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Speaker 1: Hey babe, welcome back to another bonus episode of the

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Speaker 1: Give Them a La Podcast. We are sticking to VPR,

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Speaker 1: which is wild because we did an entire regular episode

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Speaker 1: with VPR questions. I forgot the exact Yeah, what was

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Speaker 1: the exact wording VPR moments that you want me to

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Speaker 1: break down or something.

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Speaker 2: And rape dive and all that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So I wanted to continue the theme because

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Speaker 1: I'm in good spirits.

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Speaker 3: Yay.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: I love talking about this, by the way, like you're

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Speaker 4: hearing about it, yes, because like we've seen the show.

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Speaker 2: We've seen the moments, yeah, or at least.

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Speaker 5: I have, and now we get to hear your side

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Speaker 5: of it.

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Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I usually just end I pick her

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Speaker 3: up from all of it, and then I just get

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Speaker 3: to hear about it, and then I'm like, yeah, do

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Speaker 3: I need to watch it?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm a I'm an obsessor. So what happens is

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Speaker 1: I I have to And that's why it Usually I

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Speaker 1: do it to my mom or Easton because I know

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Speaker 1: that they won't want to backhand me. But I have

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Speaker 1: to obsess and go in circles and in circles until

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Speaker 1: I tire myself out and I'm like whatever, I'm fucking

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Speaker 1: over it. And it's like I look at the clock

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Speaker 1: and it's like, well, I'm glad you could be over it.

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Speaker 1: After two hours of not time, I'm like no, I'm stop.

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Speaker 5: No, she just goes all right, I want to get

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Speaker 5: off of it.

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Speaker 6: It's like, okay, but can I tell you?

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Speaker 1: Because I know that's how I am. When I have

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Speaker 1: friends who who are talking about something and then the

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Speaker 1: subject is changed and they come back to it, I

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Speaker 1: ask them do you need to obsess over it? And

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Speaker 1: if they're like I need to obsess, I'm like, go

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Speaker 1: for it. Obsess. What are we talking about? Do you

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Speaker 1: want me to shut the fuck up? Do you want

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Speaker 1: to like really go in on this hoe or do

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Speaker 1: you want me to like calm you down? And they're

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Speaker 4: That is such a good thing to do, because yeah,

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Speaker 4: same thing. It's like not about vander Pump, but same thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, do you want to vent right now? Because

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Speaker 4: so much many times with my friends they'd be going

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Speaker 4: on a second, and they'd get so pissed and I

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Speaker 4: just want to like vent. They don't want a solution.

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Speaker 4: They don't want me to calm them down. They want

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Speaker 1: Them up. Yeah, they need an ear and a hype man. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I dig it.

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Speaker 2: Did you watch the first season Law was on?

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I have not know.

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Speaker 2: No, you watch none of it, even like your sister's

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Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't even watch anything.

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Speaker 4: I was in interesting okay, because I could.

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Speaker 1: See you at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just like having her on TV.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know if it was like a you guys

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Speaker 5: No started and never watched it.

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Speaker 1: The thing is is like.

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Speaker 5: Not to as well.

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Speaker 1: Well, I would prefer they not watch it just because

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's and it's not because of my behavior.

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Speaker 1: My family has seen me for exactly who I am.

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Speaker 1: Like my mom always says, I don't need to watch

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Speaker 1: know my daughter takes their top off waterfalls. I know

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Speaker 6: I know my kid right. My dad knows me.

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Speaker 1: Easton knows me. They didn't watch because they would get

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Speaker 1: And still to this day, when my mom says, well,

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Speaker 1: they were really mean to you, not they in any

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Speaker 1: about high school, right, that person was mean to you.

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Speaker 1: Those people were mean to you on VPR. And I'm like,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't care you're my baby.

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Speaker 4: just better maybe for them not to see. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 4: how my parents at first were with the podcast. They

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Speaker 2: Listen.

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Speaker 4: And then when I started talking about like sex and stuff,

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Speaker 2: We're just not gonna listen.

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Speaker 6: I mean, that's totally I love.

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Speaker 4: I love it feels safe, the space feels safer. Okay,

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Speaker 4: So we are going to start with So, I know

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Speaker 4: you talked about this relationship a couple weeks ago, but

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Speaker 4: I am curious about the arc, and many people asked

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Speaker 4: about this the relationship arc of you and James the

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Speaker 4: most iconic duo.

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Speaker 2: More so, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Curious where did you mey, When did you meet and

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Speaker 4: was it like immediately like oh, this is the guy

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Speaker 2: Or did you guys ever not get along at first.

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Speaker 1: I'd have to go back and watch the very first

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Speaker 1: But I do remember him kind of being the young

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Speaker 1: he's just like he was really excited to just be alive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know. Yeah, So he felt like a safe

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Speaker 1: space when I first entered vander pump Roles because I

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Speaker 1: Like I knew it would be that way. Tom and

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Speaker 1: Ariana were very kind to me right from the very beginning.

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Speaker 1: They seem to be the ones that like gave me

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Speaker 1: a chance, right. But I do remember season four like

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Speaker 1: Faith and I were the new kids, and Faith was invited,

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Speaker 4: It was and back in the day when I mean,

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Speaker 1: It was completely different. Yeah, I feel yeah, you might

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Speaker 1: clothes acceptance. Yeah, like, now I see these bitches. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 5: You know how.

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Speaker 1: Clueless? You know, it's clueless how she walks up camber

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Speaker 1: I wore that to the season five premiere party. Right.

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Speaker 4: You guys joined the same official cast members the same season,

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Speaker 4: right you and James because I know he was Kristen's boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, his first season was the time before the season before.

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Speaker 1: more like I would say we were fixture season four.

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Speaker 6: Okay, we may not have had like title cards right.

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Speaker 1: So I think when you're two people who are kind

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, it's like we're young and hot.

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Speaker 1: You're not, even though they were all so young and hot.

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Speaker 6: Then you add alcohol, and now you're really in the

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: It was fun.

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Speaker 2: You two were fun.

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Speaker 4: it's the only regret I think I've ever heard you say.

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Speaker 1: And I'm going to take in season eleven as well,

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Speaker 6: It may not have been like.

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Speaker 1: A high as far as the audience goes, but season

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Speaker 1: eleven for me was a personal high. I felt a

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Speaker 1: Every single year we walk in and we talk about it.

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Speaker 1: exactly what it is. We've been told you're dating a

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Speaker 1: we're boyfriend and girlfriend. You know who says like that

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Speaker 1: I ran away that season back to Utah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah.

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Speaker 1: Going into the night when of filming where I dropped

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Speaker 6: But brown out?

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Speaker 1: You brown out?

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Speaker 1: It's like you're a little hazy, like.

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Speaker 1: that I look back on and I'm like, drinking is

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00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: just scary, Like when they tell you to drink responsibly,

445
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,679
Speaker 1: there's so much that goes into it, yeah, right, like

446
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 1: things that could just go wrong.

447
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 3: I think a lot of overdoses happened like that too

448
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 3: on the back.

449
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: And also just yeah relapses, you mean.

450
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 3: Or like when you overdose, Like they overdose and then

451
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 3: I don't know if they throw it, but I have

452
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 3: seen that.

453
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: I just adore the people who reach out and are

454
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 1: like proactive about wanting even though getting help is tremendously

455
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 1: hard and way above my pay grade to like try

456
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: and get someone sober, because ultimately they have to want it.

457
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: But there's been a lot of people over the course

458
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: of my sobriety that have reached out, and I find

459
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 1: it extremely important to let them know, like this is

460
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: a big deal, Like even though I'm a stranger to you,

461
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: like you're admitting something right now, and I'm gonna give

462
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: you the tools that helped me, and whatever they choose

463
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: to do with them is on them. But just that

464
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: initial That's why the first step whenever I go to

465
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: a meeting and we talk about, like what's the most

466
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: important step to you, which one resonates with you the most?

467
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:33,239
Speaker 1: For me, it's always the first one. Yeah, admitting like

468
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: we got we gotta work on something. We're an alcoholic,

469
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah we sure are not mean first step admitting the problem,

470
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: admitting hard.

471
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 4: I've seen this asked a couple of times, which is

472
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 4: so funny, but I'm gonna ask it.

473
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: Are you and Sheena actually friends? Slash? Do you even

474
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: like her? Seems like you.

475
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 4: Hang out because of the kids? The fuck, which is

476
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 4: like I know you touched on this one. No, this

477
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks ago.

478
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 6: The should I love?

479
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

480
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 6: Because it's they you you.

481
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:10,239
Speaker 1: It's questions like this where you go, Okay, this is

482
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: I watch social media and I watch fifteen weeks of

483
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: a television show. Yes, Sheena is my actual homie.

484
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 3: Let me also put it this way. You don't have

485
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 3: your child all the time, and we still go over

486
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 3: to Sina's.

487
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: There you go.

488
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 1: The best way to put it, Yeah, I don't have

489
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: my kid one hundred percent of the time, and.

490
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 5: I still go and kick.

491
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: Sheena's mom came over to my house today. Yeah, okay,

492
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: like the moms are friends. Eastern texts with Justice and Courtney. Yeah,

493
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: that's the boyfriend in sister. It's a family dynamic. I

494
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: talked to Sena every single day. Sheena has more energy

495
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: than the fucking energizer bunny.

496
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 2: I'm not it's crazy, it's insane.

497
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: She's a human red bull. She's a human monster energy drink. Okay,

498
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 1: it is wild. So if you say it seems like

499
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: you guys are only friends because of the kids, that's

500
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: kind of my speed. Sheenah knows that, right, Okay, Sheina knows.

501
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm the daytime friend. Babe. You want to go to lunch,

502
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,919
Speaker 1: you wanna get some breakfast, I'm your girl. Anything past

503
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 1: making me go to dinner at six thirty. You're tripping now,

504
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 1: I'm not going.

505
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 5: We'll hit breakfast.

506
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 6: So she shall get in dinner.

507
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: She shall, Yeah, she will. She shall do dinner with

508
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: me at six and then say that she's going to

509
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 1: another dinner. I like a regular normal person hour and

510
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: not the early special eight or nine or something. Yes,

511
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: she always it's back to back dinners. She'll go to

512
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: Chili's with me and then go to like Boulevards steak

513
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: with her friends who are normal.

514
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: That is wild.

515
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 4: And she also has she seems to have a lot

516
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 4: of friends. Not that like she has more friends than you,

517
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 4: but she seems very light. She's got hell more friends

518
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 4: than I'm just saying, you know, those friends have so

519
00:25:58,280 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 4: many friends, and I'm like, how do you keep up

520
00:25:59,680 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 4: with them?

521
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: Well, now you know, Shina just she does actually keep.

522
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 5: Up with them all She's busy all day.

523
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 2: I could never.

524
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: Shina gives a lot of shits. And let me tell

525
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: you something, that bitch. When my life had fallen apart

526
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: and I was getting used to the dynamic of sharing

527
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: my child on big holidays like Christmas, okay, and I

528
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: would be sitting in that very thankful for the apartment.

529
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: I was in very thankful sitting in that apartment waiting

530
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: for my kid to come back, hoping that I could

531
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,919
Speaker 1: make the holiday feel like a fucking holiday with me,

532
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: my mom and my daughter because I would have to

533
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: get ocean either in the morning or at nighttime. And

534
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: Sheina says to me, why don't you come to Palm Springs.

535
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: You have her the rest of the weekend, whatever it was,

536
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: welcomed me and my family with open arms. She's the

537
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: one person that made me feel like my favorite holiday,

538
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: Christmas felt like Christmas again, where I felt warm and excited.

539
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 6: Okay, the bitch will forever.

540
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 1: Be my homie because I've had a lot of friends

541
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: in LA who have never invited me and my mom

542
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: to go and do things and make me feel like

543
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: the holiday is the fucking holiday. Okay.

544
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 6: They took me in on.

545
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: They include my family for Thanksgiving, Halloween, Fourth of July, Christmas.

546
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: They're my family. So anyone who wants to come in

547
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: here and talk about why you don't like me, why

548
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: you don't like Sina, you don't get the friendship.

549
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 6: But what about this fuck off hip?

550
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 3: Okay me and she's text she's taken me to the

551
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 3: NFL like the red Zone next year and stuff like

552
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 3: she Yeah, It's like I don't even not through her,

553
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 3: thank you.

554
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 2: It's just family, like a very good family they are.

555
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I will always have a soft spot in

556
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: my heart for all of them and always handled the

557
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 1: friendship with kid gloves because it means a lot to

558
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: me and I will never forget when they invited my

559
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: family for Christmas.

560
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 5: I'm glad that they did. I know, thank you for

561
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 5: taking care of my sister during that time.

562
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 4: Sheesha and fam Brock, Yeah they're really great.

563
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 3: Summer Me and Lisa do I walk the dogs over there,

564
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 3: just us, no kids, nothing, just to see Brock, see

565
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 3: how they were doing.

566
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 4: How lucky you are too to have daughters like who

567
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 4: are friends?

568
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 5: Yes? Yeah, that's kind of the cherry on top of it.

569
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, so so beautiful.

570
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 6: Okay, we can do one more.

571
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 4: Okay, we're ending on quite now. This this is indirectly

572
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 4: related to vander Pumper Roules. O, boy, is this something

573
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 4: the Watch What Happens Live?

574
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: Episode?

575
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 4: Unless this is no with you and James when Andy

576
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 4: was annoyed with you too, That's all it says. So

577
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 4: I'm assuming they mean like deep dive. I have said

578
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 4: from the beginning, I want you and James back on

579
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 4: Watch What Happens Live.

580
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: I don't seem yourself.

581
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever been back together, That's what

582
00:28:59,640 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

583
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 5: Were you drinking that time?

584
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 6: I think I ever seen Watch? I couldn't watch.

585
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 4: I can't find it. I look for it everywhere anyone

586
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 4: it was really was Andy actually mad mad? Yeah, he

587
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 4: was furious.

588
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 6: He it made like national news the next day.

589
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: For anyone who doesn't know, can you give us a

590
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: quick rundown?

591
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have no idea.

592
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: James and I were asked to do watch Robins Live together.

593
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was his first time. I

594
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: think it was. It was most certainly mine. Season four.

595
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: We got wasted and all we did was cuss and

596
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: act a damn fool. I sang apparently here we go.

597
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: I blacked out, I did I I don't remember singing.

598
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: I absolutely don't remember singing. Oh my god, it's so

599
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: it's mortified a.

600
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: Live TELEVISI live saying guys send me this club.

601
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 5: No fuck you for the national anthem. No.

602
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: I think I thought I killed it because they killed

603
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 1: I did not kill it.

604
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 6: There are pictures of me.

605
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: We went to the club after because we thought we

606
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: crushed it so hard we thought we were It was

607
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: a train wreck, to the point where Andy publicly in

608
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:27,719
Speaker 1: massive publications, said they are disgusting. I will never have

609
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: them back on watch What Happens Live ever again.

610
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 4: Was it because you were just so drunk, or you

611
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 4: were swearing, or you were like we.

612
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: Wouldn't stop cussing. And it's a thirty minute show and

613
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: you have to bleep the three or five seconds before,

614
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: So basically the whole episode was silent.

615
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 2: People are And did he say, like, you gotta stop?

616
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: He said it multiple times and then got like very annoyed.

617
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: He goes the cursing, I'm not joking. Stop He got

618
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: very annoyed. But I was too drunk to notice any

619
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: type of social cue.

620
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 4: Okay, wait, because I've been on the watch what happens?

621
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 4: I've set and there are breaks?

622
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: Did he say did he give you guys a remembers?

623
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 6: Are you joking?

624
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 5: No? No? No?

625
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 6: The breaks?

626
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: Where could I get another? I get another shot?

627
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: Surely they cut you off.

628
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 6: I wouldn't.

629
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know.

630
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 5: I don't remember much and if you tried to cut

631
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 5: off drunk Lauren.

632
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 6: But I was a mess.

633
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: The next day I called my dad and he was like,

634
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: he didn't watch it, but I was like, Dad, it

635
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: was really bad. And he just said, tomorrow someone more

636
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: famous than you is the fuck up and no one's

637
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: gonna remember this.

638
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: Can we also say? Which I love Andy?

639
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 4: But then he had a moment with Anderson Cooper on

640
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 4: TV where he was a little too drunky right on

641
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 4: the during New Year but they invited him back because

642
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: everyone it was like it was so.

643
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: Entertaining, and well, it's like, I love Anderson Cooper, but

644
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: who wants to watch the CNN news anchor on like

645
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: the night where everyone's wasted. You got to have like

646
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: the proper I will say this, I love seeing Andy

647
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: on the ball dropping thing for New Year's because it's

648
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: for the first time ever and the only time where

649
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: I look at Antie and I go see, you are

650
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: one of us.

651
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 6: Messy too.

652
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 4: Hilarious and Andy and Anderson it needed to be that

653
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 4: duo because it was Anderson's reactions that made it even funnier.

654
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: And I love when Andy goes on his tangents about

655
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: like the governor, the mayor of New York and and

656
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: calm donn.

657
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 6: He's like, no, I'm gonna say it, no another wind

658
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 6: him up? Yes, so good, No, that's what happened.

659
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: But by the way, can I tell you this before

660
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: we sign off, because we're we got to wrap it up.

661
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: My makeup on Watch Rabinside the first time ever, I

662
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: wore like a green dress.

663
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 6: My makeup looked fabulous.

664
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: Okay, that's why I hired that same person to do

665
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: my makeup for the season four union, and he talked

666
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: about how he had learned new tricks. And I was

667
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: in that Olympic apartment that Stassy lived in. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: in front of a mirror, and it was so early

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Speaker 1: that there wasn't any natural sunlight coming through yet because

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Speaker 1: you have to get there at.

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Speaker 6: The crack of dawn.

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Speaker 2: Did anyone see your makeup and go oh that's oh?

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Speaker 1: Everyone looked at it and was like, who did your makeup?

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Speaker 1: And I was mortified, but like, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So you know, going in like this doesn't look great?

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Speaker 5: Oh girls.

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Speaker 6: The moment I saw myself, I was like, oh fuck fuck.

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Speaker 4: If that were today, you would have washed your face

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Speaker 4: and just readowone it yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But back then I had a breakout. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: I couldn't wash all that off and cover it back

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Speaker 1: up in a proper amount of time. No, I was

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Speaker 1: so insecure. Okay, I was constantly battling like cystic acne.

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Speaker 2: Right the hormonal or was okay?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Well, anyway that it was intense, but that was

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Speaker 1: the same makeup artist. And by the way, it happened again.

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Speaker 1: It happened again at the premiere of Gotti. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you guys know Gotti. It's like one of

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Speaker 1: the only movies to get zero on Rotten Tomatoes.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy.

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Speaker 1: But I went to the premiere in New York and

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Speaker 1: I gave him another chance, and I had to wash

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Speaker 1: it off. If you look at me the third I

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Speaker 1: was like third time, like we got to call it.

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Speaker 1: We got all three strikes, you're out. But I had

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Speaker 1: to wash it all off. And I had ten minutes

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Speaker 1: until I had to be to the place wash it

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Speaker 1: all off. I look like I have no makeup on

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Speaker 1: at the gaudy premiere, Like I just went and I

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Speaker 1: was drinking then too, so like a little bloated, a

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Speaker 1: little foggy behind the eyes.

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Speaker 6: But it's okay.

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Speaker 5: Look like the movies.

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Speaker 1: What I did, I was reflecting what Rotten Tomatoes used

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Speaker 1: to do. Like that's just about the rating, human form

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Speaker 1: of the rating. You guys, thank you for listening to

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Speaker 1: another VPR driven episode of The Bonus Give them all

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Speaker 1: a podcast. I will catch you guys,