WEBVTT - Father Knows Best?!?!??!

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<v Speaker 1>And we're back with another episode of separation Anxiety. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Marcus Jordan and Pippin, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we got a lot to discuss today.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, there's so much disgust today.

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<v Speaker 1>There definitely is. But I think first let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your birthday. Happy belated birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Of course, I am like a big birthday person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, which puts the pressure on me.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like no, but I feel like you literally

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<v Speaker 2>like I did yourself, Like really, I never felt so

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<v Speaker 2>much love and I was so appreciated, and I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I had a great I had a great I

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<v Speaker 2>literally had like the best birthday ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, baby. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I had the best birthday ever

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<v Speaker 2>because you really put so much time and energy into

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about all the things that you did for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never had a situation where like you were facetiming

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<v Speaker 2>like my kids and asking them what they wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>get me for my birthday, and you literally bought a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of presents into they from my kids, which is

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<v Speaker 2>like it's so cute, Like it's so adorable, and like

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<v Speaker 2>just how much like how you're so thoughtful And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you just really like think about every single thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, obviously we have Sophia's in town, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going shopping. You had to film the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I don't know, I just was looking for things,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously I wanted to get something for you from

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<v Speaker 1>her and obviously all of the kids. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>actually facetimed one of your friends, Xana. She didn't she

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<v Speaker 1>was I don't know, if doing our lashes or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like pressing her trying to figure out if

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<v Speaker 1>you would like what I got you. But then Sophia

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<v Speaker 1>came in to clutch and helped me make my decision.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I know that you put a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>weight and care into celebrations of birthdays and holidays and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, and so I wanted to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that your special day was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I literally had the best day.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your favorite thing about yesterday?

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<v Speaker 2>All of it? I don't know. Like I love waking

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<v Speaker 2>up and like how you surprised me with like ozillia

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<v Speaker 2>and flowers. Okay, And I feel like I'm in a

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<v Speaker 2>garden right now because I woke up in the apartment

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<v Speaker 2>just smells so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It is kind it smells amazing once you walk in

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<v Speaker 1>here and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just yeah, but you know what, I feel like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like the thought because I've been in relationships where it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a lot of gifts and it didn't make me, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, feel the way I felt yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's so special.

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<v Speaker 2>So I definitely feel like the thought is like way

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<v Speaker 2>more important than the actual gifts. Not that you gave

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<v Speaker 2>me beautiful gifts. Of course, you literally like outdid yourself

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<v Speaker 2>and like I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>I still have one more gift. You haven't gotten it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, oh my gosh, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been sitting on it. You get a hints, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give any hints out just because I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be a surprise. I think you value surprises. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's one more. It's not over yet. Your birthdays all weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny, I'm looking over your shoulder right now and

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<v Speaker 1>we see all those balloons and so it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like we're still celebrating.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I want to, like, I don't know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>very overwhelming, Yeah, but I definitely think that, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>really about the thought that really matters and counts, And

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you really put so much energy into

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<v Speaker 2>like my dinner, you know, the blue flowers, my.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids to talk about the dinner actually, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You listen because I feel like, you know, when I

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<v Speaker 2>was saying to you, oh my god, I can't find

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<v Speaker 2>slides that I like, and then like you want me

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<v Speaker 2>like all the slides that I like that, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know that came in black. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know it came in silver, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like these nice black metallic thread door slippers or fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I just feel like you're like a good listener,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like a lot of partners should be

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<v Speaker 2>good listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, baby, I appreciate that. And I feel like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we go to Carbone all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and so sometimes you don't necessarily want to eat there

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. But I feel like you took one for

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<v Speaker 1>the team for me yesterday because it was fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it was so good, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so much fun. We had the best time

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<v Speaker 2>and having just like all my best friends and Sofia

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, you know it was. It was a great night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not over yet, though, Oh my gosh, we're celebrating

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<v Speaker 1>all weekend. Okay, all right, So I guess let's jump

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<v Speaker 1>into it. Obviously, the topic of discussion that everybody wants

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<v Speaker 1>to hear is the article that came out last week

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<v Speaker 1>with my dad essentially commenting on our relationship, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So I kind of feel like I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>address this, like because it's like not something I want

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<v Speaker 2>to like address and be taken out of context, and

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<v Speaker 2>like it's hard for me to speak on that situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I know we're going to talk about it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>just feel like, no, you can start, because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I have so much to say, but it's it's like, Yaba, David.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like, well, okay, let's first, let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>what the situation is. Obviously, my dad was in Paris.

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan Brand had this basketball tournament that they do annually

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<v Speaker 1>called K fifty four, and during that weekend, basically Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>Bran they have this dinner at this restaurant called Mattignon

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<v Speaker 1>in Paris, and it's always a good vibe. Like everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all the Jordan Brand athletes, all of the high

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<v Speaker 1>level executives, and everybody's just kind of having a good

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<v Speaker 1>time celebrating the tournament. And so I can only assume

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<v Speaker 1>because I know my dad loves sin Koro. He drinks

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<v Speaker 1>tequila all the time. That he was a little he

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling himself a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Bit feel good. He's on's feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>He was feeling good, you know, businesses good. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was on a trip to Paris. My sister was

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<v Speaker 1>actually there. We'll talk about that a little bit later.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so I'm assuming, you know, walking out of Mantillon,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets asked the question does he approve or I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was does he approve of our relationship or something?

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<v Speaker 1>And at first he laughed, you know, kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>how I laughed. I like, I think I laughed at

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the questions that we go through on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast. But he laughed. And then the reporter, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>asked him again and he had let out an emphatic no,

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<v Speaker 1>and then shook his head again as he was walking

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<v Speaker 1>into the car. And so, you know, for me, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>we knew ahead of time because he texted and called

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<v Speaker 1>me and wanted to make sure that I didn't take

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<v Speaker 1>anything the wrong way. But then when the article came out,

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<v Speaker 1>he texted me again and said that he never said, Hell, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's not what the implications were. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel like when it, you know, when the headline dropped,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously we knew it was coming, but when the headline

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<v Speaker 1>on TMZ came out, I felt like you were a

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<v Speaker 1>little nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because I feel like you know, from Jay and

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<v Speaker 2>we've been literally I felt like our parents were like,

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<v Speaker 2>not in a bad situation about us, you know. I think,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's not ideal, like for Larsa to be with

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus or Marcus to be with Larsa. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>in the beginning it was a lot of shock value

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<v Speaker 2>to it. Our families would in the beginning, would have

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<v Speaker 2>rather us not be together, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was something that just happened organically. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like you were nervous just because of

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<v Speaker 1>how often you take stocking your relationships, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>think a part of you thought, maybe was I telling

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<v Speaker 1>you all the full truth?

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<v Speaker 2>And well, I feel like it's you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>a situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, And simultaneously I'm dying laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you thought it was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It was hilarious to me, just it was funny.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing funny about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know my dad, right, and I know you know,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously my whole family. We're all competitive. The Jordan's is

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<v Speaker 1>like part of our DNA is to talk shit, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it gets us going and gets as motivated. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when I saw it, immediately, I thought, like, he's playing,

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<v Speaker 1>he's being joking, he's laughing, he's you know, just being playful.

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<v Speaker 1>He's you know, a little lit maybe off the sinkoro

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<v Speaker 1>walking out of manti on And so, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't put too much weight into it, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>that it made you a little nervous. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>he texted and called and obviously wanted to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't take things the wrong way, I think it

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<v Speaker 1>helped you feel a little more at ease and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable in the fact that I'm not lying to you

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<v Speaker 1>about having their approval. And I think, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk about you know what he texted

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<v Speaker 1>me and said verbatim. But I think the at the

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<v Speaker 1>root of what we talked about was, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an adult. I can make my own decisions. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>need to approve who I date or my personal relationships

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<v Speaker 1>because he's going to love me no matter what. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I think that is what the takeaway

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<v Speaker 1>was from the conversation, but of course nobody, nobody sees that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>they all see the him.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I kind of felt like it went everywhere and

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of like embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I don't think that obviously he thought

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<v Speaker 1>of the timing. His goal has always been to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stay clear of our relationship. I think look at the

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<v Speaker 1>root of it, obviously is my dad's relationship with your

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<v Speaker 1>ex Scottie. And so you know, obviously we never talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that, and I don't think that my dad wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to comment on that. There's always that narrative, that rumor

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm dating you in some sort of way to

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<v Speaker 1>get back at whatever was said. And so I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if my dad comes out and says yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he's fueling that narrative of okay whatever. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>he said no, just in a joking way, knowing you

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<v Speaker 1>know how Jordan's play around. And so I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny from the from the jump. But obviously we

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<v Speaker 1>had to talk about it and kind of work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, uh, I guess how we found out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We were in bed, and obviously my dad called and

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<v Speaker 1>texted and then teams he dropped the story. Uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you you knew it was going to go viral

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<v Speaker 1>right away?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I didn't. I kind of felt like, oh, okay, no

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<v Speaker 2>one's going to pick this up because it was like whatever, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but it literally went everywhere, and I was kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think people started to think that online they were

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<v Speaker 2>saying that I was lying, that I lied and said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, our parents are fine, because I was doing

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<v Speaker 2>interviews and I was literally saying, like, both of our

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<v Speaker 2>families are fine. When I would say that, I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like I didn't embellish that. I was like, they're fine.

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<v Speaker 2>They want us to be happy. And I would always

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<v Speaker 2>say that our parents both want us to be happy,

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<v Speaker 2>and if we make each other happy, then it's great.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do understand that it's not awkward for us

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<v Speaker 2>to be together because it's us. But it's probably is

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<v Speaker 2>awkward for my ex and your dad for sure, because

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<v Speaker 2>they have they have their own like relationship or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it was. I wasn't a part of that. You weren't

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<v Speaker 2>a part of that exactly, So I feel like for

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<v Speaker 2>them it probably is word. It probably is word for

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<v Speaker 2>your dad, you know. And I can't be mad or

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<v Speaker 2>like I understand yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, obviously we talked, your sister called

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<v Speaker 1>you at some point. I feel like everybody called both

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<v Speaker 1>of us because it was like it was so far.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like out of left field, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But and I feel like your dad never talks to

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<v Speaker 2>the press.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm blaming the st chloro because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just and that was one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I talked to him about. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it just the timing was terrible. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like obviously with our podcast us doing interviews, I just obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've been on vacation with my dad's side

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<v Speaker 1>of the family, and you know, we've talked about your

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<v Speaker 1>and ives. You're my relationship, and so you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>there was ever any true red flags or calls for pause,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I would have heard about it by now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't. They haven't. You know, obviously, everybody supports

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<v Speaker 1>in different ways, but I think the main thing is

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<v Speaker 1>as long as I'm happy, you're happy, they're happy, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's kind of the root of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted my brother and my sister because I knew

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<v Speaker 1>my sister was with my dad, and so I was

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<v Speaker 1>like man, what the hell, How did how did y'all

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<v Speaker 1>let this happen? And so my sister was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was working. My brother text my dad like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>why'd you say that? And so my dad kind of

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<v Speaker 1>did say, maybe I should have kept quiet, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>their adults let them do their own thing, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it was just good to have my dad reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to me obviously show his support probably or whatever. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe one day, you know, he'll come in again. We'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for me it was always funny, and for

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<v Speaker 1>you it was a little nerve wrecking effort.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. I was like traumatized. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, what are we going to do? And people

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<v Speaker 2>think I lied?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, and that's my thing, is like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because one of the things he also said was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need my approval, you know, in your personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>insinuating that that's something that we could say for us.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just feel like if we came out saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>then we look defiant and combative and like forget everybody else,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're just going to do our thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>in reality that wasn't the case. Like we obviously had

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<v Speaker 1>talked to both of our parents. We had their approval,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I just think he was making a joke

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<v Speaker 1>and it got blown out of proportion and taken some

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<v Speaker 1>not out of context because obviously he said what he said,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think if you don't know who my dad

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<v Speaker 1>is at his core, then you know it could be

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<v Speaker 1>taken the wrong way. But I thought it was hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like I said, I don't I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>that it might be weird for them, it's not weird

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<v Speaker 2>for us. And I get it, you know, I understand like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they had they have or had their relationship and has

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<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with us. He has a right to

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<v Speaker 2>feel how he feels.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I feel good right now. I feel like we talked

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<v Speaker 2>it through. I just want to make sure you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a good place with your family. I don't ever want

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<v Speaker 2>to be the problem. And like you know, like with

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<v Speaker 2>you with your parents, like that's not a vibe for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been in relationships before my parents didn't like the

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<v Speaker 2>person I was with, and my mom used to before

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<v Speaker 2>my axe, my mom used to sabotage every relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so fun. I can't see her doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, she's like a sabotage. Really well, anytime I

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<v Speaker 2>brought a guy home, my mom would be like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, he walks funny, or he has big ears,

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<v Speaker 2>and when she would say it, I couldn't get that

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<v Speaker 2>thought out of my Or like there was a guy

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<v Speaker 2>that used to eat really horrible and he used to

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<v Speaker 2>eat with his fingers. Yeah, and she used to say

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<v Speaker 2>he eats like a baboon, and then that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, I could never be with him,

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<v Speaker 2>like my mom was right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just feel like, you know, my parents want

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<v Speaker 2>to see me happy, and I feel like I've never

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<v Speaker 2>been this happy with anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate that, and so it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy too. I feel like my dad is always

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<v Speaker 1>kind of go with the flow, you know, if you're happy,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy. Obviously he supports, you know, all of our

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<v Speaker 1>personal relationships. But I think my mom she she's obviously supportive,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like she might somewhat be like your

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<v Speaker 1>mom in terms of finding nit things to nitpick and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe have you know, issues or concerns with but she'll

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<v Speaker 1>never like she's not confrontational. She'll have sidebar conversations or

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<v Speaker 1>pull you to the side one on one, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. And so I don't think that they've

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<v Speaker 1>never really been involved in any of my personal relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's always you know, comments or questions if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if there need be.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of like your mama's I love.

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<v Speaker 1>She's such a legend. I love her. We're speaking of it.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta get her Instagram thing figured out.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's crazy. So Marcus's mom commented on one

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<v Speaker 2>of our Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she exactly, go ahead, but tell the story.

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<v Speaker 2>Your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I like when you tell it because I know you like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we both really enjoyed her comment on it, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell it, okay. And so there was a picture

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<v Speaker 1>that we posted on Instagram. I think Larca posted on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom, who is new to Instagram, she's she

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<v Speaker 1>loves it though, and she left the comment she puts

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<v Speaker 1>some hearts on one of our posts, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>Larsa really really loved that, and obviously I did. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy to see my mom supporting us. So when she

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<v Speaker 1>gets her Instagram back, she'll be all in our in

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<v Speaker 1>our mentions.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love it, okay, So she would talk about

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<v Speaker 2>some Hollywood splits. Let's do it, okay, So what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think about the Kyle Richards and Mauricio breakup after

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<v Speaker 2>twenty seven years?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, you know this is it's all new to me,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think this is more in your wheelhouse. You

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<v Speaker 1>might have to catch me up to date on some

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<v Speaker 1>of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's some rumors that she is I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if it's true or not, but it's a rumor, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that she's allegedly with another woman. Really, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>we're seeing that more and more. I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>hard to be with someone for twenty seven years.

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<v Speaker 1>So it says they've been separated for a while now,

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<v Speaker 1>but are still living under the same roof. You think

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<v Speaker 1>you could live under this?

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<v Speaker 2>Well I did?

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<v Speaker 1>You did? Huh? It was horrible, right, But talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like your legal team tells you not

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<v Speaker 2>to leave their home. Yeah, they're like, don't leave the

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<v Speaker 2>home because then you abandon them home.

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<v Speaker 1>You kind of said a precedent, Yeah, exactly, So.

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<v Speaker 2>They tell you to stay. But it's kind of dangerous

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<v Speaker 2>to be in the same home. Really, you're not together,

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<v Speaker 2>so you're trying to move forward and you're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>like date other people and go out and do whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do. But at the same time, there's

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<v Speaker 2>like boundaries because you are still married to that person,

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<v Speaker 2>and then in their mind they still view you as

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<v Speaker 2>your spouse. It's definitely dangerous. So I feel like the

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<v Speaker 2>legal system needs to change that up a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've never I've never lived with someone, but uh,

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<v Speaker 1>living with someone want to separate while being separated doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound too fun?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like it's horrible. Can you imagine like

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<v Speaker 2>you're trying to go out and meet new people and

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<v Speaker 2>at the same time you come home and see the

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<v Speaker 2>person that you don't want to be with anymore? Right,

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like for minutes different, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about the before. I feel like men can

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<v Speaker 2>be in a relationship that they're not really happy in

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<v Speaker 2>and like cheat and do other stuff and like playhouse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like that can go both ways.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like women, when they're not happy, they

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<v Speaker 2>want to move on, they want to move forward. They're

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<v Speaker 2>not they don't want to stay in a relationship that

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<v Speaker 2>they're not happy. Guys are more. Guys will stay, they'll

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<v Speaker 2>stay to the end of time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like men make impulsive decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, but they don't want to make up their home.

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<v Speaker 1>Are strategic and you know, if a woman's gonna leave,

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<v Speaker 1>she's already got her next plan figured out and all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. Where guys I feel like, just move off

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<v Speaker 1>of impulse a little bit totally. But it says that

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<v Speaker 1>they remain amicable as they figure out what's next for them.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously wishing them the best.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing worse than like going through a divorce publicly,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like nobody wins. They both people are

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<v Speaker 2>going to take like an l right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it says a psychic medium told Kyle years ago

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<v Speaker 1>that she would never be fulfilled in her marriage. And

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about like mediums?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, I feel like they say that about anyone. Look

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<v Speaker 2>at this to two. I can say that about everybody

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<v Speaker 2>that I meet, Like one out of two people or

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to get divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>You saw a medium though, remember we were on one

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<v Speaker 1>of your friend's boat. Yes, And I can't remember the

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<v Speaker 1>advice she gave you. She gave you something.

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<v Speaker 2>She said I was going to buy and sell real estate.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I asked, I asked. I tried to ask

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<v Speaker 2>her about our personal relationship, and she really didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, no, you guys are good, but the

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<v Speaker 2>only thing I see is you were going to buy

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<v Speaker 2>and sell real estate. And I'm like, I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she said something about there being strong men

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<v Speaker 1>in your life and then you equated it to your children,

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<v Speaker 1>like your boys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you're talking about years and years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, right or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, so I was when I was on Housewives

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<v Speaker 2>twelve years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Marisol's mom. Oh really yeah, And they basically said that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm worried about a man, and I said, why have

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<v Speaker 2>three boys? I could be worried about my boys? And

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<v Speaker 2>then so we got into this argument. But I mean, statistically,

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<v Speaker 2>like one out of two people break up. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's hard. Anybody can say that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not psychic and I can tell you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. It looks like Kyle and Mauricio also respond On Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>They made a post that says, in regards to the

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<v Speaker 1>news that came out today about us, any claims regarding

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<v Speaker 1>us divorcing are untrue. So it sounds like maybe they're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you have like murky water, it's contaminated. Oh really,

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<v Speaker 2>it is contaminated. You're not going to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>stay in that relationship, trust me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. It says they've had a rough year, they both

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<v Speaker 1>love and respect each other tremendously. There's no wrongdoing on

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<v Speaker 1>anyone's part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, there's always wrongdoing them both. So it takes

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<v Speaker 2>two to tango, but there's always like, you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>the water's murky, it's it's probably contaminated.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And it says although they're in the public eye,

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<v Speaker 1>that be working through their issues properly. So obviously we

0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:41.280
<v Speaker 1>wish something the best, but totally it sounds like murky water,

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<v Speaker 1>and your advice is to stay out of market water. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be a murky water. No, but

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<v Speaker 2>I do feel like, you know, they're saying they're not

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<v Speaker 2>going to get divorced, but they're going to get divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think that their issues come from, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being on reality TV? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, you know what I do think. I think

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<v Speaker 2>when you're on reality TV, it just brings light to

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<v Speaker 2>all your issues. You can't really like sweep things under

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<v Speaker 2>the rug. And I think a lot of relationships, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people that are together don't really deal

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<v Speaker 2>with their issues, sure, and they sweep things under the

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<v Speaker 2>rug and they think like they're never gonna have to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with it, but the same issues keep arising and

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<v Speaker 2>then at some point, like you have to address them,

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<v Speaker 2>but it takes longer. And I think when you're on

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<v Speaker 2>reality TV, so many people see your issues. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>so when I was single a couple of years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>when I was shooting Housewives, they kept saying, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on with your personal life? What's going on

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<v Speaker 2>with your personal life? And I felt like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>with anyone that I wanted to put on the show

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<v Speaker 2>with me, And like show because it is a situation

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<v Speaker 2>where like if you don't feel solid for sure, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't feel solid, I think it's like a

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<v Speaker 2>situation where you know people will see it, you'll see it,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you'll just feel stupid, you know. So don't

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<v Speaker 2>put anyone on a show that you're not one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent solid with. I feel that that's at Murky Water conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we worried that reality TV might damage our relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like we're on this journey and let

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<v Speaker 2>it be what it's going to be. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>we're riding this wave.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean, look, I feel like one the show

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<v Speaker 1>you're on is Housewives. It's not necessarily there's not much

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<v Speaker 1>required of me, I feel like in terms of being

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. So I feel like it's great for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I think it's fun. I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>fun to be around other women. I think it's fun

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to show the women that you can

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<v Speaker 2>make a comeback after a breakup or a business loss

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever it is. I think it's like powerful to

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<v Speaker 2>have other women look up to you and see that

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<v Speaker 2>you've made it when so many people are in situations

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<v Speaker 2>where they feel like they don't have an out or like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm not going to be able to meet

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<v Speaker 2>a man, or I'm not going to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>start a business after thirty, or like things like that that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people, you know, it stops

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<v Speaker 2>their motivation, right, And I think it gives people motivation

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<v Speaker 2>to have fun and live your boss life and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to do Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I feel that While we're talking about your show

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<v Speaker 1>and the Housewives, our next topic is apparently about Lisa

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<v Speaker 1>in her situation. You were gracious enough to let me

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<v Speaker 1>handle talking to my dad's scenario, and obviously, with Lisa

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<v Speaker 1>being your best friend, I'm gonna let you steer the

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<v Speaker 1>boat on this one.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're getting close to what just settling their divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, you know, I try to give her

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<v Speaker 2>the best advice I could based on my personal experience,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like it's really hard to fight a prenup.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you're great advice too, by the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I feel like it's like hard to fight

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<v Speaker 2>a prenup. There there's a reason why a prenup exists.

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<v Speaker 2>It's to protect both parties. Yeah, you know, it's better

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<v Speaker 2>to like figure things out amicably and like move forward

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<v Speaker 2>and keep it cool on both sides.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your outlook on it? Basically, if you sign the prenum,

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<v Speaker 1>you agree to what you agreed to. Don't ask me

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<v Speaker 1>to amend anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, we can amend some things. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That I wanted to get you on record with that, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh, you're trying to figure out us.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not necessarily saying that I just wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you the question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, I think that there's like happy medium. There's

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<v Speaker 2>like a happy like place for both people where they.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel contracts, contracts, you know, well.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not the NBA, by the wayness is not

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<v Speaker 2>the NBA contracts.

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<v Speaker 1>If you sign, you sign right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But like, I feel like circumstances change. I think

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<v Speaker 2>when you've been with life happens when you put a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of energy and love into your family and you've

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<v Speaker 2>helped your spouse be the best version of themselves and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, put a lot of love into them and

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<v Speaker 2>made them be better.

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<v Speaker 1>How I do you Yeah, okay, I feel that my

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<v Speaker 1>dad has always said, at least when he was dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with his NBA contracts, that like, once the contract is

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<v Speaker 1>negotiated and signed, even with like Jordan Brand, like, it's signed,

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<v Speaker 1>once you sign on the data line, it's signed. So

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<v Speaker 1>don't ask for more money, don't come back for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>an extension.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, that's that's a that's a very business way.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think when you're sleeping with someone and you've

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<v Speaker 2>made children with them, another whole other human I think

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<v Speaker 2>there's like a bit different, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the same rules as like a person that

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<v Speaker 2>you were dealing with business wise, do you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel that. I feel that, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely feel like it's better to work things out without,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, going to try and stuff. And it's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of scary for both people when you go to trial

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<v Speaker 2>because you have one judge that determines your future. You

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<v Speaker 2>can go in and this judge can have a bad

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<v Speaker 2>day or whatever it is, and not like you period.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm kind of happy that, like Lisa and Lennie

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<v Speaker 2>are kind of, you know, put this behind them, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're going to get along better once they're divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. It says that page six reached out to Lenny

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<v Speaker 1>for comment, and he says, quote, if I did have

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<v Speaker 1>a comment, you would be the last to know, despite

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he actually told us first that he

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<v Speaker 1>was divorcing Lisa. How do you feel about that? He's

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<v Speaker 1>a character that's kind of funny though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>How is Lisa doing.

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<v Speaker 2>She's good. I feel like she's happy. I'm glad she's

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<v Speaker 2>moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to give her the best advice possible, like

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<v Speaker 2>make peace with him, you have kids with him, you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to. I gave her all the advice that

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<v Speaker 2>my dad and mom gave me when I was going

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<v Speaker 2>through my situation. They were like, LARSA, just don't don't

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<v Speaker 2>listen to your lawyers because I feel like a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of times lawyers just want to fight and battle this

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<v Speaker 2>whole situation. Yeah, And when I got divorced, I had

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<v Speaker 2>to sign like a malpractice thing basically saying that I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't going to come back and sue my lawyers because

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't take what was like what was supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're saying you kind of conceded on some

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<v Speaker 1>things just because you want to feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of felt like I wanted to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a good place with him m hm, with my kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to have it go on as long

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<v Speaker 2>as it went on. Yeah, And so for us, I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like, you know, I didn't want him to feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I was taking advantage of the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So it worked out for everyone. Everyone was happy. When

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, I feel that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>lawyers like to fight.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's what they get paid to do, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>And I just.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's just not it's not good for

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<v Speaker 2>your energy and like your soul, because I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>at some point, you know, I was talking to Lisa

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<v Speaker 2>about this. I know so many women that have gone

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<v Speaker 2>through a divorce and why you're going through a divorce

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<v Speaker 2>you're like in fight mode.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>It puts you in like a negative state of mind.

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<v Speaker 2>So you want to fight with everyone around you because

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<v Speaker 2>you're just in that mode, and it's just good to

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<v Speaker 2>like free yourself with that, you know, get rid of

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<v Speaker 2>all that toxic energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I'm all about positive energy and good vibes. So

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I feel that how much of the divorce

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<v Speaker 1>drama would play on on the new season on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously I know the answer to.

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<v Speaker 2>That, but a lot of it? Probably a lot of it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I think so because it's it's part

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<v Speaker 2>of our life, and I feel like when the cameras

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<v Speaker 2>are rolling, you really get to see day to day

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<v Speaker 2>of like what we're going through, what we're dealing with

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<v Speaker 2>every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, okay, should we have a block party?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're invited to our block party.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we should call it like the Highland

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<v Speaker 2>Park block party.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think just block party. Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a block party. But then you know, yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>how we segue into it is you're invited to our

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<v Speaker 1>block party.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally. I love inviting people to our block party. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I like that he just looks so regular, but

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<v Speaker 2>we all know he's not. Is that a compliment or

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of feel like it's because you're like understated. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like that's your vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very I think you know, the trending term is

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<v Speaker 1>quiet luxury. I'm very quiet luxury. I'm like if you know, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know vibes, you know exactly. So I kind of love

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<v Speaker 2>that about you, though, it's kind of a turn on.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, baby, I appreciate it. Yeah, we can think

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<v Speaker 1>one needed for that.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom, you know, she don't.

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<v Speaker 1>She raised me right exactly, and all of my siblings.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you guys are all like that definitely

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<v Speaker 2>like low key.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So whoever left that comment, I guess we're blocking you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I appreciate it. Thank you. Uh. The next one

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<v Speaker 1>says Marcus is about to get taken out of the will.

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<v Speaker 2>If you got to answer that one, yeah, I care

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<v Speaker 2>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously, if I was going to be taken out of

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<v Speaker 1>the will, there would have been conversations and discussions about that.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't had those that's not, you know, legit. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're blocking this person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's the point you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm not getting taken out of will.

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<v Speaker 2>No, why would you.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a we got a long thing to steward

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of us, my siblings and I totally all right.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that is a wrap. Thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, to you soon. Bye,