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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know

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Speaker 1: it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you could hear yours brother, little bit, hold on

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Speaker 2: tightest time for the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 3: Is that your sexy Tommy imitation? Just like that was Tommy?

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Speaker 3: Thank you Tommy slash Junior.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 1: Subject, take my money, my house, and my car. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm writing this letter for my older brother

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Speaker 1: that is in love with a gold digger. That term

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Speaker 1: may not apply to new relationships, because I know a

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Speaker 1: man is supposed to provide for a woman if he's

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Speaker 1: sleeping with her, But too many times he's called me

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Speaker 1: to complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. He

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Speaker 1: gives her money to go out with her girlfriend's most weekends,

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Speaker 1: and then she won't even call him till Sunday after

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Speaker 1: she's been out during whatever she wants to do.

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Speaker 3: In case you are wondering.

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Speaker 1: My brother is thirty four years old, but he's the quiet,

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Speaker 1: shy type. He manages several properties and he owns a barbershop,

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Speaker 1: but he doesn't cut hair. He has plenty of money

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Speaker 1: in free time, and all he wants is to spend

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Speaker 1: it with someone that loves him. He's asked his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: to move in with him, but she said it's too

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Speaker 1: soon now, so now he's trying to get her an

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Speaker 1: engagement ring to make things official. I hinted to her

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Speaker 1: that after two years he's ready to settle down, and

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Speaker 1: she said there is no way that they're ready for marriage. Supposedly,

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Speaker 1: my brother told her to take his money, his house,

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Speaker 1: and his car and whatever else she needs to be happy.

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Speaker 1: She knows she's got him right where she wants him,

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Speaker 1: and I can't stand by and let her play him

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Speaker 1: like that. I understand that I don't have a dog

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Speaker 1: in that fight, and if she's making him happy, then

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Speaker 1: I should butt out of it. But my question is,

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Speaker 1: if I have proof that she is sleeping with another man,

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Speaker 1: and she's been seen driving the man around in my

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Speaker 1: brother's car, should I tell him. My brother practically raised me,

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Speaker 1: and I want the best for him. So what do

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Speaker 1: I do in this situation? Will he hate me forever

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Speaker 1: if I tell him this? Well, the answer to that

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Speaker 1: question is maybe not forever, but he will be upset

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Speaker 1: with you. And look at this, you might not have

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Speaker 1: to do anything because your big brother has these are

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Speaker 1: your words now called you too many times to complain

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Speaker 1: about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. So maybe he's

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Speaker 1: getting fed up in some sort of way. Because people

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Speaker 1: you know, are really feeling when they really are feeling

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Speaker 1: someone and you start to get all up in their business. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you do run the risk of them turning on you

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Speaker 1: if you tell them. I mean, that's a known fact.

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Speaker 1: I know you care about your brother. I can see

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Speaker 1: it in the letter. I know you do, and you should.

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Speaker 1: He's your brother. But whatever you say to him at

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Speaker 1: this point, he's not gonna hear it. He's not gonna

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Speaker 1: see it because he is not trying to hear it

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to. Your brother is a big boy.

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Speaker 1: He's a grown man who's gonna find out one of

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Speaker 1: these life lessons, life lessons that you get only by

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Speaker 1: the experience of being with someone like this, someone who

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Speaker 1: he let drive his car, and she's driving some other

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Speaker 1: man around in it. Okay, she's obviously a user, she's

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Speaker 1: taking advantage of your brother, but it's not your business.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's not your job to tell him this.

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Speaker 1: He will find out sooner or later because they always

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Speaker 1: find out, and just be there for him when it's over.

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Speaker 1: He will get over her eventually, But right now he's sprung.

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Speaker 3: Steve.

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Speaker 5: You know how I respond about people don't mind and

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Speaker 5: they business. That ain't gonna change. But my response is

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Speaker 5: going to shock You's air is writing this letter for

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Speaker 5: her older brother that's in love with a gold digger.

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Speaker 5: Now she thinks that that might not apply to relationships,

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Speaker 5: because I know a man is supposed to provide for

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Speaker 5: a woman if he's sleeping with her. Well, see right there, now,

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Speaker 5: that depends on the arrangement of the arrangement, or shall

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Speaker 5: I say that depends on the agreement of the arrangement.

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Speaker 5: I will provide for you if I see a future.

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Speaker 5: I will invest in you if I see a future

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Speaker 5: or some promise. Now, if we're just kicking it, you

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Speaker 5: might ask me something, I might let you have it,

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Speaker 5: but you're not an obligation to me until I feel

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Speaker 4: So let's get that straight away.

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Speaker 5: But she said too many times he even called to

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Speaker 5: complain about her misusing and abusing his kindness. He gives

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Speaker 5: her money to go out with his girlfriends, and she

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Speaker 5: been out doing whatever she want to do.

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Speaker 4: She don't call him till Sunday.

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Speaker 5: Now, Then she says, my brother's thirty four, but he's

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Speaker 5: a quiet shot type. He manages several properties, he owns

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Speaker 5: a barbershop, but he.

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Speaker 4: Don't cut hair. Smart guy, smart guy.

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Speaker 5: He has plenty of money in free time, and all

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Speaker 5: he wants is suspended with somebody that loves him. Now,

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Speaker 5: this sounds like a good dude, but he's smart too.

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Speaker 5: He bought a barbershop and don't cut hair. Lord, have mercy.

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Speaker 5: So that chair that he would normally be man and

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Speaker 5: making forty dollars a cut this boy and gave that

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Speaker 5: And he can keep his forty for the cut. But

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna need one hundred and fifty two hundred a

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Speaker 5: week for the chair.

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Speaker 4: Whatever it is.

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Speaker 5: Man, I'm finna go owe me a damn barbershop. Appreciate

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Speaker 5: the idea. Man, I never thought of that. But he

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Speaker 5: don't cut hair. He got plenty of money in free time,

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Speaker 5: and he just wants somebody. So he asked his girlfriend

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Speaker 5: to move in here, but she says it's too soon.

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Speaker 5: So now he's trying to get her an engagement reen

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Speaker 5: to make things official. I think somewhere in there he's

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Speaker 5: been seeing her for two years? Is that correct?

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Speaker 4: Two years? Uh? Huh, A couple of years anyway.

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Speaker 5: Supposedly, my brother now he hitted that after two years

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Speaker 5: he's ready to settle down. She said, there's no way

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Speaker 5: they're ready for marriage, and it's gonna be obvious in

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Speaker 5: this letter. My brother told her to take his money,

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Speaker 5: his house's car, whatever else she needs to be happy.

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Speaker 5: She knows she's got him right where she wants, and

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Speaker 5: I can't stand by let him play it like that.

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Speaker 5: Shirley says he's a big boy and he's grown. That's

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Speaker 5: a true statement. What Shirley failed to tell you is

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Speaker 5: that your brother is whipped. Yes, yo, brother, he is whipped.

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Speaker 3: Hang on, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject take my money, my house, and

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Speaker 1: my car.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject take my money, my house, and my car.

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Speaker 1: When we left, you were going to tell the difference

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Speaker 1: between sprung and whipped.

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Speaker 5: This boy in this letter, this thirty four year old man.

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Speaker 5: This being used by this woman. He wants to move

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Speaker 5: it further to marriage, she said, has no way. I

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Speaker 5: wish too early to get married. I'll tell you why.

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Speaker 5: She said that he's giving her everything. He's told her

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Speaker 5: to take her his car, his house, his money, just

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Speaker 5: whatever else she needs to be happy.

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Speaker 4: She knows she's got him right where she wants.

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Speaker 5: And I can ain't stand by and let him play

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Speaker 5: like that, I said, Shirley, is absolutely right in saying

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Speaker 5: that he's a big boy and the grown man. She

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Speaker 5: just left off the fact that he's quipped. Shirley said,

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Speaker 5: he's sprung. There is a difference. Let me help you

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Speaker 5: understand something, ladies.

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Speaker 3: Sprong it is.

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Speaker 5: When a man is around you and he feels all tingry.

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Speaker 5: Sprong is when a man is around you and he

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Speaker 5: feels all giddy. Sprong is when a man wants to

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Speaker 5: be in your company all the time. That's sprung. Okay,

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Speaker 5: sprung is wondering what you do where you're going. Quill

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Speaker 5: is different. She don't put something on this boy so

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Speaker 5: strong it's damned Neil voodoo the old saying is he

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Speaker 5: looking for her in the daytime with a flash?

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Speaker 3: All right? Duleie noted?

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Speaker 5: Okay, god boy, this is how he talked when he

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Speaker 5: around him. This this boy right here strong when they

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Speaker 5: in the bed. This boy, he boy, he can't control himself.

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Speaker 4: And she got him. And that's what the problem is. Now.

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Speaker 5: She knows she got him right where she wants him,

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Speaker 5: and I can't stand by and let him play like that.

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Speaker 5: I understand that I don't have a dog in this fight.

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Speaker 5: And if she's making him happy, then I should butt out. Well,

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Speaker 5: she's not making him happy, She's making him unhappy. He

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Speaker 5: always calls you to complain about she he's being misused.

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Speaker 5: But that whipped thing, that thing got him thinking it

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Speaker 5: can he can fix it. So now he want to

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Speaker 5: rush to get her a ring because he wants her

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Speaker 5: to move forward with this. But now the young girl

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Speaker 5: says that she has proof she's sleeping with another man

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Speaker 5: and she's been seen driving the man around in my

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Speaker 5: brother's car. Should I tell him? My brother practically raised me.

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Speaker 5: I want the best for him, So what should I

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Speaker 5: do in this? Will he hate me forever if I

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Speaker 5: tell him this? No, he won't hate you forever, because

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Speaker 5: this is a different situation. And here is the shaka. Yes,

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Speaker 5: you should.

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Speaker 3: Tell him what that is a shocker?

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Speaker 5: Steve what, Yes, you should tell him. See this is

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Speaker 5: quite different. Oh, because listen to me. See normally it's

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Speaker 5: girlfriends that see their girlfriend's man out somewhere and see

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Speaker 5: him with a woman not in the act of nothing,

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Speaker 5: but then wants to report that you don't know what

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Speaker 5: that situation is over there, and that report and that

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Speaker 5: that ain't you gonna start to fire a house that

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Speaker 5: don't need to get lit this it's different. This is

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Speaker 5: a young sister trying to protect her older brother and

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Speaker 5: has proof that she's sleeping with another man because she's

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Speaker 5: seen another man in her brother car with her.

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Speaker 4: You got to tell your brother.

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Speaker 3: So the proof. It's because she has proof.

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Speaker 4: She got proof.

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Speaker 5: This ain't speculation. She's been seen in the car with

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Speaker 5: another man. Hey, man, that is so damn disrespectful on

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Speaker 5: her part and justice disrespectful on the dupot. And he's

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Speaker 5: your brother. This ain't your friend, this your brother. You

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Speaker 5: have got to go and tell your brother this. Will

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Speaker 5: he hate me?

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Speaker 4: Father? He gonna be a little ticked.

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Speaker 5: At you, but he gonna get over that because he

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Speaker 5: needs to know the truth. This is why she say

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Speaker 5: it's too early to get married, because she got access

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Speaker 5: Somebody getting asked for. You have got to tell your

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Speaker 4: Up with that.

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Speaker 5: He can take some more bad news. He been handling

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Speaker 4: What I'm trying to figure out? Who? Who are you

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Speaker 4: right now?

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Speaker 3: Because line is what you do?

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Speaker 4: I thought this would be a good time just lie?

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Speaker 4: Who need to lie? Here?

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Speaker 5: The lady in the left, the lady that's doing all

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Speaker 5: the receptive stuff, is already lied. Mm So wat should

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Speaker 5: a bad line, okay, you ate a purposeful and good lite.

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Speaker 4: You don't know the rules to lie, all right?

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Speaker 3: Listen?

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Speaker 3: All right, normally we would be doing junior sports talk

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Speaker 1: Questions about Discovery letters, take my money, my house in

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Speaker 3: Yeah uh, you know, jose didn't mean none of that.

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Speaker 4: What he doing?

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Speaker 2: He that is not what Josey was saying about what

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Speaker 4: Normally you are the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you saying this is not the time to lie,

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Speaker 5: Listen to me, Junior. It is rules to liar. You

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Speaker 3: Just what see this is this is a new person.

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Speaker 3: This is confusing you.

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Speaker 5: Your lie Number one, I have to have a direct purpose.

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Speaker 4: Number two rule of line.

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Speaker 5: Number three, the lie should be a preventive measure. You

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Speaker 5: Has to have a lie that's aimed at making something better.

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Speaker 5: And number four, the lie must be geared to hold

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Speaker 3: What Yes, dogs are the fire law.

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Speaker 4: I don't give a damn charity. These are the bylaws

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Speaker 3: What line makes something better?

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Speaker 4: Steve? It does?

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Speaker 5: If you if your wife say to you, where have

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Speaker 4: Okay? Why would I say I stopped at the strip club?

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Speaker 5: Call?

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Speaker 4: I wanted to see diamond dust one more time more.

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Speaker 5: and you don't look nothing like diamond dust. And diamond

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Speaker 4: Now, why would I tell you want.

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Speaker 3: To see that myself?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Except but I'm not gonna tell you that.

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Speaker 5: So the lie becomes necessary now, j in this letter, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Just say it truth, You just say it truth you

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Speaker 4: I say truth all the time.

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Speaker 3: A lie, lie when the truth will do?

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Speaker 4: I say truth all the time when I'm not lying.

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