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Speaker 1: She's been in my house countless times, and I felt

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Speaker 2: His wife didn't hurt you, dude, that was your wife.

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Speaker 3: Are you confused?

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Speaker 2: The only reason his wife hurt you is because you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let us know in the poll and in the

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Speaker 2: This on YouTube, like his feelings are turning into like

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Speaker 2: nuclear fallout and he's just going to get everybody caught

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Speaker 3: He doesn't care what burns, He doesn't care.

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Speaker 1: That's too much, too much, or not vote in the poll.

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Speaker 3: Somebody else's family and kids, Yeah, that's too much.

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Speaker 1: I don't even like. I honestly think it's okay for

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Speaker 1: just think that OPI shouldn't touch it. It's just too messy.

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Speaker 1: It's just too many, too many messes to get into.

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Speaker 1: But Opie says he saw the message but didn't respond

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Speaker 1: for a couple hours. Then he asked for the evidence

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter, you only live once. Enjoy while you can.

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Speaker 1: Don't try to end it. Try with the affair partner

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Speaker 3: It sounds like she's living out her fantasy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, curiously, Okay, I'm backtracking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah again, I don't mind that the husband knows, but

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Speaker 4: Okay, tell about to tom on someone. Yes, I understand you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I didn't understand, like when I was imagining these messages,

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Speaker 3: Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: I got your back yeah, not like like go, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you only live once, why don't you go ahead and

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Speaker 1: Like at this point, he's just got so much going

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Speaker 2: Man. I guess it's like, so he telling him was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he just wants to scorched earth. He's just trying

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Speaker 3: You just plant the seed and then it's done.

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Speaker 2: All the principles that you believe in are fulfilled, and

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Speaker 2: He felt slighted by that woman. He felt like she

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Speaker 1: Build your life in a positive or my god, OPI continues.

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Speaker 1: When I showed this to my wife, I gave her

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Speaker 3: Exactly what you said.

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Speaker 2: Just the rules, the rules, Remember the rules, hey, dangling

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Speaker 1: The rules. He's just using this to torch The reason

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Speaker 4: He's probably gonna get bored after like three months and

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Speaker 2: He's just trying to eat the psychologist for protein. She

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Speaker 3: She wanted me to cry, but I needed gay.

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Speaker 4: fun fact. What we don't know is that the human

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Speaker 1: Think of all the games you could get without.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, not Dakota's Dakota getting on We got to

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Speaker 1: get him off that wagon, all right. So, but the

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Speaker 1: It almost seems like that's what's happening here. Brother. Her

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Speaker 4: For why, you know, the second he's not getting that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's so it's so standonize. It's just so controlling,

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. Yeah, yikes, but.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do remember that.

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Speaker 1: What happened to that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Exactly, dude, That's what That's what I'm saying. Turns out

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Speaker 4: Geez, Louise, dude.

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Speaker 1: So I sold Song about my wife's affair during the

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Speaker 1: My friend and his fiance already knew, so we talked

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Speaker 1: After that, we talked much more and went for a

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Speaker 1: I thought it might be awkward, but it wasn't. She

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Speaker 4: Maybe she just wants you to spill the tea and

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Speaker 2: Is he writing this like we're supposed to be proud

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Speaker 3: That's like, what are we supposed to be happy for you?

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Speaker 3: That you like found? Like, Oh, I hoped up with

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Speaker 4: It's so cool.

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Speaker 4: They work together, my wife for a few years.

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Speaker 2: Just like absurd for you to be like looking for

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Speaker 2: your home life is in shambles.

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Speaker 3: You need to be addressing that.

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Speaker 1: You could have been on the on the on the

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Speaker 1: You had it, you had it for a while, you

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Speaker 1: I don't think he is trying to trying deliberately, but

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Speaker 3: What he wants he wants. It all goes back to

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Speaker 2: We're right on part four and we're going back to

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Speaker 2: part one where he goes eleven.

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Speaker 1: Years, eleven years of my life.

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Speaker 3: That's what that was.

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Speaker 2: Eleven years of my life. Fine, I'll get back at you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'll make up for that.

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Speaker 1: Twisting nights.

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Speaker 1: They're separated but not legally divorced.

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Speaker 2: But regardless, he knows that him being with another woman

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Speaker 4: Oh we love Yeah, keep telling us about this.

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Speaker 1: I thought it might feel strange, but to be honest,

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Speaker 1: just because she did a wrong doesn't mean you doing

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Speaker 2: So the sun is when we delete you, and it's like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's over gone.

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Speaker 3: What the work cloud is is this Spacebland put him.

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Speaker 1: In the space Blender, dude, that's just what this guy needs.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday I was with Sung again. Hey King rats, Bro,

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Speaker 1: is that what you want?

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Speaker 4: We appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Do you think she knows Sam.

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Speaker 1: Song?

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Speaker 2: Do you think she knows Sam Samsung?

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Speaker 4: He's not gonna get it.

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Speaker 1: There is.

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Speaker 2: I could it not, dude. My brain was gonna explode

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Speaker 2: You're like, actually, I want a divorce now, Actually I

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Speaker 2: want a divorce. The script's getting flipped again, and guess

442
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Speaker 2: what he's about to say.

443
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Speaker 4: I already know what he's gonna say.

444
00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:22,159
Speaker 3: Another one.

445
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Speaker 4: It's gonna happen. I know it's gonna happen within the

446
00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,199
Speaker 4: next four paragraphs. I know it.

447
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Speaker 2: She's gonna say I want the divorce and he's gonna

448
00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,440
Speaker 2: go Why because I'm with Because because of how hot

449
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Speaker 2: and cool Sung is.

450
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Speaker 1: It's just so cool attractive, and I'm with her. Yeah,

451
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,439
Speaker 1: it's nice, loser. Was it because she probably knew I

452
00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 1: was with the other girl last night or for some

453
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Speaker 1: other reason? Shut up, dude, I don't know when we

454
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Speaker 1: returned at I'm thirty pm. My wife was already asleep

455
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Speaker 1: with our daughter in her bed. The boys went to

456
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Speaker 1: sleep shortly after, and I'm still awake. If you ask

457
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Speaker 1: me why I'm doing this, which we are, I wouldn't

458
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Speaker 1: know exactly. I think the answer is a combination of

459
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,080
Speaker 1: multiple factors. My wife and I used spicy sleep almost

460
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Speaker 1: every day, so I definitely miss that. I find Sung

461
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Speaker 1: very attractive, and this is something that helps me a lot, obviously, okay,

462
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 1: and I feel much more relaxed. Is it too soon?

463
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Speaker 1: I don't think so. As I said, I'm not planning

464
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Speaker 1: to enter any kind of relationship. If Sung doesn't have

465
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Speaker 1: any problem with this type of agreement and we're both happy,

466
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Speaker 1: than who cares, dude.

467
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Speaker 2: I think the important piece of the pie that you're

468
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 2: you're missing here is that your wife still lives in

469
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Speaker 2: your house.

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Speaker 3: This would all be totally.

471
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Speaker 2: Fine if she wasn't living in your house and you

472
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Speaker 2: were holding over like a set of rules over her

473
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Speaker 2: head like a guillotine.

474
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Speaker 1: And you know what, I think there's a way to

475
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Speaker 1: go about this where Opie's like, hey, look, we're married

476
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Speaker 1: on paper, but we're separated. I want to now go

477
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Speaker 1: out and explore and do all these things. I wanted

478
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Speaker 1: to be a front with you. I wanted to tell

479
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Speaker 1: you and not do things like intentionally like stay up late,

480
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Speaker 1: like he's like almost like planning it social like stay

481
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Speaker 1: up late and yeah, yeah, she's like thinking about it.

482
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Speaker 1: She's like suffering in silence telling the kids, Oh, I'm

483
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Speaker 1: going to dinner. So she knows what that means.

484
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: She knows what means, you know, Like just be like, oh,

485
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Speaker 2: I'm I don't know something that's not that.

486
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 1: Just don't do all of what you're doing. Please God. Uh,

487
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 1: she's single, while I'm not technically single on paper, I

488
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 1: am in my own mind. Is this some kind of revenge? No,

489
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 1: not for me. You're a freaking liar. If I were,

490
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Speaker 1: i'd tell my wife or let her find out somehow.

491
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 1: You've already done that. I've asked myself so many times

492
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Speaker 1: why my wife went to a fair partner's place two

493
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Speaker 1: or three additional times when she says, I'm better looking,

494
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,160
Speaker 1: spicy sleep was better with me, and she wasn't unhappy

495
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Speaker 1: the god this, They actually did this, The polygraph testing

496
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:41,399
Speaker 1: and results confirmed all that, and I couldn't find the answer.

497
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Speaker 1: I don't think she knows the answer either. At least

498
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Speaker 1: I know why I go to see song. She's the

499
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Speaker 1: kind of girl i'd definitely turn around to look at

500
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Speaker 1: on the street if I were single. I always thought

501
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: she looked great, But now that I'm done with my wife,

502
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: I think so even more.

503
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Speaker 2: Do you see how that sentence makes zero sense whatsoever?

504
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Speaker 1: Now that I'm done with my wife?

505
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Speaker 3: Do you not feel the disconnect in your brain?

506
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Speaker 1: Opie the Spicy sleep is amazing. She's funny, easy going,

507
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Speaker 1: and if I were single and normal circumstances, she's the

508
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Speaker 1: type of girl I'd want to be with. So if

509
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Speaker 1: someone asked me, I know my reasons. Honestly, I'm glad

510
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Speaker 1: my wife is feeling this way. Let her know how

511
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Speaker 1: I felt, how I still feel. I expect her to explode,

512
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Speaker 1: probably tomorrow or maybe the next time I go out again.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so he did tell he let her know he's

514
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Speaker 4: going to He's going to called that called that dude.

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Speaker 1: This morning before I left the house with the boys,

516
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Speaker 1: she looks terrible and was staring at me like I'm

517
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Speaker 1: her biggest enemy. As she said in her letter, we

518
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Speaker 1: can never be even. I told her that in my eyes,

519
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Speaker 1: we are done and she can only come back for

520
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Speaker 1: the kids. She knows that it's not my problem. If

521
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Speaker 1: she thinks we can be husband and wife again, maybe

522
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Speaker 1: we will. Who knows, dude, Maybe in twenty fifty, if

523
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Speaker 1: someone had told me thirty days ago that i'd allow

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Speaker 1: her to return to my home, I have told that

525
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Speaker 1: person to seek help. But here we are.

526
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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, why don't you look in the mirror, buddy,

527
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Speaker 3: because you need.

528
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Speaker 1: Some to yea, Why don't you say that to yourself again? Yeah,

529
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: that sounds like a good idea.

530
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Speaker 3: Where is the desire to like?

531
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Speaker 2: He?

532
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Speaker 3: Just like I'm collecting him, collecting myself.

533
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Speaker 2: Okay, this guy just totally like glided over the fact

534
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Speaker 2: that he has no idea why his wife did this

535
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Speaker 2: with the affair partner. And they did the polygraph test

536
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Speaker 2: and everything came back truthful about how she feels about him,

537
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Speaker 2: and she doesn't understand why she still went, and neither

538
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Speaker 2: do you, and neither does anyone.

539
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 3: Maybe figure that out.

540
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Speaker 1: Or I could keep torturing her and being a loser.

541
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Speaker 1: What about being a loser and continuing torture and before

542
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Speaker 1: you can do that, what about that? What about that?

543
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 2: That seems to be a real hot hot choice. Right now,

544
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Speaker 2: all the kids are doing it. Check TikTok for the

545
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Speaker 2: latest whatever. But here we are for now. Though I'd

546
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,919
Speaker 2: rather be intimate than a microwave.

547
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Speaker 1: It sin with her. By the way, guys, you know

548
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Speaker 1: it's way better than being intimate with a microwave. Tapping

549
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Speaker 1: our profile to join us on live every weekday three pmpst.

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Speaker 3: Are you sure about that? You just weren't with the

551
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Speaker 3: right microwave.

552
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Speaker 1: What kind of microwaves are you getting, sir?

553
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 2: Hi?

554
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: Very high wattage, dude, the highest of watts. Getting real

555
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: toasty in there. Wow. Right now, I'm just doing what

556
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: I want. After everything I've been through, I think I

557
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: deserve at least a little happiness, freedom, freedom, and enjoyment.

558
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Speaker 1: That's a funny way of saying I deserve to decide

559
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Speaker 1: what I want to do. Since I have no obligation

560
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: to her anymore, I deserve to have options for my future.

561
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: She had everything with me, and she decided to bang

562
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Speaker 1: some young dude just like that. If she at least

563
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: knew why she did it, Well, now I'm doing the

564
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: same thing. The difference is I don't care about her

565
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: because we're done, and at least I know why I'm

566
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 1: doing this. There's a little bit left, but just to quickly,

567
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Speaker 1: I don't even know.

568
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Speaker 2: You're making our brains explode, making our brains explode.

569
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Speaker 1: I hate open back to your point earlier in the episode,

570
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: like what's the example? What can we learn from this?

571
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 1: How can we grow? And how can we show the kids,

572
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: like how to navigate this? Like with emotional maturity. This

573
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: is the exact opposite playbook of what to do. You

574
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 1: actually have an opportunity here to be like, hey, kids, look,

575
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:18,199
Speaker 1: sometimes things happen in life. People hurt people. It's awful.

576
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: They shouldn't, you know, get to have no consequences, you know,

577
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: But hey, look you can have consequences for what happens.

578
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: Live with that, deal with that. But then two people

579
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 1: can come together with the common goal of trying to

580
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Speaker 1: raise children and give them the best life possible. All

581
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: of this is going to leak down to the children

582
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Speaker 1: you say you love so much. It will affect them.

583
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Speaker 3: Yep, you're gonna turn your kids toxic, dude, You're.

584
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Speaker 1: Gonna turn them to bro. Little Hulk is already on

585
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 1: his way.

586
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hulkomania was ready to suplex the mom. He's nine,

587
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Speaker 2: He's nine, Bro, you know how much you're supposed to

588
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 2: like your mom and your nine.

589
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Speaker 3: A lot, a lot as long as everything is fine. Gosh,

590
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Speaker 3: I mean it sounds like what okay.

591
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Speaker 1: Should we see what's what's what's left here?

592
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 3: And conspiracy theory?

593
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: Yes? Please?

594
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 2: In part five, the final part what I've been harping

595
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 2: about is gonna come to pass, which is they're going

596
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,239
Speaker 2: to get to the root of why all of this

597
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 2: happened in the first place, and then miraculously.

598
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Speaker 3: Everything's gonna be fine, which I would hate, by the way.

599
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Speaker 2: Like I want I don't want this woman to be

600
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Speaker 2: with this man, so I don't want them to be

601
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: somehow the cheater has come out on top.

602
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Speaker 1: Could we have ever have predicted our guest? No, we

603
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Speaker 1: would be here.

604
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: I never would.

605
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Speaker 1: How did this happen? How did this? Riley? How did

606
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: this happen?

607
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 4: Dude?

608
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Speaker 1: What happened? Riley?

609
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Speaker 4: I don't even know. I don't even know. I think

610
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 4: I think revenge and hate got the best of this

611
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 4: person and they decided to just twist the knife even deeper.

612
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Speaker 4: And we're almost through. We almost have went through the

613
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Speaker 4: person at this point.

614
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Speaker 1: Literally there's nothing left. Yeah, any other thoughts there?

615
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: I think My thought is that Josephine has actually a

616
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 2: really a good idea, which is, please find a short

617
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Speaker 2: fun story to end with. I have a very short

618
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Speaker 2: fun thing you can read as a palate cleanser before

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Speaker 2: you end the stream. So when we do, you finish

620
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Speaker 2: part five, which who knows, maybe this last part is

621
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: going to be like the most beautiful, like perfect ending

622
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Speaker 2: to a story we've ever experienced, but the odds are

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Speaker 2: not high.

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Speaker 1: We do closing this recording day. We do have a

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Speaker 1: new experiment for you guys, and we'll see if you

626
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: like it or not. Actually, please let us know, but

627
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Speaker 1: let's close out this part. The difference is I don't

628
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: care about her because we're done, and at least I

629
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Speaker 1: know why I'm doing this. If she asked me, I'll

630
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: be honest with her. She can do whatever she wants

631
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Speaker 1: as long as she doesn't create any chaos in my house.

632
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Speaker 1: If she wants to have orgies with a bunch of guys, fine,

633
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Speaker 1: but not in my house. Beyond that, beyond.

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Speaker 3: He said, fine, n uh yeah, not to you, bro,

635
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Speaker 3: I know you right.

636
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Speaker 1: Beyond that, I couldn't care less about her spicy sleep

637
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: or emotional life at this moment, Thank you and take care.

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00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he just keeps he is he is a god.

639
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: I want to curse so flippin' bad dude. I just

640
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: want to go death conve on this guy right now,

641
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 2: but I can't and I won't.

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Speaker 1: Well, speaking of five, we do have the fifth and

643
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: final part up next. You've had, you have your predictions.

644
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: It could get better, it could get much worse. There's

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Speaker 1: only one way to find out way he's getting Join.

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Speaker 6: Us tomorrow find out next time on dragon ball z Ah.

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Speaker 6: So if you love us, okay, make sure to subscribe

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Speaker 6: We love you.

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Speaker 1: I see it amorrow.

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Speaker 5: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

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Speaker 1: Time for okop re Lam police think I unlived a stranger.

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Speaker 1: They showed me a video of my wife cheating with

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Speaker 1: the victim. I want to run away, am I the

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Speaker 1: a whole?

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Speaker 5: Holy shit, that's a that's a slate of terrible things

656
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Speaker 5: to happen. I feel like this comedy podcast just turned

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Speaker 5: into a true crime podcast and we're going to get

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Speaker 5: to the bottom of this case.

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Speaker 1: We are man. This also, this is like the most

660
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: unlucky man to ever live on planet Earth. Like, not

661
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: only is he being framed for our knock, he just

662
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: He also threw that found out his wife was boning

663
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: some other.

664
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 5: Dude, like dang yaikes, dude, yikes. Well, there's there's only

665
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 5: one way to get to the bottom of his mystery. Sam,

666
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 5: We're gonna get in our Scooby doo van and solve

667
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 5: this mystery.

668
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's see what we got. I've been married

669
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: to my wife for twelve years. We have an amazing

670
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: eleven year old son, and until last night, I thought

671
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: we had a good marriage. We all think things.

672
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 5: Ope, oh man, Op, all things seems like you are

673
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 5: very wrong.

674
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: I thought I was always really good to her. We

675
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: have no money problems, no intimacy problems, and I've never

676
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: taken her for granted. I honestly wake up every morning

677
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: and thank God she is my wife. Poor I'm just

678
00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: getting Saturday for poor Op. Now, I don't know what

679
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: to think. I got a call from my local police

680
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: department as I was getting off work yesterday. They asked

681
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: if I could come to the police station as soon

682
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: as possible. I panicked. I asked if something had happened

683
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: to my wife or my son, but they said not

684
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: to worry, just to get to the station asap. When

685
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: I got there. They put me in a room with

686
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: a table and some chairs, which if you're like if

687
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: the police are saying to come asap, and then they

688
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: put you in like an empty room with chairs like.

689
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 5: That, that, yeah, that they're interrogating you.

690
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: Not a good sign, my guy, not a good sign.

691
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 5: And you should maintain your right to remain silent.

692
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: Zip the lips, lock the key. They asked me my name,

693
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: which I gave. Then they started asking all these questions

694
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: about a guy that my wife works with.

695
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 3: I have no Oh, yeah, this is where we're going.

696
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: This is where we're going. This is where it's going.

697
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: I haven't seen or spoken to this guy literally since

698
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: December twenty nineteen at my wife's Christmas party. The two

699
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: officers kept asking me things like how long have you

700
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: known and how did you find out? The only answer

701
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: I could give was what are you talking about? After

702
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: about an hour of this, I just stopped answering their

703
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: questions and kept asking where my son and wife were

704
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: and were they safe. Yeah, he has no idea what's

705
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: going on right now. He's just asking questions about this

706
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: random guy. Like my god. We kept going around and

707
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: around until after about two hours on and off because

708
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: They would periodically leave the room for fifteen to twenty minutes,

709
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: then come back to start it all over again, like

710
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: some cheap cop show. The last time they came in,

711
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: the cop handed me a tablet and showed me a

712
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: video of my wife and the guy from her work

713
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: hooking up together. Why geez, oh my, why this poor.

714
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 5: Oh this guy? Damn jeez. Imagine like you're dude, imagine

715
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 5: like the office, Like that's how you find out your

716
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 5: wife is cheating. These officers like showing you this video

717
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 5: is like he's getting in pretty good.

718
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: Isn't he in an interrogation room.

719
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 5: This guy's pretty hung. How many inches would you say

720
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 5: that that hug of his is?

721
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: God damn.

722
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 5: I can only imagine if this guy was bowing and

723
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 5: my wife man, she would have come back.

724
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: There is no other worst possible like I could not

725
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: I could not make AI right, a crazier scenario. It's impossible.

726
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: This is as insane as it gets. I don't remember

727
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: much right after that. I just remember screaming what the

728
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:56,239
Speaker 1: F is this? Over and over again. I had a

729
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: full blown panic attack.

730
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 5: Man right in there at the police station, crumbling down seriously.

731
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: The police had a paramedic check me out, and he

732
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: said that my blood pressure was something like seven to

733
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: ten over one ten, which I'm guessing is super super high. Yeah,

734
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: and they're like, why are you so nervous?

735
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 5: What are you trying to hide?

736
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know. You literally just blew up

737
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: my life, like in the most insane way imaginable. Leave

738
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: me alone. Maybe he wanted me to go to the hospital,

739
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: but I refused, and I said that I needed to

740
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 1: find my wife and son. After I cal him down,

741
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: the officers explained that the guy in the video has

742
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: been having an affair with my wife and apparently several

743
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: other women. He had been found that morning, barely alive,

744
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: and it was clear someone had done this to him.

745
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 5: John was just telling me what actually happened to him

746
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 5: off camera. It's really really bad. We can't even share it.

747
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: It's very bad. He was still alive, but in critical condition,

748
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: and they didn't know if he was going to make it.

749
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: His wife had given them permission to go through his

750
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: phone and computer, and that's where they found the video

751
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: of my wife. They asked me where I was that morning,

752
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: and I told them I was at the gym then

753
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: work about ten minutes for my gym, and at that

754
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: point they said I could go, but that I might

755
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: not want to stay at my house because they didn't

756
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: know if his affair with my wife could be why

757
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: he was attacked. They also said that my wife wasn't

758
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: the only person he was having an affair with. That

759
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: is when I rushed home.

760
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 5: Oh, oh my god.

761
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, insanity. My son was staying with our neighbors, so

762
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: I got him and went home. We packed some clothes

763
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: and his laptop for school. I grabbed my shooting device

764
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: and we headed to my parents's house, forty five minutes away.

765
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: I still haven't heard from my wife. Her phone is

766
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: going straight to voicemail. I've called the officer who gave

767
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: me his card, and he said that she is at

768
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: the hospital with the guy she was cheating with. Oh

769
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: come on, like, literally, you don't want to be with

770
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 1: your own child. God, some people are beyond belief. I'm

771
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: sitting here in bed with my son on one side

772
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: of me and my thirty eight on the other. My

773
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: dad is sleeping in his chair in the living room

774
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 1: with his shotgun on his lap, and I haven't slept

775
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: in over thirty hours. I don't even know where to start.

776
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: Anything would be helpful at right now, any advice ideas,

777
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: I am in a complete fog. Well there is an update,

778
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: but I don't even know. I don't even know what

779
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: to say to this one. I mean, it's just like

780
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: it's the most unimaginable.

781
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 5: So I would maybe leave. Yeah, I would leave with

782
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 5: the kid at it, because you get out of town

783
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 5: for a little bit until things pull off, just so

784
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 5: maybe you're safe. I mean, who knows who who's doing this.

785
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 5: It doesn't necessarily seem like he's at risk though it's

786
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 5: probably one of the other the husbands of one of

787
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 5: the other uh yeah, affairs.

788
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: But damn, dude, that probably not.

789
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 5: I mean, based on what you told me, happened to him,

790
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 5: like someone's pissed.

791
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think I feel like I would probably

792
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: do the same thing as you. I'd be like just

793
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: to be super super safe, like let me just get

794
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: out of town. Just didn't like, you know, yeah, and

795
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: just step But okay, let's find out with dude.

796
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 5: Let's yeah, let's see what happens. Hopefully it's better than this.

797
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: We can god, I hope. So after I woke up

798
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: that afternoon, I contacted my uncle's law partner who was

799
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: a family friend.

800
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 5: John's dying over here.

801
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: Guys. I'm I'm I'm.

802
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 5: Man everything I can try to live these stories to you, guys,

803
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 5: I do it.

804
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: I do it for you. I do it for you.

805
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: He actually came to my parents' house and sat down

806
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: with me to go over my options. His entire law

807
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: firm is now representing me both in the divorce and

808
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: criminal defense. That day Sunday, he got me an emergency

809
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: custody order and a protective order against my wife for me,

810
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: my son, and my parents. Our court date is in

811
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 1: sixty days, and the police served her on Monday as

812
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 1: she was leaving the psych hospital. According to her brother,

813
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: who is a close personal friend of mine, she did

814
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: not take it well. Yeah, a wife is giving me

815
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: like very very very very bad vibes. The fact that

816
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 1: she went like wouldn't go to check like if her

817
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: son and on the kid? Yeah, husband safe right, like

818
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: she and wouldn't. Maybe she knows what's going on. Maybe

819
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: she knows may honestly, maybe something like just something just

820
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: doesn't seem right to me here with the wife. Yeah,

821
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: my wife is not the person I thought she was,

822
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: And I'm ashamed of myself for not seeing it sooner,

823
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: I had to tell my son something. Oh my gosh,

824
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: that's all. Oh god, I don't even know.

825
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 5: What you would what you would do, so probably don't

826
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 5: tell the truth completely.

827
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, actually so yeah, so op says. So I

828
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: decided to tell him the truth age appropriate, and literally

829
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: the first words out of his mouth were, please don't

830
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: let mommy take me away? Good God, at least at

831
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: least a father's there with him. I guess. I mean,

832
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: that's at least he's there with him. I asked why

833
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: he would say that, and from what he tells me,

834
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: my wife has been treating him very badly when I

835
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: wasn't around, and told him that if he told me,

836
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: she would take him away and my son would never

837
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 1: see me again. Yeah, this wife is oh my this, yeah.

838
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 5: Oh my god. The thing that's crazy is how do

839
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 5: you not see all this?

840
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: That's the question, Like I don't know. I don't. I

841
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: just don't. I don't know, Like I don't know how

842
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: there wasn't some sort of some sort of sign, some

843
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: sort of sign. I don't know. She has been emotionally

844
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: torturing our son, and I was too blind to see it.

845
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: That wrecked me more than the video. To be honest,

846
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: I told the lawyer about what my son said, and

847
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: he used my son's statement and her mental health state

848
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: and commitment to get the emergency custody. I have contacted

849
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: his school for therapy resources and he will start therapy

850
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: after the first of the year. I feel like the

851
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 1: worst father to ever walk the face of the earth.

852
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: At this point. My lawyers have been doing some amazing

853
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: work so far. They found out that the man my

854
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: wife was sleeping with has a long criminal record. One

855
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: of the lawyers informed me that when they went to

856
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: print out the guy's arrest record, that the printer ran

857
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: for five minutes straight. Oh my god, that's like, I mean,

858
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: that's got to be like.

859
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 5: A man on the streets.

860
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: That's got to be what like a hundred pages of

861
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: like your criminal record. Yeah, that's insanity. From what they

862
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 1: could learn, he is currently on parole for drug offenses

863
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: and has had gang affiliations in the past. He is

864
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: still alive, but in critical condition and still might not

865
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: make it. I have nothing to say for her, and

866
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear anything she has to say

867
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: to me. Her lawyer requested a preliminary hearing for a

868
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: court appointed mediation. Long story short, everything they asked for

869
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: was ridiculous. They wanted visitation during the divorce proceedings and

870
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: shared custody afterwards. They want us to drop the orders

871
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: of protection. She wants to cohabitate until the divorce is finalized.

872
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: I'm not joking. After all of this, she wants to

873
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: live in the same house. It was so insulting that

874
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: my head just throbbed throughout the whole meeting, but it

875
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: was all worth it for the big reveal we gave

876
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: to her lawyer. Her lawyer asked how we should handle

877
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: discovery for the division of assets, to which my lawyer

878
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: got this shocked look on his face and said, what

879
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:57,879
Speaker 1: division of assets? Read the prenup? Ooh, so, saying got.

880
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 5: The lord or a prenup?

881
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: Got if anyone, any any person on that's ever lived

882
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 1: on planet Earth deserves at least some kind of win.

883
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: My god, it is it is Opie with this prenup

884
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: with this guy like geez. The look on her lawyer's

885
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: face was priceless. She hadn't told her lawyer about the prenup,

886
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: but the last thing her lawyer asked for was what

887
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: really messed with me. He asked that we postpone the

888
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 1: official mediation for six months while my soon to be

889
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: ex attends an inpatient rehabilitation facility for substance abuse. Some

890
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: people in both my last posts stated that she might

891
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: have a substance abuse issue, but I didn't even think

892
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: about it because I couldn't even fathom that. But she

893
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: did explain that after a major surgery she had about

894
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: two years ago, she started abusing her medications. After a while,

895
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: she started buying them from some of the people she

896
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: was working with, including the guy she was sleeping with.

897
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: He became her go to and when she ran out

898
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: of money, she started sleeping with him to make up

899
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,439
Speaker 1: for the difference. My God. She said that she hid

900
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: this from me because she was afraid that I might

901
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: make her stop, and she couldn't feel right without them anymore.

902
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: That he meant nothing to her but a fix, and

903
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 1: she hates herself for doing what she's done to both

904
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: herself and to us. Then why was she with him

905
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: and not? It's no, because then why was she ran

906
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: to him before her own like actual husband and child?

907
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 1: Like come on, who are we getting here? Yeah?

908
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 5: I mean the fact that she was there at the

909
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 5: hospital shows that she is emotionally attached.

910
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Now she says she understands how awful it

911
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: is what she's done and wants to get better for

912
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: our family and asked me to at least give her

913
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: some time to prove that she wants this. Let me

914
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: state for the record, I will never get back with

915
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: my wife. Our marriage was over the moment she cheated

916
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: on me and abused her son. But dang, where the

917
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: F was I? We're all this? God, Yeah, thank Sometimes

918
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: like the OP, you know, goes back to the bad relationship.

919
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: But at least at least OP seems like seems like

920
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: OPI has a good head on his shoulders and is

921
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: like not going to do that, thank God. But dang,

922
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: where the F was I while all of this was

923
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: going on? I just feel like the most naive, obtuse

924
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: idiot to ever walk the earth. And furthermore, how should

925
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: I approach this from here? Am I just throwing her away?

926
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: Or am I still justified in feeling betrayed? I feel

927
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 1: like such a failure as a husband and a father

928
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: right now. I mean, I feel nothing for her but

929
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: anger and resentment. But is this how you treat someone

930
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: fighting the demons that she's fighting with. I'm just lost

931
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 1: and feel so hopeless again. Wow, this is one of

932
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: the harder ones that we've read in recent memories. I'd

933
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: be very curious, especially anyone watching that is maybe a

934
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 1: mental health professional, crisis disaster person, social work, or anyone

935
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: in those arena's. I mean, I feel like those would

936
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: be the best sources of you know.

937
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 5: But you know, she she needs to go on this

938
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 5: journey herself, Like she can't expose the husband to this,

939
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 5: she can't expose her kid to that. She needs to

940
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 5: she needs to spend a lot of time getting better,

941
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 5: and while that's happening, I don't think Ope or the

942
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 5: kid should be.

943
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: Around her exactly, Like it's not it's not fair, especially

944
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: especially to the child. That's the biggest thing is like

945
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: this kid does not deserve any of that and has

946
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: already gone through a lot of trauma with the mom,

947
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 1: So it's like there cannot be any more that that

948
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: kid goes through for sure.

949
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 5: But I mean, I'm curious what everyone else thinks, Like

950
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 5: put your answers in the comments, like right now, like

951
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 5: what what do you think Ope should do for the

952
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 5: sake of this his kid and himself, but I mean,

953
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 5: we love hearing your opinions, especially opinions of our public subscribers.

954
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 5: We're gonna re some comments from a previous video. This

955
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 5: video is my psycho roommate, cut my hair and call

956
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 5: the cops. It gets worse. Shanach Malik says, another great video.

957
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 5: He I appreciate you only putting out bangers for y'all.

958
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 5: Public subscriber Kerlac thirty two says, when I was in residence,

959
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 5: my roommate stole my Nintendo sixty four and all my games.

960
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 5: One was sentimental as I got it from a friend

961
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 5: before they moved. That is so fucked up. Hopefully you

962
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 5: know you got that back or sue the shit out

963
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 5: of them. And then public subscriber Shebang Bang says, yeah,

964
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 5: some funny mfs. We try to be. We try to be.

965
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 5: Thank you all for your comments. We'd love to know

966
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 5: what your thoughts are on this story. I know this

967
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 5: a little darker than usual, but love to know your

968
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 5: thoughts and we'll see us soon.

969
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: Love you all. This girl pretended to date me to

970
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: get into her dream college. I'm gonna tell the admissions

971
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 1: board to get her bann am ive.

972
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 5: A hole like does she write her essay about how

973
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 5: she dated you and I don't know, Like, oh my god,

974
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 5: he was such a simp and I can't believe I

975
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 5: dated him. But you know, I'm just such a nice

976
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 5: girl that I had to date the ugly simp. And

977
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 5: it just shows that we're all like one.

978
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: You know. Maybe she was dating Joe Harvard and it

979
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: was like, do Halvood, I am so in love with

980
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: Joe Holvood. You produced such a fun young man.

981
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 5: Marry into the collegiate family.

982
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: How dare you?

983
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:25,240
Speaker 5: Joe Harvard?

984
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,280
Speaker 1: Joe Harvard, gotta love Joe.

985
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 5: The only way to get into Harvard is by boone

986
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 5: and Joe Harvard. That's not the only way to do it, Joe,

987
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 5: you know where to find me. She's got to inseminate

988
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 5: you with his knowledge.

989
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, I'm going to be a genius. So this

990
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: issue is honestly making me frustrated. Almost everyone is saying

991
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: that I'm in the wrong. People are talking behind my back,

992
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: and I genuinely don't know if what I did was

993
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: correct or not.

994
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 5: That's why you should come to us, because well, well

995
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 5: s's just straight.

996
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: We have the experts in everything. Welcome therapists.

997
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 5: Well, your judges, where your mother and father, Where your

998
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 5: aunt and uncle, your grandparents?

999
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: We are everything suck at the teet of our genius advice.

1000
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: I am seventeen. I suffered a major accident while cycling

1001
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 1: when I was thirteen. I have two really deep, long

1002
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: facial scars. I've been bullied really bad because of it.

1003
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: I am tall, ugly, and intimidating, as per most girls. Ope,

1004
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: you're beautiful, you are. We love you. We love you.

1005
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: People use me as a way to make fun of

1006
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 1: other people by saying things like one should just hook

1007
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: up with op. I'm honestly used to it.

1008
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 5: God crying, bro.

1009
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: Those people didn't matter to me anyway. But there is

1010
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: a girl I had known since middle school. Let's call

1011
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 1: her back. I guess, hey, back God, maybe got it back?

1012
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: You know, apparently Sorry. I honestly don't know how this works.

1013
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: Okay tell me. Oh my god. I had a really

1014
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,479
Speaker 1: really big crush on her till a few days ago.

1015
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: I thought she was genuinely sweet and amazing. My family

1016
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: is incredibly supportive, so they urged me to ask her out.

1017
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,959
Speaker 1: I can play guitar, so I made this whole song

1018
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: for her.

1019
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 5: The Wrizzler is coming to town.

1020
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: Ooh, playing his wriz fiddle, just fiddling her with the risks.

1021
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: What's the flute of ocarina? I forgot the Canzelda song.

1022
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 5: I don't know how I gues.

1023
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: We don't know. We didn't play games as kids that much.

1024
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: I went to the neighboring city to get her favorite

1025
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: chocolate and stuff like that. This was the first time

1026
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: I really felt like going and asking someone out in

1027
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,760
Speaker 1: my life.

1028
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 5: Oh no, okay.

1029
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: Just just prepare yourself, Samuel.

1030
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 5: Just breathe, just.

1031
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: Breathe. And I felt that regardless of what I do,

1032
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 1: she shall see me for who I am and at

1033
00:48:55,920 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 1: least accept me as a friend. I don't like this

1034
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: is going now. I was over the moon when she

1035
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 1: ended up accepting.

1036
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 5: Oh so she said yes, she said yes, she said yes,

1037
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 5: let's go for now, John, Everything's going great. I don't

1038
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 5: know what you're talking about.

1039
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: This is going to end so beautifully, right right, I mean,

1040
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: this is how this works, right right. We went to

1041
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 1: a fancy restaurant and had a fun time together and

1042
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,800
Speaker 1: walked for over thirty minutes. Afterwards, she was really sweet

1043
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: to me. The next week or so was honestly heaven.

1044
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: People started noticing me. Even her friends seemed friendly with me.

1045
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: I almost cried every day because I felt so fortunate

1046
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: to get so much love. Oh ohpe, you're hitting me.

1047
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: You're hitting me where it hurts. It all broke down

1048
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: when a friend of hers, who was on Instagram and

1049
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: followed okay, I guess her name is Beck, not back

1050
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: and followed Beck sent screenshots to me, and I honestly

1051
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: felt disgusted in betrayed.

1052
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 5: What was on the screenshots she had post.

1053
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: Saying fulfilling his lifelong wish by being his Valentines and

1054
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: making his day by finally helping him interact with my friends.

1055
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 1: Oh he is ugly, but beautiful people accept ugly people.

1056
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: Hashtag ugly people matter, et cetera. God what what weird?

1057
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: Swing sarcasm.

1058
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 5: I honestly feel like her heart's in the right place, almost,

1059
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 5: Like I like, I genuinely think she's like, I need

1060
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 5: to help the ugly people because they're so ugly. Like

1061
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 5: I like, I feel like, oh yeah, Like I genuinely

1062
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 5: think she's It seems like she's like she's just so dumb.

1063
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 5: She's just so dumb, So she's naively trying to like, oh,

1064
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 5: my gosh, this poor person likely person like in the

1065
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 5: same way like you see a homeless person and give

1066
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 5: them money, you see anly person and try to date them.

1067
00:50:56,680 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: Wow, this is wow. Wow. Bext friend then explained to

1068
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: me that she had apparently wanted a good social media image.

1069
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: Oh never mind, well no, I think I think you

1070
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: still might be right, and had thus asked all her

1071
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: friends to be kind to me and tolerate me in

1072
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: the first week of March and then distance themselves from me.

1073
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 5: Fucked.

1074
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: Fucked.

1075
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 5: Oh wait wait wait I'll benefit of the doubt anymore.

1076
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: Now we're getting into it. She apparently wanted to win

1077
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: some stupid positive role model award for her college application

1078
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: because she was lagging behind in community service. Okay, I'm sorry,

1079
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: but like what college is like wow with the person

1080
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: who dated was so ugly and vile wears.

1081
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 5: Of community service. Thank you for what you're doing for

1082
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 5: ugly people everywhere. Your community service is valid and needed.

1083
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 1: Not only is this like massively cruel, but like just

1084
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: so stupid, Like how is she winning going to help you? Yeah,

1085
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: like I guess the saw story of like, oh, this

1086
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: person was in an accident and like I still dated them,

1087
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: but like no, Like, that's no.

1088
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 5: I can't imagine she's going to write a good essay.

1089
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 5: If this is, I don't know. Well we'll see it.

1090
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 5: We'll see. There's no way she's getting a scholarship for sure.

1091
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: God, please, I hope not. I pray to God and

1092
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 1: thought that playing with my feelings for a few days

1093
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt. And apparently since I was ugly, she was

1094
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: the kind one to give me attention anyway.

1095
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's disgusting.

1096
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: I was in tears and honestly felt disgusted. My blood

1097
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: was boiling. I researched about this award and found a

1098
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: Facebook page about it Online. I went to the authorities

1099
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 1: to confirm if her name was on the nomination list,

1100
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:47,280
Speaker 1: the authorities of the award, not the law this award,

1101
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: and then had my friends at work and my family

1102
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: as an alibi. She's apparently crying a lot now because

1103
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: she received a message from the committee saying her nomination

1104
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: was uh withdrawn. Biome that's what you get, that's what

1105
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: you get.

1106
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I guess she was back now yeah yeah, yo,

1107
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 5: watch your back, watch your back. We're coming back. Where

1108
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,760
Speaker 5: attacking that back? I am now even more ostracized in school.

1109
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 5: But honestly, I feel no remorse whatsoever and feel far

1110
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 5: more satisfied. Well at least, so pee you feel good.

1111
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:32,959
Speaker 5: And this terrible girl got what's coming to her at least.

1112
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm happy that op feels, you know, yeah,

1113
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1114
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 5: That's a weird thing, like such a virtue signaling, like

1115
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 5: I don't know, love to the stunt fudude terrible, Oh,

1116
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 5: just just disgusting, horrible. I mean, we've talked a lot

1117
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 5: about dating on the show. We actually are asking people

1118
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 5: they're weird dating stories. And on the video, my girlfriend

1119
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 5: has ignored me. Where is she? Control eighty seven says

1120
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 5: we did someone for three weeks after we broke up,

1121
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 5: she started walking me home without my knowledge. It was

1122
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 5: her best friend who told me about it. She called

1123
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 5: me a year later asking me if I remember what

1124
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,359
Speaker 5: day it was. I didn't, but evidently it was one

1125
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 5: year since we dated. What the f okay?

1126
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: I mean? That's a great story.

1127
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 5: We love hearing your stories, especially the stories of your public,

1128
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 5: especially the stories of our public subscribers. So if you

1129
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,879
Speaker 5: want us to read your stories public, subscribe and made

1130
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 5: it com below. What are your crazy dating stories and

1131
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 5: have you ever been in anything like OP situation.

1132
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: Let us know