1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: What's up you guys. It is your Good Vibe Retreat 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: International Leaders, and we're here to tell you some very 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: good news. Not because we celebrate the holidays or anything 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: like that, because fuck the man, but because we love you. 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: We are celebrating Cyber Monday and giving everybody twenty percent 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: off of all of our retreats next year. So if 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: you've been wanting to go to a Good Vibe retreat, 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 1: you've been wanting to go to Jamaica, Costa Rica and 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: come hang with us, go abroad, now is the time 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: to make the move and put down your deposit. It 11 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: is twenty percent off. That's almost eight hundred dollars off, 12 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: and there's no there's not going to be a deeper discount. No, 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: there's not. 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,319 Speaker 2: And Jamaica's almost sold out. So if you saw our 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 2: four to twenty trip last this year, you definitely want 16 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: to come because it's beautiful and it's an incredible, incredible experience. 17 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: And then we have our first Mommy and Me retreat. 18 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: It's going to be mommy and daughters. So if you 19 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: want to bring your daughter on a retreat and just 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 2: have a really sacred experience with your child and bond 21 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 2: and just have fun and get in play. Costa Rica 22 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: is the perfect place for that. And then, of course 23 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 2: we have our annual women's retreat, Our Reset and Vibratory 24 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: in Costa Rica. So click the link in this episode 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: description and use the code cyber Monday for twenty percent 26 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: off your retreat. 27 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 3: Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional 28 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: housewife cod She cleaned and cared for her children and 29 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: the man of the house, and of course she didn't 30 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 3: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature. 31 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: She was a good woman who always made good choices. 32 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 2: That we're good mom's bad choices. 33 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: Who single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: their bad choices and. 35 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: Sound out they were so bad. 36 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: After all, we're expert Overshares and your new besties. 37 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: Sit back and. 38 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: Enjoy the ride. I can do that. 39 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica, and 40 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: I'm happy. Humpty bitches, Happy hump day. 41 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: We're back in studio. I feel like I haven't been 42 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: here a long time. 43 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: You've been gone, girl, for like a month. 44 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: Very very very very very very very very far away, 45 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: and I'm. 46 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: Still adjusting and I'm still struggling. I've dropped iriy off 47 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: at school today and on the ride home, I was like, 48 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: I want to pull over and take a nap. I 49 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: literally was like, I'm gonna fall asleep. 50 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been tired. Yesterday I was like trying to 51 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: kick it with Luna. When we get home, I like 52 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: knocked out in her bed, Like I'm tired. It's been 53 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: a week and I'm still recovering and I've never really 54 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: experienced red lag like this, but like, I guess being 55 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: on completely different time zones really fucked me up. 56 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been up staying up till six am. 57 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would just stay up to like three in 58 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: the morning just on my phone and then wanting to 59 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: go to sleep at seven, and then it's just not 60 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: conducive to real life. 61 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: I spent one night watching the basically the whole season 62 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: of The Beast in Me Have you seen it? 63 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: So? 64 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 2: I love my white women shows. Speak of white women shows, 65 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: Me and Mila. Not to not to sidetrack, but we 66 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: also went to our favorite white women's show hotel location. 67 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: Do you haven't checked out our Instagram, then I would 68 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: highly recommend that you go check out our White Lotus moment. 69 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: We went to the White Lotus Hotel Okay, the four 70 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: seasons in Kasamoy in Thailand, and we had our entire 71 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: we had like in a white woman lunch and we 72 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: took videos like we were in the White loadus. We 73 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: made the mantic pictures of us at the bridge. He 74 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 1: was so excited to share. 75 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 2: He's like, this is what I was like, this is 76 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: where they died. So we got murdered. 77 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, I don't think I don't think that 78 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: was it. I don't think that was it either. 79 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: I was like, wasn't in here like a pond? Yeah, 80 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: he's just talking shit. 81 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: That was the highlight eversity our Thailand trip. So what 82 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: is this White Woman's show about? 83 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: It's about this like Clare Danes and this is I 84 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: love her so much, But what I realized in watching 85 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: this season is that she's very specific about the roles 86 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: that she picks, but they're all kind of the same. 87 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: Like she's like very distressed, she's high anxiety, she's like 88 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: about to be in tears. 89 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: My woman's Clared Dane, like I can. 90 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: Romeo and Juliet with Leonardocaprio. But she also did Homeland 91 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: and she was also in fucking the ninety show that 92 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 2: we fucking love what is it? 93 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: The ninety show? 94 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: That's what she got famous for. They were like kind 95 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 2: of like punk and emo and god, it's. 96 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: Gonna bother me. Oh okay that seventies show. What. No, 97 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: she's on that seventies show. No, I don't know. I 98 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 1: see her face now, Yeah, I remember that she was 99 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: on the show in the nineties. That show that Like. 100 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 2: I know, people are listening right now and they're saying 101 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: it right now. I know it. Nineties, my so called life, Yes, 102 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 2: my so called life. Yes, that's where she got famous. 103 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: She was also I think she was a broke down palace. 104 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: Oh right, right, this is that pace. This is yeah. 105 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: We were referencing broke down Palace the whole time. 106 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: We were in. I'm like, I'm so trying to why 107 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: do I know this white woman's face? That's where it's from. 108 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: I forgot Okay. 109 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: But anyway, she's like I don't want to give too 110 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 2: much away, but she's like a troubled writer, like this 111 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 2: rich like tycoon moves next door to her because she 112 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: had gotten a lot of money. She like won a 113 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: Pulitzer Prize for her book, and she's like needs to 114 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: write another one. But she's been really depressed because she 115 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 2: lost her son. And so this like Tycoon moves next door. 116 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: He is like under suspicion because his wife went missing 117 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: like a few years before, and everyone thinks he's a murderer. 118 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 2: And so anyway, they had developed a relationship and it 119 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: just kind of expands from there, and it's it's a 120 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: lot of just it's a lot of suspense, it's a 121 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 2: lot of her trembling chin And I was up un 122 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 2: till six am watching it. 123 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: But I do recommend it. The whole season I watched. 124 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 2: I watched. I started watching the first episode actually in Thailand, 125 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: and that's when Aaron came in the room and to 126 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: hear the shit out of me, and I was like, 127 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 2: get the fuck out because we're already in a haunted house. 128 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 2: We were staying in a haunted house in Thailand. We'll 129 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 2: get to that later. But I finished it the other 130 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: night because of my insomnia. And so now I'm looking 131 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 2: for another show. Someone said I should watch what is it? 132 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: That's an it's another white woman's show. The white women 133 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 2: shows are They're lit right now for me, between Hunting 134 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: Wives and Sirens and the Beast in Me and this 135 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 2: other one I'm gonna watch tonight. 136 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: I don't know Sirens. 137 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't see Sirens yet with Julian Moore. 138 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,239 Speaker 1: I don't think so, oh, you gotta watch that one. 139 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: I just watched Landman and uh yeah, I watch Hunting 140 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: Wives and I watch Yeah. I haven't really watched too 141 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: many series lately. I've just been watching movies again, but 142 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: not really watching. And they're watching me, and then I'm like, 143 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: I should do stuff like wash clothes or unpack, but 144 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: I just keep staring at the suitcase and the suitcase 145 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: is staring at me, and I'm just sitting in my 146 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: living room. So maybe today, maybe today, I'll get to it. 147 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: But I really do feel exhausted, and I'm like, i've 148 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: been back a week. Am I supposed to be doing 149 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: stuff already, and I'm like, just be gentle, ease and 150 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: ease back in. And Luna is having a birthday party 151 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: on Saturdays, so I can only ease in and tiled it. 152 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: How do you feel? 153 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 1: I can't believe that she's eleven. It's really like slapped 154 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: to slapped me in the face. It's like I came 155 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: back from the future and then boom, she's eleven. I 156 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: just feel like I just feel like not unprepared, but 157 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: like time is fucking flying. Time is flying, and it's 158 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: it's scary. It's not scary. I'm trying to like go 159 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: of the flow. But just also like, yeah, she was 160 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: just little. I'm like looking at videos, like I was 161 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: gooking a lot of pictures and videos when we were 162 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: in Bali and in Thailand, and I'm just like, I 163 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: cannot fucking believe. I just I remember being eleven so vividly, 164 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: like it wasn't that long ago. 165 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 2: No, those are like the between like ages, like at 166 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: least I can only speak for me personally, but like 167 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: those are around the years actually remembering my life. 168 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, eleven and thirteen, you know, I. 169 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: Remember stuff from before, but like those are the years 170 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 2: where like really impressionable, like long lasting things started to 171 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: like impose themselves onto me, for the good and for 172 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 2: the bad. 173 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, So I'm just like crazy craziness, and 174 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: she's just like just the stuff she's into and like 175 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: having to tolerate watching Zombie, teen Zombie, whatever the fuck 176 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: musical for the four hundred time and also like the 177 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: other stuff that she watches when I'm like, are are 178 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: you supposed to be watching this. It's a murder mystery 179 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: like Frankenstein and like all this it's just cool to 180 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: see her develop and also like wow, like a pre teen, 181 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: like oh, she's like about to be bigger than me 182 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: and shit. So I'm like just you know, trying to 183 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 1: take it all in and just recognize that like time is, 184 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: we're dying. We're gonna die. Every day it is the 185 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: closer to death. 186 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 2: We're like a blip in the history of time. 187 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: I know, I know, and just taking it for granted 188 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: and you know, just just like it's fatting the balance 189 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: in it all. So last night I was putting Iried 190 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: a bed and she was I was laying with her 191 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: because she was like, I want to sleep with you, 192 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: and I was like, she comes in the bed, do 193 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: you want to come sleep with that? Now? 194 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: I'm okay, well let me come alay with you here. 195 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: And she was asking me about like my prom and 196 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: like who I went with, and I was like telling her. 197 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 2: I was like, well, I went a few proms. And 198 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 2: she's like when I go to prom, are you gonna 199 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 2: take me to get my dress? I was like duh, 200 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: She's like you will. I'm like what the fuck of course, 201 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,439 Speaker 2: She's like I wanted to be Rose Gold Rose. 202 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, whatever. 203 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 2: I was like yes, and Alma's going to do your 204 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: makeup and it's going to be special and it's gonna 205 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 2: be great. And then I like, I was like you no, 206 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 2: I'm trying to get her to open up more. So 207 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: I'm like divulging information to her that you know, she 208 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: didn't ask for. Yea, my prom dates and me kissing 209 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: boys that I didn't like and stuff. And then she 210 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 2: find and then it did it like worked, she told 211 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 2: me something, not anything serious. 212 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: It was better than nothing nothing. 213 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, there's this girl at school. She's really annoying, 214 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: Like do you ever have anyone in your life that's 215 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 2: so annoying, like you just want to smack them in 216 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: the face. And that's like, yeah I do. 217 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm a cool mom, I said, I know, totally. 218 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to slap people bitches all the time. 219 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: Totally healthy. 220 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, slap whatever it takes to get your kids open up. 221 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: Not parenting advice. 222 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to kiss boys when it's stupid. 223 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: Tell him why, Yeah, you wanna slap bitches me too? 224 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: Fuck him? Okay, oh my god, but yes to what 225 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: you're saying is yes, they're growing up so fast. 226 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: It's it's crazy. But at least I have least I 227 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: have like six more months or five five more months 228 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 2: until she's. 229 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: Eleven, maybe five months. It's the same as just let 230 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: me be here. I'm just saying, like the year by 231 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 1: hella fast. I just like when I look back at 232 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: the year and we're yeah, we're in December. Fuck, I'm 233 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: like between literally, like we just we traveled every other 234 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: month this year out of the country and domestically, and 235 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: it was It's like wonderful and I'm so grateful. But 236 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: then I'm also like, did I even take in all 237 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: this shit? It happens so quickly. It's like by the 238 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: time you rest, you're getting back up to go somewhere else. 239 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 1: So it's like, yikes. 240 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 2: I will say this year specifically, I felt like I 241 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 2: did take in more than I took in years before. 242 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 243 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: I feel like even though we were really busy, like 244 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 2: the years before, I don't know why, like I was 245 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 2: just it just felt like a blur. Yeah, So this 246 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: year I felt like a little bit slower and I 247 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 2: want to continue that vibe. Been to twenty twenty six 248 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: and just being more present and yeah, because I think 249 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 2: she's getting older. I'm getting older, My parents are getting older, 250 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 2: you know, like this's just everyone's getting older. 251 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: It's it's true, It's it's beautiful. Life was so dul. 252 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 2: I just love when people get older and day and 253 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: they may they die. But being present and being like 254 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: Bali in particular, like was a place that really I 255 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: think allowed me and I think I'm hoping the women too. 256 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 2: I think the women that came be really present at 257 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: that place. We had a retreat in Bali in this 258 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 2: month and we're there for Our retreat was a week, 259 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 2: but we were there for two weeks and it's just 260 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 2: like I'd never been to that. I've never been to Indonesia, 261 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 2: and I had no idea what to expect. We plan 262 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 2: this retreat kind of like through intuition and trust and 263 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 2: hoping that the property was going to be as bomb 264 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: as it looked in the in the videos and the 265 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 2: picture and. 266 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,359 Speaker 1: It was and it was amazing. 267 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: There was better, Yeah, And I think, like Bali, what 268 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 2: I took away from that place is just like how 269 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: when you're in constant like devotion, like that's that's how 270 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 2: you slow shit down. Because everyone there kind of was 271 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 2: just like on their own time, in their own space 272 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: and their own thing, and like the people of Indonesia 273 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: are like literally I feel like five times a day 274 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 2: just like leaving offering, like praying. 275 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:06,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely devotional country. Everyone's very kind. Everybody's 276 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: like you could feel like the honesty and like the 277 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: genuineness of each person and like their gratitude. And literally 278 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: there's there's offerings all over the city, all over the 279 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: house that they leave, like. 280 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 2: In front of the store, in front of every doorway. 281 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: Basically I was wondering, like, is there is there rhym 282 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: or reason for the placement, and meant to ask that. 283 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 2: I kept stepping on offerings in the streets. They were 284 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: like on the street everywhere, paying attention. They're just like 285 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 2: right in front of the storefronts. 286 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was absolutely breath takingly beautiful, Like everything 287 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: was beautiful. It's just like so interesting to see a 288 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 1: new part of the world that you've never experienced before firsthand, 289 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: like cranes and rice fields and like it's just it's 290 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: it's the food. Yeah, it's amazing. I mean it's it's 291 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 1: a far, far far away land. And we drugged ourselves 292 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:04,439 Speaker 1: to get there cessfully. So yeah, but it's worth it. 293 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: It's definitely worth going. It's definitely worth I wish we 294 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: could have stayed longer, like I would like, I would 295 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: like go for a summer just to get to see everything. 296 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: But we had a We had a really, really, really 297 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: beautiful time. It was a smaller group. We had like 298 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: fourteen women. It was boss. I feel like a baller 299 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: like that. Like I was manifesting the whole time, like 300 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: I want to wake up to this, that kitchen, the 301 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: shape of the living room, like the pools, the jungle. 302 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: Everything was just super super lush, and I felt like, yeah, 303 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: I did feel slow moving and soft and gentle and 304 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: like the food was bomb and we did We did 305 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: so many like water ceremonies so much like we went 306 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: to temples. Everything was so so intentional, and I like 307 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: it was special. And half of the group had been there, 308 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: had been to the retreat before, so it was kind 309 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: of like. 310 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: A half sort of reunion. Yeah, yeah, I thought I 311 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 2: thought that was really cool too. Shout out to Retreat nineteen. 312 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 2: I felt like there was like a grounding that having 313 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 2: like people that have already come and like the people 314 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: that have never been, like provided for those people that 315 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 2: have flown so far across the world to be there like, 316 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 2: oh you've been here, We're good. Like yeah, bitch, you're good. 317 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then that's another thing, like people to fly 318 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: that far to trust us. Yeah. It was really special too, 319 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: because like I was like, damn, this is far. Yeah, 320 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: we're far, We're far from home. So it's for you 321 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: for somebody get on the plane and be like fuck it, 322 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: you know. So Yeah, and we had like we had 323 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 1: Sessha and her mom come Sandra, which it was really 324 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: nice to have a mom daughter duo. That was. It 325 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: was really sweet. And you just had a nice big gang. 326 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: It was really good. It was really good. Yeah. 327 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 2: And then I had the great idea of leaving Bali 328 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 2: the Dare retreat ended and going to Bangkok, Erica. Wait wait, 329 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 2: but but to that I wanted to I did ask you. 330 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 2: I said, it's gonna be intense, should we do it? 331 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 2: And you said yes. So I didn't just make these 332 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 2: decisions and these plans on my own. 333 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: Bitch, Okay, they're gonna have a bad habit being like yeah, 334 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: ya ya, I can handle it, yeaheah. Yeah, I'm like 335 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 1: I asked you. I was like Erica, we did I want. 336 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: I was like, I have this vision of us in 337 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: the middle of Bangkok with all of our ship from 338 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: fresh off of retreat. That's gonna be all say, and 339 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: being a container of bliss, a bliss bubble, and then 340 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: we're gonna get off the plane and be like what 341 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: the fuck. I told her that, and she was like, yeah, 342 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be for twenty power. It's gonna be fun. 343 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: She's like, care has been party crazy, and then we'll 344 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: go to the island and then we'll chill. And I 345 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: was like, are you did? Are you positive? Because you 346 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: in particular have a hard time going from my frequency 347 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: to the other. 348 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna have a hard time no matter what. 349 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 2: So it didn't matter what was gonna happen. 350 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: And baby, when I say we got we were in 351 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: Bali just like hang out and laying and lounging and 352 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: doing spiritual activities and yoga and chee gung and like 353 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: riding on the back of scooters and we went to 354 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: motherfucking Bangkok and like at first it seemed first of 355 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: all we landed, it's a huge, major city. I don't 356 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: know what I thought. 357 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 2: It was like this small, little cute, bumbling city. I 358 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,959 Speaker 2: mean I knew that. I knew that it was substantial 359 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: because it's it's always on the clocks, you know, like Milan, Bangkok, 360 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, Bangkok must be there must be 361 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: something going on. 362 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: When we landed, I was like, are we in New York? 363 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: Are we ina La, Like it's huge, And then I 364 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 1: think that's another thing. We didn't consider it. I mean 365 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: we considered it, but we were in Bali for two 366 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: weeks without any weed. So not only were we sober, 367 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: I mean as far as like flower went half the 368 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: like most of the girls in our retreat smoke weed, 369 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 1: so everybody was all a little bit fucking like what 370 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: the fuck I wasn't I didn't feel super were triggered 371 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: by not having weed, but I guess in hindsight it 372 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: would have been nice. 373 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 2: I think this is the first time, this is this 374 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: is the first time we've ever had a treat without 375 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 2: psilocybin or cannabis. 376 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And we drank some wine we didn't like 377 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: really drink heavily, and then we went to a beach club. 378 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: When we drank there, but it was mostly like very chill. 379 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 1: But as soon as we landed in Bangkok. First of all, 380 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: we had this grand idea, we're gonna check our We're 381 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: gonna check our stuff in a locker. We had like 382 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: a very planned out, very coursed out, I like organize 383 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: its plan in our heads. Even though some of it 384 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 1: was cutting a little bit close. We were like, this 385 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: is a great idea. It's gonna work out. We like 386 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: deuble checked it. So we get to Bangkok. We put 387 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: our stuff in lockers, two of our bags, three of 388 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: our bags because we can't travel all over Asia with 389 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: this shit because we put it in there. At the airport. 390 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: We go to our hotel. It seems very quiet and 391 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 1: it's like. 392 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 2: Literally we pull up to the hotel and I'm like, 393 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: are we in the financial district? 394 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: You know, like financial district? 395 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 2: Very quiet, like at night, no one's there. I was like, 396 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 2: I'm means, like, are you sure this this is the 397 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 2: this is the area that they said is like the 398 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 2: center bustling. 399 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, is it is a hotel? Open? 400 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 3: Like? 401 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: It seems very dead, So we go inside. It's very sterile. 402 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: Also like in like Asia, everything's like very sterile and clean. 403 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: We put our shit and we get into like midnight 404 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 1: and i'd also we also considered that we're getting into 405 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: Bangkok at midnight. And not only that, we left the 406 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: day of the retreat. We wrapped everything up and went 407 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: shopping and then left the day of the retreat, which 408 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: is something unheard of. We usually like take a day 409 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: a beat or several to like just chill. So we 410 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: bust all our ship down, our ship the fucking retreat. Shit, 411 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: get on a plane at bankock, put the ship in 412 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: the locker, get in a car, get the hotel. It's 413 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: like one o'clock in the morning. At this point, we like, 414 00:19:55,840 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: should we go outside and like find food? Bitch. First 415 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 1: of all, we like hit the corner and right immediately 416 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 1: outside of her door as a cannabis literally it's like glowing. 417 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: It's like a dispensary. And then I'm like, you think 418 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: it's open. It's one o'clock in the morning, and then 419 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: it's like twenty four hours wey. I was like, take 420 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: all of our money, like when you got sativa indicates hybrids. 421 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 2: She bought so many joints. I was like, bitch, rolling 422 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: here for one day. 423 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: Get to smoke it. And then they had like a 424 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: cafe you can go inside and smoke inside. So we're 425 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: in there like haven't smoked in two weeks, getting blazed 426 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: as fuck, just taking it to the head. And then 427 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: we're like, okay, let's go outside. That's ready, We're ready, 428 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: We're already go outside. So we start walking. Suddenly I'm 429 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: hearing so much music. I'm saying, like, oh, so many people. 430 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, where did all these fucking people karaoke singers? 431 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 2: I sing you're saying that guy was singing of those 432 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 2: rock songs. 433 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: Oh God, those guys was a band, And I guess 434 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 1: because they cater to white people. There is just a 435 00:20:55,440 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: lot of interesting white rock Asian cover bay. Yeah, but 436 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: they're like doing American accents. Anyway, we hit the corner 437 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: and bitch, bitch, I have never ever seen so many 438 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 1: prostitutes lined up in so many variety. 439 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 2: First of all, I look, I'm like Mila, like, Mila, 440 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 2: did you find this food? 441 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: Is that where I found? 442 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 2: I found a restaurant on her phone. We get to 443 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 2: the street and we're walking and I realized, like she's 444 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 2: not looking at her phone. 445 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, does she know where she's going? 446 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: And I'm like, where are we going? And she's like 447 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 2: I just look at her and she's just like a 448 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 2: deer in headlights, over stimulated, Like I like, let's stop 449 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 2: and look at the map. I realized we stopped like 450 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 2: right in front of a bunch of like lady boy prostitutes. 451 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 2: And she's just like I was like. 452 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know where I's going. 453 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Let's just go. 454 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, you're like, where are we walking. 455 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, I just walk move 456 00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: start moment. It was so over well made. First of all, 457 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 1: suddenly the lights was bright, there's neon lights. There was 458 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 1: people outside like it was three o'clock in the afternoon, 459 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 1: in front of like nice hotels. Yeah. Yeah, it was 460 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: just lined on the ship like the double tree, like 461 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: it was almost shoulder to shoulder. 462 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 2: They were and they were like the girl who looks 463 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 2: like she just got off off school. There was like 464 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 2: the slutty girl. Then there was like the lady boy 465 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 2: that was like are you a lady boy? 466 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: Or girl who was going to the mall? 467 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 2: She's like a girl going to the mall jeans. And 468 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: then on the other side we crossed the street because 469 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 2: it was like a heavy side of prostitution to across 470 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: the street and then like I see some black girls 471 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, maybe they're like taurists. No, there's 472 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 2: like a black corner prostitute. 473 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,239 Speaker 1: But then then I started to get confused and I 474 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 1: was like, is everybody prostitutes? And then I was like, 475 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:43,199 Speaker 1: are we prostitutes? 476 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 2: They probably thought after I was thinking. 477 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god. And then I 478 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: just started getting super paranoid. And then you started seeing 479 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: all these old white men, and then there's even he 480 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: job prostitutes. There's a corner of. 481 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 2: The women wearing heat jobs, and I at first I 482 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 2: was like is this Like why are they out here? 483 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: And I realized are they tourished too? 484 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,199 Speaker 2: To gets your religion? And then I was like, oh no, 485 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 2: this is a kink and they're wet and they're ready, And. 486 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: There's massage parlors everywhere, which is like is it a 487 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,239 Speaker 1: massage parlor? What's going in on there? It was just 488 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 1: very intense, and I was exactly like I thought it 489 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: would be us, me particularly like a deer in headlights. 490 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: And I was like and I was high, like I 491 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: had just gotten high after two weeks. It just seemed 492 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: very That's what it was. 493 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 2: I was so high, so high, And then I went 494 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 2: there and I was just like everything was moving and 495 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 2: slow mover. 496 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like almost moving fast but slow. I 497 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,719 Speaker 1: was moving slow but everything was moving fast. Yeah, it was. 498 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:39,239 Speaker 1: It was I don't know. 499 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 2: I was like I fall. 500 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: I was clutching my pearls. 501 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 2: I was like, who am I I was? 502 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: And I was like this is crazy. It was really crazy. 503 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: But finally we figured it out. We got to a corner, 504 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: we found a fucking what are those things called tiktook 505 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 1: and we're like, just take us to the best tide food. Wait. 506 00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,959 Speaker 2: So then he's taking us on the back of his 507 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 2: TikTok and he's like taking us like down like streets 508 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 2: that I like have not a lot of cars and empty. 509 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: I'm thinking like, oh no, like the stupid bitches, Like 510 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 2: now we got in the back, is he gonna kill us? 511 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: Like maybe? Literally? 512 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 2: I was like, there's no one over here. What if 513 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 2: he's delivering us to his friends? And then we pull 514 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 2: up to like this like twenty four hour night market 515 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 2: and then we ate the bombist fucking Thai food ever 516 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: first of all Thai. 517 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,159 Speaker 1: Food in general. 518 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 2: She told me yesterday that a new report came out 519 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 2: that said Thailand has the best food, number one in 520 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 2: the world, and I was like, that makes sense. 521 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: You might get swollen from from what was it, m 522 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: MSG MSG. 523 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: I don't even know if MSG makes you swollen. It's 524 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 2: everyone's saying it's the salt and the sugar. The salt 525 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 2: and the sugar wasn't MSG salt. 526 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 1: I don't know. 527 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 2: Did you send me some shit about MSG not being 528 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 2: that bad? 529 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know. I'm confused, but I don't know. 530 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: All I know is I was beautiful and bali, but 531 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: by day fucking three in Thailand, we woke up and 532 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: our faces versus so swollen. I was like, why do 533 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: we look like this? We didn't even drink that much. 534 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: But apparently, I don't know. I don't know. I was 535 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: not pretty in Thailand. That was hideous inland, like I 536 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: just did. Had you had two black eyes for some reason? Black? Ah? 537 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: I get hit last night? The fuck is going on? 538 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 2: Before we left Thailand, I mean before we left Bangkok, 539 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 2: Miela was like, do you want to go to the 540 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 2: ping Pong show? And I was like, what the fuck's 541 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: the ping pong show? She's like, Oh, you haven't heard 542 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: of the ping pong show. 543 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: I can't eve you never heard of the ping pong show. 544 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 2: I've never heard of ping pong show, and I'm probably 545 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: the reasons why is because it's famous. Basically, ping pong 546 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 2: show is a sex show in Thailand, but this wasn't 547 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 2: even they weren't even having I thought I was gonna 548 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 2: see some like actual sex sex activity is happening. So 549 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 2: we go. I look up like the like where's the 550 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 2: ping pong shows? And there's like three different like neighborhoods 551 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 2: that have the ping pong shows. 552 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: So we went to the first one. Did we ever 553 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: get to all three? We only went to two. 554 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,640 Speaker 2: We went to like Soy Cowboy, and then we went 555 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: to like I think it's like the OG one number four. 556 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: The first one was like. 557 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 2: The OG one that we didn't get to. No, the 558 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 2: first one we went to buy our hotel. Yeah, I 559 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: think that was like the old school. No, the Soy 560 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 2: Cowboy was by our hotel. The first one we went to, 561 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: which was really sad. That one I think is like 562 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 2: the original ping pong area show. And so we walked 563 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 2: in and I'm like not knowing what to expect, and 564 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 2: like there's this like stage in the middle of the room, 565 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,679 Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, this like woman comes up 566 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 2: literally schleps herself up. 567 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 1: She looks like this, literally, she looks like she just 568 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: woke up out of bed. 569 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 2: I am one hundred percent sure that they have rooms 570 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 2: up there, maybe not even beds, and there's just like 571 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 2: maybe like thirty women sleep all day long and they're 572 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 2: just waiting for their shifts to start, and they just 573 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 2: peel their like pasty pajamas off and then they just 574 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 2: get out there. I feel like they were dressed like 575 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 2: the Korean ladies at the Korean spot like this have 576 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 2: like regular black brawls and black panties. 577 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: Like a full butt like panty. But it was really weird. 578 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: And then I started to look around at the people 579 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: like who else was there? Like who is watching this? 580 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: And it's just a bunch rose and rose and rows 581 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: of white men. And they're like young like bros, like 582 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 1: fraternity looking ones. There's like older ones, old old ones, 583 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: and they're like kissing the prostitutes in the in the 584 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 1: mouths crazy. Like the most like eye opening thing to 585 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: me is that they were like engaged, like they really 586 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: like they I don't know if they've tricked themselves into 587 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,800 Speaker 1: thinking these women like them that barely speak English, or 588 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: what the fuck is happening? But it really like let me, 589 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 1: It really gave me insight into the white man. It 590 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: made me disgusted. I was discussed the white man. 591 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 2: And now every time I see an older white man, 592 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 2: I'm like in Thailand. 593 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 1: Because you know what it is. It's like it's one 594 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: thing to go to the strip club. Here in the 595 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 1: bitch are like entertaining or like there's a little bit 596 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: of like hope and life in their eye and they're 597 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: like dancing and shit. Here it's like the life is 598 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: not in their eyes. They're not there, they don't care. 599 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: And then like the men are participating it fully, like 600 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: they don't even like it's almost that they came for that. 601 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 1: I saw the lifelessness. 602 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 2: I saw a man with a one compression sock on 603 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 2: birken stocks like some swim trunks and a dirty polo. 604 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 2: They don't even give a fuck. 605 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: They don't even read Ry, Middle America, German, Polish, New 606 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: Zealand like everywhere. 607 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 2: I just want to say, if you know an old 608 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 2: white man in your life or a white man in 609 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 2: your life, and I'm sorry if this is your dad, 610 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 2: that makes any sort of trips to Asia. I'm gonna 611 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: go ahead and let you know that he'd un dabbled, 612 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 2: un dabbled with either just a regular old Thailand prostitute 613 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 2: or perhaps lady boy. Because the amount of white old 614 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 2: men that I saw there that I could see, I 615 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 2: could just place them right here. I was like, this 616 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 2: is crazy. 617 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: No, it was, it was. And then the women were 618 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: like popping the wait. 619 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 2: The lady comes out. She comes out, schlaps herself on 620 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 2: stage with her literally like Howmula said. 621 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: Her hair was the like braid unbraided, just like whatever, 622 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: no smile. 623 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: She comes out, she takes her panties off, and all 624 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 2: of a sudden, just out of nowhere, not a twrque, 625 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 2: not a sexy dance. 626 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: I don't know how she took them all the way off. 627 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: It was like it wasn't. 628 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: Even like a not a sway of the hip. 629 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: Bitch. 630 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 2: She just starts pulling glow in the dark string out 631 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 2: of her pussy with this face like casually and then 632 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: just wrapping it around the poles and just like then 633 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 2: then then okay, so then her shift was over. And 634 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 2: then another bitch came on who looked like an og. 635 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 2: She'd been there for a long time. She had like 636 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 2: a bowl of ping pongs and I was like, oh, 637 00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 2: this is why they call it the ping Pong Show. 638 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 2: I got the ping Pong preview and prior to this, 639 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 2: just let's rewind one day before. We're on the plane 640 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 2: to Bangkok. Me and mil are sitting in two different seats. 641 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 2: I see her talking to this white like young white 642 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 2: guy and he's like from Australia, like, yeah, like I 643 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 2: went through my spiritual awakening and like my friends, I 644 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 2: don't really understand, like we. 645 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: Wouldn't listen to podcast plane. 646 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 2: Oh well, I guarantee you he's off in his white world. 647 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: I just I enlighten. 648 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm enlightened and I'm with my friends and they don't 649 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 2: like I don't know if they said this. I'm making 650 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 2: this up at this point, but like they don't understand 651 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 2: where I'm at now, and I would never have even 652 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 2: been able to have this conversation before. Fast forward twenty 653 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 2: four hours, we're at the Ping Pong Show. This nigga 654 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 2: is sitting next He's sitting in the crowd and I'm like, 655 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 2: hees like, oh my god, that's the guy from the plane. 656 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 2: So my friend from the plane the woman comes out 657 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: with the ping pongs in a bowl which I think 658 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 2: it might have been baby oil water. 659 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 660 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 2: The balls are in this substance, and she just starts 661 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 2: like pulling, putting them in her pussy. But like, again, 662 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 2: not a dance, not a torque, A little like. 663 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 1: She smelled a little bit. 664 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: I'm saying there was not a no noctual movement, no 665 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 2: sensual performance. 666 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: It's just the ping pong, ping pong in the puss. 667 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 2: She just put them in there, and then she gives 668 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,239 Speaker 2: one to me let it and I was like, oh 669 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 2: my god, oh my god, Mila, you're gonna do this. 670 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm stressed, like pushed my hands and like popped it in. 671 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: But then the guys line up on the fucking stage 672 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: and like. 673 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 2: Get underneath between her legs and she pops the ping 674 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 2: pongs in their mouth from her pussy. Okay, okay. 675 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: They're taking turns and they're like whoa. 676 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 2: And that guy who just had his awakening, he was 677 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 2: up in line and he captured When I saw him 678 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 2: the joy in his eyes from capturing. 679 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 1: This sixty year old ping pong. She was around six. 680 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: She was probably sixty sixty year old. 681 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 2: Oiled up ping pong pussy pong in his mouth. I 682 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: was like, I don't trust white men at all again. 683 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 5: I mean, I think that this trip made me like, yeah, 684 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 5: for sure, for sure, it was really it was an 685 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 5: interesting And then they have like they have visa shops 686 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 5: right next to the bridle shop, like next to the 687 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 5: bride dress. 688 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: I mean the bride dress. You know what the fuck 689 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. But I'm the bridle shop, the bridle shop. 690 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 1: So it's like, you know you're coming here because you're 691 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: a loser. You literally can't here because you're a loser, 692 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: and you can't get bitches wherever you're from or whatever, 693 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: like kinky shit you're into you can't ask for. But 694 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: it's like you want a bitch to pretend that she 695 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: likes you, and you're kind of into the pretending, even 696 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: though she's not even speaking English, she's barely smiling. Like 697 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: this is a very dark I feel like I stepped 698 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: into the dark world, like the dark web. 699 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: It just felt murky, it felt low, low vibrational. I'm 700 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 2: not gonna lie, I felt I just felt weird in Bangkok. 701 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 2: I don't I don't know if I need to go 702 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 2: there again. 703 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: I maybe I mean, I, well, we did have some 704 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 1: good times. Like then the next day I went and 705 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: got my nails done, you know, I took a little 706 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: rides looking out the window, and it was nice, look 707 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: like a big city. Lots of malls, all the high 708 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: end fashion department stores. This beautiful park which went through. 709 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: It's like this wonderful, beautiful park, look like the fucking 710 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: Central Park of fucking Bancasia. Yeah, it was really beautiful, 711 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: all these huge lotuses and like nature. We attempted to 712 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: take a train. Oh yeah, we attempted to take a train, 713 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: but it didn't work out. It did work out, it 714 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: will stop. 715 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 2: Didn't get it out. 716 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: First we got there and we tried to give him 717 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: more cards and like we don't take card and we 718 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: didn't have any more bankcocky cash what. 719 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 2: Is it called fat we have him or bought. 720 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 1: We had to borrow some money from some strangers that 721 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: gave it to us. We were like, can we just 722 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: buy a round trip if there's a minimum in the card. 723 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: They were like no, they don't give a fuck about 724 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: anything like our credit cards. Nothing. 725 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 2: They're they're one of the one of the few places 726 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: that are not colonized. And it's for real have been 727 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 2: sucked up. So we got on the train. The train 728 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 2: then stopped like one stop from where we were going. 729 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 2: We were trying to go see the reclining Buddha, the 730 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:09,800 Speaker 2: reclining gold Buddha. 731 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: And you have to wear like armpits, you have to 732 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 1: wear full like you have to wear cover your legs 733 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: and your arms. So we were in full outfits. It 734 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 1: was hot as fuck. Got we thought we were taking 735 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: a cab. We got dropped off. We were going to 736 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: the wrong Buddha. Apparently. We walked through this park for 737 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: like thirty minutes, try to get on the train. The 738 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: train stopped. It just seemed like impossible to do anything 739 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: that we wanted to do. It was so much fucking traffic. 740 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: We didn't have any more bought, Like what the fuck? 741 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 1: It was really getting intense. We couldn't find our cab. 742 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 1: We finally made it to the Buddha. We got on 743 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: a fucking it was beautiful. Buddha was beautiful, he was reclining. 744 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: He was big, he was big, he was golden, he 745 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 1: was reclining. We went to We took up a how 746 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,439 Speaker 1: do you say it? Took took to Chinatown because Erica 747 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: found some secret redded article that there was some Chinatown 748 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,840 Speaker 1: food that and we had to go get some curry. 749 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: It was good. It was really good in a back 750 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: alley somewhere. And then we decided were gonna get bougie 751 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: and went to the Skybar, which I think is featured 752 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,320 Speaker 1: in Hangover in the movie is it? Yeah? Oh, and 753 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 1: it has like sixty four floors, so we went to 754 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 1: the sixty fourth floor. We were like, whoa, we're rich, 755 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: We're Bangkok baby. We went to the Golden Buddha, even 756 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: though it took us eight hours to get there, and 757 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 1: it's like really beautiful all the time, like a fancy restaurant. 758 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: There's like this lady singing like videos of her smooth 759 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: jaz no motion singing, Yeah, like slow motion top like 760 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: we will see the whole city of Bangkok. I start 761 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: ordering shots. I'm like, yeah, nineteen forty two, two of them. 762 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: So we take like three shots each. At the end 763 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 1: and like slide over the check. 764 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 2: And I like do the I do the currency and 765 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: I'm like I'm like that can't be right, so let 766 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 2: me do that one more time. I was like, Mila, 767 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 2: did you ask how much these shots were? 768 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 1: I was like, I do the mast. I feel like, yeah, 769 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,240 Speaker 1: they're like twenty dollars a shot, just thirty dollars. 770 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 2: No bitch bill was five hundred dollars, like five hundred 771 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 2: and fifty nine dollars or some stupid shit. 772 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 1: I was like. I was like, oh, maybe I did 773 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 1: the mass and I did. 774 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 2: It, like we might as well bought a bottle rich, 775 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 2: like fuck. 776 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: We're rich. Whatever our celebration, our celebration shots. Then yeah, 777 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: we continued the night. That's when we went to go 778 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: to Ping the Ping Pong Show, and then we went 779 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: to we tried to go to another one because we're like, 780 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: there's no way, there's no way, this is it. We 781 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,280 Speaker 1: were dedicated. So then we got to like Nancy's Playground. 782 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 2: We went to Soy Cowboy and that's where Rainbow was at. 783 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: Okay, so we went to Rainbow and I was like, 784 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: does this mean lady boys? Like what's in there? Then 785 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: I just got kept getting weirder, Like then they were younger, 786 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,280 Speaker 1: and like in Thailand, the beauty standard is like white, 787 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 1: like it's literally like anime. So they're like all these 788 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: girls who are like doing these weird movement. 789 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,760 Speaker 2: I felt like I was in a video game. 790 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 4: Like. 791 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:55,799 Speaker 1: I was like. 792 00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 2: I was like, why didn't think she keep coming up 793 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 2: just doing that? Maybe you know what I thought about 794 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 2: it later, I was like, maybe she was like waiting 795 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 2: for us to give her the okay to like come 796 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 2: over to us, and like you are ho, like, I 797 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 2: don't know what. 798 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,319 Speaker 1: I think. It's like an anime, Like it's like a 799 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,959 Speaker 1: is it an anime thing? Yeah, it's a cute sea thing. 800 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: That's cute. See. Yeah, So we were like just sitting. 801 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: First of all, we're still high, so we're still fucking 802 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,280 Speaker 1: confused the whole time, hope. And they were like dancing 803 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:24,880 Speaker 1: a little bit. But then they have these numbers on 804 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: the stand on the stage cattle. They just stay on 805 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: the stage like doing weird things. 806 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: Like and some of them weren't even paying attention pH 807 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 2: just chilling like waiting for someone to pick them. 808 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: And the guys again making out full blown mouth to 809 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,959 Speaker 1: mouth with the fucking prostitutes. I was like, you're gonna 810 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,839 Speaker 1: go home in case your wives with those mouths, which 811 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: is crazy. 812 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 2: The kids, oh my god, all the babies. 813 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: And then I had this brilliant idea that I was 814 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: gonna go back and see what was going on. But 815 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: then I got scared, you're. 816 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 2: Gonna go back. 817 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,399 Speaker 1: Remember, I was like, I'm gonna like I've got lost 818 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 1: and go to the bathroom. But I'm just, oh, yeah, 819 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 1: I should have done it. I was like, we should 820 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: have tried to, like turned my phone so investigating? 821 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:03,839 Speaker 2: Was that that one or is that the other strip 822 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 2: club you went to? 823 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: That was the other strip club? Were with Aaron? Then 824 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 1: I went to both. 825 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were committed to trying to find at least 826 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 2: essential movement of dance of something. 827 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: We went to another strip club and. 828 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 2: That one was where I had had it. I had 829 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 2: had it. I was checked out. I saw like a 830 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 2: thirteen year old girl that served me be alcohol and 831 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,440 Speaker 2: I was like, no, I. 832 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 1: Think her family owned the bar. I don't care. She 833 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: was around, she was wearing like sneakers, she was school. 834 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 2: She was wearing Mary Jane and I'll never forget, and 835 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 2: socks and socks. And then even the way she ran 836 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 2: she ran. 837 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: I saw her run and she can use her arms 838 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 1: like a child, like you know how kids run when 839 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 1: they were still learning their bodies. I'm pretty sure the 840 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 1: Indian family owned the bar, and so she was the waitress, 841 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 1: the brother was the bartender, and then and then like 842 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 1: the old house moms, the Asian house moms, they owned 843 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: the strippers. Yeah, And then there was so there. 844 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 2: I could tell some of the strippers were undera which 845 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 2: I just knew they were underage, and it just made 846 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 2: me really uncomfortable. 847 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:03,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I can't. 848 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 2: Then one of them came up to us. She had 849 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:10,280 Speaker 2: braces and I think she was trying to be a sailor. 850 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 2: There was like one that was actually more of a 851 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 2: sexy sailor, and then it was her. She had a 852 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 2: sailor outfit on, and I was like, this girl's probably seventeen. 853 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 1: And she came over. 854 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,360 Speaker 2: They came over to us to dance on us, and 855 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 2: they and I was like, get away from me. And 856 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,840 Speaker 2: so she was on aaron and she lifted up her 857 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,320 Speaker 2: fucking skirt and I couldn't believe it because she looked 858 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 2: so just like not like the bitch that would have 859 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,359 Speaker 2: this tattooed on her ass and it just said fuck 860 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 2: me on her ass. But she looked like not even 861 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,760 Speaker 2: like she looked innocent, but just kind of just. 862 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,240 Speaker 1: Regular regular, It's regular. 863 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, we gotta go. 864 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 1: It was very interesting, and that was even more depressing. 865 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 2: Was next to us, was this, were these two white 866 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 2: guys and their wives. 867 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: Okay, one of the life even know if one was 868 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,719 Speaker 1: definitely the wife because she looked like, I fucking hate 869 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 1: my life. I hate him. He got and obviously he 870 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: was like drinking absolute absolute bottle, like they had a 871 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 1: bottle that he thought he was really doing something that 872 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,319 Speaker 1: was absolute. And he'd obviously got in like fucked up. 873 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: And you know how white guys get when they get 874 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,759 Speaker 1: fucked up, they get real loosey goosey. He was like 875 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,799 Speaker 1: touching his friend's dick, like trying to play each other. 876 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: He was like letting the lady boys sit on his lap. 877 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:26,880 Speaker 1: And the wife was like, do you. 878 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 2: Know what's even worse is that she had a full 879 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,959 Speaker 2: broken leg. Oh yeah, she had a fully broken leg, 880 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 2: fully casted. I saw him get her up and scooed 881 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:38,879 Speaker 2: her to try to get to the bathroom. She looked 882 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 2: like she was in so much pain. She looked like 883 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,360 Speaker 2: she was fucking but not only that, like she actually 884 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 2: like she was in pain and that. 885 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: Hers was dating. 886 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 2: Wait, so she gets to the bathroom. The moment she disappears, 887 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 2: he goes and makes out with one of these fucking prostitutes. 888 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck was up? And then 889 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 2: she came back. But the other guy, I'm pretty sure 890 00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 2: that was his wife. They were on a like a 891 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,839 Speaker 2: that was his white I feel like I had been 892 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 2: broken in already. She's been she's been doing dealing with 893 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 2: his fuck shit for years. Okay, she had been down 894 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,399 Speaker 2: a lady boy path of him in nineteen ninety four. 895 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,439 Speaker 1: Okay. She was like if you could imagine like a 896 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: round red, middle aged white man with khaki shorts to 897 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 1: hear the three button and her outfit. 898 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,760 Speaker 2: She had a full white collar. 899 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: It was like ruffles with ruffles and like these highs 900 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: and like a quarter a quarter skirt. It was the 901 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 1: very she was into it. 902 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 2: She was there for She was like, baby, have a 903 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 2: good time. 904 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 1: There was one who was in with it and the 905 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,800 Speaker 1: other one who looked like she was she gotta kill herself. 906 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: Literally she looks I felt like she felt I was 907 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,799 Speaker 1: looking at her and I was miserable, like so embarrassed. 908 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 1: I get to see the face of embarrassment. It was 909 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 1: really intense, Tyler. Yeah, Thailand was intense, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful 910 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: and also devotional. Lots of temples, lots of Buddhas, but 911 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 1: that's that red light district there, baby, is districting. And 912 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: then we decided, after all of the ping punk shows 913 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 1: and the Horse and the Rainbow club that we were 914 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: going to When I say hoores, I mean sex workers, 915 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 1: we were going to go get a massage on the strip. 916 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, are they going to try? And like, 917 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 1: I googled it. 918 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 2: I googled it. I googled that place. 919 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: Oh and then yeah, I read. 920 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 2: Reviews first before we went to that place. 921 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 1: Three am and we go get in. Fucking it was great, 922 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 1: an hour and two hour massage, and then we thought 923 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna get in a plane. 924 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 2: I know. We went to sleep and we woke up 925 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 2: and I was like our flights. At six am. After 926 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 2: the massage was over, got the airport. We got back 927 00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,439 Speaker 2: to the room and I was like our airport, we need. 928 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: To leave in an hour. We're like, it's not going 929 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: to happen. We can't make it. No, so we postponed 930 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: like two hours. 931 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,480 Speaker 2: So we flew to KOs Samoy and that's when we 932 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 2: that's when we had this is what's leading us now 933 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 2: to our bad choice of the week. 934 00:42:54,560 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 6: Okay, bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom. 935 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:09,800 Speaker 1: So because we had all this luggage. 936 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 2: We decided to leave our luggage in Bangkok at the 937 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 2: airport because they had these you know, these luggage company 938 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,359 Speaker 2: aged lockers that will take your luggage for a very 939 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,319 Speaker 2: minimal price versus spending four hundred dollars to try to 940 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 2: bring them with us. 941 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: So we leave the luggage. 942 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 2: We go to Kosamoy, have a time there, stay in 943 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 2: a haunted house, which Miela may have made us all 944 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 2: believe it was haunted house, and then it actually was, 945 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 2: or maybe it wasn't. I don't know, but I felt 946 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 2: like if there were spirits in this mother fucking house. 947 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 1: It was a huge glass house on the top of 948 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 1: a hill and it was windy, so every time anything good, 949 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 1: it wasn't even that it was the house lady that 950 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,320 Speaker 1: was sleeping in the back and her husband had just died, 951 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 1: and I was convinced that he pind of died on. 952 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 2: Property and he was roaming the property. She kept like 953 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 2: just coming in again, and she just kept coming in 954 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 2: the house like out of nowhere, we just pop in 955 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:01,839 Speaker 2: the house. I'm like, bitch this airlin anyway, And after 956 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,320 Speaker 2: like twenty two thousand nine dollars ninety minute massages in 957 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,799 Speaker 2: Thailand and lots and lots of meals, and we chilled 958 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 2: a lot there. We just kind of chilled there. We 959 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,480 Speaker 2: fly back to Bangkok to retrieve our luggage and fly 960 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 2: our asses back home. We have very minimal time. We 961 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 2: know we're cutting it close. We're like, okay, this is 962 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 2: the only flight out right out of Bangkok. I think 963 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,359 Speaker 2: we have like an hour to make our flight. It's 964 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 2: gonna be perfect. Pick up our luggage, and we're just 965 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 2: gonna get out and check in. 966 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,919 Speaker 1: We're gonna go, We're gonna be then we're gonna be home. 967 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,960 Speaker 2: So we land, We're like waiting at the to retrieve 968 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,279 Speaker 2: our luggage, just taking forever, and like, just go get 969 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 2: the luggage. 970 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 1: Just go pick up the luggage. I'll get. 971 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 2: I'll get all our luggage that we brought to KOSOMOI 972 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,560 Speaker 2: at the whatever their luggage dispenser thing. So I'm like 973 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,760 Speaker 2: all right, So I go to go get our luggage 974 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 2: and I give them our luggage tags and they're like 975 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 2: looking at it. They're like talking to one another, and 976 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck is going on? And they're 977 00:44:55,800 --> 00:45:00,400 Speaker 2: like giggling and like like they're laughing at yes, And 978 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 2: I was like, what's going on and they're like, you're 979 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 2: at the wrong airport and I was like, no, what 980 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 2: do you what are you talking about? Like, no, your 981 00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,880 Speaker 2: luggage is at another airport and I was like, this 982 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 2: is the International Bancock airport. They're like there's two International 983 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 2: Bankok airports KK and D and something else some other shit, yeah, 984 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 2: dmong or something DM. I was like, what do you mean? 985 00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 2: I was like how far is the airport? An hour away? 986 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: I'm like I called me. 987 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch. I was like what She's like, ouage 988 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,120 Speaker 2: doesn't come out yet. We're like what the fuck. And 989 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, you're about to be what the fuck more 990 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,799 Speaker 2: right now? And I was like, our luggage is not 991 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 2: here here. 992 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 1: Like what the fuck do you mean? It's not here? 993 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,279 Speaker 1: Is at the other airport? I was like, are you 994 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:45,960 Speaker 1: fucking kidding me? 995 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 2: And at this point, we've been in fucking Asia for 996 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 2: three weeks. We're ready to go home. We're swollen, We've 997 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,280 Speaker 2: been massaged till we're flat. 998 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: I got a massage a fruk out on the plane, 999 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 1: like the very laud was like pick me up. All 1000 00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: the way to the airport, I'm getting massage. 1001 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 2: I'm like mentally prepared for this seventeen hour travel day. Like, 1002 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,000 Speaker 2: so I'm like, what are we gonna do? Like, are 1003 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 2: we gonna have to say We're gonna have to stay 1004 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 2: another day? Like there's no other option. Shout out to 1005 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 2: our friend Aaron, because she left the day after, two 1006 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 2: days after US came through. She was going to Bangkok, 1007 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:22,200 Speaker 2: and I asked her. I don't even know I asked her, 1008 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 2: but I still have told her. I said, this is 1009 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,439 Speaker 2: what I need to do. We need you to do this. 1010 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 1: Thank oh God, only this kind of shit happens to us. 1011 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 1: But this bitch already had three bags because she always overpacks, 1012 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 1: even though she's an international triver. 1013 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,760 Speaker 2: We had four bags she had. 1014 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:42,400 Speaker 1: I thought she had three, two carry on and two checked. 1015 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: And then we had three bags seven bags. It's not 1016 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 1: like Lax to New York, bitch, Bangkok to San Francisco. 1017 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,000 Speaker 1: She's not even going to We still don't have our luggage. 1018 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: She has our luggage in her apartment right now. 1019 00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: Wait, so she leaves two days after us, so we're like, okay, 1020 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: just please bring it back for us. 1021 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 2: We'll get pay whatever the costs. 1022 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry this bitch calls me at one in the morning. 1023 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 1: I'd like just fallen asleep. She's like calls me and 1024 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:13,400 Speaker 1: like hello. I'm like what. She's like, what the fucking 1025 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: in your bag? I'm like, what are you talking about? 1026 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 1: What is in your bag? Bitch? 1027 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 2: I'm at the airport. 1028 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 1: They pulled me to the side. I'm like, what are 1029 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: you talking about. I'm like just like all dis arrayed 1030 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 1: because I just WoT gup. I'm jetlagged. Like huh what. 1031 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 1: She's like, what is it your bag? I was like, 1032 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 1: nothing's in our bag. 1033 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 2: And she's like, they pulled me at the gate. 1034 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: They pulled me aside. They strip searched me, and like 1035 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 1: they strip searched you. She's like, oh, I'm ring is 1036 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 1: a tic top, but they made me take it off. 1037 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 1: I was like, nothing's in the bag. And then I 1038 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 1: start fucking tripping, like what's in the bag is immediately 1039 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 1: leading the body calls me at one am. I'm up 1040 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,759 Speaker 1: watching the beast in me. I'm like, I don't know 1041 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 1: what the fuck's the bad She's like an aaron. She's like, 1042 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,919 Speaker 1: I'm about to miss my flight. I'm about to miss 1043 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: my flight. I should never I've done this. What kind 1044 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,520 Speaker 1: of company is it? I was like it had a 1045 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: sign it's in the airport. 1046 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 2: It's reputable, I think. 1047 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: So she's fucking tripping. I'm tripping. I'm thinking, oh my god, 1048 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: I have to fly back to Bangkok. I'm having to 1049 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 1: get this bitch a lawyer. What's in the bag. 1050 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 2: And then she's like baking down palace and. 1051 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 1: She's like, I gotta go, I gotta go by. And 1052 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,760 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, we should have stayed 1053 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 1: with our own bags. I call it Erica, and I'm like, 1054 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,160 Speaker 1: this bitch is stuck at the airport. They stopped her, 1055 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 1: her flames, her planes about the laser, not letting her 1056 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:32,919 Speaker 1: on the flight. 1057 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 2: What's in the bags? 1058 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know. I'm like copal maybe cople. 1059 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:38,360 Speaker 1: They think it's drugs. 1060 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,680 Speaker 2: It's freebasing, free basing cople. 1061 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,400 Speaker 1: She fucking calls me back. I'm fucking in my bed, 1062 00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: like I'm like fucking racking my brain. What's in this bag? 1063 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 1: She calls me back like it was your cow head. 1064 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 2: They thought I was They thought I was sure I. 1065 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 1: Was porting your carcass. I bought back like a like 1066 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,839 Speaker 1: a cow head with like horns for my living room. 1067 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 1: And she's like, there's like twenty offers and twenty officers 1068 00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,880 Speaker 1: in there and they're just fucking laughing, like oh, and 1069 00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 1: then they let her get on the plane's cowhead. It 1070 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:18,319 Speaker 1: was real though, but I yeah, so that was fucking traumatizing. 1071 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: Why the fuck that the strip searcher for a cow 1072 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck. 1073 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 2: They just want to see her titties, but they better 1074 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,760 Speaker 2: fucking they better have my fucking it better be intact 1075 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:28,359 Speaker 2: when I get it. 1076 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,240 Speaker 1: So now it's in now our seven in San Francisco. 1077 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: I remember we have a tribe member. Shout out to 1078 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,680 Speaker 1: Asia who had helped us. Like five years ago. We 1079 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,719 Speaker 1: had like put on Instagram like can someone help us out? 1080 00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:39,839 Speaker 1: We have a photo shoot? 1081 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 2: Does anyone want to help us today? 1082 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 1: Because who who recruits people like that us? She was like, yeah, 1083 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:48,439 Speaker 1: I'm from Oakland, but I'm in town and I'll help 1084 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 1: you guys. I remember that she lives in Oakland. I'm like, 1085 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 1: let me text her, hey, girl, do you mind picking 1086 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 1: up our luggage from this other girl and putting it 1087 00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: on the Greyhound. So she calls me today like, oh, 1088 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 1: the Great Hound doesn't do that. They haven't done that 1089 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:02,719 Speaker 1: since twenty twenty. I was like, I did use that 1090 00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 1: method in college. So that was not used it before? No, 1091 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:07,839 Speaker 1: that was FedEx, wasn't it. 1092 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 7: No? 1093 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 2: We use it in att was it Atlanta? We use 1094 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 2: it for touring? We put our shirit on a Greyhound. 1095 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: We did. Yes, Okay, that's why because I got that 1096 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,000 Speaker 1: from when I so that was the last time. Yeah. 1097 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 1: So she just calls me and says that is no 1098 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,759 Speaker 1: longer and if we put on the Amtrak it's four 1099 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,760 Speaker 1: hundred dollars. She's like, I can just drive it down. 1100 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, the saga of this mother fucking luggage, bitch, 1101 00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:34,400 Speaker 1: this fucking luggage. I'm taking everything out, burning the luggage. 1102 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,440 Speaker 1: This is done. It's bad luck. I cannot believe the 1103 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:42,120 Speaker 1: saga of this luggage. So now either hopefully she wants 1104 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: to come to LA and bring it, please Age come down, 1105 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,359 Speaker 1: or else I'm gonna be taking a fucking road trip. 1106 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 1: But there in back to get these fucking this fucking cow 1107 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 1: head that cow had better fucking I want my ugg boots. 1108 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 2: We had a layover in Australia and I got uggs. 1109 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:56,280 Speaker 2: I got real authentic. 1110 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,879 Speaker 1: That's like only just happened to us. 1111 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 2: Only this would I just I know, it's like, you know, 1112 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,720 Speaker 2: whenever we put our like our good Mon's Bad Choices 1113 00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 2: in chat Cheptea. It always like and me and you'll 1114 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 2: always get offended because it's like good Mon's Bad Choices 1115 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 2: hosted by Erica Mila mixture of motherhood and chaos, k 1116 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,120 Speaker 2: like chaotic free and I was like, wow, I keep 1117 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 2: calling us chaotic? 1118 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,120 Speaker 1: What in the white people word is this? And then 1119 00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: there were several times on this ship and I was like, 1120 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: I think chat Chipeach is right. We are chaotic. How 1121 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 1: do they know it's better than us? There was a 1122 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,879 Speaker 1: couple of times I was like, fuck chat sheep tea. 1123 00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,840 Speaker 1: It was chaotic. So hopefully you know now in the 1124 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:40,320 Speaker 1: next two weeks we'll see those things again. Yeah, looking 1125 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,759 Speaker 1: forward to that. My eggs, I don't remember it's in there. 1126 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,400 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I just have so many masks that 1127 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: I bought in Bali because I went by myself to 1128 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 1: the marketplace, which was also overwhelming and cold or landa like, 1129 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,279 Speaker 1: I don't know, there's they're preyer pressuring me to buy 1130 00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:00,839 Speaker 1: so much stuff. It's hot, I'm confused to drink. Why 1131 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,840 Speaker 1: am I here by myself shopping in Bali by myself? 1132 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 1: And then a monkey jumped on my purse. I was like, Okay, 1133 00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,359 Speaker 1: I'm done, I'm done. I gotta go to a bar. 1134 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 1: But it was fun. Other than that, it was really fun. 1135 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,759 Speaker 1: I definitely want to do Bali again. I hope that 1136 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 1: we can do Bali next year again because I want 1137 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:21,239 Speaker 1: to go back to that fucking house and just go 1138 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 1: visit that female priestess and like go to all the 1139 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 1: water blessings and just do all the things that we 1140 00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 1: didn't get to do. So I'm really I'm looking forward 1141 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:33,879 Speaker 1: to that. Me too. Me too. And if you're looking 1142 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,879 Speaker 1: forward to having a free, not so chaotic time at 1143 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 1: a Good Fibe retreat, we have three more spots left 1144 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 1: at our Jamaica Flower Goddess Retreat, and we just launched 1145 00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 1: a Mommy My Retreat in Costa Rica. We're doing our 1146 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:53,239 Speaker 1: annual women's retreat in Costa Rica and because we love you, 1147 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,399 Speaker 1: it is cyber Monday for a week and we are 1148 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,239 Speaker 1: giving twenty percent off all of the retreats that are 1149 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,200 Speaker 1: up right now. That's like eight hundred dollars, So don't sleep. 1150 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 2: So click the link, go to our we travel, use 1151 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 2: the code cyber Monday and get your twenty percent off. 1152 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 2: All you gotta do is put down your deposit and 1153 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,880 Speaker 2: then you can pay up until you're twenty twenty six retreats. 1154 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: So no excuses, treat yourself, don't cheat yourself. Yes, all inclusive, 1155 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,840 Speaker 1: all activities included. You're gonna meet fun people, have a 1156 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:29,720 Speaker 1: good time and yeah eat and hang out with us. 1157 00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 2: Your favorite chaotic moms do like. 1158 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: Should be excited. We swear it was so much fun. 1159 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 2: Well, that was a great recap that there was a 1160 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 2: lot more in there, but we don't have enough time. 1161 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 1: We were shocked in Bangkok, very shocked. I highly recommend. 1162 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,360 Speaker 1: I don't know about it in that order. Maybe Bangkok 1163 00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 1: to Bali is a better flight track, but yeah, still 1164 00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,399 Speaker 1: still worth the going and I would do it again. Yeah, 1165 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:08,240 Speaker 1: oh Bangkok, Yeah okay, now mentally prepared. I would go 1166 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,560 Speaker 1: to explore the food situation. 1167 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,880 Speaker 2: I am done with the sex track. I'm cool the 1168 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 2: sex track. And there's like no one is food, no one, 1169 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 2: there's like not there. I just there's no sensual this 1170 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,760 Speaker 2: happening there that inspires shop. 1171 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah that's about it. 1172 00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be boogie and Bangkok. 1173 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 1: Bougie and Bangkok and Customoi. Because the weather was not 1174 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,440 Speaker 1: so great when we went yeah, but we look, we 1175 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 1: saw some really bomb ass places. But yeah, I'm excited 1176 00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,640 Speaker 1: to go back and explore and this time take business class. 1177 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,680 Speaker 1: Apparently have to be rich to take business last. You 1178 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,280 Speaker 1: guys have twenty grand for two people to go business 1179 00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,960 Speaker 1: last Asia, So we got to work harder. Either drug 1180 00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 1: yourself or you can afford twenty grand to get there. 1181 00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 2: Literally, I think it was like, yeah, between sixteen and 1182 00:54:58,719 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 2: eighteen thousand. 1183 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,720 Speaker 1: Dollars the round trip, So that didn't happen. So drugs 1184 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:03,279 Speaker 1: and day, It's okay. 1185 00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,359 Speaker 2: We drugged ourself when we made it and it was fine. 1186 00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 2: It was like we didn't even it was basically it 1187 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 2: was like we didn't even do the flight. 1188 00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: It was business Yeah, it's like business class. And then 1189 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:12,759 Speaker 1: we got lucky and on the way back we both 1190 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 1: had two seats. I got real comfy and then motherfuck it, 1191 00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:19,160 Speaker 1: and drugged myself and I was there. I was drugged 1192 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 1: when I got here for at least like twenty four hours. 1193 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,000 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I was stumbling around. I was like 1194 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:23,960 Speaker 1: moving really slow. 1195 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 2: I was stumbling around and then I had a drink 1196 00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,759 Speaker 2: when I got back that like reignited that. 1197 00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Orlando's like, are you okay? I was like, not really, 1198 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:41,520 Speaker 1: but yeah, here we are back better than never? Is it? 1199 00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: Tarot dope terrot time ter time cards? What do you 1200 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:56,080 Speaker 1: have in store for us? 1201 00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 3: Seek good moms. 1202 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: Bitch myself. If you guys haven't tuned in on YouTube, 1203 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 1: you should. It's obviously reached fifty degrees in Los Angeles 1204 00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,960 Speaker 1: because I'm wearing corduroys and Eric is wearing a sweater. 1205 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,719 Speaker 1: So if you haven't tuned in, we are in our 1206 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:15,720 Speaker 1: fall gear because it's finally reached fifty degrees in Los Angeles. 1207 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,359 Speaker 1: I've been shivering in my home. It's cold, the old 1208 00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: as fuck. You want me to choose? 1209 00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:20,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1210 00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 1: Sure? Three of wands three of wand's. 1211 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 2: The three of wands means that progress, expansion, foresight, overseas opportunities, 1212 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 2: while the two of one speaks to planning for the 1213 00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:47,480 Speaker 2: future from a place of safety and comfort. The three 1214 00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 2: of one shows that your plans are now well underway 1215 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,840 Speaker 2: and you are considering even more opportunities to expand your 1216 00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:55,560 Speaker 2: current strategy and maximize your ultimate potential. Everything is progressing 1217 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 2: steadily and is expected thanks to your solid preparation and 1218 00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:02,160 Speaker 2: ongoing drive. The three of one signals the many chances 1219 00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 2: available to you to broaden your horizons. Through study, travel, business, enterprise, 1220 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 2: and learning. You are becoming more aware of the opportunities 1221 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 2: that exist for you right now, and there are still 1222 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 2: more to come. Three of wands also brings your attention 1223 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 2: to the changes and challenges that lie ahead. Given the 1224 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 2: man in this card can see far into the distance, 1225 00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,160 Speaker 2: then you are likely to be already aware of the 1226 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,480 Speaker 2: upcoming developments and obstacles and can prepare for them ahead 1227 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 2: of time. Given the image of land and sea, the 1228 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,400 Speaker 2: three of wands can sometimes point to travel, especially overseas 1229 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 2: or over a body of water. It encourages you to 1230 00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:38,560 Speaker 2: be adventurous and venture to unknown places, to discover more 1231 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 2: about yourself and learn many new things along the way. 1232 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 4: Indeed, okay, oceans, Okay, book the trip beach, Yeah, come 1233 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 4: see us and adventure and take a chance, and yeah, 1234 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 4: just wander like we did. 1235 00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, today's affirmation is I don't know. 1236 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 1: Positive thought, positive speech, positive action. Sure, positive thought, positive speech, 1237 00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:13,320 Speaker 1: positive action. I got a new tattoo, So that's what 1238 00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:16,600 Speaker 1: it is. Positive. It's a it's a mantra, a Buddhist mantra. 1239 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 1: Positive thought, positive speech, positive action. 1240 00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 2: Positive thought, positive speech, positive action. 1241 00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 1: And I like that. I love that. 1242 00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 2: Anyway, You guys, make sure you follow us at Good 1243 00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 2: Mom's Underscore Bad Choices on Instagram. If you're not subscribed 1244 00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 2: to our YouTube channel, make sure you do that. Join 1245 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 2: our Patreon, join our tribe and discord. You can join 1246 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 2: our discord through Patreon. We have a lot of beautiful 1247 00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,160 Speaker 2: community over there. And make sure you go check out 1248 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,400 Speaker 2: our website, Good Momsbad Choices dot com. 1249 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,040 Speaker 1: We got merch it's on sale for Cyber Monday. We 1250 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,720 Speaker 1: got pictures, we get retreats of all the things. 1251 00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 2: So we love you and we'll see you next week. 1252 00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 1: Bye. Please. 1253 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:03,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, i'mnave been so good? Can't you tell? I went 1254 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:04,040 Speaker 3: through a drought. 1255 00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 7: That's until I find out well may not have been 1256 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 7: known earth. I used to be broken Taille now got 1257 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,400 Speaker 7: the blues in inser like Beyonce just saw throat shot 1258 00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 7: of popping his car wearing our voices. 1259 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:15,800 Speaker 3: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit it. 1260 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,480 Speaker 7: Women put the pee in power, so it's pointing that 1261 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:21,240 Speaker 7: they want me to be good, so I make bad choices. 1262 00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,840 Speaker 3: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom. 1263 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,760 Speaker 1: It he's in on put cannapus in. 1264 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,440 Speaker 7: Their Bathbon walked in Boston's cap and I blew his 1265 00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:29,760 Speaker 7: cat ball Tip dog. 1266 00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 1: Now I'm immune to the. 1267 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 3: Cat called Herbie and no waisted straight. 1268 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 7: To it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover, 1269 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,280 Speaker 7: when too, it look like a water sign where you're 1270 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,520 Speaker 7: rent the winter essential will when the summer time. 1271 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,480 Speaker 3: I do it all. Ain't know when I needs a 1272 00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 3: rerunning by