WEBVTT - Ep. 392: Life Is A Catfish (Ft. Kamie Crawford) 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:08.600 Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision, hey, 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:12.160 or have We are hitting the stage baby one night 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:13.480 oh in New York City. 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.240 We haven't done any other shows this year, but Mandy's 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:19.000 leaving for Atlanta, so we decided we need one night 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:20.560 all together in New York City. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:24.200 That's right, So Tuesday, December third, at Sony Hall, we 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:28.120 are bringing you a very very special show that you 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.760 do not want to miss. You've never seen this show before. 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:35.320 It's only gonna happen for one night, that's it, so 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.120 make sure you get your tickets now. You can go 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:40.760 to the Sony Hall website to get your tickets one 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:44.200 night only with Mandy Be and WEEZYWTF. You can also 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:46.920 check the link in our bio on our Instagram to 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:47.920 get tickets as well. 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.080 We cannot wait to see you again. 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:54.080 That is Tuesday, December third at Sony Hall here in 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:56.880 New York City. Get your tickets now, see you there. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:02.440 Hey guys, Well, welcome to another episode up. Horrible decision. 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:06.000 I want to wave like this, but why I didn't 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:07.240 know our guest was miss Team. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:13.360 That's so that's crazy. My name's Weezy oh yeah, and 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.760 I'm Mandy aka full Corporun's aka dead bitch. 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:18.640 And we got our girl, Cammy Crawford on. We met 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:22.759 at a going away party. Yes, wait, yes, somebody Okay, 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:25.760 someone's going away party at Kayla Nicole House. Who's everybody's 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:29.039 fitness goals? Yes, and just left on each other. So 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:30.959 I'm really glad this is our second time even seeing 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:33.479 each other. Yeah, but yeah, did a little bit of googles. 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.000 Just show me the wave? 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:37.720 Real girl, I never wave if you see me wave, 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.920 I've never waved like that before in my life. 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:41.840 So how the fuck you got missed to us all? 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:42.480 Exactly? 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:44.959 That was my first she said. I got to tell 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:46.160 them that I wanted world peace. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.400 Yeah, that's that's all. You win, by the way, bitch, 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:53.240 you win by your anthelutes and how you wear dress. Answer. 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.720 No, you remember. 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:01.080 My I'm a scorpio. Destruction is always the no. I 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.800 My question was, I feel like I got the hardest 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:05.960 question out of all the girls, I'll be honestly, because 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:09.040 you blake always. And it was a black judge that 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:09.480 asked it. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:11.919 So I was like, what didn naacp stan far. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.800 No, she asked me what. By the way, I was 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:17.600 seventeen years old. She asked me, what has been your 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:19.920 greatest contribution to society this far? 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:23.200 Whoa god damn at seventeen. 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:23.800 That's what I said. 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:27.960 I was like, I go to school, I had a 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:28.840 perfect attendance. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.160 I got not even that. 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.720 What was your answer at seventeen? Your contribution to the 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:34.639 fucking society? 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:38.280 Well, thankfully, I had been contributing to society at that point, 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:41.120 because when you win your state titled like, you do 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.079 a bunch of appearances and stuff like that. So I 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:46.200 was already building a platform off of like talking to 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:49.240 young girls about women's empowerment, being yourself, and so I 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:51.520 was able to talk about that. But I was like, bitch, 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:52.680 you just put me in the trick bag. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.520 Wait, what state wasn't Maryland, Waitzy, What was. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.359 Your contribution at seventeen to society? 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:58.680 Bitch? Taxes? 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.600 Because I was going to jail, stopp You went to 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:02.440 jail at seventeen. 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:06.359 I went to jail at fourteen years old for taking 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:07.760 the car out. 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:09.640 I got arrested. Oh, that's not fair. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.480 Then I went to jail fifteen for stealing and sixteen 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:13.160 for a fake ID. 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:14.680 That's not fair either. 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.200 Then I arrested at seventeen in handcuffs, but they didn't 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:18.320 book me and I was. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.320 Fighting, and then twenty one again with the DUI. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:25.960 I never had ever. Yeah, my license taken away because 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:27.079 my license was suspended. 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:27.680 I've never driven. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.320 I don't agree with what you're going to drive, okay, 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:33.600 but anyway that would be my platform stand Yeah. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:35.040 Taxes okay, axis no. No. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:38.160 I was gonna say, do you like no dead? I 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:42.280 like I for me because I just love to go crazy. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.560 I feel like it's really simple and people will take 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:46.119 care of you. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.520 Like I've driven people. I don't know if I see 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:50.840 they're fucked up or like there's just it's easy. 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.560 Well, now there's no excuse, there's uber Like when I 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:55.960 was going out in my heyday and it was hard, 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.760 but you had to call a cab company. 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:00.360 I all the time. I hate when I go back 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:03.840 down South and there's like bragging rights on how great 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:05.560 people drive when they're drunk, and I was like, that 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.640 would me. I'm precious cargo BI people do talk like 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:09.960 a hour yeah, and I hate it. I absolutely hate 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.600 that conversation. Y'all. If you have friends that are out 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.119 here bragging about how great they can drive while they're drunk, 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.080 please correct them and make sure that they take ubers. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:18.600 Yes, I got suspended. 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.480 It ain't wear No, my license got taken because I 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:23.240 kept driving on it suspended because I had so many tickets. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:25.600 And honestly, the system really. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:26.080 Sets you up though. 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.279 So at first you get one ticket, you can't afford 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.160 to pay it, so obviously you got to drive so 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:31.719 you can afford to pay it off, right, And I 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.839 think what kind of happens when you're in those early 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.760 years is like you're almost defaulting on one bill out 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:37.039 of time. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:38.160 Yeah, my rents paid. 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.080 I didn't pay those tickets, but sorry, because my rent's paid, 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.120 right right. If hate the tickets, my phone might cut off. 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:43.920 But it's always kind of like going through that shit. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:45.400 But everything is a racket. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:45.760 Yeah. 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:47.760 I think if I were to compete in a pageant today, 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.680 first of all, they wouldn't allow me because I'm too vocal, 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:54.159 But like, I think that my platforms would be a 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:57.200 little bit different. I still obviously love to empower women 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:59.719 and make women feel great about themselves. Everything I do 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:02.880 is for the bitch as always, but there's a lot 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:04.400 more ship out there in this universe. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:06.880 I think at seventeen, I'm trying to think. I think 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.279 for me, it would just be more so like my mom, 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.000 we used to do uh we used to volunteer for 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:15.040 the special Olympics. Yeah that at. 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:16.200 The time that we did it. Yeah, and it would 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:17.360 be like a full day. It was fun. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:18.919 Me and my sisters would go with my mom. She 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.719 really liked us to do that. And then I was 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.040 in all the like clubs in school. So I was 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.120 in the Fellowship of Christian Athletes and. 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:34.840 I listen, don't do that. I was just in all 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:35.120 of the. 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:40.640 School clubs and tutoring and ship because I was smart. Yeah, 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:42.640 so I would just be like that, I'm trying to 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:43.719 help these niggas graduate. 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:45.000 Yeah, I love that. 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:49.760 You know, so many people I got into a pageant today, 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:51.600 I would use it as this little trick to tell 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:58.880 everybody about Palace. Well, that's probably why we're such in 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.320 a political landscape right now. I can't imagine what the 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.920 hell because we can't keep saying world peace. That shit 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:04.520 ain't gonna happen. 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:07.680 Let's be reallyting is soldier dine war bitch? Nobody ever 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:09.960 has to say world peace. But there is a certain 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:13.440 level of political correctness that you have to have. We're 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:16.520 taught First of all, it has taught me so much 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:20.839 about interviewing and like being concise, but it has also 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:23.359 taught me about at the time that you had to 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:26.560 see both sides of every issue, so whether or not, 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.039 you know, if it was anything political, you had to 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.640 appeal to everyone because you're supposed to be everybody's princess. 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:35.159 You're not just one person's princess, and you have to 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:38.159 get an entire group of judges to vote. You should 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:38.720 be their prince. 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:39.200 So you got to be. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:41.400 So you have to be a little bit. 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.239 It's trash. You can't even yourself. 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:44.400 You have to you know. 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:47.880 I recently became cool with el who was Miss Usa? 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.440 Uh huh? Who was she? The first black Miss Usa? No? 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.040 Okay, I know, yeah, yeah, But anyway. 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.400 When I met her, uh went out had jacs. You 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:59.760 went to black Coffee the DJ. I don't I know 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:01.280 if he I think that was a cafe. Yeah, but 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:04.839 we are, And every time I'm around her, I'm like, damn, 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:09.359 she seems so nice, so easy going. Even while having 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:12.240 a drink, attitude didn't change. And I really do think 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.480 people that do pageants kind of just have to have that. 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.000 Even kill you have to you can see how everybody 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:17.480 likes you. 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.440 You have to have a mask. You have to have 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:19.720 a mask. 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:20.520 That sounds miserable. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.200 It took me a long time and a lot of therapy, 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.920 even though it was my first pageant to unlearn and 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:29.920 undo that because it was hindering my work as a TV. 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.000 Yes, wow, it sounds miserable. 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:35.040 Well, that's how I got to find your page again 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:39.960 was through your TV show being on Catfish. Literally I 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:41.440 think it had just been I don't know if it 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:42.880 was modeling shit, But how else. 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:44.800 Do people know you besides Catfish? 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:46.280 A lot of people have been following me since my 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:48.200 missed ten USA day, So since I was seventeen, I'm 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:53.080 thirty two. I was like, I'm grown out, okay, and 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.160 then Catfish was like that was my big break. So 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:57.320 people definitely started knowing me then that. 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:01.360 Grow off Catfish. Bitch, listen, I wrong over do that. 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.400 They needed it, right, They needed it because the two 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.160 white men and one white man left and it was 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:06.920 only one white man. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:10.240 We need some There needed to be any female energy period. 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.240 Actually that's a good point, like it just needed to 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:15.200 There's a certain level of understanding and things that we 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:18.000 can sense that they admitted like as guys, they just 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:18.920 didn't get. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.520 When I was on Twitter at the time, I was 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:21.920 suspended now, but I remember when. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:25.080 You got to know you have a lot of suspensions. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:26.160 I get it. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:27.040 I'm from Florida. 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:28.560 That clears it up. 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:32.760 Yes, But my one tweet about you was people started 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.800 to be like, oh, I'm clicking on her video. I 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.079 don't know if she's gonna be this or that, And 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:39.280 I remember reposting it. But I'll give a fucking that 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:40.840 bitch boring. That's what I want to say. 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:43.280 Oh, I love about it. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.240 When you get to see a win, it doesn't matter 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:46.200 if you know that person or not. 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:47.880 To show we all grew up with so it's like, 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.320 oh wow, I'm just so happy you were part of 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:50.800 that journey. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.679 So we're gonna do some little icebreakers with you. And 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:54.640 this is what I came up with. 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:58.760 This is would you rather but catfish? So I'd like 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.720 to know celebrity crash know you got a man, but 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:05.600 if he can't exist, who would be I don't like anything. 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:06.960 We don't want to hear that ship. 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.720 Here's the thing. I think that after I got into 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.240 certain spaces and you actually see these people in real life, 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:15.280 you're like. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:17.720 Nope, I didn't do that with methad Man. 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.480 Okay, nope, actually not relate. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:21.200 I did not. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:22.360 I cannot relate. 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:22.880 That's crazy. 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.480 I SKEPTI come in a house. DJ made it worse. 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.640 Skepta is fine, boom, here we go. St it is 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:30.880 shorter than me, that's all. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:31.880 So like that. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:37.560 He is not shorter than No, no, no, kept it all. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:45.520 Now you must be you want to show there ain't 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:51.360 no way any man almost says that there's six feet okay, no, 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.760 no subtraction says six foot. He's not six feet tall. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.360 I say this all the time. It's not okay, No, 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.360 I'm not gonna lie. They say, doesn't sent me. 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:03.439 They say that one he is not listen. 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.800 Alanson does not even hit side for the plot. I 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:08.360 didn't know. Fine, so it was small. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.439 I've never seen the man face to face, I think, 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.559 because I know he's not tall enough. 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:22.320 Fine six two on his profile. And y'all were about 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:26.719 to meet instead, you know you're about to get catfished. 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:30.079 What would be your best catfish scenario? A A really 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:34.959 hot woman or B a five foot one version of skeptic. 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:36.959 That's hilarious to her. 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:42.440 That might be already well I mean yeah, I mean yeah, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:48.120 I don't you know. I'm not into girls, so even 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.559 if you are a hot woman, I might want to 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:51.040 put my hands on you. So I think that it 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:52.400 would be better if he was five one. 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:53.480 Wow. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:54.880 Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:55.720 You really want. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.200 Oh my god? You know it's unfortunate. 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:02.239 On Wikipedia. 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:06.960 It's so unfortunate because I love it for everybody else. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.640 Like one of my best friends who's a lesbian, when 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:11.680 she first like broke up with her husband, got with 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:12.160 her first bitch. 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:14.240 I was like, bitch, tell me everything. She started telling 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.600 me everything. I was like, that doesn't sound like fun. 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:21.400 I also really appreciate straight girls that you know, how 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.800 people are so fluid or maybe just in the ethos 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:25.719 where in But I had a conversation with a girl 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:28.200 who told me she was bisexual. And this is also 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:32.960 something that is not as PC to say, right, she's 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:35.280 never had sex with a woman, she's thirty, okay, but 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:37.800 she said she's bisexual. I was like, see, right, curious, 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.080 She's like, no, I'm bisexual. I'm not going to debate 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:42.480 her sexuality because I have definitely been gay men that 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:43.000 never had. 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:43.439 Sex with a man. 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:49.520 Yeah, but I do think sometimes women can get attraction 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:53.320 to women and just boom on bisexual now and or 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:55.480 get this label. Or it's really easy to have this 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:58.040 fluidity in a time where it's so welcome. So sometimes 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.480 I do kind of like hearing a girl being like 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:00.240 I don't want to but. 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.360 I know I don't. I just know. I just know 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:05.439 I wouldn't be very good at it. I think I 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:07.200 would be great at it if I wanted to do it, 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.439 but I don't want to do it, So. 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:09.360 You don't have to do anything. 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:12.360 I'll just show up so anyway, like, I'll just be 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:14.960 air and I'll be like, girl, I just you know 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.880 I love my puss, okay, And that's the only one 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:19.520 you could say. 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:25.800 That's it for me. I'm good And unfortunately, yes I'm 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:26.320 not gonna lie. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.600 I be mad at myself that I'm by How do 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:29.400 I like these niggas? 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:32.800 I don't upset. I don't wanted to on my motherfucker. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.839 This is I myself, Like, damn, why is my monm 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.200 like this? 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:36.920 I don't even want you. 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.320 I'm waiting for the aliens to come, is why I 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:43.240 say all the time, waiting. Being queer is not a choice. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.240 It's not because being straight is not a choice because 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.560 if I had a choice, you think. 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:55.440 That I would choose you. Man? Well, sorry, sorry, in 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:58.880 a room full of men, realize we hate that we love. 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:01.480 I say this to my man all the time. I'm 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:03.480 too you. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:05.280 See. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.679 The thing that's interesting is, uh so, Mandy and I 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.199 are writing this book and our co writer is helping, 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:13.600 and she talked about how I talk about my ex 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.560 girlfriend and every chapter and she's like, it's actually your 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:19.360 nicest chapter about someone, and I was like, because that 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:21.559 was the healthiest relationship, and that bit drove with me 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:25.440 writings nown but like, women really treat each other better. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.360 Moments where we would get angry and maybe say things 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:33.760 we didn't mean. Immediate accountability, Like it's so much easier 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.959 because you're not trying to break down and having someone 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:38.880 understand your feelings that I would say is the baseline 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:40.040 for a lesbian relationship. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:40.520 That helps. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:44.440 There can be miscommunication, but understanding the emotions really helps. 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.800 That's what gets women hurt a lot. Yeah, I feel 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.040 like someone's mistreating you women know when. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.760 Or like purposefully misunderstanding whatever you're trying to say. 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.280 I do just because we have so many male listeners 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:59.560 and I'm recently experiencing something new with actor Bay. It's 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:02.880 been a breath of fresh air to have met someone 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:05.800 so emotionally intelligent. Like we haven't had sex and we 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:08.000 haven't met yet, but nigga, we don't both cry to 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:08.880 each other on the phone. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.200 Wow, we don't talked about our traumas. 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.240 We didn't talk like, we didn't debate it pop cultry 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.720 and it's just like whoa Like even yesterday, I had 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:17.120 a long day because I had to be on set 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:19.920 and he hit me and he's on West Coast time, 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:22.080 but he hit me and he said, listen, I don't 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:23.480 want you to think I'm ignoring you today. 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:25.000 It's a really bad day for me. 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.440 And so just before I could even feel like, he 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:30.200 just goes to me because we be talking for two 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:31.840 three hours on the phone every day. 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:35.480 He oh wow, I done got drunk and called him 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:38.640 cry like we've done hoard our hearts and our trauma. 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.320 So I'm gonna be knowing birthdays. I don't do the 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:47.240 sign talk, so I haven't done that he has what 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:49.320 is his birthday? Let me? 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:50.400 I love female? 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:53.680 Because I could I can actually google? 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:58.680 Are you No? I think I could not. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.160 I think it's I think it's been interesting. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:05.040 Like, I know, we have this idea that men a 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.480 lot of men aren't, let's be very, but the ones 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:10.560 that are that emotionally in tune or find safety in 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:13.480 opening up to us as women, it becomes a different 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:16.920 level of attachment in chemistry that to me, I'm just like, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.520 I'm a little scared to fuck him because then what 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.920 what if the dick's bad? I've already like I'm right now, 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:24.680 I'm a little I'm not gonna lie. Man. You need 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.960 to meet him quick. Oh, I'm gonna meet him next month, 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:36.840 So one, two, okay, six one or two? He actually 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:38.640 we'll see. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:40.680 I'm gonna meet him with flats. 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.480 Just to be safe. You are five, don't do this. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.720 I am when I put on heels, I am, I am, 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:52.080 thank you. I am six four with hills flat. 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:57.560 You are the flat this we're okay. So I'm gonna 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:58.720 get into our Vanella show. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:00.360 Wait when is when is? 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:03.360 Let me see you don't say it that low? What 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:04.120 sign is that? 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:09.640 Oh he's a taurust Oh you're going oh. 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.720 Yes, okay, don't get it an argument. My ex girlfriend's tourists. 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.520 My current boyfriend's a taurists. Tis because my ex girlfriend 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.600 of the same tourists are great. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.400 Oh yeah, that's too much. 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:22.120 I beleeve that far. 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:27.280 I'm already like, okay, there's too much there. The bitch 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:28.240 just narrow to day. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:35.520 Nobody got time for that. Don't be We're just gonna 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:37.600 keep saying the thing we're bleeping out. 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:42.520 Oh sorry, this is anyway I got it. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.600 Does anyone remember the Joe Biden thing with the sister 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:51.440 and the brother. 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:54.720 In law something, Yes, one of the niggas died and 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:56.080 then he started sucking on the wife. 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.280 Yes, yes, for like Joe Biden's brother. 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:02.000 I think died or no, one of some died and 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:03.480 then the brother took over the. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:05.080 Band it started taking fucking the wife. 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:09.159 So okay, let me explain this to the audience, like 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:11.760 we are real podcasters here, well in our vanilla shit 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:13.760 this week, that's actually not what we're talking about. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:14.640 But we are talking. 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.679 About a widow, a grieving widow who was praised for 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.119 sleeping with her brother in law in a total mess. 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.880 So she went on a website called Mom's Net. Oh 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:25.199 asked his sons, by the way, So it was the 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:26.199 sons of Joe Biden. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:31.119