

2159
01:42:53,600 --> 01:42:55,080
Speaker 5: it was, yeah, it was.

2160
01:42:55,240 --> 01:42:59,360
Speaker 2: It was that's good.

2161
01:43:02,320 --> 01:43:03,800
Speaker 5: So yeah, it was good.

2162
01:43:04,040 --> 01:43:07,559
Speaker 4: Good fifteen minutes of myself. I was happy it when

2163
01:43:07,560 --> 01:43:09,000
Speaker 4: fifteen minutes too, because it seemed like it was.

2164
01:43:09,120 --> 01:43:10,400
Speaker 5: I was like, how long? Was like, I felt like

2165
01:43:10,520 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 5: forty five minutes with everything so much is happening. He

2166
01:43:13,439 --> 01:43:15,960
Speaker 5: drove somewhere. I've been head on the way there with

2167
01:43:16,160 --> 01:43:19,840
Speaker 5: by your friend, with friends. I just feel like it

2168
01:43:19,920 --> 01:43:22,479
Speaker 5: was like yeah, later on.

2169
01:43:22,560 --> 01:43:27,799
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, in your life here carbon they definitely

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01:43:27,880 --> 01:43:28,639
Speaker 2: boss you around.

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01:43:29,400 --> 01:43:32,080
Speaker 4: I was, y'all, I was That's why I gave you

2172
01:43:32,080 --> 01:43:33,639
Speaker 4: all this because I always tell them, I'm like, y'all.

2173
01:43:33,840 --> 01:43:35,320
Speaker 5: I feel like I was the whole for the group.

2174
01:43:35,439 --> 01:43:37,240
Speaker 5: You are like in the hood, like you know, like.

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01:43:39,280 --> 01:43:42,160
Speaker 2: We need to be friends. We need more women like them.

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01:43:42,560 --> 01:43:45,920
Speaker 5: Yea, Yeah, I love to be more women like that.

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01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:49,080
Speaker 4: I was like, because I'm not used to like, I'm

2178
01:43:49,120 --> 01:43:52,479
Speaker 4: definitely not used to that, and I was definitely giving

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01:43:53,760 --> 01:43:55,720
Speaker 4: something where I was able to, like, you know, I

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01:43:55,800 --> 01:43:57,760
Speaker 4: glad I was giving my moments to like tell them

2181
01:43:57,880 --> 01:44:02,599
Speaker 4: what to do, so like whatever, boom, like start finking

2182
01:44:02,760 --> 01:44:04,120
Speaker 4: whatever all listen.

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01:44:04,160 --> 01:44:06,599
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, they were like fingering.

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01:44:06,800 --> 01:44:09,600
Speaker 5: There was some fingers mainly like I said, mainly me,

2185
01:44:10,080 --> 01:44:11,920
Speaker 5: but just it was just like wondirl was.

2186
01:44:12,280 --> 01:44:14,000
Speaker 2: Like helping, helping me.

2187
01:44:14,520 --> 01:44:16,880
Speaker 5: I was like I was pounding.

2188
01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:20,680
Speaker 4: I was right.

2189
01:44:20,760 --> 01:44:24,040
Speaker 5: I was just take my head, just take my going.

2190
01:44:24,000 --> 01:44:25,639
Speaker 4: And then yeah and then like but like I said

2191
01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:27,560
Speaker 4: that my mom my vy mom was like when the

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01:44:27,680 --> 01:44:30,400
Speaker 4: friend behind me guided me and then I was guided

2193
01:44:30,600 --> 01:44:31,320
Speaker 4: it grabbing.

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01:44:31,520 --> 01:44:33,240
Speaker 5: She had a big booty, so grabbing a little while

2195
01:44:33,280 --> 01:44:34,080
Speaker 5: I was sucking her.

2196
01:44:34,360 --> 01:44:37,080
Speaker 2: It was sounds bombed, sounds like wish I wasn't fly

2197
01:44:37,200 --> 01:44:37,720
Speaker 2: on that wall.

2198
01:44:38,960 --> 01:44:40,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I could watch that myself.

2199
01:44:40,960 --> 01:44:45,280
Speaker 5: And I was like, damn, damn.

2200
01:44:45,360 --> 01:44:47,639
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm sure none of your friends believe.

2201
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:50,280
Speaker 3: Well, if I ever decided to direct horror, I make

2202
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:55,160
Speaker 3: sure that definitely adding taking.

2203
01:44:57,080 --> 01:44:58,560
Speaker 2: We should share that with we should share that with

2204
01:44:58,680 --> 01:45:01,320
Speaker 2: King or something. Yeah, you know those tips and tricks.

2205
01:45:01,560 --> 01:45:03,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess another time. You guys can

2206
01:45:03,720 --> 01:45:06,599
Speaker 4: tell me y'all story story we have many.

2207
01:45:06,920 --> 01:45:11,760
Speaker 2: Just listen to the podcast, right there are plans they

2208
01:45:11,840 --> 01:45:12,240
Speaker 2: live there.

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01:45:16,040 --> 01:45:19,320
Speaker 5: I'm definitely gonna listen. Actually recommend me a specific episode

2210
01:45:19,360 --> 01:45:19,519
Speaker 5: for me.

2211
01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:21,519
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was just telling someone that three

2212
01:45:21,600 --> 01:45:25,680
Speaker 2: someomeone is so fucking funny. You have to listen to this.

2213
01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:28,920
Speaker 2: The three someone is funny. Five ways to have a

2214
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:29,839
Speaker 2: successful threesome.

2215
01:45:30,800 --> 01:45:32,439
Speaker 5: Oh, I just say it on the list, Yes, that

2216
01:45:32,640 --> 01:45:34,880
Speaker 5: was that's in c Yes, you should listen to that.

2217
01:45:35,000 --> 01:45:36,080
Speaker 5: I will definitely will.

2218
01:45:36,400 --> 01:45:41,000
Speaker 2: My experience is quite ridiculous. I forget which ones I say.

2219
01:45:41,120 --> 01:45:43,080
Speaker 2: Now I gotta put check off.

2220
01:45:43,280 --> 01:45:45,120
Speaker 4: I'm definitely I need so I know how to really

2221
01:45:45,160 --> 01:45:45,960
Speaker 4: successfully do this.

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01:45:46,720 --> 01:45:48,560
Speaker 5: I'm trying to manage the three something happen in the

2223
01:45:48,600 --> 01:45:52,960
Speaker 5: next week or two or two We're going to go

2224
01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:54,320
Speaker 5: for a week. It's Grammy weeks.

2225
01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:57,280
Speaker 2: Listen to the episode and get back to us if

2226
01:45:57,320 --> 01:46:00,720
Speaker 2: you need any more coaching. But for the most part,

2227
01:46:00,760 --> 01:46:07,840
Speaker 2: it's all there. Okay, cool, Well, anyway, thank you so much.

2228
01:46:09,000 --> 01:46:09,880
Speaker 5: This was fun coming on.

2229
01:46:10,200 --> 01:46:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate you. Thanks for coming on. Del We

2230
01:46:14,240 --> 01:46:17,639
Speaker 2: are very happy to have our first first still, can

2231
01:46:17,680 --> 01:46:23,920
Speaker 2: you be resident if anything happens like we need resident?

2232
01:46:26,840 --> 01:46:29,960
Speaker 4: Right right?

2233
01:46:30,840 --> 01:46:35,600
Speaker 7: Yes, I think I'm here for that to your matures.

2234
01:46:36,120 --> 01:46:38,400
Speaker 2: All right, you guys, Well, thank you for tuning in.

2235
01:46:40,040 --> 01:46:42,400
Speaker 2: Have a wonderful Where can we find you?

2236
01:46:42,720 --> 01:46:42,920
Speaker 7: Yes?

2237
01:46:43,760 --> 01:46:44,439
Speaker 4: Social media?

2238
01:46:44,840 --> 01:46:48,120
Speaker 5: Well, I mean J R O N E J A E.

2239
01:46:48,520 --> 01:46:50,360
Speaker 5: And that's on Instagram and Twitter. That's all I have.

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01:46:50,520 --> 01:46:55,639
Speaker 2: Instagram, you tweet a lot, but you know, for I think.

2241
01:46:55,560 --> 01:46:57,320
Speaker 5: For women, I'm not that interesting because it's a lot

2242
01:46:57,320 --> 01:46:59,920
Speaker 5: of sports talk. Twitter. I don't know how to work

2243
01:47:00,400 --> 01:47:03,639
Speaker 5: actually yeah I actually yeah I do. Yeah, very pro black,

2244
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:04,400
Speaker 5: so you know how that goes.

2245
01:47:04,479 --> 01:47:06,200
Speaker 2: I know there's apparently this thing called black Twitter.

2246
01:47:06,280 --> 01:47:10,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, strongly in that community. Yeah, I'm definitely that strong leader. Yeah,

2247
01:47:10,880 --> 01:47:11,559
Speaker 4: the strong leaders.

2248
01:47:11,920 --> 01:47:13,920
Speaker 6: Okay, well, maybe if I follow you on Twitter, I

2249
01:47:14,000 --> 01:47:16,400
Speaker 6: can get into it because I can never figure.

2250
01:47:16,160 --> 01:47:18,519
Speaker 2: It out how to read tweet. There's only so many letters.

2251
01:47:18,600 --> 01:47:23,479
Speaker 2: It's really too much. I'm like, I'm gonna work on

2252
01:47:23,560 --> 01:47:23,800
Speaker 2: it though.

2253
01:47:25,400 --> 01:47:29,000
Speaker 6: Oh oh, so you could catch us on Instagram a

2254
01:47:29,080 --> 01:47:30,839
Speaker 6: good Mom's underscore Bad Choices.

2255
01:47:31,560 --> 01:47:36,520
Speaker 3: Also, we are having our one year anniversary on March nineteenth.

2256
01:47:37,120 --> 01:47:42,160
Speaker 2: Details coming soon. Mar Well if you're in town, come by.

2257
01:47:43,280 --> 01:47:45,360
Speaker 2: It's going to be in l A. Details coming soon,

2258
01:47:45,520 --> 01:47:48,040
Speaker 2: but we're doing a live show and drinks and.

2259
01:47:50,720 --> 01:47:51,840
Speaker 5: I will be in town yes.

2260
01:47:53,280 --> 01:47:54,920
Speaker 2: And coming out with all the single moments.

2261
01:48:00,200 --> 01:48:06,479
Speaker 5: My daughter just for you love me. That's funny.

2262
01:48:06,640 --> 01:48:09,360
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, I'll catch you next week. I didn't

2263
01:48:09,479 --> 01:48:24,479
Speaker 2: know that bag lay baby playing boo l baby Baby see.

2264
01:48:25,960 --> 01:48:26,640
Speaker 12: Say something that.

2265
01:48:26,760 --> 01:48:28,840
Speaker 5: It was like the first day, y'all want say the

2266
01:48:28,880 --> 01:48:32,080
Speaker 5: mall you about? Okay, they want it's name day. You

2267
01:48:32,080 --> 01:48:34,160
Speaker 5: said the same, but you look the same thing. You're

2268
01:48:34,160 --> 01:48:36,519
Speaker 5: the man friend, come to prins. Friends trouble to name kid?

2269
01:48:38,280 --> 01:48:38,559
Speaker 10: Your mother