WEBVTT - Ep 220: F Dem Kids (Ft. Eboni K. Williams) 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.000 Hi, horror Hive, It's Wheezy. This is for our Atlanta Hive. 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:06.640 I am going to be there next Monday, June seventh, 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:09.959 doing a watch party at the Plaza Theater for Sex Cells. 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:12.520 You can watch my brand new TV show with me. 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:15.400 I am so excited. I've never even seen the episode. 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:18.040 We're gonna watch together and stay for some live Q 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:20.600 and A after the watch party a p m. June seven. 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.880 Click the link in the description of this episode for tickets, 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:26.560 and or just click on my I G Wheezy t WTF. 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:28.520 The link will be in the bio. I love you 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.160 and I can't wait to see you there. Enjoy this 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:35.600 fun as episode with Ebony the Queen Williams. Guess what 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:43.000 decision we're about to make? Horrible Decisions. Hi guys, welcome 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.200 to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I am your host, 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:53.760 Mandy Be sitting next to Wheezy w TF. Okay, okay, okay, 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.280 love it, y'all. We got a guest today and I'm 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:59.520 super excited that she finally came and joined us. Yes, 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:03.040 with the hold, but in this outfit she's holding couch 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:10.640 and saving it. We would love to give a warm 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:15.520 welcome y'all to our guest today, miss Ebony. Kay, will 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:19.240 you what's up? No, we ain't got to sound effects, 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:23.320 but yeah, I'm so excited for you to finally join us. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:29.360 Up too long Nowbody tell you to be in Miami fail. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.240 I don't want to, you know, as far as you're branding. 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:34.640 When we got the email from Dolly that was like 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.400 every wants to come on the show, I was like, 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:40.240 is there another Ebany? Really? No, but I've been stalking 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.600 maybe in her d. I was like, but you know 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:46.080 what it's I guess that's what you think people are 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:49.320 on Instagram right right? For example, I'm always getting books 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:52.320 and those covers. Wheezy about those books and those covers. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:54.120 I was just like, damn, we'll be gonna say, hey 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.320 was she Oh, I'm not gonna y'all send me that 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.800 dryass rundown bitch. I did listen. I did. I did 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.080 because I was like, you know, like certain people, we 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.360 still want them to feel comfortable, even though we will 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:08.440 make you feel uncomfortable. I was like, Okay, well, here's 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:09.960 the way we're gonna go about this so that I 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:12.720 don't have to ask Ebony if she eats aster like 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:14.320 toes which one do you do? You know, I just 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:17.240 wanted to But also, if you had to pick, would 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:21.480 you rather eat ass or sucktos? Suck toes? Definitely? Really 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.359 you ain't you ain't look Yeah, yeah I don't. That 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:30.040 doesn't even feel hard to me. Oh yeah, I don't know. 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:33.120 Do you have a like men feeling? I actually haven't. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.960 Haven trying to think. I would prefer that they're both, 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:37.680 that they both would be washed. I was gonna say, 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:42.280 I don't presume either the anus the toes are washed. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.680 You know, you said man toes man toes is different 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.639 than I will say. You do give hetero, but you 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:49.560 give me. I made out with a girl in college, 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:51.960 for sure. But also a lot of people told me, 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:56.040 um that I was giving them power lesbian. Oh you 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:58.040 guys don't get any power lesbian me. I mean, I'm 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.680 not shout out to the whole LGBT a cute community, 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:04.200 love y'all. But a lot of people get super powerless bean. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.639 I mean, I'm a strong women. They don't. It's it's 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:11.640 it's even like it's it's just ameanor like us. Hold on, 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:16.280 I look like you actually like a relaxed lesbian. I'm 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:22.040 just I'm not like a pillow, a pillow princess crazy. 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.040 I actually don't really care for heads. So I'm I'm 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.960 I'm the one who eats everyone in the bed, whether 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:31.720 it's you're a worker baby, Yes, that is actually me. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:35.160 I'm never a pillow princess. I do want to say, Um, 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:37.440 I am, how did you go here? Already about the way, 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.280 already welcome to horrible decision, Welcome to horrible decisions. I 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.040 do want to say, however, I am a little envious 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.160 of you, um and y'all. Before the camera's cut on, 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:48.320 I was like, I'm so jealous, eany you just look 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:51.400 like a wife, and I feel weasy to pot like hose, 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.760 even though weey swear she don't really look like oh 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:55.960 she thinks she little white be material. But then you 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.200 come in and we're like, no, we look like the 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:02.160 hose and you look like no. No, have either of 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:06.280 y'all been married? No? No? No, okay, so no no, 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:08.120 So I'm gonna share you. I think I'm older a 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.160 little bit than both of you, So let Auntie give 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:17.839 y'all some first gyms. I have been brish, I have 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:20.320 a ring, pop, I did ze ways show shout out 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.000 to ze Way her new Showtime show with Nap. She 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:26.680 gave us ring pops in her swag bag. I love that, 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:31.040 So I have a ring pop for you, says Okay, 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:34.679 she proposed to me. She proposed with a ring pop 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:38.560 ring y'all know, but that Kelly Price you want to 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:42.920 say at age? No, No, I'm Auntie age. We are, 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:44.800 y'all are definitely if y'all don't know about that Kelly 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:46.719 Price he proposed to me. Maybe you weren't in the 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:52.680 rate Cayden keeping. Oh maybe I can't sing. Okay, you 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:56.039 have to do me like that many So anyway, back 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:59.440 to what wives and what hos look like. By the way, 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.760 just relaxed. You ain't guy talking to the mic. You 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:05.200 don't have to do you have a good boy and look, 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:13.839 yeah it was right quality. Come join us like we got. Okay, 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:17.600 you know it's a little different setup. So I was 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:20.760 briefly married in my late twenties. Uh, don't worry about it. 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:22.479 In and out within a year. I call it my 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:26.800 starter marriage. This is what I was sure any successful 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:30.159 marriage requires, I believe from my experience, a lot of sex. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:33.719 So if you were projecting an aesthetic, ladies, please pay 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.680 attention that says that you are skimmish about sex, prudish 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:41.680 about sex. You actually are not looking to be a wife. 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:45.440 You're looking to be a oh mate, So just get 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.760 that out of your mind. I think there's a misconception 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:50.240 at air. I think it's also generational. I think it's 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.200 like when you're young, you think that like, oh, let 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.440 me look buttoned up and polished and all that ship 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:57.640 to look wifely. No men want their wives to funk them. 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.680 That is like a part wifely duties. Right, it's a 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:03.719 part of it. Don't ever, ever, ever stop having sex 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.320 in your man Okay, So let me ask you then 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:08.000 why you think. And of course I already had the 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:10.599 conversation where I believe Steve Harvey ruined dating for a 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:13.760 lot of our generation in saying that in order to 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.760 be seen as wife the material or girlfriend material even 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.320 you should hold out and not have sex. But you're 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:22.599 saying the complete opposite, and as a woman, so I 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:24.800 want to know. I think it's six in one hand, 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.840 half a dozen the other. I think what I got 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:28.920 from Steve Harvey, and I don't think anybody in here 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:31.679 like takes advice from Steve hard Let's be clear, um, 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:38.479 do you think they don't? I said in here, Yeah, here, 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.960 I think we really believe in that. It's not I 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:44.640 don't believe in sex without monogamy. But once I decide 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:46.080 I want to be a monogamous with you, So it's 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:49.679 a double standard. Oh so this is this story. Okay, 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:53.520 So this was with my expience. We you're my man now, 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.279 I said, no, listen, this is a true story. I've 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:57.960 told this story I think one other time in public. 0:06:57.960 --> 0:06:59.360 But here I don't think youbody heard it. So here 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.480 we go, aeron to go here. Everybody's gonna here right now. 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:05.240 So we had been dating maybe two months. We had 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:08.720 probably gone on six or seven actual dates like dinners, 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.120 knicks games. It was cool, it was a vibe. He 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:16.040 had money. Okay, So I wasn't sure if there was 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:18.120 a lot of physical attraction until date three or four, 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.080 and then we started kissing. I'm like, okay, maybe sometimes. 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:23.160 So fast forward to date number seven. I then decided 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:24.920 that I needed to figure out what the sex was 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.960 gonna be like, because I don't want to fall in 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.640 love with somebody i'm not sexually compatible with, like that 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:34.480 is a horrific one. So I was like, okay, age, 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:39.720 not with a hard age. Horrif so we do the deed, 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:45.120 it was great. Do the deed all right, ebony, legal deed. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:49.840 Like the legal deed. We executed a deed. No look 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.600 at me trying to do little. We did the thing. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.280 We had our little sex capaid um, and it was 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:58.000 it was absolutely good, only to get better. Because that's 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.160 my experience, I think if the sex starts good, it's 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:02.600 going to only go to great. I've never had a 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:06.760 sexual experience where we regressed like we always think. Okay, No, 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.960 I have where I started having to tell him the 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.440 sex ain't even good. Clearly, I like you, because your 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.480 sex is not given what it was given, what it was, 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.320 what it was given. Sometimes people get lazy. Women do too. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:19.960 I have women do to thing about it, how many 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.320 guy friends we've had, or someone who's should do this 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.040 for me any I mean, I'm not gonna do one 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:26.520 thing I don't do. I'm people on makeup like I 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:28.880 used to. Yeah, but I'm not gonna go from licking 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.000 the balls to then saying I'm not gonna lick the 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:33.480 balls anymore. I think that's false advertising. I don't believe 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:36.679 in that. Whatever I start in fact, I start at 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:42.120 a lower quadrant about a game. And then because it's women, 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:44.880 we expect a game for men. But you're saying your 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:49.920 first game. I'm not really, I'm not, no, no game. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:52.880 Work your way up to that, because so you're saying 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.280 you don't even suck the first not the first time 0:08:55.320 --> 0:09:00.240 we sleep together. Now you don't know, go to three 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:02.760 thousand off the rill, but she's gonna suck. Told them, 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.079 do you expect to get out on the first time? 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:09.200 Not necessarily. I feel like most guys do that though, 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.120 to like get you to have sex, because we expect 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:15.360 them to have a game. Back to the story. They's 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:19.600 a good intermediate questions. Okay, okay, story, so we have sex, 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:23.240 we fuck you good man? Yeah, okay, now getting out 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.880 of it, and then um, I'm like, so, by the way, 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:27.400 if you ever want to do that again, which I 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:30.000 also enjoyed. Um, he was still like finishing, so he 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:33.559 was just like really like on one, I was like, um, 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.040 we go together period point blank. In the story, we 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:40.360 go together. We're in exclusive monoguous relationship. Otherwise continue to 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.640 see other people and I can too, but then that 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:44.920 part of our relationship is not going to be on 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.440 the table. And that's how we ended up in a relationship. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:55.600 That's how you begin rings. Bitch, damn, I need wait wait, 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.000 wait so real quick. I do want to, but it's 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.880 like they want a monogoruous relationship. Everybody's not looking for that. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:07.840 I want, I want now, and like we just want 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:10.959 want to comment. I just also want a wife be 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:13.199 on the side and a little other whole on the side, 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:16.800 but commitment, but also like I want commitment, but all 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.960 my babies. But like maybe if I want to suck 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.480 somebody else one day, I could. Okay, Well, people have 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:27.040 whole marriages like that, your marriages I want, we want 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:33.800 whole marriages, whole, but whole marriages as well. Hilarious. Uh yeah, 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:35.600 you negotiate the terms of your marriage. I mean I 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:36.959 feel like we hear about that a lot now in 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:40.120 Hollywood especially. This is going on in bedrooms across America. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.600 So I'll just say shout out Smith and Ja Yeah, 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:44.719 I mean exactly that, Smith, And do you ever work 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:48.720 on prenups I have, which we're not there yet, I 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:50.559 guess will do it now. Yeah, I want to ask 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:54.200 the question, like family, yes, people, have people ever had 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:57.080 in a prenup something that had to do with sex. Absolutely, 0:10:57.640 --> 0:11:01.280 you can put terms in about maintaining the type of 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:03.280 sex is what I've most frequently seen, like kind of 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:06.520 to y'all's point, making sure that oral sex is a consistent, 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:11.679 regular part and if it is not not there can 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:16.920 be a financial consequence. Absolutely out here, absolutely because that 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.960 could it could be considered a breach of your agreement. So, 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.280 and here's the thing. I'm glad that we actually brought 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.040 it up, because I did want to say that this 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:27.920 has been a conversation to where across my friends with 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:31.000 my relationship. Now, if marriage is ever on the table, 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.959 my partner has to sign a prenup at this point 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.440 with seeing like weezy and I don't have a cap 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.720 at all with with what with what we can see 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:42.520 horrible plus three Yeah, no, y'all going straight to the top. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.120 Already almost there. And so I want to ask you, 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.880 how often do you see women doing the prenup to 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:52.040 protect themselves? Because normally we hear about the men wanting 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:54.640 to protect their assets and feel as though women are 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.199 the gold diggers. How often do women actually give the 0:11:57.240 --> 0:12:00.320 pre Generationally shifting fast, y'all, Most every prenup I have 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.560 done have been for women and women of color, mostly 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:04.320 black women. I'll just say, you're playing because we don't 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.600 work around. Because we're not working around. We worked really hard. 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:07.880 One thing we're gonna do is we're gonna go to 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:09.560 fucking school. We're gonna go to school, and we're gonna 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:12.679 vote Black women gonna do that ship um, and we 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:16.440 own homes at a higher level. We we just are 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:19.880 acquiring wealth at a different level than our brothers, and 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:21.920 we need I want to close that wealth gap, you know, 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:24.240 for our black brothers as well. But yeah, I just 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.480 believe everybody should get a prenup. I really do. And 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.760 by the way, guys, I know we did an awful job. 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:33.040 We kind of gave Ebony the arrogant wheezy intro by 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:37.480 just saying Ebony whatever. It was a joke on another episode. 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.720 We just know she is that bitch now. So she's 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.920 she said google me, I was playing. I ain't got 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:47.280 a Wikipedia. Well, what I love about this conversation For 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.240 those of you who are not familiar with Ebony Kay Williams, 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.200 I just want to run down real quick. She is 0:12:52.240 --> 0:12:55.120 our sister on the Black Effect Network and her co 0:12:55.280 --> 0:13:01.240 host is there so fine, So justin is her co 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:04.840 host with on the podcast Holding Court. You guys may 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:08.520 have also seen her on Revolts State of the Culture. Um, 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:11.640 I forgot about that. She came in, she gave me good. 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:13.120 I don't know when he's coming back, but I don't 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:16.320 know anyway. That actually like nothing. I didn't know about 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:17.840 it of Court. If I had a name was on it, 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:21.320 I would have say, that's kind of ore a little 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:24.560 bit connection because Ebony is the only person that I 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:27.600 know in this industry to work as well with Joe 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:30.880 and Charlemagne almost coincidely, and so that's kind of where 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.959 I was like, oh my god, girl, you're like, you're 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:38.120 the only person to ever be huge energy, a lot 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.520 going one. Wait wait, we just want to say, Charlottagne, 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.880 it is our partner. And I never hear him complain 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.520 talk about Joe. I really feel like he doesn't give 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:50.959 a It's not that it's more it's just more of it. No, 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:52.800 it's not obs because I'm the really idiots people. I 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.880 feel like it was the ops, like who I work with, 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:58.360 Charlottmayne is up there doing his ship. I don't even 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.000 want to act like that's well, no, I think it's 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:03.000 I think it can the people around us. No, that's 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.040 not what we're doing. It's people that say that people 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:06.480 working with both of them, We don't even need to 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.320 mention working with both of them, like, well, well me 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:11.520 and Ebony do um. And then people ask people all 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.800 the time they should um. And then I do want 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.719 to say as well for those of you who are 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:19.920 stands like myself. Uh, miss Ebony Kay Williams is the 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:24.080 first black castmatee on the Real Housewives of That's of 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:27.720 New York. Yeah, you know, I just started watching it 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:31.200 during quarantine and you know, I love to do you know, 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:40.200 the voices me and Marry all. But so when I 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:42.760 first started watching um so, I was living in Mexico 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:45.520 last year and the only things that I could watch 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.680 for very old episodes of Real house that they were 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:51.280 in English. So I live in Elias and when I 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:56.880 saw I was like Jill Zaron saw very fabric. Yeah, 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:58.640 I'll be walking by like damn, I'm gonna just buy 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:02.040 some Pellows and Drakes, just you like. It was so exciting, 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:06.160 But you know, I fell out of Housewives, and I mean, 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:07.640 you know, when you stop watching the show, you kind 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:09.880 of don't realize that you'll fall back in. Come on, 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:14.120 I need draw, not because baby I stand. I did 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:19.320 the Patriots like super huge. You fall in and out 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.520 of show. Even people with the podcast sometimes they'll still stop. 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:23.640 They jump back, like it happens when you have something 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:26.720 so long running. And just the excitement I think and 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:29.000 love that people have shown you Ebany has made me 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:34.360 so excited, especially Leah, like we're all so happy to 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:38.280 like see this happen. And especially because in Atlanta we 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:43.040 watched Black Girls for years and and Potomic and it's 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:47.760 married to medicine, amazing black women in New York and 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:53.600 we just got it. So keep watching anyway, anyway, shout 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:55.920 out to that. But I did real quick before we 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.520 get intar a little show. I did just want to 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:01.120 do a quick icebreaker. Uh. And even though we kind 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.360 of broke the ice real quick already, they're really quick. 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:05.880 Would you rather um and weezy? I would love your 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.240 answers on these as well? Real quick? Uh, this is 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:12.120 relationship edition, guys. Would you rather tell the truth and 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.880 hurt your partner or lie and not hurt your partner? Oh? 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.240 Tell the truth. I hurt my partner. I'm notorious for 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:21.040 hard truth in general. Friends, mama, partner don't matter. She said, 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:24.160 you're telling people you going to jail. No, but and 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:26.400 how much time can you do? And you should consider 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:31.440 that before you Yeah, I didn't let you, huh, because 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.840 unfortunately a lot of my clients are repeat offender. Sorry weezy, 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.680 I don't know what y'all know about that life, but yeah, 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:39.960 I know I didn't. He got locked right back up 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:42.240 and because he got later parole exactly, it's like I 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:45.280 didn't even get you before. You're sucking up again. Go ahead, 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.080 by the way, what is your title? Because that is 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:51.880 what we're gonna get into as well. You are a yes, 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.160 So I am M. K. Williams Esquire, which means I 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.760 have a licensed attorney in the state of North Carolina, 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:59.800 still licensed to practice. And I'm an attorney, but I'm no, 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.040 I haven't practiced. And about nine ten, she just know 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:04.639 a law of y'all, just like we know how to 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.840 dick all right, put it next way? And no one said, 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:12.880 I don't know how to do that either, But you're 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.200 just getting it off the first date right right right 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:17.680 next one. Would you rather your parents not like your 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.639 partner or your friends not like your partner? For my 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:23.480 case my parents only because God knows, I love Glory, 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:25.560 but she's in New Orleans and she's not somebody that 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:29.439 has the interface with us. Okay, routine basis, what about you? 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:31.600 Because I know you love your mama, and your mama 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.960 will tell I don't like this man. I was gonna say, 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:36.440 I hate when my friends don't like somebody, but my 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:39.600 mom would be hard. Your mom is very very rude 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:42.760 and petty when she doesn't like someone. Um, and I've 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:45.800 experienced it, like when I was dating Jeeves. I dated 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.640 this white guy and he was very artsy williamsburgy guy, 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:51.639 and my mom would addict the size of a forearm. 0:17:51.720 --> 0:18:00.760 And my mom we're at dinner. Nice. He takes us 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:04.840 out to this place and my mom has been just 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:06.520 weight on hand and foot by men i've been with. Right, 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:08.679 She's used to me being a man, and even not 0:18:08.720 --> 0:18:10.080 a fluent men, Like, this is what I do for 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:13.720 my mother. Right, we're doing Michelin Stars, we're doing of course. Right. 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:17.480 We go to this restaurant and so you live in 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:18.880 New York, you're staying in New York. He goes, yeah. 0:18:18.920 --> 0:18:20.040 She was like, okay, and how long do you think 0:18:20.040 --> 0:18:24.120 that's going to go on because she did. She said, 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.520 you know, she said, because he was he was artsy, 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:29.639 which means my mother broke. I don't take creatives like 0:18:29.680 --> 0:18:34.560 that either. Now for me, I'm into that, so I'm 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:38.679 times supposed to say that. I mean, it's cool they 0:18:38.720 --> 0:18:42.600 see out at this point. I mean, my car husband 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:45.919 wasn't creative. I used to only I'm not my starter husband. 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.159 But she was basically like, you know, So we went 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:50.840 to the next club. I wanted to take them to 0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:53.160 towel and my mom said, and is this the place 0:18:53.200 --> 0:18:55.399 she would want to go, because you know, I just 0:18:55.440 --> 0:18:59.679 I get your I see what your ribe is. You 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:02.280 had meet My mom would be real housewive, the first 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:05.520 black girl she could black women to get into Studio 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.359 fifty four. And she'll let you know, I kind of 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:10.560 want to hang out with she's she's she's a trip. 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:12.520 I took her to the public hotel. Let me tell 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:13.960 you how boogie my mom? Is this where I get 0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:16.159 it from? Ian Schragar designed that right, And so somebody 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:18.440 was trying to tell her who he was, his white waitress. 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:22.480 My mom said, honey, I've done this before. I partied 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:24.240 with him. I know who he is. I've opened. I 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:26.880 understand this. I don't need you to tell me where 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:29.399 I am. Thank you, kind of like somebody tried to 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:32.840 tell me about sag Harbor. Oh yeah, y'all gotta watched 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.720 the episode. You gotta watch. Go ahead, Okay, go ahead, 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:39.760 EXE either or last one? Would you rather make love 0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:42.680 three times a day for a month or not make 0:19:42.760 --> 0:19:44.840 love for a month? Oh? No, three times a day 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:47.440 is fine in the beginning, that's great. Three times a 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:50.800 day day for a month. I can hang, I believe, 0:19:51.160 --> 0:19:53.920 I know. I can't. I can not do it at all. No, 0:19:54.080 --> 0:19:58.000 I don't ten times in one morning and still was 0:19:58.040 --> 0:20:01.040 like coming over, that's ninety times, and I'm that's a lot. 0:20:01.080 --> 0:20:05.280 But the alternative is nothing. Let me. I just want 0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:06.959 to make sure. That's a great question to no one 0:20:07.000 --> 0:20:13.159 says it has to be took. Yeah, look, so can we? 0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:16.080 It could be three pumps it out. I mean that's 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:18.399 I don't say that is not if it's full on sex. 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:21.960 Did actually saying real quick sex? Actually doesn't say sex. 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:24.840 It says make love. When it's making love. That's a 0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:27.480 lot of intimacy. No, it's not just three strokes. That's 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:32.119 barely breakfast. Lunching dinner. Note. No, actually, you know how 0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:34.280 I would make this. I feel like I could. I'm 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:36.560 up for a challenge. I would. It goes three times 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:39.600 every time regardless. So what that's different because you have 0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:43.000 around within like a session three separate times. In my 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:47.200 head is like in the morning you say that you 0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:49.600 you can. It could be it could be backed back. 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:52.600 Where did the rule come from? Okay, came from Google. 0:20:53.320 --> 0:20:55.480 Next is our vanilla ship. For those of you who 0:20:55.480 --> 0:20:57.560 are tuning, who are tuning in for the first time, 0:20:57.840 --> 0:20:59.840