WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Date Worth The Wait

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of day. What do you think is a

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<v Speaker 1>good time of day for a first date to start

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<v Speaker 1>first date? I don't know. Six seven pm? Oh your

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<v Speaker 1>pm start early am. It's dark so you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to worry about how you look that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Jeffery really gets it in. Some people do a

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<v Speaker 2>morning workout.

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<v Speaker 3>He does a morning day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice and peaceful, no one's around to distract you,

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<v Speaker 1>swoop in, possibly steal your date away. Everyone, but I

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Some people like him. Later on in the

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<v Speaker 1>day this group, but one of our listeners, Vincent says

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<v Speaker 1>his date started too late and that could have been

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<v Speaker 1>a problem for him. Vincent, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thanks so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't get Jeffrey started It started at six am? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 3>Vincent?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about when years started? How did that all happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, honestly, just me by surprise. I met

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<v Speaker 4>this girl, Jackie on a dating app, and I kind

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<v Speaker 4>of liked how in her profile, like she had a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of pictures of her with modern art, like she'd

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<v Speaker 4>gone to like the MoMA in New York City, or

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<v Speaker 4>like the All Museum and stuff, And I minored in

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<v Speaker 4>art history. So I kind of like that, I guess

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit, and.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an easy thing to talk about exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So is that what your opening line with her was

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<v Speaker 2>was about like Jackson Pollock or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, something like that. I actually don't even remember. But

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<v Speaker 4>I offered to meet her after work and then just

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<v Speaker 4>got to like a bar from there or something, and

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<v Speaker 4>she was pretty chill about that. Okay, that's cool, which

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<v Speaker 4>was I thought, Kenna, nice to be like, Okay, meeting

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<v Speaker 4>you at your work already, that kind of was exciting

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<v Speaker 4>to me.

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<v Speaker 1>See, that's why my idea works so well, because you

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<v Speaker 1>start the date and then go to work.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and we're going back to the early morning. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that this is more happy hour time.

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<v Speaker 1>The day because of the morning commute.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know was she working an overnight shift?

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<v Speaker 1>What time was it?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I got there like six. Then I just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like sat outside of her work for a

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<v Speaker 4>second because she kept on texting me like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 4>have like this project deadline and it's going long and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>How long were you waiting out there?

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<v Speaker 4>I actually didn't see her until about nine pm.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you do you take yourself to dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>I should have, right, I was starving. No, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>I I just kept on waiting, and I was like

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<v Speaker 4>watching TikTok I guess our.

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok at Brooke and Jeffery.

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<v Speaker 2>I love when Jeff every time there's a moment his

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<v Speaker 2>eyebrows raised like I can plug it.

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate you following it like, so what did you

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<v Speaker 1>two do? Speaking of YouTube, we're also I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, why didn't she just reschedule like that? Crazy? Why

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<v Speaker 3>didn't Why didn't you?

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<v Speaker 4>It was just one of those things where it kept

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<v Speaker 4>on getting put so like every ten to fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 4>she was like, Okay, I think we're wrapping up, and

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<v Speaker 4>then she would apologize and then she was still. I

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<v Speaker 4>felt like she felt really bad.

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<v Speaker 5>About it all.

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<v Speaker 4>So I kept on there like, no, no, don't worry. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>you work, it's busy. I understand, like sometimes I have

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<v Speaker 4>late nights as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But she would have felt like she had blown it

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<v Speaker 1>if you had canceled on the date at the last second. Bit, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure she I mean, like, when you finally

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<v Speaker 2>meet her, is she totally fried? Like she's now been

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<v Speaker 2>working like a twelve hour day over time.

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<v Speaker 4>That's exactly what happened. When she finally like came downstairs.

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<v Speaker 4>She just kind of looked totally exhausted, but she still

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to go out, and I said, you want to

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<v Speaker 4>just call it? She was like, no, no, no, you waited

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<v Speaker 4>all this time, like let's go at least for a

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<v Speaker 4>drink or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it shows you that she's considerate, bro, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she knows, she's like, she's self aware.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked to have no.

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<v Speaker 3>Idea what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 2>She I mean, I have this tendency too, where you

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<v Speaker 2>think you have all this time. She sounds like a

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<v Speaker 2>terrible time management. She should have even planned a date

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<v Speaker 2>for that night.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean you end up actually going out with

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<v Speaker 1>her or was that it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? No, we did.

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<v Speaker 4>We you know, we got to the bar and we

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<v Speaker 4>had a good time, and we like we played this

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<v Speaker 4>random game. We just came up with it at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>We were called arts are not art, where we just

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<v Speaker 4>like pointed at random things in the bar or random.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's talk about the fun parts of the day though.

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<v Speaker 3>It is fun art or not art.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's funny, Okay, that's just a table else to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. All right, what was the most fun piece

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<v Speaker 1>of art in the bar?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I kind of like noticed this one

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<v Speaker 4>kind of schlubby looking guy who was in the corner

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<v Speaker 4>and he was kind of like doubled over his drink

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit, and I pointed at that. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>do you think that's art? But like the way that

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<v Speaker 4>the light was kind of projected from above him, I

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<v Speaker 4>thought was very artistic, and she did as well, Look

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<v Speaker 4>it's overweight statue of David.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys bonded over it, then all the power

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<v Speaker 1>to you. So how did the matter?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, no, I mean after we played that, her

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<v Speaker 4>energy still was super low. Even after the market she was.

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<v Speaker 1>Over guy under the fluorescent lights didn't get her all up.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she wanted to play nap or no nap.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just such a bad night to catch her on.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, how'd you leave it?

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<v Speaker 4>It kind of just ended super abruptly, like I suggested

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<v Speaker 4>changing venues or I had a couple of friends who

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<v Speaker 4>were going out to a different barn, and then she

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<v Speaker 4>just kept on kind of turning everything down and yawning,

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<v Speaker 4>and so it was just like a weird ending. She

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of like hugged me.

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<v Speaker 1>And cuddled up underneath. The drunk guy was like, just

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<v Speaker 1>leave me here. Yeah, me and him can kind Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long has it been since you last talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been essentially like four or five days.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she may have just been she's just in a

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<v Speaker 1>big recovery nap.

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<v Speaker 2>If she had a huge project for work, she may

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<v Speaker 2>have still been swamped.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she just hasn't had time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're gonna call her in just a few minutes here,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going to tell her work isn't that important

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<v Speaker 1>you need to.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, that's a good that life Lesson'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>To blow off her work plans and go out with

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<v Speaker 1>you one more time when we get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up right after that. Hold on, Okay, it's the first

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<v Speaker 1>date that was worth the wait.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I mean not really.

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<v Speaker 1>At that's what we're hoping for in the end. Because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Vincent, says he sat in his

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<v Speaker 1>car outside of Jackie's work for three hours.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>I just assumed he was like a coffee shop or something.

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<v Speaker 2>He sat in his car this entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that's what he said. Oh, I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>that either actually, let me ask him, bro you were

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<v Speaker 1>in your car, Vince, were you in your car all time?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you made it sound so much more pathetic, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's start it again. And one of our listeners, Vincent

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<v Speaker 1>was sat in the vicinity of her work, yes okay,

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<v Speaker 1>for three hours for her to finish, so that they

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<v Speaker 1>could hit the.

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<v Speaker 3>Bars together, just watching TikTok videos.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the kind of commitment from a guy that most

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<v Speaker 1>women would dream of. Your husband wouldn't wait three hours

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<v Speaker 1>for you to do anything?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that kind of But see that's I wouldn't blame him.

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<v Speaker 3>I would wait for three hours for him too. Available.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, good boy. Committed is the type of guy that

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<v Speaker 1>Vincent is. So we're all eager to help him. But Vince,

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<v Speaker 1>first we got to do a couple of prank calls.

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<v Speaker 1>If you could just hold on for.

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<v Speaker 4>That's very funny.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not waiting there.

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<v Speaker 1>Learning from his lesson. That's all. You can ask for less.

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<v Speaker 4>Really quick, and then I can wait a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>O Brock to the starting. You're too nice.

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<v Speaker 3>I have so much free what.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you openness for us. Vincent. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do our best year. We're gonna call Jackie. You ready, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Super ready?

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<v Speaker 1>Things. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Jackie. Yep, that's hey Jackie.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show, Jackie.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Surprise? Yeah, that's surprise. Good question. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on this show called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but we

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<v Speaker 1>try to help out listeners who've gone out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>recently and are having trouble setting up a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you went out with a guy named Vincent

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<v Speaker 1>who wants to see you again?

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<v Speaker 5>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what do.

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<v Speaker 1>You think about Vincent?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, he's a very nice guy here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, it's just like that description always, like if

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<v Speaker 2>you were to describe a girl as like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, she's a very nice woman.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>No one wants to be nice. You're not one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>percent in on Vincent yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I don't know if I like anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not Vincent. It's just people.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, humans, Okay, I think a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Of people can relate to that sentiment.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we walk down the lonely path, with you can

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<v Speaker 1>we go back to the date night because Vincent says

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<v Speaker 1>you made him wait for three hours outside of your work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't complaining about that, but he just said that

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<v Speaker 1>he was willing to wait for that long in order

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<v Speaker 1>to see him, and that's a long time for a

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<v Speaker 1>guy to wait.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh man, Well so I kind of lied. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>actually at work. Really, what.

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<v Speaker 2>He said that you were texting the entire time and

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<v Speaker 2>you're like you had some deadline and and it kept

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<v Speaker 2>going later.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I was. I was at home in my

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<v Speaker 5>pajamas with my cats, reading a book that's so dam

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<v Speaker 5>I was just like kind of hoping he'd just give

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<v Speaker 5>up after a while.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, oh, oh man, why why did you

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<v Speaker 1>want him to give Like he made this whole plan

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<v Speaker 1>with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, here's the thing. I really like the idea of

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<v Speaker 5>dating and having a boyfriend and going out and having

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<v Speaker 5>a great time. But like, in my heart of hearts,

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<v Speaker 5>I am just a homebody and like it gives me

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit of stress to go out. And I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, maybe he'll just stop texting and be like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh okay, it sounds you're working too late. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you just like it's way more stressful to lie

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<v Speaker 2>to someone for three hours and feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Terrible about it. I assume it felt bad, right like

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<v Speaker 3>I did.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's why I like, I reput on my work clothes.

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<v Speaker 5>I drove to my office because he's like waiting around

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<v Speaker 5>like a bar break by my office. So I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>he's gonna see me, not come out of my office,

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<v Speaker 5>So like I snuck into.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, she was tired on the dates. She

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<v Speaker 1>was literally in bed right before it started.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you have I mean, did you have any fun

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<v Speaker 3>on the date?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean like, yeah, he's very nice, and I mean

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<v Speaker 5>he waited, I guess, and fun and he like did

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<v Speaker 5>this thing because I liked art and stuff. He did

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<v Speaker 5>this thing where.

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<v Speaker 1>We were we got the full art breakdown. Yeah, the arts.

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<v Speaker 3>Overall.

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<v Speaker 1>What it comes down to, it sounds like you wish

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<v Speaker 1>that you could have a boyfriend, but when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>down to actually doing it and actually going through with

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<v Speaker 1>the dates, you would rather not be doing any of that.

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<v Speaker 5>My dream date is like sit on the couch and

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<v Speaker 5>watch the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're going to adjust your dream date to being

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<v Speaker 1>surprised on the radio by a mystery man. On the

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<v Speaker 1>other line, who wants to talk to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Who's that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yes, it's Vincent. Yeah, and I spell it out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's there.

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<v Speaker 4>Think I've been here. I'm just trying to process.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh man, what's going through your head? Vincent?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you mad?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm not mad. I'm just more just confused of like,

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<v Speaker 4>why didn't you just say I'm just not feeling it?

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<v Speaker 4>That just seems so much easier.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know, because I was like, I've said

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<v Speaker 5>it to people in the past and they've just kind

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<v Speaker 5>of been a kind of so I just was avoiding

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<v Speaker 5>all of that awkwardness, and I was like, it'll be

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<v Speaker 5>so much easier for you to make the decision not

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<v Speaker 5>to hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you'll feel less guilty and canceled and seating. Both

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<v Speaker 1>people want to bailance, Vincent, you want to apologize for

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<v Speaker 1>not bailing sooner on the date.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, maybe maybe I should have failed. I guess

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<v Speaker 4>maybe I should have had that sort of like self

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<v Speaker 4>respect earlier on.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't go don't go too hard on yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm almost off. I'm almost off.

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<v Speaker 5>Give me. And I didn't realize, you know, how how

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<v Speaker 5>much someone would want to go out on a date

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<v Speaker 5>with me, I go.

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<v Speaker 1>You're worthy of a date.

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<v Speaker 5>It was, which is why I mean I put my

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<v Speaker 5>pants on, and when.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of women are willing to do that, Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>visit you've got a girl to put her pants on

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<v Speaker 2>instead of take.

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<v Speaker 3>Him off, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>But now it's now it just kind of feels like

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<v Speaker 4>indicative of a larger problems. Like let's say we do

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<v Speaker 4>enter in a relationship, you know, or let's say something

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<v Speaker 4>actually does get tougher in our relationship. Are you just

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<v Speaker 4>gonna shut down like that in a larger capacity.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, don't think about that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were just saying to think about, Like

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a cool party and she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Want to go with me, I don't know. Like if

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<v Speaker 5>I'm comfortable with the person, it's it's much easier to

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<v Speaker 5>turn off the loud noise in the in the outside.

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<v Speaker 5>But I you know, I don't know people on first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like the first, second, third dates are a little.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, dating it's hard, right now, you can

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<v Speaker 2>you can kind of understand that, right, Vincent.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, dating is really hard. I know that because I

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<v Speaker 4>waited three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>For good job.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they both went through pain that night and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it brought you guys closer together.

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<v Speaker 1>It's possible and vincent if if you heard Jackie, she

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<v Speaker 1>likes to do stuff at home. Don't you maybe want

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<v Speaker 1>to like snuggle up watch them Netflix? Dude, both put

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<v Speaker 1>on your pj's. Some of the best dates I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>had were all delivery, all on a couch, just talking.

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<v Speaker 3>You can go pants on, Yeah, you could put you

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<v Speaker 3>pay for no.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like that.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm not a total extrovert by any means.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're Yeah, we have some good momentum here,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why I want to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 1>guys on another date on us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll give you an Uber eats tab so you

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<v Speaker 1>can deliver food.

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<v Speaker 5>Give yeah, maybe like a daytime date, just so like

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<v Speaker 5>it's not after a long day of work and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Tired and hold yourself accountable. Yeah, yeah, I see what

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<v Speaker 1>she's doing. He's going to show up to her apartment

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<v Speaker 1>and she'll already be back at work daytime. Then she'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to sneak into her apartment through the back way

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<v Speaker 1>through the fire escape.

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<v Speaker 3>It does feel a little strange. I mean, only say

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<v Speaker 3>yes if you really want to go. Jackie please.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I mean I got to get out of

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<v Speaker 5>my comfort zone. And now that you already know my

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<v Speaker 5>entire story, I don't have to explain it to you anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Vincent, she was open and honest. She's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>socially anxious when it comes to first dates. But now

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<v Speaker 1>that you've got the first one out of the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the second one should be super easy.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think, I think as long as it's

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<v Speaker 4>like an uber eats thing or whatever, you give it

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<v Speaker 4>to her and put it in her court.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you want her to make the effort. She's going

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<v Speaker 3>to order without you.

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<v Speaker 1>Playing yourself. Classical Lexus movies, Who What Where did You wait?

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning