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Speaker 1: Five rooking jew Boles second d Day. I must be

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Speaker 1: a lot better at dating than I thought, because I've

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Speaker 1: need to email the radio station and call them. Now,

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Speaker 1: Troy emailed us because he went out on a date.

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Speaker 1: The girl hasn't got back to him, and he wants

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Speaker 1: to know why. Um, Troy, why don't you tell us

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Speaker 1: what happened? Well, I don't date too too much, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm a little shy or so. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: coworker of mine set this one up. She had a

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Speaker 1: friend and thought that we would be good together. So

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Speaker 1: I had her pick me up at my house. And

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Speaker 1: the thing is, first of all, is that I live

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Speaker 1: at home. I lived with my parents, all right. You

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Speaker 1: know that's not the way I want it, but that's

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Speaker 1: the way the economy has it's set right now. So

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Speaker 1: you live with your parents. She picked you up, what

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Speaker 1: were your plans? We're going to go out to dinner

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Speaker 1: and uh, and then you know, kind of kind of

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Speaker 1: your mom's basement. Okay, push it all right? So what

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Speaker 1: did you guys into doing you went to dinner and

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Speaker 1: then what so she picks me up there and she

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Speaker 1: answered the door. They answered the door, all right. My

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Speaker 1: My mother turns on guilt, like I made all this food.

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Speaker 1: Who's going to eat the food? You know? Your first

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Speaker 1: date was at your parents house? Is that what you're

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Speaker 1: telling me? Yeah, well that's the way it turned out.

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Speaker 1: You didn't last too long, you know. After about ten

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Speaker 1: or fifteen minutes, Christine excused herself and said that she

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Speaker 1: needed to be going, and I walked her out to

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Speaker 1: I didn't plan for this and this isn't what I expected.

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Speaker 1: And that's the last I've heard of her. So, Troy,

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Speaker 1: what is your goal? What do you want to accomplish? Well?

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Speaker 1: I just thought I actually let her know that I

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Speaker 1: to maybe Okay, Troy, okay, t do you expect his

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Speaker 1: Come on, all right, Troy, We're gonna call her right

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Speaker 1: now and see if maybe she wants to go out

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Speaker 1: with you again or whatever. Okay, oh, that'll be great,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on, coming up next Brooking Jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Usually on the second date updates, we have

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Speaker 1: a question as to why the girl or guy hasn't

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Speaker 1: called the other person back. Today, there is no question

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Speaker 1: as to why Christine hasn't called Troy back. Troy lives

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Speaker 1: at home with his parents. Um when she went over

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Speaker 1: other words, their first date was pretty much going to

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Speaker 1: be at the dinner table with his parents, and she

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Speaker 1: got up and left. Troy, Now you just want us

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Speaker 1: to call and ask her if she'll go out with

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Speaker 1: you again? Is that what you want to know? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I tell you if I could get a second a

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Speaker 1: duel over there? All right, Troy, hang on, Okay, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call her right now. Okay, Hello, Hey is Christine there?

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Speaker 1: This is her? Hey Christine, how are you. This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm moving

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Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Are you familiar with our show

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Speaker 1: at all? Yeah? Is this for the cutest baby contest?

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Speaker 1: I've put my niece in there. I don't think you are. No, No,

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Speaker 1: your niece was not the cutest baby. Well, I mean

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Speaker 1: you didn't win that, thank you. Somebody submitted an email

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Speaker 1: about you for the second that we do on our

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Speaker 1: show called second Date Update. You didn't really go on

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Speaker 1: you dinner. Oh no, you know what I'm talking about, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: gets better. Then she proceeded to tell me that Troy

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not ready to be like super step mom.

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Speaker 1: Like I just kind of freaked out and I laugh. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Troy's on the phone right now. Troy. Yeah, Hi, Christine,

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Speaker 1: try Troy. Do you have kids? Well, here's the thing. No, no, no, Troy.

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Speaker 1: It's a yes or no question. Yes, I have a daughter,

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Speaker 1: but she lives a couple of states away. It's not

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Speaker 1: not part of my day to day life. But it is.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that any better. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: is what you're saying. How are you honest about living

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Speaker 1: with your parents? But you're not honest about that. It's

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Speaker 1: not something I'm not honest about. I talk about it.

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Speaker 1: It's just this. It hadn't come up, and it's part

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Speaker 1: of the reason that I have to live at home

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Speaker 1: is I have to you know, make trial before payments,

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Speaker 1: breaker there. That was moving a little. It was more

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Speaker 1: the that I mean totally took me off guard. Shocking, Christine.

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Speaker 1: going to do that. It's a little weird. The situation

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Speaker 1: too much. I just couldn't deal with it. Um, well,

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Speaker 1: the show will pay for you, guys to go out

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Speaker 1: on a second date if you're interested, not at his parents' house. Yeah, yeah, Troy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: out still very funny, Yes, of course, Troy would would

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Speaker 1: if she'll do it. Oh, absolutely, I truly would. Okay, Christine, Um,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm just He's super nice, but I'm just

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Speaker 1: I'm not really ready for this kid family thing. I

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Speaker 1: just I don't think it would work out. So you

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Speaker 1: don't want to waste his time. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I think. I'm sorry, Troy. Well you know, I I uh,

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Speaker 1: I'm disappointed, but uh well, at least you at least

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Speaker 1: you got your answer, Troy. And the next time you

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Speaker 1: broken jupil in the morning,