WEBVTT - Love Is Blind Couples SPLIT, Ex’s Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey On Same Flight, and A Real Housewives Spying Charges Dropped!

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<v Speaker 1>I do Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your celebrity mentors and favorite Golden's Susan Knowles, myself,

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<v Speaker 2>Joan Vesso's and Kathy Swarts.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, girls, how are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening from Lisbon? You're up? You know. I'm in Lisbon, Portugal.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't found much success in the United States dating,

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<v Speaker 4>so I came over to Lisbon and I'm in love

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<v Speaker 4>with this country.

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<v Speaker 1>In love, no man, no man yet still no. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's lots of them.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm with my daughter and let me just say,

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<v Speaker 4>all the eyes are on her. But in course fabulous.

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<v Speaker 4>It's beautiful, the weather's fabulous, Tomorrow's and beach today.

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<v Speaker 1>Love, love, love, love this country. What about you, John,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you up to? Gosh?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's a kind of rainy and gross here

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<v Speaker 3>right now. But getting on a plane same as Susan.

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<v Speaker 3>Tomorrow We're headed to nap Off for I have fun plants,

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<v Speaker 3>just for a weekend. It's not like you staying in

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<v Speaker 3>the United States. But I'm really looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 1>John. Do you think we're going to have some good wine? Yeah? Thanks, Susan.

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<v Speaker 4>Rub it in okay, So I have one more thing

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<v Speaker 4>to ask a hair By the way, I was supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to be on that trip, but I did op for Lisbon.

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<v Speaker 1>Over well, Portugal is Portugal.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just say I chose port wine over I chose

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<v Speaker 4>port Wine over red Lappa. Okay, Susan real quick question here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>your hair. You know I follow you and your haircuts.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you doing with your hair?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Kathy, I gave myself a haircut yesterday. You just

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<v Speaker 2>said it looked long, and I just cut it last night.

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<v Speaker 3>Your highlights are so cool. I love them. I've never

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<v Speaker 3>seen you with like highlights up in front like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Many thanks, I love it. You know, it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I was reading some of the comments from the people

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and some lady. Most people like it. Some

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<v Speaker 2>lady goes, I wish you never changed your dark hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Two toned hair is not in. It doesn't look good

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<v Speaker 2>on you.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you look at her picture to see what she

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<v Speaker 3>looks like?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even bother anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>We got to get into this episode because here's what

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<v Speaker 4>never changes. Yes, if there is one thing for sure,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the divorce. Haircuts changed, hair color changes, but divorce

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<v Speaker 4>never stops.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you think you have it bad?

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<v Speaker 4>Ladies, wait till you hear what some of these celebs

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<v Speaker 4>are going through in their chapter two?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to get into it?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready and I can talk talking about Jessica Simpsons.

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<v Speaker 3>Jessica Simpson shares her side of run in with ex

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<v Speaker 3>husband Nick Lache. Jessica finds setting the record straight irresistible.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't we all sing your address? Recent claims made by

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<v Speaker 3>her ex husband Nick Lache, who detailed they're unexpected to

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<v Speaker 3>run in on a flight to Hawaii and recounted how

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<v Speaker 3>she sat in first class as her three kids, Maxwell fourteen,

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<v Speaker 3>Ace twelve, and Birdie seven flew in a separate class

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<v Speaker 3>of service with their dad, Eric Johnson. My mom bought

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<v Speaker 3>those tickets, Jessica clarified in a May twenty interview published

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<v Speaker 3>by Page six. It was my mom's treat for us

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<v Speaker 3>to go to Hawaii. The forty five year old added,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure she thought that sounded bad that if she

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<v Speaker 3>had purchased the tickets, her children would of course be

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<v Speaker 3>seated with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we need to get john Wait, you got

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<v Speaker 1>to stop right there. Really, any of our.

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<v Speaker 4>Mothers bought tickets for our kids and myself and my spouse,

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<v Speaker 4>whatever would they really put our kids, would our mothers

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<v Speaker 4>if they were alive, in my case, put our kids

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<v Speaker 4>in steerage and put us in first class.

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<v Speaker 1>Dear, I love it too, of course not.

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<v Speaker 3>And the fact that I'm sure she knew she had

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<v Speaker 3>a different seat. I'm sure she could look at the

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<v Speaker 3>tickets and say, okay, I'm in like three and they're

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<v Speaker 3>in twenty sevn y. She could tell that they were

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<v Speaker 3>in a different class, and she could have changed her ticket.

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<v Speaker 3>We all know that. So she chose not to. So

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<v Speaker 3>she's blaming this on her mom.

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<v Speaker 2>But can I just add one thing, Kathy, wasn't it

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<v Speaker 2>you that said to me when I was griping about

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<v Speaker 2>going to Italy next week with my granddaughter and you said,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not going to sit up in first class if

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<v Speaker 2>you get upgraded? I said no, because Bella can't, and

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<v Speaker 2>he said I would, Jessica. I'm gonna call you, Jessica.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, there is a difference between buying a ticket and

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<v Speaker 4>being upgraded.

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<v Speaker 1>But wait, that is not bad enough.

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<v Speaker 4>Nick, who was married to Jessica from two thousand and

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<v Speaker 4>two to two thousand and six, recounted on a May

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<v Speaker 4>thirteenth episode appearance of Watch What happens live how we

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<v Speaker 4>crossed paths with Jessica two decades after their divorce. They

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<v Speaker 4>haven't seen each other in twenty years, and then they

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<v Speaker 4>spent six and a half hours on a flight to Hawaii, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>is this somebody's idea of a bad joke.

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<v Speaker 3>But they weren't together, you know how it isn't a

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<v Speaker 3>plane if you're not sitting near anybody, you don't even

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<v Speaker 3>see them. I mean they were on the same airplane.

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<v Speaker 3>Chances are they didn't see each other other than crossing

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<v Speaker 3>maybe like when they were waiting to get on the

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<v Speaker 3>plane and getting off the plane.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, well he does say that everyone was very

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<v Speaker 4>very cordial, very respectful. You know, first class is small,

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<v Speaker 4>so I want to know, with Nick in first class

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<v Speaker 4>with his wife Vanessa, I'm guessing maybe. So I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 4>maybe it was a little more cozy than what we're thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Moving but alone.

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<v Speaker 3>They all have good careers that they all could probably

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<v Speaker 3>afford it. I just didn't sound like they really were

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<v Speaker 3>because he said on that indycoone interview. But when I

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<v Speaker 3>say spent like we spent time, you know, on the

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<v Speaker 3>same flight, he says, in the same vicinity so I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think that means that they like they He would

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<v Speaker 3>have said I was in first class too.

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<v Speaker 1>We all know that this is about Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he was being planned.

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<v Speaker 4>I think they were all in the free drinks section.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they talked. I think they were all hottails.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to ask both of your questions, Joan, you

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<v Speaker 4>and I are widows, so Susan, I'm coming at you, baby,

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<v Speaker 4>if you ran into your acts on the flight, would

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<v Speaker 4>I know the answer, but just play with me here?

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<v Speaker 4>Talk to them? Would you try to sit next to them?

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<v Speaker 4>Would you avoid him?

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<v Speaker 1>I would definitely talk to them, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that i'd go out of my way

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<v Speaker 2>to sit next to him because he talks a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Great relationship with your yes, and we all know that,

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<v Speaker 3>which is wonderful, great for you, great for your kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Like kept that family continuity good. You know they didn't

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<v Speaker 3>Conjessica Simpson and Nikola Chey didn't have kids together, so

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<v Speaker 3>I think when they split, they really split. There was

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<v Speaker 3>nothing left. There was no talking clearly for twenty years,

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<v Speaker 3>so like, who cares if they spoke at this point, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>hope you're doing well. You know, enjoy your time in

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<v Speaker 3>Hawaii would have been about all I probably would have done.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, especially with your wife next to you and your

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<v Speaker 2>children and they were all up there.

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<v Speaker 4>He said it was fine. So you know what, more powered,

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<v Speaker 4>I hope had a great time in Hawaii. Hope the

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<v Speaker 4>weather was good.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so why it probably was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Moving right along now we have Jason Biggs and wife

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<v Speaker 2>Jenny Mullin split kepterr eighteen years of marriage. Jason and

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<v Speaker 2>his wife Jenny after eighteen years. I mean that's a

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<v Speaker 2>long time. A rep for the couple confirmed to People

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<v Speaker 2>on Thursday, May fourteenth that Bigs forty eight and Mullin

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<v Speaker 2>forty six have separated, though they remain on great terms

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<v Speaker 2>and are focused on co parenting their two sons, Lazio

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<v Speaker 2>and Sid eight and twelve. A source close to the

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<v Speaker 2>pair tells People that Mullin and Biggs are doing great

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<v Speaker 2>and spent BIG's forty eighth birthday together as a family

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<v Speaker 2>on Tuesday the twelfth. Now, see that's cool. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We would do that here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're very much connected, the source says of Biggs

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<v Speaker 2>and Mullin's future as co parents. I have no doubt

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<v Speaker 2>they will remain on excellent terms. They met on the

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<v Speaker 2>set of a two thousand and eight movie, My Best

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<v Speaker 2>Friend's Girl. The pair were engaged in January two thousand

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<v Speaker 2>and eight and eloped in a private ceremony that April.

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<v Speaker 2>In July of that year, they exchanged valves for a

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<v Speaker 2>second time at a ceremony in Napa, California that featured

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<v Speaker 2>about forty guests in attendance, As people reported at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Susan Wade, I have a question for both.

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<v Speaker 4>I know it's eighteen years later, but if you elope

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<v Speaker 4>and then you have a private ceremony, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't it kind of feel like I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>got it was eighteen years later, but I just want

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted that to work out. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what the history of kind of Hollywood marriages

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<v Speaker 3>is they are pretty sure, you know, five six, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>ten years, eighteen years, you're starting to get invested like

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<v Speaker 3>this is one of the good ones. They're going to

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<v Speaker 3>stay together, and then they springing on us that they're not.

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel that one. It also has to you know,

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<v Speaker 3>has kids involved.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that they have, and they say here that

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<v Speaker 2>they kept their life together relatively private and helps tend

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<v Speaker 2>to keep their sons out of the public eye, so

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't app that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, absolutely, I think that's but I don't know. So

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<v Speaker 4>here's I mean, Joan, you and I were married. I

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<v Speaker 4>was married the longest of I mean, other than methusel

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<v Speaker 4>I've been married the longest of anybody. Joan, you were

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<v Speaker 4>married a long time, Susan. Actually, you know you were

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<v Speaker 4>married a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>People ask me this all the time. Do you think

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<v Speaker 4>you should have to renew year marriage fast? Would you

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<v Speaker 4>have done that?

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<v Speaker 1>Joan? Would you have done that?

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<v Speaker 2>It's not necessary, but some people love to celebrate that

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<v Speaker 2>they're still in love, because I do that for a living.

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<v Speaker 1>So don't damn it. I just would do Would you

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<v Speaker 1>do it, Susan, I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>If I had somebody maybe No, no, no, if I

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<v Speaker 2>was still in love after two no, no, No.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not vows, Honeybunny. It's renewing your marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not. It's not a declaration. It is Kathy, it's legal,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is.

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm saying, Susan is and John, do you think

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<v Speaker 4>renewing your marriage like we go and renew our driver's license.

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<v Speaker 1>What every five six, sex years, four years, whatever. Well

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<v Speaker 1>it's different in every state.

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<v Speaker 4>But do you think you should have to renew your

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<v Speaker 4>marriage because I will tell you I dated a guy,

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<v Speaker 4>uh for not that long, but he had lived with

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<v Speaker 4>a woman and he said that every six months they

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<v Speaker 4>sat down and decided whether they wanted to recommit now

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<v Speaker 4>they weren't married.

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<v Speaker 1>But would you ever do that?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a big difference. I feel like I think you

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<v Speaker 3>opened up a whole can of worms because we're no

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<v Speaker 3>or what the answer is? Maybe like how it's not

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<v Speaker 3>like going to the DMV and say I'm going to

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<v Speaker 3>continue to drive. I'm going to continue to not drive,

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<v Speaker 3>to continue to drive. There's the only application is on you.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not going to drive anymore when you say we're

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<v Speaker 3>not going to be a couple anymore than the answers

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<v Speaker 3>and you have to get divorced. And so that's like

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<v Speaker 3>a whole big thing. I don't think that it's really feasible.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's so bad to check in on

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<v Speaker 3>your marriage, you know, every few months, every few years.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a friend who he is a divorce attorney

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<v Speaker 3>and she is a couple's counselor, and they are married

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<v Speaker 3>and they have the greatest marriage. They have such a

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<v Speaker 3>weird like dichotomy of what they do and they are

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<v Speaker 3>so good at staying Mary because they do that, like

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<v Speaker 3>that's something that is in their like you know, monthly

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<v Speaker 3>check in. They sit down and go to dinner and

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<v Speaker 3>they talk about what's working, what isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's it's like being in therapy. Right, It's like

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<v Speaker 2>being in therapy. You talk, you communicate.

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<v Speaker 4>Joe brings up a good point. Joe, a great point,

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<v Speaker 4>because think about it. You go out to dinner to

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<v Speaker 4>have your conversation about renewing your.

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<v Speaker 1>Marriage, not in your vows, like do we want before?

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<v Speaker 1>So how are we? What page are we on? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>He says no, you know what I'm going to say?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, fine, I want the house in the Hamptons and

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<v Speaker 4>five percent of the checking accounting savings and your retirement.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, and what do we do with our kids?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I mean, then that opens that whole thing if

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<v Speaker 3>you have kids of who you know, custody and stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like that. So I certainly don't think it's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I get the point of checking in on your marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't think it should be like a legal thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Right right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a good idea. I do, I actually do.

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<v Speaker 2>Well wait do you hear this? So recently, she shared

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<v Speaker 2>a photo of herself and Bigs on Instagram. A totally

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<v Speaker 2>approachable couple, not trying to seduce you, she wrote in

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<v Speaker 2>a caption, how cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, they are a cute couple.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean they were, and you know what, they're going

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<v Speaker 4>to go on as because as you pointed out, John,

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<v Speaker 4>they're gonna go on in Hollywood. They're going to find

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<v Speaker 4>their next one. And you know, two years from now

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<v Speaker 4>will either be saying congrats on the marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Or they moved on again.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't too long ago that we were. We did

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<v Speaker 2>a pod cast on the celebrations of divorce. Right, they

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<v Speaker 2>got a ring, they had a cake, they had a party,

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<v Speaker 2>a divorce party.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, whatever works, is what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we got to move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Real Housewives of Miami star Lisa and her ex boyfriend

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<v Speaker 4>Jody Gliddon's they got their spying charges dropped. Lisa and

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<v Speaker 4>her ex boyfriend Jody are no longer facing criminal charges.

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<v Speaker 1>They were each arrested in April. Are you ready for this?

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<v Speaker 4>On one felony charge of interception of wire, oral or

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<v Speaker 4>electronic communications after allegedly placing.

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<v Speaker 1>A recording device in her ex husband's Lenny's car.

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<v Speaker 4>Amid their divorce proceedings in twenty twenty three. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>going to say to you, I had to read this like,

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<v Speaker 4>hold on, there's too many people, So it gets worse.

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<v Speaker 4>They reached an agreement with the prosecution and the charges

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<v Speaker 4>will be dismissed mid June without any admission of guilt

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<v Speaker 4>or conviction. You got to love our legal system, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So that all just happened on Tuesday, May nineteenth, which

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<v Speaker 4>by the way, would have been my fifty third wedding anniversary.

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<v Speaker 4>So people reached out to Winetraub for a comment and

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<v Speaker 4>they both Lisa and Glyndon were accepted into the Advocacy

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<v Speaker 4>Program's Felony Trial Diversion program. This was according to court

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<v Speaker 4>documents obtained by People. The private, not for profit Justice

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<v Speaker 4>agency offers court ordered individuals the ability to have their

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<v Speaker 4>arrest record are we ready sealed and or expuse and

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<v Speaker 4>have the charges dropped by the State Attorney's office if

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<v Speaker 4>they remain and I'm quoting arrest free. This is all

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<v Speaker 4>according to the agency site. Will somebody please tell me? Wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>I have a question. Now, both of them were arrested.

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<v Speaker 4>So they were doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, well they were doing it together. They were together

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<v Speaker 3>doing it. But I mean the crazy thing is he

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<v Speaker 3>allowed her to borrow his car. The article says, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>person allowed her to borrow his Mercedes Mercedes been GLS

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<v Speaker 3>six hundred Maybach.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>He discovers a few days later that there is this

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<v Speaker 3>weird thing underneath his seat and he pulls it out

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<v Speaker 3>and he sees it, his tape all over it, and

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<v Speaker 3>it is a recording device. Now who else could it be?

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<v Speaker 1>We back up for a minute.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never been divorced, but I'm going to say that

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<v Speaker 4>is a pricey car, and I'm divorced from somebody, and

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<v Speaker 4>I got my ex. You know, it's so many players

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<v Speaker 4>in this, in this cast of characters. Hey, honey, can

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<v Speaker 4>if I borrow your really expensive card because I'm thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Buying one for myself. Sure we're divorced, go for it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean really, because she couldn't have gone to a

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<v Speaker 3>Mercedes dealership and gotten one.

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<v Speaker 1>What was she trying to learn though? I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>was she trying to hear?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, he doesn't ever talk about what that

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<v Speaker 3>is like that she's trying to hear. But I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>that there was contention between them because you're getting divorced.

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<v Speaker 3>He has a new girlfriend, she has a new boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so Lenny, smart guy. When he finds the device,

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<v Speaker 4>he alerts his lawyer. They hire experts who sorry, who

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<v Speaker 4>recovered several recordings from the device, and the warrant claims,

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<v Speaker 4>adding that quote, one of the last recordings from before

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<v Speaker 4>the vehicle was returned to the victim, depicts Lisa and

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<v Speaker 4>Glyndon holding a discussion and the distinct sound of a

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<v Speaker 4>device such as the hidden recorder, being wrestled in place,

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<v Speaker 4>and then the device later captured the former couple speaking

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<v Speaker 4>about their kids, his plastic surgery practice, finances, and a

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<v Speaker 4>construction project. All this, again is according to the artist warrant.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm wondering if they discussed dental appointments.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, no, what they did way worse because listen

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<v Speaker 3>to this. It says detectives allegedly recovered deleted materilla from

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<v Speaker 3>the device, including a tape of Lisa and Glidden engage

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<v Speaker 3>in intimate activities and other conversations between them, which so

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<v Speaker 3>first of all, like that is all nuts. They had

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<v Speaker 3>all these discussions knowing that the device was recording. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess they thought it's never going to give you know,

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<v Speaker 3>found It'll only be us hearing these these things.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, Joan, Well you had me until the

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<v Speaker 4>last bit. Why would you engage think about this. You've

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<v Speaker 4>now returned the car to your ex husband, who has

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<v Speaker 4>filed for divorce in May of twenty twenty two, now

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<v Speaker 4>returned the car. You have engaged in these acts, said

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<v Speaker 4>these things, and you've given the car back with the

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<v Speaker 4>recording device intact?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make any of.

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<v Speaker 3>You were confident that they had done such a good

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<v Speaker 3>job being spies that they would never be caught. Yet

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<v Speaker 3>they were terrible spies. Is never caught really fast?

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<v Speaker 1>Stupid criminals are always caught. Wait.

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<v Speaker 2>It says that she bought him from Amazon three months prior,

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<v Speaker 2>but she bought two of the exact same models, So

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<v Speaker 2>maybe she put the wrong one in his cost.

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<v Speaker 3>But why would you be recording yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know, I don't exactly. Okay, here's the last thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, they had it says amid their divorce battle, So

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<v Speaker 4>this was not a copathetic divorce clearly, but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>let's lend you the car. Anyway, they were involved in

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<v Speaker 4>and contentious proceedings. Lisa alleged she was being financially strangled

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<v Speaker 4>by Lenny. So you know what, if I'm being financially

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<v Speaker 4>strangled by God, I'm going to ask you if I

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<v Speaker 4>can borrow your car.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, none of this makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>And then his then girlfriend Katerina Matzappa I can't even

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<v Speaker 4>say her last name, Mazeppa, also filed a restraining order

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<v Speaker 4>against Lisa, although that was later dismissed.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what we call this in the home country,

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<v Speaker 1>a michig gos what Well.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing that shocks me the most is it sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like there is so much evidence against them. They have

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<v Speaker 3>her buying the devices, They have them talking in the

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<v Speaker 3>car where the device is hand and it sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>they are handling the device trying to tape it up

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<v Speaker 3>under the like they have all of this sales. They

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<v Speaker 3>have sounds of them like doing intemn So they have

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<v Speaker 3>them on the device, they had them in the car,

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<v Speaker 3>they had her purchasing device. Why did they drop these charges?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But here's here's one other question I have.

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<v Speaker 4>Lenny was ordered to pay Lisa fifteen thousand dollars per

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<v Speaker 4>month in child support.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how she's financially being strangled. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, so that's number one, Susan. Number two, Could she

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<v Speaker 4>not have afforded a better recording device.

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<v Speaker 3>Hired somebody to install it?

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<v Speaker 1>And moving right along on?

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<v Speaker 3>Moving on?

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<v Speaker 1>How about this?

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<v Speaker 3>Mandy Moore makes rare comment about ex Ryan Adams claims

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't ask her dad for a blessing to propose.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what you guys think about this. Let

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<v Speaker 3>me read this a little bit and then let's talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it. Danny Moore is recalling the moment her husband,

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<v Speaker 3>Taylor Goldsmith, asked for her dad's hand in marriage. That's

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<v Speaker 3>not really what happened. Asked for her hand in marriage

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<v Speaker 3>from her dad, which is allegedly something her first husband,

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<v Speaker 3>Right Adams didn't do. He was touched, Mandy recalled after

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<v Speaker 3>the Tuesday May nineteenth episode of What Was Us podcast

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<v Speaker 3>of her dad's reaction. I had been betrothed before, but

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<v Speaker 3>that person did not ask my father, So I think

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<v Speaker 3>my dad was very touched that it was done in

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<v Speaker 3>the traditional way. My dad appreciates that. But listen to

0:20:56.040 --> 0:20:58.800
<v Speaker 3>her dad she continued, but I believe he's also super

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<v Speaker 3>awkward and was like, oh my gosh, you don't have

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<v Speaker 3>to ask someone for my permission, has Taylor recounted it

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<v Speaker 3>to me. Mandy and Ryan Adams began dating in two

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<v Speaker 3>thousand and seven and tied the knot two years later.

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<v Speaker 3>After nearly six years of marriage, the pair called it

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<v Speaker 3>quits in twenty fifteen. Mandy and Ryan's divorce was finalized

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<v Speaker 3>in twenty sixteen. So later she becomes engaged with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you guys think about that whole thing about

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<v Speaker 3>asking your father for or asking her father for the

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<v Speaker 3>hand in marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about the man. It's up to him. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Some men really appreciate that and they think that's necessary,

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<v Speaker 2>and I admire it, but it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, wait a second, I think it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>the age.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just going to say, if you have a forty

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<v Speaker 4>year old daughter or a you know, I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>ridiculous young for Mandy Moore at the time. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>she's in her late thirties. I think now, so she

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<v Speaker 4>was in her early to mid twenties. I think it's appropriate.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's as you said, Susan, it's kind chivalrous,

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<v Speaker 4>it's night.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not that I wouldn't marry a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>did did Miss Daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how I feel about it. And I ask you.

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<v Speaker 3>Both my sons did ask their soon to be father

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<v Speaker 3>in laws or their their father and now their father

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<v Speaker 3>in laws to marry their daughter. And both of my

0:22:14.960 --> 0:22:17.720
<v Speaker 3>son in laws asked John and I so say, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I think my kids ended up with really traditional cousins

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<v Speaker 3>and wives.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just can I just tell you my husband

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<v Speaker 4>did ask my parents, but I was just.

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<v Speaker 1>Barely out of the credit when I got married.

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<v Speaker 4>But I have to tell you I can always I

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<v Speaker 4>try to do this about crying my daughter who has

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<v Speaker 4>been married since for like four years. But my husband

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<v Speaker 4>took his life right like right before he was going

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<v Speaker 4>to ask his permission to get married. And so we

0:22:46.520 --> 0:22:50.080
<v Speaker 4>were playing golf, my now son in law, my son

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<v Speaker 4>and I and at the end of the golf round,

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<v Speaker 4>he said, I have something I want to ask you guys,

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<v Speaker 4>and he asked our permission to marry my daughter. And

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<v Speaker 4>I got to tell you, I thought that was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>I think good manners and chivalry never goes out of style.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my son in law, the one that married my

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<v Speaker 3>daughter Erica. John was really really sick, like he was. Yeah,

0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 3>he died just a few months after that, but did

0:23:14.480 --> 0:23:16.320
<v Speaker 3>make sure, like wanted to ask him before he died,

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<v Speaker 3>like you could sit that he was kind of on

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<v Speaker 3>the wall.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's something you know your daughter will never forget.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me ask you girls something. This is what we

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<v Speaker 2>just read here and talked about. Was she Mandy griping

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<v Speaker 2>that the first husband didn't do it, or just matter

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<v Speaker 2>of factly saying that the new husband did but the

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<v Speaker 2>old husband didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>As that all that was. I feel like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Since she's even talking about it, certainly like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>stuck in her brain a little bit. Yeah, comes to

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<v Speaker 3>me and.

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<v Speaker 4>She says, see what her dad was touched. I think

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<v Speaker 4>she's just acknowledging. She is acknowledging that it was the

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<v Speaker 4>sweet thing, a sweet gesture for him to do. And

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, I love Mandy Moore. So if she's happy,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of at the end of this article, they say.

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<v Speaker 3>Two years later, Mandy began speaking out about her relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with her ex husband, and in twenty nineteen, The New

0:24:05.440 --> 0:24:09.040
<v Speaker 3>York Times published a profile in which seven women, including

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<v Speaker 3>Mandy came forward to share misconduct allegations against Ryan.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that doesn't have anything to do that's just you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I hear you.

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<v Speaker 1>But that doesn't everything to do with asking permission. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about the Grammar here. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Camille Grammar reveals the very harsh text ex husband Kelsey

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<v Speaker 2>Grammer sent her after their split. Camille is opening up

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<v Speaker 2>about the aftermath of her split from ex husband Kelsey

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<v Speaker 2>Grammar on my eighteenth episode of Cynthia Bailey and Crystal

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<v Speaker 2>Kong miccoff Humbles Brag podcast. Camille fifty seven shared that

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<v Speaker 2>she hasn't spoken to Kelsey seventy one in fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 2>The exes wed in nineteen ninety seven and split in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty ten after Kelsey admitted to having an affair with

0:25:10.440 --> 0:25:16.400
<v Speaker 2>flight attendant Katie Walsh, whom he later married. And when

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<v Speaker 2>you ask me about the I'm sorry or the remorse

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<v Speaker 2>he said to me, he sent me a text saying

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<v Speaker 2>I feel no remorse for what I'm doing, Camille revealed.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was very harsh because I was very much

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<v Speaker 2>in love with him, and I believed he was very

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<v Speaker 2>much in love with me.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy. She had no idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, hold on, Johan, I got to be the bearer

0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:42.480
<v Speaker 4>of bad news here. It's as badly as I feel

0:25:42.720 --> 0:25:45.159
<v Speaker 4>for anybody that that happens. So because you're right, it

0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:47.760
<v Speaker 4>comes from nowhere, Joan. And you've got kids, and we

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:51.520
<v Speaker 4>all care about our children. I have to say, this

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 4>is not a rare event, not just in Hollywood but

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<v Speaker 4>in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, do you agree with me? It happens all the

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<v Speaker 1>time time.

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<v Speaker 2>Most men will try to lie the way out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's saying, I feel no remorse for what I'm doing,

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<v Speaker 2>meaning having the affair.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I happen to have watched this season of Real Housewives

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<v Speaker 3>of every Hills. I don't watch all the Real Housewives.

0:26:12.880 --> 0:26:16.439
<v Speaker 3>I happen to watch this particular season, and I remember

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<v Speaker 3>Camille and a bunch of the other housewives are going

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<v Speaker 3>to New York to see Kelsey Grammer in a Broadway play,

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<v Speaker 3>and they all kind of arrive and she's so proud

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<v Speaker 3>of him, and she's talking about her wonderful, like talented husband,

0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:31.080
<v Speaker 3>and they are also excited to be going to see him,

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:35.880
<v Speaker 3>and he barely gave them the time of day, any

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:40.160
<v Speaker 3>of them, and was downright rude to her and dismissive. Yeah,

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:43.679
<v Speaker 3>one or two minutes that he even saw her venue.

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<v Speaker 4>You want to know why he doesn't have time. He's

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<v Speaker 4>on his fourth marriage.

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have time.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a man, in my opinion, who acts first

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:56.399
<v Speaker 4>and doesn't think later.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think he's a narcissist.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean whatever he is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, he doesn't take the in my opinion, he does

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:07.359
<v Speaker 4>not take marriage as a commitment. He takes it as

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 4>this worked for me today. Yes, if it doesn't work out,

0:27:10.960 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 4>see you later. By don't care.

0:27:12.640 --> 0:27:13.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm moving on.

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:17.960
<v Speaker 2>And she's honest about saying she was broken, and she

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 2>broke when the show was airing because it was getting

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 2>She was getting it from all sides, as you said, Jones.

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 2>She was part of the original cast of the Real

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:31.240
<v Speaker 2>Housewives of Beverly Hills. Her split from Kelsey was documented

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<v Speaker 2>on the Bravo show. I don't feel like I was

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 2>getting a break, she says, because the show that fans

0:27:37.119 --> 0:27:41.840
<v Speaker 2>the audience then bigger than that. It's Kelsey's people, his

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 2>machine behind him to protect his image that were on

0:27:46.000 --> 0:27:50.000
<v Speaker 2>full force. She remembers calling him and saying, get your

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:53.359
<v Speaker 2>dogs off me, Get your bulldogs off me, because I

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:56.400
<v Speaker 2>don't want to keep reading this horrible stuff that you're

0:27:56.400 --> 0:28:01.399
<v Speaker 2>putting out there with your posy for your posse, to

0:28:01.480 --> 0:28:05.080
<v Speaker 2>protect your image. She added, Can you imagine when everybody

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 2>and maybe he didn't even say everything, you know how

0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 2>that goes on social media?

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:11.399
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but hold on, I.

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<v Speaker 4>And again, you know Kathy can be harsh sometimes, but

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 4>I think I'm real these are people in the public eye.

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:24.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, So when you sign.

0:28:24.800 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 4>Up to be on the Real Housewives, you're signing up.

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 4>We have seen it with the current you know, the

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 4>current season of The Bachelor that isn't being shown as

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 4>of now. This is something you sign up for. And

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 4>while I feel badly for her, let me repeat, He's

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:47.360
<v Speaker 4>on his fourth marriage, she's a reality TV star and

0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:49.240
<v Speaker 4>this happens.

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well she failed it though.

0:28:51.080 --> 0:28:53.760
<v Speaker 2>She said she kept getting kicked from every angle, she

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:57.080
<v Speaker 2>couldn't come up for air. She was even suicidal, it

0:28:57.120 --> 0:29:00.040
<v Speaker 2>says she said. It felt like being thrown in the

0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:02.840
<v Speaker 2>middle of the ocean without a life, ramped and drowning.

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:07.200
<v Speaker 3>I usually think that housewives, like all these housewives, like

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:10.719
<v Speaker 3>their marriages are really fragile while they're being filmed, because

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:14.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel like production finds any little thread that they

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:17.480
<v Speaker 3>can start pulling on and hoping that things will unravel.

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 3>So they have drama, and I don't know if that's

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 3>like part of their story. I watched the season. I

0:29:24.200 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 3>remember rarely seeing Kelsey Grammar as part of it, Like

0:29:27.040 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 3>he was too good to be part of a Real Housewives,

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 3>so he was really rarely in it. So I'm thinking,

0:29:32.840 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 3>may be things unraveled because of the show, and.

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 2>She's letting public people get the best of her. She

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:42.520
<v Speaker 2>went into a really dark place. She was so upset,

0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:47.720
<v Speaker 2>and she never would commit suicide, obviously, but she felt like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I get out of this because I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>getting any help. How would you expect to get help?

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:55.959
<v Speaker 2>Erase it? You can't get help, you just move on

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 2>and be a better person. So Dan proud and speak

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 2>your piece and move on, right, Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Before we move on, I got to be honest personally.

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<v Speaker 4>I have an issue with this because someone who says

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<v Speaker 4>I was so dark, I was like almost suicidal, but

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<v Speaker 4>not quite because I would never commit suicide.

0:30:16.920 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 1>It's died by suicide.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't put those as somebody who is a survivor

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:23.440
<v Speaker 4>of a spouse who died by suicide.

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<v Speaker 1>I read that.

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like, she's saying that, so that's how she felt, Like, yeah,

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 2>I understand it imagining you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah again, I'm I'm not quite as friendly on this

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 4>one because when you're on a public when you're a

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 4>public figure, you're signing up for this, and you sent

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:44.000
<v Speaker 4>up for the good, the bad, and the u of.

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Kathy when when you said zip it in the world

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 2>attacked you for the first three months after the show,

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean you had to survive it, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I assure you I was not even thinking

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 4>about suicide.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, let's move on because now we Okay. Love

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<v Speaker 1>is blind.

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<v Speaker 4>Chelsea Griffin and Quame they break up after four years

0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 4>of marriage. They announced their ending their marriage only after

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<v Speaker 4>four years. And this is a quote. Last week would

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 4>have marked our fourth wedding anniversary, Griffin wrote in a

0:31:18.280 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 4>statement in a joint Instagram post on Thursday, May fifteenth. Quote,

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 4>out of respect for the life we shared, I wanted

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 4>to address this moment directly with the community that has

0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 4>supported us over the years. It's heartbreaking to share that

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:35.320
<v Speaker 4>our marriage is coming to an end.

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea continued.

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<v Speaker 4>This is not the outcome I hoped for, she said,

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<v Speaker 4>and I entered this relationship with deep love, commitment, and

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.520
<v Speaker 4>the intention of building the lasting life together.

0:31:46.760 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't we all? Don't we all? Though? Don't we all?

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>That's how we get in, that's you know, happened.

0:31:51.600 --> 0:31:55.160
<v Speaker 4>She also She also added that she poured her whole

0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 4>heart into the marriage. It eventually became clear that they

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 4>were growing in differ directions. My mantra going forward is

0:32:02.720 --> 0:32:05.440
<v Speaker 4>that I am strong, I am resilient, and there is

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<v Speaker 4>still so much ahead of me, Griffin wrote. She also added,

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<v Speaker 4>while this chapter is deeply painful, I trust that healing

0:32:13.680 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 4>and clarity will come with me. So Huame shared his

0:32:17.680 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 4>own message in a separate slide, revealing the pair has

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:25.560
<v Speaker 4>reached the difficult decision after realizing their ultimate life goals.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't feel aligned. I don't know what do you guys think.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's nice that they both put it out

0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 2>there that they tried and they couldn't do it, but

0:32:33.240 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 2>they want the public to know that's all.

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 3>But they're putting like when they should. They tried it

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:40.040
<v Speaker 3>for four years. That seems like a reasonable amount of time.

0:32:40.080 --> 0:32:42.560
<v Speaker 3>They don't have children. It seems like it's an amical

0:32:42.560 --> 0:32:44.640
<v Speaker 3>divorce and they're ready to move on, and I bet

0:32:44.640 --> 0:32:47.080
<v Speaker 3>both of them will find somebody and be very very happy.

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 3>This is a learning, you know, a learning part of

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:50.080
<v Speaker 3>their journey.

0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 2>But they're both being respectful of each other and saying

0:32:52.960 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 2>they both tried.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's beautiful.

0:32:56.040 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't either, But I want y'all to remember that

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 4>these two met on love is blind, and that's not

0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:05.760
<v Speaker 4>like meeting on a blind date that your set you

0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:08.000
<v Speaker 4>up when they're going out with your next door neighbor.

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 4>This is a couple that didn't see each other. We

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 4>all know the premise of love is blind. You don't

0:33:13.720 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 4>see the person until until you know intergregation commitment. And

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:24.960
<v Speaker 4>so I think I'm actually impressed that they made it

0:33:25.040 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 4>four years because to me, if you have not met

0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 4>the person only through what you see behind the screen,

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 4>and you made it four years, I actually believe them

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:40.000
<v Speaker 4>that they really an old college right, and I love

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 4>like you guys said, they came together to make the announcement.

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 2>I think it was very full of class. They were

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 2>really you think love is blind?

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that premise works for dating someone?

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 3>I would love to know what their success rate is, Yeah,

0:33:55.080 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 3>because I feel like it's a very I think it's

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 3>a really hard premise. Like I think that there is

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:04.680
<v Speaker 3>something to seeing a person. I think I have a chemistry

0:34:04.920 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 3>and you don't just get it from talking to them.

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.799
<v Speaker 1>It's the whole package. Yes, it's the feeling. Yes, you're

0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 1>exactly right. You're exactly right.

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 4>I agree with you, John, I do. But do you

0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:17.240
<v Speaker 4>know that Kwame's mother had an issue with them getting married?

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:18.319
<v Speaker 3>I knew that.

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 4>They go into that, You go into it with that

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:24.600
<v Speaker 4>right there, that's you know, that's an uphill battle right there.

0:34:24.640 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 3>When a lot of mothers have issues with their and

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 3>the girls, they never think they're good enough. So I'm

0:34:29.680 --> 0:34:31.000
<v Speaker 3>not sure if I was going to give a lot

0:34:31.040 --> 0:34:33.560
<v Speaker 3>of a lot of weight to like kind of what

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 3>she thinks. But I do really feel like they I mean,

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 3>four years, they gave it a hell of a try,

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:41.280
<v Speaker 3>so you're proud to try. They tried.

0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Listen, I go on Love is Would you guys go

0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:46.160
<v Speaker 1>on Love Is Blind? Would you do it?

0:34:46.560 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't do it.

0:34:47.480 --> 0:34:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that I couldn't do it. No.

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 3>I mean, although it's a super popular show, they're I

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:55.160
<v Speaker 3>have been problem finding it, finding people to participate in it,

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:58.360
<v Speaker 3>but you know it wouldn't be for me. I don't think, okay.

0:34:58.400 --> 0:35:00.439
<v Speaker 3>I also think it's kind of too final. They really

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:02.279
<v Speaker 3>do get married at the end, So I feel like

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 3>you need I feel like you really need some time,

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 3>even after being on show, to get to know each

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 3>other better. I don't I can't imagine break from the

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:08.640
<v Speaker 3>show to marriage.

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:11.480
<v Speaker 1>That's I think what you got here. Last one season,

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<v Speaker 1>one more Love is Blind, one last Love is Blind.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Love is Blind's Alexa Lomo speaks in breaks silence

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<v Speaker 3>a reason for Brennan lamo divorce Love is Blind. Alexi

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<v Speaker 3>Lamo is ready to open up about her decision to

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<v Speaker 3>get a divorce from a strange husband, Brennan after four

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<v Speaker 3>years of marriage. Another four year marriage from Love is Blind.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's a statistic we should be talking about. I

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<v Speaker 3>had asked for it, Alexa thirty one shared in US

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<v Speaker 3>Weekly's exclusive sneak peek of the Thursday, May twenty first

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<v Speaker 3>episode of the He Said, Gee Said Podcast. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>because there was a lack of love on my part.

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<v Speaker 3>I just couldn't do it anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I was tired, tired from what wait wait, wait, how

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<v Speaker 2>do you what do you mean? Tired, Like, how do

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<v Speaker 2>you get tired of trying? Tired of him, tired of sex.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything that has I don't know why she's tired.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to clean anymore, Like, what is tired?

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<v Speaker 1>So tight? It was? I just want you to know.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't a lack of love, Joan, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it had to do with, like you just said,

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<v Speaker 4>cleaning the house, cooking habit, sex, run.

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<v Speaker 1>In the air.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think he does. He snores at night. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, it's tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Was tired of that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Well.

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<v Speaker 3>Brendan thirty five, and Alexa got married in June twenty

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<v Speaker 3>twenty one during Love is Blind Season three, which aired

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<v Speaker 3>on Netflix the next year. The pair was later welcomed

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<v Speaker 3>a daughter of Vienna in July twenty twenty four. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>how wonderful. At least they they had had a baby.

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<v Speaker 3>They have a beautiful little daughter. When speaking with podcast

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<v Speaker 3>co host Blake Hortsman and Love is Blind, A lum

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<v Speaker 3>gi Nina malade Gabelli, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have no idea A good job, good Joe.

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<v Speaker 3>I try I sound very Italian there, Alexa claimed the

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<v Speaker 3>split was mutual. My main thing was I just wanted

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<v Speaker 3>my daughter to see that what love looks like, and

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<v Speaker 3>that wasn't it. She explained, It would be my biggest

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<v Speaker 3>failure as a for that to be what she thought

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<v Speaker 3>it was. I mean so true. I mean you, it's

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<v Speaker 3>your job to show your kids what a good marriage

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<v Speaker 3>looks like. I mean, you're the yeah example that that

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<v Speaker 3>they'll ever seeing if they thought that they were sitting

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<v Speaker 3>about example.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, Joan, you bring up a really good

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<v Speaker 4>point because all three of us are old enough to

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<v Speaker 4>know that we have friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I certainly do. Who said I stayed married for the children?

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I stayed the longest time, and we lived separately, but

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<v Speaker 2>we weren't fighters. But I stayed because of the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll never forget. After Dickie had moved out, my

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<v Speaker 2>boys came up to me in the kitchen, said, Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you wait so long? We knew you weren't happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, for you, Yeah, you know, I could have

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<v Speaker 2>maybe found a decent guy in forty at when I

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<v Speaker 2>was forty instead of waiting, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why you got to hand it to her,

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<v Speaker 4>because she said it sounds so stupid. But I saw

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<v Speaker 4>something on TikTok and it was like, quote, if your

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<v Speaker 4>daughter was in the relationship that you're in, would you

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<v Speaker 4>be proud or would you be disappointed? She said, while

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<v Speaker 4>trying to hold back tears. And she said, I would

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<v Speaker 4>have been really disappointed. That would have broken my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>That was my answer. So why do I deserve this?

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<v Speaker 1>Then?

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<v Speaker 4>And that to me shows me what a strong, emotionally

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<v Speaker 4>empowered woman she is to know she is not doing

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<v Speaker 4>Vienna any favors by staying married. That you teach your

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<v Speaker 4>children from strength, not from necessarily submission, because it might

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<v Speaker 4>be easier to hang in for ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And there's also part of me that thinks, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if the marriage was not good, staying married. Their daughter's

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<v Speaker 3>really young. I think she will never remember life of

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<v Speaker 3>her with her mom and dad together, So the spite

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be so emotional for her. It's how

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<v Speaker 3>she will know life.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're so right.

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<v Speaker 4>My son got divorced from his first wife when my

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<v Speaker 4>granddaughter was not even quite three, and he's happily married

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<v Speaker 4>now to a wonderful woman who is a great step

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<v Speaker 4>mom to my granddaughter.

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<v Speaker 1>And she doesn't remember. You're absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 4>She doesn't remember her parents living together, and she has

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<v Speaker 4>a stable home with my son his wife, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think that's far more important than quote unquote staying together.

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<v Speaker 3>Staying together for the kids, and it makes it easier

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<v Speaker 3>on them. And like you said, you know, and like

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<v Speaker 3>you said, Susan, maybe both of them have a chance

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<v Speaker 3>of finding another love and it being the right one.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, every experience we have is part of

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<v Speaker 3>the chapter that leads us to the next chapter. So

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<v Speaker 3>this was a chapter that they're closing and hopefully it

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<v Speaker 3>leads to a better chapter that they're over.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's a learning isn't that Everything happens in our

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<v Speaker 2>lives for a reason, so you learn from it, right.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what one thing we know for sure as

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<v Speaker 4>we started out this podcast, there are lots of things

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<v Speaker 4>going on in people's lives, but there are no shortages

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<v Speaker 4>of dev So with that, are you going through a

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<v Speaker 4>divorce find me chapter two hard to navigate and need

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