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Speaker 1: first date? I don't know. Six seven pm? Oh your

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Speaker 1: pm start early am. It's dark so you don't have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeffery really gets it in. Some people do a

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Speaker 3: He does a morning day.

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Speaker 1: It's nice and peaceful, no one's around to distract you,

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Speaker 1: swoop in, possibly steal your date away. Everyone, but I

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Speaker 1: get it. Some people like him. Later on in the

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Speaker 1: day this group, but one of our listeners, Vincent says

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Speaker 1: his date started too late and that could have been

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Speaker 1: a problem for him. Vincent, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thanks so much for having me.

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Speaker 2: Don't get Jeffrey started It started at six am? Is

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Speaker 2: that what you're saying?

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Speaker 3: Vincent?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about when years started? How did that all happen?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, honestly, just me by surprise. I met

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Speaker 4: this girl, Jackie on a dating app, and I kind

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Speaker 3: It's an easy thing to talk about exactly.

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Speaker 2: So is that what your opening line with her was

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Speaker 4: Yeah, something like that. I actually don't even remember. But

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Speaker 4: she was pretty chill about that. Okay, that's cool, which

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Speaker 4: was I thought, Kenna, nice to be like, Okay, meeting

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Speaker 1: See, that's why my idea works so well, because you

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Speaker 2: Well, and we're going back to the early morning. I

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Speaker 1: The day because of the morning commute.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know was she working an overnight shift?

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Speaker 1: What time was it?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean I got there like six. Then I just

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Speaker 4: have like this project deadline and it's going long and

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: How long were you waiting out there?

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Speaker 4: I actually didn't see her until about nine pm.

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Speaker 2: What did you do you take yourself to dinner.

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Speaker 4: I should have, right, I was starving. No, I mean

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Speaker 4: I I just kept on waiting, and I was like

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Speaker 4: watching TikTok I guess our.

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Speaker 2: I love when Jeff every time there's a moment his

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Speaker 3: Mean, why didn't she just reschedule like that? Crazy? Why

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Speaker 4: It was just one of those things where it kept

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Speaker 4: So I kept on there like, no, no, don't worry. You know,

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Speaker 1: But she would have felt like she had blown it

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Speaker 2: And I'm sure she I mean, like, when you finally

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Speaker 4: That's exactly what happened. When she finally like came downstairs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it shows you that she's considerate, bro, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So I mean you end up actually going out with

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, we did.

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Speaker 4: We you know, we got to the bar and we

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Speaker 4: We were called arts are not art, where we just

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Speaker 1: But let's talk about the fun parts of the day though.

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Speaker 3: It is fun art or not art.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I kind of like noticed this one

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Speaker 1: If you guys bonded over it, then all the power

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Speaker 1: Over guy under the fluorescent lights didn't get her all up.

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Speaker 3: I think she wanted to play nap or no nap.

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Speaker 3: It's just such a bad night to catch her on.

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Speaker 1: Man, how'd you leave it?

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Speaker 4: It kind of just ended super abruptly, like I suggested

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Speaker 1: So how long has it been since you last talked

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Speaker 4: It's been essentially like four or five days.

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Speaker 2: If she had a huge project for work, she may

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she just hasn't had time.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're gonna call her in just a few minutes here,

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Speaker 1: and we're going to tell her work isn't that important

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Speaker 3: Actually, that's a good that life Lesson'll tell you.

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Speaker 1: To blow off her work plans and go out with

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Speaker 3: Oh, I mean not really.

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Speaker 1: At that's what we're hoping for in the end. Because

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Speaker 3: I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: I just assumed he was like a coffee shop or something.

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Speaker 2: No, you made it sound so much more pathetic, Jeffrey,

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Speaker 1: Let's start it again. And one of our listeners, Vincent

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Speaker 3: Bars together, just watching TikTok videos.

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Speaker 1: That's the kind of commitment from a guy that most

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good boy. Committed is the type of guy that

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Speaker 1: Vincent is. So we're all eager to help him. But Vince,

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Speaker 1: first we got to do a couple of prank calls.

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Speaker 1: If you could just hold on for.

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Speaker 5: I'm not waiting there.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you openness for us. Vincent. We're going to

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Speaker 1: Things. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Jackie. Yep, that's hey Jackie.

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Speaker 1: You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Jackie.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Surprise? Yeah, that's surprise. Good question. We do

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Speaker 1: a segment on this show called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but we

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Speaker 1: And so you went out with a guy named Vincent

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Speaker 5: I did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do.

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Speaker 1: You think about Vincent?

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Speaker 5: I mean, he's a very nice guy here.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it's just like that description always, like if

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's a very nice woman.

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Speaker 1: No one wants to be nice. You're not one hundred

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't know if I like anybody.

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Speaker 3: So it's not Vincent. It's just people.

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Speaker 1: Sure, humans, Okay, I think a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of people can relate to that sentiment.

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Speaker 1: Before we walk down the lonely path, with you can

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Speaker 1: we go back to the date night because Vincent says

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Speaker 1: you made him wait for three hours outside of your work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he wasn't complaining about that, but he just said that

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Speaker 5: Oh man, Well so I kind of lied. I wasn't

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Speaker 5: Well, here's the thing. I really like the idea of

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Speaker 5: a great time. But like, in my heart of hearts,

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Speaker 5: I am just a homebody and like it gives me

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Speaker 5: oh okay, it sounds you're working too late. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just like it's way more stressful to lie

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Speaker 3: Terrible about it. I assume it felt bad, right like

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: And that's why I like, I reput on my work clothes.

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Speaker 5: I drove to my office because he's like waiting around

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Speaker 5: like a bar break by my office. So I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 5: he's gonna see me, not come out of my office,

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Speaker 5: So like I snuck into.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was tired on the dates. She

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Speaker 3: Did you have I mean, did you have any fun

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Speaker 5: I mean like, yeah, he's very nice, and I mean

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Speaker 5: he waited, I guess, and fun and he like did

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Speaker 5: this thing because I liked art and stuff. He did

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Speaker 5: this thing where.

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Speaker 1: We were we got the full art breakdown. Yeah, the arts.

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Speaker 3: Overall.

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Speaker 1: What it comes down to, it sounds like you wish

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Speaker 1: that you could have a boyfriend, but when it comes

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Speaker 1: down to actually doing it and actually going through with

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Speaker 1: the dates, you would rather not be doing any of that.

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Speaker 5: My dream date is like sit on the couch and

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Speaker 5: watch the movie.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're going to adjust your dream date to being

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Speaker 1: surprised on the radio by a mystery man. On the

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Speaker 1: other line, who wants to talk to you?

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Speaker 5: Who's that?

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Speaker 1: Oh, yes, it's Vincent. Yeah, and I spell it out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's there.

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Speaker 4: Think I've been here. I'm just trying to process.

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Speaker 1: Uh man, what's going through your head? Vincent?

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Speaker 3: Are you mad?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not mad. I'm just more just confused of like,

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Speaker 4: why didn't you just say I'm just not feeling it?

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Speaker 4: That just seems so much easier.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, because I was like, I've said

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Speaker 5: of been a kind of so I just was avoiding

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Speaker 5: all of that awkwardness, and I was like, it'll be

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Speaker 5: so much easier for you to make the decision not

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Speaker 5: to hang out.

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Speaker 1: Then you'll feel less guilty and canceled and seating. Both

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Speaker 1: people want to bailance, Vincent, you want to apologize for

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Speaker 4: I mean, maybe maybe I should have failed. I guess

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Speaker 4: maybe I should have had that sort of like self

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't go don't go too hard on yourself.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm almost off. I'm almost off.

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Speaker 5: Give me. And I didn't realize, you know, how how

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Speaker 5: much someone would want to go out on a date

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Speaker 5: with me, I go.

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Speaker 1: You're worthy of a date.

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Speaker 5: It was, which is why I mean I put my

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Speaker 5: pants on, and when.

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Speaker 2: A lot of women are willing to do that, Guys,

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Speaker 2: visit you've got a girl to put her pants on

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Speaker 2: instead of take.

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Speaker 3: Him off, you know.

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Speaker 4: But now it's now it just kind of feels like

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Speaker 4: indicative of a larger problems. Like let's say we do

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Speaker 4: enter in a relationship, you know, or let's say something

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Speaker 4: actually does get tougher in our relationship. Are you just

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Speaker 4: gonna shut down like that in a larger capacity.

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Speaker 1: Like, don't think about that stuff.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were just saying to think about, Like

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Speaker 2: if there's a cool party and she doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Want to go with me, I don't know. Like if

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Speaker 5: I'm comfortable with the person, it's it's much easier to

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Speaker 5: turn off the loud noise in the in the outside.

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Speaker 5: But I you know, I don't know people on first dates.

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Speaker 1: It's just like the first, second, third dates are a little.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, dating it's hard, right now, you can

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Speaker 2: you can kind of understand that, right, Vincent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dating is really hard. I know that because I

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Speaker 4: waited three hours.

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Speaker 1: For good job.

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Speaker 2: Well, they both went through pain that night and maybe

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Speaker 2: it brought you guys closer together.

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Speaker 1: It's possible and vincent if if you heard Jackie, she

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Speaker 1: likes to do stuff at home. Don't you maybe want

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Speaker 1: to like snuggle up watch them Netflix? Dude, both put

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Speaker 1: on your pj's. Some of the best dates I've ever

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Speaker 1: had were all delivery, all on a couch, just talking.

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Speaker 3: You can go pants on, Yeah, you could put you

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Speaker 3: pay for no.

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Speaker 1: I do like that.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm not a total extrovert by any means.

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Speaker 1: I think we're Yeah, we have some good momentum here,

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Speaker 1: and that's why I want to offer to send you

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Speaker 1: guys on another date on us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll give you an Uber eats tab so you

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Speaker 1: can deliver food.

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Speaker 5: Give yeah, maybe like a daytime date, just so like

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Speaker 5: it's not after a long day of work and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Tired and hold yourself accountable. Yeah, yeah, I see what

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Speaker 1: she's doing. He's going to show up to her apartment

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Speaker 1: and she'll already be back at work daytime. Then she'll

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Speaker 1: through the fire escape.

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Speaker 3: It does feel a little strange. I mean, only say

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Speaker 3: yes if you really want to go. Jackie please.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I mean I got to get out of

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Speaker 5: my comfort zone. And now that you already know my

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Speaker 5: entire story, I don't have to explain it to you anymore.

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Speaker 1: Vincent, she was open and honest. She's a little bit

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Speaker 1: socially anxious when it comes to first dates. But now

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Speaker 1: that you've got the first one out of the way,

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Speaker 1: the second one should be super easy.

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Speaker 4: What do you think, I think as long as it's

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Speaker 4: like an uber eats thing or whatever, you give it

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Speaker 4: to her and put it in her court.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you want her to make the effort. She's going

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Speaker 3: to order without you.

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Speaker 1: Playing yourself. Classical Lexus movies, Who What Where did You wait?

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning