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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. I've heard you can always trust

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Speaker 1: people who have a five letter first name. Tyler Mason,

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Speaker 1: Vince the slap Chop guy before he got arrested. I

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Speaker 2: It's Vince.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you could always trust him. That's why I get

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Speaker 1: a really cozy feeling knowing our listener on the phone

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Speaker 1: right now has a five letter first name, a guy

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Speaker 1: named Corey c O R E Y. Corey. Your name

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Speaker 1: alone means you have a lot to live up to here.

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Speaker 1: But welcome to the show man. How you doing, Thanks,

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Speaker 1: I'm all right.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Does the girl that you met have a five letter

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Speaker 1: first name too?

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Speaker 3: No, No, Sadly, I.

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Speaker 4: Did know that jeff was like so into this five

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Speaker 4: letter thing. Nobody on this show has a five letter name.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's how you know we're all pieces of garbage.

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Speaker 2: Has the same amount of letters as I.

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Speaker 1: Do, almost Jeffy. Jeffy has five letters in it. So

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Speaker 1: I'm trustworthy and you can trust me with your story. Corey,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. What's the name of this girl that you met?

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Speaker 3: Her name is Alvin Alison.

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Speaker 4: Jesus Jesus seven letters in that name.

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Speaker 1: Let's call her Ali A L L I E, so

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Speaker 1: that I can approve it that way. Well we do today.

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Speaker 1: So tell us about Alison. Where did you meet her?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: I met her on a dating app, and I haven't

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Speaker 3: Like I've been on the dating apps for a long

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we hear that a lot about the apps. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but Alice and I we like really hit it off.

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Speaker 6: And the only problem is shouldn't live in my town.

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Speaker 3: It was like a couple hours away by.

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Speaker 2: Driving, you got a big radius on that app. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's than you're willing to do.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it would have to be worth it, and I

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Speaker 3: She seemed into it too, So we were like, how

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Speaker 3: how do we do this? And I had a pre weekend.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm free next weekend? What if I fly

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Speaker 6: Whoa? Oh?

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Speaker 4: I like how You're like, I'm not driving a couple

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's her seeing all of the effort that

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Speaker 4: Did you, like get a hotel or did you expect

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Speaker 6: I didn't have expectations. I was like, you know, I

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Speaker 3: I got a hotel.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, but I didn't.

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Speaker 6: I didn't have the hotel already booked. I was like,

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Speaker 1: Need one, because you can't like cancel day of Also,

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Speaker 6: So we're like, let's just go to a restaurant, and

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Speaker 2: He's disappointed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's great.

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Speaker 3: The conversation flowed. There was lots of laughter.

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Speaker 6: We were playing this game where it was like, let's

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Speaker 6: Right, Yeah. Yeah, So we were like, you know, dinner

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Speaker 3: We were just going to go to the park and

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Speaker 6: And so we were just like it's got one and

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Speaker 2: Something like before you leave a lot of time with

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Speaker 5: Also that's a good thing because you go to the

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Speaker 1: And if she says no, then she's like, then you

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Speaker 4: There's freeknel, no breakfast, so the lobby at the waffle bar.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's no chain restaurant, but it'll do. So

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Speaker 3: Well, so I did that.

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Speaker 4: I kind of sound maybe not, Maybe it was just

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Speaker 6: I wasn't really because I didn't want to put any

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Speaker 1: There, yes and now and now she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 3: Like a little different maybe, And so I can't figure

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Speaker 1: I mean, if Alison really wants to go to her

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Speaker 4: Was an activity with her a live grammar is how

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Speaker 5: She should have been more clear, should have been more

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Speaker 5: Let's just see what she has to say when we

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Speaker 5: do your second date update right after.

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Speaker 1: This second date update. It is not a good sign

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Speaker 1: when you fly out of town for a first date

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Speaker 1: and the person decides to hang out with their grandma

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what kind of happened to our listener Corey.

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Speaker 1: He traveled by plane to meet up with a woman

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Speaker 1: named Alison. They had dinner and cheesecake one night, but

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Speaker 1: can't see you again. I'm chilling with my Graham Graham today.

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Speaker 1: So naturally, Corey's wondering, is this because I did something

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Speaker 1: wrong on her date? Or is her grandma really just

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Speaker 1: that cool? Brook Please reassure Corey and tell him he's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure that's what it is.

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Speaker 4: Grandma's always going to come first before grandma will come first.

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Speaker 2: But grandma shouldn't take all day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like there should even Corey if it was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: For coffee before I fly out?

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Speaker 1: Did you can I bring my grandma on our coffee?

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Speaker 2: Did you ask that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess, I guess I should have offered that.

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Speaker 6: I don't really I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I really appreciate you all doing this for me.

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Speaker 1: Well, I also thinking maybe it's sunk in too that

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Speaker 1: distancing may not work.

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Speaker 4: It's hard for long term relationships to be long distance,

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Speaker 1: I've never heard that. I've heard long distance is easier.

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Speaker 1: Let's hope that Alison agrees. I'm going to call her

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Speaker 1: is this Allison?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Who is this?

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 1: You don't have to be afraid. We're a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Don't ever

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Speaker 1: start with you don't have to be says, don't be

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Speaker 2: Why do I not want to be lumped in with you?

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Speaker 1: Safe space here? Allison?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Are you still there?

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Speaker 1: Hi, okay, sorry for phrasing it that way, but uh,

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Speaker 1: you're on the radio right now, and we're doing a

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Speaker 1: segment it's called a second Date Update. We're trying to

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Speaker 1: get some help for one of our listeners that you

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Speaker 1: went out with recently, a guy named Corey.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, yeah, I was quick.

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Speaker 1: You know who exactly Corey is?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean talk about someone who has no self awareness? Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I know, Corey no self awareness.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that would explain why he has no clue why

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Speaker 4: you're not calling him back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, clearly he's not aware of what he did

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Speaker 1: wrong because we heard the story from him about your hangout.

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Speaker 1: We didn't pick up any red flags based on what

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Speaker 6: That's laughable.

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Speaker 1: Oh myka will help enlighten us because we're just trying

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Speaker 1: to help Corey figure out what he did wrong.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know, he needs like a chivalry

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Speaker 5: But he was so rude, Like wow, what he was

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Like our first conversation, I sit down and he

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, what you asked me on a date?

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Speaker 7: You suggested cheesecake? If this was breaking your bank, why

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well you are the host, because he's the one

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Speaker 1: No doubt there's some questionable stuff being said by him.

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Speaker 4: No way, actually he is, and I'm sure he just

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Speaker 6: I just feel like I feel like you just left

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Speaker 6: Well, you left all the good parts, and you just

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Speaker 2: She told you is offensive? Is Alison even still there?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? What do you mean you didn't know I had

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Speaker 7: a problem? I said, that's offensive? When is calling anyone

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Speaker 6: I mean it was kind of like a joke, but

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Speaker 6: also it's just kind of like your vibe, right.

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Speaker 3: Like my.

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Speaker 6: Fun, but like a fun vibe.

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Speaker 7: You know you like me, but I'm the groupie.

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Speaker 6: I didn't mean any disrespect. Like that movie almost famous,

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Speaker 6: No, No, I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 6: Some of them. I apologize.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what she's mad about.

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Speaker 2: You told her she had daddy issues.

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Speaker 1: Corey, you gotta apologize.

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Speaker 6: Maybe I didn't say no, I didn't say she had

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Speaker 6: It's just like my personal experience is it usually girls

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Speaker 3: I'm not even saying like it's bad. It's like it's

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Speaker 3: What are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Issues aside, it is interesting that you didn't tell us,

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Speaker 1: Corey that you asked Alison to pay for the cheesecake.

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Speaker 6: I'm supposed to pay for everything.

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Speaker 1: Well why just because you were the one who suggested

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Speaker 1: getting the cheesecake Alison, tell Corey how you felt during

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Speaker 7: I was like, Wow, this guy is a loser.

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Speaker 6: Whatever, I'm a loser. But what you want me to

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Speaker 3: Sounds like you've got daddy issues.

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Speaker 7: I want you to never take care of me. I

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Speaker 6: Didn't hear from me. Thank you. I wish you just

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Speaker 7: I didn't string you along. I made up a lie

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Speaker 7: I was trying to be kind, but like I didn't

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Speaker 6: That he was.

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Speaker 1: I thought that we had daddy issues, but apparently it's

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Speaker 7: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Didn't even let you finish your sentence.

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Speaker 1: Wow, so rude.

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Speaker 2: We're being sarcastic, Alison. Sorry, had to go through that.

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Speaker 6: What about me? I just can like drag through the mud.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know you feel that way, buddy, that was

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Speaker 2: The buddy comment.

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Speaker 1: Is looking down on you. So Corey, it's not going

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Speaker 1: to be another day with Allison it's a no from

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Speaker 1: her obviously, Fine, but good news. You're back on to

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Speaker 2: You want to be great, catch.

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Speaker 6: Awesome.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to match with those girls.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning, I know we're arguing a lot

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Speaker 4: I know that's because we've watched too many reality shows

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Speaker 4: You need to pick a game, so you wouldn't be offended.

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Speaker 4: It's just inaccurate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have been a lot of I mean,

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Speaker 4: Kind of missing the point of what she was upset about.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: But there was no good match happening between the two

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Speaker 1: So if you ever need help with your dating life,

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Speaker 1: you can always email the show. We'll call that person

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Speaker 1: who's not calling you back. And go check out all

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