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Speaker 2: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 4: And that's just a sweeping generalization, but it is the generalization.

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Speaker 4: And so the self care have got down, the massages

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm training for the fact that men are grabbing

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Speaker 1: Like, am I shrip it? No, you're not a big deal.

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Speaker 4: I put it in my weights, And then after I

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Speaker 1: It's the discipline that it takes. It's the mental rightness

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Speaker 4: It's the self rescue, it's the self care, it's the self,

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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna argue with you. I'm gonna go to

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Speaker 5: Argue with the weights. That's what I'm about to do.

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Speaker 1: If I need to, I'll kick you.

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Speaker 5: You'll never get this energy from me.

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Speaker 3: I wish God if you could just let my baseline

440
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:08,520
Speaker 3: be bitchy.

441
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 1: God, it would just save me so much time.

442
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,880
Speaker 4: I'm I just start, I start there and then I soften.

443
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 4: If a man deserves my soft side, then he'll get

444
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 4: that if he proves himself worthy of my softness, and

445
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 4: that means that he has to be a man and

446
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,440
Speaker 4: not a boy. So I start off very like, prove yourself.

447
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 4: I have no listen, I'm forty seven years old. This

448
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:31,479
Speaker 4: next month, I have no time. So I'm starting off like,

449
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 4: what do you want? What's your name? Who's your people?

450
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 1: What do you do?

451
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:34,239
Speaker 5: Like?

452
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 1: What's your credits? Called? Give me the whole thing, Like,

453
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 1: give me everything about yourself.

454
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:44,399
Speaker 4: I find that, with my dedication and my commitment to

455
00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 4: my physical, mental, emotional well being, that I don't have

456
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 4: the same energy for not just men, but anyone that

457
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 4: I did before. I also found immediately that I needed

458
00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 4: to have friends who were also on this journey, because

459
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 4: if you're not, you don't understand.

460
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 5: And I now I understand what I would see. I

461
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 5: would never I didn't. You don't understand until you do it.

462
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 4: I understand exactly what this is now, and I understand

463
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 4: how life changing it is all the way around, and

464
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 4: the mental fortitude it takes. It leaks into every other

465
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 4: part of my life, into all of my relationships, and

466
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 4: it has changed.

467
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: My life for the better.

468
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 4: And I wish and also and I want more women

469
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 4: to know this too, especially women. When you get into

470
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:36,199
Speaker 4: this lifestyle, it changes the people around you. People who

471
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 4: are fit and people who are structured in this way,

472
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 4: they're fit and structured in other parts of their lives absolutely,

473
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,960
Speaker 4: and they are enriched because of it. And so now

474
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 4: I can join a tennis club and feel fit enough

475
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 4: to take the tennis lessons and do the thing. But

476
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 4: then that puts me in the direct site line of

477
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 4: certain people, and there I have more opportunities, and I

478
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 4: make more money and have a at a crop of

479
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 4: friends now all around fitness, you know what I mean.

480
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 4: And so it's like, no matter what, it has improved

481
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:14,199
Speaker 4: my life one thousand percent socially, sexually, it's been amazing.

482
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, speak on that. Tell me I

483
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 1: lived in weights and bench press in two twenty lit

484
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 1: my stamina so you can ride for longer. Basically, your

485
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: kids are.

486
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:34,120
Speaker 4: These legs, these knees, the way that I can maneuver,

487
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 4: the way that I can throw a man around, which

488
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 4: I will always throw a man around before.

489
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: What do you mean throw a man around?

490
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: You're like, come here, baby, put him on the bed,

491
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 3: cock his legs back.

492
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,439
Speaker 4: Man handle that bitch, like I love to throw a

493
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 4: fucking man around, and so like being able to throw

494
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 4: him around in a way that even he thinks it's sexy, like,

495
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 4: oh my.

496
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: God, I've never been thrown around, and like.

497
00:22:56,560 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 4: The cowgirl, the reverse cowgirl, the stamina I had, like

498
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 4: he said recently, a month ago, month and a half ago,

499
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: the man said the man, he said, I'm fatigued. I

500
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 4: was like fatigued, and he's younger than me. I'm like,

501
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 4: let's go to the gym.

502
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: No, well no, not really, not.

503
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 5: Enough for me.

504
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 3: You were like, step it up, not enough to call

505
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 3: when he said fatigued, you said, he said, fatigued.

506
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 4: I was like, fotigued to use to use a twenty

507
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 4: point word during.

508
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 5: Sexual activity is crazy word.

509
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: He felt that.

510
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 4: Way, Like he didn't say tired, honey, he said fatigued.

511
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 4: But it's because I am running circles around him and

512
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 4: I love that for me, especially because he's so much

513
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 4: younger than I am.

514
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, what's the age, what's the youngest

515
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: she'll go? You do you have like an age limit

516
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: on how young of a manual date likes? Will you do?

517
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: What is twenty one?

518
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 5: Like?

519
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 4: You?

520
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: Would you do twenty one. Mmmmmmm hmm. I'm not interested

521
00:23:59,720 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: in that.

522
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 5: No, I'm not inter No, I never thought about that,

523
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 5: but I think at.

524
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 4: This age, a twenty year difference is the most I

525
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 4: can do, which is kind of what I'm doing now.

526
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: Twenty seven.

527
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 4: I think about twenty seven almost like hitting on thirty almost. Yeah,

528
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 4: I prefer though, I prefer thirty something. I'm enjoying thirty three,

529
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 4: thirty four. I'm enjoying that a lot.

530
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I second that. You know, my man's a little

531
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 3: bit younger than me, and you got to mold him.

532
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: You got to.

533
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 3: They're they're bushy eyed and like they're more bushy eyed

534
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 3: and like ready and like, yeah I want to be married.

535
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 1: Yeah I want. I said, none, You're you're the bomb.

536
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 3: You know, like they get like a really dumb wyan

537
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 3: or like a smart one who wants to like wants

538
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,959
Speaker 3: to learn from someone and like is more supportive and

539
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 3: really ready.

540
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: Like he's like.

541
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 3: You know, it's like equivalent to like a girl who's

542
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 3: like really want to get married and fell in love.

543
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 3: Like there's that girl like that kind of like that naiveness.

544
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: So you find a man who has that.

545
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 3: Same like romantic dream, but he's a little young and

546
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 3: like green, You're like, yeah, I come mere, baby, come

547
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 3: over here, let me let me show your mama's nipple.

548
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: Oh my, that's like, that's not creepy, that's at all.

549
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 5: It's not predatory one thing right, This is so Fordian.

550
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: I can't see we know you know, is kink now orlandos?

551
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, yeah's a little baby boy. You're

552
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: going to land on your little baby. Let your man

553
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: like I wasn't.

554
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 5: Long time, I wasn't mama's nipple. No, I've never done that.

555
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: Now we know.

556
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 5: Now we know what's going on at home.

557
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: Grat just be lying. You could just be like nursing

558
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: little bit, nursing your man. You never had dated.

559
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 3: It's a young fine man like Elizabeth.

560
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 5: I am not lying.

561
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:04,959
Speaker 1: I don't.

562
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,719
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know what's going on. Gets me

563
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 5: out of here.

564
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you try to call me a predator.

565
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like the no, no, no, okay, well well yes,

566
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: light the blund and before we go on and ask

567
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: you more questions from our tribe on Patreon, I wanted

568
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 1: to play a little game with you. Of course you do.

569
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: I want to play a game of trigger trigger time

570
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: bitch is Trigger is a game where I say a

571
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 1: word and you say the first thing that comes to mind.

572
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: Oh shit, you don't light the blood on that one.

573
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 1: I like the backwood.

574
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: I did the yellow banana foster because it matched my

575
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 3: outfit so perfect.

576
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: From New Orleans.

577
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: And before we start that game, in case it gets

578
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 3: a little spidery in here, the blunt tried to blast me.

579
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: You blasted yourself. No one told you to share that information. Lord,

580
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: I thought you guys like, yeah, yeah, mom's nippy, give

581
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:05,479
Speaker 1: me a baby, baby, let me change that diaper. Oh

582
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: my god, you don't remember you guys. Remember back in

583
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: the day used to be a show.

584
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 5: I don't know.

585
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: There used to be a.

586
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 3: Really good show on Showtime called like Call Girl Diaries

587
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 3: of a Call Girls Girl. Yeah, and she's English. I

588
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 3: fucking loved it. But she did all these weird like

589
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 3: scenes with men, like sexually. But there were kinks, and

590
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: one of them like this grown man not saying that.

591
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: This is what I do at home. That he was

592
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: She was like changing his diaper and he's like mama,

593
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, I just remember, yeah, there's a

594
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: whole Remember there was a dipe, there's diaper man or

595
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: diaper boy, diper boy or diaper boy. Yeah, he was on,

596
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 1: he was on horrible decisions. Yeah, it's a whole demographic

597
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: of men that want to be treated literally like babies

598
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: and are putting diapers on and have pacifiers in their

599
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: mouth and all types of rattles in their hands. If

600
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: you're in Los.

601
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 3: Angeles area and you're a diaper boy and you want

602
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 3: to hitching me love.

603
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: Directly, do not hit up good mom's bad choices. Directly,

604
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 1: E solicit me and my nipples. You know, I breastfed

605
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,959
Speaker 1: for a long time. I was ready to feed you

606
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: her nipples. Stiper boy and any other little baby boys

607
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: out there that are men.

608
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: Orlando squeeze my nipples the other day and like colostrum

609
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 3: came out, and I was very concerned. I'm not pregnant

610
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 3: or anything. I was just sharing anyway, Just go ahead

611
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: with the game. I'm lighting the backward. Nobody judged me.

612
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 1: Okay, what was that? We have one last thing to share?

613
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 5: No, I don't know why. I'm so.

614
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 4: You would have thought I hadn't seen as many dicks

615
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 4: and stuff as I have.

616
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 5: Like, I'm maybe it's my age. I'm so, are you

617
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 5: clutching your girl, I'm clutching.

618
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 1: I'm a girl. I read your books. You better get

619
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: the hell out of here, Hony. Those are twenty something

620
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: year old experiences. Well, why I ever die? The memories

621
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: of fresh.

622
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 5: A reformed.

623
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: Okay, propagating and her goden a middle age Caucasian mom

624
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: with the white wine. Like I listened to Frank Sinatra,

625
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.

626
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 5: I do like I'm in the catskills listening to Sinacha.

627
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 5: I have no idea what's happening right now?

628
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, it's gross, bitch. Amen, you were

629
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: allowed to grow. Accept your growth. I'm just kidding. Thank you, honey.

630
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: She either wants to take you down to the depths

631
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: of baby boy hell or heaven. It just depends in

632
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: mid heaven. I don't know. Okay, let's begin, so don't

633
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: overthink it.

634
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 5: I want to be so high.

635
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 4: You want to hot boxes ship out of me in

636
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 4: this fucking little ass room.

637
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: It's okay, it's time you need to loosen up.

638
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 5: If I take my titties out, you have to like

639
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 5: loosen up tits.

640
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: Okay, they're already censored out, so okay, good.

641
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 4: Thank you?

642
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: All right, bad habits.

643
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm starting.

644
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oka, I'm sorry, you're not even smoking. I'm not

645
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: even here. Everything that comes to mind, bad habits, food, astrology,

646
00:29:51,360 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: sign marriage, yuck, religion, yuck, Little Wayne, Oh, breastfeeding melaa.

647
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: This might be my new lane.

648
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 3: And when I get an only fans breastfeeding, no one

649
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 3: says ship.

650
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 5: I just want you.

651
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would pay for that concept. I want to

652
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 4: see I want to see Orlando. I want to see that.

653
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 3: If you guys want to see orlanda breastfeed, I'm gonna

654
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 3: start the only fans to this afternoon.

655
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: Don't worry. Okay, last time you had sex not the face.

656
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 5: Wait, I cannot and you just told me the sex weight. No,

657
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 5: I can't. I can't tell.

658
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: You're fatiguing niggas, y'all.

659
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 5: Stop you're about to get me caught up. Stop it right?

660
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Speaker 1: Has a real player that on camera? Yeah? Like you?

661
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 5: Hold on, I guys gotta be like what you mean?

662
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: I got recorded. I can tell to you when you

663
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: got that good hand exactly.

664
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 5: No, I'm not answering, not the fifth on that. You're

665
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 5: not about to get me caught up.

666
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: Favorite favorite porn category.

667
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 4: Oh m oh, no, I have one, it's so good

668
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 4: to tell me, put me on.

669
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 5: It's fucking oh couckold. It's a watching love and marriage

670
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 5: a couple of them.

671
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: It's really fun. What they watch.

672
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 5: They just allowed and.

673
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: Then they want to hear about it afterwards, so there's

674
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: not actually watching them.

675
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 4: Well yeah, because the other part. I think the other

676
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 4: party would let them be in the room. But I

677
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 4: loved at the time. I don't always rachel or is

678
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 4: that just what I say?

679
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: I know, it's just like.

680
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 4: It.

681
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: But if you go on Ebony Galore on what why

682
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: have you been withholding this? You know that I've been

683
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: on fucking whatever was Tasty Blacks. Now this one's more

684
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: more like more modern.

685
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 5: That's going on here.

686
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: Tasty Blacks is like ancient.

687
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I so disturbed, I might just out the game,

688
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 4: put me back.

689
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 5: And putting you on. Put me back.

690
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: Come in.

691
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 4: I'm upset by how upset I'm getting.

692
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: Bitch in the garden.

693
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 5: Come back, yes, bring me back.

694
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 3: Ebord dot com so ebneglord dot com is the black

695
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 3: porn site. So if you put in I mean they

696
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 3: have some white pitches over there too, But if you

697
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: put in any category, any of your categories they come

698
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 3: up black, So cuckhold is actually there's all black cutcold

699
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: instead of one white husband and a white bitch and

700
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 3: a black right.

701
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, okay, so cut coold got it? Love language,

702
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: money Diddy? Who more kids don't get I'm gonna pass

703
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: on that one, okay, Brittany Runner oh man, Okay, toxic trait?

704
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: Why why do I space on that? Say to me again,

705
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: toxic trait? Nothing's coming to mind because you're disassociated. I'm

706
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: gonna do you what's happening right now? You're do you?

707
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: You have no idea? Dearah me talking?

708
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I toltally was like nothing, I'm gonna talk therapists

709
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 4: if I'm gonna talk to my therapists.

710
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: Immediately after this, oh you shop? Nothing came to mind.

711
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: Favorite exposition, Oh dog doggy yeah, doggy style r kelly

712
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: mm hmm. Femininity, soft feminism, soft and hard white women?

713
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 5: Oh why did that pop into my head?

714
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 4: No? Say it?

715
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: I gotta say it. No, please say it, do it.

716
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: It's trigger No.

717
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 5: Oh it's so bad, do say it?

718
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, Oh no, it wasn't just beyond your control.

719
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: Your This is not your fault. This is this game

720
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: of the subconscious It doesn't mean.

721
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 4: Okay, I think it was the smell thing. Okay, go ahead,

722
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 4: let me just not elaborate.

723
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 1: Guy.

724
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 5: Not a safe space, guys, this is not a space.

725
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: Black men yum m hmm, black women. Yes, girl, Yes,

726
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: masturbation Yeah, I mean I just did it this morning.

727
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: So yeah, toys, hands always hands. Don't like toys.

728
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 3: No, you're a vintage masturbator. Me to vintage, like a

729
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: good old pillow.

730
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, hands.

731
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: Have you tried the rose?

732
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 5: I don't like anything.

733
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: No, just me, just me and my my diggits, my fulangies.

734
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: Celebrity crush, I can't say, come on, you know what?

735
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.

736
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: Ship.

737
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 2: No.

738
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: Can I tell you you get the blazer on?

739
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 5: You think I'm I'm gonna go home.

740
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get in so much trouble when I get

741
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: back to New York. Why can't you have celebrity crushes?

742
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 5: Okay, So I'm gonna tell you.

743
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you them. She could land them.

744
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 5: Can I tell you who it is?

745
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 4: Yeah?

746
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 5: He's I think he's busy right now.

747
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 4: But so back when he was liking all my pictures

748
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 4: and liking like allow and following me and following, yeah,

749
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 4: back when we were doing that.

750
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: Because that's is that what they do, follow you and

751
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 1: follow you, follow you to get your attention. But I

752
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 1: only want to sit on his face.

753
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: I don't like keep them or anything. It's just a

754
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 4: grind my pussy on your face kind of vibe. And

755
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 4: then like he seems like the kind of guy that

756
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 4: you would just do that.

757
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 5: Just kind of want to do that.

758
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: Don't take it to boat, not too much on Stefa,

759
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: not got too much, hope you don't.

760
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 4: Definitely don't wipe him up and put them on the

761
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 4: internet in your feed. That's crazy work unless.

762
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: You lets you're committed to just knowing that this is

763
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 3: just for fun, unless it's revenge, in which case.

764
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 1: I just want to grind my pussy in his face.

765
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 1: That's all I want to do.

766
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 5: I don't need him for anything else.

767
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 1: Amen, therapy, Yes, milp me, that's right.

768
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 6: Yeah?

769
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Oh wait? Did I just wait? Where

770
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: did the rest of them go? Hold on, I'm not done.

771
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm not done. Oh yeah, there's more. Don't no, don't

772
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: you worry? Favorite trade about yourself?

773
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 6: Oh my intellectualism, m hm, passion, purpose, pet peeve, dirt

774
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 6: biggest regret every husband I've ever had?

775
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,240
Speaker 1: Who biggest regret?

776
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:46,919
Speaker 2: Wait?

777
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: What did you say? Did you wait? Why? Did just

778
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: have it?

779
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 5: Said?

780
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: Kwame?

781
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 5: Watch? Okay, what about it?

782
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: First thing that comes to mind? That was the Christianity.

783
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: Stupid sex while kids are at home? Ha, done it?

784
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: They meant co parenting hard. Best advice you ever got.

785
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 5: Don't do it?

786
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 1: And that concludes our game of trigger You survived. Oh

787
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 1: Lord Jesus, we just had to drug you a little bit.

788
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 5: Just give her a little Why you don't take the

789
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 5: stickers off these glasses?

790
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: You know I'm a virgo and I can't. I tried,

791
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 1: I only did one. I only got this them in water.

792
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 5: I want to take this.

793
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm too much of a virgo to let you do

794
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: this to me right now, Like I can't even don't

795
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: try and glasses and say we're goet own our show,

796
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: But I have to remove the stickers myself. No, leave it.

797
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 5: Every virgo understands what's happening right now.

798
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. This is a very virgo. It's

799
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: a super Yeah.

800
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 5: Give thank you Jesus, Lord, thank you. Okay, what else?

801
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 5: Well we got questions?

802
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I love you guys, I love you. I'm so

803
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: happy you're here. You know how you know how crazy

804
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: I was going the first time we came. Thank you

805
00:37:58,560 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 1: for playing our games.

806
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 4: Literally, we're getting high as fuck right now. But go ahead, Okay,

807
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 4: I'm fine. It's only gonna get better.

808
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:04,959
Speaker 1: Drink more wine.

809
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's good, you guys.

810
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: Actually, now that my water is digested, I'm gonna have one.

811
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: And just so you guys know, it just got noon

812
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: and we're drinking wine.

813
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 5: Just got neon.

814
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: It just it just got noon.

815
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 3: It's eleven fifty nine at this moment, and we were

816
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 3: pouring white wine like we are suburban white women.

817
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 1: And guess what, I wore a kit in heel today.

818
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 5: So we're not Wait, we're not suburban white women.

819
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: We're drinking white We're drinking white wine at eleven fifty

820
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 3: nine AM.

821
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: See, I waited until twelve pm, and reasonable respect you

822
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: better wait because it's still eleven. You're a respectable one.

823
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 1: You just better wait. Cheers, Cheers, cheers, cheers, cheers, cheers.

824
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: It just it just got noone. It just got noon.

825
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So let's get back to the questions. There's

826
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: one question that one of our lovely, lovely tribe members

827
00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: from Patreon asked, and they said, how do you feel right,

828
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: how did you feel about writing the book, knowing the

829
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: dangers of exposing so many people in the industry, and

830
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: how do you feel now?

831
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,439
Speaker 5: Okay, that's a really good question.

832
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: So writing Good Defessions was Thank you for tuning in

833
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 1: and again, you can catch part two of this episode

834
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: right now on Patreon. Just go to patreon dot com,

835
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: backslash Good Moms, Bad Choices and join our community. If not,

836
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: then you'll just have to wait till next week.