Speaker 1: A rough week for your gal over here, ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 1: The headline of this podcast is hold on to your
Speaker 1: possessions because I was robbed. Calm Down with Erin and
Speaker 1: Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. Welcome everybody to the
Speaker 1: Calm Down Podcast where we actually do our interviews, our content.
Speaker 1: Big discussion out there in the old Spotify world that
Speaker 1: somebody wasn't doing her interviews and then she voiced it
Speaker 1: over and now they're out of their twenty million dollar contract.
Speaker 1: Seems like a lot of stuff starting to pour out
Speaker 1: about the not Royals. Kelly Osborne had a lot to say.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was on fire. She did not
Speaker 1: hold anything back and I could use her damarillion contract
Speaker 1: right about now. Hi, dol So you're a vacation. I
Speaker 1: am installing a house right now for a client of mine.
Speaker 1: So I'm on the road. There's still I was about
Speaker 1: to say shrapnel. I was so aggressive. There's still debris
Speaker 1: in the back from the packaging. So yeah, we're coming
Speaker 1: to you on location in different places today. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love an on location. Before you were in Michigan, you
Speaker 1: went to Miami to do a sit down interview with
Speaker 1: Miami Dolphins head coach, which I'm super jealous about because
Speaker 1: I've never spent one on one time with my McDaniel.
Speaker 1: How was it, Oh my gosh, let me tell you.
Speaker 1: He's everything you want him to be. He walked in
Speaker 1: and was at his house. No, we did at like
Speaker 1: a rented house. You know how they always do that
Speaker 1: for features, which is so nice. Yeah, think about it.
Speaker 1: He doesn't impede on the and it's already enough of
Speaker 1: him and his wife and his daughter, like take time
Speaker 1: out of the day. His daughter's so cute. She's too,
Speaker 1: but we don't need to be in your house with
Speaker 1: all the stuff. And you know how we feel about floors.
Speaker 1: Now we're moving things around. Now we're scraping floors. Although
Speaker 1: he didn't very there, it wasn't did that. We have
Speaker 1: a lot of questions. So it was great. And he's
Speaker 1: so funny. And he goes like two seconds in a
Speaker 1: meeting him, he was like, oh, now I'm rattled, and
Speaker 1: I was like what and he goes, you are wearing
Speaker 1: botegas and I go, no, these are knockoffs because I
Speaker 1: got robbed, so I'm now wearing fake botagas And he's
Speaker 1: like what, So yeah, Hi, way to bury the lead here,
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. The headline of this podcast is hold
Speaker 1: on to your possessions because I was robbed a rough
Speaker 1: week for your gal over here. Yeah, so we'll get
Speaker 1: back to Mike McDaniel in the second. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna let the We're gonna let that, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: and I'm about to play defense. Yeah. Well, yeah, I
Speaker 1: wish that this is interactive. Do you a want me
Speaker 1: to keep going about my robbery? B finish my thoughts
Speaker 1: on Mike McDaniel or C talk about how to hang
Speaker 1: that mirror and how high it should go from the
Speaker 1: ceiling A, B, C or D.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: I think that's why we started this whole thing, because
Speaker 1: this podcast, at first, we wanted to call it keep
Speaker 1: up or vertigo, because that's what happens if you can't
Speaker 1: keep up with this team. Listen, this is what happens
Speaker 1: with our real life conversation. So this is what's going
Speaker 1: to happen on our podcast. Now, we in fact provide
Speaker 1: the content, do the content and the interviews. Again, unlike
Speaker 1: some people rumored allegedly, so you went to go see
Speaker 1: Mike McDaniel he commented on your shoes, you said they
Speaker 1: were a knockoff. You said it was because you were robbed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened. So I was trying to, like you know,
Speaker 1: most things in my life, when something back ups, I
Speaker 1: try to bring some levity to the situation. So yeah,
Speaker 1: he was wonderful. So I said to him, I go,
Speaker 1: do you play chess? Because the way that he thinks
Speaker 1: is always like four moves in front of everything, and
Speaker 1: obviously he's very smart. He went to Yale and his
Speaker 1: story is incredible, incredible, you know, single parent, single child,
Speaker 1: never had anything given to him, even the story of
Speaker 1: him going and getting autographs at the Denver Broncos training camp,
Speaker 1: and that like him losing a hat. He had a
Speaker 1: Charlotte Hornet's hat that he lost. Turns out the video
Speaker 1: guy ended up buying him a new one. That video
Speaker 1: guy is now his stepfather. Because he introduced the video
Speaker 1: guy she was God and so that's his stepfather. And
Speaker 1: then that's how he became a ball boy with the Broncos,
Speaker 1: which is how he then met Mike Shanahan, which then
Speaker 1: the Kyle relationship, and there was all of these things
Speaker 1: that in turn have set up his life the way
Speaker 1: that it is because of one baseball hat. So I'm
Speaker 1: really looking forward to them putting the piece together for
Speaker 1: NFL Films as they always do such a great job
Speaker 1: and sort of telling that story. And I said to him,
Speaker 1: I was like, this story for him has just started,
Speaker 1: as far as you know, in the head coaching world.
Speaker 1: So he has a lot of humor, like dry humor,
Speaker 1: which is like us, like, do you think he would
Speaker 1: get along with our humor? Or?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: He would be like, WHOA put it this way. I
Speaker 1: the interview, it wasn't even an interview at one point.
Speaker 1: It's just a conversation, which is the greatest point you
Speaker 1: can get to, as you know, as a professional interviewer,
Speaker 1: not to be confused with someone that's not right. We're
Speaker 1: just going to keep going back to it. But yes,
Speaker 1: we just I mean, I think they and we are
Speaker 1: who we love. She was like, oh, you guys have
Speaker 1: like forty five minutes. We were talking for two and
Speaker 1: a half hours. Oh and she's wife so sweet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and the PR girl for the Dolphins. But yeah, so
Speaker 1: that's good. But Aaron alluded to it, this podcast is
Speaker 1: a mashup of a lot of different things. And before
Speaker 1: we came on, Aaron asked if I wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about what had happened to me this past week, and
Speaker 1: I said, look, we can't have a podcast if we're
Speaker 1: only going to talk about the good shit. And you
Speaker 1: and I have both been very vulnerable and for different
Speaker 1: reasons on here and talked about things legally we're allowed
Speaker 1: to talk about. So this situation, yeah, really shitty. I'll
Speaker 1: just get right into it and then we can get
Speaker 1: back to lighter things. But I was at the ranch.
Speaker 1: I got a text message in the morning that said
Speaker 1: my front door in La had been you know, the
Speaker 1: alarm had went off at twelve fifteen at night. And
Speaker 1: I was like, that's weird, And so I checked my cameras,
Speaker 1: which I already and let me preface this whole thing
Speaker 1: with I already have an issue with security because I
Speaker 1: had a stalker at my old house. I've been hacked,
Speaker 1: and yeah, security is paramount for me. So I spend
Speaker 1: a ridiculous amount of money feeling safe. I have a
Speaker 1: German shepherd, I have a husky. I mean, it's like,
Speaker 1: what else can I do to feel safe in my house?
Speaker 1: But the dogs are with me. And also I need
Speaker 1: to say this too, like I'm not trying to play
Speaker 1: victim all the time. I hate victim mentality of like
Speaker 1: oh whatever, But security is paramount and feeling safe in
Speaker 1: your own home, whether it's who is in your home
Speaker 1: we'll just say that, or who's outside your home trying
Speaker 1: to get in. So for me and I don't need
Speaker 1: to explain this to you. We know how important it
Speaker 1: is to feel safe, as anyone should. But unfortunately, like
Speaker 1: our situations in life have put us in places where
Speaker 1: we get on edge about feeling secure anyway. So I
Speaker 1: check my cameras and sure enough, two guys running out
Speaker 1: my front door, bags in their hand, and I immediately
Speaker 1: started bawling and this feeling in my stomach of like,
Speaker 1: holy shit, I've just been robbed. And now it's the
Speaker 1: panic of like trying to check the other cameras, the
Speaker 1: angles and to expedite the specifics. Three guys came over
Speaker 1: in my back They climbed. I have a big, huge
Speaker 1: I mean that was that fence like fifteen feet or
Speaker 1: whatever it is again, which I added to my house
Speaker 1: to feel secure, find whatever. They climb over the fence
Speaker 1: and they broke the window. They went in the window.
Speaker 1: The alarms go off and they end up. You know,
Speaker 1: these were professionals. They knew exactly how much time they had.
Speaker 1: They were only in there for four minutes. And now
Speaker 1: you know, on like all these movies, like robber movies,
Speaker 1: they're like or point break right where it's like their
Speaker 1: bank robbers. It's like they know exactly how much time
Speaker 1: they have before police are deployed, and if you stay
Speaker 1: too long, that's when you get caught. So've been doing this,
Speaker 1: You're not the first out. Yeah, I know, but but
Speaker 1: my feeling was, as you know, as I was talking
Speaker 1: to you on the phone, my first thing is, oh shit,
Speaker 1: is this targeted? Like is this specifically about me? Because
Speaker 1: then it brings up all of our PTSD with things
Speaker 1: of like is this related to the stalker, related to
Speaker 1: the hacker, related to other people? So well, anyways, I
Speaker 1: was able to sort of like deduce or feel more
Speaker 1: comfortable in talking to the neighbors about like this happens.
Speaker 1: I get it. I'm not the first or the last person.
Speaker 1: And it doesn't matter what area we live in, right,
Speaker 1: It can happen in Beverly Hills, it can happen in
Speaker 1: New York on Madison Avenues like there's there's gonna be
Speaker 1: break ins all over the place. But I'm just at
Speaker 1: that angry stage where here I am sitting in a
Speaker 1: house of a client of mine. That is my seventh
Speaker 1: job to work really hard to buy things that are
Speaker 1: important to me, or to have a nice house, or
Speaker 1: to you know, I didn't come, I don't have a
Speaker 1: trust fund. I don't have parents that you know, were
Speaker 1: leaving me this big inheritance. And Mom and Dad, I
Speaker 1: love you, but like we work, like we work for
Speaker 1: our things, and we work really fucking hard. And I
Speaker 1: have seven jobs. And so to watch someone break into
Speaker 1: my house that I bought, destroy my stuff, steal my
Speaker 1: stuff like they got away, they got a lot of shit,
Speaker 1: they got allow my first ever this is really trivial,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be trivial for a second. My first
Speaker 1: ever Chanel bag that I bought was in Denver. I
Speaker 1: had no money, I was. It was my first on
Speaker 1: air job, and I remember taking myself to the Cherry
Speaker 1: Creek Mall the Nieman Marcus, and I bought myself that back.
Speaker 2: And I was really proud of myself that I could
Speaker 2: buy something like that, and they take it again. It's
Speaker 2: just a stupid purse. And it's a reminder though that
Speaker 2: really and I don't know why I'm getting emotional about this,
Speaker 2: because I'm because that sucks. People that do this suck
Speaker 2: and should be caught. And it's in the worst part
Speaker 2: about this. It's not about the Chanel bag.
Speaker 1: It's about feeling safe in your own home, and it's
Speaker 1: not how to violate you and do this and get away.
Speaker 1: And the fact that our state is nuts right now
Speaker 1: is bullshit. It's just it's sad to me like that.
Speaker 1: I that it's and again you're totally excited about Chanel.
Speaker 1: It's the you know, Sarah had bought me a person
Speaker 1: for my birthday, and like they stole that. Like people
Speaker 1: work really hard for things and someone gets to just
Speaker 1: go in in four minutes all that from you and
Speaker 1: not be punished for it. And so I just think that,
Speaker 1: you know, without getting political, it's like there's no deterrent
Speaker 1: and the rates at which these are happening are more
Speaker 1: and more. But that's a different rabbit hole, and it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what you believe in politics wise, we're not
Speaker 1: getting on that engine. It's just the fact that just happening,
Speaker 1: and we want to feel safe and I get it
Speaker 1: happens anywhere, but it's just it's all of it. You've
Speaker 1: paid your dues in terms of not feeling safe, and
Speaker 1: enough is enough. It's just frustrating it, it's upsetting and
Speaker 1: it's violating again, yeah, exactly. And then it's this reminder
Speaker 1: too that look, when it's all said and done, it's
Speaker 1: just stuff, but it's the principle. And also, these fuckers
Speaker 1: they took my pillowcases off to load up with my shit.
Speaker 1: If you want to rob me, bring your own fucking back, Okay,
Speaker 1: don't take my nice pillowcases because those were Italian threadcount. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I walked in and I was like, why are
Speaker 1: my pillows all over the place? Oh, I know, because
Speaker 1: you used my low case is to load up my shit.
Speaker 1: And by the way, fuck you guys, because the good
Speaker 1: stuff I hide and wasn't even around. Okay. So like
Speaker 1: like by watch like you know how I'm psycho about
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. It's like I know they were
Speaker 1: coming in there looking for things, and it's like they
Speaker 1: went right to the area where it would be. And
Speaker 1: thank god, I don't put stuff in the little like
Speaker 1: locked thing that's in the safe, and that because they
Speaker 1: broke that thing wide open. They so they broke that.
Speaker 1: I have a locked box thing like where my purses
Speaker 1: are like in this cabinet and my clothes like that,
Speaker 1: you know that room that I have that's like I'm
Speaker 1: made into a closet or whatever. They ripped open the thing,
Speaker 1: the jewelry thing that's locked, and I don't keep anything
Speaker 1: in there because I've just had this you guy. You know,
Speaker 1: I've talked about it before, even on this podcast, where
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll hide watches under my mattresses and hotel
Speaker 1: rooms because I'm just like weirded out about people. But anyways,
Speaker 1: I just yeah, it was a shitty week. And again
Speaker 1: my takeaway because as my dad always says, the good
Speaker 1: news is the good news is is that I was
Speaker 1: reminded that my dogs are better than nine security cameras
Speaker 1: and an alarm system. Yeah, because ain't no one want
Speaker 1: to jump over the fence when Daisy and Willis are there.
Speaker 1: And also I have an incredible boyfriend who took control
Speaker 1: them for the first time in my life. I had
Speaker 1: someone just handle it as I was in the fetal position,
Speaker 1: like crying that my shit had just all been destroyed
Speaker 1: and my house no longer feels safe and so he
Speaker 1: just like stepped to the plate and took care of
Speaker 1: it for me, which was so nice. And also, you
Speaker 1: weren't I know that I'm safe with him, and I
Speaker 1: wasn't there, and our dogs weren't there, right in four
Speaker 1: nights before that, I was home alone without the dogs
Speaker 1: because they were boarding and on Sunday and couldn't pick
Speaker 1: them up, and Steve wasn't there, So I would have
Speaker 1: been by myself if they did that four nights before that,
Speaker 1: And what the fuck was I going to do. I
Speaker 1: don't have a gun, like, I don't have anything to
Speaker 1: protect me. So anyways, the moral of this story for
Speaker 1: me is it's just stuff at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: The sentimental value attached to it is what makes me emotional,
Speaker 1: and like my hard earned money, someone gets to just
Speaker 1: haul off with it. But it's just stuff, and the
Speaker 1: people and the pups in my life that I care
Speaker 1: the most about are fine, and so am I. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really shitty, and I hope it doesn't happen again,
Speaker 1: but I just need to get back that sense of
Speaker 1: security that is now lost again, which is to me,
Speaker 1: the most valuable thing and that's not something I can
Speaker 1: go claim on an insurance form, and it's already been
Speaker 1: something that's obviously in your mind been. It's PTSD all
Speaker 1: over again. And that's what if you've been robbed or
Speaker 1: you're somebody has been in your house and take it,
Speaker 1: I guess that's robbery, you know how it's gross to
Speaker 1: go back. I mean, that's also why I'm so grateful
Speaker 1: your dogs weren't there, because I think I would have
Speaker 1: panicked more if how he had been in the house,
Speaker 1: and I would have been like, what did they do
Speaker 1: to you? You know what I mean, even though he
Speaker 1: would have been on his back wanting a belly rob
Speaker 1: So that's fine, but you know, your dog's not the
Speaker 1: same pace. But just kidding how he is very ferocious.
Speaker 1: Everyone's always like your dogs are so crazy like that
Speaker 1: they're like like like attack dogs, and I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's actually what I want. Like, I mean, I I've
Speaker 1: been sad that ninety nine percent of my friends, including you,
Speaker 1: don't really want to come over because the dogs are crazy.
Speaker 1: But if it's a deterrent then I'll take it. But yeah, anyways,
Speaker 1: so it is. But it really is like when Willis
Speaker 1: went missing when he was with the dog walker and
Speaker 1: they couldn't find him for eight hours, and that whole
Speaker 1: thing that is incrementally like a thousand times more upsetting
Speaker 1: than somebody stealing my shit kind of personal. Dogs are
Speaker 1: our kids, and that's anyway. So the dogs are safe.
Speaker 1: I'm safe, Steve's great, and I don't have any persons,
Speaker 1: and I'm only going to buy fake shit now. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna carry Proto, I'm gonna carry Channel, I'm gonna carry
Speaker 1: Gatchi Channel or fake Potegas because at this point, I'm
Speaker 1: telling you it is not worth spending my hard earned
Speaker 1: money as I'm schlepping couches around and going all over
Speaker 1: different places to earn money, just to have someone else
Speaker 1: haul off and take it. So that's what I've been
Speaker 1: up to. What's happening in your net the woods. I
Speaker 1: know it doesn't really compare. I'm sorry. That's all I
Speaker 1: kept telling you after I talked to you is I'm
Speaker 1: just so sorry, Like it just sucks. It's shitty seeing
Speaker 1: your videos lipstick, Oh you can't tell. See that's the
Speaker 1: thing too. I need to also stop watching those because
Speaker 1: I'm doing my whole Perry Mason and like freeze. I'm
Speaker 1: doing these things because their faces were covered. But then
Speaker 1: they also like, again, I have all these angles and
Speaker 1: I have audio. And then when they're at my front gate,
Speaker 1: they were waiting for like the car to pick them up,
Speaker 1: and so they're peering around and I was like I
Speaker 1: could see their eyes and now I'm like every everything,
Speaker 1: I'm like obsessing. Yeah, I'm obsessing about it. But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So that was a shitty week. But you know what,
Speaker 1: in life, it's a reminder there's good weeks and there's
Speaker 1: bad weeks, and we're gonna just mark this one up
Speaker 1: as a bad week, but then turn that frown upside down.
Speaker 1: I was so excited because I don't feel safe at
Speaker 1: my house to get on the road and go interview
Speaker 1: Mike and to install this house for a wonderful client.
Speaker 1: And I'm reminded that I have a lot more good
Speaker 1: than bad. So I'll just need to go to therapy
Speaker 1: again for my safety issues. But that's enough. Emergency exits
Speaker 1: are here, here, here, and here. You weren't there, your
Speaker 1: dogs weren't there. Your boyfriend stepped up to the plate,
Speaker 1: and that is the most important thing. But people suck,
Speaker 1: and bad karma is coming that way. Karma is my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: Karma is a cat. Oh oh my god, meow. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just like get in the mind of a criminal, though,
Speaker 1: I want to like, what are you thinking? Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know that they're not gonna get caught, paris that
Speaker 1: they're not gonna get caught, because at this point, you know,
Speaker 1: it's just that they're not going to get out. And
Speaker 1: then you start getting careless with it. That's why you're
Speaker 1: looking for clues, because it's like, give me a license plate.
Speaker 1: Let me you know you're gonna get cast fuckers, you're
Speaker 1: gonna get caught. You're gonna get caught. Fuck you, and
Speaker 1: by the way, fuck you if you and here's my thing.
Speaker 1: You might have rattled me. But I am a tough
Speaker 1: bitch and I don't want to, you know, sometimes like
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to be like, oh I
Speaker 1: am woman, here may roar, like fuck, I want to
Speaker 1: be a little delicate flower. But when life presents shit
Speaker 1: like this, it's like, well, god damn, now I got
Speaker 1: to be tough again and be this person that is
Speaker 1: not vulnerable or not whatever, wondering like, oh, post this
Speaker 1: on social media or don't post this on. Now I'm
Speaker 1: having to second guess or think about all these things
Speaker 1: where I had just gotten all that shit in my
Speaker 1: rearview mirror. But look, there's a bigger reason behind everything.
Speaker 1: Like I said, without belaboring this point, it's just it's
Speaker 1: just stuff. But it's like you're in my house and
Speaker 1: you're touching my bed. That's the worst part. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like anyone that's had, like have you ever had your
Speaker 1: car broken into? I have. I've actually even had where
Speaker 1: I was moving in somewhere and the workers that were
Speaker 1: moving something in deliberately stole something off my table as
Speaker 1: I was like helping them upstairs. And then it was
Speaker 1: just me living alone, and I went to say something
Speaker 1: and they were like, no, she's a liar, and it's
Speaker 1: like there's nothing you can do about it, Like you
Speaker 1: have my shit in your car, you know, it's just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's violating. The first time we were ever robbed
Speaker 1: was in our old home and we oh yeah, oh,
Speaker 1: we were robbed. They went through our kitchen window and
Speaker 1: we didn't have a security system, and I remember the
Speaker 1: one thing they took was our VCR and we were
Speaker 1: so as a young kid, we were like in second grade.
Speaker 1: I was in second grade, Kendro was younger, and my
Speaker 1: poor mom, like, you know, to come home and see that,
Speaker 1: she must have been so scared. But then all they
Speaker 1: got away with I think. I mean, that's all my
Speaker 1: mom told me was our VCR. But we were so
Speaker 1: devastated because Mary Poppin's VHS was in there, Like we
Speaker 1: didn't give us about the VCTA. I know, no, not
Speaker 1: Mary Poppin. But then my dad, you know, crime solver
Speaker 1: over here. He was going to like every like store
Speaker 1: where you could resell electronics to see this stupid v
Speaker 1: CR was there. He found it, found it, but no
Speaker 1: Mary Poppins VHS. Oh my gosh. They that's what they wanted.
Speaker 1: They robbed you for the Mary Poppy. I don't blame them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. No, that's my girlfriend, Julie, who she
Speaker 1: used to be my stylas said extra has the funniest
Speaker 1: nothing's funny about a break in, but again trying to
Speaker 1: find levity. She has the funniest story from when she
Speaker 1: was younger. She lived in Beverly Hills. Her dad was
Speaker 1: Bob Hope's agent. They had a really nice house or whatever.
Speaker 1: But she loved dancing, like that was her thing. So
Speaker 1: she was in her bedroom blasting music like full footloose,
Speaker 1: like you know, leg warm rose, dancing her entire house
Speaker 1: got robbed while she was in her room dancing her mom.
Speaker 1: Her mom comes home and opens the door and she's like, Julie,
Speaker 1: we've been robbed. What is going on? And she's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've just been in here dancing. Can
Speaker 1: you imagine being those robbers They like walk down the
Speaker 1: hall and they're like, we're not opening that door, and
Speaker 1: the music like drowned out whatever they were like rustling
Speaker 1: around and taking rustling around. Russell Crowe, Russell Wilson. My
Speaker 1: god is Gladiator. Well God, so your rose and thorn
Speaker 1: of the week are my rose and thorn of the
Speaker 1: week are thorn in my side? Is I don't have
Speaker 1: any night. This is why we can't have nice things.
Speaker 1: People are asked, I have no nice things. I have
Speaker 1: no nice things anymore, and people are assholes. And the
Speaker 1: rose is I have my health, I'm safe, and I
Speaker 1: have good pups and good people around me. So that
Speaker 1: is that you can't buy at the consignment store that
Speaker 1: they're hauling shit off to, which, by the way, Steve
Speaker 1: is like shining nice. Steve is like you're Steve. Guess
Speaker 1: who has called every uh the real real He's called
Speaker 1: all of the pawn shops. He like this guy listen
Speaker 1: because then I wonder can you trace it back? Yeah?
Speaker 1: For sure. No, that's smart of him. That's like my dad. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. And some of his shit got stolen too,
Speaker 1: His nice watch got stolen. Like it sucks. What's going
Speaker 1: on in your world? We cannot, I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: have much. He's been really and this is also a
Speaker 1: downer on this show as well. We've been really captivated,
Speaker 1: which is awful about this whole submarine looking for the Titanic?
Speaker 1: Have you? I mean, I know you've had a lot
Speaker 1: going on right now. This is awful. I have to say.
Speaker 1: I woke up this morning like checking the news. That
Speaker 1: was the first thing Jared said this morning too. He goes,
Speaker 1: did they find the submarine? I mean? And then I
Speaker 1: went back last night and we were talking about things
Speaker 1: that we go to bed thinking about, like national news
Speaker 1: stories and hoping when you wake up it's better. And
Speaker 1: it brought me down this whole path of when my
Speaker 1: sister and I were younger living in Florida. My mom
Speaker 1: and dad went away for the weekend and JFK Junior's
Speaker 1: plane went missing, and the whole day we watched the coverage.
Speaker 1: And then the next morning I woke up and it
Speaker 1: was like, is he found? Is he found? Do you
Speaker 1: know what I did last night? I mean to psycho,
Speaker 1: why do I do this stuff? I like YouTube JFK
Speaker 1: Junior's plane, and I watched the coverage because my husband
Speaker 1: was in Canada, Like I know, babe, how he wasn't
Speaker 1: paying attention when JFK Junior went down, but like he
Speaker 1: was just like I watched the whole coverage with him
Speaker 1: last night. Crazy. I remember exactly where I was, my
Speaker 1: track and field coach. This is so random that you
Speaker 1: said that my track and field coach I used to
Speaker 1: dog sit when his family would go out of town.
Speaker 1: Luckily there wasn't a break in there, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So, and I remember waking up and I
Speaker 1: turned on the TV, and I I mean, like so
Speaker 1: many of us had an obsession with the Kennedys and
Speaker 1: Camelot and they were our American royalty. So when that
Speaker 1: plane went down, and it's just this, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this like you know, Romeo and Julie, not Romeo and Juliete.
Speaker 1: We get it, but like this love of like their
Speaker 1: great love with him and Carolyn Bassett and just for
Speaker 1: that plane to go down was and the tragedy of
Speaker 1: that family, like you can have all the fucking bags
Speaker 1: you want, robbers and sunglasses and whatnot, but the tragedy
Speaker 1: of the Kennedys, it's like, oh, oh my god, not
Speaker 1: him too. Oh it was terrible, terrible. And then that
Speaker 1: let many years ago was that it was ninety I
Speaker 1: don't even know, but it was. Yeah, it has to be.
Speaker 1: Sorry to interrupt you, babe, I'm just thinking this is
Speaker 1: again my delusion on how old we are. I mean,
Speaker 1: I was in high school, so it would have been
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety nine. Maybe you've been twenty four, Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: in high school. I was watching the coverage last night
Speaker 1: with Brian Williams. I was watching like and then they
Speaker 1: were going back showing clips of him with the George magazine,
Speaker 1: and like, you know, I love my husband, but like
Speaker 1: he's like invested in hockey at this time. He's not
Speaker 1: worried about us events, and he's like this guy was
Speaker 1: a study, and I was like, this guy was the
Speaker 1: hottest ds. She kind of had Sarah Jessica vibes to her, like,
Speaker 1: you know, with the nose and the air and all that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was crazy. And then I was talking style. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was very simplistic. She would never be caught wearing
Speaker 1: this rolling Stone shirt. She was like sophisticated. She was
Speaker 1: like wearing like black, those black like silk dresses. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was. You know what, I've been watching the Arnold Schwarzenegger. Oh,
Speaker 1: just watched that. He said it was interesting. You know,
Speaker 1: I've i you know, from Afar. It's not like I've
Speaker 1: been an Arnold like fan or anything, but I can respect.
Speaker 1: I mean, here, you've got this immigrant actor that comes
Speaker 1: over from Austria. He you know, becomes a US citizen
Speaker 1: and becomes he's the Rock before the Way before the Rock,
Speaker 1: you know, like the biggest Hollywood blockbuster movie star. But
Speaker 1: just the political route and even his relationship with another Kennedy,
Speaker 1: with Maria Shriver, another Kennedy exactly. And what a businessman
Speaker 1: he was. Oh really, I don't know much about hi. Yeah,
Speaker 1: very similar to Magic Johnson that they got into real
Speaker 1: estate very early. He bought apartment complexes and he bought.
Speaker 1: He was made a ton of before he made any
Speaker 1: real money on movies. He made a lot of money
Speaker 1: on real estate, which is why he could be selective
Speaker 1: about his roles that he took in Hollywood because he's like,
Speaker 1: I don't need to do that. I already have money.
Speaker 1: So yeah, very interesting. I still have to watch the final,
Speaker 1: the third part of it. I've watched the Yeah, people
Speaker 1: are talking about that he was seen. I was watching
Speaker 1: the coverage. I'm so psycho. We were watching the coverage
Speaker 1: of the funeral for JFK Junior, and Muhammad al Li
Speaker 1: was getting out of a limo to go in. Arnold
Speaker 1: Schwartzenegger Maria Shreiver. Obviously she's at Kennedy. That's crazy. Want
Speaker 1: to know something else, This is what a lovely dinner
Speaker 1: we had on our vacation. We started, I don't know, oh,
Speaker 1: we were talking about the submarine and all that, and
Speaker 1: then we started talking about, of all things, the Challenger,
Speaker 1: the spaceship that the space Shuttle that blew up. And
Speaker 1: I was in school in Tampa at the time. I
Speaker 1: was in third grade. So every time there was a
Speaker 1: shuttle launch that was only forty five minutes from where
Speaker 1: we were in school, we would run outside and watch it.
Speaker 1: So that was obviously, I mean, a massive day. We
Speaker 1: came back and watched footage on that and you know
Speaker 1: what we watched, Would you do it? I know, so romantic?
Speaker 1: I got do you want me to send you more
Speaker 1: footage of my security? Yourtonus for punishment here? Because we
Speaker 1: got nine angles that you could really just dive into
Speaker 1: if you're looking to do some you know, shitty watching
Speaker 1: of anything. Well, I think what was interesting with that
Speaker 1: is we were watching the CNN footage of it and
Speaker 1: when it happened, and they had microphones on the broadcasters
Speaker 1: live event, right, I'm always so interested about that. The
Speaker 1: people in the control room they're like, oh no, oh, no,
Speaker 1: oh no. Then they're talking to the guy that is
Speaker 1: kind of commentating and he's in anyways. Yeah, I found
Speaker 1: myself getting emotional watching it. But you know what was
Speaker 1: interesting that night was the State of the Union address
Speaker 1: for Ronald Reagan and they were talking about how big
Speaker 1: of a deal it was because he was going to
Speaker 1: have to shift from what he was talking about to
Speaker 1: talking about what we just saw and space travel and
Speaker 1: what these astronauts they were brave and they were daring Chrisha.
Speaker 1: He was probably so poetic. I'm actually he was perfect.
Speaker 1: I am not trying to get political. I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to get Republican Democrat. That's not what this is about.
Speaker 1: He was lovely. I know he was an actor, but
Speaker 1: we sat there. Even Jared was like, oh my god, like,
Speaker 1: this is beautiful. It was fantastic. It was like being
Speaker 1: a little girl and watching it. It was It was
Speaker 1: what you should want out of your president. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, not trying to be political, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about everybody right now. You know. It was great
Speaker 1: because you want someone in a time of crisis to
Speaker 1: be steady and that is in it, whether it's in
Speaker 1: your own house or whether it is the leader of
Speaker 1: the free world. You want someone that is going to
Speaker 1: grab the reins and say we got this, Like even
Speaker 1: if it's terrible, we're going to keep going and we're
Speaker 1: going to be stronger and we're going to you know,
Speaker 1: overcome whatever the obstacle is. Yeah, that's I bet you.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that. I haven't watched that, but I
Speaker 1: just imagine because he was very regal and had a
Speaker 1: presence about him, so good looking. He was the original
Speaker 1: person that said make America great again, which actually I
Speaker 1: was on the Arnold Schwartzeninger documentary. There was a quick
Speaker 1: little line that he had said, and I was like, oh, Trump,
Speaker 1: you weren't original. But yeah, yeah, for those of you
Speaker 1: still listening, I promise there's gonna be positivity in here somewhere,
Speaker 1: because just leave it to us two gals to find
Speaker 1: the silver lining. There's no quarters in our life, so
Speaker 1: there might be a few turnovers in the second quarter,
Speaker 1: but stick around because the halftime pep talk is amazing.
Speaker 1: We're gonna turn this thing right around, sure are. And
Speaker 1: with that we should probably end and go to our
Speaker 1: other activities of the day, which is recording our pregame show.
Speaker 1: But no, look like shit. This is like yeah, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, shit, I need to call my parents
Speaker 1: because and I know you know them, you should tell
Speaker 1: them before this comes out. Well, this is what I
Speaker 1: was saying, is because well, I didn't want to call
Speaker 1: my dad on Father's Day and be like, hey, Dad,
Speaker 1: this day is about you. Let me make it about me.
Speaker 1: I was robbed, and what do parents. I don't want
Speaker 1: to die Dad, you are robbed Dad? Because I know
Speaker 1: my dad's going to be so upset. Yeah, And see,
Speaker 1: isn't this funny that like there's a shift in life
Speaker 1: at this point in our life where we worry about them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like more than they actually worry about us.
Speaker 1: That's not true. They worry about us all the time,
Speaker 1: which is why I don't want to tell my parents
Speaker 1: because everything that I've been through. When I had that
Speaker 1: that hacking happen, my parents flew down and my parents
Speaker 1: now weren't like rushed to my side, like they're very
Speaker 1: much like we're here to support you. We will be
Speaker 1: there if you want us to be, We'll be as
Speaker 1: far away like they're just they're so good at like
Speaker 1: reading the room and like the temperature of like what
Speaker 1: it is that I need. But then my mom just
Speaker 1: like knows if I Sometimes you just need your mom,
Speaker 1: you know. And so I remember them flying down and
Speaker 1: came in my house and when that whole thing happened,
Speaker 1: and I just was crying, and my Dad's like, we're
Speaker 1: going to get through it, and we're gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: we're gonna this is not going to be your story.
Speaker 1: This is one chapter and we're going to keep going.
Speaker 1: And you're the author of your story, and you get decided.
Speaker 1: You know, how you reacts not what happens to you.
Speaker 1: It's how you react to what happens to you. So
Speaker 1: I want to for life tell them, But yeah, I
Speaker 1: just don't want them to worry about me, because you know,
Speaker 1: they also deserve to live their own life. And that's
Speaker 1: the thing too, And when you're a parent, you worry forever.
Speaker 1: So I love you and thank you for being there
Speaker 1: when I was not in a good place the last
Speaker 1: few days. But yeah, this too shall pass, and I'm
Speaker 1: going to put barbed wire, and if anyone thinks about
Speaker 1: fucking robbing me again, I think twice, because there are
Speaker 1: now even more measures, drastic measures I'm taking, which I
Speaker 1: thought i'd already done enough, But you bought a dragon.
Speaker 1: Things are about to get nuclear around my house. There's
Speaker 1: going to be booby traps and all sorts of things.
Speaker 1: You think twice before coming over that fence, baby Ruth,
Speaker 1: I look like that right now. My god, I drank
Speaker 1: an entire bottle less So I got in from the
Speaker 1: McDaniel interview last night to where I'm at right now,
Speaker 1: and I drank an entire bottle of wine. That's okay,
Speaker 1: I was doing this how oh I didn't. I mean,
Speaker 1: my face will tell you how swollen it is. But
Speaker 1: that's like my this is my happy place. When I
Speaker 1: get to walk into a client's house and they have
Speaker 1: all of the things that I've ordered and set up
Speaker 1: for the last you know, few months, and I get
Speaker 1: to unbox it, it's like Christmas morning, but it's their stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I just get to arrange everything, and so it's
Speaker 1: very cathartic for me. And I think that that's kind
Speaker 1: of the irony of this whole thing is I started
Speaker 1: a company to make other people love their houses. And
Speaker 1: the entire company is called House and Home, and it's like,
Speaker 1: I want you to love your home, and now the
Speaker 1: thing I hate the most is my home. Like that sucks,
Speaker 1: but anywhof you're trying to make a home with somebody
Speaker 1: who made you feel really, really really safe. Listen, guys,
Speaker 1: I am not like Peaches and Cream, you know over here,
Speaker 1: like miss what a right song? Yeah? Prince? It was good,
Speaker 1: Prince that Prince? Was it one twelve Peaches in Cream?
Speaker 1: You need it because you know that that was like
Speaker 1: a dirty song? Yes? Where am I thinking about this? Anyways?
Speaker 1: I don't know, But what I'm thinking of is trying
Speaker 1: to put a loop on like I'm not missus, like, hey,
Speaker 1: usually my it's been really good at this. It's like
Speaker 1: trying to find the positive. But this has just been
Speaker 1: such a shitty time that I'm like, Okay, let's think
Speaker 1: about this. You weren't there, your dogs weren't there. And
Speaker 1: Steve is like just validating what a great person he
Speaker 1: is and why he's in your life and why you
Speaker 1: found him. And that's what I'm trying. You're trying to
Speaker 1: make homes for other people and make them feel safe,
Speaker 1: and he is a part of your home and that's
Speaker 1: why we all love him. And well, now, car, now
Speaker 1: this is a whole question which I'm gonna I'm going
Speaker 1: to open this up because again another reason why he's
Speaker 1: so great. He doesn't care what I talk about. We
Speaker 1: don't live together, and you know how I've been adverse
Speaker 1: to living together because of my past and feeling like
Speaker 1: my space is my space any time. But I go.
Speaker 1: I said to him, my go, should I guess? Should
Speaker 1: we live together now? And he's like, you need to
Speaker 1: make that decision. But I'm like, shit, He's so sweet.
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, but that needs you don't make the
Speaker 1: decision because you're emotional about this. So, yeah, who's this calling?
Speaker 1: Is this the police? I wish hello? AnyWho? Hello? Is
Speaker 1: that you?
Speaker 2: Hello?
Speaker 1: Well, next week's going to be a better week. We
Speaker 1: will wait details on that storyline. If you've decided to
Speaker 1: move in together, I say two thumbs up on my end.
Speaker 1: Before I was like, Eh, let's give it some time,
Speaker 1: sorry Steve, But now two thumbs up. Let's go. We're
Speaker 1: big Steve. People in our house love you. It's going
Speaker 1: to get better. Listen to Karmel on repeat. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think I just need a break. In the last five years,
Speaker 1: between the hacking and the stocking, the inside the home nonsense,
Speaker 1: and now this, I'm like, can I just take a
Speaker 1: Can I just get a break? But again, this is
Speaker 1: not a woe was so much. There is a lot
Speaker 1: as of you, and there's a lot of people that
Speaker 1: have been through a lot worse. And that's the thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is so somewhere over the rainbow. But
Speaker 1: like Tuck, if you don't have your health and you
Speaker 1: don't have your people around you, then I mean that's
Speaker 1: the biggest step. So I am trying to be positive
Speaker 1: about a shitty situation because really in the big scheme
Speaker 1: of things, That's what it's all about. So dotor Bet,
Speaker 1: I love you, Thank you per usual for being there
Speaker 1: and our I really really love our Calm Down community,
Speaker 1: and I appreciate them very much because this is something
Speaker 1: that you know, when we started this, we were like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is going to just be fun, and we jump
Speaker 1: into serious topics on some stuff, and I always feel
Speaker 1: supported by the wonderful people that take the time out
Speaker 1: of their lives to listen to what's going on in
Speaker 1: our So thank you for making it a safe space
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