WEBVTT - WEDS PT 1: Lunchbox Gets BUSTED + A Listener Has A Warning For Bobby 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:14.480 Transmitting Liza, Welcome to Wednesday show, Morning Studio. Let's grab 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:19.720 some calls up. First, Crystal, who lives in Indiana. Crystal, 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:20.560 you are on the show. 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:21.120 Good morning. 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:23.400 Hi, Oh my gosh, good morning studio. 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:23.919 Morning. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:24.440 Huh. 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:30.000 I can't believe that. So my question, I was hoping 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:31.720 to get tickets to the million Dollar show when they 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:33.839 go on sale and this I've been lucky enough to 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:35.840 go a couple of times. I was thinking though about 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:38.920 taking my son with me this time. He is six 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:43.720 and a half and he loves music. He's taking guitar lessons. 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.040 He wants to be the next Don Jovie. How do 0:00:46.080 --> 0:00:50.160 we feel about six for a concert like this specific 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:53.320 venue and this specific show. My husband's a little worried 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.480 about safety, and so I just didn't know what you 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:56.600 guys thought around the room. 0:00:57.400 --> 0:00:59.800 Well, I can do this part first, as far as 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:03.480 like the content of the show completely safe for a 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:06.680 six year old. Also, the question is, and people would 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.319 ask this too about coming to my comedy shows, like 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.319 does a kid want to wait there that long? Because 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:14.560 I were completely clean, We were completely clean. It's does 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:16.520 a six year old have the patience to sit through 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:19.000 a two and a half hour show, and that would 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.360 normally be what a show would be from opener to 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:23.280 the end of the closer, but we don't have an opener, 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:25.920 like because there's so many artists you've been before too, Crystal. 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.600 It's like it just starts and then we go. So 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:32.040 I'm going to speak only on that part of If 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.520 the kid can sit for two and a half hours 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:39.039 and there'll be nothing dirty, bad scene, I think that 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:39.560 part's good. 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:40.399 Amy, what do you think I mean? 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:43.000 Especially since he loves music, I'm totally fine with it. 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.320 I would take my six year old and if they 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:50.480 didn't like music, I think it'd be fun. But especially 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.200 since your son is into it, He's going to see 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.600 such a variety of people, and I think he's going 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:58.520 to be just mesmerized by the talent that is going 0:01:58.560 --> 0:01:59.800 to be hitting that stage and to be at the 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:00.440 I'm in. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:01.920 And then all the guests will bring it to the 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.600 historic like, yeah, where our talent, but everybody else coming 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:05.920 That's what. 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:06.520 I was referring to. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:09.680 Yeah, but like your housemate, y'all, there's super talent. 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:12.359 Yeah, they follow our lead, you know me? 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:16.520 Man, it's anyway I think, Yeah, you know, six is great, 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.720 I think and especially for this show obviously, like we 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.720 know what this show is. He wants to be the 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.480 next bon Jovi. There is a lot of fun music 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.080 moments in the show that I think he would really 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.960 really love. I think Bobby's right though, you may have 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:29.680 to walk them around a little bit a couple of times, 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:31.760 just so he doesn't get bored of just sitting in 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.560 the same spot for the whole time. 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:35.639 But I think it's awesome. Do people vape at the show? 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:39.119 I didn't know. She says, you vaping, right, she did. 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:44.680 I never heard safety crowd. I've never seen anyone. 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:48.560 That's definitely not happening at the Ryman. But also it's 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:52.040 cool too that the show benefits Saint Jude and the 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:55.280 kids are sometimes there and they take right and so 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.079 I think anytime we can expose our kids to what 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:02.480 other kids may be facing and the different challenges like 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:03.960 that is always good too. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.120 So we're gonna go with yes, Crystal, and we would 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.120 for sure tell you if it were a no, because 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:09.720 the show will sell out, so I'm not really worried 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:14.320 about selling tickets, but we say yes. And again, my 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:15.840 only concern is I don't want to sit between a 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.519 half hours much less a six year old. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.639 I would need to be walked around. Yeah uh so, yeah, 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:22.320 good luck. 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.040 I hope you go music aspect. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:25.359 I think he would love it. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:29.840 So he can't vape though, VA tell your husband it'll 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:31.480 be cool. No vaping, no bathing. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:34.079 Okay, we're anti vaping. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.880 Good all right, Crystal, thank you for the call. 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:38.840 I hope you have a great day. Hope to see you. 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.360 Tickets going so Friday. Don't forget ten am Central Time, 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:42.440 Bobbybones dot Com. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:43.760 Awesome, Thanks guys, alright. 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:43.880 Bye bye. 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.520 Let's go to Abby, who is listening in Little Rock. Hey, Abby, 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:48.120 you're on the show. 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:50.760 I heard you guys talking about how you got out 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:52.360 of tickets, and I was calling to tell you how 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:55.600 I got a mind. I was booking it. One day 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.680 I got pulled over by state trooper. I was seven 0:03:58.680 --> 0:03:59.920 and a half months pregnant. I told him I had 0:03:59.960 --> 0:04:02.120 to he really bad. So he asked me where I 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:03.800 was going. I was like, I guess the next exit, 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.400 So he said, okay, go ahead. He followed me in 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:08.720 his car. I went inside and use the restroom. Come out. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.520 He told me have a good day and he left. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:14.120 So it was a real reason you were pregnant. And 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.679 had to pee, and you probably weren't going way over 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:19.400 probably borderline anyway, and he probably had all sympathy for 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:21.240 somebody's pregnant, right either. 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.320 He followed her to make sure she went to the bathroom, 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:24.560 like he was like, all right, let's se if she 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:24.880 was lying. 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:26.960 Oh yeah, oh for sure. But how do you prove that? 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:29.080 You just go in the bathroom. He just looked at 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.040 he still behind you, and I mean, did you have 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:32.400 to go? 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.560 I did not as bad a speed, as fast as I. 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:39.200 Was though that Well, you know, I have nothing to 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:42.320 say about that except you did it. You did it, 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.719 and you learned your lesson, and you know what, you're pregnant. 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.400 Let's give her a little grace, is what I say. 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:49.440 I think if you're pregnant, you get one free crime. 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:51.920 Oh whoa, here's the crime. 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.640 Like after six months, you get one free crime. It 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:59.640 can be felony what on earth? And just yeah, no murdering, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.640 But like unless there's a good. 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:04.560 Reason, like opening someone's mail, or doesn't I do. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:05.440 More than that? That's like. 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:10.560 Maybe a little maybe little rug trafficking, maybe maybe robbing 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:12.800 a bank with no no injury. But I think when 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.760 you're pregnant you should get one. It's a gift from 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.159 the society to the pregnant person. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:17.760 You know, there's a lot of pregnant people. 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:18.880 Yeah, let them have it. 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.679 Give give them one, Abby, Thank you for calling. 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:22.600 Thank you every day. 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:23.080 Bye bye. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:26.000 Let's go over to somebody that wants to be anonymous 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:27.760 in Detroit. Hello, you're on the show. 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:30.159 Yeah, good morning, Bobby. You're just trying to give you 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.400 a friendly tip. Don't play your drone over a five hundred. 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.719 Feet over five hundred feet, yeah. 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:38.800 Keep it below five hundred feet, otherwise you might get 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:41.760 a letter from my group called the FAA. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:44.919 How how do I know it's five hundred feet? Like, 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:46.920 I haven't even flown you know, here we are. I'm 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:48.400 new to the drone thing. I'm just trying to save 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.040 the world. I mean, pardon me for a saving in 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:50.560 the world. 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:53.440 Wide Yeah that yeah, yeah, But I'm just trying to 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:58.560 save you because if you get caught doing something that's 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:02.679 against the regulation. Right now, I think the minimum fine 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:04.280 is twenty eight thousand dollars. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.120 But do I get a letter first that says thank 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.839 you for reading this letter. The next time you'll be fined. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.800 No, you get a letter with a green card for 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:18.000 a return receipt, and you'll have an interview with ante 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:23.320 inspector and depending on how he takes your admission or 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:27.680 how you are kind of saying, gee, I'm sorry, I 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:31.960 didn't know them, they can decide at that level whether 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:34.080 or not to pursue it. And if we pursue it, 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:36.080 then you go to d OJ and that's where the 0:06:36.160 --> 0:06:37.800 things you're really getting competid. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.320 What if I say am pregnant, don't follow me here. 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:43.560 What if I say I'm pregnant and I got to pee, 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.800 you know, I walk out of the room and never 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:45.120 come back. 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:46.599 Yeah, but we're not pregnant. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:46.920 I'm in. 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.680 Do you want to know how to visualize five hundred feet? 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:49.960 I don't because I don't give a crap. I'm just 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.200 gonna fly this drone up and I'm taking care of business. 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.320 Whatever happens to me, happens to me. I'm looking out 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.760 for the people because this happened all over the country, 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.520 and if I need to be, you know, I'll say it. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:00.760 I will. 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:02.880 I'll go down for it, and then I'll do a 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:04.280 go fund me to raise all the money. I'll probably 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.039 thirty thousand and keep you for myself for all the 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.040 time and effort for the trouble, the troubles I want 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:09.960 to throw. No, I appreciate that I did not know that, 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.680 So thank you very much for letting me know. I 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:13.800 don't really know if your. 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:15.360 Feet Okay, do you want me to tell you how? 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.320 I don't because because if I know, you'll. 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.720 Have a reference. Then I don't want to have a reference. 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:22.120 I don't want to know. I don't want to be. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:23.600 This is one of the things like don't tell me. 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:26.360 Don't tell because they can show this in courtant and 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.720 be like he knew, don't They. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:30.360 Can play this on But the thing is they play 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.440 this on the on the speakers of our podcast over 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.840 the speakers, everybody be laughing so hard, how funny we are. 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:37.240 They probably forget to send it to me. So that's 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:39.720 the goal, all seriousness. Thank you very much for letting 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.640 me know, and I'll be very careful. 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:43.280 So think about five hundred seat. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:47.840 I can't hear this because I don't want to know, 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.200 because I don't want to because if you don't know, 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.360 and that's the role, if you don't know about it. Yeah, okay, 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:57.160 thank you though, that's knowledge we all needed, right everybody. 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:03.880 Yeah, But then basically alluded that he works for the FAA. 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.480 Is his voice seemed very distinct. 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:09.680 I don't recognize them. I don't recognize it. Hanging out 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:15.280 much fair? Thank you here, let's go any what do 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:15.440 you have? 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:17.160 So this is a way to remember how you want 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.000 to show up every day in your life. And you 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:20.680 just got to remember these two words. Do you want 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:22.640 to be a thermometer or do you want to be 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:23.400 a thermostat? 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:24.400 Difference? 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.040 Yeah, So thermometers they take the temp of the room 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.880 and they take it on like they don't get a choice. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.320 And you know, if they're going to have a good 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.200 day or a bad day, they just take on. So 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:37.080 if there's negative energy, well they take that on. Thermostats 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:40.120 they don't let other people dictate their day. They're not 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:43.480 impacted by the room. They choose to have a positive day. 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:46.000 And so we have a thermostat and a thermometer in 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:46.679 the room right now. 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:50.800 Okay, so a thermometer, right The thermometer has no influence 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:54.640 on the temperature. Nope, it's only reporting it because it 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.800 goes in and goes this is what it is around 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.000 me and making sure that all is right. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:02.640 The thermistat actually takes exactly okay, But does. 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:05.080 The thermometer can it do anything about it? 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:09.160 It just kind of sits there and passive in the 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:10.080 hole and it does what it does. 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.679 Like and if that's how you want to show up, 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:15.840 then you're just you're doomed for whatever the temp is. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.640 I like it, okay, And you said you think there's 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.360 each in this room? Yes, who's the thermometer? 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:26.080 Like, sometimes it's just good to have examples ahead. So 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:28.920 lunchbox is a thermometer. 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:32.400 In that house. So well, he just. 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.880 Kind of can take on the energy of the room. 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:36.720 And like if he's going to have a bad day, 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.280 like if there's bad energy, like he'll just have the 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.480 bad day and continue to have the bad day. I 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.280 think you're not going to be impacted by his bad mood. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:47.840 So that makes you the thermostat. Oh you're not gonna 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:49.559 let anything get into your thermostat. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:50.520 Yeah, you're the thermostat. 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.440 Like you get things done, you will like not let 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:54.480 anybody else impact. 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:55.720 Like, if you've got a list of things. 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:56.800 To do and you need to get through it and 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:58.680 have a good day, you're going to power through and 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.839 have a good day and not be impacted. He gets 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:04.319 impacted by other things, other people, and then there's nothing 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:05.000 we can do about it. 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:07.960 That's true. He does get weirdly mad about like shack. 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.200 Now when winning the lottery. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:15.400 Marriage like stories where he's like, that's all ys dopid. 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.120 Yeah, he does, just kind of like if we have. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.400 Something good that happens to. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:20.480 Us, he gets mad. 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:24.720 No, not when something good happens to you. 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:26.480 You get annoyed when I don't get paid for something. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.839 Yes, that's exactly what she said, you know. 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:30.800 But like if Amy buys a house, I'm not like, oh, 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.280 you know, I'm so sad for you. 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:35.599 I'm happy for you. But she harmony, I got a 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:39.000 little mad. She got a movie, right, I'm annoyed. Yeah, okay, 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:41.280 so still hold on to that. The moral of the 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:43.640 story is try to be a thermostat right. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:45.160 Don't let others dictate your day. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.600 Don't be affected by things you can't control. Don't it's 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:51.839 hard to not be jealous as natural, and it's okay 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:55.400 to be jealous, but don't let jealous manifest itself in 0:10:55.480 --> 0:11:01.079 ways that could affect other people. Difference in having thoughts 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:02.000 and thinking. 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:05.760 Is this kind of the same one, Like everyone's being 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:07.760 a bully and then you jump in and be a 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:08.640 bully to you. 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:10.360 I don't know. I don't know what you're saying. 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:12.960 You know, you're a thermostat because you're a bully. 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:14.959 Yeah, Like like if you're not a thermostat, you'd be 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:18.000 a thermometer. But like, if everyone's being a bully and 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:19.439 I'm not a bully, but I walk in there and 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:20.800 be like, well, I can be a bully too, because 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:21.760 that's what everyone else is doing. 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:25.040 I'm a thermometer. Yeahs a bully. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:27.560 Hold on, you know, I'm confused because a thermostat sets 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.120 the mood. So if you're being a bully, you're being 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:31.560 a thermoistayre just jumping in. You didn't start as the bully. 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.720 Analogy of a thank you for sharing that segment? 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:36.360 Never mind? 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:38.920 Take it all that, Yes, and now we're gonna. 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:58.600 Move On's a question to me, Hello, Bobby Bones recently 0:11:58.640 --> 0:11:59.360 got engaged. 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:02.560 The problem is my fiance has a dog with his 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:07.280 ex and is still swapping a dog every week. No kids, 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:10.360 just one dog. He does not see anything weird about 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.400 this at all, but won't give up the dog and 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:14.959 won't keep it just for himself. I knew about the 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.320 dog ahead of time, but the more we start planning 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.080 our wedding and future. I don't think it's a good 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.719 idea to keep this connection with his ex as it's 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.000 starting to make me feel more and more uncomfortable. Do 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:25.840 I ask him to give up the dog? Is there 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:26.920 another solution here? 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:32.160 Signed? Dog Custody Curiosity. I know you do not. 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.720 This is something you knew about going into it. This 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.440 is a dog. There is a slight chance he's picked 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:39.120 that dog over you. I'm just saying if it's a 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.320 dog for a long time, not that he will for sure, 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:46.000 only thirteen percent chance. Like I love my dog so much, 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.400 I'm not gonna choose him over my wife. But whenever 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:52.400 she was my early girlfriend, there'd have been a discussion. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:53.760 But here's the thing. 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:59.000 You knew when you got into this relationship that this 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.960 was the era rangement that they had. You've got to 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.320 remove whatever feeling you have about his ex because he 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:05.280 doesn't want to be with her. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.400 He's marrying you, I think too. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:12.680 Maybe, depending on how they broke up previously, there could 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:13.520 be some sensitivity. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:16.319 For example, if it's widely known that she dumped. 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.679 Him, that would leave you to think that he might 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:21.959 still have a bit of feelings even if he doesn't 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:28.400 if he dumped her or it was usual, which is 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:30.440 never really a thing, but it can kind of be close. 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:33.880 You have to remove that part of it. But you 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:36.679 have to get over all of this. Never get between 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.720 a man and his dog. Now, there are things you 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:40.200 can do. The dog didn't sleep in the bed with 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.959 me anymore. Used to Calem's like, I don'd rather not 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:44.719 have all the germs and dust and dogs kicking and 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.600 all that, because we both would be the bead at 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:49.040 the same time, me and the dog, because the dog 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:50.800 would be I'd be like, opps, I do it too. 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.760 I understand this is uncomfortable. There are a lot of 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.560 uncomfortable things about the first year, year and a half, 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.960 two years of marriage. You cannot ask him to give 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:04.439 up the dog. What you can ask is for him 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:07.520 to try to get sole custody of the dog. Now 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:11.000 that's on her wanting to give it up, though, Man, 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:14.280 I'm so dog sensitive. The fact that she's even asking this, 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:15.080 I don't even like her. 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:18.520 Yeah, she's like I knew going into it, and now 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:19.560 she's changing her too. 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:22.200 I should not like you, because I'm sure you're a 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.360 good person. I'm glad you emailed us. But you can't 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.160 get in the middle. I understand the X still being 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:28.480 around is the thing. The dog's not gonna live forever. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.440 That sucks too, that's my next question. Yeah, if it's 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.320 a bulldog like mine, I get sad all the time. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.480 Stanley's about to die and he's only like four or five, 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.400 but they only live to like nine. He's like a 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:41.280 middle aged man with a convertible right now. You you 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.840 do nothing, You can't do anything to get in the 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:45.960 way of this. He's gonna be so resentful of you. 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.640 This is his dog because if he didn't love this dog, 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:50.480 you definitely wouldn't be going back and forth with it. 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:54.800 So my advice to you, it's easy to say get 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:56.400 over it, but you have to know why you're getting 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:56.800 over it. 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.400 Yeah, that's good. Yes, get to the root of what 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:00.720 is actually bothering you. 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.240 One, what is it with the ex Sure it is weird, 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:05.680 There's gonna be a lot of weird things that happened 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:06.400 to you in your life. 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.160 Just because it's weird doesn't mean it's wrong. 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:12.320 And two, you must not have ever had a dog 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.200 that you freaking love with all your heart. 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:15.920 And guts, because if you did this would not be 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:16.240 a thing. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.480 And take it from somebody who who loves his dog 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.320 with all his hearts and guts that if you ever 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:24.200 did this to me, I would reconsider because. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:25.840 You don't love me. It's even about the situation. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.920 It's that you don't appreciate my feelings and what I'm 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:30.920 passionate about enough. 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.920 It will work itself out. Try to get soul custody. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:37.800 That's not even real thing with a dog maybe, but. 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.080 Court for that, yeah, you can. It can work into 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:44.760 the legal documents. Went back and forth with our dog for. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.640 A while and the most loving way. Get over it. 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:48.800 And even if it's traded every week and you don't 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:52.920 have any worry about him cheating, get over it. I 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:56.800 almost feel like dumping you right now, but I'm sure 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:59.400 you're a good person. You have to get over this one. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:15:59.880 It's hard. 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:02.400 I'm sure you're a really good person, and I can 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:05.040 understand the ex being around, but she's not hanging around. 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.720 There's like a dog drop off, and maybe you do 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.080 it like every two weeks or something, so it can 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.960 be less frequent. There are ways to soften the blow 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.040 if you don't like dogs. Though, I'm dumping you too. 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.160 Good luck. You're gonna lose this one on my court. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:25.480 But I do like you, Thank you. 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:24.760 You. 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:26.440 Amy's pile of stories. 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:29.320 So almost half of people say that they're totally cool 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:32.240 with holiday decorse staying up all year long. 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.840 Funny Eddie's is still up at his house. 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.080 Yeah, I don't know what to do, but I like it. 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:38.280 I like it, So, I mean, there's no rush for 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:38.960 me to take that down. 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:41.440 Hey, January fifteenth. So it's like, I don't know when 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.040 should you take it down? Amy, asking you as a 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:44.760 normal person. 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.120 Most people have them down by January sixteenth. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:49.080 Okay, so you. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:49.720 Got one more day. 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:52.360