Speaker 1: Second date of day. What do you think is a
Speaker 1: good time of day for a first date to start
Speaker 1: first date? I don't know. Six seven pm? Oh your
Speaker 1: pm start early am. It's dark so you don't have
Speaker 1: to worry about how you look that much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeffery really gets it in. Some people do a
Speaker 2: morning workout.
Speaker 3: He does a morning day.
Speaker 1: It's nice and peaceful, no one's around to distract you,
Speaker 1: swoop in, possibly steal your date away. Everyone, but I
Speaker 1: get it. Some people like him. Later on in the
Speaker 1: day this group, but one of our listeners, Vincent says
Speaker 1: his date started too late and that could have been
Speaker 1: a problem for him. Vincent, welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: Hey, thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2: Don't get Jeffrey started It started at six am? Is
Speaker 2: that what you're saying?
Speaker 3: Vincent?
Speaker 1: Tell us about when years started? How did that all happen?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, honestly, just me by surprise. I met
Speaker 4: this girl, Jackie on a dating app, and I kind
Speaker 4: of liked how in her profile, like she had a
Speaker 4: lot of pictures of her with modern art, like she'd
Speaker 4: gone to like the MoMA in New York City, or
Speaker 4: like the All Museum and stuff, And I minored in
Speaker 4: art history. So I kind of like that, I guess
Speaker 4: a little bit, and.
Speaker 3: It's an easy thing to talk about exactly.
Speaker 2: So is that what your opening line with her was
Speaker 2: was about like Jackson Pollock or something.
Speaker 4: Yeah, something like that. I actually don't even remember. But
Speaker 4: I offered to meet her after work and then just
Speaker 4: got to like a bar from there or something, and
Speaker 4: she was pretty chill about that. Okay, that's cool, which
Speaker 4: was I thought, Kenna, nice to be like, Okay, meeting
Speaker 4: you at your work already, that kind of was exciting
Speaker 4: to me.
Speaker 1: See, that's why my idea works so well, because you
Speaker 1: start the date and then go to work.
Speaker 2: Well, and we're going back to the early morning. I
Speaker 2: think that this is more happy hour time.
Speaker 1: The day because of the morning commute.
Speaker 3: And I don't know was she working an overnight shift?
Speaker 1: What time was it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: I mean I got there like six. Then I just
Speaker 4: kind of like sat outside of her work for a
Speaker 4: second because she kept on texting me like, oh, I
Speaker 4: have like this project deadline and it's going long and
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: How long were you waiting out there?
Speaker 4: I actually didn't see her until about nine pm.
Speaker 2: What did you do you take yourself to dinner.
Speaker 4: I should have, right, I was starving. No, I mean
Speaker 4: I I just kept on waiting, and I was like
Speaker 4: watching TikTok I guess our.
Speaker 1: TikTok at Brooke and Jeffery.
Speaker 2: I love when Jeff every time there's a moment his
Speaker 2: eyebrows raised like I can plug it.
Speaker 1: We appreciate you following it like, so what did you
Speaker 1: two do? Speaking of YouTube, we're also I.
Speaker 3: Mean, why didn't she just reschedule like that? Crazy? Why
Speaker 3: didn't Why didn't you?
Speaker 4: It was just one of those things where it kept
Speaker 4: on getting put so like every ten to fifteen minutes,
Speaker 4: she was like, Okay, I think we're wrapping up, and
Speaker 4: then she would apologize and then she was still. I
Speaker 4: felt like she felt really bad.
Speaker 5: About it all.
Speaker 4: So I kept on there like, no, no, don't worry. You know,
Speaker 4: you work, it's busy. I understand, like sometimes I have
Speaker 4: late nights as well.
Speaker 1: But she would have felt like she had blown it
Speaker 1: if you had canceled on the date at the last second. Bit, well,
Speaker 1: we don't know that.
Speaker 2: And I'm sure she I mean, like, when you finally
Speaker 2: meet her, is she totally fried? Like she's now been
Speaker 2: working like a twelve hour day over time.
Speaker 4: That's exactly what happened. When she finally like came downstairs.
Speaker 4: She just kind of looked totally exhausted, but she still
Speaker 4: wanted to go out, and I said, you want to
Speaker 4: just call it? She was like, no, no, no, you waited
Speaker 4: all this time, like let's go at least for a
Speaker 4: drink or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it shows you that she's considerate, bro, I mean,
Speaker 1: she knows, she's like, she's self aware.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We talked to have no.
Speaker 3: Idea what it sounds like.
Speaker 2: She I mean, I have this tendency too, where you
Speaker 2: think you have all this time. She sounds like a
Speaker 2: terrible time management. She should have even planned a date
Speaker 2: for that night.
Speaker 1: So I mean you end up actually going out with
Speaker 1: her or was that it?
Speaker 5: Yeah? No, we did.
Speaker 4: We you know, we got to the bar and we
Speaker 4: had a good time, and we like we played this
Speaker 4: random game. We just came up with it at the time.
Speaker 4: We were called arts are not art, where we just
Speaker 4: like pointed at random things in the bar or random.
Speaker 1: But let's talk about the fun parts of the day though.
Speaker 3: It is fun art or not art.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny, Okay, that's just a table else to
Speaker 1: talk about. All right, what was the most fun piece
Speaker 1: of art in the bar?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I kind of like noticed this one
Speaker 4: kind of schlubby looking guy who was in the corner
Speaker 4: and he was kind of like doubled over his drink
Speaker 4: a little bit, and I pointed at that. I was like,
Speaker 4: do you think that's art? But like the way that
Speaker 4: the light was kind of projected from above him, I
Speaker 4: thought was very artistic, and she did as well, Look
Speaker 4: it's overweight statue of David.
Speaker 1: If you guys bonded over it, then all the power
Speaker 1: to you. So how did the matter?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 4: But yeah, no, I mean after we played that, her
Speaker 4: energy still was super low. Even after the market she was.
Speaker 1: Over guy under the fluorescent lights didn't get her all up.
Speaker 3: I think she wanted to play nap or no nap.
Speaker 3: It's just such a bad night to catch her on.
Speaker 1: Man, how'd you leave it?
Speaker 4: It kind of just ended super abruptly, like I suggested
Speaker 4: changing venues or I had a couple of friends who
Speaker 4: were going out to a different barn, and then she
Speaker 4: just kept on kind of turning everything down and yawning,
Speaker 4: and so it was just like a weird ending. She
Speaker 4: just kind of like hugged me.
Speaker 1: And cuddled up underneath. The drunk guy was like, just
Speaker 1: leave me here. Yeah, me and him can kind Yeah.
Speaker 1: So how long has it been since you last talked
Speaker 1: to her.
Speaker 4: It's been essentially like four or five days.
Speaker 1: Okay, she may have just been she's just in a
Speaker 1: big recovery nap.
Speaker 2: If she had a huge project for work, she may
Speaker 2: have still been swamped.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she just hasn't had time.
Speaker 1: Well, we're gonna call her in just a few minutes here,
Speaker 1: and we're going to tell her work isn't that important
Speaker 1: you need to.
Speaker 3: Actually, that's a good that life Lesson'll tell you.
Speaker 1: To blow off her work plans and go out with
Speaker 1: you one more time when we get your second date
Speaker 1: up right after that. Hold on, Okay, it's the first
Speaker 1: date that was worth the wait.
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean not really.
Speaker 1: At that's what we're hoping for in the end. Because
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Vincent, says he sat in his
Speaker 1: car outside of Jackie's work for three hours.
Speaker 3: I don't know why.
Speaker 2: I just assumed he was like a coffee shop or something.
Speaker 2: He sat in his car this entire time.
Speaker 1: I thought that's what he said. Oh, I didn't realize
Speaker 1: that either actually, let me ask him, bro you were
Speaker 1: in your car, Vince, were you in your car all time?
Speaker 2: No, you made it sound so much more pathetic, Jeffrey,
Speaker 2: you know what.
Speaker 1: Let's start it again. And one of our listeners, Vincent
Speaker 1: was sat in the vicinity of her work, yes okay,
Speaker 1: for three hours for her to finish, so that they
Speaker 1: could hit the.
Speaker 3: Bars together, just watching TikTok videos.
Speaker 1: That's the kind of commitment from a guy that most
Speaker 1: women would dream of. Your husband wouldn't wait three hours
Speaker 1: for you to do anything?
Speaker 3: Oh that kind of But see that's I wouldn't blame him.
Speaker 3: I would wait for three hours for him too. Available.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good boy. Committed is the type of guy that
Speaker 1: Vincent is. So we're all eager to help him. But Vince,
Speaker 1: first we got to do a couple of prank calls.
Speaker 1: If you could just hold on for.
Speaker 4: That's very funny.
Speaker 5: I'm not waiting there.
Speaker 1: Learning from his lesson. That's all. You can ask for less.
Speaker 4: Really quick, and then I can wait a little bit.
Speaker 1: O Brock to the starting. You're too nice.
Speaker 3: I have so much free what.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you openness for us. Vincent. We're going to
Speaker 1: do our best year. We're gonna call Jackie. You ready, Yeah?
Speaker 4: Super ready?
Speaker 1: Things. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Jackie. Yep, that's hey Jackie.
Speaker 1: You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning.
Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Jackie.
Speaker 1: What's up? Surprise? Yeah, that's surprise. Good question. We do
Speaker 1: a segment on this show called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but we
Speaker 1: try to help out listeners who've gone out with someone
Speaker 1: recently and are having trouble setting up a second date.
Speaker 1: And so you went out with a guy named Vincent
Speaker 1: who wants to see you again?
Speaker 5: I did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do.
Speaker 1: You think about Vincent?
Speaker 5: I mean, he's a very nice guy here.
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's just like that description always, like if
Speaker 2: you were to describe a girl as like.
Speaker 3: Oh, she's a very nice woman.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like the same thing.
Speaker 1: No one wants to be nice. You're not one hundred
Speaker 1: percent in on Vincent yet.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't know if I like anybody.
Speaker 3: So it's not Vincent. It's just people.
Speaker 1: Sure, humans, Okay, I think a lot.
Speaker 3: Of people can relate to that sentiment.
Speaker 1: Before we walk down the lonely path, with you can
Speaker 1: we go back to the date night because Vincent says
Speaker 1: you made him wait for three hours outside of your work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he wasn't complaining about that, but he just said that
Speaker 1: he was willing to wait for that long in order
Speaker 1: to see him, and that's a long time for a
Speaker 1: guy to wait.
Speaker 5: Oh man, Well so I kind of lied. I wasn't
Speaker 5: actually at work. Really, what.
Speaker 2: He said that you were texting the entire time and
Speaker 2: you're like you had some deadline and and it kept
Speaker 2: going later.
Speaker 5: I know I was. I was at home in my
Speaker 5: pajamas with my cats, reading a book that's so dam
Speaker 5: I was just like kind of hoping he'd just give
Speaker 5: up after a while.
Speaker 1: And you know, oh, oh man, why why did you
Speaker 1: want him to give Like he made this whole plan
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 5: Well, here's the thing. I really like the idea of
Speaker 5: dating and having a boyfriend and going out and having
Speaker 5: a great time. But like, in my heart of hearts,
Speaker 5: I am just a homebody and like it gives me
Speaker 5: a little bit of stress to go out. And I
Speaker 5: was like, maybe he'll just stop texting and be like,
Speaker 5: oh okay, it sounds you're working too late. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just like it's way more stressful to lie
Speaker 2: to someone for three hours and feel.
Speaker 3: Terrible about it. I assume it felt bad, right like
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 5: And that's why I like, I reput on my work clothes.
Speaker 5: I drove to my office because he's like waiting around
Speaker 5: like a bar break by my office. So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 5: he's gonna see me, not come out of my office,
Speaker 5: So like I snuck into.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was tired on the dates. She
Speaker 1: was literally in bed right before it started.
Speaker 3: Did you have I mean, did you have any fun
Speaker 3: on the date?
Speaker 5: I mean like, yeah, he's very nice, and I mean
Speaker 5: he waited, I guess, and fun and he like did
Speaker 5: this thing because I liked art and stuff. He did
Speaker 5: this thing where.
Speaker 1: We were we got the full art breakdown. Yeah, the arts.
Speaker 3: Overall.
Speaker 1: What it comes down to, it sounds like you wish
Speaker 1: that you could have a boyfriend, but when it comes
Speaker 1: down to actually doing it and actually going through with
Speaker 1: the dates, you would rather not be doing any of that.
Speaker 5: My dream date is like sit on the couch and
Speaker 5: watch the movie.
Speaker 1: Well, we're going to adjust your dream date to being
Speaker 1: surprised on the radio by a mystery man. On the
Speaker 1: other line, who wants to talk to you?
Speaker 5: Who's that?
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, it's Vincent. Yeah, and I spell it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's there.
Speaker 4: Think I've been here. I'm just trying to process.
Speaker 1: Uh man, what's going through your head? Vincent?
Speaker 3: Are you mad?
Speaker 4: No, I'm not mad. I'm just more just confused of like,
Speaker 4: why didn't you just say I'm just not feeling it?
Speaker 4: That just seems so much easier.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, because I was like, I've said
Speaker 5: it to people in the past and they've just kind
Speaker 5: of been a kind of so I just was avoiding
Speaker 5: all of that awkwardness, and I was like, it'll be
Speaker 5: so much easier for you to make the decision not
Speaker 5: to hang out.
Speaker 1: Then you'll feel less guilty and canceled and seating. Both
Speaker 1: people want to bailance, Vincent, you want to apologize for
Speaker 1: not bailing sooner on the date.
Speaker 4: I mean, maybe maybe I should have failed. I guess
Speaker 4: maybe I should have had that sort of like self
Speaker 4: respect earlier on.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't go don't go too hard on yourself.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm almost off. I'm almost off.
Speaker 5: Give me. And I didn't realize, you know, how how
Speaker 5: much someone would want to go out on a date
Speaker 5: with me, I go.
Speaker 1: You're worthy of a date.
Speaker 5: It was, which is why I mean I put my
Speaker 5: pants on, and when.
Speaker 2: A lot of women are willing to do that, Guys,
Speaker 2: visit you've got a girl to put her pants on
Speaker 2: instead of take.
Speaker 3: Him off, you know.
Speaker 4: But now it's now it just kind of feels like
Speaker 4: indicative of a larger problems. Like let's say we do
Speaker 4: enter in a relationship, you know, or let's say something
Speaker 4: actually does get tougher in our relationship. Are you just
Speaker 4: gonna shut down like that in a larger capacity.
Speaker 1: Like, don't think about that stuff.
Speaker 2: I thought you were just saying to think about, Like
Speaker 2: if there's a cool party and she doesn't.
Speaker 5: Want to go with me, I don't know. Like if
Speaker 5: I'm comfortable with the person, it's it's much easier to
Speaker 5: turn off the loud noise in the in the outside.
Speaker 5: But I you know, I don't know people on first dates.
Speaker 1: It's just like the first, second, third dates are a little.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, dating it's hard, right now, you can
Speaker 2: you can kind of understand that, right, Vincent.
Speaker 4: Yeah, dating is really hard. I know that because I
Speaker 4: waited three hours.
Speaker 1: For good job.
Speaker 2: Well, they both went through pain that night and maybe
Speaker 2: it brought you guys closer together.
Speaker 1: It's possible and vincent if if you heard Jackie, she
Speaker 1: likes to do stuff at home. Don't you maybe want
Speaker 1: to like snuggle up watch them Netflix? Dude, both put
Speaker 1: on your pj's. Some of the best dates I've ever
Speaker 1: had were all delivery, all on a couch, just talking.
Speaker 3: You can go pants on, Yeah, you could put you
Speaker 3: pay for no.
Speaker 1: I do like that.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not a total extrovert by any means.
Speaker 1: I think we're Yeah, we have some good momentum here,
Speaker 1: and that's why I want to offer to send you
Speaker 1: guys on another date on us.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll give you an Uber eats tab so you
Speaker 1: can deliver food.
Speaker 5: Give yeah, maybe like a daytime date, just so like
Speaker 5: it's not after a long day of work and I'm.
Speaker 1: Tired and hold yourself accountable. Yeah, yeah, I see what
Speaker 1: she's doing. He's going to show up to her apartment
Speaker 1: and she'll already be back at work daytime. Then she'll
Speaker 1: have to sneak into her apartment through the back way
Speaker 1: through the fire escape.
Speaker 3: It does feel a little strange. I mean, only say
Speaker 3: yes if you really want to go. Jackie please.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I mean I got to get out of
Speaker 5: my comfort zone. And now that you already know my
Speaker 5: entire story, I don't have to explain it to you anymore.
Speaker 1: Vincent, she was open and honest. She's a little bit
Speaker 1: socially anxious when it comes to first dates. But now
Speaker 1: that you've got the first one out of the way,
Speaker 1: the second one should be super easy.
Speaker 4: What do you think, I think as long as it's
Speaker 4: like an uber eats thing or whatever, you give it
Speaker 4: to her and put it in her court.
Speaker 3: Oh, you want her to make the effort. She's going
Speaker 3: to order without you.
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