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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your Girl lex Pe and Easter

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Speaker 1: Girls Ra and the Call, and you are tuned into

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Mine, where drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. So,

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Speaker 1: first of all, let me say, this is a real

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Speaker 1: fucking ghetto ass day. You didn't even get through the

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Speaker 1: I was about to list, like, okay, y'all, So the

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Speaker 1: studio was closed yesterday and basically we got a record

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Speaker 1: on my phone today. Okay, So it's real ghetto. A

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Speaker 1: lot of technical issues, but we're just not gonna just

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Speaker 1: not give y'all a fucking episode like you can't do

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Speaker 1: y'all like that period, you know what I'm saying. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we're just gonna get into the ship. What's up?

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Speaker 1: How was your week? My week was good, you mom?

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Speaker 2: And again.

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Speaker 1: My week was good? Okay. I went to LA and

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Speaker 1: I had a really good time with who you went with?

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Speaker 1: We we Houston Bay, y'all two weeks strong. I told

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Speaker 1: you that, I told you. I told you that I

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Speaker 1: told him that last week you annoying. I went to

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Speaker 1: LA with Houston Bay. We had fun. He had rented

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Speaker 1: out of Yike, not the Ya. It was real pricey too,

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Speaker 1: So we was on the yacht or whatever. He took

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Speaker 1: me shopping. Soon as we got there, we went to Rodeo.

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Speaker 1: I got a few things. Oh we've seen the Double

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Speaker 1: Seas Hunt, we know.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, So I.

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Speaker 1: Had a good time. I think I'm going to Houston tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: You going to Houston for that? D I want to

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Speaker 1: see my mama. I call my mama. So how was y'all? Weat? Girl?

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Speaker 1: I went to Miami and it was a lot going on. Now,

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Speaker 1: if y'all have a Patreon, I'm going to tell the

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Speaker 1: whole Miami story on Patreon this Friday. Like it's really

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Speaker 1: fucking crazy. But I needed a little getaway and that's

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Speaker 1: exactly what I got. And I'm gonna just leave it

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Speaker 1: at that. So you make sure y'all subscribe to the Patreon.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell the Miami story on my Patreon because

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Speaker 1: it's kind of long and it's a lot to it,

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Speaker 1: so I don't want to get in too much detail.

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Speaker 1: But it was cool at a good time. You know.

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Speaker 1: We had to shifs. We had a nice airbnb. We

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Speaker 1: was on the water. But a lot fucking happens, Like

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Speaker 1: a lot what happened. I'm gonna tell you. Yeah I did.

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Speaker 1: I told you the story, Like, but you just want

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Speaker 1: to talk about it. Yeah, I'm gonna talk. So y'all

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Speaker 1: make sure y'all subscribe to the Patreon. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: y'all my Miami story. I was supposed to vlog it,

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Speaker 1: but I was so fucking drunk I didn't get to

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Speaker 1: vlog it. So I really apologized for that. But like

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna tell a story on Friday. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. It's a lot of fucking mess. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the topics. What's the first

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Speaker 1: topic I had? Girl, gonna get into the topics. Hunt

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Speaker 1: a few little good topics today. So the first topic

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Speaker 1: is how you know, we want to talk about how

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Speaker 1: as much here for a man to find a good

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Speaker 1: Why is that? So? You know what, I feel like,

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Speaker 1: it's in women. It's builting us to be nurturing people.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, for the most part, women are more

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Speaker 1: So I feel like it's just natural for women to

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Speaker 1: Niggas they're just here. They're just like sperm doners sometimes seriously,

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Speaker 1: And I feel like a lot of men is like,

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Speaker 1: so fucking off. They don't have to be good men,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So when a girl, if

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Speaker 1: you're a nigga in Atlanta and you got money, you

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Speaker 1: whatever you do as one man. And it's fifteen women

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Speaker 1: I feel like they got all the options because bitchiness

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Speaker 1: So I feel like men just it's easier for men

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Speaker 1: really think it's more lame niggas. It's way more lame niggas.

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Speaker 1: That's why it's just like it's easier for men men.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing to be a man. All you have to

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Speaker 1: many fucking lame ass niggas just be having hell of

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Speaker 1: fucking money and be getting the baddest be begging the

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Speaker 1: baddest bitches. Like as a woman, As a woman, you

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Speaker 1: got to bring solve many other things. You have to

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Speaker 1: a mouse. You can't be broke. It's just so much

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Speaker 1: things you have to do as a woman. But for men,

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Speaker 1: it don't matter if you got money, It don't matter

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Speaker 1: if you got fucking bad breath, nappy ass hair. Somebody

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Speaker 1: gonna fuck you just off the fact that you got money.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious, it's the truth. That's why it's easier for men.

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Speaker 1: If I stepped out right now with my hair all

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pull nothing of quality. Right. A man

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Speaker 1: He can pull a batty if some baddies out here

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Speaker 1: how much money nigga guy. If he don't look clean

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm like, I would never, no nigga, that's dirty.

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Speaker 1: But he drives on a clary I'm telling I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: so I need the whole package as well. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, and in general, men don't have to have

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Speaker 1: How you know that, nigga, I'll rant that sheet needs

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Speaker 1: That's not true. No, to get no, no, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about getting a BDB and keeping him. It's a

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about to get a BDB to really fuck

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Speaker 1: and if y'all are new listeners, a BDB is a big,

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Speaker 1: niggas be fucking with who don't be having she. Now,

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Speaker 1: that does happen, but that's very rare. That is not rare.

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Speaker 1: That does not happen. Nigga in Atlanta, niggas is not

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Speaker 1: upgrading bitches like that. Bro, they are not upgrading bitches

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Speaker 1: like that. Do you agree on me? Niggas is stingy.

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Speaker 1: Niggas is stingy. They's not upgrading bitches. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: but Instagram is not real life. That's true. You know

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Speaker 1: But you gotta realize that's twenty women versus the millions

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Speaker 1: So, like I said, for a woman to get a

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Speaker 1: a coin. Yeah, niggas want you was to fucking be beautiful.

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Speaker 1: You gotta cook, you gotta clean yall pussy, gotta be fired,

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Speaker 1: two out of five, nigga, I don't know what I

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Speaker 1: know how to movie, then have to spare movie that day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're getting. I really don't. But

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Speaker 1: I mean if I fuck what, you can get all five. Now,

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Speaker 1: you can get all five. I'm not about to suck

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I definitely do think like,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you all the good niggas are taken to

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Speaker 1: the girls. Got him on them niggas. Girls, stop you

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Speaker 1: show no, it's show up. This mean you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. I gotta get it how I liven it

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Speaker 1: really is, So don't judge me. I'm just playing. I

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Speaker 1: have been doing good, honestly, me and me and thought

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Speaker 1: you left me yesterday to go over there, did and

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Speaker 1: baby daddy's is gone, All the baby daddy's gone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: good baby daddy's left. They took them off. If it's

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Speaker 1: five in line, you laughing, you know all about it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's the bag topic being? So anyways, the next topic is,

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Speaker 1: you know, I feel like a lot of women niggas

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Speaker 1: bus just gonna be picking up on you when a

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Speaker 1: nigga just really ain't that fucking into you and he

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Speaker 1: really don't want you, sees. Okay, So we get a

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Speaker 1: lot of advice less at about things like this. So

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Speaker 1: this topic inspired me because a lot of y'all be

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Speaker 1: asking questions like what do I do about this? What

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Speaker 1: know if a man is into you or not. It's

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Speaker 1: to me, it's very black and white and plain and simple.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes I know we got some younger licks listeners,

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Speaker 1: so we need to break it down for you older listeners.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but most of our listeners are We

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Speaker 1: but we also got some older women, yeah we do,

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Speaker 1: who still don't know when a nigga don't want says,

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Speaker 1: So let's get into it, okay, So what's your first

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Speaker 1: line that a man is not that into you when

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Speaker 1: Niggas be busy, yes, and especially like if you're trying

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Speaker 1: Now, if you invite you every time y'all hang out,

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Speaker 1: I don't want no eight hundred dollars roses. Yeah, I'd

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Speaker 1: I always want to tell y'all. Y'all know I talk

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Speaker 1: about this so much because it's something that Drea uses.

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Speaker 5: I use.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people have actually reached out to me

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Speaker 1: that are listeners, listeners of the show, and they use it.

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Speaker 1: It's a better help dot com, betterhelp dot com. It's

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Speaker 1: because it's got something to do with my Miami story

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Speaker 1: a little bit. But like I said, make sure y'all

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Speaker 1: subscribe to the Patreon anyways. So I'm gonna talk about

455
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Speaker 1: how cap men are. So I think a lot of

456
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 1: times the narrative has changed that, oh, women are gold diggers,

457
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Speaker 1: women are this, women are that. They just only want

458
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Speaker 1: you if you got this. But a lot of times

459
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Speaker 1: y'all have to realize these men approach us like that.

460
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Speaker 1: So I had met someone and it was just like

461
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Speaker 1: everything he would text me was like him holding money,

462
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 1: him counting money, money, money, money. Oh what you doing?

463
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Speaker 1: Oh man, I have to come to the mall. I

464
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: needed to get some shit from I had to pick

465
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: up some shit from Gucci. I had to go to

466
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Speaker 1: the Louis v Store. So I'm like, okay, but those

467
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: be the main ones that be capping. So that's a

468
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Speaker 1: rad flag for one lady's I already knew what was

469
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: going on. But you know me, I'm petty sometimes and

470
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: I love to pull a nigga card. So I want

471
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Speaker 1: to talk about why do we feel like, why do

472
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: men do that? Why do you think they flash their

473
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Speaker 1: money but then they don't want to give it like

474
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: because I feel I personally feel like niggas do this

475
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: shit because they feel like if they flash their money

476
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 1: because most basic ass beaches. If you flash money and

477
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: the beach feel like you got money, she gonna fuck

478
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 1: you before you even do something. Oh I'm just being

479
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: sun it backwards. I really feel that way. So I

480
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: feel like niggas be flashing their money and shit because

481
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 1: they be feeling like, oh, yeah, she's gonna see y'all

482
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: got some money, she gonna want to fuck. And then

483
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 1: a lot of time they do be getting pussy off

484
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,160
Speaker 1: the real because bitches be thinking they got money. Oh

485
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: my god. I feel like that's why niggas do that shit.

486
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: But then they come across the bitches like you, I'll

487
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: be just like me, who' gonna be like pull? Who

488
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 1: gonna pull your mother fucking card? Okay, you're showing me

489
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: all this money we're talking about. You just go in

490
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Speaker 1: to them all. What time we going to the mall?

491
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 1: Because I got some shit I want to know. Don't

492
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: cap with me. You're not gonna cap with me neither.

493
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: I hate that shait. And plus I just hate flashy

494
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 1: ass the niggas who like flash their money and shit

495
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 1: all the time to me, that shait lame. It's for

496
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: there's two reasons people do that. It's so funny what

497
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: men leading.

498
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 4: Men will lead with money and be insulted that you

499
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 4: follow up with money. Right, it's just like when you

500
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 4: set a trap, this is what you wanted to be

501
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 4: known for. This is this was your presence, Like you

502
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 4: presented yourself with financial backing. Because a lot of times

503
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 4: men don't have personalities, they don't have conversation, and they

504
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 4: genuinely aren't good people.

505
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: So it's the flash effect.

506
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 4: That's like, if I'm tweeting every day about how good

507
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,199
Speaker 4: my pussy is, I don't expect you to DM me

508
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 4: about my quantum physics.

509
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Speaker 6: Theories, not the quantum physics you are, right, right, So

510
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 6: the audacity of you to be so flashy or just

511
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Speaker 6: represent yourself financially and.

512
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Speaker 4: They expect someone to like you for something else because

513
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 4: you don't like yourself for nothing else, because right, you

514
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Speaker 4: would have presented what you like yourself for.

515
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Speaker 1: So we deal with morons at that point.

516
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Speaker 4: Right, because you want to be used say that if

517
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 4: you don't leave with something else.

518
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Speaker 1: Something else. But you know what's crazy, I feel like

519
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 1: the men like my biggest bead b's in my life.

520
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: They have never led with money with me. Well, your

521
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: biggest beady b did. But I feel like the niggas

522
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: I fuck with, Like I told I say this all

523
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Speaker 1: the time, I don't fuck with niggas that don't fuck

524
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Speaker 1: with me. Like, I'm not about to just fuck with

525
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 1: you just because you got money. I'm not doing that,

526
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I feel like I

527
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: fuck with these niggas and they fuck with me, and

528
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: we move off of that, you know what I'm saying.

529
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,439
Speaker 1: Like a lot of girls are just having a nigga.

530
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: They don't like them, they're not attracted to him, but

531
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Speaker 1: he got money, so oh, let me fuck with him.

532
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm past that. I'm not gonna lie. I've done that.

533
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: But I'm thirty one. I'm not twenty two to twenty

534
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: three anymore. Like it's a lot of niggas out here

535
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 1: with money. Yeah, And I was just telling her that,

536
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: like a lot of y'all, oh too. Like in the past,

537
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Speaker 1: I've tried to, like in my younger days, I've tried

538
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: to fuck with niggas that I didn't like for real,

539
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: just because they have And it's like that shit gets

540
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: iron is not fun, and it's not fun if you

541
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: fucking with a nigga only because he got money. But y'all,

542
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: personality is not compatible. Y'all don't have good conversation, y'all

543
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 1: don't have good sex, y'all don't have nothing in common.

544
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: It's just kind of like, what the fuck? I'm literally

545
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: only fucking with this nigga because he got money, but

546
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: try rather don't get my own money period, because I

547
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: got more than three dollars now, because you're getting your

548
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: own money, that's like you be less tolerant of this

549
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: bullshit the show like I'm not. I'm not. I don't

550
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 1: give a fuck like what you got? Like what else

551
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: is there? Right? Can you come up with something else?

552
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: Like what is there? Or what else is there? Because

553
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: like I said, honestly, I feel like it's not worth it.

554
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm not about to just fuck with you and you are.

555
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: And then on top of that, you've been capping you,

556
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: capping you, acting like you want like you spinning all

557
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: this bread and you doing this to me if you

558
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: got ten bands and you flashing it, what's what is

559
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: that for you to give me a stack? Right? Because

560
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: why are you showing it to me, then why trying

561
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: to fuck and you're not gonna fuck you? You know

562
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like it's not happening. It's not one

563
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: thing about lex P. I cannot be bought, right but

564
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 1: hold on, wait wait now because I can't wait. Let

565
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: me see now, hold on, like if I have to

566
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: think about that for a minute, because I said right

567
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: real quick. Then I was like, I mean, it's gotta

568
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: be like a high price. Like if somebody come up

569
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: to me and be like, hey, I'll give you a

570
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: million dollars for that pussy right now, you're about to

571
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: get this wa wa for real period. But it's somebody

572
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 1: came up and I'm like, oh, I'll give you ten bands.

573
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: The fuck I'm not fucking for those ten bands, brou

574
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: that's not worth it. I can get that for my

575
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: nigga if I really really needed it, you know what

576
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like that's like stuff like that, don't I

577
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: would never fuck a nigga that's literally trying to pay

578
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: me for my pussy a million dollars. Like I don't

579
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: want something trends. I don't want to fuck you, and

580
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: it's trends for a million dollars you wouldn't fuck for

581
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: a million dollars, bitch. I don't who the fuck is

582
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: out here really paying me because a million dollars to fight,

583
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: But that it's hypothetically, but it's like the likelihood of

584
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: something like that really happening now, okay, but niggas will

585
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: be trying to give you money like oh yeah, of

586
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: course that dude, So they were trying to make it transactional.

587
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even want to fuck a nigga. I would

588
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: feel like a million dollars. How you hold it talking

589
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: about the million dollars this fictional ass million zeal I

590
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: got zeal I got all that ship. I need to

591
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: sell a million dollars. I'll take my shit in payments.

592
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: When our last payment clear, that's when the pussy is

593
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: getting delivered, period. Man dead, I'm stop fucking it. But yeah, no,

594
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: but I don't agree to I think that transaction. I don't. Yeah,

595
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: like I mean, don't get me wrong. I have definitely

596
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: fucked with niggas and they left some money on a dresser. Yeah,

597
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie getting a situation where like I

598
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: was fucking with this nigga. Every time he would come over,

599
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: he would leave me money afterwards. But it wasn't like

600
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: it didn't feel transactional. That was transactional because no, you know,

601
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: but he fucked with me on some other sheets. We

602
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: used to go out to eat, when you used to

603
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: do other stuff. It was like he was that was

604
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: part of the package. Let me see your prices. I

605
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: need to raise mone He got that good package. I know,

606
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: that's right. The reason I say that thought because if

607
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: he would have left one morning and not left you money,

608
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: like that's what I was used to. You ain't paid,

609
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: ain't paid for last night, But like I was just

610
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: used to waking up and it be your money right there,

611
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: so I would he wasn't kept, though, But I feel

612
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: like that wasn't kept. That's why I said. I feel

613
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: like when men want to do what, they're gonna do

614
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: it and they don't need to be flashy about it.

615
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: They just gonna do what needs to be done. Period.

616
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 3: But I met.

617
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: Niggas too who like were flashy off the rip and

618
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: like talked about the money they had and she but

619
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: she yeah, I guess depend on depends on niggas. Some

620
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: niggas be camping in. Some niggas is just flashy, like

621
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: some niggas gonna be camping. That's just how they They

622
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: justlashy guys. I like niggas that be kind of low key,

623
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: like big Pow. He is very like you can see

624
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: that he got money, but he's not about to be

625
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: out here with all this and all that and he

626
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: and he definitely got it.

627
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 4: Sometimes I like, yeah, yeah, stuff like he always looks

628
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 4: like because.

629
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: He really yes, he got that real Nigerian king. We

630
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: still got that oil money. He got a lot. I

631
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: don't know what it is, but it's a lot of

632
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: it and I love to get it. But y'all, I

633
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: don't know. I like flashy niggas. I like to wear

634
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: your chains and she I'm fucking bad. What kind of

635
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: chain you had on? Are you okay? I'm just asking?

636
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: I have no limit chain back in my day, kidding miss,

637
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, guys, bast of all, I was like, why

638
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: didn't I know about it? I was like dreams day.

639
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: I was like ten when No Limit was popping. Guys,

640
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: Lets relaxed. I'm joking. I never had a no limit chain.

641
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: I'm totally kidding. Before the girls be like girl who

642
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: she used to fuck, They're gonna be trying to google everybody.

643
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: They're like Monica got ba Monica. I'm sorry, I don't

644
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 1: know who see Marty. I ain't never met that man.

645
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: I never had a no living chain. Okay, okay, so

646
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,239
Speaker 1: what's the next topic? Was the next topic? Oh, we're

647
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: gonna get into the baby, the bed a A I'm

648
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: so excited to talk about. Oh my god, okay, let

649
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: me take a Why are you so excited? I am.

650
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: I've been fucking for sixty three years at this point.

651
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: You've been fucking for a long I've been fucking for

652
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: a very, very, very long time. So it's not a

653
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: lot of times that I don't have a lot of

654
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: first I don't have a lot of like, oh I've

655
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: never done this before. Oh nigga, I have done it all.

656
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: I don't have a penis in every hole in my body.

657
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: I've licked everything that could be licked. Like there's nothing

658
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: new with me. Okay. So you know, I recently got

659
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: to butt plugs because of Drea introduced me to the

660
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: dark side, and so so you know, I got my

661
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: little butt plugs and I was just like, you know,

662
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: putting the butt plugs in, taking cute pictures, you know,

663
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: walking around with them in because they kind of feel

664
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: kind of good, you know what I'm saying. So me

665
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: and throw back. They decided to have sex with the

666
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: butt plug in, so I wanted to talk about double penetration.

667
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. I nutted so hard I

668
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: had a headache for four days. He called me and

669
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: kill it in the group chair were like, what the

670
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: fuck I couldn't I was like, no, seriously, it was

671
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: the best I've had some great orgasms. I'm not gonna lie.

672
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: That was probably the best orgasm I've had in like

673
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: a long time, my whole sixty three years on this

674
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: earth beach. That was a good ass orgasm. I'm never

675
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: because I haven't nothing. I've never done anal. I eventually

676
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: want to do it, but my booty hole, my booty

677
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: hole is tight now. I can't even squeeze nothing in there.

678
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: So I had to push that little trouble getting yours out.

679
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: I do it because I got long nails. I'll be

680
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 1: squeezing my booty Just push it out because I'm scared

681
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: a little pebble might come out. Imagine that, Imagine that

682
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: she being on the sheet. No, but no, I will

683
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: say I cleaned out my booty hoole. Let me take

684
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: you so you have to do ship. Yeah, so let

685
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: me take you how. I cleaned out my booty hole first,

686
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: So I get I bother doush the summer's eve. I

687
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: empty it out and I just put warm water in

688
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: there and I stick it up my butthole and I

689
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: squeeze it and it'll flush your asshole out. Yeah, you

690
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: should do that like the day before. I be mine

691
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: the day before. In the day of, I did it twice.

692
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: I had to get that booty hole clean cause y'all

693
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: know I like Taco bell. So yess I cleaned out

694
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: my booty hole. So when I took out my butt hug,

695
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: it was very clearly clean. It was clean as a whistle.

696
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: I just be pushing mine out. I can't push it.

697
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 6: You got a.

698
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: Like popping it in the out You really push your

699
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: bro My shit is not coming out like that and

700
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: going in. No to me her worst going in get

701
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: it out. Really, I don't like you tell your bodyhole.

702
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: Did you risk your boodyhole? No, but it wasn't an

703
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: enjoyable well you know, once it's in, Yeah, once his

704
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 1: in is easy for So the position I did is

705
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: he did it. We was doing it from the bag,

706
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: of course, because you know that thing was her So yeah,

707
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: and it felt so good. I was so surprised. I

708
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 1: like fuking with the butt plug. Yes, So double penetration

709
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: is something that I feel like everybody needs to try.

710
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: Like you have to have sex with a butt plug,

711
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: and like you absolutely have to. It's gonna be the

712
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: best orgasm you have. You gotta get a vibrating one.

713
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: Oh that's a little too advanced for me. Now you

714
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: so I like you. I like rags. I'm scared what

715
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: if it's shake a little turnout. You just said you

716
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 1: be cleaning your ass out. I'm just crying because that

717
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: shit is funny because we've had people tell us stories

718
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: about Now we have had people tell us stories about

719
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: like shitt on they so, yeah, that's frightening and it is.

720
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: But I'm very like, I'm super super clean when it

721
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: comes to sex, Like I don't want no problem. Yeah,

722
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: I need my nigga to Everything needs to be polished, clean, sexy,

723
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: smelling good. I don't play that shit. I would never

724
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: just go to like finish dinner and put my butt

725
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: plug in and have him to take it out. Some

726
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: girls no, no, honey, that's not how That's not how

727
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: it works at all. So yeah, double penetration, that's the

728
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: way to go. It is. So so what did he

729
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: say when you turned around and you had it in

730
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: because you said this is the first time you wore

731
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: that was the first time. Yeah, but I mean he

732
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: knew I had it, so he was always like, why

733
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: have we, you know, used the butt plug? So we

734
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: was having sex or whatever he was like, he was like, well,

735
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: he was like where the butt plug at? And I

736
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: was like, ooh, so I had. I have two of them,

737
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: but the new one that I got is too big

738
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: a big Yeah, Like, I mean, I'm gonna put it in,

739
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: but I gotta put it in like a few times

740
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 1: and just like wear it and stretch my booty hole out.

741
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: Maybe you gotta wear the little one for like two days. Yeah,

742
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: I didn't want to put it in. I think I'm

743
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: gonna put it in today. Just get some practice in.

744
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: You gotta get the rubber window, remember I told you, like,

745
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: if you're going to try to wear it all day,

746
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: all the rubber the rubber one because it's more comfortable

747
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: for you to be able to sit down on it.

748
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 1: Because that me that metal.

749
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 4: One all day, Like, is that to give way for the.

750
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean just to help stretch your booty out,

751
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: stretch your booty hall out a little bit. But then

752
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: it's just also more comfortable because he's a rubber that's

753
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 1: like your booty strong. You be wearing the holes all day.

754
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: I don't every day, but plug weigh five pounds, y'all.

755
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: That motherfucking got a five pound weigh her asshole all day. Yeah,

756
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: So double penetration, y'all definitely need to try that. It's

757
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: the way to go. So yeah, now we're gonna get

758
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: into the bye a the bye, the bye. Okay, So

759
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go first. Okay, my bop of the week.

760
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 1: I have ran this song in the ground. It's fucking fire.

761
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: And to be honest, I've never really been a crazy

762
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: fan of his. I mean he has a little colt

763
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: following like that. Bryson Tiller dropped a song called in

764
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: Hell and that song is absolutely fucking flames. I love it,

765
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,959
Speaker 1: you don't like it, And I love Bryson, you do,

766
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: I love for I love the SWV sample. They got

767
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: the Mary J. Blige sample, and then like the second verse,

768
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: they kind of chopped and screwed it and slowed it up.

769
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: I love that fucking song. So yeah, that's my bop

770
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 1: of the week. Bryson Tailor in Hell. I think it's

771
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: fucking flames that. I think it's the move going if

772
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: you're ready to suck some dick. Sorry, I don't know.

773
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 1: I mean I like the I like the beat, the

774
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: bee is fired, I don't really like the vers and

775
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: I guess because I really like when he sing more

776
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: than when he raped, and I feel like he was

777
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 1: rapping most of the songs. Okay, yeah, but Tie dollar

778
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: Sign have a song. I was trying to find it

779
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: because I forgot who else is on the song the

780
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: song with Yeah, so I really really liked that song.

781
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: So that's gonna be my op of the week. And

782
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,399
Speaker 1: then also I meant to say this was my bop

783
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 1: of the week last week, but you know, Lil Wayne,

784
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: you can listen to No Ceilings now a platform and

785
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: those Ceilings is a classic. So that's gonna be my

786
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 1: op of the week this week too, just the whole

787
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 1: No Ceilings Meek tape. Okay, so shout out to Louis. Yeah, okay,

788
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 1: that's on your bobs. Yeah, Okay, so now we are

789
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: going to get into y'all's questions this week. Make sure

790
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: if you want your question answered on the show, you

791
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:02,280
Speaker 1: email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

792
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: That's a sk p O. You are M I N.

793
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: D S at gmail dot com and y'all been doing

794
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: so good. Make sure y'all keep it a paragraph because

795
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: we can't read them long long ass emails y'all be

796
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: writing sometimes, so yeah, try to keep it to a

797
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: paragraph or two and we'll read it on the show.

798
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 1: You ready, sister, Sometimes y'all be trying it with these

799
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: long guess emails. I'll be like, hold on, maybe really

800
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 1: thinking that we work for Bitter Hill. I'm dead, Okay, Okay,

801
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: you want me to read it? Yeah you can, Okay.

802
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: The person so this says, hey, guys, you can call

803
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: me Drizzy. I need a little advice. I've been seeing

804
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: this girl. When we met, when we were both honest

805
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: with each other, we just wanted to fuck. She has

806
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 1: a busy schedule, full time student, full time parent, full

807
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 1: time job. Well, when we first started kicking it, she

808
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: was out of school for the summer, so we all

809
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: the time and the make sure y'all proofree too, so

810
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 1: we have all the time in the world for each

811
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: other fucking three four times a week, I mean bomb sex.

812
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: So of course feelings got involved. And now school is

813
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: back in and her hectic schedule is back in full force.

814
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: So my question is, how can I tell her I

815
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: want to be there for her, help her with school, house,

816
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 1: et cetera. Tell her that I don't want to complicate

817
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: her and add more hectic, but I want to take

818
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 1: some of the bird in a way without getting played

819
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 1: or seeming like a pussy, because I know how some

820
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: females really just want to use us help. I feel like,

821
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: if you care for her, that's a real nigga shit,

822
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: just let her know. But you can also tell that

823
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: she's appreciative or not as well. So I feel like

824
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: you can't just do something for somebody and they just

825
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: take take, take, take, take, and they don't try to

826
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: give back to you or pour back to you in

827
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: some kind of way. So I feel like, sometimes you know,

828
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: you don't have to ask, just send her, be like, hey,

829
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 1: here's one hundred dollars, use this for gas and groceries

830
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: for the week. You know what I'm saying, Or ask her, hey,

831
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: you need any help what you got going on this week?

832
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: I can you know, you want me to bring you

833
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: some food, like just offer to do her little things

834
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: like you don't have to ask her, Hey, how can

835
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: just do it? Yeah? I feel like you could just

836
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: you know, ask her for her cash app or ask

837
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: her for her zeal information and just surprise her penny

838
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 1: and stuff, you know occasionally. Yeah, I see that. He

839
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: said he thirty and he a firefighter, so he was saying,

840
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: you know, he not the riches. But I feel like, yeah,

841
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 1: you can do little stuff this week within your means. Yeah.

842
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: And I mean sometimes girls like I love roses, you

843
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: gonna get some little cheap little roses and be like

844
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: drop them off for the door with a nice little car.

845
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: Just little stuff that you're thinking about her. And like

846
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: I said, if you feel if the feelings, yeah, like

847
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: if the feelings are mutual, I think she'll definitely appreciate it,

848
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: and she will, you know, make more time to you know,

849
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: take it to the next level, because it sounds like

850
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: you want to be more than just friends fucking.

851
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 3: And then he's.

852
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: Thirty two, so it's just kind of like you know,

853
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: usual your intuition. I feel like you could tell if

854
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: she like you, and if she gonna be the type

855
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 1: of beach this you should already be able to tell

856
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 1: if she really actually like you or she the type

857
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: of beach just gonna try to use you, right, because

858
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: I think women are very obvious, Like when we like somebody,

859
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: it's it's like hard to hide it, like yeah, like women,

860
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: it's like it ain't no. Really, you don't really have

861
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: to ask swomen if we fuck with you or not.

862
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: I know, you don't have to ask for me like

863
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 1: you'll be in love. It takes me a little more time. Okay, Okay,

864
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 1: So we're gonna go to the next question. How do

865
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 1: I give my girl to like sucking dick? Hey, y'all,

866
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: so my girl doesn't like sucking dick, and the subject says,

867
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: And as the subject says, we tried to love that

868
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: tastes good and that worked for about two months. Then

869
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: she stopped it again. Tried to sixty nine the other

870
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: day and it didn't go through. She claims her mouth,

871
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,959
Speaker 1: her mouth hurts. But I haven't got hit all year.

872
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm frustrated. What do I do. I've been with this

873
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 1: girl going on five years, got hed more in the beginning,

874
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: but not a lot any advice, You definitely got to

875
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: have a conversation with her first of all. And honestly,

876
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: I will say this, when you don't suck dick for

877
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: a while and you start sucking again, your jaws do hurt.

878
00:42:56,080 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: It's a muscle and your your gag reflexes. Yeah, muscle,

879
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: So you d have to I feel like when y'all

880
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,959
Speaker 1: have sex, see if she wants to give you head,

881
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: but don't make her do it for a long time.

882
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 1: Like if she does it for a minute or two,

883
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 1: when she wants to stop, let her stop, but y'all

884
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: have to keep doing it, but don't force her to

885
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: do it for like five ten minutes, because guess what,

886
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: if you make her do it for five ten minutes,

887
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: she's not gonna want to do it for another four

888
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: or five months. So whenever she gives you head, just

889
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: be happy that she gave it to you. Take that

890
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: little minute or two of head that you get, and

891
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: then y'all can build up. She's gonna build up her

892
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: jaw muscles, and it's gonna become you know what I'm saying.

893
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 1: And maybe you know, I know you said that y'all

894
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,439
Speaker 1: tried the loop that tastes good. Maybe you should try

895
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 1: that loop that's numbing, that like numbs your throat or something.

896
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: Maybe you should buy her like the little throat numbing spread.

897
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: Maybe that they help her out a little bit too.

898
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 1: I don't need it, but we ain't talk about me.

899
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: I don't know if it worked or not. No, y'all,

900
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if it works, but I have well, actually,

901
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: somebody did tell me that it works. Somebody did I know.

902
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: I wish I would have had that my younger day

903
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: cause I used to be choking on it. Maybe you

904
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: should put on a reward.

905
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 4: System, a reward system, but I know there's an incentive.

906
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: I'll do it, like if you're gonna get a cookie

907
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 1: when you're done, cookie money right. Well, I mean that's

908
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: not a bad idea either. I'm not a reward system

909
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: that's funny as fun. I ain't ship if I didn't

910
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: I like cooking, but if I didn't like it, if

911
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: it was something that I didn't enjoy doing, and a

912
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: nigga was like, oh you sked my dig I'll take

913
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: you to the mall after my baby, like good morning,

914
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I don't ask, okay, let me read

915
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: the next one, So yeah, good luck with that. And yeah,

916
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: like I say, numbing spray, Yeah, we'll say the numbing

917
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: spray reward system and doing it like in short increments

918
00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: and building up some longer increments. Okay, so this one's

919
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: he says, niggas always find a way to cheat. Hey, y'all,

920
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: I absolutely love the show and I'm always ready to

921
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: tune in every week. I'm twenty now, but I started

922
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,800
Speaker 1: dealing with this dude when I was seventeen or eighteen.

923
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: It was definitely a childish situationship, being that we didn't

924
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: see each other often but would always be texting and

925
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: on the phone and eventually created a strong bond together.

926
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: Though our situationship was understood, we were never on the

927
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: same page, with me wanting a real relationship and him

928
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,240
Speaker 1: wanting to go with the flow because, in his words,

929
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: I deserved better. I definitely should have listened to his ass.

930
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: I also lacked a lot of confidence and dealt with

931
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: bad depression back then, which basically allowed me to stay

932
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: because of my delusional feelings of not wanting to be alone,

933
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: plus I didn't know any better. Long story short, we

934
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: eventually ended up going our separate ways, and I'm now

935
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: in a new relationship and not even sweating him. But

936
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: I recently found out he'd been in a relationship the

937
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: entire time we were involved, which was in a span

938
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: of a year or two. After we separated, he would

939
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: still hit me up on some cool shit because, like

940
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: I said, our bond truly never fizzled, and I respect

941
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: him as a man. Me and the girlfriend have mutual followers,

942
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,439
Speaker 1: and I basically saw tweets and pictures of them when

943
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: we were involved. Even though I'm over him, in the situation,

944
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: I can't help but be pissed at the fact that

945
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: the nigga was playing with my health because we were

946
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: sexually active while they were together. One part of me

947
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 1: wants to call him and cuss his ass out and

948
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: let his girlfriend know about let his girlfriend know. But

949
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: the other part of me doesn't care that much to

950
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 1: even exude that energy because it is what it is.

951
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: What do y'all think? Will you answer your own question?

952
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: Let that shit go? Yeah, it's not pass You don't

953
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: need that negative energy. You're moved on, you, you're happy

954
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: some shit. You just got to take your l and

955
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: keep it pushing this like, Yeah, it's unfortunate, and that

956
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: shit does suck, But what are you gonna get out

957
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: of cussing them out and telling his girlfriend they're most

958
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: likely not gonna break up. Like every point, it's no

959
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 1: point yea to me, it's never no point to do

960
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 1: stuff like that, you know what I mean? And you

961
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: just kind of end up making yourself look gooty. Yeah,

962
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: and then I'm math. You gotta realize how in a

963
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: new relationship, imagine how your nigga would feel about you

964
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: charging up your old niggahs. I'm dead because she says

965
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: she feels some type of way you feel about the

966
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: fact that he was with health. Yeah, living you learn,

967
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: keep it moving and don't just close that chapter in

968
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: your life. Don't even be checking for him. Don't check it.

969
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: And he's not gonna stop cheating obviously, they probably gonna

970
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: get into it. If you call her until her, they're

971
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: gonna get into it. But she still passionate afterwards, and

972
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,959
Speaker 1: he's gonna still fuck with her. She's gonna still fuck

973
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: with him, and you're still gonna be piaceed. I'm dead,

974
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: So I just don't see no point to go down

975
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 1: that road. Next question, Okay, last one question staying motivated. Hi, ladies,

976
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 1: I love your podcast, and thank you for answering my question.

977
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: This is more general. What do you do when you're

978
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: feeling down on yourself and feeling like you're not reaching

979
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: your goals or that they are taking too much time

980
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: to come to fruition. I'm not in a relationship. Fruition,

981
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: Yes you are, dress well.

982
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 3: I'm actually just thinking that.

983
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 1: I said, it's good I got this question because this

984
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: whole thing's fruit tissue. Since I was sick this hole.

985
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 1: Never heard it since I was six years old. I

986
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: thought the word was frutition. I'm cru whoy, not in

987
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 1: a relationship, and it seems like my goals are slipping

988
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: through my fingers. How do you keep your motivation up?

989
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: And also how do you not compare yourself when it

990
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: seems like it's happening into everyone else? But you? Thank you?

991
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: Do you want me to go? You canswer first? You

992
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: want to. I definitely went through this like really bad.

993
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: I talked about my depression on the Patreon episode, and

994
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 1: a lot of that had to do with me being

995
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: on fucking Instagram and being on Twitter and looking at

996
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: everybody getting promotions and getting engaged and getting that. But

997
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: you don't know what goes on behind closed doors with

998
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: a lot of fucking people. Okay, you have to move

999
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: at your own pace. I'm thirty one and I'm just

1000
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: now really getting into my bag and doing what I

1001
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: want to do. Everybody has a different timeline. You got

1002
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: people that are sixteen years old turn millionaires, right, So

1003
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: you cannot look at anybody else's timeline and compare yourself

1004
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 1: to that everything is going to happen on your time.

1005
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of people think that

1006
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 1: they can just go to sleep and pray and God's

1007
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: gonna make it better. No, it's a combination. You have

1008
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: to pray, you have to keep your faith, but you

1009
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: also gotta work. You gotta hustle. Whatever you want to get,

1010
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: you have to zone in on it and do it.

1011
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: A lot of things that I do is like manifestation things.

1012
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: In the morning, I always wake up as I felt

1013
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: for a long time, I wasn't attractive, I didn't feel

1014
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: pretty about myself. I just was so hard on myself.

1015
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 1: So I would just wake up in the morning be

1016
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: like me, Andre, are gonna have a successful podcast, Were

1017
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: gonna make a lot of money. You look beautiful today,

1018
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: You're going to have a great day. I don't give

1019
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: myself an option to have bad days. It's like, no, bitch,

1020
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a good day today. Your podcast is

1021
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 1: gonna be successful. Like these are things that I really

1022
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: tell myself like every day. So I feel like you

1023
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: have to speak things like that into existence. It's like

1024
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: getting over depression starts with yourself. You have to recognize

1025
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: the problem and then actively want to change it. So

1026
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: that's three, because I feel like being happy is a choice,

1027
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: Like do you know what I mean? You choose your happiness.

1028
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: You choose to be happy. So I feel like, you know,

1029
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: if you're feeling down on yourself, you just have to

1030
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,919
Speaker 1: maybe you should like get you a journal and start

1031
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: writing your feelings out and stuff. And you know, like

1032
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: even not just because me and me and Lix endorse

1033
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,919
Speaker 1: this business or whatever, but maybe you should really try

1034
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,720
Speaker 1: better help because they do have a lot of people

1035
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: that can help you and kind of coach you through,

1036
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: coach you through things that you're going through and stuff

1037
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: like that, because sometimes you just need to talk to people.

1038
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 1: You know. I think we've all been in a place

1039
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: where you just be in a funk sometimes, you know

1040
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: what I mean, and you be feeling like you don't

1041
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: know what to do, but you have to find that motivation,

1042
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: you know, and get that motivation back, because I've definitely

1043
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: been in spots in my life, especially since I've been

1044
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: living in Atlanta, where sometimes I just didn't feel motivated

1045
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: and I just didn't want to do anything. But you

1046
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: have to put that fire under your own ass, you

1047
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And yeah, yeah, because I mean

1048
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: you do. Nobody is gonna do shit for you, you

1049
00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I think we all sometimes look

1050
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: to other people for answers, but you gotta feel you

1051
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: responsible for you. So if you want to be successful,

1052
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Speaker 1: you gotta go out here and get it. And you

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Speaker 1: gotta find motivation within yourselves because nobody else is just

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Speaker 1: gonna constantly motivate you like you're gonna motivate yourself, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Right, So the reason I how

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Speaker 1: to take your phone because this is actually kind of

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Speaker 1: serious for a moment. So I got some really really

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Speaker 1: bad news the other day. So I'm gonna sing a

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Speaker 1: song today, but I'm gonna be kind of serious because

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Speaker 1: I gotta dedicate it to this situation. What damn, let

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Speaker 1: me get it out. I'm scared. So the a listener

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Speaker 1: actually reached out to me and she was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: this is what's going on. You have to sing this

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Speaker 1: song and dedicated to it. So, bro, I feel like

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Speaker 1: you could be fucking goofy. Taco Bell is getting rid

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Speaker 1: of the Mexican girl. I knew you were talking to

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Speaker 1: say some dubleshtety. At first I thought you was serious.

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Speaker 1: Taco Bell is getting rid of the Mexican pizza. And

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Speaker 1: if you know me, I've literally been eating it since

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Speaker 1: I was seven yearsyears old. Seriously, so this song is

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Speaker 1: dedicated to the Mexican pizza.

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Speaker 2: How do I say goodbye to what we have?

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Speaker 1: Come on home my hands?

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Speaker 2: The good times made us that outwek you the best?

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Speaker 1: How thought we gave Tuesie for it before it gone away?

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Speaker 1: It's so hot.

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Speaker 2: To siga bye t yets to day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's a beautiful RENDI I'm sorry, y'all really

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Speaker 1: emotional because I beautiful.

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Speaker 5: I know that I don't know how'm gonna get through this.

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Speaker 5: But Taco Bell, you dat be wrong, bitch. Y'all know

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Speaker 5: I like that fucking Mexican pizza and I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 1: Let this go. I'm starting a petition. Guys, so go

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Speaker 1: to www. Dot petition dot org about that the other

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Speaker 1: day too, and she was real piece, why would they

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Speaker 1: get rid of the Mexican pizza?

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Speaker 5: The Mexican pizza? Cod What does COVID have to do

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Speaker 5: with a Mexican pizza?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, is it going already? No, we got a

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Speaker 1: few more weeks like everybody else. What help hopeless get

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Speaker 1: through her hurt? I'm sid do fund me for a

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Speaker 1: Mexican pizza. Y'all? You got anything you want to add? Sister? No,

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Speaker 1: not really. Just make sure that y'all subscribe to the Patreon. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Drea just dropped the second half of her truth or

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Speaker 1: Drink with her eggs And it's actually real interesting because

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Speaker 1: I know y'all be wanting to know who we be

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Speaker 1: dating or people from our parents.

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Speaker 2: Juice.

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Speaker 1: It is real juicy, So make sure the link is

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Speaker 1: in the bio. Subscribe to our Patreon. We're sorry for

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Speaker 1: the audio this week. We're doing the best that we can.

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Speaker 1: But the video is lit. So if y'all want to

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Speaker 1: look at the video, it's gonna be on the YouTube.

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Speaker 1: So make sure y'all tune in next week. We'll see

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Speaker 1: y'all later. May y'all May