1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this one. 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: Pop pop right here, right now. Who knows it could be. 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 3: Hold on tight, We got it for you here. It 8 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 3: is the Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject my Daddy Loves my Friends. Dear 10 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty year old single woman forced 11 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: to live with my forty six year old father for 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: the first time ever in my life. 13 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: I moved in with him last year after I. 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: Got pregnant and lost my job, all in the same 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: month during the pandemic. My parents got pregnant with me 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: in high school, so I was raised by my two grandmothers, 17 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: and I thought of my dad as an older brother 18 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: or playmate because he didn't do anything but play with 19 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: me when I was younger. When he finished college, our 20 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: relationship got stronger and I started looking up to him. 21 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: That has all changed since I moved in with him. 22 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: And let me say upfront that I'm grateful to have 23 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: a place to stay, but he is out of control. 24 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: Last Christmas, he had a small get together at his 25 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: house and he told me he wanted me to meet 26 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: his new girlfriend. I didn't have to meet her because 27 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: she went to high school with me and is a 28 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: year younger. 29 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: Than I am. I was polite to her. 30 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: And joked with her about dating my dad's She told 31 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: me my dad is the biggest man she's ever been with, 32 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: and he knows what he's doing between the sheets. I 33 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: wanted to pop her. I told my dad he's a pervert, 34 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: and he laughed it off and told me to mind 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: my business. By New Year's Eve, he'd broken up with 36 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: her and she was banging on our door at three am, 37 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: yelling he better not be with another be in the house. 38 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: I couldn't do anything but beg her. 39 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: To leave because there was another female in my daddy's 40 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: bedroom and she. 41 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: Went to college with me. 42 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: I can't believe he's still acting like he's twenty something 43 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: and playing all of these young women like this. I 44 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: need some kind of warning label so my friends and 45 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: classmates can stay away from him. I'm going to move out, 46 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: but should I have a heart to heart with my dad. 47 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 2: First heart to heart with your dad about what about what? 48 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: He's not going to listen to you, and he's already 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: told you to mind your business. He obviously likes much 50 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: younger women, and no one wants their father, we get it. 51 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: No one wants their father to holler at or date 52 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: any of their friends. And he's wrong for that, and 53 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: it's very embarrassing to you and very hurtful to you. 54 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: We get it. 55 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: But the friends don't seem to care because he's got something. 56 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: He's got something that they want. 57 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: When you think about. 58 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: It, we don't have to guess what it is, because 59 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: it's just what your high school friend said and I quote, 60 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: he's the biggest man she's ever been, and he knows 61 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: what to do between the sheets. The other thing is 62 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: you have to remember that these women are also grown 63 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: women and they know what they're doing as well. I mean, 64 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: they would all probably say the same thing about your 65 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: dad in the bedroom, and that's why they keep getting 66 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: with him. So the best thing for you to do, 67 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: you said it at the end, you're going to move out. 68 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 1: The best thing for you to do is move out 69 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: as soon as you can, soon as you can afford to. 70 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: So you no longer have to witness your father's behavior 71 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: with your friends. You know you don't want to see 72 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: all that, and you don't know that was going on, 73 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: so the best thing for you at this point is 74 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: to hurry up to move out. 75 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: Steve, Well, young lady, I feel for you because you 76 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 4: have a problem with your father. Your thirty year old 77 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 4: single woman and you live with your old sixteen forty 78 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 4: six year old father. Now that's a sixteen year age difference, 79 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 4: so she was born when it's young guy was only 80 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 4: sixteen years old, still really a boy. Sixteen, you a 81 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 4: long way from manhood. So you had to move in 82 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 4: with him because you got pregnant lost your job in 83 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 4: the same month during the pandemic. Your parents was in 84 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 4: high school when you were born, so he was raised 85 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 4: by your two grandparents, and you thought of your dad 86 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 4: as an older brother, a playmate, because he used to 87 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 4: do nothing but play with you when you was younger. 88 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: Then when he finished school, your relationship got strong and 89 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 4: you started looking up to him. Well, now you live 90 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,119 Speaker 4: with him, and you're gratefully have a place to stay. 91 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 4: But he had a control. He had a small get 92 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 4: together at the house and he told me he wanted 93 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 4: to meet my new girlfriend. His new girlfriend. Well, you 94 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 4: didn't have to meet her because she went to high 95 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 4: school with you and as a year younger than you. 96 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 3: So now she twenty nine, he forty six. 97 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 4: Well, now hold on, that's still in the pocket. If 98 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 4: this dude is forty and this girl is twenty nine, 99 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 4: that's almost thirty. That's a nineteen year difference. People do 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 4: that a lot. They do that a lot. But they 101 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 4: do that a lot. 102 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 2: They like her dad. 103 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 4: They do it a lot. It's only a sixteen year difference. 104 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 3: They do it a lot. 105 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 4: So now you mad because she younger than you. You 106 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 4: was polite to and you joke with her about dating 107 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 4: my dad. Then she said you need to get out 108 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 4: my damn face because your daddy biggest man I ever 109 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 4: been with. 110 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: Period. That's what we're in here. 111 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 2: Fall they like him. 112 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 4: Now that's it. You wanted to pop her. My question 113 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 4: is why didn't you? 114 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 3: So Now after she said she know what she's doing, 115 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 3: you said I wanted to pop her. My question is 116 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: why didn't you out of busted her dad in her mouth? 117 00:05:58,480 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: For what? 118 00:05:58,920 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 2: For dating her dad? 119 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 4: No, for talking disrespectful to me. Your dad and the 120 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 4: biggest man I ain't going nowhere. He know what he's 121 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 4: doing between new sheet. Well, I know what I'm doing 122 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 4: when we stand over here with our duke, so damn mouth. 123 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy to hear about your dad. 124 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 4: I told my dad he's a pervert, and he laughed 125 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 4: it off, and he told you to mind your business. 126 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 3: But then New Year's Eve. 127 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 4: He broke up with it, and he was She was 128 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,799 Speaker 4: banging on our door at three am, yelling he better 129 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 4: not have another be in that house. 130 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 3: Come back. We're gonna find out if she in now. 131 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming 132 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: up in twenty three minutes after the our subject my 133 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: daddy loves my friends. 134 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 135 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: hard Morning show. 136 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 137 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 2: The subject might daddy loves my friends? 138 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, your daddy loved your friends. Your daddy's sixteen years 139 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 3: older than you. 140 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 4: He then started dating one of your friends went to 141 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 4: high school who's a year younger than me. He's seventeen 142 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 4: years older than her. You upset about it because she 143 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 4: done told you she ain't going nowhere. Because he the 144 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 4: biggest man she ever had, and he know what he 145 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 4: doing between them sheets. You get mad at your daddy, 146 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 4: tell your daddy he'll pervert. He tell you to mind 147 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 4: your business. Now, the girl that told you that, you 148 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 4: say you wanted to popper, I suggested you bust are 149 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 4: dead in the mouth. 150 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: That's what I had suggested. But you didn't do that. 151 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 3: Now by New Year's Eve, he's broken up with it. 152 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 4: And he was and she was banging on our door 153 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 4: at three of them telling him you better not have 154 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 4: another be in that house. 155 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: Whoo. 156 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 4: I couldn't do anything but beg her to leave because 157 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 4: that was another helpful in my daddy's bedroom, and she 158 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 4: went to college with me. Honey, Now listen to this. 159 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 4: First of all, this was the same girl as now 160 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 4: banging on the door. They told you your daddy the 161 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 4: biggest man she hadn't been with, and he know what 162 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 4: do between the sheets. She banging on the door, You 163 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 4: begging her to leave, He telling her, She yelling out 164 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 4: you better not have another being that. Well, here's a problem. 165 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 4: There was another woman in the room. And you could 166 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 4: have ended this girl's all this beating on the dope 167 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 4: by letting her in because you scared to hit her 168 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 4: in the mouth. I bet that other girl ain't somebody 169 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 4: need to put her ass there. 170 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 3: In the mon Let it happen. 171 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, one of these girls can end all this bravado 172 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 4: she got going. All right, So now I can't believe 173 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 4: he's still acting like he's twenty something and playing all 174 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 4: these young women like this. 175 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 3: Well, let me go back to the top of the letter. 176 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 3: You said when you. 177 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 4: Were born, you thought your daddy was your older brother 178 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 4: because all he did was play with. 179 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 3: You, So obviously he's not the maturest person in the world. Right. 180 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 4: A lot of men I found who date younger women 181 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 4: is because they're not mature enough for women their age, 182 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 4: and so they compensate by going the younger route so 183 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 4: they can appear to be more than they are and 184 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 4: they can think they all list and all that, because 185 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 4: see a grown woman, you got to do more than 186 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 4: be the biggest man she ever met, because at forty six, 187 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 4: they try to figure out their future and make sure 188 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,199 Speaker 4: they got some security. So all this you the biggest 189 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 4: man we have met. Yeah, that's nice, that's good. But 190 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 4: what were. 191 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: Where we're gonna win from? 192 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: You know what? We're gonna drive? Right? Yeah? Yeah, Are 193 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: we gonna have a home to live in? 194 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 4: Are we gonna build up equity? That's what grown women 195 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 4: want to know. Young girls don't do that. Most men 196 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 4: I know who date younger is because they don't have 197 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 4: the mental capacity to deal with grown women. That's what 198 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 4: I've found. That's not always the case, but a lot 199 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 4: of guys that I know that date younger women are 200 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 4: because they can't handle what comes with a grown woman. 201 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 4: And so I need some kind of warning label to 202 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 4: my friends and classmates to stay away from him. I'm 203 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 4: going to move out, But should I have a heart 204 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 4: to heart with my dad? Surely said it best, though, 205 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 4: you're gonna have a heart to heart about what. There's 206 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 4: nothing to talk about. He's a grown man that has 207 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:45,559 Speaker 4: a character flaw. You're not going to change your character flaw. 208 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 4: He ain't with your mama, cause you and your mama 209 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 4: forty six. 210 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: He ain't with your mama. He can't handle it. 211 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 4: He's running from his age group because he don't want 212 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 4: to live up to what their expectations of requirements of 213 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 4: his age group is. So let him go about his business. 214 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 4: Keep keep that out your head. And you need to 215 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 4: just move out the house because like he said, it 216 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 4: ain't your business, don't make it your business. Well, well, 217 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 4: you know he gonna end up with nothing because these 218 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 4: women right here, eventually they gonna want something, and he 219 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 4: ain't gonna have nothing except some size. 220 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: M hm. 221 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: And you can't take size down at the bank. 222 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 2: They want down there. 223 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 3: They don't care nothing about your size at the car show. 224 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 3: You can't take that out of the dealership. Damn if 225 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 3: Maryly Lynch don't give a damn about yourself? 226 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 4: Well's father, ain't they They ain't got nothing all that 227 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 4: you gotta. 228 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 3: Have mask on to come in here, but your size 229 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 3: ain't got nothing, damn do. 230 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 2: I'm just tagging. 231 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 4: So you shouldn't have a heart to heart because what 232 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 4: are you going to say? He's your father, Yeah, and 233 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 4: it's supposed to be somebody you look up to. Dad, 234 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 4: Stop dating these young girls. 235 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 3: He's not. 236 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 4: He's not. 237 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 238 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: Well you know what, let me ask you this, Steve. 239 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: Would she be mad if they weren't her friends? They 240 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: were just young women, but they weren't her friends. I 241 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: think she probably could deal with that a little better. 242 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: She's the problem is she's met too because they're her friends. 243 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: Because she knows no, Yeah, she went to high school 244 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: with one, in college with the other. 245 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: She doesn't like the fact that they're young, but she 246 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: really hates if they're her friends. 247 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, that's a problem too. But yeah, that is 248 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 4: a huge problem. 249 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: If he could just stop doing that nothing, Yeah, leave 250 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: my friends alone. Dad to go to graduate school. Definitely 251 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: don't go to grad school. 252 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: All right, all right, junior, all right. 253 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: Thanks to post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at 254 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out 255 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 256 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.