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Speaker 1: We were having a debate earlier this morning, and I'd

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Speaker 1: like to like to get into it. Eight five five

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Speaker 1: five three five. This is serious and it's upsetting.

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Speaker 2: Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: It's upsetting to many of us in the room because

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Speaker 1: we have different a different approach, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: think people they haven't really thought this through. But eight

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Speaker 1: five five five this is the thing. I am a

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Speaker 1: famous Irish exeter. I am famous for appearing and then

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Speaker 1: disappearing at events. This is true. I show up and

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Speaker 1: I do the deal because I'm not the most believe

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Speaker 1: it or not, I'm not the most social guy, and

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Speaker 1: I'm a little awkward, and I don't I don't really

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Speaker 1: love big groups of people. I kind of feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm working at a lot of these things because it's

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Speaker 1: like I don't really know. I don't know. Hey, you know, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how you do it? Nice to see you know? How's

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Speaker 1: the weather? I don't know, it's just not my thing.

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Speaker 1: Well that would help me. Somebody could have told me

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Speaker 1: that a while ago. Hey, good morning, everybody, it's you know,

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Speaker 1: I talk like this, you know, Yeah, no, oh really

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Speaker 1: I don't have to do it like that. Hey, oh well,

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Speaker 1: that would make things so much easier. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: telling me. Never mind topics over here's Sam Smith.

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Speaker 2: You walking a party like it's the Fred Show, right Well, I.

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Speaker 1: Grab the mic every time and I start doing my

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Speaker 1: stand up routine that you tell me I'm not supposed

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Speaker 3: What's coming up now?

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Speaker 1: To show the open bar over here? And then coming

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Speaker 1: up some past or nerves and then a little bit

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Speaker 1: later on. Yeah, man, just hang around for another half

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Speaker 1: an hour. I don't know. I just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I'm socially awkward. But you guys

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Speaker 1: would be more adept in answering that question. It's not

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Speaker 1: really my thing. I don't really thrive necessarily. I can,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I'm putting it on anyway. So

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Speaker 1: I show up to very important events if I have to,

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Speaker 1: and then i'll usually about halfway through or not even

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Speaker 1: I'll go over to the person whose events it is

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Speaker 1: and say, hey, no one is a surprised by this

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Speaker 1: because you've known me for a while, and just say hey,

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Speaker 1: thanks so much for having me. Whenever I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: out of here, and then I sneak out because I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's appropriate for me to make a big

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Speaker 1: deal about being the first one to leave. If I

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Speaker 1: and saying goodbye, I mean, first of all, the party's over.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to announce it. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: announce to the whole room that the party just ended,

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Speaker 1: because well.

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Speaker 3: You're saying goodbye when people are so showing up, there's

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Speaker 3: a problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I'm seeing people on the way in, you know,

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Speaker 1: like where you're headed. I'm like, smoke a cigarette. I

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Speaker 1: don't smoke, but I'll be right back. Is he smoking

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Speaker 1: a carton? Where do you go?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: I don't even smoke, but I don't know. So, in

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Speaker 1: my opinion, it's more polite if you're gonna sneak out,

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna leave something early, prematurely early, that you

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Speaker 1: just sort of go, yes, don't. I don't love the

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Speaker 1: idea of making a big deal of my departure. As

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Speaker 1: long as the person whose event it is knows that

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Speaker 1: I am grateful that they invited me, And sometimes if

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Speaker 1: they're busy, I'll even like send a text like Hey,

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Speaker 1: I suck out, but like, thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: having me. It's not an effort to be rude it's

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Speaker 1: I feel like it could become a whole thing, plus

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Speaker 1: the exit itself. If you leave early, that means you

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Speaker 1: got to think about everybody. That could take a half

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Speaker 5: You don't have to think about it everybo this like

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Speaker 5: you say by to your inner circle, like the people

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Speaker 5: that mattered to you, and then you dip.

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Speaker 6: You don't have to make a big deal about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. The dateline and a gummy you're waiting

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Speaker 1: for me at home and I don't. I can't be late.

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Speaker 2: Don't even go.

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Speaker 1: If you go, So that is that right? So then

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Speaker 1: don't even attend the event if you're gonna leave early.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't agree with that.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying if you're gonna leave early, but I

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Speaker 5: do think it's it's really rude to leave without saying goodbye.

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Speaker 2: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yes, there was a birthday party over the weekend and

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Speaker 1: and I was not supposed to be in town, so

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Speaker 1: I didn't go. But I thought it would be I

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Speaker 1: thought that would be even more rude. Even though I

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Speaker 1: vp'd no because I wasn't supposed to be in town.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like I'm going to be here,

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Speaker 1: can I go? And the person was like, of course.

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Speaker 1: But I felt bad. I felt like that was rude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't go because you said no, and I.

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Speaker 6: Said no, right, I told you had a plus one

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Speaker 6: and you could.

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Speaker 1: Be my plush. I know, because there's plenty of room

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 2: There was a lot of rooms.

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Speaker 1: See. I thought it was rude because I didn't think

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Speaker 1: I was going to be able to go. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: I think it's I thought it was And I even

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Speaker 1: asked a couple of people and they were like, well, ask.

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Speaker 2: Any of us. You don't want to.

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Speaker 7: You know, how about it RSVP? You know how I

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Speaker 7: feel about that it's optional? Well, no, it's.

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Speaker 1: It's like when you're rs vping for jury duty or

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Speaker 7: But yeah, like texting the person and saying like, oh

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Speaker 7: my plans change cannot come, like don't bother me. What

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Speaker 7: don't you either go on the website click yes and no,

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Speaker 7: and once you make that decision, stick with it.

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Speaker 1: So I genuinely felt wishy, washy and rude in this

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Speaker 1: particular case because it was like I made I said

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going. I didn't think I would be here,

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Speaker 1: r s vp'd no. But I thought that looked rude

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Speaker 1: without context because I do care about this person. So

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Speaker 1: then I texted this person and I said, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm going to be here, which is

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Speaker 1: I r s v p'd no, but that may not.

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Speaker 1: That may change if it changes, can I come? And

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Speaker 1: I still felt it was rude.

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Speaker 3: But that's still a bad look. You texted that person

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Speaker 3: saying it's still right, it's a bad look.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Wait, but how was I supposed to win there?

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Speaker 1: Didn't just pretend I wasn't you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't. I wanted to make sure that it

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Speaker 7: You go, that's how you yeah, right, you were going

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Speaker 7: to take the extra step to bother me the week

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Speaker 7: of my party, asked me, you've already said no, then

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Speaker 7: you want to come tell me about your trip and

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Speaker 7: then say you know what, and then you see come.

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Speaker 1: Point. The point in me sending the text was I

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Speaker 1: didn't want this person to think it was just a

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Speaker 1: hard no. I don't care. I'm not going.

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Speaker 4: I you did, That's all I was really trying to accomplish.

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Speaker 1: Because everybody was saying yes, and then here's me no,

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Speaker 1: and it was like that just looks rude without context.

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Speaker 1: I see this person every day. The least I could

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Speaker 1: do is be like, hey, look this is why r

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Speaker 8: No.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I was really doing.

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Speaker 2: But then you X could you come Yes, that's where

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Speaker 2: you messed up.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, I thought it. Yes, Okay, this is not

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Speaker 1: the issue at hand. The issue at hand is U

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Speaker 1: do you if you're going to leave early, do you

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Speaker 1: make it? You go around say goodbye to everybody. I'm

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Speaker 1: leaving early, I'm out of here. Because then what happens

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Speaker 1: is it's why are you leaving? Don't go stay And

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Speaker 1: then it becomes this whole thing where like it's it

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Speaker 6: It is that hard to have people want you to

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Speaker 6: say something else.

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Speaker 1: It's very difficult. It's always you. It's always people are

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Speaker 1: always like, don't go, and I'm like, I'm out of here.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, party's over, guys. Yeah, And then I get

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Speaker 1: on the mic and I say listen, gentlemen, I'm leaving now.

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Speaker 2: There's somewhere in between these two cards morning.

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Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone, everyone, So be sure you

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Speaker 1: don't say for two hours and leave for it. You

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Speaker 1: damn right, there's no talent for you just went up.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing what I'll do for two hours when I'm

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Speaker 1: getting paid. But anyway, okay, So Kiki did this at

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Speaker 1: the party over the weekend. You did, and you told

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Speaker 1: everybody I taught you to do this.

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Speaker 7: You did teach me this, and I don't know how.

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Speaker 7: Kaylen is always the one that catches me red hand

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Speaker 7: because I love you, because I so like friend, I'm like,

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Speaker 7: this is smooth, Like I can get up out of here.

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Speaker 7: I don't have to say goodbye to anybody. We're not

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Speaker 7: taking photos before I leave, you know, cause like you

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Speaker 7: go around and then everybody's like one one more drink.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's listen.

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Speaker 7: You didn't get a picture with this person's take a

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Speaker 7: bit like I just want to leave, okay, just let

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Speaker 7: me leave. So what I do now is I wait

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Speaker 7: until everybody's distracted. Like Kaylin was dancing in the corner.

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Speaker 7: The birthday girl was taking photos with somebody Rufio was

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Speaker 7: looking for somebody to buy him a drink, and I

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Speaker 7: was like, perfect, this is a perfect time to go.

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Speaker 2: And I got a bout of it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I know I did it too, and I'm very

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Speaker 4: embarrassed because it's not like what I do. But the

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Speaker 4: only thing is the biggest mistake I feel like I

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Speaker 4: made was not telling the birthday girl bye. I also

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Speaker 4: couldn't find her for second, so I was like, maybe

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Speaker 4: don't know where she is. So I did shoot her

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Speaker 4: a text.

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Speaker 1: She was waiting.

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Speaker 6: She's like looking at the street.

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Speaker 2: Like he's coming.

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Speaker 1: I just know it a minute. Yeah for you smoking

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Speaker 1: a card and a cigarettes waiting for her.

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Speaker 6: Too bad you never came.

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Speaker 4: But you have to be careful too, because there's some

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Speaker 4: people who are so loud who will point out that

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Speaker 4: you're leaving, like Rufio would.

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Speaker 2: So you have to make sure she's expected, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Believe it. She said.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say Kaylen, Yeah, I say bye to you.

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Speaker 2: Kaylen is good.

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Speaker 4: Like if she sees you, she'll keep it, you know,

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Speaker 4: she'll keep the lips tight. She'll be like but she'll

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Speaker 4: take she'll see you. You know what I'm saying this,

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Speaker 4: I introduced everyone when they get into the door.

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Speaker 1: This is why people sneak.

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Speaker 2: Out, and they came out.

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Speaker 7: She's gonna make sure, like when she's gonna make sure

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Speaker 7: you're good to leave, and then she's gonna say you know,

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Speaker 1: Bianca? Good morning? Welcome. So we got your email, Friendshow

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it sounds really inviting now, But what's going on?

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Speaker 8: Okay, So my boyfriend and I went on this trip

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Speaker 8: Of course, I looked over and saw that my friend

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, she's always been a little wild, so

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Speaker 9: So, I mean I did talk to her about it.

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Speaker 9: Well, she's first of all, she came on kind of

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Speaker 1: But have we seen miss Nikki baby with the top

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Speaker 7: However, it's just the fact that you didn't consider like

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Speaker 9: A new thing for our friend group to like do

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Speaker 2: That on purpose.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me take some phone calls on this, Bianca,

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Speaker 1: thank you eight five five three five. Yes, a lot

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Speaker 1: I'm so kirk Quirky, says Nikky. Probably leave that friend alone.

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Speaker 1: Your gut isn't wrong. It sounds to me a whole

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Speaker 1: lot more like a one two three look at me

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Speaker 5: just girls and she was topless, it's different.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just being you know, we're being silly girls

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Speaker 4: with our boobies out, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Calen knows my anxiety about this, But I don't know

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Speaker 1: what's any different really that taking your top off than

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Speaker 1: some of the swimsuits that people wear by the pool anyway.

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Speaker 1: This Yeah, I'm just saying I'm not suggesting you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: or whatever, but like some of these swimsuits. Man, you

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Speaker 1: you don't walk right, something's flopping out, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Bottom man, the girl's trip, I've been known to get

448
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Speaker 5: naked and run around and jump in the pool Like

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Speaker 5: that's just like who I am?

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Speaker 1: I don't you wouldn't do that in front of man?

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Speaker 7: Never are you conscious even about some of the swimsuits

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Speaker 7: you may pick if you know you're going on a

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Speaker 7: couple trip where you're going with couples, Like would you

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Speaker 7: put on your thong bikini and like prance around in

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Speaker 7: front of everybody's husband?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't. I think that's like a fine line.

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Speaker 5: Like I still want to wear what I want to wear,

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Speaker 5: but I am extremely a respect like no, those are

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Speaker 5: my brothers, Like yeah, but the topless.

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Speaker 1: Thing, I get all that and I see the disrespect

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Speaker 1: and I can. But then again, you invited the wild

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Speaker 1: single girl on your trip, Like what did you think

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Speaker 1: was gonna happen?

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Speaker 7: But you're my friend, you should have some some koth

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Speaker 7: about yourself, some decency about yourself. Why are your manners

466
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Speaker 7: like right, your time and place for everything right.

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Speaker 5: I just wouldn't want my friend's husband to know what

468
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Speaker 5: my yabos look like that it's more of a meat

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Speaker 5: like I don't want you guys to look at me

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 1: Like, I just think it's more about it's more about

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Speaker 1: what it does to the vibe. I think that it

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Speaker 1: should be about what it does for temptation or something,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: know that that anybody should have any problem with. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you're on a vacation with your boyfriend or husband

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Speaker 1: and he's gonna leave with miss Nikki baby, then it's

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Speaker 1: you've got a bigger problem. I just think, if anything,

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Speaker 1: I would sit back and be like, why is all

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Speaker 1: that necessary? And I might kind of laugh, but I'm

481
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Speaker 1: not gonna like shun a person for it. I might

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Speaker 1: just think it's kind of funny.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I guess I wouldn't wear like a

484
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Speaker 5: I don't really wear song bath bathing suits anyways, but

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Speaker 5: I probably wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: And see, yeah, OK, somebody else wo said that the

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Speaker 4: hot single guy? What if he went bottomless in front

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Speaker 4: of everybody? Like, would we like that? Probably not?

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Speaker 6: Hurt, you know, privates out.

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Speaker 1: But I do think we accept breasts and coochie and

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Speaker 1: dongs a little differently like I think it's I think

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Speaker 1: it's relatively acceptable to show the boobs. I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't think that we're all walking around just swinging, you know,

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Speaker 1: Hold on, Hold on, hold on show? Is it feels good,

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Speaker 1: good news, happy stories every day on this show, try

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Speaker 1: and give you some faith in the world. What she got, Kaylin.

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Speaker 5: So I'm talking about our boys. Papa Roach actually rock

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Speaker 5: on girl. So, they announced that they have made a

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Speaker 5: one hundred and fifty thousand dollars donation to the American

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Speaker 5: Foundation for Suicide Prevention Talk Away the Dark campaign, which

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Speaker 5: was presented at the final stop of their tour in Denver,

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Speaker 5: and the band was so moved by the emotive response

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Speaker 5: each night of the tour and the work that has

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Speaker 5: been done by the AFSP that they have officially renamed

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Speaker 5: a song leave a Light On in parentheses talk Away

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Speaker 5: the Dark, and pledged to perpetually give royalties from the

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Speaker 5: songs used to donate directly to the organization to continue

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Speaker 5: their mission to save lives and bring hope to those

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Speaker 5: affected by suicide.

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Speaker 6: Long after their tour.

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Speaker 5: The renamed single will officially be released on October thirty first,

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Speaker 5: so Halloween. And obviously if you purchase that or listen

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Speaker 5: to it, you know that the royalties are going to

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Speaker 5: a good cause.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, I want to shout out a cat

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Speaker 1: named Rico. Rico is a cat who lives in a

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Speaker 1: veterinary clinic in Morocco. Very friendly, empathetic, and has become

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Speaker 1: an unexpected source of comfort and support for injured kittens

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Speaker 1: at the veterinary office. So while resident cats in veterinary

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Speaker 1: clinics are not uncommon, Rico's dedication goes above and beyond.

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Speaker 1: He can often be found curled up next to young patients,

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Speaker 1: purring softly and offering them a sense of security during

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Speaker 1: what can be a stressful time at the vet. The

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Speaker 1: clinic staff has noticed that injured kittens seem to curl

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Speaker 1: up to him and relax more quickly when Rico is nearby.

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Speaker 1: So he's like a little surrogate, little dead cat for everybody. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's like a dead dead cat. You know. I think

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Speaker 1: it's very sweet. I'm allergic to you, Rico, but seemed

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Speaker 1: like a good man. Fred's show is on, Hey, good Morning.

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Speaker 5: Drake had two actors from one of the biggest shows

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Speaker 1: radio blogs on Fred Show. It's like we're running in

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Speaker 11: Over the weekend took Ashland and his cousins. We went

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Speaker 11: to Brookfield Zoo for Boo at the Zoo. My goodness

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Speaker 11: was this zoo was packed, man, Like.

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Speaker 3: We were all in packed.

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Speaker 11: We were parked allow in the back of the parking lot.

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Speaker 11: But I've never seen the zoo so busy. But it

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Speaker 11: was awesome. So it's like it's only on the weekends

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Speaker 11: and the kids get the dress up for Halloween and

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Speaker 11: there's candy around the zoo that get candy.

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Speaker 3: You see all the animals we saw. I remember we

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Speaker 3: talked about the Fred. They were feeding the pumpkins.

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, so we got to see them

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Speaker 11: feed the gorillas okay and then us. Yeah, and they

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Speaker 11: were all napping when we got there, so like I

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Speaker 11: was like, they must have been eating the pumpkin because

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Speaker 11: they were tired.

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Speaker 9: But uh.

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Speaker 11: And then I posted a video on my Instagram and

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Speaker 11: the zoo commented back, be like hope you had fun

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Speaker 11: hanging with they'll go really yeah, not to Refield too,

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Speaker 11: but I wanted just to mention. So all these kids

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Speaker 11: are dressed up in costumes. Right, my niece Lily, and

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Speaker 11: she's like six years old, she's obsessed with what is

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Speaker 11: the Meghan not like the creepy scary.

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Speaker 3: I was like, you see this movie like it's a

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Speaker 3: scary moment.

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Speaker 11: She's like, no, I see the dances on TikTok because whatever,

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Speaker 11: you know, like they dressed up as Meghan and dance

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Speaker 11: on TikTok.

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Speaker 3: She could do the dance and everything. So my one

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Speaker 3: niece was was Meghan.

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Speaker 11: My other niece, Ivy, was dressed as Wednesday from the

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Speaker 11: Netflix Wednesday Adams.

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Speaker 6: Did Ivy stay put because she's a round.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she runs all over the place.

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Speaker 11: And then the youngest one, my god son, Owen, was

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Speaker 11: dressed as Blippy, which is a kid's character that everyone knows.

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Speaker 11: But like my niece was getting recognized left and right

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Speaker 11: because like she was like only one dresses Meghan. At

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Speaker 11: the zoos, she's like, Hi Meghan, Hi Megan. So she's waving,

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Speaker 11: Hi Megan, Hi Meghan, and she's like she's all happy,

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Speaker 11: like she's like waving and then she's.

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Speaker 3: Like hey uncle.

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Speaker 8: Kay.

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Speaker 3: She's like, it's like everyone's recognizing me, not you. I

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Speaker 3: was like, damn, put me in my place. I wasn't

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Speaker 3: trying to get recognized.

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Speaker 1: He's like, because like she's like mine, Megan, like everyone's

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Speaker 1: saying hi to me, They're not saying hi to you

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Speaker 1: this time. I was like whatever, I like you.

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Speaker 5: Also, they call everyone in your family uncle, like even

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Speaker 5: if it's an aunt, so like Jess's uncle.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, And that started with my old my oldest niece

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Speaker 11: literally and they're all.

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Speaker 3: We're all uncles, so uncle Jess, that's uncle.

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Speaker 8: Okay.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, even all the ants are uncles. So it's just

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Speaker 11: everyone does it the same thing.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, oh my god, she big timed you, I know,

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Speaker 6: as she should.

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Speaker 9: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm waiting for that stage with my niece with Polly

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Speaker 1: where I start getting big time done everything like it's

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Speaker 1: it's yeah, I know she's turning. I think the three

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Speaker 1: najor thing is happening. And we don't talk that as

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Speaker 1: much as I would like to because I think she's Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it used to be called Bubba, and now when Amanda's like,

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Speaker 1: can we call Bubba, She's like no, because she's got

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Speaker 1: something else going on. She got a dance to something,

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Speaker 1: she got a color something, she got something going on,

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Speaker 1: and unfortunately I just don't fit in. So yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: waiting to get a big time by her. No, it's okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I think I think we're all learning that we

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Speaker 1: I think we thought the twos were gonna be bad,

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Speaker 1: threes are gonna be wow. But then you flex on her.

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Speaker 11: When the other baby comes, you show all the attention

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Speaker 11: to that new baby and be like, remember when this

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Speaker 11: used to be you, poly.

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Speaker 1: That's going to be your parenting check. And I don't

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Speaker 1: think told the baby and be like, I love you,

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Speaker 1: used to love you like that, But this one doesn't talk.

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