Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, everybody,
Speaker 1: we are scrubbing.
Speaker 2: In grub dub dub in the tub, tub tub.
Speaker 1: The whole gang is in the steel. Hello. That's all
Speaker 1: four of us.
Speaker 3: We have a new number too. We Do you see her?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I know what you're talking about. I know who you're
Speaker 4: talking about.
Speaker 5: Oh, Tanya has a blemish.
Speaker 1: Her normally perfect skin.
Speaker 3: This is a giant.
Speaker 1: That literally would disappear with concealer like you, that's so easy?
Speaker 4: Have you named her?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I have to say what you know? Your jaws looking snatched?
Speaker 3: Really swear swear you guys. The mouth tape.
Speaker 2: I saw somebody post this on TikTok the other day
Speaker 2: and I'm like so pissed. I didn't get the before video,
Speaker 2: but they did like a video that their side profile like,
Speaker 2: and then a video month and a half after using
Speaker 2: mouth tape every night, and like, the difference was significant.
Speaker 1: Do you think that it's improving your side that you
Speaker 1: don't like as much? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I do like.
Speaker 1: Multi side, like you can do any You're amidextrous on
Speaker 1: wich side.
Speaker 3: Yeah, why now I'm equally gorgeous.
Speaker 1: So like you're telling me that like when you go
Speaker 1: to when we do the rehearsal for the wedding, you
Speaker 1: could shoot stand on either side.
Speaker 2: I will be standing on the right side of the aisle.
Speaker 2: Or wait, when you look at the aisle, I'll be
Speaker 2: on the left.
Speaker 1: No, that's confusing. If we're looking at you up there,
Speaker 1: what side of your face? Are we seeing my right side?
Speaker 4: Okay, oh, so you're on the left facing Robbie. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: if you're normal, isn't that standard?
Speaker 3: No, I think it's actually the opposite. I feel like
Speaker 3: the girls usually.
Speaker 1: I'm seeing it done every which way because now that
Speaker 1: I don't know what the tradition is anymore, but now
Speaker 1: the girls get to choose their side. That now that
Speaker 1: we have women's rights, yes, choose one side we prefer.
Speaker 4: In traditional Christian weddings with the bride and groom, couples
Speaker 4: typically follow the rule of the bride standing on the
Speaker 4: left of.
Speaker 3: The of the aisle, like if you're.
Speaker 4: If you're in the congregation looking up, you're on the
Speaker 4: left the right spot.
Speaker 5: It's back to the Middle Ages, so that the groom
Speaker 5: can have his right arm free for his sword to protect.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm going to be in the traditional spot.
Speaker 4: Now I know what to get Robbie.
Speaker 1: Okay, the beard growth is completed, I'm assuming.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gone. It's gone. So now on day like
Speaker 3: fifteen or something.
Speaker 1: So what did we land on?
Speaker 2: So I asked if he could trim it back down
Speaker 2: to one and we could try one more time, because
Speaker 2: now I think I know it's either four or five
Speaker 2: or six. It's like in that window.
Speaker 4: People say you're high maintenance. I don't get it.
Speaker 3: I don't either.
Speaker 1: Fillailla, No, you've yeah, you've been quite yeah most for
Speaker 1: the most part. Pretty chill.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just had a burrito. The size of my face.
Speaker 1: Makes you chill.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I'm not on like a crazy wedding diet.
Speaker 3: Like I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm your standard is quite like your standard lifestyle would
Speaker 1: be my wedding. Your live zone would be like my intense,
Speaker 1: rigid wedding die if I were to do one.
Speaker 4: You met the burrita where it was every time I
Speaker 4: looked over with her, she was fully bent over the
Speaker 4: top of her head. This bit her face was like
Speaker 4: a centimeter from the plate.
Speaker 3: Wow. I don't know what got into me, but I
Speaker 3: was so hungry.
Speaker 1: You know what, I went to bed last night. So
Speaker 1: here's the thing. If I gardened too early, then.
Speaker 3: I gardened last night. Yeah by yourself.
Speaker 1: I gardened by myself every night.
Speaker 3: Do you garden every night every night? But we should
Speaker 3: call somebody?
Speaker 1: No, I take like two milligrams, Like it's like nothing.
Speaker 3: I know, but it's like having one glass of wine
Speaker 3: every night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't do it every night.
Speaker 3: I'll do five out seven nights. How many nights we
Speaker 3: talk in I.
Speaker 1: Would say like two or three depending on the week.
Speaker 3: No chance?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: What do I feel like every time I talk to
Speaker 3: your gardening?
Speaker 1: You only talk to me once this week? And where
Speaker 1: I was gardening anyway?
Speaker 4: Should you have a giant hat out with gloves on,
Speaker 4: like weeding? Like I did. It took me thirty seconds,
Speaker 4: but I got there, okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're not allowed to talk about that one
Speaker 1: Like the internet on social media, that's who I don't know.
Speaker 1: It gets your hoard it all the time. So that's
Speaker 1: how it got transported to gardening. Oh, for those of
Speaker 1: you who think I'm in a hat in the garden,
Speaker 1: I actually took just a little gummy to.
Speaker 5: Chill recreational thhcs right completely legal in California, and I
Speaker 5: think most places I.
Speaker 1: Wish I was in the garden though, because I would
Speaker 1: love to have a green thumb like that, I have
Speaker 1: a green thumb in another way.
Speaker 2: Anyways, I can't think about getting one of those towers
Speaker 2: by the way, you know those towers that people putting.
Speaker 3: They're like, I'm just gonna go make myself a.
Speaker 2: Salad and just like pulled the You should do that,
Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, I know, let me know when it goes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll take that one after that. Anyways, I
Speaker 1: took one too early, and so then I'm laying in
Speaker 1: bed and I'm what I swear my phone knows when
Speaker 1: I take one, because all of a sudden, all I'm
Speaker 1: seeing are taco bell like bongs like crumble cookies, bombs
Speaker 1: like milk bongs or something.
Speaker 4: It's people eating loudly.
Speaker 1: Oh no, but yeah kind of.
Speaker 4: I know. It was like a visual asmr I guess,
Speaker 4: and like.
Speaker 1: If I'm in person with someone in there chewing like that,
Speaker 1: I need to leave the room. It makes me so angry.
Speaker 1: But for some reason, when I'm watching it on my phone,
Speaker 1: I would love end and when I'm garden, when I'm
Speaker 1: not gardening anytime. I love them, but anyways, specifically when
Speaker 1: I'm in that position and they come up, it's it's
Speaker 1: so hard. And I was I had my taco bell
Speaker 1: order like ready to hit delivered now. I was like,
Speaker 1: are you going to feel better? Are you going to
Speaker 1: feel good in the morning if you do this right
Speaker 1: now at eleven PM? And I said, no, you're not.
Speaker 1: So I went to bed, but I was starving and
Speaker 1: I didn't sleep well, so I wish I had done
Speaker 1: it regrets, So there was no regrets. Most people would
Speaker 1: say the opposite, like they would do it, and then
Speaker 1: they'd be like, man, I shouldn't have done that.
Speaker 4: But you were in a no win situation if you
Speaker 4: if you'd have pounded down a bunch of taco bell,
Speaker 4: you just slept with a rock and your bell, you
Speaker 4: would have slept well. Either might have not. I say,
Speaker 4: the fact that you were hungry to eleven me didn't
Speaker 4: plan properly. You were already in no one situation.
Speaker 1: I think you're right. I wish I had, just I don't.
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep and then phoebe you guys, I don't
Speaker 1: know what to do about the cough. She coughed all night.
Speaker 1: I woke up at four, couldn't go back to sleep
Speaker 1: for a little trasy no, like nothing.
Speaker 3: Are kind of crazy, yeah, makes sunny, sleepy, sleepy.
Speaker 1: But also crazy. Anyways, I don't know what to do anymore,
Speaker 1: So I woke up in a mood.
Speaker 2: Get this breakfast brito that I just got because let
Speaker 2: me tell you, that, boy, was.
Speaker 1: My whole point was that I got up. I made
Speaker 1: a breakfast burrito, and it improved my mood.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I wish I would have asked you to bring
Speaker 2: me one, probably than the one that I had.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well yes, probably more simple, but and made with love.
Speaker 1: Definitely made with love. Yeah, I'm gonna do that for
Speaker 1: all of us one day. I don't forget bacon hash browns.
Speaker 3: Wow, is t thank you? Tabitha's talking rosy my pimple?
Speaker 3: Yeah we Tabitha. It's totally a tabby.
Speaker 1: Why is it?
Speaker 3: Tabitha just looks like a Tabitha?
Speaker 4: How about he?
Speaker 2: You know what I realize, Becca, Your teeth are those
Speaker 2: your real teeth?
Speaker 3: Like how you're crazy? Your teeth are.
Speaker 2: Like like her teeth are like, it's crazy. They're not
Speaker 2: only perfect size, they're a great color, and they're perfectly aligned,
Speaker 2: like there is not an imperfection on your teeth.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've all talked about it.
Speaker 2: People probably pay a lot of money to have their
Speaker 2: teeth look like that. I realized all the people on
Speaker 2: Love Island UK, a lot of them have veneers. I've
Speaker 2: been really into teeth lately. I don't know, but they
Speaker 2: all have these perfect teeth.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what the heck?
Speaker 2: And then one of them made a joke about his
Speaker 2: veneer and I was like, oh, is.
Speaker 4: That because you're getting some teeth work done?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I have one right now, right here. It's
Speaker 3: a fake.
Speaker 1: It's like a it's like the temp.
Speaker 2: Yea temp until I get like my real one put on.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so now I'm just like very into Well.
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy is when I was on the Bachelor.
Speaker 1: I went on the Bachelor being like, I was so calm,
Speaker 1: I had no I was just not self conscious about anything.
Speaker 1: And then I go on the Bachelor and it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, you have like millions of people watching, and
Speaker 1: then they're commenting on everything about you and someone I'll
Speaker 1: never forget someone tweeted Becca's been Becca got her veneers
Speaker 1: too big for her face? Or too big for her mouth.
Speaker 2: Then why she thought they were fake because they're so good.
Speaker 1: Wow, thank you so much, and like they all the.
Speaker 3: Front ones just go forward.
Speaker 4: Look at that. Did you have braces growing up?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Did you wear your retainer at night?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: How do they not move?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I don't, but I wore my So I got my
Speaker 1: braces off in eighth grade. I wore my retainer. I'm
Speaker 1: talking religiously. It was Uh, I had the bottom and
Speaker 1: the top removal until I went on the Bachelor. Oh
Speaker 1: that's so I was very committed.
Speaker 3: That's the key. Dang, But thank.
Speaker 1: You so much for noting. How long have we been friends.
Speaker 3: I've always noticed.
Speaker 2: I've always loved your smile, but I think now I'm
Speaker 2: like particular particularly attuned to it because of my my
Speaker 2: uh my fakey, the old fake, the old fake.
Speaker 1: We are approaching the event of twenty twenty five quickly, rapidly.
Speaker 4: Those are going to be sweet.
Speaker 1: You know one of the oscars.
Speaker 4: Mark the wards.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The wedding's coming.
Speaker 3: Quick quick, she is coming.
Speaker 1: How are we feeling ready?
Speaker 3: Every day?
Speaker 2: It's like a new something. It's a lot of stress.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's why Tabitha has come.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 3: It does make sense, but we got to.
Speaker 1: Compact. We can't be having a tabby on wedding.
Speaker 3: Oh off the time.
Speaker 2: But like, what I also realize is people are like
Speaker 2: really nice when you get married. Like my my esthetician
Speaker 2: is coming to my wedding and she offered to like
Speaker 2: give me a face sculpting the morning of my wedding.
Speaker 1: Is so nice?
Speaker 3: How nice is that?
Speaker 1: First of all, this is a note invite your ESTI
Speaker 1: to your wedding.
Speaker 2: I know, I'm like, I've never had a face sculpting,
Speaker 2: and yes, I absolutely want that one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: You will definitely be able to stand on either side
Speaker 1: with a face sculpting.
Speaker 2: Unless side like a I don't even know what it is.
Speaker 2: It's like just her hands.
Speaker 1: But wow, yeah, good to note, Right, that's a good note.
Speaker 1: I know the Bachelorette is this weekend. Tanya still doesn't
Speaker 1: know where we're going.
Speaker 2: But you know, it's so cute what Paulina sent me
Speaker 2: a screenshot of a phone conversation that she and Becca
Speaker 2: had and it lasted over an hour.
Speaker 3: How cute is that?
Speaker 4: This is just the planning phone call?
Speaker 3: I get, I'm assuming that's what they were doing.
Speaker 1: We're just chit chatting.
Speaker 4: No, that.
Speaker 2: They were just chit chatting, I would be jealous. But
Speaker 2: the fact that they were on the phone planning my
Speaker 2: bacherette is like the cute People don't prepare you when
Speaker 2: you get married for like these little things that like
Speaker 2: make you so emotional. Like she sent me that screenshot
Speaker 2: and it made me want to cry because it's like,
Speaker 2: you two aren't necessarily friends, but you're like coming together
Speaker 2: to do this for me, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Point, I'm not saying your enemies by any means you.
Speaker 1: Are our connector yeah, connectors.
Speaker 2: And also, like when people send in their rscps, like
Speaker 2: I'll get emotional getting some of them because I'm like
Speaker 2: some of these people live so far away, and I'm
Speaker 2: like I can't believe they're like flying all this way,
Speaker 2: like and it's like makes me want to cry. Like
Speaker 2: I'm like, every day there's something that's like making me cry.
Speaker 3: That's very weird. Nobody prepares you for that stuff that.
Speaker 1: Makes sense, does it?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 1: No, I think it makes sense that that would affect
Speaker 1: you emotionally like people should, because I think people I
Speaker 1: think people showing up is like the most emotional thing
Speaker 1: that people that someone can do for you, And I
Speaker 1: think putting in the time and the effort and the
Speaker 1: money to like come and specifically celebrate you and your
Speaker 1: love story, I imagine that would feel very overwhelming.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's exactly it. It makes you cry, but that's
Speaker 3: what I also feel like. I didn't expect to be
Speaker 3: so emotionally charged by the nose too.
Speaker 2: Like I thought, if people are even no, I like whatever,
Speaker 2: But like I think because we kept our guest list
Speaker 2: so tight, like we didn't invite. There wasn't anybody that
Speaker 2: we invited that we didn't want to come, you know
Speaker 2: how like some people do that. So the nose I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I thought we were closer than that.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Oh they feel heavy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, heavier than I imagined.
Speaker 1: Interesting because I always thought I would kind of be
Speaker 1: like all right, like if I did a smaller intimate
Speaker 1: wedding than if people couldn't go be like okay, moving
Speaker 1: on to my next That's what.
Speaker 2: I thought, too, and I took it so Robbie's like,
Speaker 2: you can't take it personal, babe, Like it's a flight,
Speaker 2: it's a hotel, it's a lot.
Speaker 3: I don't like if it.
Speaker 1: Was in La and they were local adjacent and they
Speaker 1: didn't come. Then it's like, okay, dang, you can't show
Speaker 1: up for me. But you know, a destination wedding, you're
Speaker 1: always gonna risk people not being able to whether it's
Speaker 1: money or time, whatever it is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody ever prays you for those emotions.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, And I imagine your philm just whirlwinds, just yeah,
Speaker 1: really high eyes, really low lows were the plan for
Speaker 1: the boudoir shoot? Do you have did you order your stuff?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have some laingerie which had a faguret. When
Speaker 3: we're gonna do it.
Speaker 1: Well, do you want to do it at the bachelorette
Speaker 1: with everybody?
Speaker 3: Well, you gotta tell me now, because I gotta get
Speaker 3: a spray tan.
Speaker 1: I think I might do a spray tan. Really, you're
Speaker 1: self tanned. I might not go to the links of
Speaker 1: getting a spray tan, but I might do a self tanner.
Speaker 3: I do a boir photo shoot. Raw dogs like that
Speaker 3: is something that I'm not doing.
Speaker 1: Married, raw Dog.
Speaker 6: I know, I can't.
Speaker 2: Believe I'm getting married raw dog like that is crazy?
Speaker 3: Like that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's a spray tan artist in Mexico?
Speaker 1: Is that too risky?
Speaker 3: Feels risky. Feels risky.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna we're gonna do spray tan for the
Speaker 1: boudoir shoot, but wedding, yeah, well then I would take
Speaker 1: it as spray tann like today or tomorrow. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: if you can, if not do self tanner.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if you want to do it
Speaker 1: at the bachelorette and you have the lingerie, then I
Speaker 1: think we do it with all the girls and make
Speaker 1: it a thing.
Speaker 3: You're gonna bring your camera like my little.
Speaker 1: Point and shoot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, where are we going? Huh? Where are we
Speaker 3: going this weekend?
Speaker 1: You'll know when we get there.
Speaker 3: I try to trigger.
Speaker 1: It was very good. I had to avoid this so much.
Speaker 1: Everything I say, I'm like, she's trying to get something out.
Speaker 4: Going to blindfold her in transit.
Speaker 1: That could be fun. I thought about that.
Speaker 3: That's why I don't understand how long is the gig
Speaker 3: going to be?
Speaker 1: The gig was going to be till we got to
Speaker 1: the airport.
Speaker 3: We're going to the airport. We're going to an airport.
Speaker 3: Maybe she's scared. Look at her, She's like, we're a
Speaker 3: do an airport.
Speaker 4: Maybe, well, that's what I was thinking. If you were
Speaker 4: to go to an airport, you know, hypothetically, that's when
Speaker 4: it's going to get spoiled.
Speaker 1: Right. Here's the thing I asked her. I asked her
Speaker 1: about the car situation. If she'd rather be like all
Speaker 1: together crammed or do separate cars so that everyone fits comfortably.
Speaker 1: And so I guess what I chose. She said she
Speaker 1: could sit on my lap, And I said, but what
Speaker 1: if I'm driving like she can't. So anyways, if we
Speaker 1: did a blindfold for that, that could be like car
Speaker 1: like okay. But the other option is she just waits
Speaker 1: in season we get there because I don't know, I
Speaker 1: feel like you get carsick.
Speaker 3: Oh you were going to blindfold me in the car.
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking, Like, really, keep it just
Speaker 1: till we arrive.
Speaker 2: Because if we get to Alaska Airlines, I know we're
Speaker 2: going to Alaska.
Speaker 4: I really hope it's alast because you could go even
Speaker 4: one step further you get, but you're plugs in a blindfold,
Speaker 4: like even on the plane if there's a plane involved. Traffic, Yeah,
Speaker 4: she's been traffic. But still it could be fun because
Speaker 4: if you all are wearing t hours and stuff.
Speaker 1: People part of the bath the meta quest virtual reality
Speaker 1: on there.
Speaker 2: Now, that would make me sick. That would make me sick.
Speaker 2: I'd rather a blindfold and headphones.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, even if it's a distance.
Speaker 3: How long of a distance?
Speaker 1: She?
Speaker 4: That'd be fun if you're on a plane and you
Speaker 4: didn't know where you were going. I can't even imagine
Speaker 4: that because it announce it.
Speaker 1: What about if you're in the car and she gets ill,
Speaker 1: which I guess you could. Once we get to a
Speaker 1: certain place, we could take it off, because then she
Speaker 1: wouldn't really know exactly where we're going.
Speaker 4: If you're just on open highway, she might not know.
Speaker 4: But also she might not get cars. Who knows? You
Speaker 4: guys are singing having stick.
Speaker 1: In the at Disneyland on the right.
Speaker 3: I do. But I feel like we're going to an airport.
Speaker 1: You'll find out on Friday.
Speaker 4: Very exciting.
Speaker 3: It's so exciting and so stressful too.
Speaker 1: We sent her packing list which is.
Speaker 3: Very what uh, autonomous, that's the right word.
Speaker 1: Is like.
Speaker 2: Conspicuous, undiscernible.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, we're getting closer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean.
Speaker 2: If we're going somewhere that's cold and you want me
Speaker 2: to wear a slutty bright colored outfit? Do I need
Speaker 2: a coat?
Speaker 1: I would? I would always the coat on the list.
Speaker 3: No, no coat, but sweaters.
Speaker 1: Would I would have a coat to be prepared.
Speaker 4: Alaska's chilly this time?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have a coach just for tights. I
Speaker 1: mean no, because if we're like indoors for the sluttiness,
Speaker 1: then you don't need that. But if we if we
Speaker 1: go out, you will probably want to coat.
Speaker 3: Coat, Like, are we going to New York?
Speaker 1: You'll find out.
Speaker 3: I'm driving me crazy.
Speaker 1: Anyways, we had some feedback on the Danny Austin and
Speaker 1: Amanda Stanton motherhood.
Speaker 2: Stanton herself even responded, which honestly.
Speaker 3: Is an honor, Well.
Speaker 1: We are going to talk about that after we take
Speaker 1: a break. All right, we're back. Tanya's still trying to
Speaker 1: guess where we're going.
Speaker 3: I know it's not Napa.
Speaker 2: Why because I think Robbie was trying to throw me
Speaker 2: off and he was like, so I said something about wine.
Speaker 2: He was like, well, no, you could always like she
Speaker 2: loves like drinking wine all day and that's what you
Speaker 2: do in Napa.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: I was like okay, I like, no, I know it's
Speaker 2: not Napa.
Speaker 1: You literally have no idea where we're going I'll tell
Speaker 1: you that much. You have no idea.
Speaker 3: It's not something I've guessed.
Speaker 2: No, no, lie, No, that's crazy because I've guessed a
Speaker 2: lot of places I know, and that's not any of
Speaker 2: my guests. No, what.
Speaker 1: So fun? Okay, So Danny Austin versus Amanda Stanton, but
Speaker 1: not really verse Amanda Stan or like and a man.
Speaker 2: I just would like to say, everybody said that Becca
Speaker 2: is going to be an Amanda stan and Tanya is
Speaker 2: going to be a Danny Austin, and I found.
Speaker 3: That quite rude. Oh wow, really no, not really, but
Speaker 3: it's very true. Actually.
Speaker 1: I just the consistent thing that I see, no matter
Speaker 1: who it is or what they show, is that the
Speaker 1: first few weeks and months of motherhood you're just like
Speaker 1: in a daze. It's like, how do I even shower myself?
Speaker 1: I haven't brushed my hair. Even people that I feel
Speaker 1: like are so put together say that. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: I think it's just those first few weeks and months
Speaker 1: are just chaos. Yeah, but Amanda even commented and said,
Speaker 1: ha ha ha, I'm a Danny sometimes too, though.
Speaker 3: Well I don't believe it. I don't see it.
Speaker 2: It's not true, and I'm yet to see that from
Speaker 2: Amanda Sam.
Speaker 1: But I don't know that I would show that. I
Speaker 1: mean I would probably talk about like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: you guys like no one prepares you. But I don't
Speaker 1: know that i'd show it.
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, yeah, because I.
Speaker 1: Would show it, I know. I think that's really more
Speaker 1: so what people meant about, like you'd be a Dannie Alson,
Speaker 1: I'd be a aman U huh huh.
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, yeah, because.
Speaker 1: I I don't want to scare people, but I'll talk
Speaker 1: about it being hard.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.
Speaker 2: So we went to Disneyland over the weekend for Pauline's
Speaker 2: half marathon. Oh yeah, and I've been checking my abulation
Speaker 2: every day, just like peeing on a stick, and the
Speaker 2: morning of the marathon, I like i'd been getting like
Speaker 2: not whatever the thing is. It's also again not the
Speaker 2: happy and sad face. It's like these two lines and
Speaker 2: if like the darker one is in front and you're
Speaker 2: you're ovulating that the darker ones in the back.
Speaker 3: I know, it's so weird.
Speaker 2: It's like here's to a plus or minus, right.
Speaker 3: So I kept peeing.
Speaker 2: I was peeing for like five days and it was
Speaker 2: just like the same thing so I was like, what
Speaker 2: the heck is it?
Speaker 3: Are these things? Do these things even work?
Speaker 2: And then the morning of the marathon, I peed on
Speaker 2: the stick and it was like on the right way, like,
Speaker 2: today's your ovulation.
Speaker 3: Nobody prepares you for that excitement either. I was like,
Speaker 3: yeah the day.
Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, is that exciting? You're not trying at this point?
Speaker 2: No, But now I like know that these things work.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I mean I think that they were.
Speaker 4: And now now you know what day am I cycled?
Speaker 4: The next one will be?
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, So I'll chest the theory next month
Speaker 2: and see if it's the same.
Speaker 4: That's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so exciting. Wow.
Speaker 1: Knowledge is power, Knowledge is power. That's beautiful. Did you watch?
Speaker 1: Did we watch the Grammys?
Speaker 3: I watched for seventeen hours.
Speaker 4: Tanya put it best. She described the Grammys Monday morning.
Speaker 2: She said, the great parts were really great, but it
Speaker 2: was way too long.
Speaker 1: It always is.
Speaker 4: I agree, but the great parts were awesome, but a
Speaker 4: couple of times I just had to walk away.
Speaker 1: I mean, Chapel's performance phenomenal. Isn't it crazy? Because there's
Speaker 1: such a aside from Taylor Switch, Like, you don't see
Speaker 1: a ton of reaction from the crowd like participating in anything,
Speaker 1: and you could hear them like singing the song back
Speaker 1: to her. It felt a concert.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 4: I love stuff like I don't know why this lookscites
Speaker 4: me at my age, because it shouldn't, but I that
Speaker 4: makes me excited. Like we'd never heard of Chapel Roone
Speaker 4: at last year's Grammys, and this year she's having a
Speaker 4: moment like that. I find that out.
Speaker 3: I find her. I don't know how I feel about.
Speaker 1: Her interesting why because.
Speaker 2: I know that people like that she like is raw
Speaker 2: and honest and real. But to me, there's something so
Speaker 2: annoying about like being a struggling artist making it huge,
Speaker 2: make being the biggest pop star of the year, and
Speaker 2: then saying like I wish I don't win a Grammy
Speaker 2: and like I don't like this, but yet it's still
Speaker 2: doing it, do you know what I mean? Likes there's
Speaker 2: an ungratefulness to it that like is rubbing me in
Speaker 2: a certain way.
Speaker 1: I get that, and I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: feel that way. But I also think she does it
Speaker 1: for I literally think she's an artist, Like I think
Speaker 1: she does it for the love of music and art.
Speaker 1: I don't think she's doing it for the awards, or
Speaker 1: that I.
Speaker 3: To show up to the Grammar if that's really what
Speaker 3: how she's like.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Are there's I think she's very vocal and like wants
Speaker 1: to be outspoken, and she wants things to be fair.
Speaker 1: And I think what she said about the record labels
Speaker 1: and everything is like so important. Yes, But I think
Speaker 1: there's times where she probably says things and it's like,
Speaker 1: oh she I think she just speaks and says.
Speaker 3: But she said it multiple times that.
Speaker 2: She doesn't want a Grammy, she doesn't want the Grammy,
Speaker 2: that she doesn't like being famous.
Speaker 4: I wish that's it's interesting. I don't think any of
Speaker 4: us wouldn't. I don't think any of us know how
Speaker 4: do we react to sudden global fame, right from complete
Speaker 4: anonymity to I can't go to the grocery store any I've.
Speaker 1: Never seen anyone have this shift in a career, like
Speaker 1: go from where like she's been in the industry for
Speaker 1: eleven years, but to go from this like opening artist
Speaker 1: touring like these small venues to being the biggest artist
Speaker 1: in the world in one year feels like I don't
Speaker 1: even think we could grasp that.
Speaker 4: And some people handled like. I felt like Billie Eilish
Speaker 4: had a pretty quick rise and I thought she handled
Speaker 4: it pretty fine and gracefully. But you just never know
Speaker 4: how you're going to handle it. I don't think yeah,
Speaker 4: because I think I just want to be a musician.
Speaker 4: I want to play music for a living. I don't
Speaker 4: need people coming up to me and poking me and
Speaker 4: taking pictures of me when I'm not being you know, like,
Speaker 4: there's an element of it that is kind of gross
Speaker 4: that I think would be hard to adjust to. And
Speaker 4: I've appreciated her honesty in that because I find that fascinating.
Speaker 1: And with the social media stuff.
Speaker 4: All of her dreams came true and then suddenly she's like,
Speaker 4: that isn't as great as I thought.
Speaker 1: It would be.
Speaker 4: Real.
Speaker 3: I get it, it's like real.
Speaker 2: But then but then, if this isn't what you want,
Speaker 2: then like, you don't have to come to the Grammys.
Speaker 3: You don't have to.
Speaker 4: You know, the Grammys.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that she wasn't amazing, but like, she
Speaker 2: doesn't have to do it.
Speaker 3: If this is not what she wants, then why are
Speaker 3: you participating.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen her say that about the groomy, So
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4: Google Mark sure, but also I saw the clip of
Speaker 4: her and she did apparently they're still doing carpool karaoke
Speaker 4: and there's James parents in the back seats and they're
Speaker 4: all singing Pink Pony Club together, which is about you know,
Speaker 4: her kind of her and her mom. Like it was
Speaker 4: such a sweet thing. Yeah, I'm on board, I'll google it.
Speaker 1: I'm on board two. I do out one thing that
Speaker 1: I just couldn't get past day. I still I'm still
Speaker 1: not over. It was Birds of a Feather not winning
Speaker 1: a single award, I know, the best pop song we've
Speaker 1: had in so many years.
Speaker 4: Tough category though, I will say that was but a
Speaker 4: stacked category.
Speaker 1: But I seven seven nominated Taylor.
Speaker 3: I think she had six, I know.
Speaker 1: But for some reason, I feel like Taylor didn't think
Speaker 1: she was gonna win. Like I feel like Billy was
Speaker 1: really like, this is like the greatest album I've ever made,
Speaker 1: and I'm nominated seven times. I'll at least get one
Speaker 1: of these for Birds of a Feather probably, And then
Speaker 1: I don't think Taylor ever thought she was gonna win.
Speaker 1: For some reasons, We're just like there to have fun.
Speaker 3: It felt like, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 4: But also, you know, it's so funny the whole Drake
Speaker 4: and Kendrick Lamar thing and how they were going back
Speaker 4: and forth. It was like, here's this and here's that. No,
Speaker 4: here's this song and here's this song. Then Kendrick Lamar
Speaker 4: drops not only a number one smash hit record of
Speaker 4: the year, song of the year. I mean they were
Speaker 4: having like a little squirt gun fight, and then all
Speaker 4: of a sudden, it's just a tank comes along and
Speaker 4: out of.
Speaker 3: The water and he's performing at the super much.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I didn't I don't know about any of
Speaker 1: that beef. I knew that they was beef, I just didn't.
Speaker 3: Know about Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then like this was Kendrick's like response, and it's
Speaker 2: not only the biggest song of the year, but it's
Speaker 2: like the biggest pop culture movement.
Speaker 3: Like it was massive.
Speaker 5: Every star in music singing along about how Drake's a pedophile.
Speaker 3: Yeah, literally crazy, it is pretty crazy.
Speaker 1: I didn't know the lore.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it goes, it's deep, it's thick.
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed Shakira's performance.
Speaker 3: I couldn't call the Musical Synergy Club meeting staff between.
Speaker 2: John mayertt fire Aid, and then Shakira at the Grammys.
Speaker 1: I was like, Yeah, we were all just like staring
Speaker 1: at the TV in silence when she started, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: how does her body do that?
Speaker 3: I know, how does she do that? I also have
Speaker 3: to say and I can admit it here.
Speaker 1: Just breaking news.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exclusive, I have been sleeping on do same.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I felt that that was a moment.
Speaker 2: One of the best performances of the night, best acceptance
Speaker 2: speech of the night.
Speaker 3: I thought, I'm a new dochier. Was her fans called.
Speaker 2: Don't know know Doja cats fans named something strange.
Speaker 3: It's like, not Doja.
Speaker 2: It's like, are called the coven, Yeah, coven, coven, the coven.
Speaker 1: Isn't that like a witch cover?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like a group of.
Speaker 3: What are DOC fans called?
Speaker 4: No, that's that's the coven Doja? Doja cat fans are
Speaker 4: called kittens.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, Okay, so the coven. So I'm part
Speaker 3: of the coven.
Speaker 1: Also our girl, Sabrina. Give it up for Zabrina Carpenter,
Speaker 1: scrubbing in.
Speaker 3: Legend and scrubbing in Legend.
Speaker 2: Truly, I do feel like she got a little robbed,
Speaker 2: Like I feel like she could have done.
Speaker 3: She should have swept like she should have just like.
Speaker 1: I don't remember a Grammy's being this stocked. It was
Speaker 1: hard any any category. I was like, it could be
Speaker 1: any of them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, that was tough.
Speaker 4: Sabrina fans are called carpenters.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I will say there's a lot of controversy
Speaker 2: over Beyonce winning Album of the Year. I was very
Speaker 2: excited and I posted about it on my Instagram and
Speaker 2: I got a lot of hate in my d ms
Speaker 2: about it, And this is what I have to say
Speaker 2: to the.
Speaker 1: Haters, She's looking straight.
Speaker 3: What was the controversy?
Speaker 2: Beyonce had one single off that album and Sabrina had
Speaker 2: like five or six off of hers, and blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: Charlie Xx's was like this moment of the summer everybody had,
Speaker 2: Like but you go first the fact that Beyonce reinvented
Speaker 2: herself entirely and rebranded and stepped into a genre that
Speaker 2: is so hard to step into for anyone, let alone
Speaker 2: a woman of color. And the album itself is incredible,
Speaker 2: like The Blackbird Reimagined.
Speaker 3: I don't even like the Beatles version. This one.
Speaker 2: To me, it is the Beatles, right, Yeah, yeah, This
Speaker 2: one to me is like so gorgeous. The Jolene reimagine
Speaker 2: is perfection. Yah Ya is like the Bopy isst bop
Speaker 2: of the world. Bodyguard is one of my favorite songs
Speaker 2: of all time. I miss Levi's Jeans with Post Malone
Speaker 2: is beautiful. The song with Miley is stunning. Like that
Speaker 2: album is so good. So the whole album is so good.
Speaker 2: But not only that, she rebranded, reinvented herself, and to
Speaker 2: do that and to do it well is so freaking hard,
Speaker 2: and I just think she totally deserved it.
Speaker 4: So and Milely responses that if the Grammys have shown
Speaker 4: us anything over the years is they kind of do
Speaker 4: their own thing. They're not based on album sales and
Speaker 4: not based on how many hits come off on an album.
Speaker 4: They're gonna do what strikes them, and so they chose Beyonce.
Speaker 4: I don't question that. Some years I questioned that, I
Speaker 4: don't question.
Speaker 1: That this year, No, Yeah, I feel the same. It
Speaker 1: was it was anyone's game. In my mind, I was like,
Speaker 1: this could be anyone and I'd be happy about it.
Speaker 1: I think I don't know if there were there may
Speaker 1: have been some ones that I was like, who is
Speaker 1: that j.
Speaker 3: Collier, No, I know who that is.
Speaker 1: She's like three. He's also amazing. But like they're not
Speaker 1: like in the the conversation as much as the others.
Speaker 4: Listens to every Album of the Year nominee all the
Speaker 4: way through every year. What do you think of Jacob Collier?
Speaker 1: Seless words are coming to mind?
Speaker 3: Great talent, not for me?
Speaker 4: What about Andre three thousands album?
Speaker 3: Great talent? Not for me?
Speaker 4: But you're listening to the whole thing I did. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's impressive and I love the commitment there as a
Speaker 4: physition of it.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, So there was a lot of controversy which you
Speaker 1: spoke on of the girl that was interviewing a baby
Speaker 1: Face and then like just aggressively, she called out to Chopple,
Speaker 1: Oh god.
Speaker 2: Did you see Okay, Mark, please google right now Babyface
Speaker 2: and you Associated Press and just watch.
Speaker 3: It's like thirty seconds.
Speaker 1: So basically, these two girls from Associated Press were interviewing Babyface,
Speaker 1: who is like a musical legend, and as they're in
Speaker 1: the middle of the interview, Chapel is walking by and
Speaker 1: they basically totally disregard what he's saying answering their question.
Speaker 1: Thought literally just avoid him and they're like, there's Chapel,
Speaker 1: there's Chapel, and he kind of goes, oh, do you
Speaker 1: want to get that?
Speaker 2: You do that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and just kind of been more graceful about it. Baby,
Speaker 1: he was so graceful, a harrow.
Speaker 3: Because if that were me, I would have been like,
Speaker 3: are you joking?
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would have done. I felt
Speaker 1: so bad for him.
Speaker 3: You would have been shocked, I know, but I don't
Speaker 3: know how graceful.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I would have handled it. I
Speaker 1: guess I probably would have been like, oh, yeah, you
Speaker 1: should talk to Chapel.
Speaker 2: But I felt so bad because people are coming so
Speaker 2: hard at those girls, like they're like asking the associated
Speaker 2: pressage did you watch it?
Speaker 3: Can you hear the audio? But the audio is a little.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Came out looking like a baby face, like like I'm
Speaker 2: like a.
Speaker 3: Done baby girl, A baby girl.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: If he was a baby girl before, he is a
Speaker 2: baby girl now. But these girls are like people are
Speaker 2: telling them that they should be fired that like all
Speaker 2: this stuff, and I'm like, look, I agree that nobody
Speaker 2: should be treated with that much disrespect.
Speaker 3: Like I get it.
Speaker 2: It was so disrespectful. Even if you're like Susie at Starbucks.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be treated that way legenda, right, But again,
Speaker 2: it's not about the notoriety. It's just about like it
Speaker 2: was just so epically rude. But I also like because
Speaker 2: in the video you see the girl kind of like
Speaker 2: lean back, like she's like listening to somebody, like a
Speaker 2: producer or something. And I'm sure, again I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I'm sure the producer was probably like Chapel Roone
Speaker 2: get her, because that is the gig you want to
Speaker 2: get the artists that are that's like that's their night,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like she was heavily nominated,
Speaker 2: so you want those heavy hitters for your stream or
Speaker 2: whatever you're doing.
Speaker 1: But shouldn't there be a producer who's grabbing people like
Speaker 1: that so that the interviewer isn't held responsible for having
Speaker 1: to do what she did.
Speaker 2: Whenever I've worked at like E, like the E has
Speaker 2: somebody at the top to do that. They like they
Speaker 2: say yes, we will take you now. Hey they're talking
Speaker 2: to somebody right now. Can you come back in two minutes? Uh,
Speaker 2: they'll get you know, notes in their ears saying blah
Speaker 2: blah blah is on approach. So if you want them
Speaker 2: hold until they come, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 2: we have that person, but I've also worked carpets where
Speaker 2: I don't have that person.
Speaker 3: That person is me.
Speaker 2: And let me tell you, publicists are ruthless and they
Speaker 2: will just they want to get in there. They want
Speaker 2: their whoever they are with to get that interview, and
Speaker 2: they will not take no for an answer. So you'll
Speaker 2: just be interviewing people that you might not even know
Speaker 2: who they are, but just because you want to be
Speaker 2: nice and like, again, whatever, if there's somebody big coming
Speaker 2: your way, there are different ways.
Speaker 3: To do it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You have handled the situation I want.
Speaker 2: I would I would want to say if I were
Speaker 2: wrangling my own situation and I'm talking to Babyface and
Speaker 2: I see chapel Rone behind him, and I know I
Speaker 2: want her, I think I would not interrupt him, but
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh my gosh, best new artist chapel
Speaker 2: Ron is right behind you, Babyface.
Speaker 3: You are you a fan of hers?
Speaker 2: Kind of include her in the conversation with him, and
Speaker 2: then say can we bring her into and like kind
Speaker 2: of do them together. Maybe that's how I feel like
Speaker 2: in my perfect world in my head that I would
Speaker 2: have handled the situation, because.
Speaker 3: Again, you don't want to lose her. If she walks
Speaker 3: it away, you're out totally. But you also don't want
Speaker 3: to just completely someone else.
Speaker 2: It like drifts off into the abyss like you know,
Speaker 2: it's like, bye, he gets it.
Speaker 4: He's like a legend, is he. He's like, I'm sixty
Speaker 4: five years old. Chapel roone is huge. She's like, Tanya,
Speaker 4: is it enormous? And I think that he understood that
Speaker 4: I'm going to step back and she can come in.
Speaker 4: And I think that makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 6: The absolute audacity, that respect, disrespect and the audacity has
Speaker 6: love me.
Speaker 2: Ruthless as if I wasn't insecure about it.
Speaker 4: You can barely see it. That's the joke we've been
Speaker 4: doing the whole show. It's not that big. It's not.
Speaker 1: I literally don't even see it.
Speaker 3: Away from that camera. Come look at this one. It's
Speaker 3: right there.
Speaker 1: You have your big light one.
Speaker 4: But I will say I have been baby faced many.
Speaker 3: Yeah what did you even say? A probably heard big
Speaker 3: on face.
Speaker 1: I just like enormous.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's enormous.
Speaker 4: Gets it that she's of the moment and he's maybe
Speaker 4: not of the moment. I've had this happened many times
Speaker 4: because when I'm talking to someone and Ryan Seacrest walks
Speaker 4: in the room, I cease to exist and I get it.
Speaker 4: I understand it. So it's it is what it is,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess somebody talk.
Speaker 1: Do you hear there's a buzzing?
Speaker 3: There's a buzzing that's quite pestery.
Speaker 1: I guess I'm the same like I think I would be.
Speaker 1: You have to stay humble. You have to realize that
Speaker 1: there's going to be someone bigger than you in the moment,
Speaker 1: especially in those carpets, Like nothing makes you feel smaller
Speaker 1: than being on a carpet and someone really popular coming
Speaker 1: up after, right, right, So I would like to think that.
Speaker 1: And baby Face handled it was so much crazy. I
Speaker 1: think that's exactly what he knew. I just it was.
Speaker 1: It was tough. It was tough.
Speaker 2: It was so tough to watch, and I watched it
Speaker 2: like a hundred times, and like people were in my
Speaker 2: DM saying, like, do not associate the other girl with
Speaker 2: the situation. It wasn't her fault, it was the other girl.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, she didn't do anything to stop it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like.
Speaker 5: By Babyface like I'd be like, yo, sorry.
Speaker 6: And the crazy thing is like, uh, Chapel didn't know
Speaker 6: obviously what was going on, but you know if she knew,
Speaker 6: I feel like her personality, she'd be like, you know, yeah, anyways.
Speaker 3: I didn't even watch their interview with Chapel Roone.
Speaker 1: To be honest, No, did anyone listen to Rachel kirconnell
Speaker 1: and call her daddy?
Speaker 3: Did not? Did you?
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah? I did? You did? Yeah? I was really
Speaker 1: curious about what happened.
Speaker 3: So let me tell you what I've heard.
Speaker 1: Okay, watch it, but I want you.
Speaker 2: To take if you think this is accurate. Okay, that
Speaker 2: she was too close, too closely removed from her breakup,
Speaker 2: like it was too fresh.
Speaker 1: That's what people are saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why because they were saying that she was like
Speaker 2: defending Matt James a lot, and that like you do
Speaker 2: when you newly break up with somebody that you're kind
Speaker 2: of like still kind of thinking about them and wanting
Speaker 2: to defend them and still make them like you know,
Speaker 2: and then were two or three months out you're like them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was still in that. The The first part.
Speaker 1: My take on it is that sure, maybe it was
Speaker 1: too soon, she still loves him. Obviously, you don't like
Speaker 1: fall out of love or want to protect someone just
Speaker 1: because they hurt you or broke up with you. And
Speaker 1: him breaking up with her wasn't the issue to me?
Speaker 1: Why because I'm like, if he got to a point
Speaker 1: where he was trying to like get there and like
Speaker 1: was like, what's wrong with me? Like this girl's amazing,
Speaker 1: we travel together, we work so well, but like I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I want to marry her, Like maybe
Speaker 1: marriage isn't for me. Even though it took longer than
Speaker 1: one would hope, I'm glad he didn't waste any more
Speaker 1: of her time.
Speaker 3: You know, four years is a lot of wasted time.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: But if he didn't do it, then, like he could
Speaker 1: have let it go till five or six years, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like if she wasn't willing to
Speaker 1: set that boundary of when.
Speaker 3: She so, is that what happened? She said, I want
Speaker 3: you to propose, and I was like, nah.
Speaker 1: No, I don't even think. I think. I think like
Speaker 1: she he knew that she wanted. They talked about rings
Speaker 1: and stuff, and I think that's where she was kind
Speaker 1: of confused, like why are we even talking about rings
Speaker 1: and stuff if you don't see me as a wife
Speaker 1: to you. Because basically they were trying to find a restaurant.
Speaker 1: She was trying to find something good enough that he
Speaker 1: could film this content, and she felt a lot of pressure.
Speaker 2: I can't I need you to tell me what happened
Speaker 2: because I can't believe that this is it.
Speaker 1: No, this is real.
Speaker 3: It's so crazy. No no, yeah.
Speaker 1: So they go to eat and she it's just like
Speaker 1: not good, and she gets really upset because she put
Speaker 1: the pressure. She's like, you know, we filmed, like that's
Speaker 1: his job. We film content like every time we go eat,
Speaker 1: which I was like, that's crazy. Like if Haley was
Speaker 1: having to have this bright light on my face every
Speaker 1: time we filmed, I mean every time we ate, and
Speaker 1: was like getting an up close shot of me eating,
Speaker 1: that wouldn't work. Anyways, she was fine with it, though
Speaker 1: she put a lot of pressure on herself to find
Speaker 1: the restaurant. They go, it's not good. She starts crying
Speaker 1: and he's like, why are you crying? Like he couldn't
Speaker 1: figure out why she was upset, which I thought that
Speaker 1: was weird. Why he wasn't just like, hey, you're like
Speaker 1: helping me out every restaurant's going to be perfect, Like
Speaker 1: you're okay. He was just kind of like, why are
Speaker 1: you crying? They got in another fight the next day,
Speaker 1: and then he basically was just kind of like, there's
Speaker 1: qualities that you have that I don't see as my wife.
Speaker 3: What are those qualities?
Speaker 1: It's hard to say if they talked about that. Anyways,
Speaker 1: he brings up with it right before her flight back
Speaker 1: to She's going back to the States for a baby
Speaker 1: shower from Tokyo. That's a long fight, okay. For whatever reason,
Speaker 1: he was leaving the next day. I'm like, why wouldn't
Speaker 1: you fly with her? It's not like you're staying in
Speaker 1: extra week or something. Why why? And then as she's
Speaker 1: on the plane, because of something like she has a
Speaker 1: VPN or something, she can't get access internet on flights.
Speaker 1: So as they're taking off, she starts getting texts from
Speaker 1: her friends and stuff, and they're like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: what happened? And she realizes he posted the breakup post.
Speaker 3: But he did break up with her, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But then like three hours later post about it
Speaker 1: without telling her, and she didn't even get to tell
Speaker 1: her friends or family. That's how they found out, and
Speaker 1: it happens as they're taking off and she doesn't have
Speaker 1: internet the whole flight, can you imagine?
Speaker 3: No, that's the part.
Speaker 1: Where I was like, this is crazy behavior.
Speaker 3: Did she say why he did that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I don't think she knew.
Speaker 5: She was so curious of the flight, Like did she
Speaker 5: watch a movie on the flight? Like, did she you know,
Speaker 5: try to get her mind off of it? Was she
Speaker 5: so stressed that's such a long flight.
Speaker 1: It's such a long flight. Like if I don't have
Speaker 1: internet for a hour flight and something happens, I'm anxious
Speaker 1: the whole time.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So anyways, she she did not speak. I did not
Speaker 1: think she spoke poorly about him at all. And I
Speaker 1: think that she's like, listen, he did a really hurtful
Speaker 1: thing and our relationship wasn't perfect. But I don't think
Speaker 1: she wants to villainize him more than he's already being
Speaker 1: villa by people.
Speaker 3: I do.
Speaker 1: I don't. I think if like, like, you son't rude.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry if you break up with someone and you
Speaker 2: know it's on your Instagram three hours later.
Speaker 1: But I think she spoke her truth and let other
Speaker 1: people have their like feelings and opinions about it. But
Speaker 1: she wasn't going to bash them, which I think was
Speaker 1: really classic. You wouldn't have done that with Robbie when
Speaker 1: he broke up with you.
Speaker 3: No, But you know what else I didn't do.
Speaker 2: I didn't post he didn't post it on If he
Speaker 2: posted it on Instagram, you best.
Speaker 1: Believe what would you have done?
Speaker 2: There would have been some some some things thrown.
Speaker 1: Well. I think her thing thrown was going on the
Speaker 1: biggest pot one of the biggest podcasts in the world
Speaker 1: and telling the story for everyone to hear. That was
Speaker 1: a nice rebuttal in my opinion.
Speaker 2: Now I got to get Kendrick Lamar involved and I
Speaker 2: had to write a song about it, and then next
Speaker 2: year he can win all the Grammys.
Speaker 1: I saw that you proposed for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3: I did, Is that?
Speaker 1: Do you do that every year? Does that? I don't
Speaker 1: all switch off.
Speaker 3: We don't really.
Speaker 2: I don't think we've ever really done that in a minute.
Speaker 2: Oh but I feel like, because there's so much like
Speaker 2: wedding stuff going on, we're like in the thick of it,
Speaker 2: and his birthday's coming up at the end of the month,
Speaker 2: which is probably gonna get like overshadowed. Definitely overshadowed because
Speaker 2: we have like a thing the day after, you know, so,
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm wanting to like step up a
Speaker 2: little bit more.
Speaker 4: So.
Speaker 3: I asked him last night to be my Valentine.
Speaker 1: Did he say yes?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I wrote it.
Speaker 2: I wrote I put rose petals from the doorway to
Speaker 2: the to the where the card said, will you be
Speaker 2: my Valentine? Check the box yes or no?
Speaker 3: They checked yes. Wow, yeah, spoiler alert.
Speaker 2: Was he surprised, Yeah, he was actually surprised, and he
Speaker 2: was like, I wanted to ask you to be my Valentine.
Speaker 3: I was like, you snooze, you lose.
Speaker 1: He can still do it.
Speaker 3: No point, Oh he's already mine. Well, already locked it in.
Speaker 1: Okay, you locked it in.
Speaker 3: What are you guys doing for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: Haley planned something. I think we're doing like a spa
Speaker 1: day and then dinner or something. She was like, I
Speaker 1: booked stuff for Valentine's or I think either on Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day or day after day after. I know, I'm excited.
Speaker 1: She's she gets back tomorrow. Another long jaunt, long jaunt down.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys are like pros now.
Speaker 1: I want to say that, but getting better.
Speaker 3: Really, I feel like you've handled it great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, we did. We did a great job.
Speaker 3: I don't like it, yeah, true, true, true affair.
Speaker 1: I'll know that. I'm ready to be a pro at it.
Speaker 2: I did want to talk about this because I got
Speaker 2: a couple of d ms about Savannah Chrysalie has a
Speaker 2: podcast and she was talking about Special Forces.
Speaker 3: Yea, this is so funny.
Speaker 2: And she was mentioning how Tanya rad was on her
Speaker 2: season and that she was so wild that's crazy cigarettes. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I was like, multiple packs of cigarettes and I
Speaker 2: was laughing because she meant Tara Reid.
Speaker 1: The funniest ever.
Speaker 2: I just honored that my name even got mixed up
Speaker 2: with Tara Reids, like Tanya Rat and Tara Reid.
Speaker 3: I feel like, are not interchangeable, Like.
Speaker 1: You're just not going in six.
Speaker 3: Sixty five pounds soaking wet. I mean, not me.
Speaker 1: That is so good. I literally would just do anything
Speaker 1: for you to go on Special Forces.
Speaker 3: And that would be a disaster.
Speaker 1: I would love it so much. You should special Because
Speaker 1: I realized just the lack of sleep would have me
Speaker 1: in the worst. I would be the worst version of myself.
Speaker 1: Take away the physical action and pain, just like the lack.
Speaker 3: Of hold in the cot or and.
Speaker 1: They just scream at you, like, but you get to.
Speaker 3: Sleep like you have sleeping out though. Oh really.
Speaker 1: I asked Tyler Cameron one time when I saw him,
Speaker 1: and he was like, yeah, you don't sleep much at all?
Speaker 3: What like three hours or like six hours?
Speaker 1: I think more like three four. I could be wrong,
Speaker 1: but he made it seem it's as bad as it
Speaker 1: as I think it is.
Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like you'd be good at Special Forces.
Speaker 3: I would be whole right now.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I'm mentally strong. I think I'm
Speaker 1: physically strong enough. I don't think I'm mentally strong enough.
Speaker 1: That's just my truth.
Speaker 3: I think you're a lot mentally stronger than you think
Speaker 3: you are.
Speaker 4: So is the bottom liner that Savannah Crystley is a scrubber?
Speaker 4: Because how is Tanya Rad so top of mind for her?
Speaker 2: I think that's the takeaway. Yeah, happy to have you.
Speaker 3: As a scrubber, thank you.
Speaker 1: They love that she's just like, yeah, Tanya rad was
Speaker 1: crazy bat wild, smuggling SIGs. Yeah.
Speaker 2: People were sending me like you know how like podcasts
Speaker 2: like will transcribe the audio into type like, so they're
Speaker 2: sending me screenshots of her saying all this stuff about me,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm I.
Speaker 1: Was, like, was I on Special.
Speaker 3: I don't think I was on Special Forces.
Speaker 1: It's so good, so good. We are wrapping up this podcast.
Speaker 1: But don't worry because tomorrow we have a new episode.
Speaker 4: Oh Friday, maybe I'm not sure, but this week one, yeah.
Speaker 1: Not tomorrow. If not tomorrow, the next day, we will
Speaker 1: be back with the Dear Bone.
Speaker 4: This one, we had some scheduling conflicts.
Speaker 1: Some scheduling conflicts, but one thing we're gonna do is
Speaker 1: show up anyway, whether it's a few days.
Speaker 3: Late, because you know why we are shower uppers. Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: We're gonna scrub in and scrub out deep. No matter,
Speaker 3: we are gonna scrub so deep.
Speaker 1: WHOA, Okay, we'll be back on. We'll be back with
Speaker 1: a Dear Bonnia episode later this week. Remember if you
Speaker 1: want us to answer your Dear Bonnia question, dm us
Speaker 1: on Instagram at scrubbing In pod or email us at
Speaker 1: scrubbing In ihearmedia dot com. And we love you so much, love.
Speaker 3: You, see you later. T t I A to be
Speaker 3: continued
Speaker 5: Mma hmm