Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here. Uh, this is not a Bobby Cast,
Speaker 1: but this is a collection of mid Days with Morgan.
Speaker 1: Morgan number one used to be the executive producer of
Speaker 1: the show. Now she works for me over on the
Speaker 1: management side, which you know, it's basically everything that's not radio, TV, touring, books, etcetera.
Speaker 1: But she started this thing on Instagram called mid Days
Speaker 1: of Morgan where she just talks about stuff, and I said, hey,
Speaker 1: you're actually pretty funny. Um, keep doing them and let
Speaker 1: me post them on our Bobby Cast feed. I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe you like these. If you do, let me know.
Speaker 1: You can follow her at Morgan masson gil or you
Speaker 1: go to my page and find her up there. But
Speaker 1: here's a collection of mid Days with Morrigan. Let me
Speaker 1: know if you like these. All right, here you go.
Speaker 1: You know what the moment is more time. Okay, we're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about getting ghosted. We're ghosting somebody. We've all
Speaker 1: been there on one side of it or the other.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna play a clip and then we're gonna
Speaker 1: break it down. Let's go. I'm just sad. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. Okay, I'm gonna reread her message in case
Speaker 1: you didn't have time to. She wrote to this guy
Speaker 1: who I guess coasted her. She said, Hey, I'm going
Speaker 1: to interpret your silence as disinterest. I'm really disappointed and hurt,
Speaker 1: to be honest, especially since things started out really nicely
Speaker 1: with you. I don't know what's going on in your life,
Speaker 1: but it takes two minutes to send a text to
Speaker 1: let me know you're no longer interested, or to communicate
Speaker 1: that you need some time. I'm a strong person. I
Speaker 1: can handle rejection, but this silence is just cowardly on
Speaker 1: your part. I did enjoy getting to know you in
Speaker 1: best of look seek um. You know she typed that
Speaker 1: out in her notes up y'all. You know she did,
Speaker 1: and I get it. I mean, being ghosted sucks. It
Speaker 1: definitely sucks. But I would advise if you've been ghosted
Speaker 1: to just not do that. Don't say anything like they're
Speaker 1: telling you without telling you, even though it's not the
Speaker 1: right way of going about it. Take their silence for
Speaker 1: what it is. It really really sucks, but you're typing
Speaker 1: up and spending your energy on a response that that
Speaker 1: is not gonna make that guy do the right thing,
Speaker 1: like he's already done the wrong thing. I guess that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Um, but I just laugh at this
Speaker 1: because we've all been ghosted. I got ghosted recently actually,
Speaker 1: and um, it's always the Christian Boys guys. It's always
Speaker 1: Christian bloyees that it always got a scripture and their
Speaker 1: bio and then they go and ghost you. I don't
Speaker 1: know what it is. Um, but this guy we had
Speaker 1: talked for a little bit and he kept on throwing
Speaker 1: out dat ideas, which cool, like let's go on a date,
Speaker 1: let's do something. But I felt like any time it
Speaker 1: got close to the day that we had talked about
Speaker 1: doing something, he wouldn't follow through, or there'd be something
Speaker 1: come up or whatever what have you. And this last
Speaker 1: time that we're supposed to do something, he texted me
Speaker 1: and was like, oh, hey, like this came up, I
Speaker 1: can't And I just responded, okay, thanks for let me know.
Speaker 1: And then he never said anything back, which, listen, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call all the Christian Boys, John Luke. If you're
Speaker 1: just straight up gonna ghost a girl, maybe take relations
Speaker 1: out of the Instagram bio. That's all I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: I have a friend who this happened to her recently too,
Speaker 1: and the guy has something about Jesus and his Instagram bio. Okay,
Speaker 1: I get that people are gonna ghost, but if you're
Speaker 1: claiming to be a follower of the Lord, maybe step
Speaker 1: up and just tell you're not interested. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, we've all everyone
Speaker 1: has experienced one side or the other of ghosting. Okay.
Speaker 1: It's just an an inevitable part of life, and it
Speaker 1: can be a discouraging part of dating. I'm twenty none
Speaker 1: years old and when people ask me why are you single?
Speaker 1: Why are you single? Because honestly, it's hard off here
Speaker 1: in these streets, like the guy, the pool of I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna sit here and say Alman sucked because they don't.
Speaker 1: But the pool of what we have to work with
Speaker 1: these days, the good ones are few and far between,
Speaker 1: and even the ones who are talking about their love
Speaker 1: for Jesus are doing the same thing that any other
Speaker 1: person would do, like step it up, John Luke. So anyway, um,
Speaker 1: my advice would be, if you've been ghosted, do not
Speaker 1: type up some long narrative in your notes oup to
Speaker 1: send him about how he should have done better. Because
Speaker 1: some men just ain't and that's okay. Like I've heard
Speaker 1: this phrase before, rejection is God's protection, and that's so true.
Speaker 1: If it didn't work out, that was not your person.
Speaker 1: Don't send the long text. If he didn't have the
Speaker 1: decency to let you know he wasn't interested, what in
Speaker 1: the world makes you think he would be a good partner? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: And I've been on the side of things where I've
Speaker 1: not been really that into a person and have had
Speaker 1: this in that text. It's like, hey, like I appreciate
Speaker 1: getting to know you. It literally does take two minutes,
Speaker 1: and you don't have to say something specific. You don't
Speaker 1: have to be like I didn't like the way your
Speaker 1: teeth look and I just can't imagine look at those
Speaker 1: teeth for the rest of my life. You have to
Speaker 1: say that, But you could say I appreciate the time
Speaker 1: you've taken getting to know me, and vice versa. I
Speaker 1: really enjoy getting to know more about you. I just
Speaker 1: don't see a romantic connection sparking out of this or
Speaker 1: whatever however you want to phrase it, like. You can
Speaker 1: keep it sweet, keep it keep it short, but let
Speaker 1: that person know because it's just the right thing to do.
Speaker 1: And if not take Galatians on the Instagram. By the
Speaker 1: thought of you, as a male, I could have eighteen
Speaker 1: thirty fifty women pregnant at the same time. As a female,
Speaker 1: you can only be pregnant by one man at a time.
Speaker 1: And further, it benefits you as a woman to stick
Speaker 1: to that man, because is the more you get pregnant,
Speaker 1: the more your value declines. Stretch marks, losing the vaginal elasticity,
Speaker 1: and all of these meaningful things that attract meant It
Speaker 1: really is a shame there's not some sort of human
Speaker 1: decency tests people have to take in order to have
Speaker 1: a podcast. When I came across that, my blood pressure
Speaker 1: got so high. It's wild to have somebody's but you
Speaker 1: chalked up to basically what they look like physically, and
Speaker 1: I hope no one ever reproduces with that. That man
Speaker 1: who work in his girlfriend's jack at that a. Now
Speaker 1: I'm not a mom, but I know a couple and
Speaker 1: they're badasses and they arguably pull more weight than the
Speaker 1: guy in this situation. So to hear that it's more
Speaker 1: beneficial for women to be in a committed relationship with
Speaker 1: a man, it is just kind of astounding to me.
Speaker 1: Because most women I know, even in marriages, are so independent.
Speaker 1: They have their own income, um, they have their own hobbies,
Speaker 1: they have They bring so much to the table, optionally
Speaker 1: and monetarily. So do you're a man grab about some
Speaker 1: stretch marks knowing good and dangwell, he's gonna have a
Speaker 1: receding hairline in the next five minutes, Sir, what are
Speaker 1: you bringing to the table If you're saying basically, the
Speaker 1: only thing you bring to the table is the fact
Speaker 1: that you can have sex with a woman, that's not
Speaker 1: that hard for us to find, sir, kid or no ladies,
Speaker 1: I'm beginning to question if we even need them. You
Speaker 1: know what I did this weekend? Me and my sweet roommate,
Speaker 1: who I have such great conversations with on a daily basis.
Speaker 1: We genuinely enjoy each other's time and living together. We
Speaker 1: cleaned up our house, we cleaned out the garage. Neither
Speaker 1: one of us had to beg the other to help
Speaker 1: because we're just happy to do so, and we had
Speaker 1: a peaceful weekend. Now, if I were married to that guy,
Speaker 1: he probably would have impregnated me by all, because it
Speaker 1: seems like he was trying to do that with a
Speaker 1: lot of women and look at me as less than
Speaker 1: because I'm raising his child and probably mothering him as well,
Speaker 1: and then also having to do all those house projects
Speaker 1: because he's too busy impregnating other people to help me. Disclaimer,
Speaker 1: Today's mid Days with Morgan is rated M for mature.
Speaker 1: So if you're in a public place listening to this,
Speaker 1: are the kiddos are beside you, maybe just to hit
Speaker 1: pause for a second and grab some earbuts, we're about
Speaker 1: to break down this clip. Let's go. Curius is about
Speaker 1: to do a single lady a pool and this is
Speaker 1: gonna be my reaction. Is this your group with a
Speaker 1: single lady? Yeah, Chrysland, I've been so excited to do
Speaker 1: it right Ready, you didn't even play good job girls.
Speaker 1: But she used to get her strip, going to give
Speaker 1: it to her man's for beating Okay, so maybe I'm
Speaker 1: just real vanilla right and that's actually hot or something,
Speaker 1: But in my mind, that is quite literally the worst
Speaker 1: gift I've ever seen in my life. First off, props
Speaker 1: to this girl for going in and getting her whole
Speaker 1: cuccini wax in one strip. That I mean, if you've
Speaker 1: never had a wax, they do it in portions so
Speaker 1: you don't die there on the table. So when she
Speaker 1: said she was looking forward to having it all done
Speaker 1: in one strip, that's when I knew she was a psychopath.
Speaker 1: I should have seen it coming, but I was shocked
Speaker 1: when we got to see it. I did not expect
Speaker 1: that they were going to show it to us and
Speaker 1: that she would take it home as a gift for
Speaker 1: her partner. Like, I really want to know what that
Speaker 1: interaction was like when she walked through the door and
Speaker 1: was like, bay bath, they I got you a gift.
Speaker 1: I got you something, come quick, And he walks in
Speaker 1: and he pulls out a piece of hard wax that's
Speaker 1: got all her Cuccini and Buccini hair up in it. Like, girl,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's just real vanilla and I
Speaker 1: shouldn't be hating on this chick, but I mean, never
Speaker 1: again can she complain about her man getting his beard
Speaker 1: trimmings on the bathroom scene Because it's a gift, Tiny,
Speaker 1: it's a gift. No, I'm too vanilla for this. This
Speaker 1: leads me to want to know what was the worst
Speaker 1: gift you ever got from a significant other? This girl
Speaker 1: is at the bar extremely high