WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bumping Carts

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update, We got an email from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who says people in her area aren't really using Bumble

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<v Speaker 1>or Tinder anymore. Use it not even my favorite app, Clinger,

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<v Speaker 1>where personal space is just myth.

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<v Speaker 2>At least everybody on the app are you imagine you

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<v Speaker 2>hear knock at your door, immediately find your fellow codependent Clinger.

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<v Speaker 1>But she says she's found a more unique way to

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<v Speaker 1>meet guys. And we've heard of these types of movements

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<v Speaker 1>before where people are like trying to move away from

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<v Speaker 1>the apps in favor of other methods. So let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her and find out what she did. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Mandy. Mandy, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, Hey, you sound cute and fun and like

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<v Speaker 3>you did something fun to meet some guys.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Hey, how did you get that from? Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>You did it?

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<v Speaker 1>You sound perfect for Clinger Brooks. So tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>this guy that you met and how you met him.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your strategy now?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my goodness, So I'm loving not being on dating apps.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's really been a game changer for you, Huh.

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<v Speaker 5>It really has. And there was this TikTok movement going

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<v Speaker 5>around and I want to say it started in Spain

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<v Speaker 5>and it's where singles meet up at a grocery store.

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<v Speaker 5>So like you'll you'll have a store and you'll have

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<v Speaker 5>a time, and they usually see a huge turnout, like

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<v Speaker 5>sixty to seventy people take part in it at store.

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<v Speaker 4>It like, how do you find when the meet up?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, let's see you guys at checkstands, Like I'd.

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<v Speaker 4>Be the person not invited to the grocery store for some.

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<v Speaker 1>Reason already there. Yeah, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>So it is a movement on TikTok, so like people

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<v Speaker 5>will just kind of post the store name and time,

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<v Speaker 5>and they'll get reposted and reposted, and then people just

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<v Speaker 5>I seem like.

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<v Speaker 6>Not exactly this, but like I've seen people go on

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<v Speaker 6>and they'll be like, I think this bar would be

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<v Speaker 6>fun for singles.

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<v Speaker 4>Go this Friday night and it's like a popular barn.

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<v Speaker 3>And go viral, and we're doing grocery stores, and so

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<v Speaker 3>you can just say, yeah, exactly makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you're going to do it, you share it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you watch any video where it says hot singles

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<v Speaker 3>might be here, I feel like you're into it.

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<v Speaker 1>I see a lot of those websites and so a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of people go to the grocery store hoping to

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, we can go to the meat section because.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirsty. Mandy, tell us how it works. What happens

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<v Speaker 1>once you're in the store.

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<v Speaker 5>Then here's where it gets a little lake saucy. So

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<v Speaker 5>you go and you get a pineapple. Okay, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 5>it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Why is it that fruit?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? I wondered the same thing, like you couldn't

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<v Speaker 5>have chosen a different fruits? But whatever, Okay, upside down

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<v Speaker 5>which I know, run like rampant with that other Are.

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<v Speaker 4>You sure you're going to the right.

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<v Speaker 7>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up? I'm loving this idea more and more going true.

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<v Speaker 5>Then you put it upside down your cart, and then

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<v Speaker 5>you go over to where the wine is and you

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<v Speaker 5>grab a bottle of wine, a little bowl.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you got an upside down pineapple and some wine.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, And you check out who's around you see if

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<v Speaker 5>they have the same items in theirs. And if you

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<v Speaker 5>see somebody who kind of tickles your fancy so speak,

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<v Speaker 5>give them a light bump with your cart.

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<v Speaker 4>Over we're bumping carts.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say this this could be subtle because even

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't see someone at first, you could just

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<v Speaker 2>wander around.

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<v Speaker 4>Looks like do you have to wander in? Every question? Though?

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<v Speaker 4>If you bump someone, do they bump you back?

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<v Speaker 8>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you run away with carts?

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<v Speaker 5>If they're not interested, they could you know, just oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 5>excuse me and walk away.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So bumping carts is the equivalent of swiping basically exactly. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So who did you bump? Upside down pineapple wine?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>We're all following who was it?

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<v Speaker 5>That is how I'm the Mark Mark?

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<v Speaker 8>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>And then how do you how do you turn that

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<v Speaker 4>into a date?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, once we bumped, then we exchanged information. We actually

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<v Speaker 5>got together and we went to a wine bar and

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<v Speaker 5>it was it was really nice, like we just.

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<v Speaker 9>Got to sit down and really talk, and there wasn't

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<v Speaker 9>all that anxiety that you would normally feel because you've

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<v Speaker 9>already seen them, so you're not worried that they're lying

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<v Speaker 9>on their dating apps.

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<v Speaker 5>See that?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okayproved you know nothing about anxiety tends to go

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<v Speaker 2>down after you bump carts with What did you like

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<v Speaker 2>about Mark when you were hanging.

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<v Speaker 1>Out with him?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I just I liked that he's really funny

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<v Speaker 5>and he's a he's an animal lover and which yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 5>and I mean he's just he seemed very genuine.

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<v Speaker 3>So did you get the vibe that you guys were

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<v Speaker 3>going to do this again, You're going to see each other.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, And that's the weirdest thing, Like he walked

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<v Speaker 5>me home you know we can't and then gone done

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<v Speaker 5>and then done now you said, And then he was gone.

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<v Speaker 1>He ran away after the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, oh my god, I have wine breath

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<v Speaker 2>and then he runs away.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe he had to go get another Pineapple's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>So have you called him or texted him or are

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<v Speaker 3>you waiting for him?

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<v Speaker 8>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I did. I called him and I texted and I've

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<v Speaker 5>got nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been back to the grocery store to see

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<v Speaker 1>if he's still?

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<v Speaker 7>Like, well, I haven't seen a name or time come

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<v Speaker 7>up for another one, Like I had been doing this

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<v Speaker 7>for a little while and this, but he was my

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<v Speaker 7>first thump.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, you never forget your first upside down pineapp.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long has it been since you and Mark

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<v Speaker 1>went on that date.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been about two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a while.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, long enough that he should have reached out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Okay, Well, let's call him in find out what

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<v Speaker 1>he has to say. We're gonna come back and do

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update you got I put in my

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<v Speaker 1>Instacart order already, so we'll be back and do it

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<v Speaker 1>right after this hold on second date update. I am

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<v Speaker 1>never going to shop for groceries the same ever again

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<v Speaker 1>after this call with Mandy.

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<v Speaker 3>You and meeboled, I am going to be just eyeballing

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<v Speaker 3>eagle eye who who's in here?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Mandy told us about a strange new dating ritual

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<v Speaker 1>that apparently started with singles in Spain and now it's

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<v Speaker 1>come over to the US where people will show up

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<v Speaker 1>at a grocery store like a lot of people. They

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<v Speaker 1>take all the pineapples, put them in carts upside down,

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<v Speaker 1>and meet in the wine section, then start bumping each other,

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<v Speaker 1>just show interest and wink. Definitely not a swinger, even

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<v Speaker 1>though it sounds like it to literally every person on

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<v Speaker 1>the planet, except for our listener Mandy, because she ended

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<v Speaker 1>up meeting a guy named Mark.

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<v Speaker 4>There and she only been out with Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, instead of everybody with pineapple, just with Mark. They

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<v Speaker 1>went out, had a really good time and this was

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<v Speaker 1>her first grocery store bump, sesshon, But we never asked,

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<v Speaker 1>what about Mark, Mandy, did you discuss that has he

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<v Speaker 1>bumped before?

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<v Speaker 5>He said he had? Okay, she and a girl had

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<v Speaker 5>gone out a few times after they had a bump. Second,

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<v Speaker 5>it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>How successful this is people.

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<v Speaker 2>What's it like when it's busy and it just sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like a hundred shopping cars crashing in the corner store.

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<v Speaker 3>Even more fascinating is how confused the produce man must.

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<v Speaker 5>Be, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Pineapples and now they don't want but they're back, and there's.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly a lot of questions that we have and'sie answer.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The only person that can is the tropical fruit stud

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<v Speaker 1>that we're about to call here. Hopefully we'll squeeze some

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<v Speaker 1>answers out of him.

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<v Speaker 4>Can we call Jaqa?

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? Okay? Pineapple Mark? We'll just call him

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<v Speaker 1>Mark until we get more from him. But let's just

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<v Speaker 1>dial and see if he picks up first. Here we go, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Mark?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Mark? I'm not sure if you're ready for this,

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<v Speaker 1>but you are on a radio show right now. We're

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Ye boy, have

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<v Speaker 1>we been dying to talk to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, seriously, so many questions.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean to like scare. You're a whole show, bro, Yes.

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<v Speaker 8>Four of us.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a radio show and we do a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm jeff and have you heard everybody else?

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<v Speaker 4>So I'd like to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>So we want to ask you a little bit if

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay about your dating life, because we heard that

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<v Speaker 1>you met a woman the other day at the grocery

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<v Speaker 1>store named Mandy.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh she told you about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be embarrassed, bro, we think it's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>She told us all about like the TikTok trend of

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<v Speaker 3>going to the grocery store at the same time, like

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<v Speaker 3>a call goes out to hot singles and everybody shows

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<v Speaker 3>up and puts pineapples in their cars.

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<v Speaker 8>You like, bump their cardival. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently you bumped with Mandy and she liked it.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I have. I have a couple of friends that

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<v Speaker 8>they're doing this trend and they told me you should,

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<v Speaker 8>uh see what it's about. Yeah. A couple of times

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<v Speaker 8>I met Mandy and I don't know, I thought she

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<v Speaker 8>was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good start.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool enough to take out on an actual date to

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<v Speaker 1>a wine bar.

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<v Speaker 8>We heard we went out. It's just uh, towards the

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<v Speaker 8>end of the date, like a weird thing happened. I

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<v Speaker 8>know she told you guys about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Weirder than the grocery store things.

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<v Speaker 1>We kiss.

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<v Speaker 7>You're supposed to.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it not a good kiss?

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<v Speaker 8>I walked her home and we kissed and it was

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<v Speaker 8>really great. But I take her to her door and

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<v Speaker 8>she reaches into her purse and pulls out an envelope.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is this Hogwarts letter?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm walking away thinking that this is a thank you

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<v Speaker 8>for the night kind of letter. So I get to

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<v Speaker 8>my car and I open this letter and it says

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<v Speaker 8>thank you for this lovely date, and then under it

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<v Speaker 8>it says, here is my pre and post date expenses.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh wait, it's an invoice.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, to what with the makeup? There was the petticue

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<v Speaker 8>or things like that.

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<v Speaker 4>She needed her toes painted to go to a wine bar.

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<v Speaker 4>I just put on close to old shoes.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, like I thought, I didn't know that this was

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<v Speaker 8>part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's insane.

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<v Speaker 8>Her Venmo was on there. There was a Venmo barcode handle.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you don't like more than someone where it actually went.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's why would.

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<v Speaker 3>You would you, especially because didn't you pay for the

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<v Speaker 3>wine bar?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I paid for everything. I thought, okay, I'll treat

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<v Speaker 8>her to a date. That's normal. I just didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>You did not pay for everything, okay, or maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have enough money to pay for the Venmo thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So come on, what is she having to buy new

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<v Speaker 4>makeup for the date?

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<v Speaker 7>Please?

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<v Speaker 5>Everything does run out at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get me started on a lot of theoreticals. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the true story. The only one that does

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<v Speaker 1>is Mandy, who is on the other listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>call right now, Mark and wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 8>Mark.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh girl, indeed, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Didn't realize that was what bothered you.

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<v Speaker 1>So you admit that you invoiced him for everything before

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<v Speaker 1>and during the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I went out, I got my makeup done, and

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<v Speaker 5>I got my hair done, I got a new outfit,

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<v Speaker 5>I got cheese.

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<v Speaker 4>You shouldn't put that much for a man to say.

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<v Speaker 8>But I didn't ask you to do any of that,

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<v Speaker 8>and I had no idea that there was a bill

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<v Speaker 8>attached to our dating culture.

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<v Speaker 5>You were insistent that you wanted to go out and

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<v Speaker 5>that you wanted to pay.

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<v Speaker 8>I wanted to, but to give me the receipts. It

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<v Speaker 8>was just it was impersonal. I didn't feel right about it.

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<v Speaker 8>I walked away feeling good, thinking, oh cool, I got

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<v Speaker 8>a cute envelope with a note instead I had a receipt.

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<v Speaker 8>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a letter does kind of make it more

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<v Speaker 1>personal in a way.

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<v Speaker 4>Does it?

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<v Speaker 1>She took the time to write it.

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<v Speaker 5>Indeed, you know, it's one of those things. I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>see that as a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you had other men actually fork up the cash

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<v Speaker 3>for these invoices? Because my guess is this isn't your

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<v Speaker 3>first time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I've got before, and I've never had any

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<v Speaker 5>roken lengths.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, maybe in the Pineapple community the standards for paying

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<v Speaker 1>men are a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 4>I had to admit, though.

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<v Speaker 2>If I went on a date with a girl and

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<v Speaker 2>it went well and I wanted to see her again

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<v Speaker 2>and she builed me fifty bucks, I'd be like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, oh no, financially afford it.

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<v Speaker 6>I can take care of I don't think she's thinking

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<v Speaker 6>about that when she I just like, these are expenses

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<v Speaker 6>about just being an adult that you just have to incur, like,

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<v Speaker 6>this is just life expenses that you got to take

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<v Speaker 6>on yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you don't you feel that we're getting a little

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<v Speaker 5>screwed over by the amount of money we have to pay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like kind of a shared thing. You both put

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<v Speaker 1>in your effort and your money. Mandy, is there a

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<v Speaker 1>way that maybe going forward you could see not doing

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<v Speaker 1>the invoice or at least giving him a discount on

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, if.

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<v Speaker 5>It's going to make you feel more comfortable. If we

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<v Speaker 5>got again, you know, we can go Dutch.

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<v Speaker 1>Dutch on the date or on the pre date expenses

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<v Speaker 1>on all the expenses.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even understand what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it means she pays for half, and he pays

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<v Speaker 1>for half. What he pays for one foot, she pays

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<v Speaker 1>for the other foot.

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<v Speaker 4>I got it. Bet you paid for your own crap?

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<v Speaker 2>Like would the bill comes?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Oh, that's not how modern pineapple dating works, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>get up with the times market. Sounds like she's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be reasonable with you, offering a pretty significant discount

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<v Speaker 1>on the rates that you have to pay, so I

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<v Speaker 1>would give her another chance.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like when you tell a company you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to cancel and they give you that last offer exactly.

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<v Speaker 8>Trial.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it too late to go Dutch on the first

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<v Speaker 3>bill or are we just talking.

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<v Speaker 4>About the second.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're not in charge of the entire financial landscape.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in charge of is paying for the date that

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<v Speaker 1>you go on, because we will offer to fund it

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Mark, if you'll see Mandy one more time.

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<v Speaker 8>If you're willing to talk about splitting things down the

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<v Speaker 8>line down the middle between you and I in the future,

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<v Speaker 8>then I don't see a reason not to.

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<v Speaker 4>No reason. Yes, Yes, spreadsheets Excel. You need to keep

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<v Speaker 4>your seats. Mark. Okay, if you get a haircut.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta remember see how many pumps the foundation she's

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<v Speaker 3>using account numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>This is some sexy talk that we're having on the

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<v Speaker 1>show right now. But Mark here, is that a yes

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<v Speaker 1>from you?

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<v Speaker 8>That's a yes from.

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<v Speaker 1>That do not see that coming. But congratulations, Mandy, you

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<v Speaker 1>got yourself another date.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, thank you guys very much. And Mark, once you

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<v Speaker 5>then Moony the half for the first date, we can

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<v Speaker 5>schedule a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, Maddy, I thought you were a nuts but now

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking I want you to do my financial.

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<v Speaker 4>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember when we first started this call and Mandy said hey,

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<v Speaker 1>and Brooke goes, Oh my god, you sound like so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you are the funnest person every making money.

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<v Speaker 1>Did not sound very fun by the end of the call,

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<v Speaker 1>did she.

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<v Speaker 3>God, It's like sometimes I'm too negative and then I

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<v Speaker 3>trying to be positive and it bites me in the bun.

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<v Speaker 1>The wrongs.

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<v Speaker 4>I always changed the wrong always. I'm gonna tell you,

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<v Speaker 4>if there's two lanes of traffic, I will always get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not your fault, Brooke. It sounded like she got

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<v Speaker 1>caught by the end pretty big time.

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<v Speaker 4>She got another date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, like, what, whatever everyone else is doing,

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing it wrong. She probably should have told us

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<v Speaker 1>about her invoicing thing before we called the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, sometimes I know, I'm like, why didn't

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<v Speaker 2>you say that and you know, to them all, or

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't you realize that's the issue. Yeah, maybe that

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<v Speaker 2>many guys pay it without talking.

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<v Speaker 4>My god, I can't even imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>I do kind of want to follow her on Venmo

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<v Speaker 3>to see how often it lights up, though, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean, I could make.

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<v Speaker 2>A living off of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But if you want to get help with your

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<v Speaker 1>dating Life. Please don't invoice us. We will not pay.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call the person though who's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Go check out all of our second dates wherever you

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