Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin
Speaker 1: to Grab and I Heard Radio Podcast. Welcome back to
Speaker 1: another episode of How Men Think. My name is brooks
Speaker 1: Like and if you tuned in last week, we did
Speaker 1: an awesome show. It was hilarious and informative and really revealing,
Speaker 1: and it was everything that men do not understand about women.
Speaker 1: So we dove into that last week. If you haven't
Speaker 1: caught it, go back and listen to that. And this
Speaker 1: week we're gonna flip that on its head and we're
Speaker 1: gonna do a show everything that women do not understand
Speaker 1: about man. So we asked our listeners to send us
Speaker 1: your questions. You everybody emailed us your questions at men
Speaker 1: at I Heart Radio at I Heart radio dot com,
Speaker 1: and we compiled a list of all our listener questions
Speaker 1: of what women do not understand about men. And I
Speaker 1: brought two distinguished gentlemen on this episode to help me
Speaker 1: answer these questions. Last week we had him on. He
Speaker 1: came back for another one. Mr Bob Guinea. What's up?
Speaker 1: How are you doing, buddy? I'm excellent. Thanks for having
Speaker 1: me again. I appreciate it. You were so fun last week.
Speaker 1: We had to have you back bud Um last week. Right, So, Bob,
Speaker 1: Bob is ye of TV personality, everything TV, and we
Speaker 1: also have Ye of TV and Film personality, Mr Bart Johnson,
Speaker 1: who was on with us a couple of weeks ago. Bart,
Speaker 1: what's up, buddy? Hey, guys's glad to be here, thanks
Speaker 1: to be the I'm glad to be in the distinguished
Speaker 1: gentleman category. It feels like honor, thanks, refined, distinguished. H
Speaker 1: I've never been called these nights, Bart, Um, Right, Bob,
Speaker 1: I mean I feel so mature right now. It feels good. Um. Bart.
Speaker 1: Also tell me about hell do you just had the
Speaker 1: world premiere of your new movie on Wednesday? Held? How
Speaker 1: did that go? You know, it's the little mixed feelings
Speaker 1: area beyond Brooks because you know, you worked so hard
Speaker 1: on this movie. You get this festival and it's premiering,
Speaker 1: this big film festival London, and we're all excited to go,
Speaker 1: and they every shut so with kind opening night of
Speaker 1: this big festival plane to an empty theater. So but
Speaker 1: everybody can tune in digitally, right well, every I guess
Speaker 1: the movie geo tagged, which is something I'm learning about.
Speaker 1: So only if you're in London can you watch the movie.
Speaker 1: So they did have a big digital screening only locally,
Speaker 1: so hopefully they're able to control that the movie doesn't
Speaker 1: get pirated or however that works. But the reviews are
Speaker 1: rolling in today, So today has been a super exciting day.
Speaker 1: I'm seeing the first reviews and people are loving sod.
Speaker 1: Pump for you. Okay, um, pump for you. Okay, dudes,
Speaker 1: let's get into this. So our goal today is to
Speaker 1: help women understand men. So we have a list of
Speaker 1: questions and I'm gonna rapid fire these two us and
Speaker 1: We're gonna get through as many as we can, and
Speaker 1: as always, raw unfiltered, hit him with the truth. Boy.
Speaker 1: By the way, Bob, Bob, I feel do you feel
Speaker 1: more confident than I do with this? Like this subject matter?
Speaker 1: And no right? And then another questions like, I mean,
Speaker 1: do you feel like women do you understand uh? In general?
Speaker 1: I will tell you I kind of thought I was
Speaker 1: just I thought I had it all dialed in. And
Speaker 1: then last week when Brooks and I went through the
Speaker 1: things that you know, uh, that men don't understand, I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I don't understand a lot of this stuff,
Speaker 1: but I feel like I feel like we're easy, right,
Speaker 1: Like I think guys are easy. So I feel like,
Speaker 1: like we were talking about this last week, like this
Speaker 1: will probably we could probably wrap this show in about
Speaker 1: nine minutes with fifty questions. Pretty simple. But but at
Speaker 1: the same time, I want to be interesting because we
Speaker 1: are all different guys who you know, uh different experiences,
Speaker 1: seemingly have a lot of similarities as well. But I
Speaker 1: think it'd be really interesting to see, you know, how
Speaker 1: our takes are on this, because I definitely I'm gonna
Speaker 1: make my wife listen to this podcast so that she
Speaker 1: doestly understands us. Yeah, you've been very four years. Okay, awesome,
Speaker 1: Well don't. I mean, it's not my first marriage to
Speaker 1: be to be candid. So I got it right, I
Speaker 1: got it right in time? Yeah, yeah, so take some time.
Speaker 1: Yeah part part last week. Bob was just gracious because
Speaker 1: Bob and I got raked across the coals last week.
Speaker 1: But what we don't understand about women, We were sacrificial lambs.
Speaker 1: So we're back. We are back for some revenge here,
Speaker 1: uh not revenge, I shouldn't say revenge is the wrong word.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna answer some of the We're gonna answer
Speaker 1: some of the questions for ladies. Okay, very first question,
Speaker 1: very first question, A very hot question that we received.
Speaker 1: Why do men leave the set up on the toilet?
Speaker 1: Women do not understand convenience? Is? I think you know?
Speaker 1: But also I mean for that sake, why would women
Speaker 1: leave the seat down? I mean, I'll answer the question
Speaker 1: with a question. So why is it okay for the
Speaker 1: women to leave the seat down but not for the
Speaker 1: man to lead the seat up? I mean, one way
Speaker 1: or the other. We've all got to do some work.
Speaker 1: Can we go in there? So either I gotta put
Speaker 1: the seat up or she's got to put seat down.
Speaker 1: So I mean, at the end of the day, who's
Speaker 1: really a fault care? I remember when we were first married,
Speaker 1: my wife would get mad if any you're hit the
Speaker 1: the bolt under the seat, And I said, well, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm set. We're gonna drop the seat after So isn't
Speaker 1: that like you want me to lift up the seat
Speaker 1: and make sure none porcelain bring up? It's a lot
Speaker 1: to act one, so I mean, pick one or the other.
Speaker 1: I'm leaving the seat totally clear. You should let me like,
Speaker 1: you know, but yeah, I gotta say that argument. I
Speaker 1: lost a long time Ian go man. Yeah, I've never
Speaker 1: understood it. I've never left the seat up. I've never
Speaker 1: been to leave the seat up guy. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think my mom. I think when I was a kid,
Speaker 1: probably when I was really young, I was to put
Speaker 1: the seat down. So I never had this thing like
Speaker 1: leave the seat up when I got to be an adult. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta say. I have a brother is about my age.
Speaker 1: My brother Adam, um single guy, and he comes to
Speaker 1: the stage with us every time he stays with us,
Speaker 1: seats up everything. Yeah, And recently he was with us
Speaker 1: and I got home and the seat was up, and
Speaker 1: I said, oh, Adam must be staying. And he's a
Speaker 1: very considerate, thoughtful guy. I think purely has to do
Speaker 1: with like unaware, which is like a theme that's gonna
Speaker 1: be I have a feeling gonna be recurry theme on
Speaker 1: this show here. It's just like guys are kind of unaware.
Speaker 1: We just don't get it, and we don't think it's
Speaker 1: a big like. I will tell you I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lead the seat up guy either. But I think it's
Speaker 1: because I've been in a relationship for so long. We
Speaker 1: lived together, and it's just like you learned not to
Speaker 1: because you just don't want to get Yeah, how to
Speaker 1: present you know, you know how long you've been in
Speaker 1: a relationship with how you treat that? Okay, moving on
Speaker 1: question number two? Why do men adjust their young every
Speaker 1: five minutes? I love these questions because we can. I
Speaker 1: think it's because we can. That's why. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: I will tell you I got a buddy who I
Speaker 1: literally I'll see it will be at an event and
Speaker 1: I'll just be like, dude, you gotta stop. Man, I'm
Speaker 1: i gonna knowledge like something. We used to tease him
Speaker 1: all the time, you know, and now I look over
Speaker 1: at him and I'll be like, oh my god, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like all you see he can't help himself. So
Speaker 1: I gotta say, I've never really been a big you know,
Speaker 1: junk and jester, but my wife will probably tell you that.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll be like, uh, what was the guy
Speaker 1: married with children back in the day? Um? Yeah, Like, hell, buddy,
Speaker 1: you know hand out the trailers. We're watching the you know,
Speaker 1: and it's like you don't even realize you're doing it sometimes.
Speaker 1: So I definitely am guilty at that one. Are you
Speaker 1: still friends with that guy? Yeah? We you know, remember
Speaker 1: that when that thing came out, Uh it was uh,
Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel and Adam Kralin did this thing like cranky
Speaker 1: Anchors back in the day, you know, just you a
Speaker 1: frank call. We saw theys called him cranky anchor because
Speaker 1: he couldn't keep his hand off of himself, you know,
Speaker 1: all the time. So we're still buddies. I haven't seen
Speaker 1: him in a while and obviously haven't had to go
Speaker 1: to a function with him in a while. Thankfully that
Speaker 1: that's one of the silver linings of COVID is you
Speaker 1: don't have to take your buddy himself on. I'm just
Speaker 1: curious because he wear boxers. I mean, is that a thing?
Speaker 1: Is it like? Because the briefs obviously not as cool,
Speaker 1: but a lot more support, a lot more tell you.
Speaker 1: I think he switched to the box of briefs, which
Speaker 1: I think was a big mood for him. I think
Speaker 1: it was very helpful help him up. And what's what's
Speaker 1: what's your answer? Why do you think guys do it? Truthfully? Like,
Speaker 1: why do you think guys do it? Man? Honestly, I
Speaker 1: think there's just like there's a lot of action going
Speaker 1: on here with your your you know, the way clothes
Speaker 1: are designed and whatnot, and I think like boxers. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is what I've noted. When you're we're in workout
Speaker 1: closed you know you have those they're kind of like compression.
Speaker 1: Short things are like held in place. Man, things aren't rubbing.
Speaker 1: It's great, and like, I don't feel like there's the
Speaker 1: kind of adjusting and now that I kind of live
Speaker 1: and work out gear most of the day, pretty comfortable, man,
Speaker 1: I don't find myself like adjusting all the time. But
Speaker 1: if you're like more casual and things are just kind
Speaker 1: of I mean, there's a crease there, there's there's all
Speaker 1: sorts of body parts. Sweat, yeah, right, yeah, sweat. Sweat
Speaker 1: was the one I was like, things sometimes things get
Speaker 1: toasted down there, especially in l A. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: a short Canadian, right, I'm a I'm a Canadian. I
Speaker 1: run hot or like, I do better in cold weather,
Speaker 1: and I get in hot weather and I gotta put
Speaker 1: pants on to go to this event, like it's getting toasty.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it needs a rearrangement. Okay, Question number three, Moving
Speaker 1: on from that, here's a fun one for you guys.
Speaker 1: Why do men love boobs? Why do men love boobs man.
Speaker 1: I'll let you take the on this one, buddy. At
Speaker 1: you know, I've I've actually heard. I don't know, this
Speaker 1: is totally uneducated and will probably give me some trouble,
Speaker 1: but I heard there's like some real psychological reasons for that.
Speaker 1: There's something about like those represent life and like giving
Speaker 1: you when you're a baby, like it. It's has one
Speaker 1: of everything you need, right, the liquid, the food, the nutrients, everything,
Speaker 1: And there's something on a really deep psychological level where
Speaker 1: men relate to like you know, and then maybe bigger
Speaker 1: is subconsciously an expression of more life, more nutrients and
Speaker 1: more you know, a visceral sort of survival things. Because
Speaker 1: I love it, I think it sounds great. I would
Speaker 1: actually qualify myself as more of an ass man. So
Speaker 1: I have no idea what that means. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I like what you're saying. The ample
Speaker 1: bosom represents life, I get it. I agree, I agree.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not really necessarily speaking of a personal experience.
Speaker 1: This is just like some conversations I've heard, so um,
Speaker 1: it's it's just I I don't I don't think about
Speaker 1: that one Bart. That's not what I side with. I
Speaker 1: just find it extremely attractive. Yeah, it is just let's real,
Speaker 1: it's just extremely provocative and attractive and beautiful, now, is it?
Speaker 1: Is it? Because it's so I mean, it is sort
Speaker 1: of represents the female figure, right, because that's not really
Speaker 1: a thing a man has, like and if he does that,
Speaker 1: you know, you got rock hard pet But it's like
Speaker 1: not like the soft sort of like you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a very it's very femine. It's a very Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a very feminine representation like that that it just
Speaker 1: gives off to me. It gives off a feminine energy
Speaker 1: that's just really attracting. Yeah, I agree, I think that's too. Definitely. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: all right, next question, why don't men like us getting
Speaker 1: advice talking about them with our friends? Why do men
Speaker 1: not like when women talk about their man with their
Speaker 1: friends and getting advice about them from their friends. I
Speaker 1: think it depends on the friends. You know. If it's
Speaker 1: a if it's a friend that like I'm close with two,
Speaker 1: then I'll be I'll probably be a little more open
Speaker 1: to the idea because I feel like that person also
Speaker 1: has my back. But if it's someone who I don't
Speaker 1: like or someone who I don't know, and it's like ndom,
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, who the hell is this person? Commenty?
Speaker 1: I mean, I hi? And then I also I also
Speaker 1: feel like there's a bit you know, guys, I think
Speaker 1: in large part we're secure, but we're also you know,
Speaker 1: when it comes to relationships, we have our insecurities, and
Speaker 1: I think that at the end of the day, you know,
Speaker 1: you really don't want those put out there for you know,
Speaker 1: the viewing public. You want that to be something that
Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of it's it's a personal thing
Speaker 1: or a private thing, and if it's gonna be out there,
Speaker 1: you want to put it out there. So if it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, if I do something that annoys the hell
Speaker 1: out of her, I'd like to be the one that goes, man,
Speaker 1: I've been really messing up by annoyed the hell out
Speaker 1: of her because blah blah blah, and I've done this before.
Speaker 1: This is a try and true move, and her was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know. I mean, this kind of leads
Speaker 1: into the question for me if guys friends with girls
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like, I was having
Speaker 1: this conversation with my friend earlier today and he's always
Speaker 1: on the spike Rift was really cute girl, and I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: what's going on there. He's like, oh no, dude, we're
Speaker 1: just friends. I'm like, he's a single guy. I'm like, now,
Speaker 1: come on, now, you're telling me if she didn't give
Speaker 1: you the opportunity, you wouldn't jump on that. And he's like,
Speaker 1: you know, well, I'm not saying that. Like so I think,
Speaker 1: like in nately, all of us guys kind of feel
Speaker 1: like we know that the safest guy friend they have
Speaker 1: still like, you know, if he had an opportunity, right,
Speaker 1: So now you're kind of fighting in someone and and
Speaker 1: having this purpose person conversation about your relationship with another guy,
Speaker 1: knowing the guys a little more opportunists that way. You know,
Speaker 1: what about what about a female if she's going to
Speaker 1: like a female old friend for advice. I think it's good.
Speaker 1: I'm all about it, and I think it's great. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not resolutely against guys. I think I just think
Speaker 1: there's like that in the back of your mind. There's
Speaker 1: always a little bit of that. But you know, like
Speaker 1: even if like I'm pretty confident in my relationship and
Speaker 1: which what's awesome is my wife was with a lot
Speaker 1: of guys that were not you know, they were kind
Speaker 1: of insecure, which is always like you know, if you're
Speaker 1: lucky enough to end up with the girl, they came
Speaker 1: out of a lot of bad relationships. Like, hey, I
Speaker 1: feel like a great guy. You don't have to do
Speaker 1: it because but yeah, I think like we all kind
Speaker 1: of know, right, we all kind of look back of
Speaker 1: our head. Yeah, I think it's Um, I think it's
Speaker 1: like what I think I agree with Bob on you
Speaker 1: on on this one. It's like you don't know me,
Speaker 1: Like who's do you have? One? Is that? Do you
Speaker 1: have respect for the person who's offering the advice and
Speaker 1: are they offering opinion or are they offering advice? And
Speaker 1: I think that's a big change. Like I have great
Speaker 1: friends that I go to for things, and one of
Speaker 1: my buddies in general, Um, he is so good is
Speaker 1: he doesn't offer the just an opinion And this is
Speaker 1: what I think. He just listens and asks really good
Speaker 1: questions and helps me come to my answer versus like
Speaker 1: telling me exactly what I think I want to hear?
Speaker 1: What what my telling me what his opinion is? He's like,
Speaker 1: what are you feeling? What do you think about it,
Speaker 1: what if it went this way? Um? And so I
Speaker 1: really respect him. I really respect people that don't just
Speaker 1: solicit opinions when they ask questions, they actually like trying
Speaker 1: to help you arise to the answer. Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1: I think I get piste off when somebody goes to
Speaker 1: somebody and somebody offers their opinion on me, and I'm like, all, man,
Speaker 1: you don't even know me, you don't even you don't
Speaker 1: know what's going on. There's more to it. You're here
Speaker 1: on one side of it. Don't sway this into something
Speaker 1: it's not you. I like the analogy when people talk about,
Speaker 1: you know, relationships and they aw, I say, I don't
Speaker 1: know if they always say it, but it's something that
Speaker 1: stuck with me for a long time. But there's three
Speaker 1: sides every story. There's her side, his side, and the
Speaker 1: true So you know, you you talk each party. Each
Speaker 1: party's got their own slant. It's kind of like we're
Speaker 1: talking about with text messages out. You know, so much
Speaker 1: can be said through a text message and you can
Speaker 1: read it one way when I meant at one totally
Speaker 1: different way. But it's like you got your side and
Speaker 1: the side and the truth. So somewhere in the middle there.
Speaker 1: If you have someone like your buddy, who you know,
Speaker 1: it's really good at asking a lot of questions and
Speaker 1: just sort of you know, playing both ends a little
Speaker 1: bit to kind of and I mean that in a
Speaker 1: positive way, like playing both ends where sort of defending Well,
Speaker 1: maybe he meant it this way. You know, that's actually
Speaker 1: helpful and probably does both sides of that relationship a
Speaker 1: lot of good. But you're like, you know, to be
Speaker 1: a lot different. Of course. Have you guys ever been
Speaker 1: in a conversation where you're maybe complaining about your significant
Speaker 1: other and and you're like, yeah, man, you know, well
Speaker 1: you just kind of bad mouth and him, and they say, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: you know it's really not cool. You know, they kind
Speaker 1: of start piling on. You're like, wait a minute, my
Speaker 1: wife you're talking about I can say that you don't understand,
Speaker 1: you don't understand she's coming. You start it does That's true? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's true. It is so true. Um okay, next question,
Speaker 1: why do men leave toothpaste remnants in the sink and
Speaker 1: leave kitchen drawers and cabinets open whatever? Animals? No, that's
Speaker 1: not that's not me man. I am super o C D.
Speaker 1: About stuff. I clean everything, so I would say I
Speaker 1: would I would say why does my wife do those things?
Speaker 1: Like I literally today I was walking around going what
Speaker 1: in the hell happened in here? You know? And I
Speaker 1: was like, dank, I'm like what you know? And uh,
Speaker 1: I have I have darker hair, she's got blonde hair,
Speaker 1: and finding blonde hair. Everyone like, what is he shedding?
Speaker 1: What's going on? You know? Yeah? I can't answer that
Speaker 1: one because I I am super CD about that stuff.
Speaker 1: I gotta say that's not really an issue around our
Speaker 1: house either. Now, what is an issue is I have
Speaker 1: a tendency to not do the dishes, like and I
Speaker 1: don't mean to be disrespectful or anything else, but if
Speaker 1: there's a pile of dishes in there, I just doesn't register.
Speaker 1: I just walked in the other room and my wife
Speaker 1: is like, how can you? And then she'll test me.
Speaker 1: She'll leave it for three days. She's like, it's been
Speaker 1: sitting there, and you walk by it and you make
Speaker 1: food and see them there, you just walk away like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what that is? Yeah,
Speaker 1: for a reason right that you can just keep using it? Oh, bart,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if we could be roommates, buddy, UM,
Speaker 1: because I aligned, I aligned with Bob. I'm O C
Speaker 1: D on like cleanliness. UM, and I have one buddy
Speaker 1: in particular that every time he comes to visit, when
Speaker 1: you talk about the toothpaste in the sink, the entire faucet,
Speaker 1: everything is just toothpaste. And he was here for like
Speaker 1: four days and I'm like, how do you do this?
Speaker 1: How do you not even see that and give it
Speaker 1: a wife? I don't know why guys do that. I
Speaker 1: have no idea. I wish I could answer it, but
Speaker 1: they're just I think unaware or maybe they think that's
Speaker 1: just something that can be dirty. But I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: the same as Bob. I'm just like O C D. Well. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: so so now this is interesting because um, I feel
Speaker 1: the same way about toothpaste. Like I like to probably
Speaker 1: cap on there. I'd like to have, you know, like
Speaker 1: I have a couple of kids, and when there's tooth
Speaker 1: pastes in there're like, why are you guys? And I
Speaker 1: just I see that it really bothers me. I can't
Speaker 1: walk away from that. But dishes like, what's what's my problem?
Speaker 1: Why would I be able to walk away from one
Speaker 1: and not the other. I don't know dishes. The thing
Speaker 1: about dishes is like the sink is always like six
Speaker 1: inches from the dishwasher. So like if you can put
Speaker 1: your if you can put your dishes in the sink,
Speaker 1: it's take another six inches and put them in the dishwasher.
Speaker 1: Like really, it's right there. No, you know what, I don't.
Speaker 1: I'll admit something and just hope and pray my wife
Speaker 1: never hears this. I feel it means so much to
Speaker 1: her when I do it. So why in the world
Speaker 1: when I not just make that part of my lifestyle
Speaker 1: of like, you know, before I go to bed at night,
Speaker 1: go make sure it's all done. And a matter of fact,
Speaker 1: you know, guys, I'm gonna tell you what, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: make a commitment right here, right now. This is a
Speaker 1: new thing for me that I'm doing the dishes every
Speaker 1: night before I go to bed. Guys, inspired it here first.
Speaker 1: That's right. You're You're welcome. Bart's wife. You are welcome.
Speaker 1: Thank you a better man today. Hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: I will be rewarded plenty for that because she loves it,
Speaker 1: and she so much, so why wouldn't I do it?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do it. I do it.
Speaker 1: That's I love it. Okay, next question, why do some
Speaker 1: men hate makeup on women? Mm hmmm, I don't hate
Speaker 1: makeup on women. I I you know, I feel like
Speaker 1: too much. If it looks like a freak show, like
Speaker 1: you know, Elvira walking in all the time, I'm probably
Speaker 1: not loving that. But maybe excess makeup. Maybe maybe maybe
Speaker 1: the question should be why do men yeah, I hate
Speaker 1: too much or excess makeup on women? You know what?
Speaker 1: Maybe that's maybe that's what's testing about this is that
Speaker 1: they think the issue is you don't have to wear makeup.
Speaker 1: But really you can't say I don't like how you
Speaker 1: do your makeup, or you put on too much makeup
Speaker 1: or you know, like lots of to do this like crazy,
Speaker 1: I still like, like like too much. Yeah, but that's
Speaker 1: the exact thing if you say that, If you say,
Speaker 1: like you were too much makeup, that's like you're asking
Speaker 1: for But if you say, hey, you don't need makeup, also,
Speaker 1: you also can't say, wow, you're really garbage you're putting
Speaker 1: on your makeup. You can't say that. So no, but
Speaker 1: I mean and my wife like you put great with makeup.
Speaker 1: It doesn't like she's not a different person when she
Speaker 1: shows up. But it's great, it's amazing. I think that's
Speaker 1: always a complaint, right, Like you always think, well, you know,
Speaker 1: you don't want to go to bed with one person
Speaker 1: and wake up and they look totally different because they're
Speaker 1: makeup is laying on your pillow, you know. So I
Speaker 1: get that part of it for sure, But I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a nice natural way. And then and then you know,
Speaker 1: on a more formal night, maybe they doll it up
Speaker 1: a little bit more and but it's still you know,
Speaker 1: still looks like them. Well that's awesome. But I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I seen some stuff online or like, you know, it's
Speaker 1: like this transformation you know, from like one thing into
Speaker 1: the next one. You're just like, oh my god. You know,
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine, right, I would hate that. I
Speaker 1: would hate that. But you know, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: just what you're saying. But I'm kind of realizing, like
Speaker 1: the women that are kind of addicting to it, or
Speaker 1: they don't want to go outside, or they start to
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. I think that's something that we don't like
Speaker 1: to see. Like I hate to see insecurity and people
Speaker 1: you know, so if they feel like, oh, like you know,
Speaker 1: I gotta I can't show up there without you know,
Speaker 1: all the stuff. It's like you don't need that. I
Speaker 1: mean you don't need like I think it's like a
Speaker 1: guy like women. They're beautiful, like innately, like they're just
Speaker 1: beautiful in general. And you want to get like super
Speaker 1: clammed out one night, who awesome? Do it? But you
Speaker 1: don't you don't need it, right right? Yeah, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: a I'm a big fan. Like Bob said, I'm a
Speaker 1: big fan of like the natural. Like just I think
Speaker 1: makeup can enhance a little beauty. But I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: a fan of like natural makeup. I don't like it
Speaker 1: to be like a real production of makeup just not
Speaker 1: my thing. I'm just not as attracted to that. I
Speaker 1: like realness. Like you said, Bart, I think women are
Speaker 1: naturally beautiful. Um. And then yeah, just like for me,
Speaker 1: I think if they put on a lot of makeup,
Speaker 1: it's at least in a relationship. I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 1: If you're putting on a lot of makeup, it's not
Speaker 1: for me, it's for somebody else. Because my preference is
Speaker 1: less makeup, just a more natural look. Um. So I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't. I just don't like the
Speaker 1: I don't like excess makeup. Just you don't need it, right, Yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: next question real one eight here, Why do you guys
Speaker 1: take so long to poop? What do you guys take
Speaker 1: so long too? Why are you in the crapper for
Speaker 1: twenty minutes? Bob? You know, for me, I can honestly
Speaker 1: say with my son and my wife that it's kind
Speaker 1: of like it's me time, you know, not in there.
Speaker 1: I'm not working the whole time I'm in there. I
Speaker 1: might just be relaxing, you know. I might just be
Speaker 1: I don't know, reading or alone in my thoughts and yeah,
Speaker 1: my life until I until I literally can't stand up,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, maybe it's not maybe it's time. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I enjoy I enjoy it because no one's allowed to
Speaker 1: bug you in there, so like technically it is sort
Speaker 1: of a golden rule, although my wife really doesn't follow it,
Speaker 1: but it's like, you know, if you're in there, it
Speaker 1: means business and uh, you know, please hold all conversations
Speaker 1: and requests until I return. That's how I feel. Do
Speaker 1: you guys see that movie with Paul Rudd? And he's
Speaker 1: in the bathroom playing jewel and his wife is outside seeing.
Speaker 1: You know he's in there. I know he's cheating on me,
Speaker 1: he's doing what are you what are you looking at
Speaker 1: in there? He's like, I just want I just want
Speaker 1: a piece of quiet. Man just wants a long time.
Speaker 1: What Bob said, I want some betime right now. Man,
Speaker 1: It's just something about the chaos of you know, your
Speaker 1: day and you're moving around the house, You've got kids
Speaker 1: and just stuff happening. You're going there. You could just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm a special Yeah, yeah, I love it. Okay. Follow
Speaker 1: follow up question, follow up? We should we should have
Speaker 1: done this from there. Follow up question to that, Um,
Speaker 1: what's your go to platform or when you're like, because
Speaker 1: you're probably on your phone when you're taking a number two?
Speaker 1: Is it Twitter? Is it Instagram? What are you doing
Speaker 1: on the phone? Are you reading? What is it? I
Speaker 1: read the news. I think I read some news items,
Speaker 1: you know. I think I play a little video, like
Speaker 1: a little pong, like this little pong game. I I yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I have a
Speaker 1: guaranteed go to I definitely check a lot lately. I'm
Speaker 1: setting my fantasy football lineup. I'm making trades, you know,
Speaker 1: part what's your go to? Uh? You know, i'd say
Speaker 1: this last month news and I cannot wait to be
Speaker 1: done with that and I'm just gonna delete it all
Speaker 1: off my phone and get back to the important stuff,
Speaker 1: which is like TikTok and kind of that's my new
Speaker 1: kind of love right now. Like three covid everybody told me, like,
Speaker 1: you know, TikTok man, So I started doing it and
Speaker 1: it's just been such a blast. I'm kind of addicted
Speaker 1: to it. And it's got like this brilliant algorithm, so
Speaker 1: it kind of finds out what you're interested in and
Speaker 1: sends you, you know, do you really like to see?
Speaker 1: So it's pretty great. Man. Yeah, I'm I'm a I'm
Speaker 1: a Twitter guy. I'll get on Twitter and like he's
Speaker 1: I'm reading news like Bobby you read news, Um, bar
Speaker 1: you read political news. I would do that as well.
Speaker 1: I'm usually if I'm in in the bathroom in the
Speaker 1: water closet there, I'm probably on Twitter. Is my kind
Speaker 1: of go to. Yeah. Um, alright, moving on, why are
Speaker 1: men such big babies when they get sick? Here again?
Speaker 1: Doesn't to me. I like to be left alone. When
Speaker 1: I'm saying I like, if I'm sick, I'm just like,
Speaker 1: just get away, just give me my space. I'll get through.
Speaker 1: I'm a mind over matter type of guy. Look in
Speaker 1: my mind, I take pretty care of myself, so I'm
Speaker 1: always like I'll get through that. Do not need someone
Speaker 1: doating on me. And for some reason, I get irritated
Speaker 1: by someone being almost too nice to me. Like my
Speaker 1: wife used to like try to take care of me.
Speaker 1: I I got fine, So now she's just like, well, whatever, dude,
Speaker 1: you have fun. Yeah, it doesn't apply to me, although
Speaker 1: she'll tell people it does, but then in secrets she'll
Speaker 1: be like, I know, I'm just trying to fit in.
Speaker 1: That's why you know. I'm with Bob on this one.
Speaker 1: I just, uh, I like to feel like I could
Speaker 1: take care of myself, like I might have to just
Speaker 1: you know, kind of put myself in the cave for
Speaker 1: a couple of days wet it out. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: is kind of nice to get the you know, little
Speaker 1: extra treatment or you know, some food brought to you
Speaker 1: or whatever. And my wife is awesome about that stuff,
Speaker 1: and I probably appreciate it way more then I want
Speaker 1: to admit. Yeah, that's kind of nice because I'm never
Speaker 1: in that position. I don't know, just there's something very
Speaker 1: sweet about it. Yeah, I'd say that's probably part of
Speaker 1: it is guys, like, all of a sudden, guys now
Speaker 1: have a reason to be nurtured. And I think guys,
Speaker 1: grown men even still like to be nurtured from time
Speaker 1: to time, and and maybe most often is the cases.
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't get that. Maybe guys don't get that.
Speaker 1: Maybe they're always looking after other people, after career, after family,
Speaker 1: after kids, after friends doing something, and now this is
Speaker 1: maybe an opportunity for them to be nurtured and to
Speaker 1: be loved. So maybe that's why guys do it. When
Speaker 1: I get sick, it's like I'm in bed sleeping, Like
Speaker 1: I don't just get slightly sick. I get violently sick
Speaker 1: once every three years. Then that's it. So like I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm just like sleeping and then when I wake up,
Speaker 1: please God just feed me. That's it and I'll be happy. Man, Well,
Speaker 1: let me ask you, guys, do you what do you
Speaker 1: what about when you get hurt, when you steeve smash
Speaker 1: your thumb with a hammer or something, and people like, okay,
Speaker 1: are you okay, Hey, are you okay? Are you okay?
Speaker 1: Do you guys just want to just stop talking to
Speaker 1: me for a minute. Oh man, I hate when people
Speaker 1: want to check in with the mixture. I'm okay right now.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no pain, leave me alone totally. Um, Okay,
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. I don't I don't get
Speaker 1: this one, but a listener wanted to ask him, why
Speaker 1: did Jeffrey Tuban do that? Who's Jeffrey ta oh Man?
Speaker 1: He's yeah, he's the guy that was caught. Uh he
Speaker 1: was masturbating in a zoom call. It worked, it is
Speaker 1: off and yeah, yeah, I missed this one on Twitter.
Speaker 1: I must have been in the bathroom lately. I don't know.
Speaker 1: But do you know, I don't know, if you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know the details, like he left his camera
Speaker 1: on and the kid the computer was facing him and
Speaker 1: they people saw it. And yeah, I read the article
Speaker 1: in the York Post and it said that he uh
Speaker 1: apparently they they they assumed or maybe somehow they figured
Speaker 1: out that he was actually had two calls going. So
Speaker 1: he had his work call and then he also had
Speaker 1: like maybe a phone sex type of call going, or
Speaker 1: you know, a chat room type of thing going on,
Speaker 1: and uh, he I mean, it just it just blows
Speaker 1: my mind because I'm the first going to admit that
Speaker 1: if I'm doing anything work related, I am not even remotely,
Speaker 1: not even And they were doing like a political type
Speaker 1: of simulation. So he was like, I mean, how do
Speaker 1: you think, oh, yeah, you know that I would be
Speaker 1: a good time. I mean, my guess. And by the way, Brook,
Speaker 1: he was at his office. He wasn't at home where
Speaker 1: you think, oh, you know, COVID is kind of throwing
Speaker 1: us all off. We're at home doing our home stuff.
Speaker 1: This time, is it? Is? It? Is it? Okay, that's
Speaker 1: a new one for me. I have no idea why
Speaker 1: he did that. Maybe uh maybe it's really stressed. Maybe
Speaker 1: COVID just had a really stressed I don't know. I
Speaker 1: gotta saying about that. So I was thinking about this
Speaker 1: the other night, and I even said to my wife,
Speaker 1: I'm like, now, it's one thing, you know, with cutbacks
Speaker 1: and things that are happening, you know, across the globe
Speaker 1: right now, to have to come home during a time
Speaker 1: like this and say, honey, I lost my job, Like
Speaker 1: that's really bad to have to have that, But imagine
Speaker 1: multiply it by a billion when I lost my job
Speaker 1: because on the job I wanted doing this. And it's
Speaker 1: like all of his coworkers know, like it goes by
Speaker 1: viral immediately. It's like, oh my god, who's ever gonna
Speaker 1: hire this guy again? You know, it's like univable. Well,
Speaker 1: apparently it's been really outspoken in the past about any
Speaker 1: sort of sexual misconduct in the workplace, like and and
Speaker 1: I saw one click before he said, oh someone, you know,
Speaker 1: if a kid doesn't his life should be rude. And
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that didn't age. Well, see something
Speaker 1: thou doth protest too much? Yeah, I don't men? And
Speaker 1: why don't men know what women want unless they're told?
Speaker 1: Why can men not read bonds? Uh? I can honestly
Speaker 1: tell you that that is very true. Week at least
Speaker 1: I cannot um And I don't necessarily I don't want
Speaker 1: to because every time I try, even if I get
Speaker 1: it right, I'm in the ballpark of being right, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I'd rather just get it
Speaker 1: straight from the horse's mouth, not calling my wife a
Speaker 1: horse because she's very lovely, and but horses are all
Speaker 1: the lovely. But I mean, I I would rather not
Speaker 1: try to guess what I'm supposed to do. I would
Speaker 1: rather just be like, hey, listen, I don't feel happy
Speaker 1: about this because of this, and I can go, oh, alright, cool.
Speaker 1: I just won't do that anymore. You know. It's like
Speaker 1: that that's simple enough. But if I gets try to
Speaker 1: figure out what's making you tick, and then you know,
Speaker 1: I mean we you know, we're talked about this last week,
Speaker 1: but it's like there's about seventeen different scenarios going hang
Speaker 1: on a woman's head at any given time, according to
Speaker 1: women that we both know and love. So it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, if if that's going on, how am I
Speaker 1: gotta figure out which one I'm gonna fish too? And
Speaker 1: I think that's the right one, you know, Uh yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I think women are just they're they're a
Speaker 1: lot more sensitive, right, I mean, they're they're they're more aware,
Speaker 1: and uh, I just feel like I'm a dummy sometimes.
Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm thinking about my own needs, and
Speaker 1: you know, I try to do the right thing all
Speaker 1: the time. I tried to be proactive and you know,
Speaker 1: be a good dad and be a good husband, and
Speaker 1: just I think I'm just don't pick up on the
Speaker 1: small cues you know, the other night we went to
Speaker 1: a restaurant and my wife got all dolled up, and
Speaker 1: I didn't say a word when she showed up. And
Speaker 1: I remember thinking in my head like, why great, I mean,
Speaker 1: my wife awesome, And she was dressed nice, she's like,
Speaker 1: she fit, and she looked beautiful. I thought in my head,
Speaker 1: didn't say a word. And then the couple we were with,
Speaker 1: the wife says, wow, Rob, when you look amazing, and
Speaker 1: I was like, God, what's wrong with me? I thought,
Speaker 1: I heard myself say in my head, I know I
Speaker 1: meant it. I didn't say yeah, and again yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: I get in trouble for that a lot. Like come
Speaker 1: home and she's like, the house looks immaculate, looks beautiful,
Speaker 1: and she's spent all day cleaning and I and I
Speaker 1: love I love keeping stuff clean and straight and tidy
Speaker 1: and everything. But I'll come in and I'll be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, same thing. I mean, honestly, I walk
Speaker 1: out and go the house looks awesome, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it smells so clean in here. Yeah, And She'll be
Speaker 1: sitting there looking at me like really nothing, yeah, And
Speaker 1: I won't realize it until she tells me there really
Speaker 1: nothing line that I realized, Oh my god, that wasn't
Speaker 1: my outside, you know, and I was too late. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You appreciate it when you walk to him
Speaker 1: like no, now, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if
Speaker 1: the house is clean. I also think there's just some
Speaker 1: like crazy amazing coincidence when this happens, because a lot
Speaker 1: of time, I think men do pick up on the
Speaker 1: little things. Man, our present men do know what their
Speaker 1: wives or their partners want. But then the time when
Speaker 1: you don't, The time when you don't is a massive miss.
Speaker 1: It's a massive miss just what you guys were talking about,
Speaker 1: and it just it lands like like a rolling thunder.
Speaker 1: So um, I think man to stick up for my dudes.
Speaker 1: I think guys you know, are very aware of what
Speaker 1: women want. But I will say that, yeah, we're not
Speaker 1: mine readers, and we do miss stuff. That is true.
Speaker 1: We do miss things from time to time. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think it'd be nice if you just had a canned
Speaker 1: every time if you've been gone for a day or
Speaker 1: two or whatever you might do and you come home,
Speaker 1: you're like, did you do something different with your hair?
Speaker 1: If you just said that, Even if you don't think
Speaker 1: anything is different with their hair and be like, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: actually you know because nine times I said they have
Speaker 1: done something with their hair. So maybe if that's like
Speaker 1: a can response that you open with, you look super
Speaker 1: caring and really, you know, insightful, and I think you're
Speaker 1: I think you're onto something, Bob. You know, I never
Speaker 1: missed working out, like I don't forget to work out
Speaker 1: in a day. So I mean, if it was, if
Speaker 1: I knew that was, I know that's important and I
Speaker 1: don't miss and I know the other things in my
Speaker 1: life are important. You know. The irony is like we're
Speaker 1: talking about, I think through your guys here that care
Speaker 1: deeply about the relationships and about their women, and and
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things in my life I don't
Speaker 1: rate a ten, but my family and my relationship with
Speaker 1: my wife is literally not my finnite. That's my career, money,
Speaker 1: nothing nothing else gets attend, but my relationships attend. And
Speaker 1: I still make these mistakes, right, Yeah, it's not intentional, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not. Why can't guys stay mad at each other?
Speaker 1: Not worth it? I don't know why that's a question.
Speaker 1: Why can't guys stay mad at it? Why? Why should we?
Speaker 1: My question like, honestly, I think I am always like
Speaker 1: my friendship is more important. So if I'm if at me,
Speaker 1: you know, I would never in a million years would
Speaker 1: I ever stress a friendship over money, over you know,
Speaker 1: anything like that. I mean, you know, it's like it's
Speaker 1: always like, oh, I'll pay the extra, don't worry, you know,
Speaker 1: or whatever. And it's not that it's not that I
Speaker 1: can afford it more than someone else. But in my
Speaker 1: mind it's like, well, we're not We're not gonna argue
Speaker 1: about it. Here, just take take this. Let me give
Speaker 1: me my change back. I try. You know, I would
Speaker 1: never get mad about that kind of stuff that I
Speaker 1: certainly I think we all give the benefit of the
Speaker 1: doubt probably a lot more to each other. I never
Speaker 1: think that a hidden agenda. I never think there's a
Speaker 1: a motive. I'm always like, oh, you didn't mean it
Speaker 1: that way. Like I literally I do that all the time.
Speaker 1: I probably say that other times a week, but I
Speaker 1: say it about everybody. You know. My wife would be like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe Debbie did this, and I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I've got Debbie actually, and she's like, let
Speaker 1: me have a moment. You know what I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well, it seems like that all these
Speaker 1: questions up to this one have been uh, kind of
Speaker 1: negative treats, like why do men do these negative things?
Speaker 1: This one's like, hey, this one, I'll own this one.
Speaker 1: This is great. I think it's I mean, it's wonderful.
Speaker 1: I could have the ugliest fight with my friends, or
Speaker 1: I have two brothers and we'll fight like crazy and
Speaker 1: it gets ugly, and the next day it's like go surfing,
Speaker 1: like it never happens. Yeah, And I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's by like some brilliant design necessarily or
Speaker 1: digging deep to do something really spectacular. It's just just
Speaker 1: in our DNA. It just kind of happened, right. I agree.
Speaker 1: I think so too. I think guys building somewhat of
Speaker 1: a buffer for guys. It's just like it's like he's
Speaker 1: a guy, you know, like there's like there's a there's
Speaker 1: a girl. There's a certain amount of grace that we're
Speaker 1: gonna allow other guys. It's like it's like I do
Speaker 1: with my dog. Like my dog could come running in
Speaker 1: the house, filthy, right out of the lake, filthy and
Speaker 1: shake off right in the house and somebody's like, why
Speaker 1: is he doing that? I'm like, he's a boy, you know,
Speaker 1: he's just there's is this. Yeah, there's a certain grace
Speaker 1: that guys give other guys. It's just like, yeah, he
Speaker 1: just didn't he forgot about it. Yeah, he just he's busy.
Speaker 1: He's just like, I don't know, guys building that buffer
Speaker 1: for other guys. I that is interesting, you know. I Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: go ahead, part what you got now. I was just
Speaker 1: gonna say I might go a little bit of a
Speaker 1: fight with my wife recently, and I had a hard
Speaker 1: time bouncing back, much harder than with a guy. And
Speaker 1: like not to be like, you know, softer or anything,
Speaker 1: but like I think like it because it was like
Speaker 1: so emotional, like it it hurt me kind of like
Speaker 1: on a deeper level, you know. And maybe I took
Speaker 1: it I don't know, personal, or maybe that's because I'm
Speaker 1: a little insecure in that area a little bit, you know,
Speaker 1: because it's you know, we're vulnerable when we're talking about
Speaker 1: emotions and our feelings and who we love and and uh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know why it just had a
Speaker 1: harder time bouncing back. Yeah, yeah, I've been there. Um, Okay,
Speaker 1: moving on from that, why do men have a bad
Speaker 1: attitude for the rest of the day when their teams loses?
Speaker 1: So when your Lions lose, Bob, why are you piste
Speaker 1: off the rest of the day? I love you. I
Speaker 1: was literally just getting ready to say I spent about
Speaker 1: an entire NFL season pissed off. Yeah, as as a
Speaker 1: Detroit Lions fan, you know, we're not really we're not
Speaker 1: allowed to feel good during football season. It's not you know,
Speaker 1: I don't really know what this lovely listener is mentioning.
Speaker 1: I've never not felt bad after our game, so uh,
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm probably more emotionally invested. I played
Speaker 1: football in college, and so I'm more emotionally invested in
Speaker 1: in in how Michigan State does than I am about
Speaker 1: the Detroit Lions. But the Detroit Lions are That's my squad,
Speaker 1: you know. So it's like like, yeah, you know, it's
Speaker 1: I think it's one of those things that I always
Speaker 1: think as a Lions fan. Anyway, There's been articles abound
Speaker 1: that I've read where it's actually like a psychological disorder
Speaker 1: that we always think this is the year, you know,
Speaker 1: for the for the Lion. You guys always like this
Speaker 1: is it. I know we're finally doing it. Man, we
Speaker 1: got this going on, this one on And I mean
Speaker 1: I have probably said in a million time, and all
Speaker 1: my buddies laugh at me to calm the lie downs
Speaker 1: instead of the Lions, and even my districtor and I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm just getting all pissed off about it. But ultimately,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of fry that goes into your sports teams.
Speaker 1: And you know, I mean, for ifat matter Brooks like
Speaker 1: my Red Wings, you know, I mean I'm a big
Speaker 1: Red Wings guy. Like you know, they at least give
Speaker 1: me something to cheer about. You know, my Lions just don't.
Speaker 1: So you know, when they said the NFL was coming back,
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, Okay, you know, I'm excited
Speaker 1: to watch the Seahawks win. I'm excited to see the
Speaker 1: teams playing, right, but you know, I'm not so excited
Speaker 1: to watch the Lions losing. Bart What about you, this
Speaker 1: one doesn't really doesn't really apply to me. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I think. Uh, I get really upset,
Speaker 1: especially if I'm there in the stadium like full emotional,
Speaker 1: you know, all that kind of stuff. But like I
Speaker 1: walk out and get some food. I'm good like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't carry with me. That's not one of my
Speaker 1: I got plenty of problems. I got plant issues. Like
Speaker 1: you know, I guess I'm happy. Um, I gotta I
Speaker 1: gotta try something onnenter size here. See if you guys,
Speaker 1: see if it resonates with you. Um. I'm reading this
Speaker 1: book called Together, and it's talking about different kinds of
Speaker 1: connection for people. There's three different kinds of connection. There's
Speaker 1: an intimate connection, which is like your partner or your wife.
Speaker 1: There's a relational connection, which is like friends and stuff,
Speaker 1: and then there's a collective connection, which is being part
Speaker 1: of something moving forward. And I think guys, a lot
Speaker 1: of guys want to be part of the collective, part
Speaker 1: of like Lion nation or sea hawk nation. They want
Speaker 1: to be part of something um because maybe they don't
Speaker 1: experience that in their life in the collective um with
Speaker 1: their part of their family, which is a smaller I
Speaker 1: shouldn't say smaller. Smaller is the wrong term, but it's
Speaker 1: not part of a mass group. So there's family, there's
Speaker 1: work kind of thing. But then when they get to
Speaker 1: be fans of a sports team, they're part of the collective,
Speaker 1: the city, the Hawks, nation, Seahawks, whatever, They're part of
Speaker 1: something bigger, and so I think then when when the
Speaker 1: team loses, it can affect that part of their connection.
Speaker 1: Sure they does that make sense or not? Am I am?
Speaker 1: I grasping at straws there and my growing in the
Speaker 1: dark sense to anybody? I think? I mean that that
Speaker 1: makes sense to me. I mean, you know, I will
Speaker 1: say I'm a I'm a lot like part in that.
Speaker 1: I think I've gotten so used to it with my
Speaker 1: lions that we're just gonna lose that. I I literally
Speaker 1: at the you know, I leave in the third quarter
Speaker 1: while we're still leaning lines do and then my mind,
Speaker 1: I think it's sunny outside, it's a great day, let's
Speaker 1: get some cocktails, and I forget, you know, I forget
Speaker 1: that we lost in the fourth quarter. So but yeah,
Speaker 1: I do get it. It makes sense that, you know,
Speaker 1: you want to be something part of something bigger. And
Speaker 1: you know, I always say that if the lines that
Speaker 1: were making to the super Bowl, there's no way I'm
Speaker 1: not there, you know, But I guess that I like
Speaker 1: I like the subject and I've I've actually spent a
Speaker 1: lot of time thinking about this and I think it's
Speaker 1: interesting because we need to feel significant, and when you
Speaker 1: have a significant other that stills a lot of your needs.
Speaker 1: Well you know, not everybody has a significant other, and
Speaker 1: so you need to feel um, you need that connection
Speaker 1: and you need that significant and it can be I
Speaker 1: think it could be proactive. It could also be negative. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I've I've read this thing about like there's
Speaker 1: there's a reason why a lot of young kids that
Speaker 1: don't have family end up in GAG because as soon
Speaker 1: as you join a gang, you're very significant, you're part
Speaker 1: of something, you get the tattoo, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: you go do things that are dangerous or scary, and
Speaker 1: you're you're bonding with with people. So I'm not to
Speaker 1: be a downer here, but like, I think there's like
Speaker 1: those kind of things. But then there's you know, really
Speaker 1: positive ones like family, like you know, embracing your family
Speaker 1: and having really strong family relationships, or or really fun
Speaker 1: ones like being a part of a and watching your
Speaker 1: team and and being a part of that that group.
Speaker 1: But there's something about that, I don't know that that
Speaker 1: connection you get that significant. I would also say I'd
Speaker 1: also say, like good on guys for having some emotion,
Speaker 1: you know, because you could be completely unemotional, You could
Speaker 1: become completely unemotionable. Every an emotional about everything in your life. Uh,
Speaker 1: we won today, we lost today. It's a nice day.
Speaker 1: It's raining out. Like what, like, what do you want? Like?
Speaker 1: At least the guy is showing some emotion. He wants
Speaker 1: to be part of something and like it matters to him.
Speaker 1: At least he can see that there's a heartbeat in there.
Speaker 1: You know that the guy has a heartbeat. He's invested,
Speaker 1: he's passionate about something. Now does it have to ruin
Speaker 1: your entire day? Maybe not, Maybe take ten minutes and
Speaker 1: then let's move on, because you didn't play it down
Speaker 1: you watched it on TV, you know. But but I
Speaker 1: do like that people invest, And especially as somebody that
Speaker 1: played sports, I love when our fans invest personally in
Speaker 1: what we're doing because they are a part of us.
Speaker 1: It's not us winning the game, it's all of us.
Speaker 1: It's a collective. It's the city. We represent the city,
Speaker 1: the whole area, And so I love when people actually
Speaker 1: step forward with their heart to be there with us.
Speaker 1: It builds a bigger army than just our team. So
Speaker 1: I actually love it that that guy is getting invested. Um.
Speaker 1: I heard something really interesting about the significance of going
Speaker 1: to a stadium and connecting with strangers, people you don't
Speaker 1: know and you can and that's why, Like, it's kind
Speaker 1: of nice. There's no politics, there's no you know, preconceived
Speaker 1: judgments or anything like you can beat there's no it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter the race, color, creed of of the person
Speaker 1: next to you. You are a hundred percent brothers man,
Speaker 1: don't you the way you're watching the game, Like, dude,
Speaker 1: I don't care what this person pullaves in and next
Speaker 1: to me that's my brother. Yeah, it's part of the
Speaker 1: collect on a really deep level, like having this like
Speaker 1: emotional experience together, which I think is a really beautiful thing,
Speaker 1: especially in two thousand twenty and all the politics and
Speaker 1: everything going on. It's so polarizing and we have to
Speaker 1: think like, oh, if your ideas don't perfectly align with
Speaker 1: my ideas, then I hate And it's like you just
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about this person, but he's standing
Speaker 1: next to me. I mean, do you know you like
Speaker 1: you hug people in your high five? You don't know
Speaker 1: this guy, but like you love them. Yeah, yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: speaking of connection, why do men want se x? Twenty
Speaker 1: four seven? Or is that a misconception? Do men want sex? Seven?
Speaker 1: You know, my wife and I are trying to get
Speaker 1: pregnant again. And I will tell you that when you're
Speaker 1: when you're supposed to have sex all the time, you
Speaker 1: see me, you seem me At least I'll speak for myself.
Speaker 1: I will make it a generality here, But I literally
Speaker 1: I think I want sex all the time until I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to have it in this microcosm of this little
Speaker 1: period of time, and I'm just like exhausted. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like that movie She's having a baby
Speaker 1: with Bacon, like you know, whatever turns optimal, you know,
Speaker 1: And You're like, I don't remember those days. Man, those
Speaker 1: are not fun. It's something like something not sexy about that,
Speaker 1: you know, dude. I told I told my wife I
Speaker 1: go community favor. I'm like, I'm I'm stupid, I'm not smart,
Speaker 1: Like trick me. I'm like, do not tell me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just all of a sudden, think I'm super hot in
Speaker 1: that moment and make me feel Yeah, brilliant, Bob, that's
Speaker 1: really I wish I would have thought of that, man,
Speaker 1: So why is it Why is it a misconception that
Speaker 1: men want sex? Is that just a common misconception or
Speaker 1: do men actually want a seven? Well? I think like
Speaker 1: what Bob saying is uh, I think there's some truth
Speaker 1: to that, because men think they want seven, and then
Speaker 1: I think you get it when you get a certain amount,
Speaker 1: you're like okay when they I don't get four seven,
Speaker 1: because we're just always deprived. And when you're deprived, when
Speaker 1: you want it way less than they want it, then
Speaker 1: it feels like it's all I want because I don't
Speaker 1: get it up. Yeah, It's like ice cream or pizza.
Speaker 1: It's like, I think I want pizza all the time.
Speaker 1: I think I could cream constantly. I guess what about
Speaker 1: packed full of a lot of ice cream? My teeth
Speaker 1: are hurting, my head's kind of hurting, and I'm just
Speaker 1: feel it all bloated. I don't. I don't like it's
Speaker 1: team all the time. That's true, man. And I hear
Speaker 1: my friends talk about like, oh yeah, man, you know
Speaker 1: five hours that you know last night. I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do all day now? Exhausted? Special
Speaker 1: occasions you're going out on a trip or something like that,
Speaker 1: But like all the time man all night long, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: like after the first twelve minutes, it was still fun.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never made it that far, so I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm like, I've never hit that far. You
Speaker 1: should try it one time, Bob, like my sting? Am
Speaker 1: I supposed to like sting? I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know that that's just I'm not I'm I guess I'm
Speaker 1: interpreting the question that it's just man that wanted seven.
Speaker 1: But I will say this. I have a friend who
Speaker 1: told me that she always had to have a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: She's like, I have to have a boyfriend because I
Speaker 1: cannot go more than two days without having sex. She's
Speaker 1: just like, I have to have it. I was like
Speaker 1: blown away. I had never seen somebody. She's like, you
Speaker 1: have no idea. I have to have sex every day,
Speaker 1: multiple times a day. And I'm like, wow, I did
Speaker 1: not know. Yeah that was every day. Yeah, she's yeah.
Speaker 1: I was just like. She ended up she ended up
Speaker 1: being my realtor and sold a house for me. Um,
Speaker 1: she was just a friend of mine but sold a
Speaker 1: house for me. But it wasn't really interesting. I just
Speaker 1: never knew that. I always thought, like most guys probably
Speaker 1: guys think that guys have more sex drive, but I
Speaker 1: don't think that's necessarily true. I definitely know that that's
Speaker 1: not true, right, Yeah, Yeah, I think that's true. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was just having this conversation with my friends. I
Speaker 1: don't you know the guest of this quote that that
Speaker 1: women give sex to get love and then give love
Speaker 1: to get sex, which makes me a whole topic, whole
Speaker 1: another topic for probably a whole show. That's interesting. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: how about this one? Why do men hate rom coms?
Speaker 1: I don't relate to that at all. I love coms.
Speaker 1: I love the favorite one? What's your favorite one? Bob Well?
Speaker 1: Got anything old school with Matt Ryan? Uh? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean obviously you go with a win Harry met Sally's
Speaker 1: and sleep List in Seattles and all those, But I
Speaker 1: mean I like them all. I even like the I'll
Speaker 1: dial It, I'm not afraid to say it. I'll sit
Speaker 1: there and watch a Hallmark movie all night long. I
Speaker 1: love that stuff, So that does not apply to me.
Speaker 1: And my wife tricked me into watching The Notebook, but
Speaker 1: which I know does not have the com in the
Speaker 1: rom com and I bawled like a baby. And I
Speaker 1: love that damn thing too. So yeah, I'm totally out
Speaker 1: on this one star I think, you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm an actor, so I kind of like watching everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my favorite, but I mean there's definitely some good I
Speaker 1: guess there's a lot of bad ones though, you know,
Speaker 1: like the genre itself is like there's a recent rom
Speaker 1: coms have to have big A list movie stars and
Speaker 1: that's because people wouldn't go see them if it wasn't
Speaker 1: the part of the student machine, you know, like you
Speaker 1: need that drive so which which is okay. You know,
Speaker 1: there's great actors doing wrong comp so don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: And I love those ones, Bob, you know, sleeps in
Speaker 1: Seattle them And there's some beautiful, but there's some terrible ones. Man,
Speaker 1: there's a terrible it's a terrible Hallmark movies. I've started
Speaker 1: a number of terrible I can't even watch my own
Speaker 1: moue so bad. But the reason here, I'll give you
Speaker 1: a reason why men hate them because it's the same
Speaker 1: scenario played out with different faces and different actress actors actresses.
Speaker 1: It's guy meets girl, falls head over heels, guy does
Speaker 1: something to apparently screw it up. They break up, then
Speaker 1: they get back together, girl is happy and of movie.
Speaker 1: It's like that, right now, What what you're saying is
Speaker 1: it's the women like to see a couple of falling
Speaker 1: in love and the men don't like to see that.
Speaker 1: That's kind of what that boils down to, right, because
Speaker 1: that's really what you're watching. Yeah, yeah, truthfully, Yeah, and
Speaker 1: and like genuinely, if I'm looking to put on a movie,
Speaker 1: truth be told, I want like explosions and guns and
Speaker 1: action and something fast. It's just if I get to
Speaker 1: select the movie, that's what I want to see. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just the wrong It's just predictable. It's very it's very predictable.
Speaker 1: There was one movie. Do you remember this movie, Sweet
Speaker 1: November Charlie Starre and Kiano Reeves. Yes, Okay, Bob watched
Speaker 1: that movie because that's the only movie I've ever seen
Speaker 1: where it didn't just like beautifully come back together and
Speaker 1: the world was perfect. It kind of left you piste
Speaker 1: off as like a little slap in the face at
Speaker 1: the end of the movie with what you're expecting. Sweet November.
Speaker 1: Watch it's the only it's the only alternate ending to like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's rom com kind of it's
Speaker 1: a wrom whatever it was so long ago I saw,
Speaker 1: maybe a decade plus or something. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can do without the rom comes. I'll watch him.
Speaker 1: I'll sit through them, but like I hope there's just
Speaker 1: some funny parts in it. The asse. These days, there's
Speaker 1: so many movies and so many things to watch on
Speaker 1: Netflix and Amazon and who outlets. Yeah, so much content
Speaker 1: out there. Okay here is Yeah, that's true. Um, why
Speaker 1: do men lie about their height? I always round so
Speaker 1: I will tell you I'm I'm technically six too, and
Speaker 1: probably like between a half and three quarters. So I
Speaker 1: always just say six three. No, I don't see that
Speaker 1: as a lie. But I don't round down. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I never say i'm six too. Oh yeah, I'm six three,
Speaker 1: and they'll go really not six two and a half.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like I'm not. I always
Speaker 1: round up. And I don't know why that is, because
Speaker 1: I but I know I'm a tall guy. But it's
Speaker 1: like it's not like there's any inherent reason for it
Speaker 1: other than I guess I'm just not rounding down now
Speaker 1: when it comes to my weight. If I've been eating
Speaker 1: the traffic ice cream, I round down instead of rounding up.
Speaker 1: So there's that get it round round the hide up
Speaker 1: around the way down. Yeah, well, I think all three
Speaker 1: of us are six three is so we're all we're
Speaker 1: all really tall guys. Kind of a rough question for us,
Speaker 1: But um, that's funny because I always say six three.
Speaker 1: I'm really six three and a half. And I always
Speaker 1: feel like, why do I got to get the half
Speaker 1: in there? You know? What do I just gonna see
Speaker 1: three and a half? What's wrong with me? Why can't
Speaker 1: you just say six three and just be happy with it?
Speaker 1: You know? Well, I think if you were to say
Speaker 1: the half then it would be weird, right it was?
Speaker 1: I think two and three quarters. I mean like it's
Speaker 1: two and three quarter. You know. It's sort of like
Speaker 1: when people have a kid and like, I'm going through
Speaker 1: this right now. My kid's gonna be too next month,
Speaker 1: and I feel really weird when I'm going how old
Speaker 1: is your son? I'm going twenty three months and three days.
Speaker 1: It's like okay. But I will say I have heard
Speaker 1: a lot of when being very judgmental about men's height. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: here offer a lot like girls date guys that are,
Speaker 1: you know, below six feet or below five ten or
Speaker 1: you know whatever. Yeah, yeah, that's you always hear it
Speaker 1: in that six six fts of magic number. This if
Speaker 1: you if they're the first thing a woman will say,
Speaker 1: he's so short. He's good looking, but he's so short.
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, you're you know what's what's wrong is
Speaker 1: like that they're they're the first to be offended if
Speaker 1: you say anything about their weight or you know, anything
Speaker 1: any you know, like how could you insult the female body?
Speaker 1: But you better be six ft tall? You know, like
Speaker 1: wait a minute, yeah, that's so true. Yeah, if you're
Speaker 1: if you're I see guys guys that are under I
Speaker 1: feel for guys that are under six ft that are
Speaker 1: just grasping at that six ft but are never gonna
Speaker 1: make it, Like I just feel for that. It's it's
Speaker 1: a blessing. Truthfully, it's a blessing to be I'm six
Speaker 1: to um and I'm six too. I'm not six two
Speaker 1: and three quarters or I'm not leaving anything off of
Speaker 1: the I'm just actually six too. But it's I would
Speaker 1: love to be like six four six ft if I
Speaker 1: if I could be taller, I'd probably choose to be taller.
Speaker 1: I have a six five nephew and a six seven nephew,
Speaker 1: and I'm all just like SI seven seven Yeah, and
Speaker 1: he's a golfer. He doesn't play basketball, and as she's
Speaker 1: the ball every time off to tea like three yard,
Speaker 1: it's crazy. But my six five nephew, it's like the
Speaker 1: perfect hYP He's just you know, it's a nice hype.
Speaker 1: Does he play ball? No? And I don't one of
Speaker 1: them ever played. I've met a couple of guys that
Speaker 1: are that kind of hype and and you're just like,
Speaker 1: you don't mean anything. Five he' say, oh man, hey
Speaker 1: you play ball, and they're like no, No. Every day,
Speaker 1: all day long, people want to talk to me about basketball,
Speaker 1: and I don't play bad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm saying, Okay,
Speaker 1: we've got two questions left and we'll let you guys go.
Speaker 1: Um here's one. Why do men not care about social
Speaker 1: media slash social media image as much as girls? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I get yelled at for this one. I think. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, if you're if you're on the like the
Speaker 1: Bachelor of the Bachelorette today and you're a first night reject,
Speaker 1: you got like one point eight million followers the next day,
Speaker 1: you know, I was, I was on triest this season,
Speaker 1: and then I became the Bachelor, but it was before
Speaker 1: social media, thank god, and I just never cared. And
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, I was getting people kind
Speaker 1: of getting in my grip about it a little, like
Speaker 1: you gotta do this now. I get people yelling at
Speaker 1: me because I posted to me pictures of my dog
Speaker 1: and to me pictures of my kids and nothing, no
Speaker 1: interesting content, and like, I don't feel like I do
Speaker 1: anything interesting that I can share, you know. So it's true.
Speaker 1: I I am the poster point for this question, and
Speaker 1: I think it's to be honest, I don't want people
Speaker 1: to think that I think I'm that that I think
Speaker 1: that I'm so interesting that you need to be obsessed
Speaker 1: with what I'm doing in a given day. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think there's a little part of that that makes me
Speaker 1: think that way, although I don't feel that way about
Speaker 1: other people that have great content. I look at their stuff,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's so cool, man. I wish I
Speaker 1: would have done something like that. You know, I just
Speaker 1: don't think of it. I just never think of it
Speaker 1: until it's too late. Part. Yeah, I think all three
Speaker 1: of us are kind of in an interesting situation where
Speaker 1: we're all in the movie biz, so we have these
Speaker 1: social media accounts that, especially our age, we wanted for business,
Speaker 1: but we also want to be for our own personal
Speaker 1: use and post things that interest us. And it's like, well,
Speaker 1: those two things don't like perfectly coexist really, and it's
Speaker 1: almost like offensive. Like I'll post a picture a stock
Speaker 1: image photo of me from high school musical twelve years ago,
Speaker 1: and I'll get, you know, fifty life and then I'll
Speaker 1: post like a really intimate picture with me and my kids,
Speaker 1: and it's like like, no, come on. You know, it's
Speaker 1: like I heard my feelings. Man, this is like first
Speaker 1: of the right of my life. But you know, so
Speaker 1: I think it's hard to kind of find that balance
Speaker 1: for people like us, and so I don't. I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't really speak for the guys like that are
Speaker 1: not in the business that that don't care, but I
Speaker 1: certainly understand it as But and Bob, I'm the same way, man.
Speaker 1: Like social media was happening when I was on like
Speaker 1: my biggest, like highest profile stuff and everybody's telling me
Speaker 1: to get into it. I was like, I don't need
Speaker 1: that stuff, man. I'm like, you know, I just don't
Speaker 1: need it. And I could have done it. Yeah, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I try to catch up. Man, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: catch up. Now you're God, I feel like that's not
Speaker 1: doing like, hey, hey, I see today. Keep those TikTok so, buddy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta those. I like all the other social media
Speaker 1: is like a painting my butt, But TikTok I just
Speaker 1: it's super it's super fun that, Like the the youngest,
Speaker 1: probably most immature outlet is the one. I just feel
Speaker 1: super comfortable love that. I love that. Um. If I
Speaker 1: was to answer this question, why do men not care
Speaker 1: so much about social um, I think it's because lesson
Speaker 1: m hmm. I think because in general, painting a broad stroke,
Speaker 1: which I hate to do, but I'm gonna paint a
Speaker 1: broad stroke, guys are less worried about what others think
Speaker 1: about them. Yeah, then maybe what women are so it's
Speaker 1: everything isn't as intentional and it doesn't have to be
Speaker 1: like I see, I've seen this many times. As soon
Speaker 1: as you take like uh and I'm not I'm not
Speaker 1: judging women are just saying only women do this, But
Speaker 1: as soon as they take a picture, it's look at
Speaker 1: it criticized. Something about it hit the app, face tune,
Speaker 1: alter something, and then maybe we can use it. But
Speaker 1: guys are like, yes, great, okay, put it up there.
Speaker 1: There's wonderful and and I don't know. I just think guys,
Speaker 1: maybe guys just feel like they're not being judged as much,
Speaker 1: so they're like, I don't have to like think about
Speaker 1: my content as much. I know, I really don't know,
Speaker 1: but I get accurate, sure, um, And maybe we just
Speaker 1: don't care. Maybe we just we share it for ourselves.
Speaker 1: We aren't sharing it for other people. Like Bob, you
Speaker 1: said you share pictures of your dog or whatever, like
Speaker 1: I share pictures of my dog. I actually like, I
Speaker 1: actually care about my my social stuff too, because I
Speaker 1: really enjoy photography and I enjoy sharing beautiful things that
Speaker 1: that inspire people and capture like beautiful moments, um, because
Speaker 1: those are visual memories for me. So I think I'm
Speaker 1: probably more intentional with my social than most guys. But
Speaker 1: I have other I have a buddy that just throws
Speaker 1: something up and I'm like, wow, you just gunned that
Speaker 1: up and didn't ever look at it ever. Again. Hey,
Speaker 1: it's just like the internet really needed that one. Okay,
Speaker 1: last question, then we'll get you guys, out of here.
Speaker 1: Last question, why do men love barbecuing? What is it
Speaker 1: about barbecuing that men absolutely love? Uh? You know what,
Speaker 1: It's true, Like I king of the grill in my mind,
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know, I will have a plan,
Speaker 1: I want to do it this way. I'm thinking about
Speaker 1: it for days or if you even pop up and
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I got this. Even I might even
Speaker 1: be the best cook in the place. Nine times I
Speaker 1: said I'm not, but in my mind, I've got to
Speaker 1: be the guy manning the girl. And I don't even
Speaker 1: know why that is. And that's true. Um, I think
Speaker 1: it's because I think it's it's what you just said.
Speaker 1: What's the word you let off with. I want to
Speaker 1: be the king of the grill. It's you feel and
Speaker 1: like if you're grilling for something, you feel like the provider,
Speaker 1: you feel like the king. It's that that's a powerful
Speaker 1: emotion for a man. It's an important thing to be
Speaker 1: the grill master, the grill master. Indeed, I think it
Speaker 1: really has something to do with that fire too. Man
Speaker 1: has to do with an open flame food cooking on
Speaker 1: top of that, like like a cave man. There's something
Speaker 1: very like base and and I don't know like neanderthal
Speaker 1: about it. You know that I think we connect with
Speaker 1: I know I do. I'm obsessed with cooking on an
Speaker 1: open flame when I go camping. I love bringing food
Speaker 1: and bringing meat or without bigger steak and throw it
Speaker 1: on a on a top of a flame out on
Speaker 1: a out hamping in the mountains of Great Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's it provides, it provides significance what we're talking about before,
Speaker 1: because like the barbecue, that's why we get together. Let's
Speaker 1: have a barbecue, Like you're saying the word barbecue, so
Speaker 1: the guy that gets to run the barbecue is the king.
Speaker 1: Barbecue is just another word for like, like let's have
Speaker 1: a meal together. But you you feel like you are
Speaker 1: the provider of of the whole experience because you have
Speaker 1: the meat, which is for some reason we anointed as
Speaker 1: the most important thing in this meal, when it's not
Speaker 1: it's just part of the meal. There's vegetables, are salad,
Speaker 1: there's juice or what there's other things, but we anoint
Speaker 1: the meat is the most important part. And to be
Speaker 1: the guy that gets to prepare that for the group,
Speaker 1: and then everybody gives you these all this a steak
Speaker 1: is so good. Oh it's so well done. Oh this
Speaker 1: sausage of the hammer. You just feel damn good. You
Speaker 1: feel good, you know, I will say Brooks on top
Speaker 1: of that, when you say the word barbecue, you're not automatically.
Speaker 1: You're putting a lot of emotion behind it. You know.
Speaker 1: It's usually outdoor and it's an event, and people are
Speaker 1: bringing kind of special food to the thing, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's like it's it paints a picture and now
Speaker 1: and yes and it um. It's like for me, it's
Speaker 1: actually like a little mini vacation. It's like you forget
Speaker 1: about everything else. Everybody's like, we got a crew of
Speaker 1: people over here for a barbecue. The world has stopped
Speaker 1: outside of this little room. And as far as I
Speaker 1: can see right here this little bubble, the world has
Speaker 1: stopped in my mind. And so like it's a real
Speaker 1: it's a real moment of presence. It's a real moment
Speaker 1: of gathering and time of connection and then the significance
Speaker 1: of being able to provide. Usually you've bought the food
Speaker 1: that you're grilling. So like, this is my treat, my
Speaker 1: way of showing love and and to my friends and
Speaker 1: sharing my heart with my friends, and so there's so
Speaker 1: much actually that goes into it, which is why I
Speaker 1: love it. I love that that's interesting because there's something
Speaker 1: very there's a huge difference in the dynamic between coming
Speaker 1: over for dinner, where a lot of those things are similar.
Speaker 1: I'll provide for you and make you dinner or anything else,
Speaker 1: but coming over for dinner, let me let me make
Speaker 1: you dinner as opposed to come over for a barbecue. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's it. Yes, it sounds fun. Yeah, okay, So who's
Speaker 1: how's we meet? Now? Do you want to come to mind?
Speaker 1: I bought a new barbecue. It's just out back there
Speaker 1: and lets Brooks. It looks like your place is like
Speaker 1: ready for barbecue. It looks like I am I'm hiding
Speaker 1: isolation still there, Come here, dudes. I appreciate you both. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you both. Um once again, Bob, where can
Speaker 1: our community find you? Where's where do you hang out? At?
Speaker 1: Um at Bob getting all over the place. So Instagram, Twitter,
Speaker 1: don't expect much on social media challenge, but occasionally check in.
Speaker 1: You can see pictures of my dad's and my kids
Speaker 1: love it. I'm going, Bob, I'm gonna I'm gonna follow
Speaker 1: you know me too, man, I'm following you too, Bart,
Speaker 1: Where can people find you? Where do you hang out at?
Speaker 1: I'm at Bart Underscore, Johnson on all the stuff in Instagram, TikTok,
Speaker 1: Twitter and you too beautiful? And then where where can
Speaker 1: people where can we get more information about Held, the
Speaker 1: new movie that just premiered Wednesday? At all those places?
Speaker 1: Just my social Um, it's just you know, we just
Speaker 1: have the world premiere yesterday, so it's just starting to
Speaker 1: make the festival route. Um, and we'll see you. How's
Speaker 1: it come to the US yet? So I'm super excited.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen the movie yet. The filmmakers will let
Speaker 1: me see it until I see it with a big crowd,
Speaker 1: so I'm dying. That's kind of cool. Yeah, I'm excited.
Speaker 1: You guys. I always think that's so weird how you
Speaker 1: guys can work on I always think it's so weird
Speaker 1: how you guys can work on something and then never
Speaker 1: see the product, like not being man, it's crazy, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: And then I you know, I did. Um. I was
Speaker 1: on ktl A this morning with Sam Ruben. He's asking
Speaker 1: me about the movie, and I'm like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. I haven't seen
Speaker 1: it man. Yeah, the idea okay, well, well when well
Speaker 1: when health skyrockets and you do a hell to just
Speaker 1: put in a good word for your buddy, Bob, Guiney
Speaker 1: and Brooks like we're go, I'll even do I'll even
Speaker 1: do the catering. I'll be the all girl girl Bob,
Speaker 1: and I'll grill, will pourtvide food on the set. You
Speaker 1: name it. Guys that thank you for your time and
Speaker 1: thank you for your honesty and your answers. And to
Speaker 1: our listeners, thank you for your questions. This was awesome.
Speaker 1: I hope we helped you understand some things from the
Speaker 1: male perspective. So until next week, everybody, take care of another,
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