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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin

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Speaker 1: to Grab and I Heard Radio Podcast. Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: another episode of How Men Think. My name is brooks

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Speaker 1: Like and if you tuned in last week, we did

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Speaker 1: an awesome show. It was hilarious and informative and really revealing,

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Speaker 1: and it was everything that men do not understand about women.

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Speaker 1: So we dove into that last week. If you haven't

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Speaker 1: caught it, go back and listen to that. And this

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Speaker 1: week we're gonna flip that on its head and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do a show everything that women do not understand

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Speaker 1: about man. So we asked our listeners to send us

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Speaker 1: your questions. You everybody emailed us your questions at men

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Speaker 1: at I Heart Radio at I Heart radio dot com,

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Speaker 1: and we compiled a list of all our listener questions

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Speaker 1: of what women do not understand about men. And I

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Speaker 1: brought two distinguished gentlemen on this episode to help me

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Speaker 1: answer these questions. Last week we had him on. He

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Speaker 1: came back for another one. Mr Bob Guinea. What's up?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing, buddy? I'm excellent. Thanks for having

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Speaker 1: me again. I appreciate it. You were so fun last week.

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Speaker 1: We had to have you back bud Um last week. Right, So, Bob,

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Speaker 1: Bob is ye of TV personality, everything TV, and we

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Speaker 1: also have Ye of TV and Film personality, Mr Bart Johnson,

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Speaker 1: who was on with us a couple of weeks ago. Bart,

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Speaker 1: what's up, buddy? Hey, guys's glad to be here, thanks

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Speaker 1: to be the I'm glad to be in the distinguished

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Speaker 1: gentleman category. It feels like honor, thanks, refined, distinguished. H

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Speaker 1: I've never been called these nights, Bart, Um, Right, Bob,

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Speaker 1: I mean I feel so mature right now. It feels good. Um. Bart.

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Speaker 1: Also tell me about hell do you just had the

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Speaker 1: world premiere of your new movie on Wednesday? Held? How

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Speaker 1: did that go? You know, it's the little mixed feelings

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Speaker 1: area beyond Brooks because you know, you worked so hard

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Speaker 1: on this movie. You get this festival and it's premiering,

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Speaker 1: this big film festival London, and we're all excited to go,

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Speaker 1: and they every shut so with kind opening night of

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Speaker 1: this big festival plane to an empty theater. So but

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Speaker 1: everybody can tune in digitally, right well, every I guess

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Speaker 1: the movie geo tagged, which is something I'm learning about.

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Speaker 1: So only if you're in London can you watch the movie.

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Speaker 1: So they did have a big digital screening only locally,

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Speaker 1: so hopefully they're able to control that the movie doesn't

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Speaker 1: get pirated or however that works. But the reviews are

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Speaker 1: rolling in today, So today has been a super exciting day.

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Speaker 1: I'm seeing the first reviews and people are loving sod.

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Speaker 1: Pump for you. Okay, um, pump for you. Okay, dudes,

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Speaker 1: let's get into this. So our goal today is to

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Speaker 1: help women understand men. So we have a list of

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Speaker 1: questions and I'm gonna rapid fire these two us and

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get through as many as we can, and

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Speaker 1: as always, raw unfiltered, hit him with the truth. Boy.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Bob, Bob, I feel do you feel

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Speaker 1: more confident than I do with this? Like this subject matter?

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Speaker 1: And no right? And then another questions like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you feel like women do you understand uh? In general?

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Speaker 1: I will tell you I kind of thought I was

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Speaker 1: just I thought I had it all dialed in. And

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Speaker 1: then last week when Brooks and I went through the

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Speaker 1: things that you know, uh, that men don't understand, I

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I don't understand a lot of this stuff,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like I feel like we're easy, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I think guys are easy. So I feel like,

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Speaker 1: like we were talking about this last week, like this

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Speaker 1: will probably we could probably wrap this show in about

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Speaker 1: nine minutes with fifty questions. Pretty simple. But but at

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Speaker 1: the same time, I want to be interesting because we

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Speaker 1: are all different guys who you know, uh different experiences,

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Speaker 1: seemingly have a lot of similarities as well. But I

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Speaker 1: think it'd be really interesting to see, you know, how

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Speaker 1: our takes are on this, because I definitely I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: make my wife listen to this podcast so that she

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Speaker 1: doestly understands us. Yeah, you've been very four years. Okay, awesome,

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Speaker 1: Well don't. I mean, it's not my first marriage to

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Speaker 1: got it right in time? Yeah, yeah, so take some time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah part part last week. Bob was just gracious because

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Speaker 1: Bob and I got raked across the coals last week.

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Speaker 1: But what we don't understand about women, We were sacrificial lambs.

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Speaker 1: So we're back. We are back for some revenge here,

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Speaker 1: uh not revenge, I shouldn't say revenge is the wrong word.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna answer some of the We're gonna answer

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Speaker 1: Why do men leave the set up on the toilet?

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Speaker 1: Women do not understand convenience? Is? I think you know?

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Speaker 1: So I mean, at the end of the day, who's

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Speaker 1: I gotta say. I have a brother is about my age.

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Speaker 1: My brother Adam, um single guy, and he comes to

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Speaker 1: question number two? Why do men adjust their young every

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Speaker 1: five minutes? I love these questions because we can. I

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Speaker 1: think it's because we can. That's why. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I gotta say, I've never really been a big you know,

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Speaker 1: You know, I'll be like, uh, what was the guy

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Speaker 1: So I definitely am guilty at that one. Are you

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Speaker 1: still friends with that guy? Yeah? We you know, remember

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Speaker 1: that's one of the silver linings of COVID is you

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Speaker 1: don't have to take your buddy himself on. I'm just

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Speaker 1: curious because he wear boxers. I mean, is that a thing?

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Speaker 1: I think was a big mood for him. I think

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Speaker 1: what's your answer? Why do you think guys do it? Truthfully? Like,

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Speaker 1: why do you think guys do it? Man? Honestly, I

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Speaker 1: think there's just like there's a lot of action going

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Speaker 1: It's great, and like, I don't feel like there's the

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Speaker 1: Why do men love boobs? Why do men love boobs man.

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Speaker 1: I'll let you take the on this one, buddy. At

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Speaker 1: you know, I've I've actually heard. I don't know, this

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Speaker 1: but I heard there's like some real psychological reasons for that.

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Speaker 1: There's something about like those represent life and like giving

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Speaker 1: you when you're a baby, like it. It's has one

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Speaker 1: of everything you need, right, the liquid, the food, the nutrients, everything,

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Speaker 1: And there's something on a really deep psychological level where

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Speaker 1: is subconsciously an expression of more life, more nutrients and

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Speaker 1: more you know, a visceral sort of survival things. Because

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what that means. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. I like what you're saying. The ample

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Speaker 1: bosom represents life, I get it. I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm not really necessarily speaking of a personal experience.

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Speaker 1: This is just like some conversations I've heard, so um,

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Speaker 1: it's it's just I I don't I don't think about

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Speaker 1: that one Bart. That's not what I side with. I

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Speaker 1: just find it extremely attractive. Yeah, it is just let's real,

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Speaker 1: it's just extremely provocative and attractive and beautiful, now, is it?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Because it's so I mean, it is sort

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Speaker 1: of represents the female figure, right, because that's not really

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Speaker 1: get that part of it for sure, But I think, yeah,

421
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 1: there's a nice natural way. And then and then you know,

422
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 1: on a more formal night, maybe they doll it up

423
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 1: a little bit more and but it's still you know,

424
00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: still looks like them. Well that's awesome. But I mean, yeah,

425
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: I seen some stuff online or like, you know, it's

426
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 1: like this transformation you know, from like one thing into

427
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 1: the next one. You're just like, oh my god. You know,

428
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine, right, I would hate that. I

429
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: would hate that. But you know, you know what, I'm

430
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 1: just what you're saying. But I'm kind of realizing, like

431
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 1: the women that are kind of addicting to it, or

432
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: they don't want to go outside, or they start to

433
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,719
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. I think that's something that we don't like

434
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: to see. Like I hate to see insecurity and people

435
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 1: you know, so if they feel like, oh, like you know,

436
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 1: I gotta I can't show up there without you know,

437
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: all the stuff. It's like you don't need that. I

438
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: mean you don't need like I think it's like a

439
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 1: guy like women. They're beautiful, like innately, like they're just

440
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 1: beautiful in general. And you want to get like super

441
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: clammed out one night, who awesome? Do it? But you

442
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: don't you don't need it, right right? Yeah, Yeah, I'm

443
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 1: a I'm a big fan. Like Bob said, I'm a

444
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 1: big fan of like the natural. Like just I think

445
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: makeup can enhance a little beauty. But I'm just I'm

446
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: a fan of like natural makeup. I don't like it

447
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 1: to be like a real production of makeup just not

448
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 1: my thing. I'm just not as attracted to that. I

449
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: like realness. Like you said, Bart, I think women are

450
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: naturally beautiful. Um. And then yeah, just like for me,

451
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 1: I think if they put on a lot of makeup,

452
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,959
Speaker 1: it's at least in a relationship. I'm in a relationship.

453
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: If you're putting on a lot of makeup, it's not

454
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: for me, it's for somebody else. Because my preference is

455
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: less makeup, just a more natural look. Um. So I

456
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't. I just don't like the

457
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:32,640
Speaker 1: I don't like excess makeup. Just you don't need it, right, Yeah, yeah, okay,

458
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: next question real one eight here, Why do you guys

459
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: take so long to poop? What do you guys take

460
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: so long too? Why are you in the crapper for

461
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: twenty minutes? Bob? You know, for me, I can honestly

462
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 1: say with my son and my wife that it's kind

463
00:23:54,720 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: of like it's me time, you know, not in there.

464
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm not working the whole time I'm in there. I

465
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 1: might just be relaxing, you know. I might just be

466
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, reading or alone in my thoughts and yeah,

467
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,959
Speaker 1: my life until I until I literally can't stand up,

468
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, maybe it's not maybe it's time. But yeah,

469
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 1: I enjoy I enjoy it because no one's allowed to

470
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: bug you in there, so like technically it is sort

471
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 1: of a golden rule, although my wife really doesn't follow it,

472
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: but it's like, you know, if you're in there, it

473
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 1: means business and uh, you know, please hold all conversations

474
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 1: and requests until I return. That's how I feel. Do

475
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 1: you guys see that movie with Paul Rudd? And he's

476
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: in the bathroom playing jewel and his wife is outside seeing.

477
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: You know he's in there. I know he's cheating on me,

478
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: he's doing what are you what are you looking at

479
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: in there? He's like, I just want I just want

480
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 1: a piece of quiet. Man just wants a long time.

481
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: What Bob said, I want some betime right now. Man,

482
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,719
Speaker 1: It's just something about the chaos of you know, your

483
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: day and you're moving around the house, You've got kids

484
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: and just stuff happening. You're going there. You could just like, yeah,

485
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: I'm a special Yeah, yeah, I love it. Okay. Follow

486
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 1: follow up question, follow up? We should we should have

487
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: done this from there. Follow up question to that, Um,

488
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 1: what's your go to platform or when you're like, because

489
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 1: you're probably on your phone when you're taking a number two?

490
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: Is it Twitter? Is it Instagram? What are you doing

491
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: on the phone? Are you reading? What is it? I

492
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: read the news. I think I read some news items,

493
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 1: you know. I think I play a little video, like

494
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 1: a little pong, like this little pong game. I I yeah,

495
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I have a

496
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 1: guaranteed go to I definitely check a lot lately. I'm

497
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: setting my fantasy football lineup. I'm making trades, you know,

498
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: part what's your go to? Uh? You know, i'd say

499
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: this last month news and I cannot wait to be

500
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: done with that and I'm just gonna delete it all

501
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: off my phone and get back to the important stuff,

502
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: which is like TikTok and kind of that's my new

503
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,239
Speaker 1: kind of love right now. Like three covid everybody told me, like,

504
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: you know, TikTok man, So I started doing it and

505
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: it's just been such a blast. I'm kind of addicted

506
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: to it. And it's got like this brilliant algorithm, so

507
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: it kind of finds out what you're interested in and

508
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: sends you, you know, do you really like to see?

509
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: So it's pretty great. Man. Yeah, I'm I'm a I'm

510
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: a Twitter guy. I'll get on Twitter and like he's

511
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm reading news like Bobby you read news, Um, bar

512
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: you read political news. I would do that as well.

513
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm usually if I'm in in the bathroom in the

514
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: water closet there, I'm probably on Twitter. Is my kind

515
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: of go to. Yeah. Um, alright, moving on, why are

516
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: men such big babies when they get sick? Here again?

517
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: Doesn't to me. I like to be left alone. When

518
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying I like, if I'm sick, I'm just like,

519
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: just get away, just give me my space. I'll get through.

520
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm a mind over matter type of guy. Look in

521
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: my mind, I take pretty care of myself, so I'm

522
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: always like I'll get through that. Do not need someone

523
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: doating on me. And for some reason, I get irritated

524
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: by someone being almost too nice to me. Like my

525
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: wife used to like try to take care of me.

526
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 1: I I got fine, So now she's just like, well, whatever, dude,

527
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: you have fun. Yeah, it doesn't apply to me, although

528
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: she'll tell people it does, but then in secrets she'll

529
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: be like, I know, I'm just trying to fit in.

530
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: That's why you know. I'm with Bob on this one.

531
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: I just, uh, I like to feel like I could

532
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: take care of myself, like I might have to just

533
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: you know, kind of put myself in the cave for

534
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: a couple of days wet it out. Yeah, but it

535
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: is kind of nice to get the you know, little

536
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: extra treatment or you know, some food brought to you

537
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: or whatever. And my wife is awesome about that stuff,

538
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: and I probably appreciate it way more then I want

539
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: to admit. Yeah, that's kind of nice because I'm never

540
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 1: in that position. I don't know, just there's something very

541
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: sweet about it. Yeah, I'd say that's probably part of

542
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: it is guys, like, all of a sudden, guys now

543
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 1: have a reason to be nurtured. And I think guys,

544
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 1: grown men even still like to be nurtured from time

545
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: to time, and and maybe most often is the cases.

546
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't get that. Maybe guys don't get that.

547
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: Maybe they're always looking after other people, after career, after family,

548
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,439
Speaker 1: after kids, after friends doing something, and now this is

549
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: maybe an opportunity for them to be nurtured and to

550
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: be loved. So maybe that's why guys do it. When

551
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: I get sick, it's like I'm in bed sleeping, Like

552
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: I don't just get slightly sick. I get violently sick

553
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: once every three years. Then that's it. So like I'm like,

554
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm just like sleeping and then when I wake up,

555
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: please God just feed me. That's it and I'll be happy. Man, Well,

556
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: let me ask you, guys, do you what do you

557
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: what about when you get hurt, when you steeve smash

558
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: your thumb with a hammer or something, and people like, okay,

559
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: are you okay, Hey, are you okay? Are you okay?

560
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: Do you guys just want to just stop talking to

561
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: me for a minute. Oh man, I hate when people

562
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: want to check in with the mixture. I'm okay right now.

563
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, no pain, leave me alone totally. Um, Okay,

564
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. I don't I don't get

565
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: this one, but a listener wanted to ask him, why

566
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: did Jeffrey Tuban do that? Who's Jeffrey ta oh Man?

567
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: He's yeah, he's the guy that was caught. Uh he

568
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: was masturbating in a zoom call. It worked, it is

569
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: off and yeah, yeah, I missed this one on Twitter.

570
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: I must have been in the bathroom lately. I don't know.

571
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: But do you know, I don't know, if you know,

572
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: I don't know the details, like he left his camera

573
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,479
Speaker 1: on and the kid the computer was facing him and

574
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: they people saw it. And yeah, I read the article

575
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: in the York Post and it said that he uh

576
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: apparently they they they assumed or maybe somehow they figured

577
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: out that he was actually had two calls going. So

578
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: he had his work call and then he also had

579
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: like maybe a phone sex type of call going, or

580
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: you know, a chat room type of thing going on,

581
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: and uh, he I mean, it just it just blows

582
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: my mind because I'm the first going to admit that

583
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: if I'm doing anything work related, I am not even remotely,

584
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: not even And they were doing like a political type

585
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: of simulation. So he was like, I mean, how do

586
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: you think, oh, yeah, you know that I would be

587
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: a good time. I mean, my guess. And by the way, Brook,

588
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: he was at his office. He wasn't at home where

589
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: you think, oh, you know, COVID is kind of throwing

590
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: us all off. We're at home doing our home stuff.

591
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: This time, is it? Is? It? Is it? Okay, that's

592
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: a new one for me. I have no idea why

593
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: he did that. Maybe uh maybe it's really stressed. Maybe

594
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: COVID just had a really stressed I don't know. I

595
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: gotta saying about that. So I was thinking about this

596
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: the other night, and I even said to my wife,

597
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, now, it's one thing, you know, with cutbacks

598
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: and things that are happening, you know, across the globe

599
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: right now, to have to come home during a time

600
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: like this and say, honey, I lost my job, Like

601
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: that's really bad to have to have that, But imagine

602
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: multiply it by a billion when I lost my job

603
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: because on the job I wanted doing this. And it's

604
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: like all of his coworkers know, like it goes by

605
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: viral immediately. It's like, oh my god, who's ever gonna

606
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: hire this guy again? You know, it's like univable. Well,

607
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: apparently it's been really outspoken in the past about any

608
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: sort of sexual misconduct in the workplace, like and and

609
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: I saw one click before he said, oh someone, you know,

610
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: if a kid doesn't his life should be rude. And

611
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that didn't age. Well, see something

612
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: thou doth protest too much? Yeah, I don't men? And

613
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: why don't men know what women want unless they're told?

614
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: Why can men not read bonds? Uh? I can honestly

615
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: tell you that that is very true. Week at least

616
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: I cannot um And I don't necessarily I don't want

617
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: to because every time I try, even if I get

618
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: it right, I'm in the ballpark of being right, you

619
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I'd rather just get it

620
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: straight from the horse's mouth, not calling my wife a

621
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: horse because she's very lovely, and but horses are all

622
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 1: the lovely. But I mean, I I would rather not

623
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: try to guess what I'm supposed to do. I would

624
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: rather just be like, hey, listen, I don't feel happy

625
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: about this because of this, and I can go, oh, alright, cool.

626
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: I just won't do that anymore. You know. It's like

627
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: that that's simple enough. But if I gets try to

628
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: figure out what's making you tick, and then you know,

629
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: I mean we you know, we're talked about this last week,

630
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: but it's like there's about seventeen different scenarios going hang

631
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: on a woman's head at any given time, according to

632
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: women that we both know and love. So it's like,

633
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 1: you know, if if that's going on, how am I

634
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: gotta figure out which one I'm gonna fish too? And

635
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: I think that's the right one, you know, Uh yeah,

636
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: you know, I think women are just they're they're a

637
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: lot more sensitive, right, I mean, they're they're they're more aware,

638
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: and uh, I just feel like I'm a dummy sometimes.

639
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm thinking about my own needs, and

640
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: you know, I try to do the right thing all

641
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: the time. I tried to be proactive and you know,

642
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: be a good dad and be a good husband, and

643
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: just I think I'm just don't pick up on the

644
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: small cues you know, the other night we went to

645
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: a restaurant and my wife got all dolled up, and

646
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: I didn't say a word when she showed up. And

647
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: I remember thinking in my head like, why great, I mean,

648
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: my wife awesome, And she was dressed nice, she's like,

649
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: she fit, and she looked beautiful. I thought in my head,

650
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: didn't say a word. And then the couple we were with,

651
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: the wife says, wow, Rob, when you look amazing, and

652
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: I was like, God, what's wrong with me? I thought,

653
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: I heard myself say in my head, I know I

654
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: meant it. I didn't say yeah, and again yeah, yeah, yeah.

655
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,959
Speaker 1: I get in trouble for that a lot. Like come

656
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: home and she's like, the house looks immaculate, looks beautiful,

657
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 1: and she's spent all day cleaning and I and I

658
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 1: love I love keeping stuff clean and straight and tidy

659
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: and everything. But I'll come in and I'll be like,

660
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 1: oh my god, same thing. I mean, honestly, I walk

661
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: out and go the house looks awesome, Oh my god,

662
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 1: it smells so clean in here. Yeah, And She'll be

663
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: sitting there looking at me like really nothing, yeah, And

664
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: I won't realize it until she tells me there really

665
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 1: nothing line that I realized, Oh my god, that wasn't

666
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 1: my outside, you know, and I was too late. It

667
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You appreciate it when you walk to him

668
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: like no, now, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if

669
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 1: the house is clean. I also think there's just some

670
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: like crazy amazing coincidence when this happens, because a lot

671
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: of time, I think men do pick up on the

672
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: little things. Man, our present men do know what their

673
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 1: wives or their partners want. But then the time when

674
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,720
Speaker 1: you don't, The time when you don't is a massive miss.

675
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: It's a massive miss just what you guys were talking about,

676
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: and it just it lands like like a rolling thunder.

677
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 1: So um, I think man to stick up for my dudes.

678
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: I think guys you know, are very aware of what

679
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: women want. But I will say that, yeah, we're not

680
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 1: mine readers, and we do miss stuff. That is true.

681
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: We do miss things from time to time. Yeah, I

682
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: think it'd be nice if you just had a canned

683
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: every time if you've been gone for a day or

684
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: two or whatever you might do and you come home,

685
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: you're like, did you do something different with your hair?

686
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: If you just said that, Even if you don't think

687
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,879
Speaker 1: anything is different with their hair and be like, well, yeah,

688
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: actually you know because nine times I said they have

689
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: done something with their hair. So maybe if that's like

690
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: a can response that you open with, you look super

691
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: caring and really, you know, insightful, and I think you're

692
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: I think you're onto something, Bob. You know, I never

693
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: missed working out, like I don't forget to work out

694
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: in a day. So I mean, if it was, if

695
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: I knew that was, I know that's important and I

696
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: don't miss and I know the other things in my

697
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: life are important. You know. The irony is like we're

698
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: talking about, I think through your guys here that care

699
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: deeply about the relationships and about their women, and and

700
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things in my life I don't

701
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: rate a ten, but my family and my relationship with

702
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 1: my wife is literally not my finnite. That's my career, money,

703
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: nothing nothing else gets attend, but my relationships attend. And

704
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: I still make these mistakes, right, Yeah, it's not intentional, Yeah,

705
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: it's not. Why can't guys stay mad at each other?

706
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: Not worth it? I don't know why that's a question.

707
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: Why can't guys stay mad at it? Why? Why should we?

708
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: My question like, honestly, I think I am always like

709
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: my friendship is more important. So if I'm if at me,

710
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: you know, I would never in a million years would

711
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: I ever stress a friendship over money, over you know,

712
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: anything like that. I mean, you know, it's like it's

713
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: always like, oh, I'll pay the extra, don't worry, you know,

714
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: or whatever. And it's not that it's not that I

715
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: can afford it more than someone else. But in my

716
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: mind it's like, well, we're not We're not gonna argue

717
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: about it. Here, just take take this. Let me give

718
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: me my change back. I try. You know, I would

719
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: never get mad about that kind of stuff that I

720
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: certainly I think we all give the benefit of the

721
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: doubt probably a lot more to each other. I never

722
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: think that a hidden agenda. I never think there's a

723
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: a motive. I'm always like, oh, you didn't mean it

724
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: that way. Like I literally I do that all the time.

725
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: I probably say that other times a week, but I

726
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: say it about everybody. You know. My wife would be like,

727
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: I can't believe Debbie did this, and I'll be like, oh,

728
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: you know, I've got Debbie actually, and she's like, let

729
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: me have a moment. You know what I mean, I'm

730
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well, it seems like that all these

731
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: questions up to this one have been uh, kind of

732
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 1: negative treats, like why do men do these negative things?

733
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 1: This one's like, hey, this one, I'll own this one.

734
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: This is great. I think it's I mean, it's wonderful.

735
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: I could have the ugliest fight with my friends, or

736
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: I have two brothers and we'll fight like crazy and

737
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: it gets ugly, and the next day it's like go surfing,

738
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: like it never happens. Yeah, And I don't know. I

739
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: don't think it's by like some brilliant design necessarily or

740
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: digging deep to do something really spectacular. It's just just

741
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,240
Speaker 1: in our DNA. It just kind of happened, right. I agree.

742
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: I think so too. I think guys building somewhat of

743
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 1: a buffer for guys. It's just like it's like he's

744
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: a guy, you know, like there's like there's a there's

745
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: a girl. There's a certain amount of grace that we're

746
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: gonna allow other guys. It's like it's like I do

747
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: with my dog. Like my dog could come running in

748
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: the house, filthy, right out of the lake, filthy and

749
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: shake off right in the house and somebody's like, why

750
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 1: is he doing that? I'm like, he's a boy, you know,

751
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: he's just there's is this. Yeah, there's a certain grace

752
00:38:56,560 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: that guys give other guys. It's just like, yeah, he

753
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: just didn't he forgot about it. Yeah, he just he's busy.

754
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: He's just like, I don't know, guys building that buffer

755
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: for other guys. I that is interesting, you know. I Okay, Yeah,

756
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: go ahead, part what you got now. I was just

757
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 1: gonna say I might go a little bit of a

758
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: fight with my wife recently, and I had a hard

759
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: time bouncing back, much harder than with a guy. And

760
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,919
Speaker 1: like not to be like, you know, softer or anything,

761
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: but like I think like it because it was like

762
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: so emotional, like it it hurt me kind of like

763
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: on a deeper level, you know. And maybe I took

764
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: it I don't know, personal, or maybe that's because I'm

765
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: a little insecure in that area a little bit, you know,

766
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: because it's you know, we're vulnerable when we're talking about

767
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: emotions and our feelings and who we love and and uh, yeah,

768
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know why it just had a

769
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: harder time bouncing back. Yeah, yeah, I've been there. Um, Okay,

770
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: moving on from that, why do men have a bad

771
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: attitude for the rest of the day when their teams loses?

772
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,320
Speaker 1: So when your Lions lose, Bob, why are you piste

773
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: off the rest of the day? I love you. I

774
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: was literally just getting ready to say I spent about

775
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: an entire NFL season pissed off. Yeah, as as a

776
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: Detroit Lions fan, you know, we're not really we're not

777
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: allowed to feel good during football season. It's not you know,

778
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't really know what this lovely listener is mentioning.

779
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: I've never not felt bad after our game, so uh,

780
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm probably more emotionally invested. I played

781
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: football in college, and so I'm more emotionally invested in

782
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: in in how Michigan State does than I am about

783
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 1: the Detroit Lions. But the Detroit Lions are That's my squad,

784
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: you know. So it's like like, yeah, you know, it's

785
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: I think it's one of those things that I always

786
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 1: think as a Lions fan. Anyway, There's been articles abound

787
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: that I've read where it's actually like a psychological disorder

788
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: that we always think this is the year, you know,

789
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: for the for the Lion. You guys always like this

790
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: is it. I know we're finally doing it. Man, we

791
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: got this going on, this one on And I mean

792
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: I have probably said in a million time, and all

793
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 1: my buddies laugh at me to calm the lie downs

794
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 1: instead of the Lions, and even my districtor and I'm

795
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: just I'm just getting all pissed off about it. But ultimately,

796
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: there's a lot of fry that goes into your sports teams.

797
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: And you know, I mean, for ifat matter Brooks like

798
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: my Red Wings, you know, I mean I'm a big

799
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: Red Wings guy. Like you know, they at least give

800
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: me something to cheer about. You know, my Lions just don't.

801
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: So you know, when they said the NFL was coming back,

802
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, Okay, you know, I'm excited

803
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,800
Speaker 1: to watch the Seahawks win. I'm excited to see the

804
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: teams playing, right, but you know, I'm not so excited

805
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: to watch the Lions losing. Bart What about you, this

806
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 1: one doesn't really doesn't really apply to me. I don't.

807
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what I think. Uh, I get really upset,

808
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: especially if I'm there in the stadium like full emotional,

809
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: you know, all that kind of stuff. But like I

810
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: walk out and get some food. I'm good like I don't.

811
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: I don't carry with me. That's not one of my

812
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: I got plenty of problems. I got plant issues. Like

813
00:41:55,560 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: you know, I guess I'm happy. Um, I gotta I

814
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: gotta try something onnenter size here. See if you guys,

815
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: see if it resonates with you. Um. I'm reading this

816
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: book called Together, and it's talking about different kinds of

817
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: connection for people. There's three different kinds of connection. There's

818
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: an intimate connection, which is like your partner or your wife.

819
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: There's a relational connection, which is like friends and stuff,

820
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,399
Speaker 1: and then there's a collective connection, which is being part

821
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: of something moving forward. And I think guys, a lot

822
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 1: of guys want to be part of the collective, part

823
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: of like Lion nation or sea hawk nation. They want

824
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: to be part of something um because maybe they don't

825
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: experience that in their life in the collective um with

826
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: their part of their family, which is a smaller I

827
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: shouldn't say smaller. Smaller is the wrong term, but it's

828
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: not part of a mass group. So there's family, there's

829
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 1: work kind of thing. But then when they get to

830
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: be fans of a sports team, they're part of the collective,

831
00:42:55,040 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: the city, the Hawks, nation, Seahawks, whatever, They're part of

832
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: something bigger, and so I think then when when the

833
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: team loses, it can affect that part of their connection.

834
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 1: Sure they does that make sense or not? Am I am?

835
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I grasping at straws there and my growing in the

836
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: dark sense to anybody? I think? I mean that that

837
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: makes sense to me. I mean, you know, I will

838
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: say I'm a I'm a lot like part in that.

839
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: I think I've gotten so used to it with my

840
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: lions that we're just gonna lose that. I I literally

841
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,760
Speaker 1: at the you know, I leave in the third quarter

842
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: while we're still leaning lines do and then my mind,

843
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: I think it's sunny outside, it's a great day, let's

844
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 1: get some cocktails, and I forget, you know, I forget

845
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: that we lost in the fourth quarter. So but yeah,

846
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: I do get it. It makes sense that, you know,

847
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: you want to be something part of something bigger. And

848
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: you know, I always say that if the lines that

849
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: were making to the super Bowl, there's no way I'm

850
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: not there, you know, But I guess that I like

851
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: I like the subject and I've I've actually spent a

852
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: lot of time thinking about this and I think it's

853
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: interesting because we need to feel significant, and when you

854
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: have a significant other that stills a lot of your needs.

855
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: Well you know, not everybody has a significant other, and

856
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: so you need to feel um, you need that connection

857
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: and you need that significant and it can be I

858
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: think it could be proactive. It could also be negative. Um,

859
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: you know, I've I've read this thing about like there's

860
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: there's a reason why a lot of young kids that

861
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: don't have family end up in GAG because as soon

862
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: as you join a gang, you're very significant, you're part

863
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: of something, you get the tattoo, you know, you know,

864
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: you go do things that are dangerous or scary, and

865
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: you're you're bonding with with people. So I'm not to

866
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: be a downer here, but like, I think there's like

867
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: those kind of things. But then there's you know, really

868
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: positive ones like family, like you know, embracing your family

869
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: and having really strong family relationships, or or really fun

870
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: ones like being a part of a and watching your

871
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: team and and being a part of that that group.

872
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: But there's something about that, I don't know that that

873
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:53,399
Speaker 1: connection you get that significant. I would also say I'd

874
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: also say, like good on guys for having some emotion,

875
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: you know, because you could be completely unemotional, You could

876
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: become completely unemotionable. Every an emotional about everything in your life. Uh,

877
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 1: we won today, we lost today. It's a nice day.

878
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: It's raining out. Like what, like, what do you want? Like?

879
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: At least the guy is showing some emotion. He wants

880
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: to be part of something and like it matters to him.

881
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: At least he can see that there's a heartbeat in there.

882
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 1: You know that the guy has a heartbeat. He's invested,

883
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 1: he's passionate about something. Now does it have to ruin

884
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: your entire day? Maybe not, Maybe take ten minutes and

885
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: then let's move on, because you didn't play it down

886
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: you watched it on TV, you know. But but I

887
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: do like that people invest, And especially as somebody that

888
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 1: played sports, I love when our fans invest personally in

889
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: what we're doing because they are a part of us.

890
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: It's not us winning the game, it's all of us.

891
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: It's a collective. It's the city. We represent the city,

892
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: the whole area, And so I love when people actually

893
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: step forward with their heart to be there with us.

894
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 1: It builds a bigger army than just our team. So

895
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: I actually love it that that guy is getting invested. Um.

896
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: I heard something really interesting about the significance of going

897
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 1: to a stadium and connecting with strangers, people you don't

898
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: know and you can and that's why, Like, it's kind

899
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: of nice. There's no politics, there's no you know, preconceived

900
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: judgments or anything like you can beat there's no it

901
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: doesn't matter the race, color, creed of of the person

902
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: next to you. You are a hundred percent brothers man,

903
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: don't you the way you're watching the game, Like, dude,

904
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: I don't care what this person pullaves in and next

905
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: to me that's my brother. Yeah, it's part of the

906
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: collect on a really deep level, like having this like

907
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: emotional experience together, which I think is a really beautiful thing,

908
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: especially in two thousand twenty and all the politics and

909
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: everything going on. It's so polarizing and we have to

910
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: think like, oh, if your ideas don't perfectly align with

911
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: my ideas, then I hate And it's like you just

912
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about this person, but he's standing

913
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: next to me. I mean, do you know you like

914
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: you hug people in your high five? You don't know

915
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: this guy, but like you love them. Yeah, yeah, Okay,

916
00:46:55,680 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 1: speaking of connection, why do men want se x? Twenty

917
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: four seven? Or is that a misconception? Do men want sex? Seven?

918
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: You know, my wife and I are trying to get

919
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: pregnant again. And I will tell you that when you're

920
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: when you're supposed to have sex all the time, you

921
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: see me, you seem me At least I'll speak for myself.

922
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: I will make it a generality here, But I literally

923
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: I think I want sex all the time until I'm

924
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: supposed to have it in this microcosm of this little

925
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: period of time, and I'm just like exhausted. I'm like,

926
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: you know, it's like that movie She's having a baby

927
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 1: with Bacon, like you know, whatever turns optimal, you know,

928
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 1: And You're like, I don't remember those days. Man, those

929
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: are not fun. It's something like something not sexy about that,

930
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: you know, dude. I told I told my wife I

931
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: go community favor. I'm like, I'm I'm stupid, I'm not smart,

932
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 1: Like trick me. I'm like, do not tell me. Yeah,

933
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: just all of a sudden, think I'm super hot in

934
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: that moment and make me feel Yeah, brilliant, Bob, that's

935
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: really I wish I would have thought of that, man,

936
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: So why is it Why is it a misconception that

937
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: men want sex? Is that just a common misconception or

938
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: do men actually want a seven? Well? I think like

939
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: what Bob saying is uh, I think there's some truth

940
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 1: to that, because men think they want seven, and then

941
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: I think you get it when you get a certain amount,

942
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 1: you're like okay when they I don't get four seven,

943
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: because we're just always deprived. And when you're deprived, when

944
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 1: you want it way less than they want it, then

945
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 1: it feels like it's all I want because I don't

946
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: get it up. Yeah, It's like ice cream or pizza.

947
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: It's like, I think I want pizza all the time.

948
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: I think I could cream constantly. I guess what about

949
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: packed full of a lot of ice cream? My teeth

950
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: are hurting, my head's kind of hurting, and I'm just

951
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 1: feel it all bloated. I don't. I don't like it's

952
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: team all the time. That's true, man. And I hear

953
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: my friends talk about like, oh yeah, man, you know

954
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: five hours that you know last night. I'm like, dude,

955
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do all day now? Exhausted? Special

956
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: occasions you're going out on a trip or something like that,

957
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: But like all the time man all night long, Like yeah,

958
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: like after the first twelve minutes, it was still fun.

959
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never made it that far, so I

960
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm like, I've never hit that far. You

961
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: should try it one time, Bob, like my sting? Am

962
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: I supposed to like sting? I don't know. I don't

963
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: know that that's just I'm not I'm I guess I'm

964
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: interpreting the question that it's just man that wanted seven.

965
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: But I will say this. I have a friend who

966
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 1: told me that she always had to have a boyfriend.

967
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: She's like, I have to have a boyfriend because I

968
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: cannot go more than two days without having sex. She's

969
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: just like, I have to have it. I was like

970
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 1: blown away. I had never seen somebody. She's like, you

971
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: have no idea. I have to have sex every day,

972
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: multiple times a day. And I'm like, wow, I did

973
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 1: not know. Yeah that was every day. Yeah, she's yeah.

974
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: I was just like. She ended up she ended up

975
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: being my realtor and sold a house for me. Um,

976
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 1: she was just a friend of mine but sold a

977
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 1: house for me. But it wasn't really interesting. I just

978
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 1: never knew that. I always thought, like most guys probably

979
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: guys think that guys have more sex drive, but I

980
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: don't think that's necessarily true. I definitely know that that's

981
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: not true, right, Yeah, Yeah, I think that's true. Yeah.

982
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: I was just having this conversation with my friends. I

983
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: don't you know the guest of this quote that that

984
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: women give sex to get love and then give love

985
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 1: to get sex, which makes me a whole topic, whole

986
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: another topic for probably a whole show. That's interesting. Um, okay,

987
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: how about this one? Why do men hate rom coms?

988
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: I don't relate to that at all. I love coms.

989
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: I love the favorite one? What's your favorite one? Bob Well?

990
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: Got anything old school with Matt Ryan? Uh? Yeah, I

991
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: mean obviously you go with a win Harry met Sally's

992
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: and sleep List in Seattles and all those, But I

993
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: mean I like them all. I even like the I'll

994
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 1: dial It, I'm not afraid to say it. I'll sit

995
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: there and watch a Hallmark movie all night long. I

996
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 1: love that stuff, So that does not apply to me.

997
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: And my wife tricked me into watching The Notebook, but

998
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: which I know does not have the com in the

999
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: rom com and I bawled like a baby. And I

1000
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 1: love that damn thing too. So yeah, I'm totally out

1001
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: on this one star I think, you know, I mean,

1002
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: I'm an actor, so I kind of like watching everything. Yeah,

1003
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: my favorite, but I mean there's definitely some good I

1004
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,399
Speaker 1: guess there's a lot of bad ones though, you know,

1005
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: like the genre itself is like there's a recent rom

1006
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: coms have to have big A list movie stars and

1007
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: that's because people wouldn't go see them if it wasn't

1008
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 1: the part of the student machine, you know, like you

1009
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: need that drive so which which is okay. You know,

1010
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: there's great actors doing wrong comp so don't get me wrong.

1011
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: And I love those ones, Bob, you know, sleeps in

1012
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: Seattle them And there's some beautiful, but there's some terrible ones. Man,

1013
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: there's a terrible it's a terrible Hallmark movies. I've started

1014
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 1: a number of terrible I can't even watch my own

1015
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: moue so bad. But the reason here, I'll give you

1016
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: a reason why men hate them because it's the same

1017
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: scenario played out with different faces and different actress actors actresses.

1018
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 1: It's guy meets girl, falls head over heels, guy does

1019
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 1: something to apparently screw it up. They break up, then

1020
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: they get back together, girl is happy and of movie.

1021
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: It's like that, right now, What what you're saying is

1022
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 1: it's the women like to see a couple of falling

1023
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: in love and the men don't like to see that.

1024
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: That's kind of what that boils down to, right, because

1025
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: that's really what you're watching. Yeah, yeah, truthfully, Yeah, and

1026
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: and like genuinely, if I'm looking to put on a movie,

1027
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: truth be told, I want like explosions and guns and

1028
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: action and something fast. It's just if I get to

1029
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 1: select the movie, that's what I want to see. Yeah,

1030
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: just the wrong It's just predictable. It's very it's very predictable.

1031
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: There was one movie. Do you remember this movie, Sweet

1032
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: November Charlie Starre and Kiano Reeves. Yes, Okay, Bob watched

1033
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: that movie because that's the only movie I've ever seen

1034
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: where it didn't just like beautifully come back together and

1035
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: the world was perfect. It kind of left you piste

1036
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: off as like a little slap in the face at

1037
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: the end of the movie with what you're expecting. Sweet November.

1038
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: Watch it's the only it's the only alternate ending to like,

1039
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's rom com kind of it's

1040
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: a wrom whatever it was so long ago I saw,

1041
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: maybe a decade plus or something. But I don't know.

1042
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: I can do without the rom comes. I'll watch him.

1043
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: I'll sit through them, but like I hope there's just

1044
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 1: some funny parts in it. The asse. These days, there's

1045
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: so many movies and so many things to watch on

1046
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: Netflix and Amazon and who outlets. Yeah, so much content

1047
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: out there. Okay here is Yeah, that's true. Um, why

1048
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: do men lie about their height? I always round so

1049
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: I will tell you I'm I'm technically six too, and

1050
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: probably like between a half and three quarters. So I

1051
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: always just say six three. No, I don't see that

1052
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 1: as a lie. But I don't round down. I don't know.

1053
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: I never say i'm six too. Oh yeah, I'm six three,

1054
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 1: and they'll go really not six two and a half.

1055
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like I'm not. I always

1056
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,479
Speaker 1: round up. And I don't know why that is, because

1057
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: I but I know I'm a tall guy. But it's

1058
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: like it's not like there's any inherent reason for it

1059
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 1: other than I guess I'm just not rounding down now

1060
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: when it comes to my weight. If I've been eating

1061
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: the traffic ice cream, I round down instead of rounding up.

1062
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: So there's that get it round round the hide up

1063
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 1: around the way down. Yeah, well, I think all three

1064
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: of us are six three is so we're all we're

1065
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: all really tall guys. Kind of a rough question for us,

1066
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: But um, that's funny because I always say six three.

1067
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm really six three and a half. And I always

1068
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: feel like, why do I got to get the half

1069
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,399
Speaker 1: in there? You know? What do I just gonna see

1070
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 1: three and a half? What's wrong with me? Why can't

1071
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: you just say six three and just be happy with it?

1072
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: You know? Well, I think if you were to say

1073
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: the half then it would be weird, right it was?

1074
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: I think two and three quarters. I mean like it's

1075
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: two and three quarter. You know. It's sort of like

1076
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 1: when people have a kid and like, I'm going through

1077
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 1: this right now. My kid's gonna be too next month,

1078
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 1: and I feel really weird when I'm going how old

1079
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: is your son? I'm going twenty three months and three days.

1080
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: It's like okay. But I will say I have heard

1081
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: a lot of when being very judgmental about men's height. Yeah, yeah,

1082
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: here offer a lot like girls date guys that are,

1083
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: you know, below six feet or below five ten or

1084
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 1: you know whatever. Yeah, yeah, that's you always hear it

1085
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: in that six six fts of magic number. This if

1086
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: you if they're the first thing a woman will say,

1087
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: he's so short. He's good looking, but he's so short.

1088
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, you're you know what's what's wrong is

1089
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: like that they're they're the first to be offended if

1090
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 1: you say anything about their weight or you know, anything

1091
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: any you know, like how could you insult the female body?

1092
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: But you better be six ft tall? You know, like

1093
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 1: wait a minute, yeah, that's so true. Yeah, if you're

1094
00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: if you're I see guys guys that are under I

1095
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 1: feel for guys that are under six ft that are

1096
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: just grasping at that six ft but are never gonna

1097
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,879
Speaker 1: make it, Like I just feel for that. It's it's

1098
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: a blessing. Truthfully, it's a blessing to be I'm six

1099
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 1: to um and I'm six too. I'm not six two

1100
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 1: and three quarters or I'm not leaving anything off of

1101
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 1: the I'm just actually six too. But it's I would

1102
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: love to be like six four six ft if I

1103
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 1: if I could be taller, I'd probably choose to be taller.

1104
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: I have a six five nephew and a six seven nephew,

1105
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: and I'm all just like SI seven seven Yeah, and

1106
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: he's a golfer. He doesn't play basketball, and as she's

1107
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: the ball every time off to tea like three yard,

1108
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: it's crazy. But my six five nephew, it's like the

1109
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: perfect hYP He's just you know, it's a nice hype.

1110
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: Does he play ball? No? And I don't one of

1111
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: them ever played. I've met a couple of guys that

1112
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: are that kind of hype and and you're just like,

1113
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: you don't mean anything. Five he' say, oh man, hey

1114
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: you play ball, and they're like no, No. Every day,

1115
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: all day long, people want to talk to me about basketball,

1116
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: and I don't play bad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm saying, Okay,

1117
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 1: we've got two questions left and we'll let you guys go.

1118
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: Um here's one. Why do men not care about social

1119
00:57:55,640 --> 00:58:01,439
Speaker 1: media slash social media image as much as girls? Yeah?

1120
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: I get yelled at for this one. I think. I mean,

1121
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: you know, if you're if you're on the like the

1122
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: Bachelor of the Bachelorette today and you're a first night reject,

1123
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: you got like one point eight million followers the next day,

1124
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 1: you know, I was, I was on triest this season,

1125
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 1: and then I became the Bachelor, but it was before

1126
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: social media, thank god, and I just never cared. And

1127
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, I was getting people kind

1128
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 1: of getting in my grip about it a little, like

1129
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: you gotta do this now. I get people yelling at

1130
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: me because I posted to me pictures of my dog

1131
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: and to me pictures of my kids and nothing, no

1132
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 1: interesting content, and like, I don't feel like I do

1133
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: anything interesting that I can share, you know. So it's true.

1134
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: I I am the poster point for this question, and

1135
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: I think it's to be honest, I don't want people

1136
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: to think that I think I'm that that I think

1137
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: that I'm so interesting that you need to be obsessed

1138
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: with what I'm doing in a given day. Yeah, I

1139
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: think there's a little part of that that makes me

1140
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: think that way, although I don't feel that way about

1141
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: other people that have great content. I look at their stuff,

1142
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's so cool, man. I wish I

1143
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: would have done something like that. You know, I just

1144
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: don't think of it. I just never think of it

1145
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 1: until it's too late. Part. Yeah, I think all three

1146
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: of us are kind of in an interesting situation where

1147
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: we're all in the movie biz, so we have these

1148
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: social media accounts that, especially our age, we wanted for business,

1149
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: but we also want to be for our own personal

1150
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: use and post things that interest us. And it's like, well,

1151
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: those two things don't like perfectly coexist really, and it's

1152
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: almost like offensive. Like I'll post a picture a stock

1153
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: image photo of me from high school musical twelve years ago,

1154
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: and I'll get, you know, fifty life and then I'll

1155
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: post like a really intimate picture with me and my kids,

1156
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: and it's like like, no, come on. You know, it's

1157
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: like I heard my feelings. Man, this is like first

1158
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: of the right of my life. But you know, so

1159
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: I think it's hard to kind of find that balance

1160
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: for people like us, and so I don't. I can't.

1161
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: I can't really speak for the guys like that are

1162
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: not in the business that that don't care, but I

1163
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: certainly understand it as But and Bob, I'm the same way, man.

1164
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: Like social media was happening when I was on like

1165
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 1: my biggest, like highest profile stuff and everybody's telling me

1166
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: to get into it. I was like, I don't need

1167
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 1: that stuff, man. I'm like, you know, I just don't

1168
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: need it. And I could have done it. Yeah, I'm like,

1169
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: I try to catch up. Man, I'm just trying to

1170
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 1: catch up. Now you're God, I feel like that's not

1171
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 1: doing like, hey, hey, I see today. Keep those TikTok so, buddy, Yeah,

1172
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: I gotta those. I like all the other social media

1173
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: is like a painting my butt, But TikTok I just

1174
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:40,560
Speaker 1: it's super it's super fun that, Like the the youngest,

1175
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: probably most immature outlet is the one. I just feel

1176
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: super comfortable love that. I love that. Um. If I

1177
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: was to answer this question, why do men not care

1178
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 1: so much about social um, I think it's because lesson

1179
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: m hmm. I think because in general, painting a broad stroke,

1180
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: which I hate to do, but I'm gonna paint a

1181
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: broad stroke, guys are less worried about what others think

1182
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: about them. Yeah, then maybe what women are so it's

1183
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: everything isn't as intentional and it doesn't have to be

1184
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: like I see, I've seen this many times. As soon

1185
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: as you take like uh and I'm not I'm not

1186
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: judging women are just saying only women do this, But

1187
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: as soon as they take a picture, it's look at

1188
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: it criticized. Something about it hit the app, face tune,

1189
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: alter something, and then maybe we can use it. But

1190
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: guys are like, yes, great, okay, put it up there.

1191
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: There's wonderful and and I don't know. I just think guys,

1192
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: maybe guys just feel like they're not being judged as much,

1193
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 1: so they're like, I don't have to like think about

1194
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: my content as much. I know, I really don't know,

1195
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: but I get accurate, sure, um, And maybe we just

1196
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: don't care. Maybe we just we share it for ourselves.

1197
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 1: We aren't sharing it for other people. Like Bob, you

1198
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: said you share pictures of your dog or whatever, like

1199
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: I share pictures of my dog. I actually like, I

1200
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: actually care about my my social stuff too, because I

1201
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: really enjoy photography and I enjoy sharing beautiful things that

1202
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: that inspire people and capture like beautiful moments, um, because

1203
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 1: those are visual memories for me. So I think I'm

1204
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: probably more intentional with my social than most guys. But

1205
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: I have other I have a buddy that just throws

1206
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: something up and I'm like, wow, you just gunned that

1207
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: up and didn't ever look at it ever. Again. Hey,

1208
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: it's just like the internet really needed that one. Okay,

1209
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: last question, then we'll get you guys, out of here.

1210
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 1: Last question, why do men love barbecuing? What is it

1211
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: about barbecuing that men absolutely love? Uh? You know what,

1212
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: It's true, Like I king of the grill in my mind,

1213
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know, I will have a plan,

1214
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: I want to do it this way. I'm thinking about

1215
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: it for days or if you even pop up and

1216
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, I got this. Even I might even

1217
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: be the best cook in the place. Nine times I

1218
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 1: said I'm not, but in my mind, I've got to

1219
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: be the guy manning the girl. And I don't even

1220
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 1: know why that is. And that's true. Um, I think

1221
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: it's because I think it's it's what you just said.

1222
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: What's the word you let off with. I want to

1223
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: be the king of the grill. It's you feel and

1224
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: like if you're grilling for something, you feel like the provider,

1225
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:25,680
Speaker 1: you feel like the king. It's that that's a powerful

1226
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: emotion for a man. It's an important thing to be

1227
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: the grill master, the grill master. Indeed, I think it

1228
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 1: really has something to do with that fire too. Man

1229
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: has to do with an open flame food cooking on

1230
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: top of that, like like a cave man. There's something

1231
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: very like base and and I don't know like neanderthal

1232
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: about it. You know that I think we connect with

1233
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 1: I know I do. I'm obsessed with cooking on an

1234
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 1: open flame when I go camping. I love bringing food

1235
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 1: and bringing meat or without bigger steak and throw it

1236
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 1: on a on a top of a flame out on

1237
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 1: a out hamping in the mountains of Great Yeah, it's

1238
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: it's it provides, it provides significance what we're talking about before,

1239
01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: because like the barbecue, that's why we get together. Let's

1240
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: have a barbecue, Like you're saying the word barbecue, so

1241
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: the guy that gets to run the barbecue is the king.

1242
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: Barbecue is just another word for like, like let's have

1243
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: a meal together. But you you feel like you are

1244
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: the provider of of the whole experience because you have

1245
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: the meat, which is for some reason we anointed as

1246
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 1: the most important thing in this meal, when it's not

1247
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: it's just part of the meal. There's vegetables, are salad,

1248
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: there's juice or what there's other things, but we anoint

1249
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: the meat is the most important part. And to be

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Speaker 1: the guy that gets to prepare that for the group,

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Speaker 1: and then everybody gives you these all this a steak

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Speaker 1: is so good. Oh it's so well done. Oh this

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Speaker 1: sausage of the hammer. You just feel damn good. You

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Speaker 1: feel good, you know, I will say Brooks on top

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Speaker 1: of that, when you say the word barbecue, you're not automatically.

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Speaker 1: You're putting a lot of emotion behind it. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's usually outdoor and it's an event, and people are

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Speaker 1: bringing kind of special food to the thing, you know,

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Speaker 1: and it's like it's it paints a picture and now

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Speaker 1: and yes and it um. It's like for me, it's

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Speaker 1: actually like a little mini vacation. It's like you forget

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Speaker 1: about everything else. Everybody's like, we got a crew of

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Speaker 1: people over here for a barbecue. The world has stopped

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Speaker 1: outside of this little room. And as far as I

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Speaker 1: can see right here this little bubble, the world has

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Speaker 1: stopped in my mind. And so like it's a real

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Speaker 1: it's a real moment of presence. It's a real moment

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Speaker 1: of gathering and time of connection and then the significance

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Speaker 1: of being able to provide. Usually you've bought the food

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Speaker 1: that you're grilling. So like, this is my treat, my

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Speaker 1: way of showing love and and to my friends and

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Speaker 1: sharing my heart with my friends, and so there's so

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Speaker 1: much actually that goes into it, which is why I

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Speaker 1: love it. I love that that's interesting because there's something

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Speaker 1: very there's a huge difference in the dynamic between coming

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Speaker 1: over for dinner, where a lot of those things are similar.

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Speaker 1: I'll provide for you and make you dinner or anything else,

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Speaker 1: but coming over for dinner, let me let me make

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Speaker 1: you dinner as opposed to come over for a barbecue. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Yes, it sounds fun. Yeah, okay, So who's

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Speaker 1: how's we meet? Now? Do you want to come to mind?

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Speaker 1: I bought a new barbecue. It's just out back there

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Speaker 1: and lets Brooks. It looks like your place is like

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Speaker 1: ready for barbecue. It looks like I am I'm hiding

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Speaker 1: isolation still there, Come here, dudes. I appreciate you both. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you both. Um once again, Bob, where can

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Speaker 1: our community find you? Where's where do you hang out? At?

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Speaker 1: Um at Bob getting all over the place. So Instagram, Twitter,

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Speaker 1: don't expect much on social media challenge, but occasionally check in.

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Speaker 1: You can see pictures of my dad's and my kids

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Speaker 1: love it. I'm going, Bob, I'm gonna I'm gonna follow

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Speaker 1: you know me too, man, I'm following you too, Bart,

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Speaker 1: Where can people find you? Where do you hang out at?

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Speaker 1: I'm at Bart Underscore, Johnson on all the stuff in Instagram, TikTok,

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Speaker 1: Twitter and you too beautiful? And then where where can

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Speaker 1: people where can we get more information about Held, the

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Speaker 1: new movie that just premiered Wednesday? At all those places?

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Speaker 1: Just my social Um, it's just you know, we just

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Speaker 1: have the world premiere yesterday, so it's just starting to

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Speaker 1: make the festival route. Um, and we'll see you. How's

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Speaker 1: it come to the US yet? So I'm super excited.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen the movie yet. The filmmakers will let

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Speaker 1: me see it until I see it with a big crowd,

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Speaker 1: so I'm dying. That's kind of cool. Yeah, I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: You guys. I always think that's so weird how you

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Speaker 1: guys can work on I always think it's so weird

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Speaker 1: how you guys can work on something and then never

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Speaker 1: see the product, like not being man, it's crazy, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: And then I you know, I did. Um. I was

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Speaker 1: on ktl A this morning with Sam Ruben. He's asking

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Speaker 1: me about the movie, and I'm like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. I haven't seen

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Speaker 1: it man. Yeah, the idea okay, well, well when well

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Speaker 1: when health skyrockets and you do a hell to just

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Speaker 1: put in a good word for your buddy, Bob, Guiney

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Speaker 1: and Brooks like we're go, I'll even do I'll even

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Speaker 1: do the catering. I'll be the all girl girl Bob,

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Speaker 1: and I'll grill, will pourtvide food on the set. You

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Speaker 1: name it. Guys that thank you for your time and

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Speaker 1: thank you for your honesty and your answers. And to

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Speaker 1: our listeners, thank you for your questions. This was awesome.

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Speaker 1: I hope we helped you understand some things from the

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Speaker 1: male perspective. So until next week, everybody, take care of another,

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Speaker 1: love one another, and we'll see you back here for

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Speaker 1: another episode of How Men Think