1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:01,600 Speaker 1: Celebrity club. 2 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: Coral. 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: Lunch was delicious. Mmmm, with those frankfurt Is made from 4 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: a little village in Germany, Owen with the poet brandy sauce. 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 2: M Mmm. 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: Luckily I didn't stay in my cuffand made especially for 7 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: me by Eve, said Laurentz. Oh, I mean not, you've said, Laurent. 8 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: I don't pretend I didn't hear that. Andre, Please be 9 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: careful not to spill your vodka on my seventeenth century 10 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: armoir shed Lewis Cators. 11 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: Speaking of can we have a little more of that 12 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: gray goose? Where's that little pool boy you keep around? 13 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: Jappin de Latin. 14 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: Klaus, Klaus, please come in here, paw Andre, a little 15 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,919 Speaker 3: more David of vodka while we sit in discuss sixteenth 16 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: century French design. Andre, you look absolutely ravishing in that 17 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 3: kaf tan that I will talk about. Who designed it 18 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 3: for you? 19 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: Oh? Stop it, Coral, You know I only do it 20 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: to impress you. You look so glamorous today. Your cheeks 21 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: are shining in a way they never have. Have you 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 1: been drinking more Frankfurt tea hah. 23 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 3: That's very kind of you, but a careful talking about 24 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: my appearance, Andre, it's a slippery slope. 25 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: Here it's some more dolphin fragrin. 26 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,279 Speaker 1: This is delicious. What do you think of that little boy, 27 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: Mark Jacob's by the way. 28 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: I think he has a beautiful brain and a tiny cock. 29 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: I bet you would like to eat that up me 30 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: I stained from sex. 31 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 3: Well, I'm also quite sad and rodely, so I don't 32 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: think that I would eat his tiny little cock either, 33 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 3: But I do think he has a lot of talent 34 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 3: for someone who's so small and pathetic. I love that 35 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 3: we have our own chasls and footstools and arm rusts 36 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: and armed stools. 37 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: The only thing that would make this better if Lee 38 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: Radswell came and joined us for a part of delicious 39 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: delicious volkle with coffee. 40 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: Oh you haven't hurt andre I brought her out of 41 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 3: my will. I didn't like the way that she highlighted 42 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 3: her hat at the nineteen ninety four Boonsbluck and Gala. 43 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 2: And so I stopped talking to her. 44 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: Well suits her. 45 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 3: Let us call yourself's on more vodgun crumpet than fall 46 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: asleep on separate chassis in separate wings of mine house. 47 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: Oh Carl, that sounds like a magnificent The fabulous idea. 48 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: Who's that knocking at the door. It's all your friends. 49 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: You've filthy horse, your husband's gone, and we've got books 50 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 2: and a bottle of wine. 51 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: Hill. It's Hollywood, it's books, it's gossip. 52 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's memoirs Martini, celebtly poof Club. Read it 53 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: while it's hot. Celebrity poof Club, Tell your secrets. 54 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: We won't talk celebrity books. 55 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 2: No boys are a loud celebrity book say it Loud 56 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 2: and clouds Celebrity book Club. 57 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: Buzz me in. I brought the queer vow. 58 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 2: Hey, best friend, how the hell are you? Wow? So 59 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: good to see It's so. 60 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: It's been almost two weeks. 61 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: I haven't been able to breathe this whole time. 62 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: No As, I just told you I was having trouble 63 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: breathing from higher altitude because I was in this see you. 64 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: That was your time in Mexico. It must have been 65 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: so crazy. It's such a culture. 66 00:03:49,480 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: Chock sombo poblanos and eating tacos and my niece tons 67 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: of my yeas. 68 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: What do you call me? 69 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? I just got back two days ago from Wait. 70 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: I know you were in Cdmax. Honestly, I haven't talked 71 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 2: about it and I can't wait to discuss it on 72 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 2: the via totally. Yeah, just a quick previum. When you 73 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: were in part of Iarta, which is known as kind 74 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: of a gay hub, was it so like you're walking 75 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: down the street and there's like muscle bears everywhere in 76 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 2: thongs and your mom is just like, now, wait a minute, 77 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: hold on, Well. 78 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I was planning for that, but ultimately 79 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: we had two days in part of Arta and I 80 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: did get food poisoning, so that took up one of 81 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: the days. And we were staying in La Zona Hotel 82 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: and the gay section is Romantica, so. 83 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 2: We were in the hotel area. 84 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: We were in the hotel area that was a little 85 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: more like Timeshare Buddha house Hunters International. You just walk 86 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: out onto like a pool that looks at a beach, 87 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: and it was a little more like local Mexicans there 88 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: on vacation Port of Arta. But my plane ride was 89 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: me making friends with a gay twink from Toronto being like, so, 90 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: are you also going to Perta Vierta for Pride And 91 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: I was like kind of yes and no. So my 92 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: flight was very gay then like pool throwing up. Then 93 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: next day we just like beached. And but my mom 94 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: did sit next to lesbians on the plane. 95 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: Back, whoa cool. 96 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: So ultimately I didn't get that much a gay action 97 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: in Port of Vrata, which is kind of sad. 98 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: But it's kind of shocking. 99 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: But next time, literally next time, I was more into 100 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: like soaking up the rays in the ocean. 101 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,119 Speaker 2: But that's what it's all about, recharge and reconnection roots 102 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: with your Spanish roots exactly. 103 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: And I also did watch Ultimatum while I was sick, 104 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: in Verta, which we'll also get into. 105 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: Which is for those of you haven't seen, it's the 106 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: new lesbian reality show on Netflix. And if you're not watching, 107 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: you're crazy. 108 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: Age, you're literally insane. 109 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 2: Speaking of gay, Speaking of gay. 110 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: We today are doing a gay guy that almost is 111 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: so important that we really intimidated to do this. 112 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 2: Book no, and we've been putting it off actually out 113 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: of fear because it was like too big and important 114 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: of a book to do, and he died very recently 115 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: early last year, and it was like, oh, if you 116 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: do it too soon after his death, it feels like 117 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: we're kind of jumping on the death bandwagon. 118 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: And you don't want to be one of those people 119 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: like when I don't know, like some kind of like 120 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: seventies folk musician dies and then every single person is 121 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: posting them and you're like, oh, I didn't know. 122 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: Like slash me when anyone dies and everyone is mostly 123 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 2: pretending that they were so pivotal for their personal journey. 124 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: Japanese composer who died recently, Oh. 125 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: I know, we were talking about all these people coming 126 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: out of the work, just being like he actually was 127 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: the master. Yes, honestly, he was the fucking master. 128 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, nothing would have happened without him. 129 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: And I was like, it's like, I never heard your 130 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: ass mention him before ever. 131 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: Never heard you playing his scores. 132 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: When I went over scores. So when you walk it back, 133 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: fake gas, bitch, And we're. 134 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: Not fake anyway. But we also didn't want to walk 135 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: over the dead and say something that was disrespectful and 136 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: not that we are going to say something that's. 137 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 2: Now we can sort of have fun, yes, which he 138 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 2: would have wanted. He would have wanted us to make 139 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: fun of him in his totality, and it won't seem 140 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: crass because. 141 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: A titan we are talking about. 142 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 2: Other than Andre and his memoir the Chiffon Trenches title, 143 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: so many people do not try to have a fun 144 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: title anymore with their memoirs. Okay, it's my life story 145 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: story that or my life and stories. Yeah, or it's 146 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 2: something you know, really serious. What's demimores again, like this 147 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: on the undone circle or something that creative. No, it's 148 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 2: like inside out. 149 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, inside out, something that like can go with a 150 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: black and white photo. 151 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. And Cheffon trenches. I mean, honey, you're in it. 152 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: You're already there, you're in the No, my mom on 153 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: the plant. She looked over at me and just started 154 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: cracking up with the name the Cheffon trunches, and then 155 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: she stole this book from me. 156 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: Wow, even moms want to get their hands on. 157 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: It, that's how good it is, even moms. 158 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 2: I'll just say that this book is phenomenon, This bursting 159 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 2: with detail. 160 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: What's so interesting, incredibly self aware. I cried at the end. 161 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: Every sentence is so rich. 162 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, his lust for detail and history it's 163 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: what made his career because he's an absolute student of 164 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 2: everything that basically anyone has ever worn, ever, ever like, 165 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: and every single page of this book is him describing 166 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 2: someone walking in a room and just be like, and 167 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: she was wearing the chanel cape with the Balancioga boots 168 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 2: and then four short skirt with these incredible and there's 169 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: like random French words like like bucolanti. 170 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: Oh, well she only wore bucolanti and then what's so 171 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: beautiful of also like how this book is framed is 172 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: every single event, which there's a million events in this book. 173 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: He describes his outfit and how it rises of like 174 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 1: how much money he was making and the weight, which 175 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 1: she's very upfront about, very very upfront, you know. And 176 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: from the beginning, his mother, who he has a very 177 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: tense relationship with, takes him to get a church suit 178 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: made in DC and he gets like this beauty I 179 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: was already. 180 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: And he wants the he wants the Beatles cut, he 181 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: wants it to be and then the mom is being like, no, 182 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 2: like church, yeah, it's church. 183 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: But they came up to a medium which I was like, 184 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: it kind of actually sounds like the suits of today 185 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: were we're going not like so massive but not so skinny, 186 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: and it's this double breasted, playing with shape suit and 187 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: she was like, this is a church suit. 188 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: And she was still a little bit like you're being 189 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: too faggotty walking into a church, like with the way 190 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: you're strutting in your suit. 191 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: So basically he looks. He starts living with his grandmother 192 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: because his mother. I mean the way he talks about 193 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: his mother that first broke my heart and he goes, 194 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: my mother divorced my father because she thought she could 195 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: get something better and then the man that she thought 196 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 1: she would marry after married someone else younger, and then 197 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: she was bitter for the rest of her life. 198 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. The mom is kind of a sad, bitter bitch. 199 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: And she literally the only time she touches him and 200 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: his whole life is when he gets sick once and 201 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 2: she like gives him a hug very briefly. And I think, 202 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: you know, he internalized the correct lessons from that, which 203 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 2: were like, you should be well yes and no. I 204 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 2: think it made him very outgoing and loving and generous 205 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: of spirit. Yah. And I think he never wanted to, like, 206 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 2: you know, to cut people out like she did. But 207 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 2: of course, you know, that lack of physical affection coupled 208 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 2: with of course the molestation that he experienced. 209 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: Led to basically kind of and I would say the 210 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: Aighth crisis led to him being basically a. 211 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 2: Sexual Yeah, for his entire life. Oh, there's so much sadness, 212 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 2: and we'll get to that, but let's let's start with 213 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 2: the sort of main th rest of the book. Yeah, 214 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: so grows up Jim Crow, South Okay, Durham. 215 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: North Carolina. So he stayed. His grandmother is also like 216 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: so warm and like I feel like knows he has 217 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: higher aspirations than you know, staying in. 218 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: Durham, Akay, she knew he was gay? 219 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, which is it? I feel like it's kind 220 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: of an iconic grandmother trait. 221 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: If your little grandson is watching the Jackie O White 222 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: House Tour on your little black and white TV in 223 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: nineteen sixty one and he's like so excited about it, 224 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: then you know, yeah, you know. But this was one 225 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 2: of his first, I think, introductions to the power of fashion, 226 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 2: and he became obsessed with Jackie O and she was 227 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: like an early icon for him. 228 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: That house tour, I feel like, influenced so many people. 229 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 2: So he's talking about there, he was there, she stood, 230 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: her hair perfectly coft and curled, and her shamy no 231 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 2: line for line copy of an original Dior from Paris. 232 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 2: It's like he's already knowing exactly what she's in. She 233 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 2: spoke of the White House with knowledge and eloquence. Then 234 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: I learned the word the Parisian linen firm had donated 235 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: a long white tablecloths in a state dining room, hand 236 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: embroidered and gold thread. I learned that she wanted simple 237 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: glasses for water and wine. She found them in Virginia. 238 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 2: She spoke of the stand for white moldings painted white 239 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 2: from nineteen oh two. And it's like, I was actually 240 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: kind of shocked that Jackie Oh was so knowledgeable about 241 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 2: every detail of the White House. I've never seen this tour. 242 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: Well, but she's from high society. Yeah, yea gray gardens. 243 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen that. 244 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 2: I actually literally have. 245 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: I was like, that's very you to have never seen 246 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: grey gardens. It's like this actually like a gonic documentary. 247 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: You have to check it out. 248 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 2: Well, I know it's part of gay history. Whatever. 249 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: Have you seen them? Paris is burning? 250 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 2: Okay? Actually I have seen Paris, thank you. 251 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: Very And I haven't seen Star Wars so, which. 252 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 2: Is also because the robot is gay. 253 00:12:54,280 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: I ultimately, Jackie O modernized, she was girl modernized. The 254 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: talk about White House post you know. 255 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 2: And then and then he goes you know my aunts 256 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: copied her style according to their budget, with pillbox hats 257 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:13,959 Speaker 2: and elegant chainstrap handbags gloves. Of course, all respectful negro 258 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 2: church ladies were inspired by Jackie Kennedy, and it's like 259 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: there's this connection, of course, and you see him growing 260 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 2: up and seeing all of the women around him in 261 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 2: his community wearing their church best, and that's where he 262 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: talks about the church fashion shows later on, of course, 263 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: reminded me of Top Model cycle set when Tyra introduces 264 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 2: them to like black church fashion, and Jade like wins 265 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 2: the challenge because she walks with like the most personality 266 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: and she's like spinning in her cape. But then Joni 267 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 2: kinds of turns it. 268 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: Out and giving her like giving like such sho weird speech, 269 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: being like, so there's this thing called like the church. 270 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: We're like old fathers black women wearing hats and like 271 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: the all the Christian white girls Like what what? 272 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, so he's already like he's making connections, like 273 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: you see his his ability for synthesis is already like 274 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 2: so apparent. He's just like I'm seeing Jackie, I'm seeing 275 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 2: the hats, I'm seeing my mom, I'm seeing the Grandmama. 276 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: I'm seeing how like this history and culture is coming 277 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: together in the way people express themselves, and I want 278 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 2: to chronicle it and be a part of it. 279 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: Well and seeing the world. Especially when he notices that 280 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: she has this linen tablecloth, it was like the whole 281 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: society thing. It wasn't just fashion. 282 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was like it was manners, it was history. 283 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: Later on, when he's at all these people's houses, it's 284 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: like it's all about like getting a scarf and a 285 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: suitcase and a dressing table and the cups that you're drinking, 286 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: the pot of coffee that Carl Felt sent you. Yeah, 287 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: it's the whole world. 288 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: It's an entire lifestyle. And of course we don't have 289 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 2: that anymore. And as Andrea famously once said, we're living 290 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 2: in a famine of beauty. 291 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: No, I mean. And the end is literally what we 292 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: say every day. The end of this book is him 293 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: just being like Grace Cottington is freelance. Like that's the 294 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: saddest thing I've. 295 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 2: Ever heard of my life, really, and it. 296 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: Really is, and like people getting just like basement goodbye parties. 297 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 2: Okay. What I did not realize that he does not 298 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: talk about in this book is his later in life career, 299 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 2: like right, because this book came out like right before 300 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 2: he died, But he doesn't mention that. So he talks 301 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 2: about Scad at the end and he's like, and I 302 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 2: love Scott and Scots so important to me and I 303 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 2: would die for Scad. But did you know that he 304 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 2: was also artistic director for Zappos? 305 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: Stop? 306 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 2: How fucking random is that job? 307 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: Or just a director for Zappos? 308 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? And I'm like, what what is like you're directing 309 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 2: the photo shoots, Like that's product photography of just like 310 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 2: one keen shoes. 311 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, like the entire patron front of the pond Daniel. 312 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 2: He was also advisor to will I Am Well because 313 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: I saw him thinking him in the acknowledgements and I 314 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 2: was like. 315 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: Thank you will I Am for believing Yeah, isn't will 316 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: I Am so Zappos? 317 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 2: Yeah no, that's making sense. But I'm like William for 318 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 2: believing in you. It's like you were already so successful 319 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 2: and famously well. 320 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: But it's about the younger set, right, And I think 321 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:24,359 Speaker 1: also like connecting with younger black celebrities after spending like such. 322 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: A long time with the white white. 323 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: Woman world and being so like oh, yes, Anna, when 324 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: Toro look for your phone. 325 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we'll get to that s as part of 326 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 2: his falling out with Anna. 327 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: But so he goes he you know, can. 328 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 2: We just talk coop at his first coat when he 329 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 2: when he first les North Carolina and goes to. 330 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: Like the army coat, he goes to Brown to Brown. 331 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: To study French, and he wants to be a French tutor, 332 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: so gay. 333 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: And then he discovers, as many people do, Providence is 334 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: a pretty alternative and people are. 335 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: Goes to Sabers for the first time, he met these 336 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: like rich risdy girls who are like, we're going to. 337 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: New York worthrifting and he gets, which I think actually 338 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: is an introduction for a lot of people into thrifting 339 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: is Army. 340 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 2: And he gets this vintage surplus Navy admiral's coat in 341 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 2: perfect condition. Oh, the brass buttons were intact. It was 342 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 2: a MAXI almost to my feet and I'd wear it 343 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 2: with scratchy sail of pants four inches above the ankles 344 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 2: and lace up Oxford with small Flamingo dancer heels. 345 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: And then I mean this actually was. 346 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 2: Kind of like a faggy ass outfit I would see 347 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: in Bushwick today. 348 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 1: This is kind of hilarious, Like his mother was so rude. 349 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: So when he goes home and it's so like your 350 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: first like break home after art school and they're about 351 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: to go to church and he's wearing it, she glared 352 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: at me and said, I can't be seen walking with 353 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: you up to the aisle in this Phantom of the Opera. 354 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm like, okay, Moss daring it. 355 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 1: And it is that thing where your kid comes up 356 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: from art school and they are like chunky shoes, army coat, 357 00:17:55,880 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: wallet chains like dressover pantsas. 358 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: And you're converse and you're just like really, and you're 359 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: just like, I mean, it's so my mom for so 360 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 2: many years, Steven, Are you gonna wear that to dinner? 361 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? 362 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: Can you please pick something else? 363 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, she's in just like insane glitter like. 364 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: Yeah she's and go, yeah, she's in some just like 365 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: weird insane like whatever. 366 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: But so he kind of like changes course at Brown, 367 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: sees all these busy people and it's like wait fashion, yeah, 368 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: and then someone every is a mentor and like a 369 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: father of a friend gets him the intern the internship 370 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: to end all internships. Diana Virland met costume institute. 371 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 2: So he gets this internship and he hasn't even I 372 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 2: don't even met Diana Vreeling yet. And then someone like 373 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 2: one of the persons trying to hands him this shoe 374 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 2: box full of chain mail and it's all messed up 375 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 2: and it's this like chain mail dress. 376 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: For like Cleopat, It's like Cleopatra's chainmail dress. And he 377 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: spends all day. He's like, this has to be untangled 378 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: by midnight. It literally is the most like Project Runway 379 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: top model. 380 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 2: Thing, Like it's just like a pot. It's a pile 381 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 2: of like just tangled chain mail, and then he somehow 382 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 2: fashions it perfectly into the dress. Diana Freeling comes in 383 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 2: the room and she just goes, who did this? 384 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: No, it's so who did this? It's a silent room, 385 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: and he's like, I did this. 386 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 2: I did like shaking like doesn't know if you didn't. 387 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:35,239 Speaker 1: She's just like, you will never leave my side. And 388 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: Diana Virlen's. 389 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: Well, when he talks about her style of talking, he's like, 390 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 2: she has this this staccato style of narrative. Missus Reeland 391 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: spoken narratives in stacatto sentences. You had to figure out 392 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: what she wanted. The next dress she assigned me was 393 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 2: from Cleopatra one by Claudette Colbert. You must remember Andre 394 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 2: White Peacock's The Sun. And this is a girl of 395 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 2: fourteen who is a queen. Now get cracking, right, ho, 396 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 2: It's just like kind of a string of nouns. 397 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: And then we went into her office. Is if she 398 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: she hires him. We went into her office where she 399 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: sat down and wrote my name in large letters. Help her, 400 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: she wrote underneath it, and handed the paper to me. 401 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: You will stay by my side night and day until 402 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: the show is finished. Let's go, kiddo, let's get corrected. 403 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: And then there's this gorgeous photo of them, like a 404 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: fixing a mannequin. He's in these like gorgeous kind of 405 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: wide like pleated dress pants and a cream turtleneck, and 406 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,159 Speaker 1: she's in one of her classic like later because this 407 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: is when Diner Villum like started wearing pantsuits. 408 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: Right, and she kind of invented androgyny women pantsuits, which 409 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 2: then like why a cell kind of reinvents. 410 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: Later he says, she and someone else invented androgyny. So oh, 411 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: Marlon and Dietrich, of. 412 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 2: Course, yeah, But then there's always these like this kind 413 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 2: of coterie of these random other women, like Betty Katru, 414 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: who's like on every cage in an apag and like 415 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 2: all these other women. 416 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: Betty Katru was the first butch person on earth. And 417 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: I'm like, who is Betty True? And it's because Betty 418 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: True bought Haynes t shirts. 419 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, shocking suits but no one was doing that. Yeah, 420 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: and it was kind of mind blowing. And now it's like, yeah, 421 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 2: King Princess found dead, like wearing a tank. 422 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: The High Low. So he was unpaid. Also during this, 423 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 1: it was an internship, So. 424 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: There's this thing. So Diana Reelan, she's kind of like 425 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 2: she's this mythical creature and she literally launches him on 426 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 2: a mythical like Greek quest. She right after the internship finishes, 427 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: he's in New York. He's penniless. 428 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 1: He wants to go home for Christmas. His you know, 429 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: his grandmother's like come home, come home, come home. They 430 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: think he's fucking a white woman, is what they said. 431 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,239 Speaker 2: And he goes. I tried working as a receptionist at 432 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 2: the ASPCA, but it was too tragic, which I'm obsessed with. 433 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: This is Reeling called me into her office late one afternoon, 434 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 2: just before taking out for the Christmas holiday season. Don't 435 00:21:56,560 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 2: go home to Durham. Andre really pronounced. If you home 436 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 2: to the South, you will get a teaching job, of course, 437 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: but you'll never come back to New York. It will 438 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: happen for you. Just sit tight and run home. But 439 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: I have no money, I need a job. Stick it out. 440 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 2: You belong in New York. Do not go home for Christmas. 441 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 2: And she literally gives him this like mystical edict. She's like, 442 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 2: you can't go home. You will be otherwise, like you'll 443 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: be become a teacher and you won't become like a 444 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 2: fashion icon. And so he doesn't go home for Christmas. 445 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 2: He like eats beans like with no. 446 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: Heat, not even This is also kind of a prelude 447 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: to some darker times. I opened the cupboards and found 448 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: a can of her She's chocolate syrup, which I devoured 449 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: with the fine silver teaspo sweet too, and followed with 450 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 1: glasses of water Chase the thick dance, sir. Like. 451 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: A few weeks later, like she starts calling all these 452 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 2: people and. 453 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 1: This is what is so fabus, and I think so 454 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: Greek mythic about it. She's not like, stay here you'll 455 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: become this When I get back from Christmas, I'll like 456 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: tell him I'll write you some letters. Yeah, she knows 457 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: she will, but she makes him kind of stick out. 458 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 2: Like she gives him this test. It's a trial. It's 459 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 2: like an Odysseus trial. 460 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 1: And of course she goes and has a wonderful holiday 461 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 1: with the day of rental. So she does always all 462 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: fabulous and she's in theese or whatever, and she returns 463 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: back and then gets out her quill and then writes 464 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 1: her recommendation to every magazine, every fashion house. I mean, 465 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: she writes recommendations to him for everyone. And then he 466 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 1: gets a job at Interview. 467 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: At Interview magazine New York City. 468 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 4: Fran Lebowits, I mean, it's kind of insane because it's 469 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 4: just like what is this world? 470 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 2: What is this world? Where it's like Fran much like me, 471 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 2: wrote a monthly column Interview and would just roll through 472 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: the office, which like now they're like, isn't even an office. 473 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 2: She was getting paid enough to like live in her 474 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 2: fabulous apart and munch. 475 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 1: Like you people queaked qua. 476 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 2: They walked to her loafers or pennyloafers, jumped into the office. 477 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: It's like she's in the same Levis and Loafers had 478 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: just written Metropolitan Life, and I want to I want 479 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: to ask you a question. Do you think one friend 480 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: the falls asleep in her raw Dunham, like, is she 481 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: still like stuck with a cloud that she has like 482 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: not written a book since the seventies? 483 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: Yes, I think so absolutely. I mean so was Capoti. 484 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: You know after in Cold Blood he was like, oh 485 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: and you never did anything in that and you know 486 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 2: he threw fabulous parties and he was like a socialista. Okay, 487 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: friend's career, her career now is basically being like a 488 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 2: grand bit. Yeah, she's just like. 489 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 1: Who supposedly is dating has been dating? Dating is kind 490 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,400 Speaker 1: of a funny word. So as Tony Morrison. 491 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 2: What No, Yes, they're just like good friends who go 492 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 2: to the ninety second Street why once every nine months. 493 00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: That's called being a lesbian. 494 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: Also, isn't anymore? Is dead alive boots? Okay, you're che bitch. 495 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 2: Tony died in twenty nineteen, Okay, four years ago. 496 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, the pandemic is just she's still knocking loafers with 497 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: fran I don't think so lesbian bed Okay, well sometimes anyway, 498 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: I still stand by that. I think they have slept together. 499 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 2: Ran in the comments, Gay this tea le lesbian tribunal 500 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 2: where you at? We're Sampson reviewed. 501 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 1: I think rocks and Gay said this on Twitter and 502 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 1: people in the comments were like, yes, it's known she would. 503 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 1: So he's working at and he's the receptionist. And Fran though, 504 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,679 Speaker 1: is like, I like you because you actually do your 505 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: job because obviously it's so gay over there and like 506 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 1: no one is doing their job and just like stomping 507 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: around the office. 508 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 2: Can I just this is just like an example of 509 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: the fashion writing this book, how everything is so incredible. 510 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 2: He's talking about Bianca Jagger's luggage. Oh, all of this 511 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,959 Speaker 2: was packed in tissue and layered in extraordinary Louisviton cases, 512 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 2: unlike any I had previously seen. They were actually custom 513 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: made hunting cases used to pack guns for grouse shoots. 514 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 2: Because of the length she could pack her Xandra Roads 515 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: Krinaline the evening gowns flat, no folds in these coffin 516 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 2: like cases. She bought them in Paris at the Avenue 517 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 2: Mouth So Louis Viton store. It's like, okay, you knew, 518 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 2: you know where she bought the luggage and you're describing 519 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 2: the actual size and leg the luggage and how the krinoline, 520 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 2: which is a word that no one has. 521 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 1: Ever used, the lining of luggage. 522 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 2: No, that's the evening gowns are made of crinoline. 523 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: Sons Rod like, oh, she was wearing the most gorgeous 524 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: Sondre Roads outfit. No, and this book after traveling for 525 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: a week with my busted Samsonite. 526 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: You were when he gets in the car accident. 527 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay. He So he gets in a 528 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: car accident in Anna Windour's rental car after like a wedding, 529 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 1: fully like tumbles into a field, like horrible car accident. 530 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,119 Speaker 1: Someone pulls him and he's like very heavy at this 531 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: point out of the car. He's in the hospital and 532 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: they're like Andre, you're okay, And he goes, how is 533 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: my luckage? And they're like the rental car is totaled 534 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: and he's like but what and they're like the I think, 535 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: he goes the luggage was fine, it was unscathed. 536 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 2: I mean. So this book is basically about two incredible cunts, 537 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 2: Anna and Carl, And it's like they're both incredibly cold, 538 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 2: they're both like really powerful, and they both love Andre 539 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 2: and like his personality and his knowledge, but he isn't 540 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 2: accessory to them, and. 541 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: They both drop him. Yeah, when he is no longer 542 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: important to them, and they are both very thin at 543 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: certain points until Carl gains weight with on that. 544 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 2: There's a line in here which is so haunting where 545 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 2: he's like, Carl and I were both in the beginning 546 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 2: stages just to be like we were kind of bonding. 547 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 2: We were kind of starting our weight gain journey together, 548 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: and it was like and. 549 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: It sounded really fun, like literally like most of when 550 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 1: they were bff, like they would just like sit at 551 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 1: his dining room table, and he was like, Carl wanted 552 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 1: to be entertained. He want to talk about opera, He 553 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: want to talk about literature, You want to talk about 554 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: fashion opera. And they would eat sumptuous meals and have 555 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: like other princesses over but then he's like, Carl would 556 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: eat three cold frankfurters from the fridge. 557 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 2: Well, I was I think while we were on weight, 558 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 2: I might just want to get into that because he 559 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 2: has like some incredibly very self awarrees. One of the 560 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 2: things about this book is like he really just understands himself, 561 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 2: and it's almost like impossible to even like call him 562 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: out because you know, like when he talks about overreading, 563 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 2: he's like, I didn't have sex, and I was like 564 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: basically a virgin all the time because I was like 565 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: less as a child and my mother never loved me, 566 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: and so I like became really uncomfortable like with other 567 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: people's bodies and was basically just like I'm going to 568 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 2: retreat into this world of like knowledge and fashion and 569 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 2: like details, silks. 570 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: And I do kind of feel like there's something about 571 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: fashion that is so not sexual. And I was thinking 572 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: about that. 573 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 2: Because the body as instrument is the body as mannequin. 574 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: Even though fashion is used so much for sex and 575 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: it's sold via sex, right, but it's like to be 576 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 1: so in it, you have to be so in the 577 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: clothes and kind of like forget about people and use 578 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: people as you know, just an instrument for the clothes 579 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: and the details. So it's kind of like sex goes away, 580 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: and so his I mean that scene where he has 581 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: sex with this designer and like it. 582 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 2: Goes back, don't have sex, like get in bed and 583 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 2: it's like, oh, it's. 584 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: Really awkward and it doesn't work, and he's like I 585 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: never mounted anyone after that and just like my abuse 586 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: and AIDS, and I was like, I just and he's like, 587 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: I had so many amazing friendships in my life, but 588 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: I never had love. 589 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 2: He kind of like sums it all up quite just succinctly, 590 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: and he's talking about AIDS also, He's like, during this 591 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 2: terrifying time, my sexual repression saved my life. Friendly Boitz 592 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 2: called me a nun and she wasn't far off. Despite 593 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 2: all the sex and drugs going around me, I rarely 594 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 2: ever partook really though. I was too uptight to have 595 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 2: a lover. I had internalized my childhood abuse and was 596 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 2: too afraid now to have a relationship. I put love 597 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 2: in the back of my mind instead. I continue to 598 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 2: focus on my career and never even considered the need 599 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 2: for a separate social life until it was too late 600 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 2: to have one. My social life was attending fittings with 601 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 2: Sauche Lambalget. I thought myself so clever then. Sex was 602 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 2: not on my radar. Success was, and if I felt sad, 603 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 2: I would eat. If that didn't work, I would keep 604 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 2: eating until it did. I claim it, yes, yes, I 605 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 2: claim it, for all the pain I must endure in 606 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:12,240 Speaker 2: the absence of love binge inge is mine, which which 607 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't say anything. I'm just like, yeah, 608 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 2: well no own. 609 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: So many people also have these rumors about him being 610 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,719 Speaker 1: like this like big dicked guy that like fucked all 611 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 1: the designers well career. 612 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, he talks about these Yeah, it's like and that 613 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: was like out of jealousy, and there was a lot 614 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 2: of like Imperial Court drama Karl and people trying to 615 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: get rid of him and Sully his good name with 616 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 2: rumors because they were jealous of its proximity to the king. 617 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: And he felt like, oh, people just think I'm this 618 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: like big, like black guy with like a huge dick 619 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 1: and like and he was like, well, and I'm actually 620 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: not sleeping with anyone. 621 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, does he have a big deck? Maybe? Maybe he 622 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 2: kind of doesn't deny that he has a big deck. 623 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 1: Yes, but he basically is like I don't know how 624 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: to move. 625 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 2: He like dies a virgin. It's kind of I mean's 626 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 2: something so sad about him. And I mean, here's the 627 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 2: thing about him and Anna and Carl. It's like Anna 628 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 2: and Carl are also these cold, sexless creatures who never 629 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: take off the class. 630 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: Does Carl have sex? 631 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 632 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: He has lovers. 633 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 2: He has this lover and I think in like the eighties, 634 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 2: like maybe he is having sex. Carl is also such 635 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: an incredibly sad figure. Carl is so sad and he's 636 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 2: so obsessed with aging and death. I mean the reason 637 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 2: that him and Andre have their big falling out is 638 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 2: because he's dares ask him to fund this like woman's 639 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 2: retrospective show, but you can't talk about death. 640 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: Also, this whole book is leading up to when Carl 641 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 1: is going to drop him as a friend. 642 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 643 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 1: The whole time, Andrea is setting us up being like 644 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: I would see him drop this person and this person 645 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: like someone just like asks about my about Carl's dead lover, 646 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: and they like their bags are packed the next day. Yeah, 647 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 1: and then he's like. 648 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 2: What I mean that girl. It's like when he shoots 649 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 2: that random like daughter at carl'sy and then he doesn't 650 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 2: like one of the photos and then he doesn't get 651 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 2: met at Andre, but he does like pack her bag, 652 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 2: sent her back to Italy, like, never speaks to her again. 653 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 2: She's off the list that every Chanelle show for the 654 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 2: rest of her life. It's over. 655 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: And she's like the best friend of his dead boyfriend 656 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: is really crazy. Well, Carl Laherfeld this insane. I mean, 657 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: I feel like his child is just being summary and 658 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: a Bramvic and all of our like all of our 659 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 1: Balkan girlies. 660 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 2: Who a the mom who calls him a dike and 661 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 2: she straps. 662 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: Him bondage style so he doesn't eat. 663 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like how how it's like how to make 664 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 2: an eating disorder? Strap your child, trap your little German 665 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: gay son to the bed and like. 666 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: Gorgeous leather bondage and then says you look like an 667 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: old dyke. 668 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 2: You know. Andre is like both Anna and Carl, and and. 669 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: Also the connection is Anna only it's he's in this 670 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: cycle of almost abuse because Anna only wears Chanel no 671 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: I know, and. 672 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 2: She and she kind of like needs Andrea to keep 673 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:05,719 Speaker 2: up the relationship with Carl. 674 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 1: She's afraid to talk to Carl, and she's always sending him. 675 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 2: Being like the key snaker between the two of them. 676 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 1: Because it's like those two insane thin cuts, right, I 677 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 1: can't speak, So she's like, can you ask Carl if 678 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: we can go see the collection? 679 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:23,800 Speaker 2: But it's like then he is. He's obviously much closer 680 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 2: with Carl than they are like gay guys I mean 681 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 2: that's scene when they like both drink a full bottle 682 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 2: of vodka with like Anna Piagi and then go to 683 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,959 Speaker 2: this like club in Paris and he's like, we didn't 684 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 2: say a word, We just watch people dance for two hours. 685 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 1: The amount of vodka. And he's also very like, oh, 686 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: I didn't do coke like everyone was always having. They 687 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: were kind of these two sexual like friends to be like, 688 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: that's a little bit scary. We can like stand together 689 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: with this party as everyone is doing like coke and fucking. 690 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 2: Okay two things. Two wordsn't want to go down. First 691 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 2: of all, that kind of like I'm near all the hedonism, 692 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,400 Speaker 2: but I'm not partaking. There was part of me of 693 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: that that I found annoying. When he's like going to 694 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 2: the Eagle with like his cheeka, and there's like guys 695 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 2: are like pissing down each other and they're like giggling 696 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 2: and running away. It's a little bit like, you know, 697 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: what if you're not gonna like be yes. 698 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: But that's also just his repression and I'm being scared. 699 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,919 Speaker 2: I get that it's the repression, but at a certain point, 700 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 2: it's like you are an adult. Get over here in 701 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 2: New York you're going to clubs, you're seeing people like 702 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 2: do coke, like do coke and do the works and 703 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 2: do blow drops at two fifty four like every night, 704 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 2: So like you do need to just like I don't 705 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 2: know if you find you can be ace, but like 706 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 2: don't be so like giggling in everyone who's trying to 707 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 2: like suck dick. 708 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 1: No. And he was being like, oh like Holston doing coke. 709 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: I had to leave Bianca Jagger's wedding because I couldn't 710 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: see that. 711 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so and it's kind of like this hedonism is 712 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 2: feeling creativity, which is feeling your industry. 713 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's two size because you just kind 714 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,720 Speaker 1: of feel bad for him. It's just like the uptake 715 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: girl who like doesn't want to party. 716 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 2: And it's also very Bill Cunningham. 717 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 4: It's also like him gun I'm him gun ate like 718 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 4: all of these frigid like fashion like women and gays 719 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 4: who are like so have they They also all have 720 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 4: a uniform, which is so interesting. Yes klftan like Halfdan 721 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 4: Bill Kindeham with the chore jacket, Anna with the glasses, 722 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 4: and Chanel Caral with the glasses in Chanel, it's like 723 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:14,760 Speaker 4: they all wear the same. 724 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: Thing every day, Tim Gun kind of in the same suit, 725 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: the pinstripe suit. 726 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: I do you feel like it could take care of 727 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 2: her own dudes to work? Do you think Andrea masturbates? 728 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: Yes, you know, it's like but rarely. I feel like 729 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 1: it's so like when he absolutely has to and then 730 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,400 Speaker 1: takes a shower. 731 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 2: Because his balls are those birth down head. 732 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 733 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 1: I feel like it's kind of like twice a year. 734 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so catholic. 735 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,479 Speaker 1: Like I feel like Carl doesn't masturbate, but like gets 736 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: fucked once a year. Does Anna masturbate? Does she take 737 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,240 Speaker 1: out her rabbit? 738 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:57,320 Speaker 2: The most efficient masturbating are your magic thirty seconds. I 739 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,799 Speaker 2: feel and she has like she got like an exclusive 740 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 2: that's in like green Faberge marble or something, and it's 741 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 2: like in. 742 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 1: A locked thing. 743 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 2: I know. I feel like she's just having tense sex 744 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 2: with her like husband or her boyfriend or whatever. Like 745 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 2: I just has been her boy I'm just being like Roger, 746 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,280 Speaker 2: like we only have seven minutes, and she's like pissed 747 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 2: devil's product. 748 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: What's also insane about Anna and him is the beginning 749 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,680 Speaker 1: of the book. He sets up that Carl is gonna 750 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: like dismiss him at the beginning of the book, Andrea 751 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 1: is like defending Anna like as much as he can. 752 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 1: He's like, by the way, the devil, he's being so 753 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 1: like weird girl and being like the devil. Worst part 754 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 1: is actually like not totally accurate, and like Anna's not like. 755 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 2: That because she would because she would never throw her coat. 756 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 2: And then but then it's like the whole book of 757 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 2: her being so devil res product and literally they're like 758 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,720 Speaker 2: one of their last scenes is when she like throws 759 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 2: her hand back at him and she's like she's like 760 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 2: hold this, yeah, And. 761 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: Then like the one of the last ends of the 762 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 1: book is him being like Anna, do you have any humanity? 763 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 2: Yeah? 764 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 1: But he's being so like detail, being like Vogue was 765 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,279 Speaker 1: actually a place of manners and no one would put 766 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: a code. 767 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 2: He you know, the relationship with Anna, he expels it 768 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 2: all out. He worships her, he's obsessed with her. He 769 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 2: thinks she's the best dressed woman in the world. He's 770 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 2: like grateful to her and is in awe of her power. 771 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 2: And he's also like she's the coldest bitch in the 772 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 2: world and she can't speak to other people like a human. 773 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,320 Speaker 2: And when she decided to like fire me, and it 774 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 2: was actually the digital team at Condy that fired me 775 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 2: from doing the red carpet at the Mecca and replace 776 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 2: me with a YouTube influencers. She could have called me, 777 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 2: and she didn't call me. 778 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: And then but it's like Grace Mirabella found out she 779 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: was being replaced by Anna Wintour on NBC News. Imagine 780 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,720 Speaker 1: that I was like, that's so crazy. Imagine like watching 781 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: live NBC News at five and then being like, there's 782 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,800 Speaker 1: a new elrit Vogue. 783 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 2: I mean, she knew it was coming. 784 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 1: The insane scene towards the end of his relationship with 785 00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 1: Anna where they're going to an event and she thinks 786 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 1: she gives. 787 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 2: Her phone tiny bag and she thought her phone was 788 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 2: in it. 789 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 1: And then she's like, where's my bag, Andre, where the 790 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 1: fuck is my phone? And it's flipping on. It's like, 791 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 1: look for my phone, and he's like in his kaftan, 792 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: like looking like everywhere, and then he calls and it's 793 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 1: like she left in the car. And then she writes 794 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 1: him a handwritten note just like she did when they 795 00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,320 Speaker 1: first locked eyes at the Vogue offices that says like 796 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: thank you, and then he sends it to get framed 797 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 1: at a local framer plans and then the framer loses 798 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 1: the note, and he says, and he literally is like, 799 00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 1: I have called that framer every week. 800 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 2: I have verbally assassinated him every week for the rest 801 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 2: of my life. Are you okay? There's there's a lie 802 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,399 Speaker 2: where he's just incredibly aware of this relationship. He goes, 803 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 2: I'm not belittling myself to say my strength was in 804 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 2: my ability to be beside a small, great, powerful white 805 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 2: woman and encourage her vision. In exchange, Diana Vreelann always 806 00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,399 Speaker 2: showed me unconditional love, and Anna Winter and I became 807 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 2: extremely close. To be clear, however, neither of them ever 808 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 2: felt like small women to me, except when it came 809 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 2: to clothes fittings. Hello, we just be like I get it, Like, yeah, 810 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 2: I am here beside these like tiny little white women 811 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 2: who tower over the industry, and like that is why. 812 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 2: And he's like, and I don't think that that makes 813 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:21,360 Speaker 2: me like a small, pathetic person. No, it's just the 814 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: real it's just sometimes a gay man and a straight woman. 815 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,920 Speaker 2: That's that's what happened. 816 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, he's like, look it works. 817 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,400 Speaker 2: I love the part when he tries to work for 818 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 2: Vogue and Gray sprint ba is still there and oh yeah, 819 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 2: and she's like so she's like thinks it's so embarrassing 820 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 2: that he was like clapping like a seal at like. 821 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like new and new designers, and she 822 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: was like and then finally she's like, what do you 823 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: see in them? And he's like, I think they're great, 824 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 1: and she's like disgusting, And then this was so fabulous 825 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: and also just like Tina Brown and handwritten notes and 826 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 1: bring back handwritten notes. Then it's like the original handwritten 827 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,240 Speaker 1: note is Anna past, this is my Andre in the hallway, 828 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 1: slight smile, no words. He goes back to his new 829 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 1: apartment in Union Square, bitch, and just under his doors 830 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 1: a handwritten note. 831 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 2: Already somehow It's like it's only two stops away on 832 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 2: the trend, and it's like. 833 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 1: That's so devils product for this, and it's just like, 834 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 1: I can't wait to work together Anna X because. 835 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 2: She sees an ally she's like, boom and there's my game. 836 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,319 Speaker 2: Let's go, there's my new handbag, and she was right, 837 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 2: I okay, just a couple other things about the history fashion. Okay, 838 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 2: when he works for Vanity Fair, he does that that's 839 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 2: scarlet in the Hood photoshoot. You look at the photos 840 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,800 Speaker 2: of that, it's so fa and John Galliano is like 841 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 2: the servant and Naomi Campbell is Scarlett O'Hara. It's so 842 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 2: fab and it's so vanity fair, and I think it's 843 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 2: like he actually think has the most fun when he 844 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 2: goes to VF. It's the grating Carter days, glory days 845 00:41:55,600 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 2: of magazine, sense of humor, edgy, fun, elegant editorial. It's 846 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 2: like that's what magazines used to be. 847 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:08,439 Speaker 1: And it's like that's what Tyra was trying to recreate. Yeah, yeah, 848 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,720 Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, everything was so crazy. 849 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 2: It was it was thematic and like I don't think 850 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: you know, Tyra and I guess PN taste this taste 851 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 2: level creative creative director. It was like Jay and Jay 852 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 2: were like not quite at the level of like Andre 853 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 2: Leon tally like I've been fair like that and you know. 854 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: And it's like Andre talks about like, you know, how 855 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: like scar you know, Gone with the Wind. He's like, well, 856 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: how as a black man could I like, I get 857 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 1: that it's like an important movie, but like how could 858 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,759 Speaker 1: I enjoy this? And then he's like, Okay, let's flip it. 859 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's flip it. And it's like it's it's fun, 860 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 2: and it is empowering and it is a subtle activism, 861 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 2: as he says, and it's of course and of course 862 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 2: could never do that today, no can. 863 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,320 Speaker 1: We also talk about how he says Renees Elberger is 864 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: the only celebrity who become a fashion editor. 865 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, that I was the most im lyne in the book. 866 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 1: And I saw and I read it and it was 867 00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:03,799 Speaker 1: one of those things to reading, like maybe I read 868 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 1: this wrong yea, And I turned back and I'm like, 869 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: we're talking about Renee Zellwegger. 870 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 2: Fashion editor, fashion orly celebrity who could be a fashion editor. 871 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, if Andre says it, I'll believe it. 872 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: But I'm like, huh, I guess I've just like, I mean, now. 873 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 2: Like gay Vergin of him to have like gotten tea 874 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 2: with her once at like. 875 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,800 Speaker 1: To also choose one of the A listers, but like, 876 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,280 Speaker 1: because it's very gay to be like Catherine David Jones 877 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,720 Speaker 1: is my favorite celebrity extremely or to be like Renee, 878 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: like you're not going for like the top, You're never 879 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 1: gonna be. 880 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 2: But he is kind of like Christian, so there's something 881 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 2: very sexless about Renee or at least. 882 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,359 Speaker 1: Like PG Well and Renee who Mary Kenna Chesney. 883 00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 2: Who's gay so and then dated Bradley Cooper. 884 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,919 Speaker 1: Who's also gay. Who I just saw in a video 885 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 1: at Taylorswift concert last night. 886 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 2: So you saw him in a video. 887 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 1: I saw him in a video. Yeah, I wasn't that 888 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 1: dealershiff that I was. I saw him it at a video. 889 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,720 Speaker 2: Hmmm, real behavior. 890 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: Totally singing along. Should I just read the last I 891 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 1: mean this made me cry the last paragraph of this book. 892 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 1: I've always feared life. I love living, and I love 893 00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 1: looking to the endless guies. The world can't hurt me. 894 00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,800 Speaker 1: No one can hurt me. When I live in the 895 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: circle of faith, love and prayer. It gives me unbridled 896 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:28,879 Speaker 1: joy to give love. I always wanted love. 897 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,759 Speaker 2: Oh, it is so sad. And you see him, you know, 898 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 2: he is wrapping himself in the cross. 899 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: In the cafftown. 900 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 2: Yes, in the cross, but you know, but but you know, 901 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 2: using religion as a retreat, and it's it's provided him. 902 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 2: I think a lot of steadiness and stability over the years, 903 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 2: but also he's still expressing this desire for companionship and 904 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 2: an intimacy that he's never had, and he just, you know, 905 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 2: he said, it's not going to happen for me, and 906 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to pursue their stuff and I'm going to 907 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 2: be grateful for it. There's part of this that isn't sad, 908 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 2: because I think he have so much gratitude except it. 909 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: And he's like, my friendships have been. 910 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 2: At bitter like you know. And in some ways I 911 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,759 Speaker 2: think Carl and A are much sad her figures because 912 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:10,359 Speaker 2: been happy. 913 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 1: And like can't hold on to a friendship. He's ready 914 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,320 Speaker 1: to hold on to friendships. 915 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,239 Speaker 2: But you know it's interesting. Anna did cry, she spoke 916 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 2: it has been her own cried. She regrets. Yeah, I 917 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 2: wonder if she does feel real regret. 918 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,600 Speaker 1: Over She read his first memoir, Alt in one night. 919 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 2: And like sent him a letter being like, wonderful book. 920 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 2: I was. 921 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: Also, she's being so us being like, oh I have 922 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: to read this bookman podcast homework. Yeah, I'm sure she 923 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: got this book, read it in the night and shed 924 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: like one. 925 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,839 Speaker 2: Tear, yeah, and then put the sunglasses back. 926 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 1: I got it, went to bed and they caught in 927 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 1: her like a zip up. Dolly are famine of segments? 928 00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 2: What does she eat? 929 00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,879 Speaker 1: What does she well, does she live? 930 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 2: What does she eat? Everything? Honey? The Thanksgiving scene, I 931 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 2: was actually I was about to pull that really was harrowing. 932 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 2: He goes, well, he goes home to Durham and this 933 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 2: is like before after Els Banana stage is the intervention 934 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 2: about Oh, he like goes to a conference, but it's 935 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 2: like Oscar and ant de la Renta Anna Wintour. He's 936 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 2: like priests and his little pastor and they're all they're like, 937 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 2: we're sending you to like the Duke University like obesity program, 938 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:33,760 Speaker 2: and then. 939 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: They like he refuses it, does go and then goes 940 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 1: in the cabbage diet and does lose like forty pounds 941 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,720 Speaker 1: and gets a rowing machine. 942 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then he falls off and he is ultimately 943 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 2: addicted to sweets. Yeah. 944 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,400 Speaker 1: So he goes on Thanksgiving his grandmother. The house is empty. 945 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 1: He orders turkey with the drippings. 946 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,919 Speaker 2: Full pan of mac and cheese, like a full pan 947 00:46:56,239 --> 00:47:00,400 Speaker 2: offing stuffing, full pan of physicates that when. 948 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 1: He goes and he goes no vegetables. 949 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,360 Speaker 2: It was like what was the lion. It's like no fruit, 950 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 2: no vegetables and no oh and no guests. Oh yeah, 951 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 2: no fruit, no vegetables, no guests, and he eats the 952 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,239 Speaker 2: entire thing. I also think, you know, his his his 953 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,840 Speaker 2: refusal to do drugs, I think meant that he was 954 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 2: also drinking a lot the vodka, vodka seven or whatever. 955 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 2: He's a big guy, so he can put it away 956 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:30,840 Speaker 2: and probably still be in control. 957 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: That's why I was wondering, because I was like, if 958 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,959 Speaker 1: I had a bottle. 959 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 2: Of vodka, I would be I think you might die. 960 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:43,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, I'm not. You know, I can put stuff away. 961 00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: I'll say that, Okay, all right. 962 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 2: What does he wears? 963 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 1: But he was so Bermuda shorts, high cable socks. 964 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 2: And wearing Carlografield's hand me down. Surety. 965 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 1: He got a lot of like cool hand me downs. 966 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 2: I think that his pre kaftan style was very like 967 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 2: modern dandy. I would say, yes, style that is in 968 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 2: the past few years has like come back in a 969 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 2: really big way in the post Gucci era of like 970 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 2: all long shorts, yeah, long shorts and kind of like 971 00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 2: flared pants and like men evoking the seventies and like 972 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 2: being gay in suspenders and hats and whatever. But like 973 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 2: for a long time he was extremely ahead of the 974 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 2: curve on that and was like the only. 975 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,840 Speaker 1: Shorts. Yeah, I mean I feel like he started that 976 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:29,319 Speaker 1: and he was like. 977 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 2: Here I am getting turned away from the grill, still 978 00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 2: thirty five years later. 979 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,240 Speaker 1: Wearing shorts and loafers. 980 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 2: Wearing loafers. God for so. 981 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:39,800 Speaker 1: Andrea, we still have worked to do. 982 00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 2: We really do have work less we never, we do 983 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 2: have work to do in this industry, persist. 984 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,360 Speaker 1: How does he live so his like last houses in. 985 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 2: White places waiting? You know, we had that whole drama 986 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:57,320 Speaker 2: over where Manolo Blonnock's business partner tried to take the 987 00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:58,520 Speaker 2: house back from him. 988 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:02,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then Diane Furstenberg paid off his debts. Yeah, 989 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: it's just sub of DVF. 990 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,160 Speaker 2: By the way, I know the FDVF stands for fact. 991 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,360 Speaker 1: Is she never she stands by his side through this 992 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: entire book of shady ass people. 993 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,879 Speaker 2: By the way, but it's this thing where it's it's 994 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 2: actually pretty easy to just like be like most of 995 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 2: like the deal O Rentas and the random easy to 996 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 2: stand by. 997 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 1: He's no drama. 998 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 2: He's literally no drama. He's so nice and like such 999 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 2: a just like you know, virgin who's going to write 1000 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 2: a really positive review of your show? 1001 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 1: He's always like I went back to my teledex and 1002 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: the words poured out of me. 1003 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,480 Speaker 2: Well, okay, one other thing I did want to say, though, 1004 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 2: I do feel like I'm like, Andre, do you ever 1005 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,360 Speaker 2: not like anything? Because I do feel that all his 1006 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:39,840 Speaker 2: writing is remarkably positive. 1007 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 1: Well, when he doesn't like something, he doesn't write about it. 1008 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,239 Speaker 1: It's very Southern, like if you don't have something nice 1009 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:45,720 Speaker 1: to say. 1010 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,280 Speaker 2: Anything at all. But it's just like, how is that criticism? 1011 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,280 Speaker 2: Because this is my issue with art criticism in general. 1012 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 2: It's like, if you're not going to say anything negative, 1013 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 2: then like where then it's just endless praise. 1014 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,000 Speaker 1: I do write because Kathy Horne is a critic, right. 1015 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 1: I think of him as just a fashion journalist. 1016 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 2: Right, And just like discussing the the thing is it's 1017 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,400 Speaker 2: like he needs the access to Carl and then Vogue 1018 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 2: needs the access to the advertisers, and the advertisers are 1019 00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 2: the fashion brands they're writing about, so it's like they 1020 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 2: can never really be. 1021 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: We're all sucking off David Yurman's we. 1022 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 2: Are all sucking off David Herman's ring. 1023 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,840 Speaker 1: I remember like buying Vogue as like you know, a 1024 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 1: teen and just pages of pages of Saint John's and 1025 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 1: I was like, what is Saint John's? 1026 00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:30,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, who's addicted? They suck? Okay, I mean it's all 1027 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:33,160 Speaker 2: these like handing down chests. It's very like Louis Catour's 1028 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 2: like chess. I think it's like a dresser and then 1029 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:41,240 Speaker 2: like a really overstuffed like Rocco chair a little. 1030 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: Bit or deco. I don't think it's as like seventeenth 1031 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: century French as. 1032 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 2: I think it's. But he worshiped Carl, and Carl is 1033 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 2: giving him random chases and then taking them back like 1034 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 2: three years later, which he does with everyone. 1035 00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:58,320 Speaker 1: Carlo also, sorry, that is so just roommate girl to 1036 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 1: be like, hey, can I have my Ikia dresser back 1037 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 1: that's been at your apartment for four years? Like he 1038 00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:05,320 Speaker 1: invented that. 1039 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 2: It's very that And you have also famously done that 1040 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 2: with the Nogucci coffee table that I bought and that 1041 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 2: like moved through so many apartments over the years, and 1042 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,759 Speaker 2: that you still have and by when Gucci. 1043 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:20,440 Speaker 1: Incantation, Imagucci, No, I have moved it through and taken 1044 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 1: it and put it in different floors at houses so 1045 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:29,320 Speaker 1: that I got in trouble for and yeah, the Nagucci 1046 00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: knockout continues to cause trauma and it lives on. Yes, queen, 1047 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: who are you in the book? Am I Betty Laquale? 1048 00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:49,399 Speaker 1: I'm buying three white T shirts to wear with my suits. Androgynists, Okay, 1049 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 1: you know who is fab but none of us are 1050 00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,880 Speaker 1: this person. But Anna Piaggi who buys dead pigeons to 1051 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 1: wear on her head to Bianca Jagger's wedding. 1052 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, she went for it. And she the one who 1053 00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:00,759 Speaker 2: was like. 1054 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:07,320 Speaker 1: Flames and was like oops, yeah, it's happened to me before. 1055 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was a Sliyana. I mean yeah, am I, 1056 00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 2: Ana went for calling intervention with me sending you to 1057 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,400 Speaker 2: the Duke University of Visiting program. 1058 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:25,440 Speaker 1: Are we Gianni VERSACEI and his lover binging old movies 1059 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,200 Speaker 1: with Andre and our house gowns? 1060 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,239 Speaker 2: Kind of ye? We are being so like bitch come 1061 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 2: over and much funny girl at our like como mission. 1062 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 1: This Versace I like the least like right up, because 1063 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:37,799 Speaker 1: I think they were just like being Chicas. Like there's 1064 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:39,879 Speaker 1: one paragraph where he was just like we would watch 1065 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:41,919 Speaker 1: all movies like all night long. It was so much fun. 1066 00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. I also didn't Versace obviously like is having sex 1067 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 2: and like I think Carl being a sexist freak like 1068 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,800 Speaker 2: needed Andre more and like needed and like had this 1069 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 2: more weird like parasitic relationship with each other. 1070 00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 1: On the versace fan was already having so much inter 1071 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 1: fan drama. 1072 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot going on over there. 1073 00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: And then he was like, funny, don't need this. 1074 00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,920 Speaker 2: Like fashion journalists like stocking the holes. 1075 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, we're watching a funny girl in Miami. 1076 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 2: One thing I admire about Anna that I aspire to 1077 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:16,640 Speaker 2: is that every meeting is like under seven minutes. 1078 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,320 Speaker 1: Wait, that's what I thought of you when she was 1079 00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: like if a meeting went over seven, she was like, 1080 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,120 Speaker 1: we're wasting. 1081 00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 2: Time here, and I fully agree with that. 1082 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,760 Speaker 1: The zoom calls that go on forever. You're like, hoo cares. 1083 00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,680 Speaker 2: I've spoken openly about my hatred for long meanings. This 1084 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 2: hashtag could have been an emale delting. Okay. I give 1085 00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,359 Speaker 2: this book out of five Louis Coator's chezes. I give 1086 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 2: it that Carl takes back from me. 1087 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 1: Five trays of Dillard's Mac and Cheese out of five. 1088 00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm just like, every sentence. 1089 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,520 Speaker 2: You want to fall intous and. 1090 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: History, like when they look back in twenty seven hundred million. 1091 00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,319 Speaker 1: This is a history book. 1092 00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, no again, I'm putting in the NSC glitteradianthology of 1093 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 2: CBC episodes. It is so I just it's a must, 1094 00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 2: you know. He's some of the tropes of the like 1095 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 2: psychoanalyzing yourself and like giving yourself this hero's journey. He does, 1096 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,880 Speaker 2: but there's so little self pitying here and it's it's 1097 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 2: really quite impressive. 1098 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,200 Speaker 1: It's just kind of honest. He's self aware when things 1099 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:21,800 Speaker 1: are sad and sucked up and he's like yes, and 1100 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 1: then he's like and pigeons and shimwaserie. Yeah, and also 1101 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,400 Speaker 1: like we're I don't know to compare to like the 1102 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:30,880 Speaker 1: Tina's kind of like name name name, and obviously it's fabulous, 1103 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: but this kind of tells a little bit more of 1104 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 1: a story. Yeah, kind of a mix between Nora and 1105 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 1: Tina anyway, but it's his own and it's Andre's yes, 1106 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,840 Speaker 1: and thank you Andre for sharing your story and writing 1107 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:47,120 Speaker 1: the chaffon trenches before you pass, rest Resting Pigeon best Fast. 1108 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,479 Speaker 1: This episode of Celebrity Book Club was produced and edited 1109 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: by Darby Masters. The supervising producer and editor is Abooz. 1110 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:03,240 Speaker 1: The far Christine Everett is the executive producer, Bahied Fraser 1111 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:07,839 Speaker 1: did the engineering, the artwork, Teddy Blank's the theme song 1112 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:13,279 Speaker 1: Stephen Phillips Horse. 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