1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Brandon is on the 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up and he's 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 1: getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in a few minutes, we're 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: gonna call her and see if she's house, why she's 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Brandon, 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: how long has it been since you heard from Caitlin. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 2: Man, Uh, it's been probably about a week or so. 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, You've been trying to hit her up. 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing. 11 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 3: Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about 12 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 3: your date. 13 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: So we were set up by a mutual friend. Man, 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 2: I heard it was right like, Caitlin was beautiful and 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 2: so fun and h instantly I was, I was hooked. 16 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: So we took her or I took her out to 17 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 2: uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool. That 18 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: let you build your own pizza and put your own 19 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: toppings and stuff and you get to be creative with 20 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: with your with your pie, and uh, that's that's all cool. 21 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: But I'm you know, I'm really more of just like 22 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 2: a Peperoni guy. So I just did that, but Caitlin, 23 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: she actually convinced me to try some prosto on my pizza, 24 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: and I gotta hands her it was. 25 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 5: It was delicious. 26 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 4: I didn't know what I've been missing out. 27 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 3: On yours when you ordered that, I did, Okay. 28 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 2: I got to throw it a little bit. I love Italian, 29 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: so anytime I could say no, it was it was 30 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: great so good. They were like, well, let's just keep 31 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: this going. We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at 32 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: a place next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good 33 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: whiskey too, so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey, 34 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: and uh that opened the door to talking about travel 35 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: and our hopes and dreams. 36 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 6: And places we've been, places we'd like to go. 37 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: So then after that, I walked her home and actually. 38 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 4: Ended the night with a kiss. 39 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 5: It was I guess it was a little awkward, but 40 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 5: it was awkward. 41 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: Well you just like I went in to kiss her, 42 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 2: kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I 43 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: ended up like kissing her lips, and it was It 44 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: was kind of an awkwards last funny moment, but cool. 45 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments 46 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing 47 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it. 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, like it was. 49 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: It was kind of like a funny moment, but I 50 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 2: mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and 51 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: and we're planned to see each other afterwards. 52 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: Okay, that's good, but she hasn't gotten back to you. 53 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 3: What do you think? What do you think the reason 54 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: is she's goosed to That's that's the thing. 55 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like, like we had a great day, 56 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 2: you know, the piece was was great, the drinks afterwards 57 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 2: were great. 58 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 6: You know. 59 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of funny and 60 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 4: she didn't seem put off by it. You know, she 61 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 4: actually leaned into the. 62 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: Kiss afterwards, so like it seemed like everything was happening. 63 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 2: But then I don't know, I mean, you know how 64 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: you seem to go like any anything could have happened 65 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 2: near in the night that she might have just sound 66 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 2: disgusting or off putting, and then just didn't want to 67 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: make it awkward. 68 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 7: I don't know. 69 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 4: I'm kind of I've never been. 70 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 6: Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions 71 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 6: with I'm going home, but. 72 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 3: Did nothing happen that's sticking out in your mind. 73 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: No, no, and like even at the like I said, 74 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: like at the end of the night, like with the kiss, 75 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see 76 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: me again would have engaged like that, you know. And 77 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 2: then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was 78 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: excited to see me again. So that's even more like 79 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: trivia with the situation. 80 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 3: Now, mm hmm. Okay, well we'll see if we can 81 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 3: figure it out for you. 82 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call 83 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: her and sous your house why she's ghosting you, and. 84 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: Maybe get to another date. 85 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, well play on come Back and 86 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: get your first Day follow up next. 87 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 5: If you're just. 88 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: Joining us for today's First Day follow up. But Brandon 89 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin. 90 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: So we're about to call her and see if she'll 91 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we 92 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: can get him another date. But first, Brandon, before we 93 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: call her, why don't you refresh our memory on your 94 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: date with Kaitlyn. 95 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 6: So Caitlin and I went on a date. 96 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 2: I set it by mutual friends. We had pizza and 97 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 2: wine and that was great, build your own and then 98 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: we went out for drinks afterwards, great conversation. That walked 99 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 2: her home and we ended up kissing and it was great. 100 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 2: And then she was excited to seemingly excited dissing me again. 101 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: But after that, it's just been Na's been no communication. 102 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 3: And you have no idea why. 103 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:45,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, nothing. 104 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 6: It's kind of disappointing. So I really liked her. 105 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 2: I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to 106 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: be mutual. So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it 107 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 2: didn't work out. 108 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, are you ready for us to call her? 109 00:04:59,080 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 6: Absolutely? 110 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: All right, here we go. 111 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, mass sweet to Kitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how 112 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a 113 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. 114 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 3: Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, 115 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 3: and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much? 116 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 5: Why are you calling me? 117 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to the show before? 118 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry. 119 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: That's okay. You don't have to apologize. 120 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: Maybe you will know that's we're calling you because we 121 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date. 122 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 6: Follow up. 123 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: That's where if you go on a date with someone 124 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: and then you ghost them, that person can email us 125 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: and ask us to call you and see if we 126 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: can figure out why you're ghosting them. So we got 127 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: an email about you from somebody that you went on 128 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: a date with. 129 00:05:55,120 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 3: Oh are you ghasting somebody? Well you are? You know 130 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 3: who it is? 131 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 5: Is it Brandon? 132 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 7: Yes? 133 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about 134 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: your date, and he said he really likes you and 135 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: he thought you were into him. So he's confused as 136 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: so why you're ghosting him? Do you mind telling us? 137 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 5: Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and 138 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 5: smart and kind of awkward. It is actually kind of charming. 139 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 3: So you liked him, but you're ghosting him? 140 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 7: Well, he texted me something after our date that I 141 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 7: just like, haven't been able to get over. 142 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 5: I didn't really know what to do with it. 143 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 3: Well, was it a picture or something? 144 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 2: Oh? 145 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 3: No, God, no, I mean that happens. 146 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 5: I think he's a good guy. 147 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 3: What did he text you? 148 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 5: Okay, letly really find it. 149 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 4: Uh? 150 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 5: Okay, the text is your magic and have awakened parts 151 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 5: of my body that I have never felt before. 152 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 3: Well as romantic. 153 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 7: It's like on the line, you know, like I don't 154 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 7: that's just that's a lot after one day and kiss, 155 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 7: and like I don't know if he's like in a 156 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 7: Shakespeare play, Like is he taking himself seriously? When he 157 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 7: said that, I kind of was expecting another text that 158 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 7: was like, you know, harks their maiden, I long for 159 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 7: another evening of your presence or something like that. 160 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 3: You know, I could have been you know, there's some 161 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 3: people out there that believe in love at first night, 162 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 3: so if they're laying on, don't think that could be 163 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 3: a good thing. 164 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 7: It was just it was so earnest and it just 165 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 7: kind of felt like too much. And I think he 166 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 7: hasn't been in a relationship in a while, and so 167 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 7: I was afraid he was in like this romantic, dreamy 168 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 7: bubble and I I gotta be with someone who's in 169 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 7: the world that I'm living in. 170 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 5: You know what I mean. 171 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 3: So I just hit you like a little bit too much. 172 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 5: It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible? 173 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 5: Like I'm it's a person, give yourself a little magic, 174 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 5: but like I've awakened parts of his body they. 175 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 3: Never saw. 176 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 5: A little overwhelming to me. Okay, and then I don't 177 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 5: know if I'm like on a pedestal. I just it 178 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 5: just made me a little nervous. 179 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well thank you for telling us that. 180 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: Now I got to let you know that Brandon is 181 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: on the phone and has been listening and wants it 182 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: talks on. 183 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 4: Okay, Park, Yes, well, I have dreamt of this pleasure 184 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 4: of occasion. 185 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 7: Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry I just put your business 186 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,599 Speaker 7: out on the radio, but you didn't have them call me. 187 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 4: So no, that's that's quite all right. 188 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: What parts of the body were awakened, Brandon? 189 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 6: I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people understand. 190 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 3: That was pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going 191 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: on through your mind when you sent that text? 192 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 4: I don't know I was awakened. 193 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 5: I'm just I'm a playful guy. 194 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: But Kaylyn just want to assure you that I do 195 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: live in a reality and after our date, I was like, legit, 196 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 2: I've never felt that way, and after my last relationship, 197 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 2: I just that was lacking and I want another date 198 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 2: and I want to be a part of your reality. 199 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 6: Oh maybe I'm over the top, but this is how 200 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 6: I was feeling, honestly. 201 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 3: Well, Caitlyn would you like another date with Brandon? We'll 202 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: pay for it. 203 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 204 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 3: Oh see Shakespeare's got Congratulations Brandon, you did it, You 205 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: got another day. 206 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 5: I mean I that he has a good attitude and 207 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 5: and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that we're 208 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 5: more on the same page than. 209 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 4: I thought, Kaylen. 210 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 6: And I can't say how I say it am And I. 211 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: Promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you can always 212 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 2: talk to me about it. 213 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 5: But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are in bloom. 214 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 4: I wait for next week at the Outback Steakhouse soon. 215 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 3: That is a romantic, jubile first day follow up.