1
00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:04,399
Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.

2
00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,880
Speaker 2: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or

3
00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,480
Speaker 2: a terrible throuffle, guess what.

4
00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:16,880
Speaker 1: You've got decisions. You got decisions, baby, and I do too.

5
00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,360
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try to come up with a jingle. Okay,

6
00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,280
Speaker 3: all I know that, listen. All I know is I

7
00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,760
Speaker 3: was listening to all of these interviews about clips and

8
00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,800
Speaker 3: apparently they bought themselves out of their deal and I

9
00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,520
Speaker 3: was like, wait, push your Tea got that much money?

10
00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,239
Speaker 3: And girl, apparently he made the jingle I'm loving it

11
00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:38,720
Speaker 3: for McDonald's.

12
00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:42,680
Speaker 1: And oh yeah that on a was it Family Few?

13
00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,080
Speaker 2: There was an episode of something where it talked about

14
00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:49,479
Speaker 2: push your teeth. No, it was an episode of for

15
00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,320
Speaker 2: a Vaccine. I'm like, I was like Family Few was

16
00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,320
Speaker 2: talking about pushing teeth.

17
00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,440
Speaker 1: We did an episode of.

18
00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,520
Speaker 2: Ways that People Got Rich that were like a surprise

19
00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,600
Speaker 2: Doctor Dre we featured because it's just like beats.

20
00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,720
Speaker 1: He got riches from Beats with yes and push your t.

21
00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:08,080
Speaker 2: Was on there and we were like yes.

22
00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,160
Speaker 1: So when I saw I was like, wait, push your

23
00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:11,200
Speaker 1: tea got coins.

24
00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,839
Speaker 3: Like that, and bitch when I went when I heard

25
00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,320
Speaker 3: what I heard I was like, oh, bitch, about to

26
00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,000
Speaker 3: make some jingles, like I know we're doing cute or

27
00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,320
Speaker 3: New York Times bestsellers and all we have this podcast.

28
00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:27,320
Speaker 1: But I'm like, bitch, I'm okay, let's let's go. Let's

29
00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,559
Speaker 1: get a you Got Decisions jingle.

30
00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:31,839
Speaker 2: Oh no, I was gonna give you a random Company.

31
00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,880
Speaker 2: Okay ready, Oh, random Company? Okay, one, two, three cbs.

32
00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,920
Speaker 1: The receipts are long. That's good.

33
00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:47,440
Speaker 3: That's it me long, that's okay, Random Company, Planned parenthood.

34
00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,920
Speaker 1: Don't want to keep it, no worries.

35
00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:55,560
Speaker 2: Hey, I ain't got no money.

36
00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,680
Speaker 1: Oh I lost it. I think we need to get

37
00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,000
Speaker 1: into and prov classes.

38
00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,880
Speaker 3: Anyways, guys, we want to thank y'all once again for

39
00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,040
Speaker 3: helping us become New York Times bestsellers. However, if you

40
00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,520
Speaker 3: have not yet, please go and get our book, No

41
00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:16,440
Speaker 3: Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration or power

42
00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,440
Speaker 3: and power not or bitch And by the way, always

43
00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:26,000
Speaker 3: like to let y'all know that we see y'all. I

44
00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,919
Speaker 3: just want to say Devnet Isaac, you are the only

45
00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,240
Speaker 3: one star review on Amazon, and it's only because you

46
00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,639
Speaker 3: receive the book damage and so if you can DM

47
00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,960
Speaker 3: me Weezy, this book came like it was stepped on

48
00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,000
Speaker 3: by a dinosaur, and I feel so bad. No uploaded

49
00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,919
Speaker 3: a picture and I'm like, oh my god, hey look

50
00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:53,560
Speaker 3: you cut it out. That's why I'm like, listen, devinet Isaac,

51
00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,919
Speaker 3: if you can literally reach out to my Instagram, Weezy's

52
00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,680
Speaker 3: Instagram where the decisions Decisions Instagram. I want to make

53
00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,080
Speaker 3: sure I get you a brand new book, and I

54
00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,320
Speaker 3: want to get it to you signed hunt because I

55
00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,240
Speaker 3: am so sorry that Amazon did you dirty like that,

56
00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,280
Speaker 3: but also, bitch, go back and give us five stars

57
00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,440
Speaker 3: hope because the word they mess up is just the

58
00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,360
Speaker 3: book binding of it.

59
00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,079
Speaker 1: Goddamn.

60
00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:18,080
Speaker 2: By the way, speaking of signed books, walked into random

61
00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,120
Speaker 2: stores today, I want to give a shout out to

62
00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,600
Speaker 2: P and T Nitwear on the Lower East Side. I

63
00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,280
Speaker 2: walked in there to buy a book that Tracy from

64
00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,480
Speaker 2: the stackspot recommended. I was like, by the way, can

65
00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,920
Speaker 2: I sign some books? And they were like hey, she

66
00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,560
Speaker 2: was like hell yeah, can I take some pitch on

67
00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,600
Speaker 2: the und books. I'm like yes, I started signing fun bitch,

68
00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:37,600
Speaker 2: they all sold right there.

69
00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:44,840
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'll take you personalized by shit. That is dope.

70
00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,600
Speaker 1: That is really really dope.

71
00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,000
Speaker 2: It feels special to sign something and then someone's got

72
00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,280
Speaker 2: to run and go get it. I was gonna post

73
00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:53,800
Speaker 2: it and be like, come grab this sign copy. I

74
00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,520
Speaker 2: wrote secret messages on different pages.

75
00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:56,560
Speaker 1: It's so funny.

76
00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,680
Speaker 3: Merrow does something like that where he'll sign something or

77
00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,440
Speaker 3: lead like a pair of Knick tickets somewhere in the

78
00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,119
Speaker 3: city and literally you have to just go to the

79
00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,480
Speaker 3: place and find it. But there your and it comes

80
00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,480
Speaker 3: fine like real life. I love stuff like that. It

81
00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,680
Speaker 3: reminds me of Jake Cole's Dollar and a Dream Tour.

82
00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,480
Speaker 3: They just always became scavenger hunts. And today we are

83
00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,559
Speaker 3: going to help a horror Hive member and Patreon member.

84
00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,040
Speaker 3: Y'all know that if you want to see the video

85
00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,480
Speaker 3: of you Got Decisions, just join us over on Patreon.

86
00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:29,320
Speaker 3: It's patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions. But we are

87
00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,279
Speaker 3: going to help our girl out because she is in

88
00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,560
Speaker 3: a dry spell right.

89
00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:34,840
Speaker 1: Now and she's looking for a cure.

90
00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:40,480
Speaker 3: Oh, so let's get into it. Hey, Mandy and Weezy,

91
00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,520
Speaker 3: I love you too. I was excited for the rebrand, However,

92
00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,839
Speaker 3: I couldn't leave Horrible Decisions alone, so I've become a

93
00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,680
Speaker 3: Patreon member. That's what the rest of y'all gotta do. Okay,

94
00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,120
Speaker 3: horrible decisions isn't anywhere. It's just five dollars a month now.

95
00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,680
Speaker 3: I also had the pleasure in meeting y'all in twenty twenty,

96
00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,839
Speaker 3: right before the pandemic happened, when you guys came to Houston.

97
00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,680
Speaker 1: Anyway, let's get to it. I'll try to keep it short.

98
00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,160
Speaker 1: Keep it short, bitch, because I'm gonna get lost. He

99
00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,480
Speaker 1: kept it short. She kept it sure, I promise you. So.

100
00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,640
Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been living together for a

101
00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,719
Speaker 3: year and a half. However, we've been dating for three years.

102
00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,240
Speaker 3: For context, I'm thirty two and he's forty. I love

103
00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,240
Speaker 3: him a lot, and he's literally the sweetest ever. Unfortunately,

104
00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,479
Speaker 3: we find ourselves in dry spells a lot.

105
00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:28,960
Speaker 1: I work in the morning and he works at night.

106
00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,440
Speaker 3: Like literally, I get home when he is starting his

107
00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,159
Speaker 3: shift and he gets home when I'm in deep sleep.

108
00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,440
Speaker 3: When we have a few days off together, it seems

109
00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,760
Speaker 3: like we are really just enjoying each other's company and

110
00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,400
Speaker 3: sex is not on the brain for me at least.

111
00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,200
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm the problem, being that quality time is one

112
00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,840
Speaker 3: of my love languages. It seems like we just get

113
00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,680
Speaker 3: lost in between us catching up on shows and playing

114
00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,880
Speaker 3: our favorite game, Sims and two K. I suggested scheduling sex,

115
00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,799
Speaker 3: and he thought sex on the calendar was corny.

116
00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,960
Speaker 1: His suggestion was trying mushrooms.

117
00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,599
Speaker 3: However, I didn't want to be dependent on something like

118
00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:07,000
Speaker 3: that to get the juices flowing. When we were long distance,

119
00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,720
Speaker 3: we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. But

120
00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,520
Speaker 3: that's obvious why we would go weeks without seeing each other.

121
00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,680
Speaker 3: My question is, what are some tips to try to

122
00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,440
Speaker 3: get each other in the mood in a fun, playful way,

123
00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:23,480
Speaker 3: or try to stop the dry spells from happening so frequently.

124
00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,760
Speaker 3: I'm not used to taking charge, and I honestly think

125
00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,800
Speaker 3: we both waiting for someone to pounce. I feel like

126
00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,040
Speaker 3: we are getting too comfortable with each other and I

127
00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,960
Speaker 3: want to bring the spark back. Love y'all, you both

128
00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,960
Speaker 3: make me laugh. Can't wait to hear what you have

129
00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,360
Speaker 3: to say. By the way, she did take off all

130
00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,560
Speaker 3: the easy things for us to say. No planning on

131
00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,719
Speaker 3: the calendar, no additive of drugs.

132
00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:48,279
Speaker 1: So here we go. So I'm gonna be honest.

133
00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:53,320
Speaker 2: I have sex every day, but I wouldn't say it's spicy,

134
00:06:54,120 --> 00:07:01,280
Speaker 2: and he's still here. Babe, I've needed to do some shit, bitch,

135
00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:08,839
Speaker 2: damn it, he's here. Never mind nothing, I'm podcastic. Okay,

136
00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:10,440
Speaker 2: this is what I was gonna say, y'all. I was

137
00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,360
Speaker 2: gonna say, Yeah, I realize I've been needing to do

138
00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,200
Speaker 2: extra shit because I've given pussy at night when I

139
00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,400
Speaker 2: really feel like that kind of gets you in a

140
00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,960
Speaker 2: little bit of a routine that's not necessarily great. I

141
00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,760
Speaker 2: see that at night right before bid So I've been

142
00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,400
Speaker 2: planning to like where lingerie and just come out in heels,

143
00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,120
Speaker 2: and I keep forgetting to do it because we get

144
00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,240
Speaker 2: caught up in a good fucking movie, or we just

145
00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:35,120
Speaker 2: get tired and then just end up being like I

146
00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,040
Speaker 2: don't want to put this on. I will say this.

147
00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,560
Speaker 2: I would make your own fucking calendar. Don't make a

148
00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,880
Speaker 2: calendar where he's sharing it. I would make a calendar

149
00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,680
Speaker 2: that literally tells yourself you need to be doing this shit.

150
00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:56,000
Speaker 2: Because last night it hit me and I was like, damn,

151
00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,480
Speaker 2: when is the last time I sucked this nigger without

152
00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,400
Speaker 2: a T shirt that didn't have fucking saying on it,

153
00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,280
Speaker 2: Like I just be tone to put you know what

154
00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:07,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and that's not necessarily what keeps a relationship

155
00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,840
Speaker 2: healthy either, Like having regular sex is cool, but sometimes

156
00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,880
Speaker 2: it can turn into going through the motions. So I

157
00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,440
Speaker 2: think it's almost akin to being in a rut. It's

158
00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,320
Speaker 2: almost just like doing it because like, all right, let's

159
00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,800
Speaker 2: put ourselves to sleep. So I would recommend doing a

160
00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,040
Speaker 2: calendar for yourself, like we talk about in Noho's Barge,

161
00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,440
Speaker 2: setting boundaries because nobody else is gonna set them for you, bitch,

162
00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,360
Speaker 2: set a fucking schedule because if he's thinking it's corny,

163
00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,360
Speaker 2: you actually have to do this. You don't want to

164
00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,000
Speaker 2: play sim's that bad, bitch, get yourself some deep.

165
00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,760
Speaker 1: So that's what I was gonna say.

166
00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,720
Speaker 3: Like, in terms of even the fact that your days

167
00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:42,000
Speaker 3: off together are spent playing video games, I think.

168
00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:46,839
Speaker 1: You should be kind of more clearly.

169
00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,000
Speaker 3: You said neither of y'all like to take charge, but

170
00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,440
Speaker 3: I think setting up a date night, Like if y'all

171
00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,559
Speaker 3: have been together now for three years and now you

172
00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,160
Speaker 3: feel like you're just getting bored, I think to bring

173
00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,120
Speaker 3: back the excitement of going out, getting a date and

174
00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,720
Speaker 3: making it to however you use the fuck when y'all

175
00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,640
Speaker 3: were long distance relationships in a long distance relationship, and

176
00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,520
Speaker 3: whatever you used to turn y'all on, maybe try to

177
00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,360
Speaker 3: switch that back on. So set a date night with

178
00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,360
Speaker 3: intent to suck his dick on the car ride home,

179
00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:20,600
Speaker 3: Like have the intent to set up the play and

180
00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,600
Speaker 3: then execute at the end. I think like a lot

181
00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,280
Speaker 3: of times you can't think that like a date night

182
00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,920
Speaker 3: is a basic thing to do, because you actually have

183
00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,120
Speaker 3: to get a real hype for the date night. Find

184
00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,880
Speaker 3: something that's sexy. Maybe it's a show where you live.

185
00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,920
Speaker 3: Maybe it's even a lounge that just feels sexy. Put

186
00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,640
Speaker 3: on lingerie underneath the clothes for the intent to fuck.

187
00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,120
Speaker 3: I've realized I don't know if you can agree.

188
00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,640
Speaker 2: The second I would even say, even when you're not

189
00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,599
Speaker 2: in a relationship, this ain't even boyfriends shit to me.

190
00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,520
Speaker 2: It could even be niggas that I've been fucking for years.

191
00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,160
Speaker 2: The second you got one really good round where it

192
00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,959
Speaker 2: kind of like changed your normal shit, whether it be

193
00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,080
Speaker 2: lingerie or a different position or or a different room,

194
00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,400
Speaker 2: then it spices up the next sex. Like I just

195
00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,840
Speaker 2: think you guys aren't probably having a spicy X moment.

196
00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,000
Speaker 1: That's really what it is. Because maybe he both were

197
00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:11,480
Speaker 1: just good with fucking once a week.

198
00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:22,320
Speaker 3: My mind just went to something really spicy, and I

199
00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,920
Speaker 3: mean we like twelve minutes in.

200
00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,000
Speaker 1: So I think we could start being like a little

201
00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,200
Speaker 1: bit more graphic. Uh.

202
00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:31,880
Speaker 3: I've been having a thing lately where even if they

203
00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,760
Speaker 3: don't fuck me or maybe they're they're tired or something

204
00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,040
Speaker 3: like that, I really have been enjoying pulling out a

205
00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,560
Speaker 3: dildo and telling my partner to fuck me with it.

206
00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:43,280
Speaker 1: I did it with this guy in La.

207
00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,280
Speaker 3: I used to do it with my ex like in

208
00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,160
Speaker 3: the morning if I still wanted to be fucked and

209
00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,880
Speaker 3: he just didn't have all that energy for me, Like

210
00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,400
Speaker 3: I'd be like, well, here you go, and I'd be like,

211
00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:53,959
Speaker 3: fuck me.

212
00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,000
Speaker 1: With this, so not me, here you go. You can

213
00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:57,280
Speaker 1: put it.

214
00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,440
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'd be like, Okay, well, if you ain't

215
00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,320
Speaker 3: got enough dick for me, I gotta dick for me, okay,

216
00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:05,520
Speaker 3: And all you gotta do is operate it. But I

217
00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:09,760
Speaker 3: think that again, I mean, this could seem very simple,

218
00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:16,160
Speaker 3: but pulling out toys, Weezy said, the possibility of you

219
00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,640
Speaker 3: creating your own calendar and him not knowing. But maybe again,

220
00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:23,000
Speaker 3: instead of sitting in front of the TV watching shows

221
00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,160
Speaker 3: and playing video games. Maybe you literally set up fild trips,

222
00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:30,000
Speaker 3: take a goddamn trip to the goddamn sex tour and

223
00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,240
Speaker 3: pick some things out for y'all to try or do,

224
00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,800
Speaker 3: like a night out at the strip club. Like I

225
00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,559
Speaker 3: think always being in spaces that just remind you that

226
00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,040
Speaker 3: sex can be fun and sex can be on the

227
00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,360
Speaker 3: table in more ways than just the traditional route, then

228
00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:47,959
Speaker 3: I think it brings the excitement and the spark back,

229
00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,560
Speaker 3: and if you're looking for the spark, I think a

230
00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,880
Speaker 3: field trip to the sex stour is always like you

231
00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,000
Speaker 3: pick a toy and he gets a pick.

232
00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,760
Speaker 2: He's a place that's like a low pressure strip club.

233
00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,000
Speaker 1: There is a low pressure strip club.

234
00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,400
Speaker 2: Bro, if anyone lives in New York, you have to

235
00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:07,360
Speaker 2: go to this strip of It is called Pumps New York.

236
00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,199
Speaker 2: It is in Williamsburg and it's kind of like death

237
00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:16,920
Speaker 2: metal tattooed bitches. It's weird, but it's like kind of grungy,

238
00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,880
Speaker 2: so it's cheap. If you sit at the bar, you

239
00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,120
Speaker 2: have to tip each girl a dollar. It's just and

240
00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,800
Speaker 2: it's like a bikini city bar type of vibe. But

241
00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,760
Speaker 2: at the same time, it's just like whatever we're in

242
00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,440
Speaker 2: Williamsburg for the day, let's go to pumps, and sometimes

243
00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,760
Speaker 2: just being around the girls and being able to comment

244
00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,719
Speaker 2: and obviously in good ways, you know, just being like ooh,

245
00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,240
Speaker 2: this one's sexy, I like this, I like that. That

246
00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,400
Speaker 2: shit be fun. You just gotta gotta remind yourself. And

247
00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,559
Speaker 2: strip clubs to me, are very non threatening for spicing

248
00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:50,000
Speaker 2: up relationships because hey, you're going home together, you're experiencing

249
00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,600
Speaker 2: this together, and this is this bitch's job.

250
00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:53,960
Speaker 1: It's to turn y'all on.

251
00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,000
Speaker 3: So it's like, just literally go and be you. Okay,

252
00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:03,160
Speaker 3: you wait, you just gave a place suggestion. I have two,

253
00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:08,520
Speaker 3: one for LA, one for New York. So it's not

254
00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,280
Speaker 3: a strip club. It's not a strip club. Neither of

255
00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,120
Speaker 3: them are strip clubs. But in New York, I would

256
00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:20,600
Speaker 3: suggest bathtub gin Gin. I love bathtub Gin especially like

257
00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:21,800
Speaker 3: it's just the ambiance.

258
00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,360
Speaker 1: Make sure you get a table because.

259
00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:25,680
Speaker 3: Otherwise you'll be standing at the bar and you're not

260
00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,480
Speaker 3: gonna get the full experience. But bathtub gin is really cute.

261
00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,240
Speaker 3: And then in LA it's one.

262
00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:32,679
Speaker 1: Of the places.

263
00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,760
Speaker 3: Now I feel bad because I take any nigga that

264
00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,760
Speaker 3: I meet in LA. Now it's like LA some often. Now,

265
00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:46,400
Speaker 3: mister Wanderlust. It's downtown side of it, like the Ac Hotel.

266
00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:51,280
Speaker 3: It's like there's like eight floors of stuff. But mister Wanderlust,

267
00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,840
Speaker 3: when you walk in, there's a woman on an aerial

268
00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:57,240
Speaker 3: hoop that's like in a burlesque outfit. And if you

269
00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:01,320
Speaker 3: go early enough, they actually have a bur less performer

270
00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,280
Speaker 3: that comes out from the center of the bar behind

271
00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:08,400
Speaker 3: the bar, literally unsuspecting and it's just sexy. They do

272
00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:13,640
Speaker 3: live music, but the ambiance is hot. And then if

273
00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,960
Speaker 3: you even want to either dumb down the night, you

274
00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,680
Speaker 3: can go to the rooftop and chilling drink or there's

275
00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,320
Speaker 3: a club inside. And I'm not even gonna tell y'all

276
00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,720
Speaker 3: the last time I went in there, I ended up

277
00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,840
Speaker 3: making out with a bitch and almost had a threesome.

278
00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:30,280
Speaker 3: So literally it's just one of these I haven't even

279
00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,400
Speaker 3: told that story yet. I'm probably gonna share that on

280
00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,480
Speaker 3: the Patreon, but it was the last time I was

281
00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:37,920
Speaker 3: in La almost the best.

282
00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,760
Speaker 1: It was crazy.

283
00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, so mister Wanderlust in LA and then Bathtub

284
00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,800
Speaker 3: Gen in New York. I don't think it has to

285
00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:51,200
Speaker 3: be a full blown strip club, but any setting that

286
00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,600
Speaker 3: you have to kind of dress up feel sexy. There's

287
00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:59,160
Speaker 3: sexy people, there's like titty tassels, you drink a cute cocktail.

288
00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,960
Speaker 1: It just that's the vibe to I want to suck

289
00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:03,960
Speaker 1: your dick at the end of the night.

290
00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:07,600
Speaker 3: And so anytime I want a date, if a nigga

291
00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,440
Speaker 3: take me to a champagne piano bar, baby.

292
00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are we still here? I want to

293
00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:13,840
Speaker 1: put it in my mouth.

294
00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:17,280
Speaker 3: And so I suggest going to those type of spaces too,

295
00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,360
Speaker 3: And so I think that that's the great thing weezy.

296
00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,040
Speaker 3: And I just let you know, like a lot of

297
00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,760
Speaker 3: people when they think about getting spicy and you know,

298
00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,800
Speaker 3: not having sex, so much of.

299
00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,440
Speaker 1: It starts outside of the bedroom. Bro.

300
00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,280
Speaker 3: It starts out of the bedroom, set the mood outside

301
00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:32,880
Speaker 3: of the bedroom.

302
00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:35,080
Speaker 1: And I think that also.

303
00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,680
Speaker 2: You think of getting spicy as the tools the things

304
00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:41,480
Speaker 2: to bring in.

305
00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,800
Speaker 1: I really believe getting spicy is the energy.

306
00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:50,160
Speaker 2: Like for me, like even I'm making the comment, oh

307
00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,360
Speaker 2: we're just fucking before bad a lot, I need to

308
00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,720
Speaker 2: just do x y Z. Actually, to be honest with you,

309
00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,200
Speaker 2: I'll spicy shit up. But I was talking crazy last

310
00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:02,640
Speaker 2: night and I'm telling you sometimes you gotta step our

311
00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,000
Speaker 2: dirty talk up too, which iall started googling shit.

312
00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:06,600
Speaker 1: I was like, let me say something crazy. You were

313
00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:07,840
Speaker 1: googling dirty talk.

314
00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:09,960
Speaker 2: I was like, cause I was like wanting to do

315
00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:12,680
Speaker 2: an episode around dirty talk and where it comes from.

316
00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, this could be cool. But

317
00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,160
Speaker 2: then I was like, what would I use for myself?

318
00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,920
Speaker 2: And one of the things I saw was if someone's

319
00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:21,920
Speaker 2: fucking you and you want to like start sucking dig.

320
00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,760
Speaker 1: It was let me taste how you make me feel.

321
00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,640
Speaker 1: I want to taste what you're doing to me. I

322
00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:30,960
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well, now I'm going to overshare something.

323
00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:32,520
Speaker 1: He was looking at me. He was confused. He was like,

324
00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,280
Speaker 1: about they hand me my own coucie juice. He was

325
00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,600
Speaker 1: really lost. I'm going to overshare something.

326
00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,200
Speaker 3: But this is also something if you want to get

327
00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:44,080
Speaker 3: a little accessory. I recently went to the sex store

328
00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:45,720
Speaker 3: because I was like, well, I'm going to show out

329
00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:46,520
Speaker 3: my love boom.

330
00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,960
Speaker 1: So I was like, I'm gonna show out.

331
00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:53,920
Speaker 3: They had a butt plug that was like something that

332
00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,200
Speaker 3: you know fit him, and so I don't know if

333
00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:59,560
Speaker 3: you know, if you if you go online, you can

334
00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,720
Speaker 3: google butt plugs. So if he's like a basketball fan,

335
00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,400
Speaker 3: you can get a butt plug with a basketball if

336
00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,119
Speaker 3: you if he's a football fan, you could have a

337
00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,040
Speaker 3: football basketball.

338
00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,280
Speaker 1: They also have butt plugs with sports teams.

339
00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,119
Speaker 3: Bro, Like, you could almost get anything at the end

340
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,879
Speaker 3: of a butt plug. And so if you want to

341
00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:19,600
Speaker 3: like make it exciting, what why are you covering your face? Bro?

342
00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:21,320
Speaker 1: Hold on because you're laughing.

343
00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:24,760
Speaker 3: Do not do not say I want you this is

344
00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,520
Speaker 3: a picture of. But I'm gonna show you the bt

345
00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,200
Speaker 3: plug I just bought and it was cute.

346
00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:31,480
Speaker 2: Don't say what it's a picture of. They're gonna see

347
00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:32,720
Speaker 2: you though, No, no, no, no.

348
00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm texting it to you.

349
00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,480
Speaker 3: I'm not sure, but there's like mad different things that

350
00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:42,040
Speaker 3: you can get in butt plug form that could be

351
00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:43,920
Speaker 3: specific to the person.

352
00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,480
Speaker 1: How is cu right?

353
00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:48,919
Speaker 3: Sounds like I got something special for you and I

354
00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:50,639
Speaker 3: bent over and it was a butt plug of something

355
00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:51,080
Speaker 3: he liked.

356
00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:55,080
Speaker 2: So uh the box of where Mandy got it from

357
00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:56,240
Speaker 2: it says booty spot.

358
00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:57,040
Speaker 1: That's all I see.

359
00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,520
Speaker 3: A Well, they have a lot of eyes online, so

360
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:05,240
Speaker 3: if you could even customize some of your sex toys

361
00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:09,199
Speaker 3: for your partner, I would absolutely recommend to do that

362
00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,040
Speaker 3: as well, because that's a good way to spice it up.

363
00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,359
Speaker 3: And let him know that you're intentional and that you

364
00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,320
Speaker 3: pay attention to detail. So yeah, that would be my

365
00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,440
Speaker 3: that would be my last bit of advice. We hope

366
00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:26,760
Speaker 3: that this helps you. We hope that you get out

367
00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,800
Speaker 3: of this dry spell, and we hope that you know

368
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,760
Speaker 3: you write us back and say you've been having the

369
00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,240
Speaker 3: best sex of your life with your partner three years yay.

370
00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:41,159
Speaker 3: If you want to send your questions into us, we

371
00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,720
Speaker 3: will answer it here. On you got decisions, make sure

372
00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,400
Speaker 3: you send it over to Decisions Pod at Gmail.

373
00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:53,199
Speaker 1: Don't call, We'll see you next week. Everybody, Bye, Happy

374
00:18:53,200 --> 00:19:01,560
Speaker 1: home day. Ye simple?

375
00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,280
Speaker 3: Then do the don red, the deep