1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and cam 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: rich Edge. Thanks you guys for tuning in to another 3 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: episode of Two Teas in a Pod and to see 4 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: thanks to Cynthia Bility joining me and Okay last night's episode. 5 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: First thing I need to say, Cynthia, there's rich and 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: then there's having a personal chef just whipping up a 7 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: family meal and a casual Tuesday night. 8 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 2: What is happening here? Why don't I have one? 9 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 3: Exactly? Why don't I have one? Yeah, I got a 10 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 3: lot more work to do. I got a lot more 11 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 3: jobs book, for sure. 12 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: We got we gotta be putting in the work. I mean, 13 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: but I guess no matter how rich Heather is, she 14 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: can still mangle the English language as much as I do. 15 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: I in her confessional, did you hear when she goes breakfast? 16 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:07,199 Speaker 3: I didn't cast it? Actually see money can't grammar, honey, 17 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 3: money can't. 18 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: Buy you grammar? So good? Okay. 19 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: So then then we get into Gina wanting to give 20 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 1: Jen credit for being open about her past, but the 21 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: infidelity makes her uncomfortable. Gina talks about how she has 22 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: a close relationship with infidelity and it really bothers her, 23 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: so you know, in the past, her ex cheated on 24 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: her and it ended up in a very tumultuous relationship where. 25 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 2: Cops are called all these things. But at Tama's. 26 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: Party, Gina walks away when Jen begins to explain what 27 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: happened with her ex husband right and saying, I'm not 28 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: sitting there for let's pretend that infidelity is okay. Do 29 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: you understand what Gina's saying or do you think she's 30 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: being overly judgmental. 31 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 3: I can't understand her trigger since she has been through 32 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: a situation where she was cheated on. However, I do 33 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: feel like she did come up a little bit judgmental, 34 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 3: because I mean, at the end of the day, you know, 35 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 3: until you actually walk into another walk in another woman's shoes, 36 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 3: you don't really know what they're really dealing with and 37 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 3: the things that you don't know, and you can't honestly 38 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 3: say what you would wouldn't do if you were actually 39 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: in that situation. And I'm not like saying, hey, go 40 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 3: cheat on your husband, but I will say that, especially 41 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 3: now at this point in my life, I know that 42 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 3: I need attention from whoever I'm with, whether it's my husband, 43 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 3: whether it's my boom bay, whatever's going on. And you know, 44 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: with my life, I was always super busy and like, 45 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 3: oh not good. You know, I don't need that much. 46 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 3: But I'm in my attention seeking era. So I want 47 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 3: you to put the attention to me. I want you 48 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: to hold my hand. I want you to make me 49 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 3: feel beautiful, like I need those things. And if you're 50 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 3: not getting it from your man, then of course it 51 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 3: feels good to walk into Hofus and a guy go, hey, 52 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 3: you look really beautiful today. Like not saying you got 53 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 3: a cheat on it, but it feels good to get, 54 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 3: you know, attention from someone. 55 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: I agree, And I think that it would have come 56 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: off a little to me. It almost looked like desperate 57 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: to have something to be upset about, to like to 58 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,119 Speaker 1: you know, draw up drama a little bit. It would 59 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: have made more sense to me if they were very 60 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: good friends and her best friend was lying to her 61 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: about their relationship and and she was triggered by that, 62 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: like you know how much I've struggled. 63 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: But like they didn't. 64 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: Even know each other exactly. 65 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, so, why so pressed? Like I have two 66 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: random strangers? 67 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know she got a show. When you're 68 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 3: on a show like this, you know, you're you're always 69 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: looking for a moment like, Oh, here's my moment. I'm 70 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 3: really upset that you didn't. You know that you feel 71 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: this way, you know what I'm saying. So I don't 72 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: know if she was putting a lot on it because 73 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: she actually is on a TV show, or she actually 74 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: just really was that bothered by it. 75 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean. 76 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: Also, something that I learned this episode that I didn't 77 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: realize was that I thought Jinn's ex husband, I thought 78 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: he always worked for her family. I didn't realize that happened. 79 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 3: After Yes, I realized that on this episode. 80 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: And that was kind I thought they were staying together 81 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: for so long because he worked for her family and 82 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: I was and. 83 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: It was like a family business. 84 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: But then I was like, oh he left, and then 85 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: I got even more confused, and I'm like very confusing. 86 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: But I will say that Jen. What I do like 87 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: about Jen is she's like she's like standing in the truth, 88 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 3: like I kind of believe her. I feel like she 89 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: just like it is what it is, and she's not 90 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: really like lying about it to me. It's just like, hey, yeah, 91 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: this happened. She's not defensive about it. She's like, yeah, 92 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: this is what it is. And I'm not saying, you know, 93 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 3: you have to agree with it, but this happened to 94 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 3: me and I'm with this guy, and does that happened? 95 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 3: And it was not a big master plan. Sometimes things 96 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: just happened. I mean I wasn't there. But sometimes, you know, 97 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 3: life life's. 98 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, sure life does life. But like, 99 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: do you think that when it comes to a man 100 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: or a woman wants a cheater, always a cheater. 101 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 3: Mmmm? Oh, that's a good question. I kind of do. 102 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 3: But I do feel like people can change if they 103 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: want to. I don't think you can change people, but 104 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 3: I think people can make the decision to change their 105 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 3: trifling ways if they want to. I do so. I 106 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 3: don't know. A question, but I don't know. I don't know. 107 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 3: It's tricky. What do you think I. 108 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: Think that, yes, I think if you really put the 109 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 2: work in. 110 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: I think that in every marriage, there's our relationship, there's 111 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: highs and lows. I mean there's times where after your kid, 112 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: you're not even having sex with your like for not 113 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: just the six weeks, Like I remember after Becuz, like 114 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, I get enough, you know, 115 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: Like I think there's you know, intimacy changes all of that. 116 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean some people are just cheaters. It just 117 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 3: is what it is. I'm not a cheater. I will 118 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: actually if I even feel like I'm like like I 119 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: like someone else or I'm a tract to somewhere else 120 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 3: someone else, and I feel like I want to pursue that, like, 121 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: I'll just break up. I'll just leave my situation and 122 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 3: then just be free and clear to do what I 123 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 3: want to do because I don't have the energy of 124 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 3: the time to like sneak around and try to like 125 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 3: you know, divide myself between two people. I'm just not 126 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 3: built for like that. I'm a one person kind of girl. 127 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: So I'll just break up with you and go be 128 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 3: with the person that I wanted to be. Because it's 129 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 3: actually a real thing that could happen to any of us. 130 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 3: Like honestly, like we meet people all the time. We're 131 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 3: always around people, and it's like just natural to like 132 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 3: maybe be attracted to someone, whether you want to like 133 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: you know, pursue it or not. Like you know, you 134 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 3: have to go home to your man. I have to 135 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 3: look at you know, maybe some cutter man and be like, wow, 136 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: I really. 137 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: Love this guy or not, and then also having those 138 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: open conversations with your significant other if you have like that. 139 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: I went and did this TV show one. 140 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 1: Day, and I not celebrity big Brother before you get 141 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: any ideas, but I came home it was just like 142 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: a news thing and I said to I don't know, 143 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. The guy that interviewed me 144 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: was like so cute and funny. I'm just telling you 145 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: because I felt it for a second. I just want 146 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: eat it out. 147 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 2: And I was like, he's like, oh, I could see why. 148 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: He thought that because I didn't keep it as a 149 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: secret because it is, you know, it's common knowledge. 150 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 2: But anyways, I guess we gotta get our. 151 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 3: Husband's boyfriends whatever. I mean, let's not we're not idiots. 152 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: If a beautiful woman walks into a restaurant and he's there, 153 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: what is he gonna do, like hot his eyes, He's 154 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 3: gonna be like, you know, in his mind, like wow, 155 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: she looks great. Not that it's completely innocent and harmless, 156 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 3: but we all have eyes, and we all have blood 157 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 3: pumping through our veins, and it's like it's just natural 158 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 3: to be to notice, you know, keep people fine. 159 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 2: Well, I mean granted, my husband has a hat on. 160 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: He's a Dominican Republican Dominican republic. Right now, I'm supposed 161 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: to be there, but then they did they didn't get 162 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: into summer camp. 163 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: But his hat says I love big boats and I. 164 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: Cannot lie, and he's like, oh, Like I'm like, oh, 165 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 1: I cannot with you. 166 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 2: But anyway, point in case. Okay, So then we back 167 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 2: to Gina a little bit. 168 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: I feel like when Gina and her boyfriend are having 169 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: their conversation on the couch or whatever, maybe they're researching 170 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: real estate or whatever he's it feels like they're like 171 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: reading ads. Like it's as bad as when I try 172 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: to like read an ad on my Instagram and it's. 173 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:35,119 Speaker 2: Like, hey guys, taple ink here. Like it felt scripted 174 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 2: to me. 175 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: I kind of like I must like I was late 176 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,719 Speaker 3: what I'm in New York. It was like it was 177 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 3: so late when I was watching it. I must snoozeop 178 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: a little bit on that part. I do not remember 179 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: that part, So you didn't. 180 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: Feel like room no, but I do feel a little 181 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: bit of shade there that you set up you snoozed 182 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: off during that part, because uh, there's between that and Heather's. 183 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: Kids going to college. Listen, I'm excited for the kids 184 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 2: going to college. But enough, I get it. 185 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 3: Get those kids to college already. 186 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 2: We're with three episodes, and I got it. 187 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: I don't need to know about their laundry services anymore 188 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: or what they're gonna eat for breakfast. 189 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: Like, I got it. 190 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 3: I don't feel like shitty parents at this point. I 191 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 3: was in kids college. Obviously, I didn't do near enough 192 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: for Noah when I sent her off. So I get it. 193 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 3: Get those kids over there and let's move on. 194 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: Did you notice the shady editing when they are showing 195 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: Shannon get out of the car crawling over the stag? 196 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 2: But why did they do that? 197 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 3: I love that. I love that I have so many, 198 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 3: so many of the Shannon. The more and more I 199 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 3: get to know her, I am so like this woman is. 200 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 3: She's so interesting to me because I don't really know 201 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: a lot of the backstory. And I know, like some 202 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 3: of the fans of your show get mad at me 203 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 3: because they're like, why isn't the own here? She doesn't 204 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: really like know a lot of the Orange County stuff. Well, 205 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 3: I'm learning, okay, and I'm actually becoming pretty invested through 206 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 3: through this show. So I don't know. I can't wait 207 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 3: till we get to the part where we talk about 208 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 3: her and Tamera because that's like my favorite thing to 209 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 3: talk about at this point in my life. But I 210 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 3: don't like the whole Crystal store thing. Getting out the 211 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 3: car kind of like humanized her. To just see her 212 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: crawling out of that seat out of a car like 213 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,439 Speaker 3: that to me with her butt to the camera, I 214 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 3: kind of I kind of liked it. Well, she's pretty cold, 215 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: became the camera. So this woman always like this, I 216 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 3: will never get on her bedside. 217 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I started to feel like the right because 218 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: now we know that John and Shannon are broken up. 219 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: They broke up after the season stopped airing. What's your 220 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 1: Vibe from John? 221 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. 222 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 3: I kind of felt like they definitely I felt their 223 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 3: chemistry in this episode, like you know, not knowing what 224 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 3: was to come. But I don't know. I mean, they 225 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 3: weren't like all over each other or anything, but I 226 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 3: felt like he was, you know, into her, I guess, 227 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 3: but but she's not really Like They're just not like 228 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 3: a lovey dovey couple from what I've seen so far. 229 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 3: So I. 230 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: Don't know, but I think it's like when you have 231 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: your guard up with a person, Like I don't think 232 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: there's I'm not a PDA person by any means. Like 233 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: I even when I go to sleep, I'm good with 234 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: like three minutes of cuddle time and then I'm like, okay, 235 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: now back to your side of the bed or you know, 236 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm not like we need to keep our hands touching 237 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: all night long. 238 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: So I am I want to like eat dinner with 239 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 3: you and be holding your hand while I'm eating my food. No, oh, 240 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 3: I'm horrible. Yes, I'm a hei ses girl. What I 241 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: tell you, all I want to do is like stick 242 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 3: my tongue down my man's throat. 243 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I'm fine with making out and some sex, 244 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: but then like I don't want to be sweaty cuddling afterwards. 245 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 3: I love sweaty cuddling. 246 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: Now okay, then how'd you feel about when Taylor meets 247 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: with Heather and the acting coach to run lines to 248 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: prepare for the upcoming For all, you can speak to 249 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: this more than me, because I mean, this was worse 250 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 1: than when I audition from my STRIDEX commercial in nineteen 251 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: ninety nine. 252 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 3: All right, so I was, I love tailor, but I 253 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 3: was suppressed. I didn't know she was an actress. Like, 254 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 3: I'm not even trying to be shady. I didn't know, 255 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 3: like was this something? Is this new? Like, because I 256 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 3: know I'm new to acting, So is this is it 257 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 3: new that she's like acting now? 258 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: Well? 259 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 260 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: But I also think it's shady editing that whenever they 261 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: talk about Heather being an actress, they write they do 262 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: a flashback picture and then it says pilot. 263 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 2: For those of y'all that don't know, when it says pilot, 264 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: it means it never made it air. So I'm like, 265 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 2: why do they keep showing that one? 266 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 3: Because it's shady and they knew that you would catch it, 267 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 3: Teddy and point it out. 268 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: Do you think that. 269 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: I didn't really think that Heather seemed drunk enough on 270 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: the boat to not remember being asked to be like. 271 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: She doesn't seem like someone that gets I mean, she 272 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: she threw her shot over the edge the last broke 273 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 1: on the fish. 274 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 2: No, I feel like she remembered the conversation. 275 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 3: She just don't want to be remembered that conversation. I 276 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 3: just feel like maybe she just didn't want to do it. 277 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe she seriously I 278 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 3: don't know. 279 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: But then do you think she's being condescending or is 280 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 2: it just pretentious. 281 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 3: Bryan to you know how you're like in a situation 282 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 3: with a friend where you don't really want to do 283 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 3: something but you want to still be supportive, Like you 284 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 3: know what I mean. I feel like she's like kind 285 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 3: of stick between a rock and a hard place. Like 286 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 3: I don't feel like Heather wants to have anything to 287 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: do with the movie. That's that's my feeling, but I 288 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 3: do feel like she wants to be there to support Taylor. 289 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: Well, then this is what I I'm very different in 290 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 1: that way, Like if I don't want to do something, 291 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, if you can't, if you were like Teddy, 292 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: you you know you want to come do blah blah blah, 293 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: and it's something that I really don't enjoy doing or 294 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in doing, or I feel like I 295 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: am too good to do, which I don't really know 296 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: what you and I would have that you're so much 297 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: worse than me, Like it doesn't make any sense, but 298 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: I would just say no, you know, let's do this instead. 299 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: I don't really want to do that but being an actress, 300 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: I do need to know if you breathe from your 301 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: huh to prepare. 302 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: Now, that was interesting because I did think about that. 303 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 3: I did think about that. Yeah, Like there was a 304 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 3: lot of like really good techniques that she talked about 305 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 3: that I have, you know, gone through with my own 306 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 3: acting coach. The whoh thing was not the thing that 307 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 3: stuck out the most. It was the giving blow jobs 308 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 3: will help open up your throats. I can break them 309 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 3: my hoho ha on my own, but now as an 310 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: up and coming actress, I'm single trying to give a 311 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 3: blowjob to open up my throat whenever I get ready 312 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 3: to do things and stuff. 313 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: You, Kushian, are you doing keegels right now? Because I 314 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: can't help myself? 315 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 3: I am. I definitely am. Are you kidding me? This 316 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 3: thing's gonna be ready when it's back on the market. Absolutely, 317 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 3: I'm doing them right now. I know. 318 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: The second I start talking about breathing from my hul, 319 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I doing tagles? 320 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 2: What is happening? 321 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 322 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, that was pretty funny. 323 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: I also realized maybe I'm not doing Sorry Edwin, I 324 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: need to work on my blow jobs because. 325 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: I don't know how much I'm opening my throat cavity. Okay. 326 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: Then Tamra throws the party closing of Cut Fitness, which 327 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: I already texted her this. I thought Eddie looked so 328 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: handsome in his shorts with his little tie. 329 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 2: And like it was it was cute, it was special. 330 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: Then of course, nothing happy, nothing special, last for life. 331 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: Because they're at dinner and Gina's like, I'm keeping my 332 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: orange tonight, she brings up the gen. 333 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I felt like, I don't know, I felt 334 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 4: like they could have left that one ride that night, 335 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 4: to be honest, Like, I just felt like I was 336 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 4: fine with a little private conversation with her and Heather 337 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 4: where they were just like yeah, yeah, yeah, this happened, 338 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 4: but like we'll just save that for the next episode 339 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 4: when we're just you know, not on you know, Tampra's 340 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 4: big night. And when she like agreed, and then all 341 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 4: of a sudden, she was like, well, blah. 342 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah, what are you doing? You 343 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 3: said he say anything. I didn't know if it was 344 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: the right time to like bring that up. I didn't. 345 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 3: I didn't like that. 346 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 2: Do you think that. 347 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: Jen was doing it maliciously or do you think it 348 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: was just not like she just didn't think about it 349 00:16:58,040 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: either way, I also want to know how much of 350 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: it is her business if she came up with the TikTok, like, 351 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: I don't know these things same same. 352 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 3: I don't know if she was being malicious. I don't 353 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 3: know if that's the word, but I definitely feel like 354 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 3: she wanted to kind of call her out. Yeah, and 355 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 3: definitely what did you think. 356 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: The apology where Tamra calls Shannon one? 357 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: I was like, Tamara, you've. 358 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: Never looked like you look stunning in that face time. 359 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, did you know glam for that? 360 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 3: What she really did? Actually, she totally had lamb and 361 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 3: she like for sure even like even her outfit was cute, 362 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: like she looked really great. 363 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: Oh, speaking of that, watch What Happens Live last night, 364 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 1: Heather said Andy, who had better style? Shannon or Tamra? 365 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 1: And he said, Shannon, do you agree or disagree? 366 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 3: I have not really seen Shannon's style stick out to 367 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 3: me personally where I was like, oh my god, I 368 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 3: have to go to her page and get some inspiration 369 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 3: for like close square, like no shade Shannon. Okay, But 370 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I like, no, it didn't stick out. Now, 371 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 3: I do think, to be fair, Tamra style is kind 372 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 3: of more cutes see girly, Like she sees more like 373 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 3: a cutes girl, And I'm not really like a cutesy 374 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 3: girl kind of style. I'm pretty just simple and playing 375 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 3: and I were black all the time and whatever whatever, 376 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 3: So I don't have the same stylus Tamra. But I 377 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 3: think Tamra style looks cute for Tamra. But I do 378 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 3: like when she rocks her hats and stuff and the 379 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 3: jeans and the white shirts and the belts and stuff 380 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 3: like that's me all day. So I'm not going to 381 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 3: actually nothing to think about it. 382 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: Well, Also, the way that me and Tamara have to 383 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 1: dress versus we are five to three, I'll tall. 384 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: You said I'm five ten, so it's slightly different. 385 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: But do you think that once Shannon got to cut, 386 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: it still felt like after Tamar's apology, it still feels 387 00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 1: like Shannon wants nothing to do with it. 388 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is where I'm at with that. Okay, 389 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: So I get it. I'm the kind of person when 390 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 3: you piss me off, I can hold on two. I 391 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 3: can stay pissed off. For a long time, like I 392 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 3: need my time. I do, but if you continuously apologize, Man, 393 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 3: now this time, you know, Tamra wasn't drunk. Tamra was 394 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 3: in her right mind. The last time on the boat. 395 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 3: I had to, like, you know, not be on Tambra's side. Yeah, 396 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 3: she had faced drunk, so she was not drunk, and 397 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 3: I felt like she was really sincere and she just 398 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,439 Speaker 3: kept leaning her low head into the show like, oh 399 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 3: my god, I miss you so much. Like I at 400 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 3: that point, I would be like, okay, you know what, 401 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 3: let me just let this go. I wouldn't be like, well, 402 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 3: this is fine, but now you need to apologize for 403 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 3: the other one hundred and sixty things that you've done 404 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 3: in our friend. Come on, now, go on, Shannon like 405 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 3: the woman I mean. And I don't know how much. 406 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 3: I don't know how many more times Tamra's going to 407 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 3: come back and apologize, Like how many times could she apologize? 408 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 3: I feel like, let's let's move on. 409 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 1: You guys were free, yeah, and especially because and listen, 410 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 1: I get it, they're both mad at each other. But 411 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: now I do think both of them did things. 412 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 2: That were in the wrong. 413 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 1: Yes, but why is Tamar the only one ever apologizing 414 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: like at some point. 415 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: And I love Shannon and I have. 416 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: Fun with Shannon every time I see her, and I 417 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: know that they're good now. But I just wonder, why 418 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: wasn't there like a reciprocal not in regards to the boat, 419 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: but in regards to all the past stuff. 420 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 2: Because it did happen, it did hurt her feelings, and now. 421 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 1: Tamar's had you know, it looks like she's doubling down 422 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 1: on like tripologies and they're. 423 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: Just I don't know. 424 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 3: The hurt definitely wasn't one sided. I think both of 425 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 3: their feelings were hurt. And I think, you know, when 426 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 3: it comes to you know, friendships, I don't think you 427 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 3: can tell people how to process their hurt. I think 428 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 3: I was fine with I feel like I have personally 429 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 3: let Shannon go through enough time and the short bit 430 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 3: of time I've been invested in Orange County doing this 431 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 3: podcast with you, I feel like, okay, girl, I'm so 432 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 3: with you. Take your time, process, heal do all that stuff. 433 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 3: But for me, if my real friend who I love 434 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 3: keeps coming back to me over and over and over 435 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 3: again apologize it and really seeming sincere, I'm just gonna 436 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 3: have to like let my girl back in, like and 437 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 3: just say okay, we're gonna do abo, and I'll say, 438 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 3: you know what I feel the way I feel, And 439 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 3: I know I did some things to hurt you as well, 440 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 3: So for those things, I am sorry as well, like. 441 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: Yea or or go f off. I don't like you. 442 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm done with this friendship, Like there's no yeah, there's 443 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: no middle ground, Like why make this person, you know, 444 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: walk through fire continuously? 445 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm over it, like makeup already, like make up 446 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:48,239 Speaker 3: or make up? 447 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 5: Yeah? 448 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: Do you think the next week Tamara's gonna have to 449 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: apologize for the. 450 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: Cake Listen, Okay, now this is where I have to 451 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 3: get in Tamra's boat again. So I don't like like 452 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 3: I'm the kind of girl, Like if I'm at a 453 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 3: party and I'm all dressed up and it's a pool part, 454 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 3: like if it's like a pool involved, like, I'm not 455 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 3: the girl be like I'd be so funny to push 456 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 3: Cynthia in the pool. It'd be so funny too, like, 457 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 3: oh she looks great, let's throw cake on her. I'm 458 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 3: not that girl. I'm not like give me a nice 459 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 3: slice of cake. I can have fun in other ways, 460 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 3: but I was mortified when the cake throwing started because 461 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 3: I was like, wait a minute, what these women have 462 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 3: on really expensive clothes? Like I was already like trying 463 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 3: to figure out the dry cleaning deal. I don't like that. No, no, no, no, no. 464 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 3: Put the cake on yourself if you want to, put 465 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 3: it on your man if you want to, but not 466 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 3: on me. No. 467 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: Well, I can say my highlight of the cake incident 468 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: was when Shannon I'm not with Shannon when uh, Tamra 469 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 1: and Emily are you know, going at it? But Emily 470 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: has the chunk of cake and she feeds it to 471 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: Tamra's mom. 472 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 3: I love that. I wasn't really like Emily who just 473 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 3: started following me. By the way, thanks for following me, Emily, 474 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 3: because I really thanks for the follow I know. No, 475 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 3: I was like, and she comments too, so I was like, oh, 476 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 3: she must have seen me on your show, so I 477 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 3: was like, okay. But my highlight actually was when Emily 478 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 3: took an underwear off because she was hot and put 479 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 3: it in her purse. Like I was like, this is 480 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 3: why I like this woman. Like I can't say that 481 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 3: in the eleven years that I was on the show 482 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,919 Speaker 3: that I actually took my underwear off in a scene 483 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 3: and put it in my purse and then pulled it 484 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 3: out to show tonyone. I'm not saying that I ever 485 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 3: did that or ever thought to do that, but I 486 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 3: just was really freaking cool that she did that. 487 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 2: She's like, I swept through these. I gotta go. 488 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 3: Listen, she continues. Emily continues to impress me and prove 489 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: that I should be friends with her at some point. 490 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 3: But the things that she does on the show. 491 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta say other than Tama, because I love Tamara. 492 00:23:58,320 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 2: Obviously, she's my girl. 493 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 1: My two My two standouts this season are Gen and Emily. 494 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 3: Same. Same. 495 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 496 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: So you know, I guess next week it's more's gonna 497 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: unfold between the affair and the Ryan and what who's 498 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: lying and what's not. So we'll really get to dig 499 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 1: in it there and then, guys, I promise we'll do 500 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: a deeper dive into it. 501 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 2: And don't worry. 502 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 1: I started making Cynthia watch Atlanta so I can dig 503 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: her on all those questions next week when we have 504 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 1: our full hour. 505 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 2: Because I have some questions. 506 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: But did you watch this past week I did, which 507 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: Gucci outfit would you pick? 508 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 3: Oh? I kind of think I want to go with 509 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 3: Chaise I like. 510 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 2: That's what Tamra said too. I just didn't like the underneath. 511 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: I was confused why it was like a loose and 512 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: flowy within a structured coat. 513 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 2: But I did love the coat and I did not 514 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: having all the labels. 515 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly exactly because I don't like it, like when 516 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, a big signed it says Gucci, 517 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 3: Like I love that. It was just it just was 518 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 3: like classy and it was like kind of timeless, and 519 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 3: I felt like she could rock the jacket a different 520 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 3: time with something else, the pants a different time. So 521 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 3: I always think about things like that when I spend 522 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: thousands of dollars on my clothes. So yeah, can I 523 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 3: repurpose it and use it in other ways? You know 524 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So do you have notes right? 525 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: And do you think that Marlow and Candy are going 526 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: to be able to make up this season? 527 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 3: I don't know about this season, but I think down 528 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 3: the road that they can make up for sure. I 529 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 3: think they will make up eventually, because I just don't 530 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 3: think it's that deep. Like, Okay, so you're heard. I 531 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 3: understand why you were upset. You had the conversation, Candy 532 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 3: is basically like, look like I like, why are you 533 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 3: making this about me? Like she just she's not in 534 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 3: that space to really interest. 535 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 2: A storyline at this point. 536 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 3: It's like and it just keeps coming up. It's like 537 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 3: she didn't send the flowers. She apologized, and I felt like, 538 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 3: you know, Candy definitely has had some compassion for the situation, 539 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 3: but you know, it's like really like just bugging the 540 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 3: shit out of marlow for whatever reason, like even beyond 541 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 3: the apology. However, I do think that a relationship that 542 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 3: will not be able to be mended this season or 543 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 3: at the reunion or in life is Kenya and Marlowe. 544 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 3: I just don't see them ever like being friends again. 545 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 2: No, They're like oil and water. 546 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 3: It's just it's just they just think it's just gotten 547 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 3: so low and below the build. And they both have 548 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 3: like said things, you know what I'm saying. 549 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 5: I don't know. 550 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 3: It's just sad to watch because the more I watched them, like, 551 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is gonna ever, they just don't. 552 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: They're both hitting below the belt at this point, and 553 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: it's it's almost like egos are involved at this point, 554 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: Like I want to show you I'm here. You're here, 555 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,719 Speaker 1: but then I want to show you that I'm going 556 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: to point out everything you ever did, Like, I don't know. 557 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 3: It's just yeah, it's almost like forget the show. I 558 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 3: actually just don't like you. 559 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, forget this is for a storyline. I don't even 560 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 2: want to look at you. 561 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 3: If I was not coming to work with you to 562 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 3: shoot the Royal House Buzz of Atlanta, I can assure 563 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,479 Speaker 3: you that I would. I would cross the street if 564 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 3: I saw you coming, Like I just you're just not 565 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 3: my girl. You're not my kind of girl. That's what 566 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 3: it's giving to me. And it feels real, and it's 567 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 3: like kind of exhausting to even think because I tried 568 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 3: to get them to make up, you know, at my 569 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 3: bachelorette party when I was in the circle, you know 570 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,719 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, and it worked, and then you know, 571 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 3: when I left, you know, they fell off again. So 572 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 3: I just think at some point you just have to 573 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,239 Speaker 3: find your people, stick with your people, and just at 574 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 3: least try to be an incordial, respectful place since you 575 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 3: up to work with him for the people who you 576 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: really don't really care. 577 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,119 Speaker 2: Yep, Well, on that note, Cynthia said it perfectly. I 578 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 2: am so happy to have you here. 579 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: And next week, I promise we will have more time 580 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: to talk all the things. Plus I feel like OCI's 581 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: heating up and gonna get you way. 582 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 3: I'm coming back next week. 583 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 2: You guess what, Well, actually, this is your formal I'm 584 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 2: formally giving you your two your two week notice, so. 585 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 3: I would thank you for the heads up. We'll make 586 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 3: sure that I schedule some time to jump back on 587 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 3: next week. And you again, I love this, like I 588 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 3: didn't even know. I was like, okay, no, no, I'm 589 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 3: actually having a lot of fun hanging out with you, 590 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 3: Teddy and sitting in for Tamra and I'm learning a 591 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,439 Speaker 3: lot more about OC and then we can tell wed 592 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 3: Atlanta to So. So this is cool, and I guess 593 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 3: I'll you know, hopefully see you guys next week. I'm 594 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 3: in New York right now. I'm actually going to the 595 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 3: American Ballet Gallop with Sutton tonight. So my bestie tell 596 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 3: her I, so, Hi, Well, We're gonna FaceTime you bye, 597 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 3: all right, love you bye.