WEBVTT - Second Date Update Italian Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of day.

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<v Speaker 2>Broke. How many times have you been in a concert

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<v Speaker 2>and thought, forget the band, I want to get backstage

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<v Speaker 2>with that security guard.

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<v Speaker 1>Really use that flashlight.

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<v Speaker 3>I did have a security guard usher me into a

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<v Speaker 3>concert for free once.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he like, let me jump in the van and

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<v Speaker 4>go into the back.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I really pathetic in the parking lot because

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<v Speaker 3>my boyfriend left me there because he had a ticket

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<v Speaker 3>and I did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Van. Yeah, so you just had to be yourself basically.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what one of our listeners says happened to her

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<v Speaker 2>the other night. Her name is Claire, and apparently she

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<v Speaker 2>met a concert security guard. Claire, it's an honor and

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<v Speaker 2>a privilege to have you on this morning show.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome, Hi, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a van for you to hop in as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Every good security guard sh'd have a van, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the security guard. Who is he?

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<v Speaker 5>And SAME's Kevin?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, did you meet him at a concert or is

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<v Speaker 3>this just what he does for work?

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<v Speaker 5>He was working and I was at the concert.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, did he catch your eye immediately or how

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<v Speaker 2>did that happen?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he came up to me actually to ask me

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<v Speaker 5>to get off a chair. That I was on.

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<v Speaker 4>To reprimand that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to be some romantic line.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but he did catch my eye. I thought he

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<v Speaker 5>was really cute. I was kind of tipsy and probably

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<v Speaker 5>being a little annoying, but I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>he was like, this is a safety hazard. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just trying to get a better view.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure, please, you're a safety.

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<v Speaker 4>He asked him to lift you up so you could see.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you just said?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I should have that would have been good. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, let me stand here so I can see.

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<v Speaker 1>He asked you to get down from the chair.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So he eventually brought me down, But I mean

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<v Speaker 5>I thought he was pretty cute, and so I actually

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<v Speaker 5>like took like a cocktail napkin and like wrote my

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<v Speaker 5>number down on it. Oh my god, and I like

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<v Speaker 5>put it in his shirt pocket and was like if

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<v Speaker 5>you need to yell at me or like teach me

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<v Speaker 5>any more about concert, Stacey later like me, I m

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<v Speaker 5>putting it in his shirt.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like a little bit of like here you go.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually I can't believe he actually called you.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I mean, like you're not cute or anything. How

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<v Speaker 3>many drunk people. Does he come across then I am, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So he reached out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. The next day, actually he texted me and we

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<v Speaker 5>were kind of laughing at it. I had saved him

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<v Speaker 5>as concert police in my phone. That's why I was

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<v Speaker 5>like calling him all night.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, you were drunk dialing him that night?

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<v Speaker 5>No, just like at the show. It's like, okay, concert please.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your cute pet name for him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>And what did he call you? Annoying short girl?

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<v Speaker 5>But you know, I apologize for whatever, being drunk and

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<v Speaker 5>how I acted. You know. We had a good laugh

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<v Speaker 5>about it and then we yeah, and so we eventually

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<v Speaker 5>like decided to meet up for dinner and have like

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<v Speaker 5>an official date.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, are nervous?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, is he going to be as cute as I remember?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean a little bit. You never know how it's

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<v Speaker 5>going to be after and it's like.

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<v Speaker 4>Dark, the music's loud, you've been drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So where did you guys end up going for

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<v Speaker 2>a date.

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<v Speaker 5>We've got We've got Italian, which is like my favorite,

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<v Speaker 5>so perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>What'd you think when you saw him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I still thought he was cute, but I was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 5>I wish you're wearing your security uniform because you look

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<v Speaker 5>so cute on it, Like you look good in that,

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<v Speaker 5>and I mean he laughed whatever, like it was fine.

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<v Speaker 5>We had it was a good We started off well,

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<v Speaker 5>really good flirter.

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<v Speaker 2>So at least it sounds like you put the vibe

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<v Speaker 2>out on.

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<v Speaker 1>Your end for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I try good. So we ended up like

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<v Speaker 5>we decided we just wanted to try a bunch of

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<v Speaker 5>stuff that we just split a bunch of food on

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<v Speaker 5>the menu, which was fun and like yeah, and the

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<v Speaker 5>food was good. We were having a good time, like

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<v Speaker 5>we were having fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an Italian restaurant. So did you try the lady

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<v Speaker 2>in the tramp move? Did you try to set it up?

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<v Speaker 5>At least we did it. We actually did not do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they got maybe the yeah, different things, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>besides the food, share the food, Like, what were some

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<v Speaker 3>of the highlights for you with him?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>We just stick around and he told me about other

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<v Speaker 5>drunk girls he's met at concerts. Made me feel better

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<v Speaker 5>about myself. I would not be worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you didn't make the top five worst girls. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're in the thank.

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<v Speaker 5>Goodness and it was going really well, but everything kind

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<v Speaker 5>of changed at the end when the bill came. Why

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<v Speaker 5>so Kevin noticed on it there were like some discrepancies,

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<v Speaker 5>like some stuff on the bill. It didn't seem right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we like slit a salad, but then they charged those

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<v Speaker 5>for two salads instead, So I mean it was justified.

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<v Speaker 5>Like he wasn't being like a total Karen, but you know,

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<v Speaker 5>he has to talk to a manager and stuff about it,

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<v Speaker 5>I assume. Yeah, so he had to go into the

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<v Speaker 5>back and like talk to someone, and it did take

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<v Speaker 5>like a little while, like it was, you know, it good,

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<v Speaker 5>like ten or fifteen minutes or so.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you beat somebody up now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, typically your server would just be like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, I'm so sorry, let me change.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And so after that, like you just kind of change

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<v Speaker 5>for the rest of the night, he just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>fell off, like.

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<v Speaker 4>It ruined his whole night.

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<v Speaker 5>It kind of felt like it did, like he just

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<v Speaker 5>didn't seem the same. And then after that he hasn't

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<v Speaker 5>really been talking to me. At first. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe he just felt like that was a weird ending,

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<v Speaker 5>so he just wanted to give me a couple of

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<v Speaker 5>days or he just felt weird about it. But that's

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<v Speaker 5>been like over a week, and so I'm like, was

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<v Speaker 5>there something else? Was there another issue I didn't know about, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>You've been in a lot of back rooms at Italian restaurants.

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<v Speaker 4>What goes down back there?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, usually I'm paying extra for.

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<v Speaker 4>What off menu?

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<v Speaker 3>Pinpoint the moment that everything changed, right, But it doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>sound like it's your fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever it is exactly, I mean, awkward on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so maybe I just left him with a bad

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<v Speaker 3>taste and that's why he hasn't Maybe, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>That were there any other weird moments from the date

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<v Speaker 2>besides the bill, not.

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<v Speaker 5>That I can think of. Everything else was pretty normal.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I was having fun. I didn't really clock

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<v Speaker 5>anything like. He didn't seem weird to me, but I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know. His mood just totally changed after the bill problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're gonna come back. We're gonna call Kevin for you,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna try and get you a second date

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<v Speaker 2>up date right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Hey, awesome, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever we do these calls and there's a problem with

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<v Speaker 2>the bill, usually that's an issue over who should pay,

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<v Speaker 2>does the guy handle it? Should the girl offer which

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<v Speaker 2>exit door? Should we dine and dash out of? Those

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<v Speaker 2>are the types of things that go through your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>But with Claire and her date, Kevin, they had a

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<v Speaker 2>different problem. They noticed that they were getting overcharged on

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<v Speaker 2>their bill, and that's why Kevin to the back to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to a manager about it for a while a

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<v Speaker 2>few minutes, and while Claire thought that was totally justified,

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<v Speaker 2>kind of ruined his mood for the rest of the night,

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<v Speaker 2>and that could be why he hasn't reached out yet

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<v Speaker 2>for another date.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe he's mad that they didn't give him a free dessert.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean usually when they mess up the bill, you

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<v Speaker 4>get a free dessert. He's like, yeah, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that right, Claire? No, no free dessert at the

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<v Speaker 2>Italian Place?

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<v Speaker 5>No free dessert.

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<v Speaker 4>Hear the bottom of it.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't even need to call him. Or maybe he

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<v Speaker 2>found an even smaller, even more obnoxious girl at another

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<v Speaker 2>concert that he was doing security yet and that's his type.

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<v Speaker 2>He wants his Thumbelina.

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<v Speaker 3>Who has a stand on the tallest chair to see anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I feel you, though. Concerts suck for short people.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's got to be some sort of logical explanation

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<v Speaker 2>for this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call.

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<v Speaker 2>Him right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You ready to do this?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Kevin?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is Kevin this?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry? Did I catch you in the bathroom or something?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little bit echoey.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I was actually cooking something.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's that's fine. Interesting what you're cooking. I'm making

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<v Speaker 2>some Pasta's a nice morning pasta.

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<v Speaker 6>I love Italian.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a prep for work.

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<v Speaker 4>So you are so friendly.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that we've ever just launched into a

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<v Speaker 3>full conversation with somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>You haven't even asked who we are yet, you know

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<v Speaker 2>we're a radio. I feel like he's gonnavite us over before. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing a segment called a second Date Update where

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<v Speaker 2>we're trying to help out one of our listeners. You

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<v Speaker 2>took out to actually an Italian place the other night

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<v Speaker 2>named Claire.

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<v Speaker 5>Claire rings a bell.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't you have a really nice night with her? Because

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<v Speaker 4>her description sound like you guys really connected.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, if I'm not mistaking, is this a girl that

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<v Speaker 6>I met at the concert because I work as a

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<v Speaker 6>security at some concerts and I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's right. It sounds like you're going out with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different women. If you can't tell, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not gonna lie. I'm I'm single, so dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Claire's the one that kept calling you concert police

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<v Speaker 3>like apparently that was her like funny nickname for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it is my job, okay, Well, our job

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<v Speaker 2>is to call people like you and try to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out why you're not going out with some of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what Claire is wondering.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, okay, so if I'm not mistaking, I remember we

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<v Speaker 6>went out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>We went and had it tobby in and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, you don't have to run us through the

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<v Speaker 1>whole story. We've actually heard it before.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think if we just need the part where

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<v Speaker 3>like you're not calling her back anymore and she's confused

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<v Speaker 3>because it seems like you guys had a good connection.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, I'm trying to wreak up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So I remember that when.

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<v Speaker 6>The bill came, I went to the backstock to the manager,

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<v Speaker 6>and then when I'm coming back, I see something weird.

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<v Speaker 6>You know how they put this olive oil kind of dishes.

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<v Speaker 1>There, Yeah, for your bread.

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<v Speaker 5>So she was putting.

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<v Speaker 6>Her fingers inside the bowl and rubbing the olive oil

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<v Speaker 6>on her.

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<v Speaker 3>On her Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So she was dipping her fingers in it and then

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<v Speaker 6>rubbing it against her shirt and then a little bit

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<v Speaker 6>on like on her belly.

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<v Speaker 4>And then wait are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>You saw Claire or just some random woman in the

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<v Speaker 3>restaurant rubbing olive oil all herself.

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<v Speaker 6>I saw clear. I mean I thought it from a

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<v Speaker 6>par I thought from a par that.

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<v Speaker 4>Would stain her shirt worst.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well she was going inside her shirt.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, the only thing I could see is

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<v Speaker 3>like if you have like dry skin with crack knuckles.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Kevin, You're you're saying that a girl rubbing

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<v Speaker 2>oil all over herself is a bad thing, because I

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<v Speaker 2>think most guys would be into that.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't think it was bad.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought it was weird. I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 6>thought that was going to happen afterwards. I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>if she thought that was like an upper dsiak or something.

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<v Speaker 2>No, why wouldn't you ask her if you think you

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<v Speaker 2>saw that?

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<v Speaker 4>She deserves the right to explain.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, Mat me ask you, how do you bring that

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<v Speaker 6>up to a girl? You know, sit down and after like,

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<v Speaker 6>why are you rubbing oil by taking.

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<v Speaker 2>Your shirt off and being like a ply right here man?

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<v Speaker 2>Or you just going to kiss her neck and go ooh?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a little bit of Islamic vineagrette?

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<v Speaker 6>I I didn't want to sound like a creep, because

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<v Speaker 6>you know how girls are always you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I was watching you from across the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, was that oil?

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<v Speaker 4>I think like, what were you doing with oil? Is

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<v Speaker 4>a fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Question, And I can understand if you were uncomfortable asking

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<v Speaker 2>her in the moment, But now that it's been a while,

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<v Speaker 2>you can ask her over the phone because she's actually

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<v Speaker 2>been listening on the other line this entire time, wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Period, Yeah, I'm possibly rubbing herself down.

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<v Speaker 1>Claire you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi? Kevin? Oh god hate.

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<v Speaker 2>In all seriousness, I doubt she was even doing that,

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<v Speaker 2>But Claire, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, oil slip Claire over here?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Claire, what was going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>What was going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What were you?

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<v Speaker 5>Were you actually rubbing the oil? First of all, I

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<v Speaker 5>had no idea you saw that, So you.

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<v Speaker 4>Do know what he's talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Claire, please explain in.

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<v Speaker 5>Very very what's a thing. There's just so oil, like

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<v Speaker 5>you rub it on your chest that helps keep everything perky,

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<v Speaker 5>like I don't want saggy breast when I'm older. Like wait,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's a TikTok hack I've adopted, but I'd like

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<v Speaker 5>it's a thing. It gets the blood flog, it keeps

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<v Speaker 5>you moisturized, net Like, don't you do that? It's totally normal.

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 4>You're at a restaurant, girl. You're not putting your hand down.

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<v Speaker 5>Your bread in the oil before your finger wasn't like

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<v Speaker 5>I was pouring the bottle on me.

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<v Speaker 3>I just been laughing a little, like, Okay, I have

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<v Speaker 3>face all of oil before, but like it's from a

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<v Speaker 3>beauty brand.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not I don't meant for that. Yes, it's just

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<v Speaker 4>really it's like refined. I would assume the different way,

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<v Speaker 4>or at least I pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>As if it's refined to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you're going to have to excuse Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the part of the show where she tells

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners how to live their lives.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think it's normal for her to stick her

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<v Speaker 4>hands out?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't know what's normal. People do their

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<v Speaker 2>own things, their own different ways. They tried beauty acts

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<v Speaker 2>they do and don't work.

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<v Speaker 6>Can I ask a question now, Yeah, yeah, of course

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<v Speaker 6>going there. I mean, now that you explained it, I

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<v Speaker 6>actually really like you, and I'm fire for not calling

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<v Speaker 6>back out with me again on a second.

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<v Speaker 5>Day, she said.

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<v Speaker 2>And now the guy's like, yeah, Claire, did this whole

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<v Speaker 2>experience change your mind with him not communicating with you earlier?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean maybe, yeah, a little, like I thought we

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<v Speaker 5>were having a good time. I'm an open person, obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Like obviously, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I would have talked to him about it if he

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<v Speaker 5>had asked me about a moment, like, I'm not embarrassed

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<v Speaker 5>about it, but now I think it's a little weird

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<v Speaker 5>he's coming around, Claire.

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<v Speaker 3>If the tables were turned and you you're walking to

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<v Speaker 3>the table and you see some dude putting oil on

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<v Speaker 3>his body, you would be a little man we use

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<v Speaker 3>butter Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I would have said something though, like he didn't do that,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I would have confronted. I would have asked a question.

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<v Speaker 4>I can see that.

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<v Speaker 5>I can see that I wouldn't stopped communicating.

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<v Speaker 6>It was the first state and I don't know if

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<v Speaker 6>you would have been okay with that or not. So

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<v Speaker 6>now I know maybe on a second date we could.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh he wants to be the one to apply

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<v Speaker 2>the oil onto you. He Oh is that?

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<v Speaker 4>What is that? The meaning you too?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's what I'm visualizing.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, right now it's getting weird. You're making it weird.

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<v Speaker 5>It's says olive oil. It's TikTok hack Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, at this point, Claire, Kevin has already said yes

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<v Speaker 2>to another day, He's apologized for not being more communicative.

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<v Speaker 2>And third, you don't even have to pay for this

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<v Speaker 2>next one because it's on us oo.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I can get from the visuals I get.

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<v Speaker 5>Thought it was kind of weird at how some people

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<v Speaker 5>might not want to approach that. Yeah, I'll give you

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<v Speaker 5>a second chance.

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<v Speaker 4>An Italian.

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<v Speaker 5>Then, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>He did say that there's a lot of concert girls,

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<v Speaker 2>so you just got to get in line first, Claire.

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<v Speaker 2>If you yourself up, you can slide faster to the

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<v Speaker 2>front of the line. He's not tackling you.

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<v Speaker 3>Then Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That usually never happens, where even before I offer to

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<v Speaker 2>pay for the date, the guy is jumping in ready

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<v Speaker 2>to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>It was almost like a light bulb went off in

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<v Speaker 3>his head and he's like, what am I thinking?

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<v Speaker 4>Because we're rubbing oil on her body to make it perky.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't those two words in combination, oil and perky

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<v Speaker 2>put together. That's an instant like, yes, it makes me

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<v Speaker 2>oily and perky.

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<v Speaker 3>I just hope that nobody ate any more bread after

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<v Speaker 3>it's just so unsanitary.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, from the same container. They change him out

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<v Speaker 2>in between people, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Like her day had been like eating bread and dipping

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<v Speaker 3>it with the crumbs on her body.

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<v Speaker 2>I was curious, as my codes are going to be

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<v Speaker 2>adopting that beauty hat coming up here. No, not you broke,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about.

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<v Speaker 1>Your motor oil. I'll rub it everywhere this.

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<v Speaker 3>Same I feel like he's just going to come to

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<v Speaker 3>her greasy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad we were able to get him to go

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<v Speaker 2>out there we go greasy and perky. Remember if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to get greasy and perky, try listening to our

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<v Speaker 2>second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>That'll do the trick.

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<v Speaker 2>You can find all of them up on our podcast

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<v Speaker 2>wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey