WEBVTT - Introducing Tabitha 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:10.040 Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, everybody, 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:12.039 we are scrubbing. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:17.120 In grub dub dub in the tub, tub tub. 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:23.760 The whole gang is in the steel. Hello. That's all 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:24.360 four of us. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:28.720 We have a new number too. We Do you see her? 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:30.880 Yeah? 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:32.599 I know what you're talking about. I know who you're 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:33.240 talking about. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:41.880 Oh, Tanya has a blemish. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.160 Her normally perfect skin. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.280 This is a giant. 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:52.120 That literally would disappear with concealer like you, that's so easy? 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.080 Have you named her? 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:55.560 No? 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:03.000 I have to say what you know? Your jaws looking snatched? 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:07.480 Really swear swear you guys. The mouth tape. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.280 I saw somebody post this on TikTok the other day 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.800 and I'm like so pissed. I didn't get the before video, 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:17.080 but they did like a video that their side profile like, 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:19.680 and then a video month and a half after using 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:22.520 mouth tape every night, and like, the difference was significant. 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:25.640 Do you think that it's improving your side that you 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:28.280 don't like as much? Yeah? 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:29.240 I do like. 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:33.039 Multi side, like you can do any You're amidextrous on 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:33.520 wich side. 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.600 Yeah, why now I'm equally gorgeous. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:39.880 So like you're telling me that like when you go 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:43.039 to when we do the rehearsal for the wedding, you 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.400 could shoot stand on either side. 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.320 I will be standing on the right side of the aisle. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:53.400 Or wait, when you look at the aisle, I'll be 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:54.080 on the left. 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:57.680 No, that's confusing. If we're looking at you up there, 0:01:57.800 --> 0:02:00.280 what side of your face? Are we seeing my right side? 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:04.520 Okay, oh, so you're on the left facing Robbie. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.080 if you're normal, isn't that standard? 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.200 No, I think it's actually the opposite. I feel like 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:09.559 the girls usually. 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.440 I'm seeing it done every which way because now that 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.440 I don't know what the tradition is anymore, but now 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.720 the girls get to choose their side. That now that 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:24.239 we have women's rights, yes, choose one side we prefer. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:28.000 In traditional Christian weddings with the bride and groom, couples 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:30.640 typically follow the rule of the bride standing on the 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:32.480 left of. 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:35.160 The of the aisle, like if you're. 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.320 If you're in the congregation looking up, you're on the 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:39.920 left the right spot. 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:42.840 It's back to the Middle Ages, so that the groom 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.640 can have his right arm free for his sword to protect. 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.080 Okay, so I'm going to be in the traditional spot. 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:50.519 Now I know what to get Robbie. 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:58.520 Okay, the beard growth is completed, I'm assuming. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:01.360 Yeah, it's gone. It's gone. So now on day like 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:02.600 fifteen or something. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:03.400 So what did we land on? 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.280 So I asked if he could trim it back down 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:08.640 to one and we could try one more time, because 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.440 now I think I know it's either four or five 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.600 or six. It's like in that window. 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:14.799 People say you're high maintenance. I don't get it. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:15.359 I don't either. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:23.320 Fillailla, No, you've yeah, you've been quite yeah most for 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:24.440 the most part. Pretty chill. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.240 Yeah, I just had a burrito. The size of my face. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:32.600 Makes you chill. 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:35.040 Yeah, Like I'm not on like a crazy wedding diet. 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:35.720 Like I'm not. 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:41.560 I'm your standard is quite like your standard lifestyle would 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:46.320 be my wedding. Your live zone would be like my intense, 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.320 rigid wedding die if I were to do one. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.360 You met the burrita where it was every time I 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:54.680 looked over with her, she was fully bent over the 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:56.680 top of her head. This bit her face was like 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:58.000 a centimeter from the plate. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:01.120 Wow. I don't know what got into me, but I 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:02.840 was so hungry. 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.000 You know what, I went to bed last night. So 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:10.200 here's the thing. If I gardened too early, then. 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:13.600 I gardened last night. Yeah by yourself. 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:15.960 I gardened by myself every night. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.320 Do you garden every night every night? But we should 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:18.960 call somebody? 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.440 No, I take like two milligrams, Like it's like nothing. 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.000 I know, but it's like having one glass of wine 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:24.479 every night. 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:27.160 Yeah, but I don't do it every night. 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:31.000 I'll do five out seven nights. How many nights we 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:32.760 talk in I. 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.000 Would say like two or three depending on the week. 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:35.920 No chance? 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:36.320 Yeah? 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:36.839 Oh really? 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:37.120 Yeah? 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:38.360 What do I feel like every time I talk to 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:39.039 your gardening? 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.080 You only talk to me once this week? And where 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.200 I was gardening anyway? 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.719 Should you have a giant hat out with gloves on, 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:50.680 like weeding? Like I did. It took me thirty seconds, 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:52.479 but I got there, okay. 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:55.200 Yeah, because you're not allowed to talk about that one 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:59.560 Like the internet on social media, that's who I don't know. 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:01.039 It gets your hoard it all the time. So that's 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:04.520 how it got transported to gardening. Oh, for those of 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.400 you who think I'm in a hat in the garden, 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:11.320 I actually took just a little gummy to. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:14.800 Chill recreational thhcs right completely legal in California, and I 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.320 think most places I. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.239 Wish I was in the garden though, because I would 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.520 love to have a green thumb like that, I have 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:21.760 a green thumb in another way. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:23.840 Anyways, I can't think about getting one of those towers 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.120 by the way, you know those towers that people putting. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.680 They're like, I'm just gonna go make myself a. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:29.960 Salad and just like pulled the You should do that, 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:34.400 I know, Yeah, I know, let me know when it goes. 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:39.760 Yeah, yeah, we'll take that one after that. Anyways, I 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.159 took one too early, and so then I'm laying in 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:45.920 bed and I'm what I swear my phone knows when 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.080 I take one, because all of a sudden, all I'm 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:54.360 seeing are taco bell like bongs like crumble cookies, bombs 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.600 like milk bongs or something. 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:58.680 It's people eating loudly. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:02.040 Oh no, but yeah kind of. 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:03.960 I know. It was like a visual asmr I guess, 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:04.320 and like. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:06.560 If I'm in person with someone in there chewing like that, 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.120 I need to leave the room. It makes me so angry. 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:11.440 But for some reason, when I'm watching it on my phone, 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:15.440 I would love end and when I'm garden, when I'm 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.920 not gardening anytime. I love them, but anyways, specifically when 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.680 I'm in that position and they come up, it's it's 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.719 so hard. And I was I had my taco bell 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:30.760 order like ready to hit delivered now. I was like, 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:32.440 are you going to feel better? Are you going to 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.120 feel good in the morning if you do this right 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:36.480 now at eleven PM? And I said, no, you're not. 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:39.320 So I went to bed, but I was starving and 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.920 I didn't sleep well, so I wish I had done 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:47.479 it regrets, So there was no regrets. Most people would 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:49.200 say the opposite, like they would do it, and then 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.040 they'd be like, man, I shouldn't have done that. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:53.120 But you were in a no win situation if you 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.680 if you'd have pounded down a bunch of taco bell, 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.240 you just slept with a rock and your bell, you 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:01.560 would have slept well. Either might have not. I say, 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.559 the fact that you were hungry to eleven me didn't 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.719 plan properly. You were already in no one situation. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:10.440 I think you're right. I wish I had, just I don't. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.240 I couldn't sleep and then phoebe you guys, I don't 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.680 know what to do about the cough. She coughed all night. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.120 I woke up at four, couldn't go back to sleep 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:23.040 for a little trasy no, like nothing. 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:28.480 Are kind of crazy, yeah, makes sunny, sleepy, sleepy. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.600 But also crazy. Anyways, I don't know what to do anymore, 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.080 So I woke up in a mood. 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.160 Get this breakfast brito that I just got because let 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.200 me tell you, that, boy, was. 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:43.920 My whole point was that I got up. I made 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:46.800 a breakfast burrito, and it improved my mood. 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:48.520 Honestly, I wish I would have asked you to bring 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.520 me one, probably than the one that I had. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.880 Yeah, well yes, probably more simple, but and made with love. 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.280 Definitely made with love. Yeah, I'm gonna do that for 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:00.480 all of us one day. I don't forget bacon hash browns. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:10.400 Wow, is t thank you? Tabitha's talking rosy my pimple? 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:14.560 Yeah we Tabitha. It's totally a tabby. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:15.640 Why is it? 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:17.960 Tabitha just looks like a Tabitha? 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:19.080 How about he? 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:22.360 You know what I realize, Becca, Your teeth are those 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:23.160 your real teeth? 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:28.360 Like how you're crazy? Your teeth are. 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:37.120 Like like her teeth are like, it's crazy. They're not 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:41.920 only perfect size, they're a great color, and they're perfectly aligned, 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:44.600 like there is not an imperfection on your teeth. 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:46.880 Yeah, we've all talked about it. 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.360 People probably pay a lot of money to have their 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:52.000 teeth look like that. I realized all the people on 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.839 Love Island UK, a lot of them have veneers. I've 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:58.960 been really into teeth lately. I don't know, but they 0:08:59.000 --> 0:08:59.880 all have these perfect teeth. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:00.600 I'm like, what the heck? 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:02.080 And then one of them made a joke about his 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.480 veneer and I was like, oh, is. 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.720 That because you're getting some teeth work done? 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.840 Yeah, because I have one right now, right here. It's 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:10.200 a fake. 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:12.040 It's like a it's like the temp. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.200 Yea temp until I get like my real one put on. 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:18.480 But yeah, so now I'm just like very into Well. 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.440 You know what's crazy is when I was on the Bachelor. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:24.680 I went on the Bachelor being like, I was so calm, 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:29.040 I had no I was just not self conscious about anything. 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:30.720 And then I go on the Bachelor and it's like, 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:32.720 you know, you have like millions of people watching, and 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:36.640 then they're commenting on everything about you and someone I'll 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:40.440 never forget someone tweeted Becca's been Becca got her veneers 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.880 too big for her face? Or too big for her mouth. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:50.199 Then why she thought they were fake because they're so good. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.000 Wow, thank you so much, and like they all the. 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:54.520 Front ones just go forward. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:56.920 Look at that. Did you have braces growing up? 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:57.640 Yeah? 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:58.280 Yeah? 0:09:58.640 --> 0:09:59.960 Did you wear your retainer at night? 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:00.360 Like? 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:01.200 How do they not move? 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:01.520 No? 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:04.040 I don't, but I wore my So I got my 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:07.160 braces off in eighth grade. I wore my retainer. I'm 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:10.719 talking religiously. It was Uh, I had the bottom and 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:14.960 the top removal until I went on the Bachelor. Oh 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:16.880 that's so I was very committed. 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:21.080 That's the key. Dang, But thank. 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.120 You so much for noting. How long have we been friends. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:25.360 I've always noticed. 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.440 I've always loved your smile, but I think now I'm 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:33.160 like particular particularly attuned to it because of my my 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:37.120 uh my fakey, the old fake, the old fake. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:46.040 We are approaching the event of twenty twenty five quickly, rapidly. 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:49.160 Those are going to be sweet. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.520 You know one of the oscars. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:55.480 Mark the wards. 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:56.080 Yeah. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:56.319 Yeah. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:00.160 The wedding's coming. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.080 Quick quick, she is coming. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.000 How are we feeling ready? 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:06.280 Every day? 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:10.640 It's like a new something. It's a lot of stress. 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.679 Maybe that's why Tabitha has come. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.600 Yeah, I mean that makes sense. 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:16.120 It does make sense, but we got to. 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:21.160 Compact. We can't be having a tabby on wedding. 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:26.079 Oh off the time. 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.080 But like, what I also realize is people are like 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:33.000 really nice when you get married. Like my my esthetician 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:36.320 is coming to my wedding and she offered to like 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:39.280 give me a face sculpting the morning of my wedding. 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:40.360 Is so nice? 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:41.280 How nice is that? 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:43.840 First of all, this is a note invite your ESTI 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:44.800 to your wedding. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.160 I know, I'm like, I've never had a face sculpting, 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:52.319 and yes, I absolutely want that one hundred percent. 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:56.080 You will definitely be able to stand on either side 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:57.760 with a face sculpting. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:02.560 Unless side like a I don't even know what it is. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:03.840 It's like just her hands. 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:08.640 But wow, yeah, good to note, Right, that's a good note. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:13.360 I know the Bachelorette is this weekend. Tanya still doesn't 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:14.200 know where we're going. 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:18.199 But you know, it's so cute what Paulina sent me 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:21.880 a screenshot of a phone conversation that she and Becca 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:23.800 had and it lasted over an hour. 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:26.640 How cute is that? 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:29.880 This is just the planning phone call? 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:31.880 I get, I'm assuming that's what they were doing. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:33.600 We're just chit chatting. 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:39.679 No, that. 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:40.800 They were just chit chatting, I would be jealous. But 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:44.560 the fact that they were on the phone planning my 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.199 bacherette is like the cute People don't prepare you when 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.520 you get married for like these little things that like 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.760 make you so emotional. Like she sent me that screenshot 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.080 and it made me want to cry because it's like, 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:57.760 you two aren't necessarily friends, but you're like coming together 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:59.360 to do this for me, do you know what I mean? 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:04.360 Point, I'm not saying your enemies by any means you. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.400 Are our connector yeah, connectors. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.560 And also, like when people send in their rscps, like 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:13.199 I'll get emotional getting some of them because I'm like 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:14.679 some of these people live so far away, and I'm 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.600 like I can't believe they're like flying all this way, 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:18.920 like and it's like makes me want to cry. Like 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.800 I'm like, every day there's something that's like making me cry. 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.760 That's very weird. Nobody prepares you for that stuff that. 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:27.000 Makes sense, does it? 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.040 Well? 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.200 No, I think it makes sense that that would affect 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:34.040 you emotionally like people should, because I think people I 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.560 think people showing up is like the most emotional thing 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.720 that people that someone can do for you, And I 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.520 think putting in the time and the effort and the 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:46.000 money to like come and specifically celebrate you and your 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:49.360 love story, I imagine that would feel very overwhelming. 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:53.079 Yes, that's exactly it. It makes you cry, but that's 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:54.800 what I also feel like. I didn't expect to be 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:56.880 so emotionally charged by the nose too. 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:03.480 Like I thought, if people are even no, I like whatever, 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.200 But like I think because we kept our guest list 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.599 so tight, like we didn't invite. There wasn't anybody that 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:10.599 we invited that we didn't want to come, you know 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:13.440 how like some people do that. So the nose I 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:15.160 was like, oh, I thought we were closer than that. 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:15.480 You know. 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:16.800 Oh they feel heavy. 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:18.200 Yeah, heavier than I imagined. 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:20.880 Interesting because I always thought I would kind of be 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:24.240 like all right, like if I did a smaller intimate 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.600 wedding than if people couldn't go be like okay, moving 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.640 on to my next That's what. 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:31.040 I thought, too, and I took it so Robbie's like, 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:33.840 you can't take it personal, babe, Like it's a flight, 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:35.240 it's a hotel, it's a lot. 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:36.240 I don't like if it. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:40.240 Was in La and they were local adjacent and they 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:43.520 didn't come. Then it's like, okay, dang, you can't show 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:45.920 up for me. But you know, a destination wedding, you're 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.440 always gonna risk people not being able to whether it's 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.400 money or time, whatever it is. 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:53.800 Yeah, nobody ever prays you for those emotions. 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:54.480 Yeah. 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:59.200 No, And I imagine your philm just whirlwinds, just yeah, 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:04.160 really high eyes, really low lows were the plan for 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:07.720 the boudoir shoot? Do you have did you order your stuff? 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:09.800 Yeah? I have some laingerie which had a faguret. When 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:10.440 we're gonna do it. 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.040 Well, do you want to do it at the bachelorette 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:13.040 with everybody? 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.200 Well, you gotta tell me now, because I gotta get 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:16.640 a spray tan. 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.600 I think I might do a spray tan. Really, you're 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:24.840 self tanned. I might not go to the links of 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.680 getting a spray tan, but I might do a self tanner. 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:30.880 I do a boir photo shoot. Raw dogs like that 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.600 is something that I'm not doing. 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:33.520 Married, raw Dog. 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:34.800 I know, I can't. 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:39.840 Believe I'm getting married raw dog like that is crazy? 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:41.400 Like that's crazy. 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:46.920 Do you think there's a spray tan artist in Mexico? 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:48.560 Is that too risky? 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:52.560 Feels risky. Feels risky. 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:56.200 So we're gonna we're gonna do spray tan for the 0:15:56.240 --> 0:16:01.640 boudoir shoot, but wedding, yeah, well then I would take 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:06.560 it as spray tann like today or tomorrow. Oh my gosh, 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.480 if you can, if not do self tanner. 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:08.880 Okay. 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:10.440 All I'm saying is if you want to do it 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:13.880 at the bachelorette and you have the lingerie, then I 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.800 think we do it with all the girls and make 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:16.240 it a thing. 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:19.239 You're gonna bring your camera like my little. 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:19.720 Point and shoot. 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:24.080 Yeah, yeah, where are we going? Huh? Where are we 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:24.800 going this weekend? 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:26.680 You'll know when we get there. 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:27.640 I try to trigger. 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.680 It was very good. I had to avoid this so much. 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:34.520 Everything I say, I'm like, she's trying to get something out. 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:36.480 Going to blindfold her in transit. 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:38.560 That could be fun. I thought about that. 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:40.880 That's why I don't understand how long is the gig 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:41.400 going to be? 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:43.920 The gig was going to be till we got to 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:44.560 the airport. 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:49.720 We're going to the airport. We're going to an airport. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:17:00.040 Maybe she's scared. Look at her, She's like, we're a 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:00.760 do an airport. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.400 Maybe, well, that's what I was thinking. If you were 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:06.160 to go to an airport, you know, hypothetically, that's when 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:07.040 it's going to get spoiled. 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:11.680 Right. Here's the thing I asked her. I asked her 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:16.120 about the car situation. If she'd rather be like all 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:20.680 together crammed or do separate cars so that everyone fits comfortably. 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:25.040 And so I guess what I chose. She said she 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:26.959 could sit on my lap, And I said, but what 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:31.639 if I'm driving like she can't. So anyways, if we 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.960 did a blindfold for that, that could be like car 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:41.040 like okay. But the other option is she just waits 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:45.399 in season we get there because I don't know, I 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:46.639 feel like you get carsick. 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:49.119 Oh you were going to blindfold me in the car. 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:54.479 That's what I was thinking, Like, really, keep it just 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:55.600 till we arrive. 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:58.200 Because if we get to Alaska Airlines, I know we're 0:17:58.240 --> 0:17:59.400 going to Alaska. 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:05.560 I really hope it's alast because you could go even 0:18:05.560 --> 0:18:08.960 one step further you get, but you're plugs in a blindfold, 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.640 like even on the plane if there's a plane involved. Traffic, Yeah, 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:15.040 she's been traffic. But still it could be fun because 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:16.719 if you all are wearing t hours and stuff. 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:24.840 People part of the bath the meta quest virtual reality 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:25.280 on there. 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:29.480 Now, that would make me sick. That would make me sick. 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.200 I'd rather a blindfold and headphones. 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:37.000 Okay, yeah, even if it's a distance. 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:39.680 How long of a distance? 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:41.399 She? 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:43.359 That'd be fun if you're on a plane and you 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:45.520 didn't know where you were going. I can't even imagine 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:46.520 that because it announce it. 0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:50.680 What about if you're in the car and she gets ill, 0:18:50.920 --> 0:18:53.399 which I guess you could. Once we get to a 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:54.960 certain place, we could take it off, because then she 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:56.760 wouldn't really know exactly where we're going. 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:58.639 If you're just on open highway, she might not know. 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:02.240 But also she might not get cars. Who knows? You 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:04.320 guys are singing having stick. 0:19:04.160 --> 0:19:06.400 In the at Disneyland on the right. 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.280 I do. But I feel like we're going to an airport. 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:12.119 You'll find out on Friday. 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:14.280 Very exciting. 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:16.880 It's so exciting and so stressful too. 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:19.800 We sent her packing list which is. 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:25.400 Very what uh, autonomous, that's the right word. 0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:27.760 Is like. 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:33.960 Conspicuous, undiscernible. 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:36.359 Okay, okay, we're getting closer. 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:39.040 Yeah, what do you mean. 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:41.440 If we're going somewhere that's cold and you want me 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:44.200 to wear a slutty bright colored outfit? Do I need 0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:44.679 a coat? 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:49.200 I would? I would always the coat on the list. 0:19:49.240 --> 0:19:50.879 No, no coat, but sweaters. 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:54.960 Would I would have a coat to be prepared. 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:56.680 Alaska's chilly this time? 0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:04.679 Yeah, I would have a coach just for tights. I 0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:08.320 mean no, because if we're like indoors for the sluttiness, 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.159 then you don't need that. But if we if we 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:11.760 go out, you will probably want to coat. 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:19.359 Coat, Like, are we going to New York? 0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:21.520 You'll find out. 0:20:23.440 --> 0:20:24.960 I'm driving me crazy. 0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:30.600 Anyways, we had some feedback on the Danny Austin and 0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:31.960 Amanda Stanton motherhood. 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:35.919 Stanton herself even responded, which honestly. 0:20:35.600 --> 0:20:37.160 Is an honor, Well. 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:40.040 We are going to talk about that after we take 0:20:40.080 --> 0:21:01.439 a break. All right, we're back. Tanya's still trying to 0:21:01.440 --> 0:21:02.240 guess where we're going. 0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:03.440 I know it's not Napa. 0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:11.600 Why because I think Robbie was trying to throw me 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:14.760 off and he was like, so I said something about wine. 0:21:14.760 --> 0:21:16.960 He was like, well, no, you could always like she 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:18.919 loves like drinking wine all day and that's what you 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:19.920 do in Napa. 0:21:20.119 --> 0:21:20.280 Oh. 0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:26.880 I was like okay, I like, no, I know it's 0:21:26.920 --> 0:21:28.520 not Napa. 0:21:29.840 --> 0:21:32.640 You literally have no idea where we're going I'll tell 0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:36.280 you that much. You have no idea. 0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:37.919 It's not something I've guessed. 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:45.240 No, no, lie, No, that's crazy because I've guessed a 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:48.919 lot of places I know, and that's not any of 0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:50.400 my guests. No, what. 0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:57.240 So fun? Okay, So Danny Austin versus Amanda Stanton, but 0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.879 not really verse Amanda Stan or like and a man. 0:22:00.640 --> 0:22:03.560 I just would like to say, everybody said that Becca 0:22:03.640 --> 0:22:05.919 is going to be an Amanda stan and Tanya is 0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:08.720 going to be a Danny Austin, and I found. 0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:12.760 That quite rude. Oh wow, really no, not really, but 0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:14.080 it's very true. Actually. 0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.879 I just the consistent thing that I see, no matter 0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:20.000 who it is or what they show, is that the 0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:22.800 first few weeks and months of motherhood you're just like 0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:26.480 in a daze. It's like, how do I even shower myself? 0:22:26.520 --> 0:22:28.720 I haven't brushed my hair. Even people that I feel 0:22:28.720 --> 0:22:31.000 like are so put together say that. So I'm like, 0:22:31.160 --> 0:22:33.640 I think it's just those first few weeks and months 0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:39.320 are just chaos. Yeah, but Amanda even commented and said, 0:22:39.440 --> 0:22:41.960 ha ha ha, I'm a Danny sometimes too, though. 0:22:42.320 --> 0:22:45.560 Well I don't believe it. I don't see it. 0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:48.440 It's not true, and I'm yet to see that from 0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:50.040 Amanda Sam. 0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:51.800 But I don't know that I would show that. I 0:22:51.800 --> 0:22:54.240 mean I would probably talk about like, oh my gosh, 0:22:54.320 --> 0:22:56.840 you guys like no one prepares you. But I don't 0:22:56.880 --> 0:22:57.880 know that i'd show it. 0:22:58.000 --> 0:22:59.960 Oh interesting, yeah, because I. 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:02.560 Would show it, I know. I think that's really more 0:23:02.600 --> 0:23:05.800 so what people meant about, like you'd be a Dannie Alson, 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:07.919 I'd be a aman U huh huh. 0:23:07.960 --> 0:23:10.120 Oh interesting, yeah, because. 0:23:09.920 --> 0:23:13.840 I I don't want to scare people, but I'll talk 0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:14.800 about it being hard. 0:23:15.000 --> 0:23:16.000 Let me tell you something. 0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:20.360 So we went to Disneyland over the weekend for Pauline's 0:23:20.359 --> 0:23:23.080 half marathon. Oh yeah, and I've been checking my abulation 0:23:23.160 --> 0:23:26.479 every day, just like peeing on a stick, and the 0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:29.000 morning of the marathon, I like i'd been getting like 0:23:29.760 --> 0:23:32.399 not whatever the thing is. It's also again not the 0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:34.639 happy and sad face. It's like these two lines and 0:23:34.680 --> 0:23:36.920 if like the darker one is in front and you're 0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:39.080 you're ovulating that the darker ones in the back. 0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:40.000 I know, it's so weird. 0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:42.080 It's like here's to a plus or minus, right. 0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:44.879 So I kept peeing. 0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:46.560 I was peeing for like five days and it was 0:23:46.600 --> 0:23:48.520 just like the same thing so I was like, what 0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:49.159 the heck is it? 0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:50.920 Are these things? Do these things even work? 0:23:50.960 --> 0:23:53.440 And then the morning of the marathon, I peed on 0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:55.639 the stick and it was like on the right way, like, 0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:56.920 today's your ovulation. 0:23:57.560 --> 0:23:59.800 Nobody prepares you for that excitement either. I was like, 0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:02.120 yeah the day. 0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:06.399 Wow, yeah, is that exciting? You're not trying at this point? 0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.760 No, But now I like know that these things work. 0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:10.800 Oh okay, I mean I think that they were. 0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:13.719 And now now you know what day am I cycled? 0:24:13.800 --> 0:24:14.639 The next one will be? 0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.960 I think, yeah, So I'll chest the theory next month 0:24:16.960 --> 0:24:17.800 and see if it's the same. 0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:18.280 That's good. 0:24:18.359 --> 0:24:21.000 Yeah, so exciting. Wow. 0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:25.120 Knowledge is power, Knowledge is power. That's beautiful. Did you watch? 0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:26.760 Did we watch the Grammys? 0:24:26.920 --> 0:24:29.160 I watched for seventeen hours. 0:24:31.000 --> 0:24:34.119 Tanya put it best. She described the Grammys Monday morning. 0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:37.240 She said, the great parts were really great, but it 0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.160 was way too long. 0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:39.159 It always is. 0:24:39.240 --> 0:24:41.840 I agree, but the great parts were awesome, but a 0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:43.560 couple of times I just had to walk away. 0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:49.640 I mean, Chapel's performance phenomenal. Isn't it crazy? Because there's 0:24:49.720 --> 0:24:52.280 such a aside from Taylor Switch, Like, you don't see 0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:55.520 a ton of reaction from the crowd like participating in anything, 0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:59.240 and you could hear them like singing the song back 0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:00.879 to her. It felt a concert. 0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:02.480 Yeah, it's crazy. 0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:04.879 I love stuff like I don't know why this lookscites 0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:07.480 me at my age, because it shouldn't, but I that 0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:10.200 makes me excited. Like we'd never heard of Chapel Roone 0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:12.359 at last year's Grammys, and this year she's having a 0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:13.680 moment like that. I find that out. 0:25:14.200 --> 0:25:16.399 I find her. I don't know how I feel about. 0:25:16.119 --> 0:25:19.879 Her interesting why because. 0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:23.760 I know that people like that she like is raw 0:25:23.880 --> 0:25:27.360 and honest and real. But to me, there's something so 0:25:27.440 --> 0:25:33.840 annoying about like being a struggling artist making it huge, 0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:36.959 make being the biggest pop star of the year, and 0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.320 then saying like I wish I don't win a Grammy 0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:42.800 and like I don't like this, but yet it's still 0:25:42.880 --> 0:25:44.480 doing it, do you know what I mean? Likes there's 0:25:44.520 --> 0:25:47.040 an ungratefulness to it that like is rubbing me in 0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:47.680 a certain way. 0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:49.080 I get that, and I think a lot of people 0:25:49.080 --> 0:25:51.280 feel that way. But I also think she does it 0:25:51.400 --> 0:25:53.960 for I literally think she's an artist, Like I think 0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:56.240 she does it for the love of music and art. 0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:58.359 I don't think she's doing it for the awards, or 0:25:58.359 --> 0:25:58.680 that I. 0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:01.359 To show up to the Grammar if that's really what 0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:02.159 how she's like. 0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:02.760 You know what I mean? 0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:08.520 Are there's I think she's very vocal and like wants 0:26:08.560 --> 0:26:10.880 to be outspoken, and she wants things to be fair. 0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:12.840 And I think what she said about the record labels 0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:16.480 and everything is like so important. Yes, But I think 0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:20.280 there's times where she probably says things and it's like, 0:26:20.400 --> 0:26:23.400 oh she I think she just speaks and says. 0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:25.920 But she said it multiple times that. 0:26:25.920 --> 0:26:28.639 She doesn't want a Grammy, she doesn't want the Grammy, 0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:30.280 that she doesn't like being famous. 0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:32.919 I wish that's it's interesting. I don't think any of 0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:35.040 us wouldn't. I don't think any of us know how 0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:39.720 do we react to sudden global fame, right from complete 0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:42.600 anonymity to I can't go to the grocery store any I've. 0:26:42.400 --> 0:26:45.240 Never seen anyone have this shift in a career, like 0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:48.280 go from where like she's been in the industry for 0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:51.880 eleven years, but to go from this like opening artist 0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:55.680 touring like these small venues to being the biggest artist 0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:57.680 in the world in one year feels like I don't 0:26:57.720 --> 0:26:59.200 even think we could grasp that. 0:26:59.560 --> 0:27:01.679 And some people handled like. I felt like Billie Eilish 0:27:01.680 --> 0:27:03.560 had a pretty quick rise and I thought she handled 0:27:03.560 --> 0:27:05.239 it pretty fine and gracefully. But you just never know 0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:07.440 how you're going to handle it. I don't think yeah, 0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:09.160 because I think I just want to be a musician. 0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:11.119 I want to play music for a living. I don't 0:27:11.160 --> 0:27:13.000 need people coming up to me and poking me and 0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:14.720 taking pictures of me when I'm not being you know, like, 0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:16.800 there's an element of it that is kind of gross 0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.240 that I think would be hard to adjust to. And 0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:22.159 I've appreciated her honesty in that because I find that fascinating. 0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:24.919 And with the social media stuff. 0:27:24.560 --> 0:27:26.280 All of her dreams came true and then suddenly she's like, 0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:28.240 that isn't as great as I thought. 0:27:28.000 --> 0:27:28.359 It would be. 0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:29.480 Real. 0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:31.720 I get it, it's like real. 0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:34.000 But then but then, if this isn't what you want, 0:27:34.240 --> 0:27:36.560 then like, you don't have to come to the Grammys. 0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:37.400 You don't have to. 0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:39.000 You know, the Grammys. 0:27:39.359 --> 0:27:40.400 I'm not saying that. 0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:43.520 I'm not saying that she wasn't amazing, but like, she 0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:44.760 doesn't have to do it. 0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:47.040 If this is not what she wants, then why are 0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:47.880 you participating. 0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:50.920 I haven't seen her say that about the groomy, So 0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:52.080 I don't know what you're talking about. 0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:54.760 Google Mark sure, but also I saw the clip of 0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:58.439 her and she did apparently they're still doing carpool karaoke 0:27:58.560 --> 0:28:01.320 and there's James parents in the back seats and they're 0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:03.800 all singing Pink Pony Club together, which is about you know, 0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:06.480 her kind of her and her mom. Like it was 0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:10.040 such a sweet thing. Yeah, I'm on board, I'll google it. 0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:16.840 I'm on board two. I do out one thing that 0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:20.760 I just couldn't get past day. I still I'm still 0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:23.760 not over. It was Birds of a Feather not winning 0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:30.760 a single award, I know, the best pop song we've 0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:32.119 had in so many years. 0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:35.720 Tough category though, I will say that was but a 0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:36.640 stacked category. 0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:40.440 But I seven seven nominated Taylor. 0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:42.520 I think she had six, I know. 0:28:42.640 --> 0:28:44.680 But for some reason, I feel like Taylor didn't think 0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.680 she was gonna win. Like I feel like Billy was 0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:50.200 really like, this is like the greatest album I've ever made, 0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:53.440 and I'm nominated seven times. I'll at least get one 0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:55.880 of these for Birds of a Feather probably, And then 0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:58.640 I don't think Taylor ever thought she was gonna win. 0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:01.360 For some reasons, We're just like there to have fun. 0:29:01.400 --> 0:29:03.880 It felt like, yeah, I agree. 0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:06.840 But also, you know, it's so funny the whole Drake 0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:09.680 and Kendrick Lamar thing and how they were going back 0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:12.360 and forth. It was like, here's this and here's that. No, 0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:14.920 here's this song and here's this song. Then Kendrick Lamar 0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:19.760 drops not only a number one smash hit record of 0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:22.440 the year, song of the year. I mean they were 0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:24.120 having like a little squirt gun fight, and then all 0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:27.120 of a sudden, it's just a tank comes along and 0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:28.440 out of. 0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:30.560 The water and he's performing at the super much. 0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:36.560 Yeah. Yeah, I didn't I don't know about any of 0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:39.320 that beef. I knew that they was beef, I just didn't. 0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:40.520 Know about Yeah. 0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:44.760 And then like this was Kendrick's like response, and it's 0:29:44.960 --> 0:29:46.920 not only the biggest song of the year, but it's 0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:48.800 like the biggest pop culture movement. 0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:50.840 Like it was massive. 0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:53.920 Every star in music singing along about how Drake's a pedophile. 0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:58.520 Yeah, literally crazy, it is pretty crazy. 0:29:58.560 --> 0:29:59.360 I didn't know the lore. 0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:01.880 Yeah, it goes, it's deep, it's thick. 0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:04.680 I really enjoyed Shakira's performance. 0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:10.120 I couldn't call the Musical Synergy Club meeting staff between. 0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:12.640 John mayertt fire Aid, and then Shakira at the Grammys. 0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:17.760 I was like, Yeah, we were all just like staring 0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:20.800 at the TV in silence when she started, and I'm like, 0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:22.080 how does her body do that? 0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:26.640 I know, how does she do that? I also have 0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:28.840 to say and I can admit it here. 0:30:30.240 --> 0:30:31.000 Just breaking news. 0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:36.840 Yeah, exclusive, I have been sleeping on do same. 0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:40.040 Yeah. I felt that that was a moment. 0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:42.920 One of the best performances of the night, best acceptance 0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:43.680 speech of the night. 0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:47.560 I thought, I'm a new dochier. Was her fans called. 0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:54.400 Don't know know Doja cats fans named something strange. 0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:55.600 It's like, not Doja. 0:30:55.720 --> 0:31:01.400 It's like, are called the coven, Yeah, coven, coven, the coven. 0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:02.520 Isn't that like a witch cover? 0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:03.360 Yeah, like a group of. 0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:05.120 What are DOC fans called? 0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:08.880 No, that's that's the coven Doja? Doja cat fans are 0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:09.640 called kittens. 0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:12.880 Oh yeah, yeah, Okay, so the coven. So I'm part 0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:13.320 of the coven. 0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:20.280 Also our girl, Sabrina. Give it up for Zabrina Carpenter, 0:31:21.480 --> 0:31:22.240 scrubbing in. 0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:24.720 Legend and scrubbing in Legend. 0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:27.440 Truly, I do feel like she got a little robbed, 0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:28.880 Like I feel like she could have done. 0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.160 She should have swept like she should have just like. 0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:37.080 I don't remember a Grammy's being this stocked. It was 0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:39.720 hard any any category. I was like, it could be 0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:40.280 any of them. 0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:42.160 Yeah, I agree, that was tough. 0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:43.840 Sabrina fans are called carpenters. 0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.840 Yeah, But I will say there's a lot of controversy 0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:50.200 over Beyonce winning Album of the Year. I was very 0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:52.440 excited and I posted about it on my Instagram and 0:31:52.480 --> 0:31:54.000 I got a lot of hate in my d ms 0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:56.040 about it, And this is what I have to say 0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:56.280 to the. 0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:58.240 Haters, She's looking straight. 0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:01.120 What was the controversy? 0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:06.760 Beyonce had one single off that album and Sabrina had 0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:09.760 like five or six off of hers, and blah blah blah. 0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:14.240 Charlie Xx's was like this moment of the summer everybody had, 0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:21.880 Like but you go first the fact that Beyonce reinvented 0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:27.120 herself entirely and rebranded and stepped into a genre that 0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:31.520 is so hard to step into for anyone, let alone 0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:36.800 a woman of color. And the album itself is incredible, 0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:38.560 like The Blackbird Reimagined. 0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:40.600 I don't even like the Beatles version. This one. 0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:43.200 To me, it is the Beatles, right, Yeah, yeah, This 0:32:43.240 --> 0:32:48.200 one to me is like so gorgeous. The Jolene reimagine 0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:52.600 is perfection. Yah Ya is like the Bopy isst bop 0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:57.760 of the world. Bodyguard is one of my favorite songs 0:32:57.760 --> 0:33:02.400 of all time. I miss Levi's Jeans with Post Malone 0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:07.200 is beautiful. The song with Miley is stunning. Like that 0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:10.720 album is so good. So the whole album is so good. 0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:14.160 But not only that, she rebranded, reinvented herself, and to 0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:16.960 do that and to do it well is so freaking hard, 0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.080 and I just think she totally deserved it. 0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:21.360 So and Milely responses that if the Grammys have shown 0:33:21.400 --> 0:33:23.000 us anything over the years is they kind of do 0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:25.000 their own thing. They're not based on album sales and 0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:26.840 not based on how many hits come off on an album. 0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:30.000 They're gonna do what strikes them, and so they chose Beyonce. 0:33:30.200 --> 0:33:32.160 I don't question that. Some years I questioned that, I 0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:32.880 don't question. 0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:34.800 That this year, No, Yeah, I feel the same. It 0:33:34.840 --> 0:33:37.240 was it was anyone's game. In my mind, I was like, 0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:39.360 this could be anyone and I'd be happy about it. 0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:41.760 I think I don't know if there were there may 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:43.920 have been some ones that I was like, who is 0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:44.760 that j. 0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:46.880 Collier, No, I know who that is. 0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:51.080 She's like three. He's also amazing. But like they're not 0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:55.800 like in the the conversation as much as the others. 0:33:57.000 --> 0:33:59.600 Listens to every Album of the Year nominee all the 0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.400 way through every year. What do you think of Jacob Collier? 0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:09.640 Seless words are coming to mind? 0:34:10.000 --> 0:34:11.480 Great talent, not for me? 0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:14.040 What about Andre three thousands album? 0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:15.680 Great talent? Not for me? 0:34:17.280 --> 0:34:19.040 But you're listening to the whole thing I did. Yeah, Yeah, 0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:21.200 that's impressive and I love the commitment there as a 0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:21.880 physition of it. 0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:22.400 Thank you. 0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:43.279 Okay, So there was a lot of controversy which you 0:34:43.360 --> 0:34:46.160 spoke on of the girl that was interviewing a baby 0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:51.080 Face and then like just aggressively, she called out to Chopple, 0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:53.000 Oh god. 0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:59.719 Did you see Okay, Mark, please google right now Babyface 0:34:59.800 --> 0:35:03.000 and you Associated Press and just watch. 0:35:03.040 --> 0:35:03.920 It's like thirty seconds. 0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:08.200 So basically, these two girls from Associated Press were interviewing Babyface, 0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:11.960 who is like a musical legend, and as they're in 0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:15.160 the middle of the interview, Chapel is walking by and 0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:21.160 they basically totally disregard what he's saying answering their question. 0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:26.520 Thought literally just avoid him and they're like, there's Chapel, 0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:29.000 there's Chapel, and he kind of goes, oh, do you 0:35:29.040 --> 0:35:30.440 want to get that? 0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:31.319 You do that? 0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:34.480 Yeah, yeah, and just kind of been more graceful about it. Baby, 0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:36.560 he was so graceful, a harrow. 0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:39.080 Because if that were me, I would have been like, 0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:39.760 are you joking? 0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:42.440 I don't know what I would have done. I felt 0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:43.319 so bad for him. 0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:45.799 You would have been shocked, I know, but I don't 0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:46.680 know how graceful. 0:35:46.719 --> 0:35:48.440 I don't know how I would have handled it. I 0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:50.200 guess I probably would have been like, oh, yeah, you 0:35:50.200 --> 0:35:51.400 should talk to Chapel. 0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:55.719 But I felt so bad because people are coming so 0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:59.560 hard at those girls, like they're like asking the associated 0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:00.600 pressage did you watch it? 0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:03.480 Can you hear the audio? But the audio is a little. 0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:05.120 Yeah. 0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:09.759 Came out looking like a baby face, like like I'm 0:36:09.760 --> 0:36:10.000 like a. 0:36:10.160 --> 0:36:11.759 Done baby girl, A baby girl. 0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:12.080 Yeah. 0:36:12.160 --> 0:36:14.040 If he was a baby girl before, he is a 0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:18.040 baby girl now. But these girls are like people are 0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:21.200 telling them that they should be fired that like all 0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:25.280 this stuff, and I'm like, look, I agree that nobody 0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:27.000 should be treated with that much disrespect. 0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:28.279 Like I get it. 0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:31.320 It was so disrespectful. Even if you're like Susie at Starbucks. 0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:35.319 You shouldn't be treated that way legenda, right, But again, 0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:38.080 it's not about the notoriety. It's just about like it 0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:42.760 was just so epically rude. But I also like because 0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:44.560 in the video you see the girl kind of like 0:36:44.640 --> 0:36:46.880 lean back, like she's like listening to somebody, like a 0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:49.239 producer or something. And I'm sure, again I don't know, 0:36:49.320 --> 0:36:51.439 but I'm sure the producer was probably like Chapel Roone 0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.840 get her, because that is the gig you want to 0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:57.640 get the artists that are that's like that's their night, 0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.520 you know what I mean. Like she was heavily nominated, 0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:02.400 so you want those heavy hitters for your stream or 0:37:02.440 --> 0:37:03.160 whatever you're doing. 0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.480 But shouldn't there be a producer who's grabbing people like 0:37:06.520 --> 0:37:10.200 that so that the interviewer isn't held responsible for having 0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:11.000 to do what she did. 0:37:11.080 --> 0:37:14.400 Whenever I've worked at like E, like the E has 0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.200 somebody at the top to do that. They like they 0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:20.360 say yes, we will take you now. Hey they're talking 0:37:20.360 --> 0:37:22.799 to somebody right now. Can you come back in two minutes? Uh, 0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:25.000 they'll get you know, notes in their ears saying blah 0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:27.200 blah blah is on approach. So if you want them 0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:29.160 hold until they come, you know what I mean. So 0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:31.879 we have that person, but I've also worked carpets where 0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:32.800 I don't have that person. 0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:33.640 That person is me. 0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:37.560 And let me tell you, publicists are ruthless and they 0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:39.680 will just they want to get in there. They want 0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:41.880 their whoever they are with to get that interview, and 0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:44.879 they will not take no for an answer. So you'll 0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:46.440 just be interviewing people that you might not even know 0:37:46.440 --> 0:37:48.680 who they are, but just because you want to be 0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:54.000 nice and like, again, whatever, if there's somebody big coming 0:37:54.280 --> 0:37:56.360 your way, there are different ways. 0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:56.960 To do it, you know what I mean. 0:37:57.360 --> 0:37:59.200 You have handled the situation I want. 0:37:59.239 --> 0:38:01.040 I would I would want to say if I were 0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:04.440 wrangling my own situation and I'm talking to Babyface and 0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:06.400 I see chapel Rone behind him, and I know I 0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:09.960 want her, I think I would not interrupt him, but 0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:12.640 I'd be like, oh my gosh, best new artist chapel 0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:14.080 Ron is right behind you, Babyface. 0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:15.560 You are you a fan of hers? 0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:17.719 Kind of include her in the conversation with him, and 0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:20.040 then say can we bring her into and like kind 0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:22.520 of do them together. Maybe that's how I feel like 0:38:22.680 --> 0:38:24.680 in my perfect world in my head that I would 0:38:24.680 --> 0:38:27.080 have handled the situation, because. 0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:29.160 Again, you don't want to lose her. If she walks 0:38:29.200 --> 0:38:32.520 it away, you're out totally. But you also don't want 0:38:32.520 --> 0:38:34.759 to just completely someone else. 0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:38.000 It like drifts off into the abyss like you know, 0:38:38.080 --> 0:38:40.719 it's like, bye, he gets it. 0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:43.520 He's like a legend, is he. He's like, I'm sixty 0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:47.520 five years old. Chapel roone is huge. She's like, Tanya, 0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:51.719 is it enormous? And I think that he understood that 0:38:51.840 --> 0:38:54.200 I'm going to step back and she can come in. 0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:55.840 And I think that makes a lot of sense. 0:38:57.160 --> 0:39:04.200 The absolute audacity, that respect, disrespect and the audacity has 0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:04.759 love me. 0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:11.239 Ruthless as if I wasn't insecure about it. 0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:13.920 You can barely see it. That's the joke we've been 0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:16.640 doing the whole show. It's not that big. It's not. 0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:21.839 I literally don't even see it. 0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:23.759 Away from that camera. Come look at this one. It's 0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:24.319 right there. 0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:25.759 You have your big light one. 0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:31.200 But I will say I have been baby faced many. 0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.359 Yeah what did you even say? A probably heard big 0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:33.560 on face. 0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:35.239 I just like enormous. 0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:37.880 Yeah, it's enormous. 0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:40.719 Gets it that she's of the moment and he's maybe 0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:42.920 not of the moment. I've had this happened many times 0:39:43.600 --> 0:39:46.239 because when I'm talking to someone and Ryan Seacrest walks 0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:48.719 in the room, I cease to exist and I get it. 0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:51.480 I understand it. So it's it is what it is, 0:39:51.600 --> 0:39:51.799 you know. 0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:55.719 Yeah, I guess somebody talk. 0:39:57.000 --> 0:40:01.400 Do you hear there's a buzzing? 0:40:01.600 --> 0:40:04.360 There's a buzzing that's quite pestery. 0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:08.239 I guess I'm the same like I think I would be. 0:40:08.880 --> 0:40:11.360 You have to stay humble. You have to realize that 0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:13.920 there's going to be someone bigger than you in the moment, 0:40:14.120 --> 0:40:18.880 especially in those carpets, Like nothing makes you feel smaller 0:40:19.120 --> 0:40:22.279 than being on a carpet and someone really popular coming 0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:25.600 up after, right, right, So I would like to think that. 0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:27.279 And baby Face handled it was so much crazy. I 0:40:27.360 --> 0:40:29.920 think that's exactly what he knew. I just it was. 0:40:30.040 --> 0:40:31.200 It was tough. It was tough. 0:40:31.400 --> 0:40:34.000 It was so tough to watch, and I watched it 0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:36.520 like a hundred times, and like people were in my 0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:40.200 DM saying, like, do not associate the other girl with 0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:42.920 the situation. It wasn't her fault, it was the other girl. 0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:45.880 And I'm like, she didn't do anything to stop it. 0:40:46.080 --> 0:40:47.279 Yeah, she was like. 0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:54.640 By Babyface like I'd be like, yo, sorry. 0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:01.560 And the crazy thing is like, uh, Chapel didn't know 0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.440 obviously what was going on, but you know if she knew, 0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:12.440 I feel like her personality, she'd be like, you know, yeah, anyways. 0:41:12.080 --> 0:41:13.960 I didn't even watch their interview with Chapel Roone. 0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:21.719 To be honest, No, did anyone listen to Rachel kirconnell 0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:22.720 and call her daddy? 0:41:23.280 --> 0:41:24.080 Did not? Did you? 0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:27.200 Oh? Yeah? I did? You did? Yeah? I was really 0:41:27.280 --> 0:41:28.560 curious about what happened. 0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:30.759 So let me tell you what I've heard. 0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:34.040 Okay, watch it, but I want you. 0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:36.759 To take if you think this is accurate. Okay, that 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:40.480 she was too close, too closely removed from her breakup, 0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:41.680 like it was too fresh. 0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:43.320 That's what people are saying. 0:41:43.400 --> 0:41:46.480 Yeah, why because they were saying that she was like 0:41:46.520 --> 0:41:48.680 defending Matt James a lot, and that like you do 0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:50.600 when you newly break up with somebody that you're kind 0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:52.959 of like still kind of thinking about them and wanting 0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:54.520 to defend them and still make them like you know, 0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:57.000 and then were two or three months out you're like them. 0:41:56.840 --> 0:42:01.600 Yeah, she was still in that. The The first part. 0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:06.520 My take on it is that sure, maybe it was 0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:09.160 too soon, she still loves him. Obviously, you don't like 0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:11.920 fall out of love or want to protect someone just 0:42:11.960 --> 0:42:15.960 because they hurt you or broke up with you. And 0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:18.640 him breaking up with her wasn't the issue to me? 0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:22.040 Why because I'm like, if he got to a point 0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:24.239 where he was trying to like get there and like 0:42:24.440 --> 0:42:26.799 was like, what's wrong with me? Like this girl's amazing, 0:42:26.960 --> 0:42:30.040 we travel together, we work so well, but like I 0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:32.200 don't feel like I want to marry her, Like maybe 0:42:32.239 --> 0:42:35.919 marriage isn't for me. Even though it took longer than 0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:38.839 one would hope, I'm glad he didn't waste any more 0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:39.440 of her time. 0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:42.240 You know, four years is a lot of wasted time. 0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:42.319 I know. 0:42:42.400 --> 0:42:44.560 But if he didn't do it, then, like he could 0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:46.880 have let it go till five or six years, you 0:42:46.920 --> 0:42:49.000 know what I'm saying. Like if she wasn't willing to 0:42:50.000 --> 0:42:51.920 set that boundary of when. 0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:54.040 She so, is that what happened? She said, I want 0:42:54.040 --> 0:42:56.120 you to propose, and I was like, nah. 0:42:55.920 --> 0:42:58.200 No, I don't even think. I think. I think like 0:42:58.320 --> 0:43:01.040 she he knew that she wanted. They talked about rings 0:43:01.040 --> 0:43:02.680 and stuff, and I think that's where she was kind 0:43:02.719 --> 0:43:05.760 of confused, like why are we even talking about rings 0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:07.920 and stuff if you don't see me as a wife 0:43:08.040 --> 0:43:11.280 to you. Because basically they were trying to find a restaurant. 0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:13.560 She was trying to find something good enough that he 0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:15.720 could film this content, and she felt a lot of pressure. 0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.840 I can't I need you to tell me what happened 0:43:17.880 --> 0:43:19.600 because I can't believe that this is it. 0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:21.319 No, this is real. 0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:23.719 It's so crazy. No no, yeah. 0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:26.360 So they go to eat and she it's just like 0:43:26.440 --> 0:43:28.359 not good, and she gets really upset because she put 0:43:28.360 --> 0:43:30.000 the pressure. She's like, you know, we filmed, like that's 0:43:30.000 --> 0:43:32.359 his job. We film content like every time we go eat, 0:43:32.400 --> 0:43:36.480 which I was like, that's crazy. Like if Haley was 0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:39.359 having to have this bright light on my face every 0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.759 time we filmed, I mean every time we ate, and 0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:44.040 was like getting an up close shot of me eating, 0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:47.680 that wouldn't work. Anyways, she was fine with it, though 0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:49.879 she put a lot of pressure on herself to find 0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:52.280 the restaurant. They go, it's not good. She starts crying 0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:55.640 and he's like, why are you crying? Like he couldn't 0:43:55.680 --> 0:43:57.759 figure out why she was upset, which I thought that 0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:01.160 was weird. Why he wasn't just like, hey, you're like 0:44:01.320 --> 0:44:04.480 helping me out every restaurant's going to be perfect, Like 0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:06.440 you're okay. He was just kind of like, why are 0:44:06.480 --> 0:44:10.239 you crying? They got in another fight the next day, 0:44:10.719 --> 0:44:13.600 and then he basically was just kind of like, there's 0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:17.560 qualities that you have that I don't see as my wife. 0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:19.560 What are those qualities? 0:44:21.360 --> 0:44:26.239 It's hard to say if they talked about that. Anyways, 0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:29.040 he brings up with it right before her flight back 0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:31.480 to She's going back to the States for a baby 0:44:31.480 --> 0:44:36.160 shower from Tokyo. That's a long fight, okay. For whatever reason, 0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:38.640 he was leaving the next day. I'm like, why wouldn't 0:44:38.640 --> 0:44:40.320 you fly with her? It's not like you're staying in 0:44:40.400 --> 0:44:48.040 extra week or something. Why why? And then as she's 0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.120 on the plane, because of something like she has a 0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:53.760 VPN or something, she can't get access internet on flights. 0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:57.160 So as they're taking off, she starts getting texts from 0:44:57.160 --> 0:44:58.959 her friends and stuff, and they're like, oh my god, 0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:02.359 what happened? And she realizes he posted the breakup post. 0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:04.400 But he did break up with her, right. 0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:07.319 Yeah, But then like three hours later post about it 0:45:07.360 --> 0:45:10.160 without telling her, and she didn't even get to tell 0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:13.080 her friends or family. That's how they found out, and 0:45:13.120 --> 0:45:15.680 it happens as they're taking off and she doesn't have 0:45:15.760 --> 0:45:18.400 internet the whole flight, can you imagine? 0:45:18.960 --> 0:45:20.840 No, that's the part. 0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:23.160 Where I was like, this is crazy behavior. 0:45:23.440 --> 0:45:24.759 Did she say why he did that? 0:45:26.400 --> 0:45:26.560 No? 0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:27.480 I don't think she knew. 0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:28.759 She was so curious of the flight, Like did she 0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:30.600 watch a movie on the flight? Like, did she you know, 0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:31.920 try to get her mind off of it? Was she 0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:35.120 so stressed that's such a long flight. 0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:38.360 It's such a long flight. Like if I don't have 0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:42.560 internet for a hour flight and something happens, I'm anxious 0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:43.160 the whole time. 0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:44.160 Yeah. 0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:48.319 So anyways, she she did not speak. I did not 0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:50.400 think she spoke poorly about him at all. And I 0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:54.280 think that she's like, listen, he did a really hurtful 0:45:54.320 --> 0:45:57.359 thing and our relationship wasn't perfect. But I don't think 0:45:57.360 --> 0:45:59.759 she wants to villainize him more than he's already being 0:45:59.800 --> 0:46:00.960 villa by people. 0:46:01.080 --> 0:46:01.439 I do. 0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:06.280 I don't. I think if like, like, you son't rude. 0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:08.359 I'm sorry if you break up with someone and you 0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:10.640 know it's on your Instagram three hours later. 0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:13.960 But I think she spoke her truth and let other 0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:17.719 people have their like feelings and opinions about it. But 0:46:17.840 --> 0:46:19.880 she wasn't going to bash them, which I think was 0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:22.600 really classic. You wouldn't have done that with Robbie when 0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:23.640 he broke up with you. 0:46:23.680 --> 0:46:25.120 No, But you know what else I didn't do. 0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:27.160 I didn't post he didn't post it on If he 0:46:27.200 --> 0:46:29.239 posted it on Instagram, you best. 0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:30.560 Believe what would you have done? 0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:33.800 There would have been some some some things thrown. 0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:35.960 Well. I think her thing thrown was going on the 0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:38.160 biggest pot one of the biggest podcasts in the world 0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:41.040 and telling the story for everyone to hear. That was 0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:42.920 a nice rebuttal in my opinion. 0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:45.799 Now I got to get Kendrick Lamar involved and I 0:46:45.840 --> 0:46:48.040 had to write a song about it, and then next 0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:49.640 year he can win all the Grammys. 0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:54.319 I saw that you proposed for Valentine's Day? 0:46:54.760 --> 0:46:56.360 I did, Is that? 0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.160 Do you do that every year? Does that? I don't 0:46:58.280 --> 0:46:59.080 all switch off. 0:46:59.320 --> 0:46:59.959 We don't really. 0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.480 I don't think we've ever really done that in a minute. 0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:07.799 Oh but I feel like, because there's so much like 0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:10.160 wedding stuff going on, we're like in the thick of it, 0:47:11.000 --> 0:47:12.640 and his birthday's coming up at the end of the month, 0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:17.000 which is probably gonna get like overshadowed. Definitely overshadowed because 0:47:17.000 --> 0:47:19.200 we have like a thing the day after, you know, so, 0:47:19.480 --> 0:47:21.279 I feel like I'm wanting to like step up a 0:47:21.320 --> 0:47:21.959 little bit more. 0:47:22.400 --> 0:47:22.480 So. 0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:24.120 I asked him last night to be my Valentine. 0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:25.680 Did he say yes? 0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:27.200 Yeah? I wrote it. 0:47:27.239 --> 0:47:29.920 I wrote I put rose petals from the doorway to 0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:32.640 the to the where the card said, will you be 0:47:32.719 --> 0:47:34.759 my Valentine? Check the box yes or no? 0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:39.560 They checked yes. Wow, yeah, spoiler alert. 0:47:41.239 --> 0:47:44.360 Was he surprised, Yeah, he was actually surprised, and he 0:47:44.440 --> 0:47:46.320 was like, I wanted to ask you to be my Valentine. 0:47:46.360 --> 0:47:47.880 I was like, you snooze, you lose. 0:47:48.360 --> 0:47:49.719 He can still do it. 0:47:50.880 --> 0:47:54.640 No point, Oh he's already mine. Well, already locked it in. 0:47:55.000 --> 0:47:56.040 Okay, you locked it in. 0:47:56.080 --> 0:47:57.520 What are you guys doing for Valentine's Day? 0:47:58.560 --> 0:48:01.120 Haley planned something. I think we're doing like a spa 0:48:01.280 --> 0:48:03.239 day and then dinner or something. She was like, I 0:48:03.320 --> 0:48:06.760 booked stuff for Valentine's or I think either on Valentine's 0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:10.200 Day or day after day after. I know, I'm excited. 0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:18.960 She's she gets back tomorrow. Another long jaunt, long jaunt down. 0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:21.120 Yeah, you guys are like pros now. 0:48:21.760 --> 0:48:24.160 I want to say that, but getting better. 0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:26.239 Really, I feel like you've handled it great. 0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:29.239 Yeah, no, we did. We did a great job. 0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:32.200 I don't like it, yeah, true, true, true affair. 0:48:32.640 --> 0:48:34.440 I'll know that. I'm ready to be a pro at it. 0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:37.719 I did want to talk about this because I got 0:48:37.760 --> 0:48:40.960 a couple of d ms about Savannah Chrysalie has a 0:48:41.000 --> 0:48:46.120 podcast and she was talking about Special Forces. 0:48:46.560 --> 0:48:48.440 Yea, this is so funny. 0:48:49.280 --> 0:48:52.200 And she was mentioning how Tanya rad was on her 0:48:52.280 --> 0:48:59.760 season and that she was so wild that's crazy cigarettes. Yeah, 0:49:00.239 --> 0:49:07.359 And I was like, multiple packs of cigarettes and I 0:49:07.440 --> 0:49:09.839 was laughing because she meant Tara Reid. 0:49:11.880 --> 0:49:14.560 The funniest ever. 0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:17.360 I just honored that my name even got mixed up 0:49:17.400 --> 0:49:19.919 with Tara Reids, like Tanya Rat and Tara Reid. 0:49:19.960 --> 0:49:21.960 I feel like, are not interchangeable, Like. 0:49:22.000 --> 0:49:24.000 You're just not going in six. 0:49:25.239 --> 0:49:28.840 Sixty five pounds soaking wet. I mean, not me. 0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:33.960 That is so good. I literally would just do anything 0:49:34.040 --> 0:49:36.320 for you to go on Special Forces. 0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:38.480 And that would be a disaster. 0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:41.479 I would love it so much. You should special Because 0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:45.680 I realized just the lack of sleep would have me 0:49:45.840 --> 0:49:48.560 in the worst. I would be the worst version of myself. 0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:52.880 Take away the physical action and pain, just like the lack. 0:49:52.800 --> 0:49:54.879 Of hold in the cot or and. 0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:57.080 They just scream at you, like, but you get to. 0:49:57.080 --> 0:49:59.920 Sleep like you have sleeping out though. Oh really. 0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:01.960 I asked Tyler Cameron one time when I saw him, 0:50:01.960 --> 0:50:03.880 and he was like, yeah, you don't sleep much at all? 0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:05.880 What like three hours or like six hours? 0:50:05.960 --> 0:50:08.560 I think more like three four. I could be wrong, 0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:11.759 but he made it seem it's as bad as it 0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:12.799 as I think it is. 0:50:13.040 --> 0:50:15.440 Oh, I feel like you'd be good at Special Forces. 0:50:15.480 --> 0:50:16.840 I would be whole right now. 0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:18.680 I don't know that I'm mentally strong. I think I'm 0:50:18.680 --> 0:50:21.200 physically strong enough. I don't think I'm mentally strong enough. 0:50:21.560 --> 0:50:22.400 That's just my truth. 0:50:23.239 --> 0:50:24.960 I think you're a lot mentally stronger than you think 0:50:24.960 --> 0:50:25.239 you are. 0:50:25.560 --> 0:50:28.160 So is the bottom liner that Savannah Crystley is a scrubber? 0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:30.480 Because how is Tanya Rad so top of mind for her? 0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:36.080 I think that's the takeaway. Yeah, happy to have you. 0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:37.080 As a scrubber, thank you. 0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:41.759 They love that she's just like, yeah, Tanya rad was 0:50:42.080 --> 0:50:46.319 crazy bat wild, smuggling SIGs. Yeah. 0:50:46.480 --> 0:50:48.759 People were sending me like you know how like podcasts 0:50:48.760 --> 0:50:52.279 like will transcribe the audio into type like, so they're 0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:54.920 sending me screenshots of her saying all this stuff about me, 0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:57.120 and I'm like, I'm I. 0:50:57.080 --> 0:50:58.480 Was, like, was I on Special. 0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:01.840 I don't think I was on Special Forces. 0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:09.240 It's so good, so good. We are wrapping up this podcast. 0:51:09.280 --> 0:51:13.800 But don't worry because tomorrow we have a new episode. 0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:18.759 Oh Friday, maybe I'm not sure, but this week one, yeah. 0:51:18.640 --> 0:51:22.040 Not tomorrow. If not tomorrow, the next day, we will 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:23.160 be back with the Dear Bone. 0:51:24.160 --> 0:51:26.960 This one, we had some scheduling conflicts. 0:51:26.560 --> 0:51:28.960 Some scheduling conflicts, but one thing we're gonna do is 0:51:28.960 --> 0:51:31.200 show up anyway, whether it's a few days. 0:51:31.080 --> 0:51:34.239 Late, because you know why we are shower uppers. Mm hmm. 0:51:34.840 --> 0:51:38.000 We're gonna scrub in and scrub out deep. No matter, 0:51:39.480 --> 0:51:41.800 we are gonna scrub so deep. 0:51:41.960 --> 0:51:46.120 WHOA, Okay, we'll be back on. We'll be back with 0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:49.160 a Dear Bonnia episode later this week. Remember if you 0:51:49.280 --> 0:51:52.600 want us to answer your Dear Bonnia question, dm us 0:51:52.600 --> 0:51:55.040 on Instagram at scrubbing In pod or email us at 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:59.440 scrubbing In ihearmedia dot com. And we love you so much, love. 0:51:59.280 --> 0:52:02.640 You, see you later. T t I A to be 0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:03.239 continued 0:52:08.040 --> 0:52:08.480 Mma hmm