1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to the Almost in his podcast. This 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 2: is a slew of them that you're gonna get when 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 2: we're here at the Golden Bachelor Wedding. We're recording this 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 2: five hours before we go live, and I'm here with 7 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 2: one of my best friends, Jade Tolbert. Yay, Hey, you're 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: still Jade Roper illegally right. 9 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 3: I'm still Jade Roper. But on my okay, on my 10 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 3: marriage certificate, I signed Jade Tolbert. Oh, but I never 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 3: changed any of my documents. 12 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: Okay, and to license, Yeah, and. 13 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 3: To me, I'm still Jade Roper. But I just go 14 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 3: buy all of them. Yeah, what do you say in 15 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 3: your phone? 16 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 2: In my phone, you're Jade Tolbert, am I Yeah, I'm 17 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 2: that weird. Why would that be? Actually, did you get 18 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: a new number? Because why I got. 19 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: To Kansas City number? You did? 20 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 2: That's why? Okay, So I saved your new number as 21 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: Jade Tolbert. And when you were Jade Rope, I. 22 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: Go buy all three Jade Roper, Jade Tolbert, Jade Roper, 23 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 3: Tolbert whatever. Anyone wants one month. 24 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: To call me, okay, well, yeah, all right, this is 25 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: I always do this. I don't know why I go 26 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: on tangents with girls who have got married. I guess 27 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 2: it's because, like I have this little guilt that I 28 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: haven't changed my name. Oh because every time I have 29 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: like a girlfriend on the podcast that is like married 30 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: and like known by Bachelor Nation by both names, I'm like, 31 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 2: what did you do? Because I just don't know, but 32 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 2: I don't want to go through the effort. I like 33 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 2: my name and I like seem too, and the Bachelor 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: may be more attached my name obviously with Dawson is 35 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: hey course. Yeah, so you know that's the only reason 36 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 2: to do it is to have the lesson last name 37 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: as your kids. 38 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: It doesn't bother me though, because people will ask me that. 39 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 3: They're like, doesn't it bother you that you have a 40 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 3: different name. 41 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 2: Than your kids. 42 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 3: Yeah no, yeah, I don't know, because they're my flesh 43 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 3: and blood. Anyway, it's the name doesn't mean anything to me. 44 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, that's true. The only thing is when 45 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: you like go to the airport and they're like, oh, 46 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: is this your kid? Are you stealing this kid? I 47 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: have had that look before. Yeah, so all right, let's 48 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: talk about bachelor stuff because we are here at the 49 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: wedding and it is I you're my first interview of 50 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: the day, so like, let's just be honest about this, 51 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: and like, I, well, first, I've never been to a 52 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: wedding where I've never met the people before, so that's weird. 53 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 2: And secondly, I've never been at a wedding that has 54 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: felt so rush. And then I think about your wedding 55 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, that was seven months. You guys 56 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: knew each other for seven months, and I guess Teresa 57 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: and Gary have known each other four to five months. Now, 58 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: why did yours to me feel so much different? I 59 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 2: guess it's because I just knew you guys, and I 60 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: watched your relationship. 61 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 3: It's probably because you were there. Yeah, you watched me 62 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 3: and Tanner like fall in love. You like knew our relationship. 63 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 3: Where we don't know Gary and Teresa, and while we have, 64 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 3: like we watched them on TV, it's still like, I 65 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 3: don't know, nobody does this. 66 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 2: It's not normal. It's just so wacky. I don't I 67 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: don't know, Like they've only been public for a month, Yeah, 68 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: so they've only been able to like hang out and 69 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: do normal people's stuff for a month and it's not 70 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: even like they've had the time to do that with 71 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 2: the holidays and just all the press that they've had 72 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 2: to do. This is so crazy to me, Like I'm sorry, 73 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 2: Like I don't think I could do it. I mean 74 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 2: I did it, I know, and you did it. That's 75 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: why you're like the perfect person to talk to. Yeah, 76 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 2: I mean I saw. 77 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 3: Them last night and it was like I hugged her 78 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 3: and I shook his hand. 79 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 2: I was like, thank you for letting me crash your wedding. 80 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but they did seem like she was glowing and 81 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 3: they seemed really happy. And I guess like at that age, 82 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 3: maybe it's just like we know what we want now 83 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 3: and we have this connection, So why not I don't know, 84 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 3: Like you think it's not the paycheck, and probably the 85 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 3: paycheck because they're definitely getting I think a bigger paycheck 86 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: than you and Tanner. 87 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 2: Got for sure. For sure. Are you willing to talk 88 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 2: about how much? Is it a non disclosure thing about 89 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: how much you made? I don't know, I mean, I 90 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: don't know. It was triple it was it was it 91 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: was six figures, right, but it wasn't high six figures 92 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 2: low six. Yeah, you guys like low combined, combined combined 93 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 2: the low oh you each got combined you had low 94 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: six figures. Yeah, okay. And the free wedding, which the wedding. 95 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 3: The wedding I can say was they told us it 96 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: was over a million dollars value with everything with like 97 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 3: because they flew our family in and they paid for 98 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: all of that, everyone's accommodations, like you think about flowers, food, alcohol, It. 99 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: Was open bar for a Bachelor Nation. Yeah. 100 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: Everyone was wasted at my wedding. They were a lot 101 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 3: of alcohol. 102 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 2: They were. 103 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 3: So I do know that value, I'll say that. 104 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: Okay. 105 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 3: So I'm imagining this will be as equal or. 106 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 2: Higher and of value the wedding. And then I do 107 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: you think they're getting a bigger paycheck just because they 108 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: are just huge names right now? Like, oh my gosh, 109 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: I mean that they got the franchise. 110 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 3: I loved the season. 111 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what were you thinking about Teresa? Do you 112 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 2: think that she was gonna possibly make top top one? 113 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 3: She was not my pick? Yeah, she was not my pick. 114 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 3: I really liked Faith me she was my pick. And 115 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 3: I really liked Ellen. 116 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 2: I loved Ellen. Ellen was for me. Yeah, do you 117 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like I knew Ellen wasn't for him. 118 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was exactly, but no, she was not 119 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 3: my pick, and I actually, like I was a little 120 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: like angry. I was like, he's gotta pick her, I 121 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: know it. But then I met her last night and 122 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 3: she seems lovely, so it's very nice. 123 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so crazy that I'm attending somebody's wedding. 124 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: I know. I wonder how did that feel for you? 125 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: Was that annoying that you had so many strangers at 126 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: your wedding? 127 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: It wasn't annoying. It was just kind of weird in 128 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 3: a sense. But then we just kind of got over it, 129 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: I think, and they did do the best that they 130 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 3: could to make it feel like our wedding, but still 131 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: we were limited. We were only allowed to invite ninety 132 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 3: people of our own, Yeah, which adds at fast, Like 133 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 3: I didn't even have like some cousins who couldn't come 134 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: and everything. And then there was like at least sixty 135 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 3: people there that were strangers. So yeah, and they were 136 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 3: like random Dalist actors there and was like, who, like 137 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 3: Kevin Marino was there? 138 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: I don't even know that. My gosh, did you ever 139 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 2: watch party? 140 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 3: Was it party down? Can Marino? Can Marino? She looks 141 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 3: kind of familiar. He's funny, and he did buy me 142 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: a wedding gift. 143 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: That's sweet. Yeah. Jason Biggs was there. Oh, that's right, 144 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: but he's a he's a Bachelor fan, so that kind 145 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: of makes sense. And his wife was doing some of 146 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 2: the reunion or like at the recap shows. Yeah, yeah, 147 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 2: that's right. Okay. How annoyed were some of the family 148 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 2: members and friends of Beyond the ninety that they couldn't 149 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: come to the weddingcause everybodys gonna want to go to 150 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 2: televis wedding. 151 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what, Like some of my family was hurt, 152 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 3: you know, because but then it was like I can't 153 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 3: I just blamed it on the shell. 154 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 2: It's like I have zero control over this, Like you 155 00:06:46,320 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 2: didn't make the cut. I'm sorry, Okay, yours wasn't live though, No, 156 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: and that is that I can't believe this one is like, 157 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 2: how how is this going to be live tonight? I 158 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 2: am so confused. Does Trista's live? I do believe they've 159 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: done him when the before in the past, like I 160 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: remember like having to tune in at a certain time 161 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: and like it like being like, oh my god, I 162 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 2: can't believe this is happening now maybe it was. Was 163 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 2: it Sean and Catherine's or Ashley and JP or something 164 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 2: like that, but one of those rings of bell as 165 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 2: being live as well. Yeah, but like this is so 166 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 2: much work for them, and I don't even know how 167 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: they're going to fill up the two hours because I 168 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 2: guess the ceremony will be forty five minutes and then 169 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: what are they get to show? So it's going to 170 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: show reception, you think. 171 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: I think they'll show like that pre cocktail hour before 172 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 3: the wedding, because that's what they did at ours. 173 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: So we were stuck. 174 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 3: I remember I was in like my bridal suite and 175 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 3: everyone else was like downstairs. They made us stay back, 176 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 3: and like all the Bachelor Nation alum were downstairs drinking, 177 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 3: and I think they were like interviewing at that point, 178 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 3: and then they were I don't I don't know, but 179 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. I have no idea how that And 180 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 3: they'll probably cut to like maybe they'll interview like couples 181 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 3: and they'll be like, here's a recap of their love story. 182 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: Do you think they have like prepackage? Maybe? 183 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: Because how would you else? 184 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I also I want 185 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: to know how it is financially like fee like not feasible, 186 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: but like worth it to them to send all of 187 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 2: us out for this, to pay for all our flights, 188 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: to pay for all the rooms. I'm like, you think 189 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 2: that our little blip on TV are the presence of 190 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 2: the wedding means this much? I mean like thank you, 191 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 2: but wow, Like do you think that it would have 192 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: been just fine with Bachelor Nation if it was just 193 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 2: the Golden Bachelor cast? Yeah? 194 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 3: But I also think that with the show just the 195 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 3: past few years, how I don't feel like viewership has 196 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 3: been as high and they're really writing on this Golden 197 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 3: Bachelor love story that. 198 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 2: They want to bring in. 199 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 3: They brought in a lot of like success couple. 200 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: I think that this is like a big show off, 201 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 2: Like it's like a show and tell of like how 202 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 2: guess what we actually do work? And you forgot about 203 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 2: them and you forgot about that. Because people have. 204 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 3: Been complaining, especially after this last Bachelor in Paradise where 205 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 3: no couples came out of it. They're just like they're 206 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 3: not casting the right people anymore and no love stories 207 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 3: happen anymore. So they're like, look what. 208 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 2: We have for you. They actually have a they have Okay, 209 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 2: we have a ton. We have a ton of Bachelor 210 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 2: and Paradise stories. And there's a couple that I don't 211 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 2: think that are here today, and that frustrates me. I'm like, 212 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 2: if we're gonna do this for everyone, is here, even 213 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: those that people that like Bachelor maybe doesn't like want 214 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 2: to have here Like okay, well, like I would love 215 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: to have them on to discuss this, but I hear that, 216 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: like Dylan and Hannah don't have the greatest relationship with 217 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 2: the show, and I don't think that they're going to 218 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 2: be here. Yeah that's right. And then okay, well obviously 219 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: Joe and serena great relationship, but they're not going to 220 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 2: be here great relationship with the show, I mean. And 221 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: then Sean and Catherine also and Jojo and Jordan. I 222 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 2: wanted to see everyone here together so we could have 223 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 2: a big parade of the successes. Yeah, yeah, it's fine. Well, 224 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: and it's also just an ironic week for them to 225 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 2: have this wedding since like one of their couples that divorce. 226 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: Isn't it crazy? We don't talking about Rachel and Brian, guys. 227 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: But isn't it crazy that a couple of years ago 228 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: we had the most amazing track record of marriages staying 229 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: together and then in like three years we've had four 230 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: divorces COVID just you know, it all happened that COVID 231 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 2: is Ashley and JP, Carly and Evan, and then Crystal 232 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: and Chris and then now Rachel and Brien. 233 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 3: Life is hard, you know, Like I don't know, marriage 234 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 3: is hard sometimes, and so I feel like there's so 235 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 3: much pressure on bachelor people to not be normal humans 236 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 3: and have these like fairy tale relationships still, so it's 237 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: like it sucks like or sex, and people are gonna 238 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 3: assume what they want to assume, and people get divorced 239 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 3: and stuff. But I feel, I don't know, there's a 240 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 3: part of me that has like a soft spot like 241 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: feel for them because they have to go through this 242 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: publicly and that's not easy already. Like I mean, I 243 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 3: remember when Carly got divorced, like how hard it was 244 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 3: for her, and it's like then you have to deal 245 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 3: with all the opinions and. 246 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 2: I mean literally watch your relationship. Yeah, And I get it. 247 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 3: So invested we put ourselves in that position, and it 248 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 3: is how we make our livings. And so it's like, 249 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 3: I get that it has a right to be public 250 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 3: in some way, but like, I mean, hergs is hard 251 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 3: and then throw in all the whatever in the public 252 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 3: eye staff. So yeah, but it's juicy right now. And 253 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 3: then we have two people here, I mean, we'll go there. 254 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 3: Let's just go there, right. 255 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 2: We have two people coming to the wedding today that 256 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 2: probably don't want to see each other, and that would 257 00:11:55,040 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: be probably probably Caitlin and Tasha, because we have Caitlin 258 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: this week seeing that she spent New Year's with Zach Clark. 259 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: Tasha's X. How do you think that this my go tonight? 260 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 2: Do you think? Oh? And I hate that. I hate 261 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 2: even bring this up because you and I I became 262 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 2: drama at your wedding with Jared and they made my 263 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 2: story part of your wedding episode. Do you think that 264 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,439 Speaker 2: they'll bring drama from Bachelor Nation into the episode tonight? 265 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 2: They have to? Oh? Really you think so? 266 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think so. I feel like they love this stuff. 267 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 2: Well, I mean we you know, we as podcasters love 268 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 2: this stuff too. As friends, we hope the best for everyone, 269 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 2: but we I was just thinking that because people have 270 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: loved The Golden Bachelor for its lack of drama, that 271 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 2: maybe they weren't going to bring that into tonight. But 272 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 2: it's so fresh. How do they not capitalize? Oh my god, 273 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 2: I'm just thinking as an evil producer right now. Obviously. 274 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 3: Yes, No, I definitely think producers will be scheming tonight. 275 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: Really, yes, okay. 276 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 3: I think because, like you said, there has to be 277 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: other parts to this special. Yeah, because the wedding's not 278 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: gonna last two hours, and no, it'll be just boring 279 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 3: watching a normal wedding. They're gonna pull people aside. There's 280 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 3: gonna be scheming. 281 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: All the producers from those Girls seasons are kind of gone, 282 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 2: so I wonder who they're gonna be able to get to, 283 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 2: like really make them open up. Oh yeah, yeah, because 284 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 2: you need somebody trustworthy if they're gonna pull the limit 285 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 2: to an interview. All right, Well, we don't even know 286 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 2: what's gonna happen. But I'm being a drama queen right now. 287 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 2: And honestly, because I love Tasha and Caitlin separately, I hope, 288 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 2: I hope nothing but the best time tonight. They don't 289 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 2: get into drama. 290 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 3: But I know that the I know Tanner will be 291 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 3: hoping it happens tonight. 292 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 2: We love to narrate if he's able to be a 293 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 2: witness of it. 294 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, he wants to get the popcorn out, you know. 295 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: All Right, Well, Jade, thanks so much for chatting with 296 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 2: me about this. We love you so much. I love 297 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 2: you next time. 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