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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the c l o iver

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Speaker 1: hear nothing bad about that, our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll get into it all right. This is from Taylor

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Speaker 1: and East Orange. Taylor writes, my husband works from home

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Speaker 1: and refuses to clean up or have dinner ready when

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Speaker 1: I get home. The first thing you asked me is

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Speaker 1: what's for dinner? His schedule is more flexible, so I

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Speaker 1: think it's only right that he helps out.

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Speaker 2: Am I asking for too much?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not. Marriage is a participation sport.

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Speaker 4: Tall show you. That's what it.

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Speaker 3: Come on now, and now I know. Traditionally there are

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Speaker 3: old school roles. Man work, woman clean, take care of house,

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Speaker 3: take maybe make maybe well hey man, yeah that's a

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Speaker 3: nast night wahoo talk. You know we use in a

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Speaker 3: cave all that work. I'm just telling right now, man,

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Speaker 3: you have to participate.

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Speaker 4: And she works.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he works from home, but he you know, he

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Speaker 1: could still do some stuff.

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Speaker 3: I see. I don't know what working from home means,

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Speaker 3: but you do have if ain't nobody watching me, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: I don't really have a job I could do from home.

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Speaker 1: I got no but I got to Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't do fairly few from home.

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Speaker 1: That would be interesting if you did, though, I have

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Speaker 1: all those different people at your house, pop surveyed.

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Speaker 4: On the refrigerator. Let's go. Come on.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, that's crazy. I wouldn't even think about it

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Speaker 3: like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh hell no, all right, So yeah, she's not asking

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Speaker 1: for too much, all right. Moving on to Linda and Chattanooga,

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Speaker 1: Linda writes, I'm dating my best friend's ex. They dated

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Speaker 1: twenty years ago, and she gave us her blessing. But

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Speaker 1: when he's around, she flirts and brings up the past.

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Speaker 1: If she says remember when to him one more time,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to lose it?

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Speaker 2: Is she purposely doing this?

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Speaker 4: Hell?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, how you accidentally say remember when?

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Speaker 2: Remember when? Remember when?

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Speaker 1: We?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: But why are you dating him?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 2: I mean I know all the men in the world.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, like it's okay to date.

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Speaker 3: If she dated him twenty years ago, y'all didn't have

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Speaker 3: a relationship.

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Speaker 4: Then why are y'all together? Why why are the three

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Speaker 4: of y'all somewhere? That's the stupid part right there.

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Speaker 2: Because the two women are best friends.

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Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna see how long thatck. That's not fit

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Speaker 3: to be the case.

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Speaker 4: Anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, no, because she just said it. If she says

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Speaker 1: remember when toed him one more.

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Speaker 2: Times, she can't wait to say remember, And she's going

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Speaker 2: to say it again.

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Speaker 1: But twenty years ago, though, Come on, come on, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Marlon in Oxford, and Marlon writes, I

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Speaker 1: gave my mom's son five hundred. I gave my son's

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Speaker 1: mom five hundred dollars for his graduation expenses. She bought

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Speaker 1: him designer sneakers. With the money. My son called me

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Speaker 1: to get more money. I ain't got it. It took

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Speaker 1: a lot for me to pull an extra five hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars together. Is this my problem or his mom's?

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Speaker 4: What is your problem?

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Speaker 2: Well he already gave five hundred, he's.

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Speaker 4: Saying, and the boy wants some more money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well for his graduation expenses.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he says, all right, so what should he do? Then?

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Speaker 4: Put this down on him?

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Speaker 1: Walk?

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Speaker 4: That's what yeah, Walk, I would tell him.

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Speaker 3: I say, look, man, I gave you mom to get

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Speaker 3: your graduation gift five hundred dollars, and she chose to

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Speaker 3: buy your shoes.

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Speaker 4: That was my gift for the graduation.

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Speaker 3: So you can explain it to him like that, maybe

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Speaker 3: he'll understand, and if he don't, then you have a

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Speaker 3: decision to make how you handle it next time, or

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Speaker 3: do you just deal directly with your boy? You know,

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Speaker 3: that's a tough one because if he's eighteen, you're paying

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Speaker 3: child support.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can give it him to the game when

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Speaker 2: he becomes eighteen.

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Speaker 3: You know, and after eighteen you could deal directly with him,

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Speaker 3: or you can still have a relationship with him and say, hey,

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Speaker 3: I paid child support, but I want to do this

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Speaker 3: for you, which is what you deal with the sneakers.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, but at one point in time, you have

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Speaker 3: to be truthful with your kids. I've had to have

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Speaker 3: these real conversations with my son about what really happened.

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Speaker 1: And five hundred dollars is a lot of money. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, he said he had a scrape to put

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Speaker 1: that together.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, you know where rolls everywhere? You going just

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Speaker 4: keep winning the rope. Ain't nobody gonna see underneath.

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Speaker 3: The road, rode to graduate, cap and gown every where

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Speaker 3: the whole weekend?

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Speaker 4: Where the rope?

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Speaker 1: What's that?

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Speaker 2: And that's gonna do?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: We ain't got to spread five hundred or none? Now,

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Speaker 4: just square the robe where however, you go with.

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Speaker 2: You, Steve one?

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Speaker 4: With you a rope?

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Speaker 3: Why is we still going overall?

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Speaker 2: Don't you wan push one shoe?

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Speaker 4: Won't?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is kind of a problem for I see

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Speaker 2: this right here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the mom all right, last one, Steve, last one?

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Speaker 1: This is from that in Stanford, Vet writes. My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and I moved in together. He told me that he

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Speaker 1: would use the bathroom in the hallway and let me

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Speaker 1: use the one in our bedroom. But he wakes up

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Speaker 1: at night and he uses my bathroom. His aim is

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Speaker 1: always off? How do I keep him out of there?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: I don't stand on the problem.

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Speaker 4: How y'all want y'all move in together?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: She wants her own bathroom because his aim is crazy.

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Speaker 4: He didn't feed all on that wall.

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Speaker 1: Everything, wol wall out everything?

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Speaker 4: Who did you marry?

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Speaker 2: They're gonna have to break up. This is unacceptable. It

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Speaker 2: don't take all this bathroom at night leaving the seat up. Huh.

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Speaker 4: I've been peeing my home.

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Speaker 3: Okay, at some point in time, you're gonna have to

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Speaker 3: master this thing.

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Speaker 2: Now, grown man.

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Speaker 4: Rule number one. This is how you have to make

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Speaker 4: it work.

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Speaker 1: Up.

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Speaker 3: The seat up is not an option. It has to

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Speaker 3: be up. There is no where around this. When you're

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Speaker 3: done and you get a little sprinkle sprinkle on the

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Speaker 3: rim of it, you gotta take some tissue and wipe

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Speaker 3: it off.

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Speaker 4: Flush. You didn wash your hands, next thing you do.

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Speaker 3: You can't have just a bad floor around there be

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Speaker 3: cause you tink a tinkle on the floor. That little

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Speaker 3: drop to hit the floor, she come and sit down,

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Speaker 3: put her foot in it.

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Speaker 4: She be mad.

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Speaker 1: Don't get me upset this morning, just thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go, Colo, Thank you got me

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Speaker 1: up at the tivy hour. Yeah, we'll have some entertainment

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Speaker 1: news right after this.

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