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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here. Uh, this is not a Bobby Cast,

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Speaker 1: but this is a collection of mid Days with Morgan.

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Speaker 1: Morgan number one used to be the executive producer of

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Speaker 1: the show. Now she works for me over on the

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Speaker 1: management side, which you know, it's basically everything that's not radio, TV, touring, books, etcetera.

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Speaker 1: But she started this thing on Instagram called mid Days

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Speaker 1: of Morgan where she just talks about stuff, and I said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you're actually pretty funny. Um, keep doing them and let

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Speaker 1: me post them on our Bobby Cast feed. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: maybe you like these. If you do, let me know.

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Speaker 1: You can follow her at Morgan masson gil or you

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Speaker 1: go to my page and find her up there. But

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Speaker 1: here's a collection of mid Days with Morrigan. Let me

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Speaker 1: know if you like these. All right, here you go.

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Speaker 1: You know what the moment is more time. Okay, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about getting ghosted. We're ghosting somebody. We've all

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Speaker 1: been there on one side of it or the other.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna play a clip and then we're gonna

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Speaker 1: break it down. Let's go. I'm just sad. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. Okay, I'm gonna reread her message in case

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Speaker 1: you didn't have time to. She wrote to this guy

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Speaker 1: who I guess coasted her. She said, Hey, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to interpret your silence as disinterest. I'm really disappointed and hurt,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, especially since things started out really nicely

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Speaker 1: with you. I don't know what's going on in your life,

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Speaker 1: but it takes two minutes to send a text to

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Speaker 1: let me know you're no longer interested, or to communicate

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Speaker 1: that you need some time. I'm a strong person. I

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Speaker 1: can handle rejection, but this silence is just cowardly on

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Speaker 1: your part. I did enjoy getting to know you in

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Speaker 1: best of look seek um. You know she typed that

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Speaker 1: out in her notes up y'all. You know she did,

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Speaker 1: and I get it. I mean, being ghosted sucks. It

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Speaker 1: definitely sucks. But I would advise if you've been ghosted

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Speaker 1: to just not do that. Don't say anything like they're

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Speaker 1: telling you without telling you, even though it's not the

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Speaker 1: right way of going about it. Take their silence for

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Speaker 1: what it is. It really really sucks, but you're typing

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Speaker 1: up and spending your energy on a response that that

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Speaker 1: is not gonna make that guy do the right thing,

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Speaker 1: like he's already done the wrong thing. I guess that's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Um, but I just laugh at this

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Speaker 1: because we've all been ghosted. I got ghosted recently actually,

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Speaker 1: and um, it's always the Christian Boys guys. It's always

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Speaker 1: Christian bloyees that it always got a scripture and their

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Speaker 1: bio and then they go and ghost you. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what it is. Um, but this guy we had

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Speaker 1: talked for a little bit and he kept on throwing

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Speaker 1: out dat ideas, which cool, like let's go on a date,

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Speaker 1: let's do something. But I felt like any time it

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Speaker 1: got close to the day that we had talked about

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Speaker 1: doing something, he wouldn't follow through, or there'd be something

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Speaker 1: come up or whatever what have you. And this last

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Speaker 1: time that we're supposed to do something, he texted me

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Speaker 1: and was like, oh, hey, like this came up, I

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Speaker 1: And then he never said anything back, which, listen, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call all the Christian Boys, John Luke. If you're

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Speaker 1: just straight up gonna ghost a girl, maybe take relations

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Speaker 1: out of the Instagram bio. That's all I'm saying. Like,

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Speaker 1: I have a friend who this happened to her recently too,

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Speaker 1: and the guy has something about Jesus and his Instagram bio. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I get that people are gonna ghost, but if you're

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Speaker 1: claiming to be a follower of the Lord, maybe step

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Speaker 1: up and just tell you're not interested. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, we've all everyone

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Speaker 1: has experienced one side or the other of ghosting. Okay.

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Speaker 1: It's just an an inevitable part of life, and it

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Speaker 1: can be a discouraging part of dating. I'm twenty none

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Speaker 1: years old and when people ask me why are you single?

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Speaker 1: Why are you single? Because honestly, it's hard off here

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Speaker 1: in these streets, like the guy, the pool of I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna sit here and say Alman sucked because they don't.

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Speaker 1: But the pool of what we have to work with

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Speaker 1: these days, the good ones are few and far between,

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Speaker 1: and even the ones who are talking about their love

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Speaker 1: some men just ain't and that's okay. Like I've heard

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Speaker 1: this phrase before, rejection is God's protection, and that's so true.

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Speaker 1: If it didn't work out, that was not your person.

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Speaker 1: Don't send the long text. If he didn't have the

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Speaker 1: decency to let you know he wasn't interested, what in

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Speaker 1: And I've been on the side of things where I've

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Speaker 1: this in that text. It's like, hey, like I appreciate

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Speaker 1: getting to know you. It literally does take two minutes,

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Speaker 1: and you don't have to say something specific. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to be like I didn't like the way your

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Speaker 1: teeth for the rest of my life. You have to

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Speaker 1: say that, But you could say I appreciate the time

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Speaker 1: you've taken getting to know me, and vice versa. I

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Speaker 1: really enjoy getting to know more about you. I just

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Speaker 1: don't see a romantic connection sparking out of this or

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Speaker 1: whatever however you want to phrase it, like. You can

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Speaker 1: keep it sweet, keep it keep it short, but let

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Speaker 1: that person know because it's just the right thing to do.

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Speaker 1: And if not take Galatians on the Instagram. By the

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Speaker 1: thought of you, as a male, I could have eighteen

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Speaker 1: thirty fifty women pregnant at the same time. As a female,

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Speaker 1: you can only be pregnant by one man at a time.

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Speaker 1: And further, it benefits you as a woman to stick

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Speaker 1: to that man, because is the more you get pregnant,

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Speaker 1: the more your value declines. Stretch marks, losing the vaginal elasticity,

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Speaker 1: really is a shame there's not some sort of human

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Speaker 1: decency tests people have to take in order to have

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Speaker 1: a podcast. When I came across that, my blood pressure

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Speaker 1: got so high. It's wild to have somebody's but you

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Speaker 1: chalked up to basically what they look like physically, and

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Speaker 1: I hope no one ever reproduces with that. That man

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Speaker 1: who work in his girlfriend's jack at that a. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm not a mom, but I know a couple and

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Speaker 1: they're badasses and they arguably pull more weight than the

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Speaker 1: beneficial for women to be in a committed relationship with

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Speaker 1: a man, it is just kind of astounding to me.

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Speaker 1: Because most women I know, even in marriages, are so independent.

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Speaker 1: receding hairline in the next five minutes, Sir, what are

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Speaker 1: you bringing to the table If you're saying basically, the

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Speaker 1: that you can have sex with a woman, that's not

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Speaker 1: that hard for us to find, sir, kid or no ladies,

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Speaker 1: I'm beginning to question if we even need them. You

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Speaker 1: know what I did this weekend? Me and my sweet roommate,

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Speaker 1: who I have such great conversations with on a daily basis.

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Speaker 1: We genuinely enjoy each other's time and living together. We

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Speaker 1: a peaceful weekend. Now, if I were married to that guy,

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Speaker 1: lot of women and look at me as less than

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Speaker 1: and then also having to do all those house projects

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Speaker 1: because he's too busy impregnating other people to help me. Disclaimer,

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Speaker 1: Today's mid Days with Morgan is rated M for mature.

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Speaker 1: So if you're in a public place listening to this,

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Speaker 1: to break down this clip. Let's go. Curius is about

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Speaker 1: to do a single lady a pool and this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be my reaction. Is this your group with a

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Speaker 1: single lady? Yeah, Chrysland, I've been so excited to do

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Speaker 1: it right Ready, you didn't even play good job girls.

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Speaker 1: But she used to get her strip, going to give

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Speaker 1: just real vanilla right and that's actually hot or something,

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Speaker 1: to this girl for going in and getting her whole

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Speaker 1: I should have seen it coming, but I was shocked

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Speaker 1: I got you something, come quick, And he walks in

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Speaker 1: got all her Cuccini and Buccini hair up in it. Like, girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's just real vanilla and I

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be hating on this chick, but I mean, never

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Speaker 1: trimmings on the bathroom scene Because it's a gift, Tiny,

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Speaker 1: it's a gift. No, I'm too vanilla for this. This

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