WEBVTT - BobbyCast Presents: Middays with Morgan

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Bobby here. Uh, this is not a Bobby Cast,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is a collection of mid Days with Morgan.

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan number one used to be the executive producer of

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Now she works for me over on the

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<v Speaker 1>management side, which you know, it's basically everything that's not radio, TV, touring, books, etcetera.

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<v Speaker 1>But she started this thing on Instagram called mid Days

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<v Speaker 1>of Morgan where she just talks about stuff, and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually pretty funny. Um, keep doing them and let

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<v Speaker 1>me post them on our Bobby Cast feed. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you like these. If you do, let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>You can follow her at Morgan masson gil or you

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<v Speaker 1>go to my page and find her up there. But

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<v Speaker 1>here's a collection of mid Days with Morrigan. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>know if you like these. All right, here you go.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what the moment is more time. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about getting ghosted. We're ghosting somebody. We've all

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<v Speaker 1>been there on one side of it or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna play a clip and then we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>break it down. Let's go. I'm just sad. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. Okay, I'm gonna reread her message in case

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have time to. She wrote to this guy

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<v Speaker 1>who I guess coasted her. She said, Hey, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to interpret your silence as disinterest. I'm really disappointed and hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, especially since things started out really nicely

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I don't know what's going on in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>but it takes two minutes to send a text to

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<v Speaker 1>let me know you're no longer interested, or to communicate

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<v Speaker 1>that you need some time. I'm a strong person. I

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<v Speaker 1>can handle rejection, but this silence is just cowardly on

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<v Speaker 1>your part. I did enjoy getting to know you in

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<v Speaker 1>best of look seek um. You know she typed that

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<v Speaker 1>out in her notes up y'all. You know she did,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get it. I mean, being ghosted sucks. It

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<v Speaker 1>definitely sucks. But I would advise if you've been ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>to just not do that. Don't say anything like they're

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<v Speaker 1>telling you without telling you, even though it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>right way of going about it. Take their silence for

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. It really really sucks, but you're typing

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<v Speaker 1>up and spending your energy on a response that that

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<v Speaker 1>is not gonna make that guy do the right thing,

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<v Speaker 1>like he's already done the wrong thing. I guess that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. Um, but I just laugh at this

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<v Speaker 1>because we've all been ghosted. I got ghosted recently actually,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, it's always the Christian Boys guys. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>Christian bloyees that it always got a scripture and their

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<v Speaker 1>bio and then they go and ghost you. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. Um, but this guy we had

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<v Speaker 1>talked for a little bit and he kept on throwing

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<v Speaker 1>out dat ideas, which cool, like let's go on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do something. But I felt like any time it

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<v Speaker 1>got close to the day that we had talked about

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<v Speaker 1>doing something, he wouldn't follow through, or there'd be something

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<v Speaker 1>come up or whatever what have you. And this last

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<v Speaker 1>time that we're supposed to do something, he texted me

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, oh, hey, like this came up, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't And I just responded, okay, thanks for let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he never said anything back, which, listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call all the Christian Boys, John Luke. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>just straight up gonna ghost a girl, maybe take relations

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<v Speaker 1>out of the Instagram bio. That's all I'm saying. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a friend who this happened to her recently too,

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy has something about Jesus and his Instagram bio. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that people are gonna ghost, but if you're

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<v Speaker 1>claiming to be a follower of the Lord, maybe step

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<v Speaker 1>up and just tell you're not interested. That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, we've all everyone

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<v Speaker 1>has experienced one side or the other of ghosting. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just an an inevitable part of life, and it

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<v Speaker 1>can be a discouraging part of dating. I'm twenty none

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<v Speaker 1>years old and when people ask me why are you single?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you single? Because honestly, it's hard off here

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<v Speaker 1>in these streets, like the guy, the pool of I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna sit here and say Alman sucked because they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But the pool of what we have to work with

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<v Speaker 1>these days, the good ones are few and far between,

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<v Speaker 1>and even the ones who are talking about their love

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<v Speaker 1>for Jesus are doing the same thing that any other

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<v Speaker 1>person would do, like step it up, John Luke. So anyway, um,

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<v Speaker 1>my advice would be, if you've been ghosted, do not

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<v Speaker 1>type up some long narrative in your notes oup to

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<v Speaker 1>send him about how he should have done better. Because

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<v Speaker 1>some men just ain't and that's okay. Like I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>this phrase before, rejection is God's protection, and that's so true.

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<v Speaker 1>If it didn't work out, that was not your person.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't send the long text. If he didn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>decency to let you know he wasn't interested, what in

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<v Speaker 1>the world makes you think he would be a good partner? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I've been on the side of things where I've

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<v Speaker 1>not been really that into a person and have had

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<v Speaker 1>this in that text. It's like, hey, like I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>getting to know you. It literally does take two minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't have to say something specific. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be like I didn't like the way your

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<v Speaker 1>teeth look and I just can't imagine look at those

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<v Speaker 1>teeth for the rest of my life. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>say that, But you could say I appreciate the time

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<v Speaker 1>you've taken getting to know me, and vice versa. I

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<v Speaker 1>really enjoy getting to know more about you. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't see a romantic connection sparking out of this or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever however you want to phrase it, like. You can

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<v Speaker 1>keep it sweet, keep it keep it short, but let

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<v Speaker 1>that person know because it's just the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And if not take Galatians on the Instagram. By the

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<v Speaker 1>thought of you, as a male, I could have eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>thirty fifty women pregnant at the same time. As a female,

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<v Speaker 1>you can only be pregnant by one man at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>And further, it benefits you as a woman to stick

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<v Speaker 1>to that man, because is the more you get pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>the more your value declines. Stretch marks, losing the vaginal elasticity,

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<v Speaker 1>and all of these meaningful things that attract meant It

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<v Speaker 1>really is a shame there's not some sort of human

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<v Speaker 1>decency tests people have to take in order to have

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. When I came across that, my blood pressure

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<v Speaker 1>got so high. It's wild to have somebody's but you

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<v Speaker 1>chalked up to basically what they look like physically, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope no one ever reproduces with that. That man

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<v Speaker 1>who work in his girlfriend's jack at that a. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a mom, but I know a couple and

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<v Speaker 1>they're badasses and they arguably pull more weight than the

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<v Speaker 1>guy in this situation. So to hear that it's more

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<v Speaker 1>beneficial for women to be in a committed relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>a man, it is just kind of astounding to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Because most women I know, even in marriages, are so independent.

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<v Speaker 1>They have their own income, um, they have their own hobbies,

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<v Speaker 1>they have They bring so much to the table, optionally

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<v Speaker 1>and monetarily. So do you're a man grab about some

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<v Speaker 1>stretch marks knowing good and dangwell, he's gonna have a

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<v Speaker 1>receding hairline in the next five minutes, Sir, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you bringing to the table If you're saying basically, the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing you bring to the table is the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you can have sex with a woman, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>that hard for us to find, sir, kid or no ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm beginning to question if we even need them. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I did this weekend? Me and my sweet roommate,

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<v Speaker 1>who I have such great conversations with on a daily basis.

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<v Speaker 1>We genuinely enjoy each other's time and living together. We

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<v Speaker 1>cleaned up our house, we cleaned out the garage. Neither

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<v Speaker 1>one of us had to beg the other to help

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<v Speaker 1>because we're just happy to do so, and we had

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<v Speaker 1>a peaceful weekend. Now, if I were married to that guy,

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<v Speaker 1>he probably would have impregnated me by all, because it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like he was trying to do that with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women and look at me as less than

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm raising his child and probably mothering him as well,

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<v Speaker 1>and then also having to do all those house projects

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<v Speaker 1>because he's too busy impregnating other people to help me. Disclaimer,

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<v Speaker 1>Today's mid Days with Morgan is rated M for mature.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're in a public place listening to this,

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<v Speaker 1>are the kiddos are beside you, maybe just to hit

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<v Speaker 1>pause for a second and grab some earbuts, we're about

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<v Speaker 1>to break down this clip. Let's go. Curius is about

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<v Speaker 1>to do a single lady a pool and this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be my reaction. Is this your group with a

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<v Speaker 1>single lady? Yeah, Chrysland, I've been so excited to do

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<v Speaker 1>it right Ready, you didn't even play good job girls.

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<v Speaker 1>But she used to get her strip, going to give

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<v Speaker 1>it to her man's for beating Okay, so maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just real vanilla right and that's actually hot or something,

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<v Speaker 1>But in my mind, that is quite literally the worst

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<v Speaker 1>gift I've ever seen in my life. First off, props

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<v Speaker 1>to this girl for going in and getting her whole

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<v Speaker 1>cuccini wax in one strip. That I mean, if you've

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<v Speaker 1>never had a wax, they do it in portions so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't die there on the table. So when she

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<v Speaker 1>said she was looking forward to having it all done

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<v Speaker 1>in one strip, that's when I knew she was a psychopath.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have seen it coming, but I was shocked

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to see it. I did not expect

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<v Speaker 1>that they were going to show it to us and

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<v Speaker 1>that she would take it home as a gift for

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<v Speaker 1>her partner. Like, I really want to know what that

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<v Speaker 1>interaction was like when she walked through the door and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, bay bath, they I got you a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>I got you something, come quick, And he walks in

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<v Speaker 1>and he pulls out a piece of hard wax that's

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<v Speaker 1>got all her Cuccini and Buccini hair up in it. Like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe it's just real vanilla and I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be hating on this chick, but I mean, never

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<v Speaker 1>again can she complain about her man getting his beard

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<v Speaker 1>trimmings on the bathroom scene Because it's a gift, Tiny,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a gift. No, I'm too vanilla for this. This

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<v Speaker 1>leads me to want to know what was the worst

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<v Speaker 1>gift you ever got from a significant other? This girl

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<v Speaker 1>is at the bar extremely high