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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Adam,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome, Hey, thank you so much for having

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Speaker 1: me our pleasure waiting by the phone. Of course, what's

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Speaker 1: going on with this woman, Kelly? And give us all

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Speaker 1: how you guys met, how things went, and what's going

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely so.

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Speaker 3: My buddy Sam set me up on this day with Kelly,

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Speaker 3: he really sold her to me right, like good looking, fit, accessful, driven,

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Speaker 3: and more like we got cocktails, we got drinks, We

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Speaker 3: five hour dates like it was fantastic. We were texting afterwards,

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Speaker 3: and then suddenly a couple of days later, just wham,

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Speaker 3: nothing like total silence, total ghosts. And there were so

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Speaker 3: many good signs leading up to that, and I have

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this, you know, this drink could have been

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Speaker 1: an hour with a couple or this date. Rather it

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Speaker 1: and said is five hours long, Which that's a really

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Speaker 3: Honestly, Like I even have like a friend who sometimes

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Speaker 3: a good date. But that there was no nothing like

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Speaker 2: Were so nice.

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Speaker 1: You didn't get into like something you'd like to do

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Speaker 3: There's the little thing about fingers, but that was about it. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: may save us a time. No, okay, So let's call

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Speaker 2: All right, okay, sounds good to me.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back and

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Speaker 1: do it. Hang on, Adam, let's see what's going on

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show, TikTok, Adam, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call Kelly. You guys, you had a five hour first date.

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Speaker 1: You thought it went great, you were even texting afterwards,

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Speaker 2: I'd really be interested to know. All right, let's call

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Speaker 2: her now. Good luck, he Hi, This is Kelly Kelly.

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Speaker 1: Good morning Fred from the Fred Show. Everybody is here

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Speaker 1: starry to bother. But I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: Is that a yes? That's an okay, Yes, that's a yes.

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Speaker 1: a guy named Adam. Who you got I think you got? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well he reached out to us and described really

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Speaker 1: He said, lots of chatting, and you guys were texting

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Speaker 2: So what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 4: But he he lied, I mean he lied about who

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Speaker 1: He lied about who he was. How did he do that?

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Speaker 1: Is his name not Adam?

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Speaker 2: Sam? And who is and I know, I that's my friend.

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Speaker 1: the way, Adam is here, Kelly, Adam, you know each other.

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Speaker 1: Mean, you liked him, You liked him just a face

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Speaker 4: Well I still do, so you know. And yes, people

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Speaker 1: If you're going to be mad at anyone, I would

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Speaker 2: And I thought you would think that he would say, like, hey,

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Speaker 4: Kind of like do I mean, I'm sure Adam maybe

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Like I think too, Like if you guys, if you

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Speaker 5: I think that changes.

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Speaker 2: Things because it was casual.

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Speaker 5: Exactly, And I don't think it's a really I don't

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Speaker 5: think it's important fact that you had to disclose in

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Speaker 1: But frankly, Kelly and you kind of I think you

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Speaker 1: the issue, really, I think for you is that he's fluid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think that you should have been disclosed to me. Really,

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Speaker 4: I just yeah, I think it's one is gay.

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Speaker 1: They they I.

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Speaker 4: Should know before I go on a date with them.

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Speaker 3: Well, Look, I am not gay, if anything, I am

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Speaker 3: by I'm sexually fluid, and I honestly I really prefer women,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we've had people on waiting by the phone

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Speaker 2: I think that's unfair. I don't want that though.

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Speaker 4: That's time for me, so I think that should have

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, and he doesn't want to go

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Speaker 1: on the same page. So Adam, thank you for sharing

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Speaker 1: your story. Kelly, thank you for your time as well.

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