WEBVTT - Boys Will Be Boys 0:00:01.040 --> 0:00:04.480 This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:08.360 to Grab and I Heard Radio Podcast. Welcome back to 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:10.520 another episode of How Men Think. My name is brooks 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.840 Like and if you tuned in last week, we did 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:18.960 an awesome show. It was hilarious and informative and really revealing, 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:23.160 and it was everything that men do not understand about women. 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:25.360 So we dove into that last week. If you haven't 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:27.400 caught it, go back and listen to that. And this 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.800 week we're gonna flip that on its head and we're 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:34.159 gonna do a show everything that women do not understand 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:37.199 about man. So we asked our listeners to send us 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:39.440 your questions. You everybody emailed us your questions at men 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:41.720 at I Heart Radio at I Heart radio dot com, 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:45.720 and we compiled a list of all our listener questions 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.279 of what women do not understand about men. And I 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:54.120 brought two distinguished gentlemen on this episode to help me 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.240 answer these questions. Last week we had him on. He 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.920 came back for another one. Mr Bob Guinea. What's up? 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.200 How are you doing, buddy? I'm excellent. Thanks for having 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.120 me again. I appreciate it. You were so fun last week. 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:10.600 We had to have you back bud Um last week. Right, So, Bob, 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:14.480 Bob is ye of TV personality, everything TV, and we 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:19.759 also have Ye of TV and Film personality, Mr Bart Johnson, 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:21.479 who was on with us a couple of weeks ago. Bart, 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.880 what's up, buddy? Hey, guys's glad to be here, thanks 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.119 to be the I'm glad to be in the distinguished 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:35.560 gentleman category. It feels like honor, thanks, refined, distinguished. H 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:38.759 I've never been called these nights, Bart, Um, Right, Bob, 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:47.200 I mean I feel so mature right now. It feels good. Um. Bart. 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.800 Also tell me about hell do you just had the 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:52.720 world premiere of your new movie on Wednesday? Held? How 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:55.720 did that go? You know, it's the little mixed feelings 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:58.240 area beyond Brooks because you know, you worked so hard 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.840 on this movie. You get this festival and it's premiering, 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:03.400 this big film festival London, and we're all excited to go, 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:08.000 and they every shut so with kind opening night of 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:12.440 this big festival plane to an empty theater. So but 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:16.320 everybody can tune in digitally, right well, every I guess 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.079 the movie geo tagged, which is something I'm learning about. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.520 So only if you're in London can you watch the movie. 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:24.960 So they did have a big digital screening only locally, 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.200 so hopefully they're able to control that the movie doesn't 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:30.440 get pirated or however that works. But the reviews are 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:33.080 rolling in today, So today has been a super exciting day. 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:37.480 I'm seeing the first reviews and people are loving sod. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.760 Pump for you. Okay, um, pump for you. Okay, dudes, 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:44.680 let's get into this. So our goal today is to 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:50.720 help women understand men. So we have a list of 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.240 questions and I'm gonna rapid fire these two us and 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.799 We're gonna get through as many as we can, and 0:02:56.320 --> 0:03:01.720 as always, raw unfiltered, hit him with the truth. Boy. 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:05.359 By the way, Bob, Bob, I feel do you feel 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.360 more confident than I do with this? Like this subject matter? 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:13.359 And no right? And then another questions like, I mean, 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:17.480 do you feel like women do you understand uh? In general? 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.720 I will tell you I kind of thought I was 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:23.360 just I thought I had it all dialed in. And 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.240 then last week when Brooks and I went through the 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.960 things that you know, uh, that men don't understand, I 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.600 was like, yeah, I don't understand a lot of this stuff, 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.960 but I feel like I feel like we're easy, right, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.320 Like I think guys are easy. So I feel like, 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.080 like we were talking about this last week, like this 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:38.880 will probably we could probably wrap this show in about 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:42.520 nine minutes with fifty questions. Pretty simple. But but at 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.400 the same time, I want to be interesting because we 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:48.040 are all different guys who you know, uh different experiences, 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:50.640 seemingly have a lot of similarities as well. But I 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.960 think it'd be really interesting to see, you know, how 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.640 our takes are on this, because I definitely I'm gonna 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:57.800 make my wife listen to this podcast so that she 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:04.400 doestly understands us. Yeah, you've been very four years. Okay, awesome, 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.080 Well don't. I mean, it's not my first marriage to 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.720 be to be candid. So I got it right, I 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:13.360 got it right in time? Yeah, yeah, so take some time. 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:18.680 Yeah part part last week. Bob was just gracious because 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.039 Bob and I got raked across the coals last week. 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:25.240 But what we don't understand about women, We were sacrificial lambs. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.880 So we're back. We are back for some revenge here, 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:32.120 uh not revenge, I shouldn't say revenge is the wrong word. 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.440 But we're gonna answer some of the We're gonna answer 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.640 some of the questions for ladies. Okay, very first question, 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:41.440 very first question, A very hot question that we received. 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:45.560 Why do men leave the set up on the toilet? 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:51.200 Women do not understand convenience? Is? I think you know? 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:55.239 But also I mean for that sake, why would women 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:57.880 leave the seat down? I mean, I'll answer the question 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:02.080 with a question. So why is it okay for the 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:03.839 women to leave the seat down but not for the 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.320 man to lead the seat up? I mean, one way 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:07.600 or the other. We've all got to do some work. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:09.440 Can we go in there? So either I gotta put 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.839 the seat up or she's got to put seat down. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:13.640 So I mean, at the end of the day, who's 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:18.000 really a fault care? I remember when we were first married, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:22.040 my wife would get mad if any you're hit the 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:25.040 the bolt under the seat, And I said, well, hey, 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:28.840 I'm set. We're gonna drop the seat after So isn't 0:05:28.839 --> 0:05:30.839 that like you want me to lift up the seat 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:35.719 and make sure none porcelain bring up? It's a lot 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:38.640 to act one, so I mean, pick one or the other. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.839 I'm leaving the seat totally clear. You should let me like, 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:47.200 you know, but yeah, I gotta say that argument. I 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:51.160 lost a long time Ian go man. Yeah, I've never 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.360 understood it. I've never left the seat up. I've never 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:55.200 been to leave the seat up guy. I don't know. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.039 I think my mom. I think when I was a kid, 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:00.240 probably when I was really young, I was to put 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.560 the seat down. So I never had this thing like 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:05.840 leave the seat up when I got to be an adult. Yeah, 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:08.560 I gotta say. I have a brother is about my age. 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:12.000 My brother Adam, um single guy, and he comes to 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:13.680 the stage with us every time he stays with us, 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:17.960 seats up everything. Yeah, And recently he was with us 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:19.280 and I got home and the seat was up, and 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:25.760 I said, oh, Adam must be staying. And he's a 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:28.960 very considerate, thoughtful guy. I think purely has to do 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.760 with like unaware, which is like a theme that's gonna 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.760 be I have a feeling gonna be recurry theme on 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:37.240 this show here. It's just like guys are kind of unaware. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.240 We just don't get it, and we don't think it's 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:40.760 a big like. I will tell you I'm not gonna 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:42.120 lead the seat up guy either. But I think it's 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:43.880 because I've been in a relationship for so long. We 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.560 lived together, and it's just like you learned not to 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:49.400 because you just don't want to get Yeah, how to 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:51.279 present you know, you know how long you've been in 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:56.240 a relationship with how you treat that? Okay, moving on 0:06:56.400 --> 0:07:01.279 question number two? Why do men adjust their young every 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:05.479 five minutes? I love these questions because we can. I 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:08.360 think it's because we can. That's why. I mean, honestly, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.160 I will tell you I got a buddy who I 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.840 literally I'll see it will be at an event and 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.600 I'll just be like, dude, you gotta stop. Man, I'm 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.640 i gonna knowledge like something. We used to tease him 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.920 all the time, you know, and now I look over 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:22.280 at him and I'll be like, oh my god, you know, 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.960 it's like all you see he can't help himself. So 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.160 I gotta say, I've never really been a big you know, 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.240 junk and jester, but my wife will probably tell you that. 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:33.720 You know, I'll be like, uh, what was the guy 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:40.000 married with children back in the day? Um? Yeah, Like, hell, buddy, 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:42.520 you know hand out the trailers. We're watching the you know, 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.120 and it's like you don't even realize you're doing it sometimes. 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.400 So I definitely am guilty at that one. Are you 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:51.520 still friends with that guy? Yeah? We you know, remember 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:53.720 that when that thing came out, Uh it was uh, 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:56.960 Jimmy Kimmel and Adam Kralin did this thing like cranky 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:59.520 Anchors back in the day, you know, just you a 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:02.120 frank call. We saw theys called him cranky anchor because 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:04.520 he couldn't keep his hand off of himself, you know, 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:08.400 all the time. So we're still buddies. I haven't seen 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:10.120 him in a while and obviously haven't had to go 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:11.880 to a function with him in a while. Thankfully that 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:13.720 that's one of the silver linings of COVID is you 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:17.280 don't have to take your buddy himself on. I'm just 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.800 curious because he wear boxers. I mean, is that a thing? 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.520 Is it like? Because the briefs obviously not as cool, 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:25.400 but a lot more support, a lot more tell you. 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.080 I think he switched to the box of briefs, which 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.520 I think was a big mood for him. I think 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:35.120 it was very helpful help him up. And what's what's 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.520 what's your answer? Why do you think guys do it? Truthfully? Like, 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:40.120 why do you think guys do it? Man? Honestly, I 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.320 think there's just like there's a lot of action going 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.720 on here with your your you know, the way clothes 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:48.720 are designed and whatnot, and I think like boxers. Okay, 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:51.000 this is what I've noted. When you're we're in workout 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:53.640 closed you know you have those they're kind of like compression. 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:57.240 Short things are like held in place. Man, things aren't rubbing. 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:00.079 It's great, and like, I don't feel like there's the 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:01.840 kind of adjusting and now that I kind of live 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:05.320 and work out gear most of the day, pretty comfortable, man, 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.800 I don't find myself like adjusting all the time. But 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.120 if you're like more casual and things are just kind 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.600 of I mean, there's a crease there, there's there's all 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:20.200 sorts of body parts. Sweat, yeah, right, yeah, sweat. Sweat 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:23.079 was the one I was like, things sometimes things get 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:26.719 toasted down there, especially in l A. You know, I'm 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:31.480 a short Canadian, right, I'm a I'm a Canadian. I 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:35.480 run hot or like, I do better in cold weather, 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:37.240 and I get in hot weather and I gotta put 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:40.719 pants on to go to this event, like it's getting toasty. 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:46.600 Sometimes it needs a rearrangement. Okay, Question number three, Moving 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:48.200 on from that, here's a fun one for you guys. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:55.400 Why do men love boobs? Why do men love boobs man. 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:59.040 I'll let you take the on this one, buddy. At 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.120 you know, I've I've actually heard. I don't know, this 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.520 is totally uneducated and will probably give me some trouble, 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:08.960 but I heard there's like some real psychological reasons for that. 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:13.199 There's something about like those represent life and like giving 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:16.000 you when you're a baby, like it. It's has one 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:21.160 of everything you need, right, the liquid, the food, the nutrients, everything, 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:24.280 And there's something on a really deep psychological level where 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:27.480 men relate to like you know, and then maybe bigger 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:32.640 is subconsciously an expression of more life, more nutrients and 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:38.199 more you know, a visceral sort of survival things. Because 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:42.400 I love it, I think it sounds great. I would 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.320 actually qualify myself as more of an ass man. So 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:49.520 I have no idea what that means. I don't know 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.959 what you're saying. I like what you're saying. The ample 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:55.720 bosom represents life, I get it. I agree, I agree. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:58.360 I mean I'm not really necessarily speaking of a personal experience. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:02.599 This is just like some conversations I've heard, so um, 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:06.080 it's it's just I I don't I don't think about 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.080 that one Bart. That's not what I side with. I 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:12.040 just find it extremely attractive. Yeah, it is just let's real, 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:17.040 it's just extremely provocative and attractive and beautiful, now, is it? 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.800 Is it? Because it's so I mean, it is sort 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.160 of represents the female figure, right, because that's not really 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:24.559 a thing a man has, like and if he does that, 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:27.480 you know, you got rock hard pet But it's like 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:30.280 not like the soft sort of like you know, yeah, 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:33.000 it's a very it's very femine. It's a very Yeah, 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:35.920 it's a very feminine representation like that that it just 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.439 gives off to me. It gives off a feminine energy 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:47.000 that's just really attracting. Yeah, I agree, I think that's too. Definitely. Okay, um, 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:50.240 all right, next question, why don't men like us getting 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:53.240 advice talking about them with our friends? Why do men 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:58.839 not like when women talk about their man with their 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:02.160 friends and getting advice about them from their friends. I 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:07.160 think it depends on the friends. You know. If it's 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:09.800 a if it's a friend that like I'm close with two, 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:13.439 then I'll be I'll probably be a little more open 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:16.200 to the idea because I feel like that person also 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:19.000 has my back. But if it's someone who I don't 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.559 like or someone who I don't know, and it's like ndom, 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:23.360 and I'll be like, who the hell is this person? Commenty? 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:26.840 I mean, I hi? And then I also I also 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.200 feel like there's a bit you know, guys, I think 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:33.240 in large part we're secure, but we're also you know, 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.920 when it comes to relationships, we have our insecurities, and 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:37.760 I think that at the end of the day, you know, 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:41.240 you really don't want those put out there for you know, 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.960 the viewing public. You want that to be something that 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.400 you know, it's kind of it's it's a personal thing 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.520 or a private thing, and if it's gonna be out there, 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:50.320 you want to put it out there. So if it's like, 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:51.960 you know, if I do something that annoys the hell 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:53.800 out of her, I'd like to be the one that goes, man, 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:55.800 I've been really messing up by annoyed the hell out 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:57.839 of her because blah blah blah, and I've done this before. 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.200 This is a try and true move, and her was like, 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:09.320 oh yeah, I know. I mean, this kind of leads 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:13.080 into the question for me if guys friends with girls 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.160 like you know what I mean, Like, I was having 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:17.839 this conversation with my friend earlier today and he's always 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:19.480 on the spike Rift was really cute girl, and I'm like, dude, 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:20.840 what's going on there. He's like, oh no, dude, we're 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:23.280 just friends. I'm like, he's a single guy. I'm like, now, 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:26.080 come on, now, you're telling me if she didn't give 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:27.959 you the opportunity, you wouldn't jump on that. And he's like, 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:33.040 you know, well, I'm not saying that. Like so I think, 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.640 like in nately, all of us guys kind of feel 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:40.040 like we know that the safest guy friend they have 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:45.439 still like, you know, if he had an opportunity, right, 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.680 So now you're kind of fighting in someone and and 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:51.600 having this purpose person conversation about your relationship with another guy, 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:56.640 knowing the guys a little more opportunists that way. You know, 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.439 what about what about a female if she's going to 0:13:59.520 --> 0:14:03.880 like a female old friend for advice. I think it's good. 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:07.319 I'm all about it, and I think it's great. I mean, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.480 I'm not resolutely against guys. I think I just think 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:10.800 there's like that in the back of your mind. There's 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:13.120 always a little bit of that. But you know, like 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.040 even if like I'm pretty confident in my relationship and 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.760 which what's awesome is my wife was with a lot 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:21.000 of guys that were not you know, they were kind 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.440 of insecure, which is always like you know, if you're 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.560 lucky enough to end up with the girl, they came 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:30.000 out of a lot of bad relationships. Like, hey, I 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.320 feel like a great guy. You don't have to do 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.200 it because but yeah, I think like we all kind 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:36.440 of know, right, we all kind of look back of 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:40.640 our head. Yeah, I think it's Um, I think it's 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.720 like what I think I agree with Bob on you 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:44.640 on on this one. It's like you don't know me, 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:46.560 Like who's do you have? One? Is that? Do you 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:49.160 have respect for the person who's offering the advice and 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:52.720 are they offering opinion or are they offering advice? And 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.880 I think that's a big change. Like I have great 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:57.840 friends that I go to for things, and one of 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:01.320 my buddies in general, Um, he is so good is 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:04.800 he doesn't offer the just an opinion And this is 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.960 what I think. He just listens and asks really good 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:11.000 questions and helps me come to my answer versus like 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:13.320 telling me exactly what I think I want to hear? 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:17.040 What what my telling me what his opinion is? He's like, 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.520 what are you feeling? What do you think about it, 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:22.160 what if it went this way? Um? And so I 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.640 really respect him. I really respect people that don't just 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.560 solicit opinions when they ask questions, they actually like trying 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:32.520 to help you arise to the answer. Yeah, I think. 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:35.840 I think I get piste off when somebody goes to 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:39.400 somebody and somebody offers their opinion on me, and I'm like, all, man, 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.440 you don't even know me, you don't even you don't 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:43.080 know what's going on. There's more to it. You're here 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:47.520 on one side of it. Don't sway this into something 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:50.920 it's not you. I like the analogy when people talk about, 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.480 you know, relationships and they aw, I say, I don't 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:55.720 know if they always say it, but it's something that 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:57.640 stuck with me for a long time. But there's three 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.880 sides every story. There's her side, his side, and the 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:04.200 true So you know, you you talk each party. Each 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.160 party's got their own slant. It's kind of like we're 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:08.400 talking about with text messages out. You know, so much 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:09.840 can be said through a text message and you can 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.640 read it one way when I meant at one totally 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.840 different way. But it's like you got your side and 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.840 the side and the truth. So somewhere in the middle there. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:17.800 If you have someone like your buddy, who you know, 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:20.280 it's really good at asking a lot of questions and 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.480 just sort of you know, playing both ends a little 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.040 bit to kind of and I mean that in a 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:27.600 positive way, like playing both ends where sort of defending Well, 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.280 maybe he meant it this way. You know, that's actually 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.200 helpful and probably does both sides of that relationship a 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.400 lot of good. But you're like, you know, to be 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.520 a lot different. Of course. Have you guys ever been 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:40.560 in a conversation where you're maybe complaining about your significant 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:43.560 other and and you're like, yeah, man, you know, well 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:46.760 you just kind of bad mouth and him, and they say, yeah, man, 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:48.600 you know it's really not cool. You know, they kind 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:50.280 of start piling on. You're like, wait a minute, my 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:54.600 wife you're talking about I can say that you don't understand, 0:16:54.600 --> 0:17:00.960 you don't understand she's coming. You start it does That's true? Yeah, 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:05.240 it's true. It is so true. Um okay, next question, 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:08.760 why do men leave toothpaste remnants in the sink and 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:13.920 leave kitchen drawers and cabinets open whatever? Animals? No, that's 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:15.800 not that's not me man. I am super o C D. 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:19.760 About stuff. I clean everything, so I would say I 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.119 would I would say why does my wife do those things? 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:25.240 Like I literally today I was walking around going what 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:27.679 in the hell happened in here? You know? And I 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:31.840 was like, dank, I'm like what you know? And uh, 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.000 I have I have darker hair, she's got blonde hair, 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:36.360 and finding blonde hair. Everyone like, what is he shedding? 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:39.919 What's going on? You know? Yeah? I can't answer that 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.520 one because I I am super CD about that stuff. 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.520 I gotta say that's not really an issue around our 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.720 house either. Now, what is an issue is I have 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:49.879 a tendency to not do the dishes, like and I 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.000 don't mean to be disrespectful or anything else, but if 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.399 there's a pile of dishes in there, I just doesn't register. 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:55.760 I just walked in the other room and my wife 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.520 is like, how can you? And then she'll test me. 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:00.520 She'll leave it for three days. She's like, it's been 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:03.080 sitting there, and you walk by it and you make 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:05.119 food and see them there, you just walk away like, 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:10.920 I don't know what. I don't know what that is? Yeah, 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:16.600 for a reason right that you can just keep using it? Oh, bart, 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.119 I don't know. I don't know if we could be roommates, buddy, UM, 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:22.000 because I aligned, I aligned with Bob. I'm O C 0:18:22.160 --> 0:18:25.280 D on like cleanliness. UM, and I have one buddy 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:28.520 in particular that every time he comes to visit, when 0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:32.159 you talk about the toothpaste in the sink, the entire faucet, 0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:34.919 everything is just toothpaste. And he was here for like 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:37.800 four days and I'm like, how do you do this? 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:39.800 How do you not even see that and give it 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.399 a wife? I don't know why guys do that. I 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:45.520 have no idea. I wish I could answer it, but 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:48.720 they're just I think unaware or maybe they think that's 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:51.600 just something that can be dirty. But I'm like, I'm 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:54.280 the same as Bob. I'm just like O C D. Well. Well, okay, 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:58.320 so so now this is interesting because um, I feel 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.399 the same way about toothpaste. Like I like to probably 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:02.280 cap on there. I'd like to have, you know, like 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:04.160 I have a couple of kids, and when there's tooth 0:19:04.160 --> 0:19:05.639 pastes in there're like, why are you guys? And I 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:07.880 just I see that it really bothers me. I can't 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:11.280 walk away from that. But dishes like, what's what's my problem? 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:12.920 Why would I be able to walk away from one 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:17.159 and not the other. I don't know dishes. The thing 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:21.720 about dishes is like the sink is always like six 0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:24.560 inches from the dishwasher. So like if you can put 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:26.800 your if you can put your dishes in the sink, 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:29.960 it's take another six inches and put them in the dishwasher. 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:33.400 Like really, it's right there. No, you know what, I don't. 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.040 I'll admit something and just hope and pray my wife 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:40.080 never hears this. I feel it means so much to 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:43.000 her when I do it. So why in the world 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:45.320 when I not just make that part of my lifestyle 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:46.879 of like, you know, before I go to bed at night, 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:49.520 go make sure it's all done. And a matter of fact, 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:51.480 you know, guys, I'm gonna tell you what, I'm gonna 0:19:51.480 --> 0:19:54.080 make a commitment right here, right now. This is a 0:19:54.080 --> 0:19:57.280 new thing for me that I'm doing the dishes every 0:19:57.359 --> 0:20:01.320 night before I go to bed. Guys, inspired it here first. 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:05.560 That's right. You're You're welcome. Bart's wife. You are welcome. 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.240 Thank you a better man today. Hey, you know what, 0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:12.160 I will be rewarded plenty for that because she loves it, 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:14.480 and she so much, so why wouldn't I do it? 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:16.439 I don't know, but I do it. I do it. 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:28.360 That's I love it. Okay, next question, why do some 0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:34.800 men hate makeup on women? Mm hmmm, I don't hate 0:20:34.800 --> 0:20:37.200 makeup on women. I I you know, I feel like 0:20:38.160 --> 0:20:40.280 too much. If it looks like a freak show, like 0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:42.920 you know, Elvira walking in all the time, I'm probably 0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:48.880 not loving that. But maybe excess makeup. Maybe maybe maybe 0:20:48.880 --> 0:20:50.800 the question should be why do men yeah, I hate 0:20:50.800 --> 0:20:54.600