Speaker 1: Forever Grand Risings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know we we obviously spoke before the pod,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna be coming in a little hot, which
Speaker 2: is fine.
Speaker 1: We coming in hot or you coming in hot? Andrew,
Speaker 1: don't speak for the heat coming off my body.
Speaker 3: I mean like you're like, this is like a blanket
Speaker 3: term that you're throwing over all of us and it's
Speaker 3: just you.
Speaker 2: I'm fine, right, Andrew, I'm fine.
Speaker 3: I'm not pressed anything.
Speaker 1: I'm not pressed about anything. We gotta move that the microphone.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm I'm all the way back, I'm holding it.
Speaker 1: Look how far it is your girl? I mean I
Speaker 1: turned my volume down and it's still loud in my ears.
Speaker 1: That's That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe because you're using the iPhone headphones, it's a
Speaker 2: little different.
Speaker 1: No, Sydney, don't do that. Miss I'm coming in hot,
Speaker 1: You coming in hot? Loud? And wrongs hot loud. Wrong,
Speaker 1: that's like Caesar's Pizza.
Speaker 2: That's a great title. I'm fine, that's a good title.
Speaker 2: There was another one that we.
Speaker 1: Missed, Sidney. It's been a minute. We're sixty seconds into
Speaker 1: the podcast, is okay, all right, we'll catch another episode title.
Speaker 4: You're right, you're right.
Speaker 2: So obviously I was saying something before the podcast, and
Speaker 2: they let me know that I need to I need
Speaker 2: to speak up more when I have an issue. I
Speaker 2: need to say how I feel instead of complaining to
Speaker 2: my counterparts.
Speaker 4: And they're right, they're definitely right. But it's hard.
Speaker 2: It's definitely hard when somebody writes you or they say
Speaker 2: something to you and you're like hmm, and then you
Speaker 2: wait on it and you're like, damn, I should have
Speaker 2: said X, Y and Z.
Speaker 1: Well that's why it's important to like, like, I'll draft
Speaker 1: a text or draft a message sometimes and then I'll
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I got to come back
Speaker 1: to this. I leave and come back and then sometimes
Speaker 1: you feel differently after you've had some time to think
Speaker 1: about it. But other times it's like, this is what
Speaker 1: I mean and this is what I'm sending, and I
Speaker 1: think that's nice too.
Speaker 2: Do you ever have someone look at your text like
Speaker 2: to like review it?
Speaker 1: Not really, I mean I've done that before. I think
Speaker 1: just like, is this is this okay? Yeah, because it's
Speaker 1: usually when I'm trying not to hurt somebody's feelings, I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, yes, yes, You've definitely been like what you
Speaker 2: think about this because I'm the kind person, and then
Speaker 2: you meet somewhere in the middle because you know that
Speaker 2: I'm too.
Speaker 1: Kind, right, Usually I have to you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because like when you're trying to spare somebody's feelings, or
Speaker 1: when I'm trying to spare somebody's feelings, it makes the
Speaker 1: whole conversation a little bit harder because when you don't
Speaker 1: have to think about it, you just say what you mean,
Speaker 1: and you mean what you say.
Speaker 3: Andrew, Oh, yeah, I totally agree. I had like a
Speaker 3: situation a few months ago where, uh, it was a
Speaker 3: comedian that said something to me that was like very
Speaker 3: messed up, and they thought that it was a joke
Speaker 3: and they thought it was like very funny, and I
Speaker 3: was like, wait, I can't have a relationship with you anymore.
Speaker 4: Oh what was whoa?
Speaker 1: What was saying?
Speaker 3: You don't you don't know this comedian.
Speaker 2: I'm sure we don't. The comedians we would know would
Speaker 2: never speak to you like.
Speaker 1: That, And well we don't even know what That's not true.
Speaker 3: There are people that we all know, but they made
Speaker 3: they made some jokes that were in very bad taste.
Speaker 4: Uh, Like we're trying to get the tea.
Speaker 1: What did they say?
Speaker 3: It's it was about like children, and I didn't like it,
Speaker 3: and I was like I need to lose ties, like like.
Speaker 2: Like a bad like pedophilia joke.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like I don't like that joke at all.
Speaker 3: Like that's like weird that your your mind even produced that.
Speaker 1: We're not affiliating with comics that talk about pedophilia.
Speaker 3: And so not really like yeah, yeah, I drafted an
Speaker 3: email and I like went off and I was like
Speaker 3: this was disgusting. I hated that. Dad sent it to
Speaker 3: a friend and the friend was like, you can't say
Speaker 3: any of that because that might come back and like
Speaker 3: bite you. It was like, oh, you were aware of this,
Speaker 3: and so I was like, oh.
Speaker 1: You were aware of what of them being a creep?
Speaker 3: Of this person being a creep. And then like if
Speaker 3: I was like aware of it, then it was like okay, then, Andrew,
Speaker 3: why didn't you intervene when it was just like okay, Andrew,
Speaker 3: but just like step away, but.
Speaker 1: You sending that message, is you intervening? Yeah, no, I'll
Speaker 1: them on it.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, because I just lied, and I was just
Speaker 3: like no, I can't work with you anymore.
Speaker 4: It's just no, you oh you didn't want to even
Speaker 4: work with them? No.
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't work with it because they
Speaker 3: they crossed like a few boundaries before and they were
Speaker 3: like who do you masturbate too? And stuff like that,
Speaker 3: and it was like, wait, sir, are like that he
Speaker 3: thought that we were and I was like no, no, no.
Speaker 3: In the first few times, I was like maybe this
Speaker 3: is like I don't know what this is. Trying to
Speaker 3: justify it, but it was just you know, but then.
Speaker 4: Is this a straight man?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, oh wow what weird flirting?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You is it me?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Very weird.
Speaker 4: That's a good title. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah that I mean, you know, the thing is about
Speaker 2: like comedy and friendship and working especially comedy. The lines
Speaker 2: are very much blurred. They're so blurred you're like, oh,
Speaker 2: I feel like we're mad cool. But it's like, but
Speaker 2: we actually work together because I mean that this happens
Speaker 2: with me and Andrew, you know from time to time,
Speaker 2: and I like, when you, you know.
Speaker 4: Put me in my place, tell me actually.
Speaker 3: Do as me putting you in your place. I'm just
Speaker 3: like voicing concern for the record. Yeah, okay, I know,
Speaker 3: because I can clear Monday, Yeah, I do not want
Speaker 3: it to seem like Okay. When we end the recording,
Speaker 3: Andrew is like, Sydney, go back to your corner.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my name, clear my name. I love that for you.
Speaker 4: Clear my name.
Speaker 2: Another beautiful title, y'all are on fire today?
Speaker 1: You just you it's.
Speaker 2: It was, It's not. It's not as as you well
Speaker 2: you know what's.
Speaker 3: Got another title?
Speaker 4: Maybe, yes, honestly it could be.
Speaker 2: Today is my four year anniversary of being sober.
Speaker 1: Yay clap clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap.
Speaker 4: Clap, thank you.
Speaker 2: And I'm feeling a little wonky today. I'm a little
Speaker 2: I feel like displaced or all over the place.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but may mental, emotionally.
Speaker 2: Mentally, emotionally, I think, you know, I'm leaving tomorrow to
Speaker 2: go to San Francisco or whatever, so I have to
Speaker 2: do all that stuff.
Speaker 4: But I think, like I am, I am proud.
Speaker 2: I am proud of where I am right now, but
Speaker 2: I'm also I feel I definitely fell all over the place.
Speaker 2: It's hard to articulate. But I don't want you guys
Speaker 2: to be worried. Don't be alarmed. I'm not gonna go
Speaker 2: like get a drink, but I definitely just I don't
Speaker 2: know how to describe this moment.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's this is the longest you've ever
Speaker 1: been sober. Yes, so that is an accomplishment in itself,
Speaker 1: but also like something to like sit and reflect on,
Speaker 1: because I mean, we talked about this yesterday. You relapsed
Speaker 1: once before, and you know, this is something it's in
Speaker 1: my phone, It's in my phone, it repeats every year,
Speaker 1: and I think that, you know, sometimes maybe that's the
Speaker 1: wrong word that I want to use. I just think
Speaker 1: that it's something that obviously it changed your life forever.
Speaker 1: And this is something that is not easy for some people.
Speaker 1: I mean, you see what just happened with Kisha Cole's mom, right,
Speaker 1: Some people get sober and they you know, they can't
Speaker 1: stay clean for whatever reason. But addiction is addiction is
Speaker 1: something that, like being friends with you, I've learned more
Speaker 1: about than I've ever thought that I would know because
Speaker 1: I don't really have any addicts in my family. But
Speaker 1: it's it's very common, I think, especially in the black community.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a big deal.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean I remember when I relapsed and we were
Speaker 2: in Starbucks and I was crying, and you shed one
Speaker 2: thug tear for me over the empanadas, and I was like, okay.
Speaker 1: Em banadas. We were eating banatas a Starbucks.
Speaker 3: Starbucks.
Speaker 2: There was like a little impanata truck on that corner
Speaker 2: and we brought it into Starbucks. And this sounds like
Speaker 2: that sounds like yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I was so I was so disheveled in a mess
Speaker 2: and I didn't have no weaven. I had my my
Speaker 2: hair natural and shaved on the sides, and I was
Speaker 2: just like crying looking at it.
Speaker 1: I remember that hair moment, sitting me with the natural
Speaker 1: hair for like a month.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, it was a couple of months.
Speaker 2: But yeah, you were definitely affected and you were like,
Speaker 2: what are we gonna do?
Speaker 1: Well? Because it's like, as somebody who is very new
Speaker 1: to this, but also somebody who's trying to be a
Speaker 1: good friend. This is this goes back to m making
Speaker 1: sure that I say the right thing so that I
Speaker 1: don't have hurt somebody's feelings. I also feel like for me,
Speaker 1: like I'm not trying to be selfish, but I have
Speaker 1: to be selfish sometimes, you know what I mean. Like
Speaker 1: if we're trying to create something together. We're trying to
Speaker 1: work together, and you can't you for whatever reason, can't
Speaker 1: can't be where you need to be. That affects me
Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, you know. And it's like I want
Speaker 1: to be there for my friend. I want her to win,
Speaker 1: I want her to feel good about herself, and I
Speaker 1: want her to like make smart decisions, but I can't
Speaker 1: make those decisions for you, you know. And so like
Speaker 1: somebody left to review the other day on iTunes and
Speaker 1: they were like, Marie and Andrew, you need to be
Speaker 1: nicer to Sydney. Whenever Sidney says something, they attack her
Speaker 1: Sidney did, They're like, my good sister can't even get
Speaker 1: all words out without them shutting down. And it's like
Speaker 1: when it comes to some when it comes to addiction,
Speaker 1: or when it comes to things that are like serious
Speaker 1: like that, I don't want to say the wrong thing
Speaker 1: and then be the reason why somebody relapses or be
Speaker 1: the reason why somebody has a bad day and then
Speaker 1: they like take it out on themselves because of something
Speaker 1: that I said. So, you know, and panadas in the
Speaker 1: Starbucks with thug tears. Uh yeah, I remember that day too,
Speaker 1: and I remember exactly where we were sitting but like
Speaker 1: that was that was kind of a rough day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, we were trying to take pictures, were
Speaker 2: trying to We're trying to change outfits.
Speaker 4: It was like, I was like, why are we even
Speaker 4: taking photos? I don't know.
Speaker 2: We loved it was the same day it was. It
Speaker 2: was the same day we had. We had a photo
Speaker 2: shoot that day and you didn't have hair. No, I
Speaker 2: didn't have hair. I have the pictures that guy Sean,
Speaker 2: that guy Sean Sean, that's.
Speaker 1: Where we know him from.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want you guys to know that if Marie
Speaker 2: looks at you like she doesn't know you, it's.
Speaker 1: It's not because I don't. It's no, I don't. I
Speaker 1: will forget your face and your name and then people
Speaker 1: will come up to me. Actually, I bumped into him
Speaker 1: on the street ones and he's like Marie, hey, and
Speaker 1: I was like hello, and.
Speaker 2: Yeah we were at old to babbel and he was
Speaker 2: truly trying to have a conversation with you, and you
Speaker 2: were your eyes were cross eyed.
Speaker 1: You were like what is this.
Speaker 4: You're like, why is he talking to me?
Speaker 2: Like he knows me, you know, And I had to whisper,
Speaker 2: like pictures photos.
Speaker 4: He took photos of us, and I was like, photos.
Speaker 2: A photo, You're still trying to think about it? It
Speaker 2: was it was so many years ago though, to be honest,
Speaker 2: to be fair, it was like five years ago, so
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: But also like, can we be honest about this. If
Speaker 1: you bump into me in the streets and I'm giving
Speaker 1: you the who that is face, just give me some
Speaker 1: context cues. Clues, Give me some context clues so I
Speaker 1: can be like, oh right, Fire Island nineteen sixty nine
Speaker 1: or whatever, like give me some.
Speaker 4: Well, you know what it is.
Speaker 2: It's like people, it's also ego because it's kind of like, so, wait,
Speaker 2: you don't know me, Like we've we had that moment,
Speaker 2: but like the moment you thought we had that was
Speaker 2: your moment.
Speaker 4: That was our.
Speaker 1: Moment, right, that was your moments, sweetie, wasn't a moment
Speaker 1: for me. Did something memorable happen the last time we
Speaker 1: hung out? If it did, then maybe I'll it'll be
Speaker 1: easier for me to remember. But if like we just
Speaker 1: met once and had a conversation, you know, while sneaking
Speaker 1: food into a Starbucks, then I don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna remember you.
Speaker 4: It's a tough one.
Speaker 2: It's a tough one, but because like people want to
Speaker 2: feel known important and important, especially from you, my friend.
Speaker 2: So like nobody wants to be like, ah, you know
Speaker 2: that comedy show. They want to be in the street.
Speaker 2: Because it's also kind of embarrassing, like when you're in
Speaker 2: public and you're like hey and the person is like, uh,
Speaker 2: they're not giving you the same energy back because they're
Speaker 2: just trying to figure out who the fuck are you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we've all seen somebody waving and wave back
Speaker 1: like do I know this person? Yeah, and then you
Speaker 1: look behind you and you're like, oh, it wasn't even
Speaker 1: that wasn't even for me.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: That hurts too. That definitely hurts. I am not here
Speaker 2: for that. It's like, if you meant to wave to
Speaker 2: somebody else, still wave at me, Still wave wave back at.
Speaker 1: Me, right, I mean, Sidney is somebody. If you wave
Speaker 1: at somebody, they should be honored that you're waving back.
Speaker 1: So that but also like, I mean, it's embarrassing, but
Speaker 1: it's kind of funny too. We've all been there and
Speaker 1: you're like, who me, I thought you meant me. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe you can meet the love of your
Speaker 1: life that way. Who are someone who's listening.
Speaker 4: Okay, sounds like a rom com.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's like Made in Manhattan, except
Speaker 1: someone's waving at you and you're like yes, and they're
Speaker 1: not looking at you, but now they are. There's a
Speaker 1: conflict somewhere. You get married. J Lo's in that movie.
Speaker 1: I think it's coming out in the fall.
Speaker 4: Yeah, j Loo, Jlo j Lo.
Speaker 2: I'm like, when is she gonna wrap this up with Ben?
Speaker 2: I'm tired of seeing the photos.
Speaker 1: You think the sex between them is cute, Like, do
Speaker 1: you think they're having good sex?
Speaker 4: I can't say. I can't say.
Speaker 2: He looks miserable in every photo and every photo with her.
Speaker 2: He looks like, damn, dude, why do we gotta be
Speaker 2: out with this? Why can't we just be hiding in
Speaker 2: like another country doing Why do we have to be
Speaker 2: in la He doesn't look he doesn't look comfortable.
Speaker 1: I watched the Justice League movie and he looked like
Speaker 1: he didn't want to be there either. He was like
Speaker 1: slappy slavn Batman. I said that Brooks what men didn't do,
Speaker 1: not to sit up, not a push up, not one
Speaker 1: arm curl. He just showed up to set and he
Speaker 1: was like I don't even make up. I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: a little BB cream and I'm ready for the cameras.
Speaker 1: It was he he looked shoveled.
Speaker 4: He said, y'all know my brand. What's good?
Speaker 1: Sloppy dad, sloppy single dad.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, though, I feel like she's like glowing
Speaker 3: in every like picture. She's upset, that's face tuned. No,
Speaker 3: but caparazzi, come on. I think that like they are
Speaker 3: obsessed with one another. How can they not be.
Speaker 1: I think j Low is obsessed with herself, and I
Speaker 1: think image is very important to a woman like that,
Speaker 1: and she knows where the cameras are at all times
Speaker 1: because she may be calling them or not. But I
Speaker 1: don't think that her looking good. Look yeah, he looked.
Speaker 1: He looks stressed. At least he has on a clean
Speaker 1: cream sweater. They look fat.
Speaker 3: That looks like the painting of like the two Farmers.
Speaker 2: That's a pitchfork, Yeah, because Jlo, Because if Jlo has
Speaker 2: a track soon it Yeah, but Jlo makes these dudes
Speaker 2: where fucking color coordinated, similar outfits. It's like she'd be
Speaker 2: low key emasculating them sometimes, Like I could tell that
Speaker 2: they think that they do stuff because she wants it
Speaker 2: that way.
Speaker 4: I wanted way you.
Speaker 1: And nothing. But uh, wasn't that song number one on
Speaker 1: TRL for like ten years or something. It was like
Speaker 1: a year. Yeah, I don't know. I've never wanted to
Speaker 1: match with a man that I was dating. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I've never been in love, but I've never
Speaker 1: wanted you were that and I were this. I mean,
Speaker 1: if we both show up somewhere and we kind of
Speaker 1: accidentally matched, then that's funny to me.
Speaker 4: But I mean, the thing is is that.
Speaker 2: I think if you have really good chemistry and like
Speaker 2: you guys hang out a lot, you're just randomly start
Speaker 2: wearing similar outfits.
Speaker 1: Well it's not even about the chemistry if they can
Speaker 1: dress cute. I'm wearing that sweater, this jacket is mine today.
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Did I accidentally right? I'm taking your stuff?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I have stuff from What's his Face? That
Speaker 1: I wear?
Speaker 4: What's his Face? I love that that we don't even
Speaker 4: know his name.
Speaker 1: But what's his face is?
Speaker 4: What is his face? His face? Great title?
Speaker 1: Wait, speaking of what's his face? So I was at
Speaker 1: an event the other day. It was like a weed
Speaker 1: infused dinner and I went with Carolina because you know,
Speaker 1: I was like, people are like, oh, I want to come,
Speaker 1: I want to be a high with you, blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, well, there's a list,
Speaker 1: but Carolina was the first person that I thought of,
Speaker 1: so she's the one who got the invite. And so
Speaker 1: we're at this thing and you could tell there's money
Speaker 1: in the room. First of all, ticket to get to
Speaker 1: the event was like two hundred dollars, So I'm already
Speaker 1: coming into it, like if you have an extra two
Speaker 1: hundred dollars during a pandemic, then I want to hang
Speaker 1: out with you, right, So I'm we get there. I
Speaker 1: had on this like sheer dress thing with the side
Speaker 1: boobs out. She looks fantastic fully waiting for the Jana
Speaker 1: Jackson nip slip I was.
Speaker 4: I was turned on.
Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, Okay, it was so Sidney. Why do you
Speaker 1: not wet? Let's talk about it. Who do you masturbate to?
Speaker 1: So I could tell there was like art people in there,
Speaker 1: and it was like startup money in there, look like money.
Speaker 1: At one point I walked by this table and this
Speaker 1: old old like don I missed type man was like,
Speaker 1: you are wearing their drill and I was like, he
Speaker 1: can cow and he asked me to sit at his
Speaker 1: table and I was like, no, I'm you know, Caroline's
Speaker 1: right over there. He was like, well, this guy's getting
Speaker 1: ready to leave. You could sit there when he leaves.
Speaker 1: And somebody at the table was like, this is the
Speaker 1: table you should be at.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: I could tell this guy was rich just based on
Speaker 1: how hard they were laughing at his jokes at the table, right, Like,
Speaker 1: I was like, he must have paid for everybody's ticket
Speaker 1: at this table, because they have to, right, Like you
Speaker 1: know when someone's like not really that funny, but you're
Speaker 1: like it was that.
Speaker 3: It was that they do on The Bachelor all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they're losing it.
Speaker 4: That's what they.
Speaker 1: Do, right, because you want them to think that you
Speaker 1: love them or that they're great. I don't know. Anyway,
Speaker 1: found out later that this man was a billionaire, Like
Speaker 1: what there were two billionaires at that event, and he
Speaker 1: was one of the richest people in the room. And
Speaker 1: I said, I sensed that and I should have sat
Speaker 1: my ass down. And it's just actually kind of devastating
Speaker 1: for me because they said they said he gives women
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars in cash just for fun. I said,
Speaker 1: I like fun and I like cash.
Speaker 2: So and you just and you were so concerned with
Speaker 2: getting back to Carolina for what Like I was confused.
Speaker 1: Carolina literally has never given me money in my life,
Speaker 1: and not one bit, not a not a twenty not
Speaker 1: even twenty dollars. Yeah, they said she's and my source
Speaker 1: said he has a broken hip so he can't have
Speaker 1: sex work. I said, this is my type of sugar daddy,
Speaker 1: broken hip and billionaire and generous and didn't and didn't
Speaker 1: he just buy a hotel. He just bought a hotel downtown.
Speaker 4: Lord, have mercy, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2: We could have we we could have been at a
Speaker 2: pool this summer, Marie.
Speaker 1: I mean, we can still be at a pool that summer.
Speaker 4: Sist.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I really fumbled the bag on that one.
Speaker 1: And the next event, I'm not bringing Caroline now, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna bring a young, hot single friend that is more
Speaker 1: desperate than me. Maybe desperate is the wrong word, but
Speaker 1: a young, hot single friend that just wants to do
Speaker 1: everybody in the room so that like we can all
Speaker 1: mingle and then reconvene and compare notes after the event.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Oh, I was like, I mean I am. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm your hot friend that likes to mingle, but you.
Speaker 1: Don't smoke wheedsis no, No, you're right. And it's a
Speaker 1: dinner for wheat. Like everything had weed in it. It
Speaker 1: was all infused. It was really good. But what you said,
Speaker 1: you're gonna bring a brown bag lunch. We're gonna be
Speaker 1: eating duck breast and you're gonna be eating what of lunch?
Speaker 2: No of beef patty with Swiss cheese. I love a
Speaker 2: beef patty with Swiss cheese. It really be rocking my world. Honey,
Speaker 2: Swiss cheese, Swiss cheese, Swiss, Swiss Swiss cheese.
Speaker 3: Wait, Murray, was this guy hot? No?
Speaker 1: No, it was not, Andrew, I think most most did
Speaker 1: you hear me say, don I miss? Wasn't he like
Speaker 1: melted candle wax? He looked like the candle from Beauty
Speaker 1: and the Beast.
Speaker 3: That one went over my head.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah?
Speaker 4: And how many? How many billionaires do you know?
Speaker 1: That hot?
Speaker 3: Oh? I mean we've talked before. I think that Bill
Speaker 3: Gates isn't terrible looking. I know I wouldn't say that
Speaker 3: he's hot.
Speaker 1: I just I'm googling hot billionaires. Yeah, let's let's.
Speaker 2: See who comes up, truly truly worried about you that
Speaker 2: you said Bill Gates is not terrible. Now I want
Speaker 2: to I want to check your glasses.
Speaker 3: How about Kylie Jenner? I mean, huh, are we including
Speaker 3: can you?
Speaker 1: Can you leap that out? Can you that name out?
Speaker 1: So people? We don't we don't talk about those people here.
Speaker 2: That's that's new money. I'm talking about billionaires that have
Speaker 2: been billionaires. They've been billionaires, been billionaires. That's a good title.
Speaker 2: Think be ben benionaires.
Speaker 1: Because there's this Norwegian guy named Gustave Magnar with zo.
Speaker 1: He looked like he might could be your type.
Speaker 2: Andrew, Oh, he's cute.
Speaker 1: One point six billion, Marie. That's all white dudes, the
Speaker 1: heir to H and M.
Speaker 2: Marie t what if you just start liking these dudes instagrams?
Speaker 4: See if they see if they bite?
Speaker 1: You don't think other people are liking their instagram?
Speaker 4: Now? I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 1: You don't think that they have like a b mall
Speaker 1: skinny blond girl with cities attached to them at all times?
Speaker 4: I don't. I truly don't. I'm sorry. I'm sorry that
Speaker 4: I'm like I don't have any hope.
Speaker 2: I'm like, who is Like, I'm like, please go to
Speaker 2: their Instagram and see what they're even posting. I feel
Speaker 2: like their last post is from like twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1: Right, People who are like really really rich and busy
Speaker 1: business owners are they don't really care about social media?
Speaker 1: Why would they?
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're not posting to their own account way right right?
Speaker 1: They definitely have a fence to Okay, this guy that
Speaker 1: started snapshot four billion dollars?
Speaker 4: What do he look at?
Speaker 1: I'm Sydney, let's start an app. He looks like a
Speaker 1: puffy Bruno Mars. He looks like the guy from Insecure
Speaker 1: that was dating Molly.
Speaker 2: Don't believe me, Just watch he does. Wow, you are
Speaker 2: You're good with these description.
Speaker 1: And then this is the oldest billionaire on the list.
Speaker 1: Let's look, let's Travis Kallinick six point three billion dollars.
Speaker 4: He's not even old.
Speaker 1: Well, he was born in nineteen seventy six. I don't
Speaker 1: know how old this photo is.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, because it looked like he ain't got no
Speaker 2: top teeth though, Oh he ain't got no top teeth
Speaker 2: or top or top lipt top lip. Yeah, top top
Speaker 2: lift gone front teeth gone.
Speaker 1: Okay, but now let's talk about it. Sidney. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: if you were single, yes, and you were at it
Speaker 1: was you in that situation and the man said, actually, Andrew,
Speaker 1: this question goes to you as well. And this man,
Speaker 1: who clearly had money, I felt it. I felt it
Speaker 1: in my Haitian poor ass bones, not poor middle class bones.
Speaker 1: I was like, this man owns a franchise or something.
Speaker 1: The energy coming off of his old ass was like.
Speaker 1: I was like this, this person has money, but a
Speaker 1: lot of it. So somebody like that says to you,
Speaker 1: you should come sit at my table. What do you do?
Speaker 1: How are you playing it differently than how I played it?
Speaker 2: I mean, girl, I told you about the time that
Speaker 2: I went on a date with one of the biggest
Speaker 2: art dealers in the world and I was looking at
Speaker 2: him like, oh, he looked regular degular to me. But
Speaker 2: then I ended up going going to dinner with him,
Speaker 2: going to lunch, and then back at his townhouse and
Speaker 2: then and then I finally googled and I was like, oh, bitch,
Speaker 2: I definitely fumbled it back. But he wanted to like
Speaker 2: cook up and I just couldn't. But I definitely would
Speaker 2: have hung out. We were out in the sun. The
Speaker 2: sun was on.
Speaker 1: People could see, they could see both of you guys. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was Now how much older was he? Oh?
Speaker 4: Girl?
Speaker 2: At least thirty thirty thirty five years older?
Speaker 1: Oh I was like he was thirty, No, thirty five
Speaker 1: years old. Wait, Andrew, I'm gonna say, I'm gonna show
Speaker 1: you a picture of the guy because.
Speaker 2: I was twenty four twenty five. I'm gonna say he
Speaker 2: was close to.
Speaker 4: Fifty five.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, but fifty five a black fifty five. No,
Speaker 1: it was not different than a white fifty five.
Speaker 4: It was not a it was not a white fit.
Speaker 1: It was not a black bege fifty five is different.
Speaker 2: It was not a black fifty five at all. It
Speaker 2: was not even an Asian fifty five. Oh yeah, but
Speaker 2: look at the girl. Look at the girl sitting next
Speaker 2: to him, I see, yeah, look at her. Look at
Speaker 2: her like she looked at his face like she's in
Speaker 2: she's in the photo, but it's it's vacant behind the eyes.
Speaker 1: Listen. I would let that man give me ten thousand
Speaker 1: dollars in cash, and I might even let him like
Speaker 1: you know, bloohimed a little bit, you know, like.
Speaker 3: What did you even talk to this man about? What
Speaker 3: were the conversations like, don't do that.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, answer that question. What were y'all talking about?
Speaker 2: I mean I talked to him about he well, he
Speaker 2: was an art dealer, so I told him, it's so funny.
Speaker 2: He was laughing at me. He thought I was so funny,
Speaker 2: but he was laughing for the wrong reasons. But I
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I used to work at the Whitney Museum.
Speaker 2: And he's like, oh, did you what did you do?
Speaker 1: I was like a curator, You're so sweet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, he was I'm thinking like I'm
Speaker 2: doing something like I'm flex and he was like, oh really,
Speaker 2: so what did you do at the Whitney Museum And
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, I was a youth insight.
Speaker 2: He's like, on, I was like a docent. I was
Speaker 2: like a young docent and I would do tours for
Speaker 2: like kids and senior citizens. And he's like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: that's incredible. But at the time I thought that he
Speaker 2: was like pleased with that, but he was totally shading
Speaker 2: me the whole time.
Speaker 3: He was like, you were a child.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was kicking, he was kekying at me.
Speaker 2: I was like I was, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I loved Ellsworth, Kelly, you know, Andy Warhol.
Speaker 4: Like I'm shooting off names.
Speaker 1: I don't know who Elsworth is. So it sounds like
Speaker 1: you know art to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But he's like that's he's like, that's like basic,
Speaker 2: like he's he's an art dealer, Like so he knows
Speaker 2: the names before, like everybody before they're in the Whitney Museum,
Speaker 2: Like he knew about Damien Hurst before Damian Hurst.
Speaker 4: Blew up.
Speaker 1: Sidney. Honestly and truly, this is kind of hot that
Speaker 1: you know all these artists. I don't know none of
Speaker 1: these Damien Hurst. I'm writing it down so when I
Speaker 1: do speak to a billionaire, I could say yes at
Speaker 1: the house, Yeah right, Damian? You know Damian and I
Speaker 1: where do I know him from?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: If we ever went to what is that in Miami?
Speaker 2: They like art Basil art, bosel. If you go there,
Speaker 2: we'll learn about all this stuff. We'll like learn about
Speaker 2: the cutting edge artists that are now like selling their
Speaker 2: pieces for a million dollars or whatever.
Speaker 1: H should we start doing art? Because I would like
Speaker 1: to sell a million dollar thing. How does an artist
Speaker 1: become like, how does an artist blow up in twenty
Speaker 1: twenty one?
Speaker 4: I think it's like.
Speaker 2: For some reason for what I've seen, some of it
Speaker 2: has been chance, some of it it's been connects. Some
Speaker 2: of it's like, you know, the right person, you like,
Speaker 2: somebody has an eye for art, sees it, and then boom,
Speaker 2: everybody's jumping on that bandwagon.
Speaker 4: It doesn't even have to be good. It doesn't even
Speaker 4: have to be that good.
Speaker 2: But Damien Hurst was doing something that was like he
Speaker 2: was taking butterflies, like obviously actual butterflies, actual butterflies that
Speaker 2: are not alive, and like putting it to like a painting,
Speaker 2: but then drawing the rest of the butterflies like with paint.
Speaker 2: So some of the butterflies are real, but you you
Speaker 2: don't know, you can't really tell. Like the painting looks
Speaker 2: so close to the real butterflies that it was incredible.
Speaker 1: So he was murdering butterflies.
Speaker 4: I'm pretty much.
Speaker 1: Oh, they used to have his art at your old job. Yeah, girl,
Speaker 1: I remember the dots.
Speaker 4: Yep, the dots. Oh yeah, million for dots, just dots.
Speaker 1: Well that's the thing, right is people are sheep. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what it is. If other
Speaker 1: people tell you something is hot, Yes, there are people
Speaker 1: who will just believe it. A lot of people don't
Speaker 1: have taste. They got money, but they don't have no taste.
Speaker 2: Money with no taste. That's a great title, thank you.
Speaker 2: That's not that's not us though, that's not us.
Speaker 4: We have tastes well anything.
Speaker 1: No money but taste, No money but taste.
Speaker 4: Actually that's a better title.
Speaker 1: I like that, right, but like because like Cardi B
Speaker 1: has money but no.
Speaker 2: Taste, you don't think she has taste?
Speaker 1: Sis those first of all, Burken bags to me have
Speaker 1: always been ugly. They look like very ugly briefcases. And
Speaker 1: I understand that it's a status symbol. I don't understand.
Speaker 4: Why foolish it's a waste of money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, literally thousands, like a forty thousand dollars briefcase. Girl,
Speaker 1: if you don't take your ass to the DJ Max.
Speaker 2: It's just like no, but it's also like a briefcase
Speaker 2: but also bowling ball bag. Like, yes, it doesn't look
Speaker 2: like like fashion.
Speaker 1: No, but if you, I mean, if you're gonna say
Speaker 1: something doesn't look like fashion and a wind Tour is
Speaker 1: like the most well known person in fashion and Nothing
Speaker 1: about her is fashionable to me.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: The baang, the shortcut, the bang and the sunglasses feels
Speaker 2: like fashion.
Speaker 1: To me, it's iconic. But to me it's like she's not.
Speaker 1: She never invented any like hot, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean like she she wears what she wears. It's
Speaker 1: always like a tweed suit moment. It's always a coward
Speaker 1: She just I don't know, she said, don't get it.
Speaker 2: She said, I am not the body for the fashion
Speaker 2: that I have the eye for, but I'm gonna be
Speaker 2: the curator of the fashion.
Speaker 4: Which is fine. You could do that.
Speaker 2: I think you can have a good eye for something
Speaker 2: and you're like, but I'm still gonna have my own.
Speaker 4: Look, that's that's okay.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say that she is
Speaker 1: a good isis? I mean, you've seen these Vogue USA covers.
Speaker 1: They are of all the Vogue covers in the world,
Speaker 1: usually the weakest.
Speaker 4: Okay, come through. Wow, I usually I didn't know.
Speaker 2: Now this is kind of hot that you're telling me
Speaker 2: about these Vogue covers.
Speaker 1: Look at look at what Vogue India is doing, Look
Speaker 1: at what Vogue Arabia is doing, Look at what Vogue
Speaker 1: even like Japan, Like their covers are just better the
Speaker 1: American than the American covers. They're better, they're better magazines.
Speaker 4: You heard that, you heard it here first.
Speaker 1: People also remember Andre Leon Talley. He was showing up
Speaker 1: in a hefty, hefty, hefty bag and he was like,
Speaker 1: this is and it was like, sir, sis bleats, y'all
Speaker 1: are the tops of the American fashion world and this
Speaker 1: is how you showing up. Yeah, but I think that's
Speaker 1: a snuggie.
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, Marie, But I think that is
Speaker 2: the tea. Like the people who have the most money,
Speaker 2: the most influential people in the room usually don't look it.
Speaker 2: They don't look it. Whenever I would work at a
Speaker 2: rose bar, the people who were the most well known
Speaker 2: are the most important. Was just wearing like a regular
Speaker 2: like blacktop, black pants.
Speaker 1: That's that's different. That's business. This is fashion. This is fashion.
Speaker 1: You showing up to it, like I understand. Like the
Speaker 1: people who are the richest, you know, the Mark Zuckerberg's,
Speaker 1: the what's his name, the one that died the iPhone
Speaker 1: do with the sweater, Steve Jobs, Steve Jobs, They're wearing
Speaker 1: the same thing. They don't have time they got money
Speaker 1: on their mind. They're not worried about what they're wearing.
Speaker 1: They're just gonna wear this. It's gonna be the same
Speaker 1: little simple outfit, but it's gonna be an expensive I
Speaker 1: don't know Merrial or Kid or designer white sneaker that
Speaker 1: were like, EO, it's gonna be all that stuff they're
Speaker 1: wearing is expensive. It's real simple. But they don't work
Speaker 1: in fashion. Anna Wintour Andre Leon Talley worked in fashion
Speaker 1: and you and his book came out, he said he
Speaker 1: had no money, so I don't know. He wasn't the
Speaker 1: richest person in the room, but he was like Anna
Speaker 1: left him hanging. She didn't look out for him, and
Speaker 1: it was like, but you were up under her for years.
Speaker 2: But why would you think that a person who's wearing
Speaker 2: sunglasses like in inside of buildings all the time, it's
Speaker 2: gonna look out for you. Oh, I just don't see it.
Speaker 2: She don't see it. That's why she got the shade though.
Speaker 2: And that's why.
Speaker 4: She got the shade. Honey, she don't see you.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like the movie The Delaware's Prada was
Speaker 1: based on what's supposed to be based on Anna Wintour.
Speaker 1: Merrill was serving looks in that movie. The hair was
Speaker 1: doing something cool, Like Anna Wintour is giving Kate Spade
Speaker 1: is giving white woman from Nantucket pearl necklace. It's not
Speaker 1: giving high fashion to me. Yeah, it's not giving edgy.
Speaker 1: It's just like, like who rich Auntie is that? Like
Speaker 1: she looked like a widow. She looks like she came
Speaker 1: into some money because her third fourth husband died, and
Speaker 1: she just wears Tiffany's and eats at you know, Barney's
Speaker 1: restaurants or whatever. Like, it's not it's not giving fashion.
Speaker 2: I love I love Marie talking her shit. You know
Speaker 2: what is fast shan for me? Like I'm always looking
Speaker 2: at the price tag, Like I'll look at the things
Speaker 2: that I like, I like at the things that I want,
Speaker 2: and then the things that I like, you know, maybe
Speaker 2: a couple of degrees away. But you know, you can't,
Speaker 2: you can't follow the trends. You you in order to
Speaker 2: be a trendsetter, you have to look at something and
Speaker 2: see that it can Marie showing pictures of Anna Wintour dragging.
Speaker 1: Her She looks like a college professor, Marie dragging.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but these this, but these are the people. These
Speaker 2: are the people that we give the power to.
Speaker 1: Who is we? We ain't give no power to her?
Speaker 1: And A Winter has been alive and a Windoor have
Speaker 1: been at Vogue longer than we've been alive.
Speaker 4: Really how long?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm like, how long is how old she.
Speaker 1: Is at the met gala? I mean, this is truly
Speaker 1: probably the most the best thing that I've seen on her.
Speaker 1: How old is Anna Wintour? Let's guess how I told
Speaker 1: you think she is?
Speaker 4: I think she's sixty.
Speaker 1: Oh she's English. I didn't know that. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I've ever heard her speak. She's seventy one. Whoa
Speaker 1: and she's a dame, Dame Anna Wintur, And she's been
Speaker 1: at Vote, she's been the editor, and she've had Vokee
Speaker 1: since nineteen eighty eight. I was right, yeah, talk about
Speaker 1: talk about job security.
Speaker 4: Girl.
Speaker 2: You know, you know how many people she low key
Speaker 2: had to murder. You don't just you don't stay at
Speaker 2: a job that long because you do a good job.
Speaker 4: Okay, you are. You are fucking over people left and right.
Speaker 1: Since we saw the devil wors Broad I remember Miranda
Speaker 1: had a little list. Yeah, she said, if you fire me.
Speaker 1: This is a list of photographers, designers, people that will
Speaker 1: never work for your magazine. And it's like, yeah, Anna
Speaker 1: know where all the bodies are buried? Anna, Yeah, she's
Speaker 1: been stepping on people and over people to stay where
Speaker 1: she's at and I don't know she's still doing it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Honestly, to be that committed, it's kind of hot.
Speaker 2: The commitment of being like the bad guy is it's
Speaker 2: it's cute.
Speaker 4: I like it.
Speaker 1: For her commitment to being the bad guy.
Speaker 2: I couldn't I couldn't see her being nice. Like if
Speaker 2: she was nice, I'm like, does she have dementia?
Speaker 4: What's going on? What's she going through?
Speaker 1: Well, certain people you don't expect them to be nice now,
Speaker 1: Like I don't expect Mariah Carey to be nice.
Speaker 2: I think she's guarded. I think you have to be guarded.
Speaker 2: You have, Like you were trying to explain that to
Speaker 2: me last week. A Lah, you know, Sidney's Sidney's doing
Speaker 2: too much. Everybody don't need to be your friend. And
Speaker 2: it's true, like you you have to protect yourself, especially
Speaker 2: in the public. These people, like you said, they think
Speaker 2: they know you, they think you owe them something because
Speaker 2: you they support you.
Speaker 4: She doesn't.
Speaker 2: I don't know how nice I'm gonna be. If I
Speaker 2: blow up, you.
Speaker 1: Still gonna be a nice girl. Don't do that. You're
Speaker 1: still gonna be like if you look at me, oh
Speaker 1: my god, take my number, Dad, Like you're still gonna
Speaker 1: do that. Don't don't do Destney. You're You're not gonna
Speaker 1: change into a mean Disney villain. But I'm saying, like
Speaker 1: certain celebrities you see them, and they seem nice, they
Speaker 1: seem chilly. Mariah Carey has earned her diva status guarded
Speaker 1: or not. I don't think any like I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't think that if I met her, she would be
Speaker 1: a friendly person, you know what I mean. Like people
Speaker 1: were in the comments last week talking about like Miley Cyrus,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I feel like Miley seemed like
Speaker 1: she would be you know, she probably won't even have
Speaker 1: own shoes when you meet her. She seems like she
Speaker 1: would be chill. There's like different. There are some people
Speaker 1: who are just not nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you said that, like at a certain level, you
Speaker 3: earn the right to be diva and like rude to
Speaker 3: other people.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, I don't no, no, no, I
Speaker 4: don't think.
Speaker 3: You said something about like she's earned like this diva
Speaker 3: status and.
Speaker 1: By earned the diva status, Okay, but.
Speaker 3: Like byva's status, are you saying that like diva in
Speaker 3: like a good diva like or bad way where it's
Speaker 3: like demanding the M and m's being rude to interns whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't know about. I just think, look, Mariah Carey
Speaker 1: has had a really long career. Yeah right, she's been
Speaker 1: out probably the same amount of time Anna been editor
Speaker 1: in chief. But she you know, she's got the records,
Speaker 1: she's got the you know she has She's proved herself
Speaker 1: to be one of the top to ever do it.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like the diva thing is like
Speaker 1: the cockiness that comes with like knowing that you're the
Speaker 1: best at what you're doing and no one else can
Speaker 1: do it like you. So yeah, I'm gonna be a
Speaker 1: little bit of an asshole, like you work for me
Speaker 1: or I don't need to know you, but you know,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like I just that's what
Speaker 1: I mean when I say I feel like she's earned
Speaker 1: the title of diva. She's earned that level of whatever
Speaker 1: it is that she's doing.
Speaker 2: But also, let me tell you another thing I don't
Speaker 2: like these labels about like diva, intimidating not nice? Are
Speaker 2: these are ways to describe a woman that you deem
Speaker 2: as powerful and you're upset about that, Like because just
Speaker 2: because you don't feel like you can speak up. Oh,
Speaker 2: that person is intimidating and it's mean. It's just like, no,
Speaker 2: that person is not kissing your ass and all up
Speaker 2: on you. That doesn't make them intimidating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but diva's not a bad word. Diva's not a
Speaker 1: bad word. The definition of diva is a famous female
Speaker 1: singer of popular music, or a self important person who
Speaker 1: is temperamental and difficult to please.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's the one that people are using diva for.
Speaker 1: It's usually well, yeah, but I think you have to
Speaker 1: earn you got to be you have to be popular,
Speaker 1: famous before you can be a diva. You can't be
Speaker 1: a diva if you haven't accomplished anything. Oh no, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't be a diva if you haven't accomplished anything.
Speaker 1: And if you're difficult to please, it's like you've been
Speaker 1: good at what you've done for so long that you
Speaker 1: have a certain level, Like you set a certain standard
Speaker 1: for everybody around you. Okay, all right, Like if like,
Speaker 1: I want this done this way. That's what it's gonna be.
Speaker 1: If you don't want to do that, then you can
Speaker 1: get another job somewhere else. But like or Naomi Campbell
Speaker 1: will throw a cell phone at you. But like, but like,
Speaker 1: if you're trying to work for somebody that's in any
Speaker 1: of these industries, you have to know that that might
Speaker 1: be part of your job. You have to deal with
Speaker 1: the temperamental person.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Right, a lot of these people are dealing with like
Speaker 2: high pre your situations. They can make or break something,
Speaker 2: so like, yeah, they're not gonna be as calm as
Speaker 2: somebody who's working a regular, regular nine to five.
Speaker 1: But also it's like you got to compete with the
Speaker 1: people who come after you. You got to compete with
Speaker 1: the people who are coming up behind you doing the
Speaker 1: thing that you did so well for so many years. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I think a lot of people, a lot of celebrities,
Speaker 1: a lot of those people can't you already know they
Speaker 1: can't handle getting older. That's why people are like getting
Speaker 1: filler and boattox and like you know, trying to keep
Speaker 1: up with what the kids are doing. But it's like,
Speaker 1: if you like if these people were like more graceful
Speaker 1: about it, then it wouldn't. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I'm trying to say, but like some people
Speaker 1: don't know how to age gracefully because I guess they
Speaker 1: don't know what they would do after they got replaced.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's scary getting older, Marie, It's scary, like it, like,
Speaker 2: you know, you don't feel in, you don't feel current.
Speaker 2: Everybody wants to feel relevant. And you know, now that
Speaker 2: I'm seeing what is a gen z x Y elemental
Speaker 2: P whatever, I'm I feel like, damn, I'm out of
Speaker 2: the loops stuff that they're talking about. I'm like, none
Speaker 2: of this shit matters. It's not good, you know. I like,
Speaker 2: I remember when music videos were the thing you would go.
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, I'm running home. I want to see
Speaker 2: this music video. It's gonna it's gonna have a storyline,
Speaker 2: there's gonna be cameos, there's like presentation. There's no music
Speaker 2: videos anymore like that because nobody cares.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so the videos are very much the same. It's
Speaker 1: a lot like I mean, if Cardi B Is featured
Speaker 1: on it, mute the video, Mute the video, and it's
Speaker 1: basically the same. Video every time, Like, I mean.
Speaker 4: Did you we all?
Speaker 2: I mean everybody saw Normani's new I.
Speaker 1: Have not seen the video, but I heard the song and.
Speaker 4: You're and you know you're not featuring it.
Speaker 1: It's one of those songs where you got to watch
Speaker 1: the video and to enjoy it.
Speaker 3: I think the video is very good. I read the visual.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, the song, it's one of those.
Speaker 3: You Cardy, The Cardi b feature was unnecessary.
Speaker 4: I think, ah, unnecessary.
Speaker 1: Why.
Speaker 3: I think I thought it brought the song down. I
Speaker 3: think it was just like weird and it was just
Speaker 3: like Cardi was like, hey, I have this feature. Do
Speaker 3: you want this? I don't know. I just felt weird
Speaker 3: and out of place.
Speaker 4: Hmm.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But I like how she says muglare.
Speaker 3: Card I have no problem with her. I like her music,
Speaker 3: but I just like some of her features are a
Speaker 3: little weird.
Speaker 1: Well, she's the hot She's the hot thing, the hot
Speaker 1: new thing. If you can get a Cardi feature or
Speaker 1: a meg meg the Stallion feature, or like there's like
Speaker 1: very specific people if you can get them on your song,
Speaker 1: and it's like it's a hit because the kids don't
Speaker 1: like it. Yeah, people are gonna listen to it because
Speaker 1: Cardi's on it to see what she's talking about.
Speaker 2: She's fun, she's fun, she's she doesn't make herself too
Speaker 2: seriously and that's what that's what we need.
Speaker 1: People take themselves to.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is like, come on now, we need to
Speaker 4: listen to the fucking old.
Speaker 2: Like older songs, people are just like either talking about
Speaker 2: how amazing they are or how they're love sick, are heartbroken.
Speaker 2: That's that used to be all the songs.
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 2: Eastern Ragees put out a tweet that was so funny
Speaker 2: it went viral and everybody was talking about it because
Speaker 2: she was talking about uh like old R and B
Speaker 2: music videos.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, she.
Speaker 2: Said, let's see, let's see where it is.
Speaker 3: It's like it's not the same anymore. And then someone
Speaker 3: quote tweeted it and was like, it's because you're not
Speaker 3: like women today aren't worth fighting for.
Speaker 4: Something, right, yeah she.
Speaker 3: And then she was like, you're she was making reference
Speaker 3: to that person who responded their header where they were
Speaker 3: drinking a bottle of water that said black women on
Speaker 3: it and didn't.
Speaker 4: Yeah. She wrote.
Speaker 2: The tweet is listening to mint conditions breaking my heart
Speaker 2: and realizing that a lot of music niggas today aren't
Speaker 2: dramatic and desperate enough for me? And another man wrote,
Speaker 2: because y'all ain't worth it?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Anthony Hamilton was the last one begging for his woman.
Speaker 2: He was so distraught he couldn't take a bath, a bath.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: They said, lyrics aren't dramatic. Music videos aren' dramatic. Jodasy
Speaker 2: was in the damn desert crying because Shorty was gone
Speaker 2: for an hour.
Speaker 4: An hour.
Speaker 1: In the desert crying.
Speaker 2: He said, you could take my money, my house, my cars.
Speaker 2: The song cry for You. I mean it's true. I
Speaker 2: mean that was I mean imagine this was like kind
Speaker 2: of like an error, a little bit like before us.
Speaker 2: But yeah, those guys really knew how to be Like,
Speaker 2: I want you back, come back, please, I'm begging. I'm begging, beggy, begging.
Speaker 1: Prince said, it's been seven hours and fifteen days since
Speaker 1: you took your love away.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just I think though, that like when people used
Speaker 1: to make music, they made music, they were writing music.
Speaker 1: One a lot of people artists now not writing their
Speaker 1: own music. People write the songs, they sing them. So
Speaker 1: like when you write your own song, I feel like
Speaker 1: it means something. I think that's why people connect with
Speaker 1: Adele so much. Yeah, because you know she was heartbroken,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And everyone has been heartbroken
Speaker 1: or like somebody who did them dirty in some way
Speaker 1: Sam or had a relationship end Sam Smith. These are
Speaker 1: people who write their own music from a place that
Speaker 1: like is real to them, Like we feel that and
Speaker 1: that's more. I mean, that's pop music though.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, but R and B.
Speaker 2: I mean, dudes, really, ah, I'm gonna say something problematic,
Speaker 2: but then like all these guys were like begging and
Speaker 2: please come back, and then we're like, uh, you're thirsty,
Speaker 2: like get a grip, get off me.
Speaker 1: But are we Are we saying that now or we're no,
Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't agree with that, Sydney.
Speaker 1: If the guy was like I miss you so much,
Speaker 1: I love you, I'm gonna die without you, I'd be
Speaker 1: like ill. But in the back of my mind, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, look, how much you should be obsessed with me?
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like we we want people to be obsessed with us,
Speaker 1: not in like a you know, Beyonce obsessed that's my
Speaker 1: man way, but like that's the that to me is like, oh,
Speaker 1: that person actually cares about me. If you say you
Speaker 1: love me and then I leave and you don't try
Speaker 1: to fight for me a little bit, I'm like, ugh,
Speaker 1: cause cause you know, I'm walking away, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: walk slow so you can like catch up. But like,
Speaker 1: if you just let me go, then that means this
Speaker 1: was this real? Did it mean something to you if
Speaker 1: you're not in shambles when I leave you?
Speaker 2: But also it feels kind of good, like even if okay,
Speaker 2: so this is again, I'm I'm a mess. When somebody
Speaker 2: doesn't give you the energy that you want, you want
Speaker 2: them more when they're pressed, You're like, ugh, you know.
Speaker 1: No, I mean in certain instances, yes, you want people
Speaker 1: to be persistent, you want them to come find you.
Speaker 1: And there's something that there's something about the human mind
Speaker 1: that makes people who aren't like people who ignore us
Speaker 1: kind of more mysterious and hotter to us sometimes. Yes,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying if we work together, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: in the songs that these guys are singing for these
Speaker 1: women that they don't want to leave. If we were
Speaker 1: together and we had a relationship and then it ends
Speaker 1: and we just both agreed that it should be over,
Speaker 1: even if it should be over. You're not gonna fight
Speaker 1: a little bit. You're not gonna shed a tear for me.
Speaker 1: You you're not gonna call my mom, like, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna text my friend and be like, hey, I know
Speaker 1: you probably don't want to talk to me, Like you
Speaker 1: not none of that. You're not gonna show up at
Speaker 1: my job and wait across.
Speaker 2: The street for a you know what. And actually that's
Speaker 2: what you deserve. And the fact that I have not
Speaker 2: gotten one DM like what can I do to make
Speaker 2: this better?
Speaker 1: Crazy?
Speaker 2: That's why he's what's his name, what's his face, what's
Speaker 2: his I don't know, I don't know his fucking name.
Speaker 1: Well, literally, there's nothing that he can do to make
Speaker 1: it better. But I'm except change everything. But I'm saying, like.
Speaker 2: Throw the whole body away and come back somebody else.
Speaker 1: That's how you get Yeah, yeah, he need to be
Speaker 1: reincarnated as someone else to come back. But I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: there we want that even if you're done with the person.
Speaker 1: And maybe it's maybe it's partial, you want to see
Speaker 1: them in pain. Maybe it's partial you want like it's
Speaker 1: like a pride thing, But I need to see you
Speaker 1: distressed in a desert, crying, counting the days. It's been
Speaker 1: seven hours and fifteen days. I need you to know
Speaker 1: what time it was when I left you, what moon
Speaker 1: was in the sky, was in a red moon? I
Speaker 1: don't know. But also like you know, it's kind of crazy.
Speaker 2: I mean truly, I don't even know what I could
Speaker 2: do to make a song like what I'm like, hmm,
Speaker 2: I'm tired.
Speaker 4: I don't have it in me.
Speaker 1: What's the last what's the last time you had your heartbroken?
Speaker 1: We could write the song, we could work shop the
Speaker 1: song right now.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say heartbroken, but I was definitely like, ah, man,
Speaker 2: you know, like I was doing too much. Person was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not ready for this, and I was like Bourguet, Yeah,
Speaker 2: but you.
Speaker 1: Were really you were sad. Sis, You were like really
Speaker 1: like it took a couple I want to say a
Speaker 1: couple of days. It might have been more than days,
Speaker 1: but like you were sad about it.
Speaker 2: I think that it was also, uh, you know, pandemic happening.
Speaker 1: So write Sis, but that's the song. This situation is
Speaker 1: what you would write the song about.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, so.
Speaker 1: Girl, it's a pandemic. It's a pandemic.
Speaker 4: Girl, girl, it's girl.
Speaker 2: We've been stuck in the house for months, months on
Speaker 2: months on months. I thought our face times meant something.
Speaker 4: You threw it?
Speaker 1: Are you rapping? Now?
Speaker 4: Should I even be writing this?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 4: Wait?
Speaker 1: Wait, wait wait here, here's a line, here's a line.
Speaker 1: You could use this. Okay, Uh, it's a pandemic. We're
Speaker 1: locked in the house, but I'm locked out of your heart.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, wow, oh you.
Speaker 1: Write this down. But yeah, I just think that, like,
Speaker 1: instead of being cool, which is what all music feels like. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta like, you gotta be vulnerable. You know, I
Speaker 1: hate that word.
Speaker 2: Oh you Marie hates vulnerability. It's just not like it
Speaker 2: makes you be like h ill.
Speaker 1: Yuh cause it really does. The word is yucky to me.
Speaker 1: But that's the difference. Like those songs, those guys are
Speaker 1: like pleading for their women to come back to them.
Speaker 1: Anthony Hamilton, Yeah, please come home, Charlene, And it's like Charlie,
Speaker 1: Charlene is going.
Speaker 4: Bab Yeah, she's already on.
Speaker 2: She's got a layover and Charleston and she's she's headed
Speaker 2: somewhere else. She's she's unavailable, right, Charlene is on the road. Baby, Marie,
Speaker 2: when's the last time you got your heartbroken? What would
Speaker 2: your song be?
Speaker 1: Well, would my song be? Yeah, I don't know what
Speaker 1: my song would be, Sis, it would be probably something
Speaker 1: about wasting my time. It would be a song about time. Yeah, wow, yeah.
Speaker 2: I do you really think that people are wasting your time?
Speaker 4: Though?
Speaker 2: Like I it's everything that you go through is it's
Speaker 2: meant to learn something.
Speaker 1: You've learned a lot, yeah, like not to let people
Speaker 1: waste my time. But but yes, I do think that
Speaker 1: sometimes people waste people's time because you enter innser a
Speaker 1: relationship with somebody and if they're clear about what it
Speaker 1: is that they want from you, and you know you
Speaker 1: don't want that or you don't want to give that,
Speaker 1: then you are wasting that person's time because it's like
Speaker 1: you could just let me, you could just be honest
Speaker 1: about what it is that you want, or you could
Speaker 1: just leave me alone, like what you on my line
Speaker 1: for I think that that, yeah, that there was some
Speaker 1: time wasting happening.
Speaker 2: Andrew, for sure, what do you think about heartbreak? No,
Speaker 2: about somebody wasting your time?
Speaker 3: Somebody wasting my time. It's annoying because like there are
Speaker 3: people that are like they know that they're doing it
Speaker 3: and it's just like a fuck boy sort of thing
Speaker 3: where it's like they're just going around person to person.
Speaker 3: They're just like they're not laying down anywhere, but they
Speaker 3: do it so well and they know exactly the thing
Speaker 3: to make you think like, oh, this person actually gives
Speaker 3: a shit about me. But then right, and then when
Speaker 3: they go on little hiatus, it's like you're thinking about
Speaker 3: them the entire time, like what was that even? You know,
Speaker 3: and then they'll come back in yeah.
Speaker 1: Right, So, Andrew, have you ever been heartbroken? Got your heartbroken?
Speaker 3: I mean when you were talking Sydney about like like
Speaker 3: pandem like heartbreak and like that sort of being emphasized
Speaker 3: by that because like last year, like one of my
Speaker 3: close friends from college just completely dipped and I was
Speaker 3: just like, I don't know what's going on with you,
Speaker 3: Like hmm, I am not hearing from you. And then
Speaker 3: you know, I sent text messages every so often, I
Speaker 3: was like hello, like what's going on, reached out to people.
Speaker 3: I was like have you heard from this person? And
Speaker 3: then one day just blocked on everything and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like why everything fuck?
Speaker 3: And I was just like are you kidding? Like you've
Speaker 3: been over to my house. We've got gone on trips together.
Speaker 3: Gave me no reason as to like why, like they
Speaker 3: just dip and I'm just like that sucks.
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, so you don't so you don't
Speaker 1: know what you did to be blocked on all these
Speaker 1: This sounds like that message that we got from that
Speaker 1: girl the other the other day, and when I went
Speaker 1: on the date with the girl, and the.
Speaker 3: Girl like oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why why? What the fuck is wrong with people?
Speaker 3: It's crazy? Yeah, what the fuck is wrong?
Speaker 1: Like just say why?
Speaker 2: Like give somebody at least one, just give me one
Speaker 2: good read.
Speaker 3: And so then like like two months ago, two months ago,
Speaker 3: like my friend group from college, we were all in
Speaker 3: uh student government together and they were like all hanging
Speaker 3: out and doing something and one of my friends who
Speaker 3: it was invited to this this outing, noticed that I
Speaker 3: wasn't part of it and was like, hey, can Andrew come?
Speaker 3: And then they got a private DM saying like hey,
Speaker 3: this person doesn't like Andrew anymore, but won't tell them,
Speaker 3: And I'm like, why not? Why not tell me?
Speaker 1: Have you and you can't reach out to them because
Speaker 1: you're black?
Speaker 3: I can't reach out to them. I have no clue,
Speaker 3: and it's like, well, I have their number, but.
Speaker 2: Nobody, but nobody infiltrated to find out why I don't
Speaker 2: like you.
Speaker 3: I mean, like, I think that if if it was
Speaker 3: like if my friend Amanda was like, hey, why does
Speaker 3: this person not like Andrew, then they wouldn't tell because
Speaker 3: they would know that Amanda would come back to me
Speaker 3: and be like, this is the reason.
Speaker 1: No, No, I need you. I need you to use
Speaker 1: your words and tell me why Amanda Amanda just because
Speaker 1: should have been like doesn't like Andrew? What happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah, what happened.
Speaker 1: And if this person, if your friend is asking me
Speaker 1: if you can come, then they already know that they're
Speaker 1: gonna tell, like she's gonna tell you what they say.
Speaker 3: It is so stupid.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think I think that that is just like that's
Speaker 1: just a weird way to live your life. On one hand,
Speaker 1: I understand you something no longer aligns with how you
Speaker 1: feel or the person that you are, come out, move
Speaker 1: on right, life goes on. But then on the other hand,
Speaker 1: it's like we're adults. If I did something to offend
Speaker 1: you or I did something to upset you, tell me
Speaker 1: so I can rectify it and know that like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I didn't even realize I was doing this.
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna do it again.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Because I think like if it was like
Speaker 3: a romantic relationship, I think it's like a little bit
Speaker 3: more okay to do that, like ghosts. I don't think
Speaker 3: ghosting is usually okay, but I but I think like
Speaker 3: with a friendship, I think it's like.
Speaker 2: Very ghost friend I don't I don't understand, Like, how
Speaker 2: does it get to the point where you're like I
Speaker 2: don't even want to I don't even want to talk
Speaker 2: to them.
Speaker 4: I don't even want to talk to them.
Speaker 2: Like, you didn't sexually assault your friend, You didn't like,
Speaker 2: did you steal money?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: Nothing. The last time I saw them, like they just
Speaker 3: got their their green card and I was like, let's
Speaker 3: throw like let's I'm gonna help you plan a party.
Speaker 3: That was the last time I saw them.
Speaker 1: Did you plan the party?
Speaker 3: I plan the party?
Speaker 1: Was it a good party?
Speaker 3: It was a good party. Yeah. And I bought drinks
Speaker 3: for their friends too, And I was like, why'd I
Speaker 3: even do that if I was just gonna get ghosted
Speaker 3: later on? Dumb?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't understand. This is weird.
Speaker 2: This is strange, and I I wish we had some
Speaker 2: spies to find out because now I'm interested.
Speaker 4: Now I'm invested.
Speaker 3: At this point, I'm like, I don't care, like I
Speaker 3: think when I get sad, Like I go to that
Speaker 3: place and I'm like, why did this person goes? Yeah,
Speaker 3: because it sucks, But like.
Speaker 2: That's their problem and they're missing out on you because
Speaker 2: you're a good friend.
Speaker 3: It's so true, Sydney, and you're fun.
Speaker 1: You and you planned a party and then and you're
Speaker 1: buying drinks for friends. Listen, I'm drawing the line there.
Speaker 1: I plan the party, but I'm buying drinks for your friends.
Speaker 1: Did they get their green cards? Too? Are they my friend?
Speaker 1: Did you say something? Maybe you left a bad tip
Speaker 1: and they saw it, Like.
Speaker 3: I don't know, and I don't know about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, wait, let's let's let's let's let's not do
Speaker 1: that no more. Let's not ghost our friends. If you
Speaker 1: can ghost your friend, then was that your friend in
Speaker 1: the first place.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have an issue with somebody, just fucking
Speaker 2: be an adult. Hey, you hurt me when you x
Speaker 2: y z I felt blah blah blah when you da
Speaker 2: da da da da, Like how use your words? What
Speaker 2: you can't communicate? This is strange. It's getting weird. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's getting weird. I see, all right, all these fucking captions,
Speaker 2: these dissertations on Facebook. But then you can't tell somebody, hey,
Speaker 2: you hurt me when blah blah blah you made me
Speaker 2: uncomfortable Da da da da da.
Speaker 4: I don't fuck with.
Speaker 1: You, because fuck with you. But but then, but it
Speaker 1: brings me back to what I was saying about people
Speaker 1: fighting for me after a relationship ends. If you're not
Speaker 1: fighting for the friendship or you're not trying to like
Speaker 1: mend something, then were we friends? Like I thought we
Speaker 1: were friends. I planned you a green car party?
Speaker 3: Yep, Marie?
Speaker 4: Would you fight for me?
Speaker 1: Would I fight for you?
Speaker 4: You're like, would you fight for our friendship?
Speaker 1: I think that I would. I mean, since I shed
Speaker 1: a tear at a Starbucks into an empanada for you once,
Speaker 1: that was me fighting that one tier was me fighting.
Speaker 4: For you, shed a tear into a panada. That's my title.
Speaker 4: That's it. That's it, that's my title right there?
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, okay, Andrew, can you run
Speaker 1: through the titles for us? Or should we read this message?
Speaker 1: That we got from this guy.
Speaker 3: Uh, yeah, I think the the email that I sent
Speaker 3: you yesterday I thought was very interesting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to read it. We got a message
Speaker 1: from a listeners. The title of the email is asexual
Speaker 1: and still a hoe. Hey, my name is BJ and
Speaker 1: I listened to the recent episode We're Sidney and we're
Speaker 1: talking about asexuals, and I wanted to let y'all know
Speaker 1: I'm asexual. I'm a black, pan sexual, gender queer asexual,
Speaker 1: pan sexual, gender queer asexual.
Speaker 4: I had to google all of those and what does
Speaker 4: that mean?
Speaker 1: Will pan sexual is attracted to all types of everything? Well,
Speaker 1: it said, I think pots and pans. I think pots
Speaker 1: are cute too, and then gender queer to me feels redundant,
Speaker 1: but you know, it is what it is. And asexual.
Speaker 1: So I'm a black but also black, so black, pan sexual,
Speaker 1: gender queer asexual who has had sex and still has
Speaker 1: sex sporadically. Most people assume I'm a hoe because of
Speaker 1: my Instagram, but I typically only have sex three times
Speaker 1: a year, usually only to please a partner. I'm driving
Speaker 1: an email right now so I can just upload my
Speaker 1: picks and my Insta is cream filing. Please feel free
Speaker 1: to ask me questions or anything I'd like to share.
Speaker 1: I'm down to share. And then they sent us some photos,
Speaker 1: you know, a little mirror selfie with a booty in
Speaker 1: the crop top. You see that this album Colever moment.
Speaker 1: Can you see it? And then these like, first of all,
Speaker 1: the turtlenick is just sleeves.
Speaker 4: I love it.
Speaker 2: Please send me tell me, yeah, tell me what it
Speaker 2: is so that Yeah.
Speaker 1: Please send us the link to your turtlenick sleeve shawl
Speaker 1: things so we can give one for Sydney.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So Andrew thought the email was interesting. Why did
Speaker 1: you think it was interesting? I?
Speaker 3: Well, I guess I I was under the assumption that
Speaker 3: pant sexual and asexual were sort of at odds with
Speaker 3: another and that they wouldn't really work together. So I
Speaker 3: do have a question in that regard. But I guess
Speaker 3: they're listening to this episode, so maybe they'll kind of
Speaker 3: follow up explaining.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because we were talking about asexual Sydney wanted
Speaker 1: an insexual expert podcast.
Speaker 4: I did. I did ask for that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Andrew, I agree with you. Pant sexual and asexual
Speaker 1: to me, do seem like they're on opposite ends of right,
Speaker 1: because a pan sexual is attracted to the spectrum of
Speaker 1: everything right and asexual. In my mind, I thought meant
Speaker 1: didn't really need anything from anybody.
Speaker 2: We are confusion, confusion, confucion. Yeah, I am confusion right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think that. But that's the thing,
Speaker 1: like if there's something for everybody, and everybody should be
Speaker 1: allowed to live their lives how they want to live
Speaker 1: their lives. That's I think that's what this new generation
Speaker 1: what is it disease the exes, that's what they got
Speaker 1: on us, is like it's easier to be what you
Speaker 1: want to be now than it.
Speaker 4: Was before Generation element op.
Speaker 1: Qrs. Any follow up questions for our friend BJ anything
Speaker 1: you guys feel like we need to We left out
Speaker 1: that we need to hit. Any tips on how to
Speaker 1: get a billionaire with anything that we talked about today,
Speaker 1: Let's let's wrap it up in a knee little bo.
Speaker 4: I mean, you never know, you gotta give people a chance.
Speaker 2: Like I was on my Instagram stories, I was like, yes,
Speaker 2: I understand that you have a type blah blah blah
Speaker 2: blah blah, but you gotta just be a little.
Speaker 4: Bit more open. I think if.
Speaker 2: Like you're saying, this person is not my type. But
Speaker 2: that is your type, not a billionaire.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like it just doesn't.
Speaker 4: He's like, come on, like have fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody hip don't work that My hips don't lie.
Speaker 2: Let's go like, let's let's have a blast. You never
Speaker 2: know that person doesn't need their hip to work for
Speaker 2: y'all to be in Rome for a week.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm listen. The next event, I'm gonna find him
Speaker 1: this and this is this is on me. Okay, the
Speaker 1: next event, I'm gonna find him and I'll just go
Speaker 1: over and introduce myself. That's where I messed up. I
Speaker 1: didn't introduce myself. If I had done that and I
Speaker 1: shook his little you know, spider vein hand, it might
Speaker 1: have changed the game for me a little bit, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Hi, I'm Marie. Nice to meet you,
Speaker 1: and you are. And they would have said his name
Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh, then I would have
Speaker 1: went back to the table, googled him, came right back. Hey,
Speaker 1: so I see the chair is not available anymore? Can
Speaker 1: I sit on your lap? You know, like, you know,
Speaker 1: you live and you learn this. You live and you learn.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the thread of that posted on Twitter
Speaker 1: it's actually really funny. I'm gonna spend the rest of
Speaker 1: my day watching those.
Speaker 2: They're they're really good videos. People were not playing around.
Speaker 1: Yeah. As always, thank you to the hot listeners that
Speaker 1: send us messages and photos. We love. We love when
Speaker 1: y'all game sending them photographic proof. We love a pan sexual,
Speaker 1: gender queer asexual audience like we love that everybody's listening
Speaker 1: and everybody get something out of this pod. Please send
Speaker 1: us lyrics for your heartbreak song. Oh my God, you
Speaker 1: you're the thunder.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's gonna be raining all day, babe, it's
Speaker 2: about to.
Speaker 1: Be a god fin fight. Yeah. Yo.
Speaker 2: The weather in New York States this summer has been absolute.
Speaker 2: The weather is not here for us. And that's that's fine.
Speaker 2: That's fine. I'm out of here. If you haven't gotten
Speaker 2: a ticket for my San Francisco shows at Cobbs Comedy Club, yeah,
Speaker 2: go get them. It's Friday. You miss Thursday, so get
Speaker 2: them tonight, Get them tonight, get them for tomorrow. I
Speaker 2: have two shows. It's gonna be a blast, and it's
Speaker 2: not gonna be pouring in San Francisco, hopefully not. Nope,
Speaker 2: all right, well I'll have the NFL in my Stories.
Speaker 1: Sydney has it on her page, and hopefully we'll she'll
Speaker 1: see you there.
Speaker 4: I'll be there. Yeah.
Speaker 2: But you know what, I'll FaceTime you, Marie. How about
Speaker 2: I FaceTime you while I'm on stage. Okay, at the
Speaker 2: end of the show.
Speaker 1: Okay, what time is the show cause I need to
Speaker 1: see what what I need to make sure I have
Speaker 1: on a shirt.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll text you. I'll text you in advance.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, bye friend, Bye Forever.
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