Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 2: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of two years
Speaker 2: named Andrew might be messing around. So we'll see what
Speaker 2: we can help her out. Kristin, sorry, you have to
Speaker 2: come on the show this way, but what's going on?
Speaker 2: Why do you think Andrew's cheating?
Speaker 3: You know, Thanks has been great in our relationship, other
Speaker 3: than this conversation that I had with a friend of.
Speaker 4: Mine a while back.
Speaker 5: His name is Max.
Speaker 4: We were having blunch.
Speaker 5: It wasn't even that long ago.
Speaker 4: It was like a week ago, and I guess I
Speaker 4: have to say he's gay.
Speaker 3: So he found something on his phone and he said, oh,
Speaker 3: I really have to talk to you about this, and
Speaker 3: so I was like, okay, great, I was in stuff
Speaker 3: about Okay, let's just go to brunch.
Speaker 4: Matt showed me that Andrew is on Grinder.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and if anybody doesn't know, Grinder is a
Speaker 2: dating site where guys meet other guys.
Speaker 1: About that it's the same sex dating site.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 6: And then my husband's on it. And Max told me
Speaker 6: that he tried to match with Andrew just to see
Speaker 6: what he was doing, but he.
Speaker 4: Either didn't see it or you know, knew that he
Speaker 4: should have matched with him because they came respond.
Speaker 7: Did he have or does he have like a detailed profile?
Speaker 7: So he's got his photo? Does is everything filled out?
Speaker 6: So on his profile it said that he was in
Speaker 6: a relationship. I don't know why you would be on
Speaker 6: a dating app if you were in a relationship, obviously,
Speaker 6: but then you would say.
Speaker 4: It, you know, like it's just weird. Wouldn't you lie
Speaker 4: about that?
Speaker 1: Well, it's kind of more of a hookup app. I
Speaker 1: believe it's like the Tinder. Oh yeah, essentially, so it's
Speaker 1: like it's for hooking up. But would you want to
Speaker 1: hook up with someone that's on like in a relationship?
Speaker 7: People do it all the time. Me personally, no, but
Speaker 7: it happens all the time. But would you like swipe
Speaker 7: right on someone who's in Like That's what I don't get, Like,
Speaker 7: why would you put that in your you're in a relationship?
Speaker 7: Because that way you don't have any strings attached. There's
Speaker 7: not going to be no problem. You can just have
Speaker 7: a transaction and not worry about what happens later.
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you haven't asked him about this.
Speaker 4: No, not yet.
Speaker 7: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't know what to do because I mean, you know,
Speaker 3: if he is closeted, I want to know.
Speaker 4: Yeah really, and he hasn't.
Speaker 3: Ever said anything about wanting to try something with another
Speaker 3: guy or being unhappy or anything like. I didn't know
Speaker 3: just how to go about confronting him with this. But
Speaker 3: it's not even like it's just he's cheating, but now
Speaker 3: he may want to be with a man.
Speaker 4: So I just I didn't know. I emailed you it.
Speaker 4: I don't want to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 1: Would you be open if he wanted to have both?
Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm ready to think about that yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah I haven't.
Speaker 3: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, good point.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So do you think his friends know about this? Do
Speaker 7: you think anybody else knows about this other than your friend?
Speaker 4: I don't know if he had.
Speaker 3: He doesn't really have any friends that are gay that
Speaker 3: would be on the app to see that I do.
Speaker 4: Which is interesting because he knows that I have gay
Speaker 4: friends that are on Grinder.
Speaker 6: So I don't know how he could not have thought
Speaker 6: of this, But he's going to be so defitful.
Speaker 2: Could someone be using his picture I've known sometimes it's
Speaker 2: like catfishing.
Speaker 3: Like, but it's got information about him, like the town
Speaker 3: he lives in, that he's a real tour like.
Speaker 4: It is info on it. So I mean that would
Speaker 4: have to be a very convincing soccer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody who knows him right to know that. Okay, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: we'll try to figure it out for you. You already told
Speaker 2: us what grocery store. You guys are Rewards card members.
Speaker 2: That's so play a song, come back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store and
Speaker 2: say that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards
Speaker 2: cardmember who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department.
Speaker 2: We'll see business that will see you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 2: play so I'll come back at cheater next. If you're
Speaker 2: just joining us for today is to catch a cheater.
Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 2: husband of two years named Andrew might be messing around.
Speaker 2: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards
Speaker 2: card member at and say that every single month we
Speaker 2: choose one rewards card member who gets three flowers delivered
Speaker 2: from our floor department, and we'll see if he sends
Speaker 2: those flowers to Kristin or to somebody else. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, Kristin, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
Speaker 2: on your situation.
Speaker 3: Gosh, if I've been married like you said, and my
Speaker 3: friend Max took me to brunch the other day. He's
Speaker 3: active on Grinder and said that he showed me that
Speaker 3: my husband has a profile on Grinder that I obviously
Speaker 3: didn't know about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal. Yeah, definitely, it's a
Speaker 1: little bit alarming. Uh huh, All right, are you ready
Speaker 1: for us to call him?
Speaker 4: Ready as I'll ever be?
Speaker 1: Yes, here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Corporal calling from so I was looking
Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Andrew.
Speaker 5: That's me speaking. Yeah, what can I help you with?
Speaker 1: Andrew?
Speaker 2: Hello, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing
Speaker 2: phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations here this
Speaker 2: month's winter. Thank you so much for your business. And
Speaker 2: here's talking over here.
Speaker 5: Yeah what I didn't under anything?
Speaker 1: Congratulations? No, you won the flowers?
Speaker 5: Oh, okay, tell me more.
Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member to
Speaker 2: say thank you very much for being such a loyal customer.
Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stim red roses, a
Speaker 2: box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be
Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.
Speaker 5: Wow, that's really nice for you guys. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can take the information over the phone. What
Speaker 2: I would need to do is just get some information
Speaker 2: from you. I can do that right now.
Speaker 5: If you have it, I can do it over the
Speaker 5: phone totally. I got a second.
Speaker 1: Great.
Speaker 2: First thing I would need from you would be the
Speaker 2: first and last name of the person.
Speaker 1: He's like to send them to.
Speaker 5: That would be Kristen.
Speaker 1: Alrighty. And anything you want to write on a card.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, just something simple like love you baby, see
Speaker 5: to night.
Speaker 1: Oh that's sweet. I'm the same last name there is?
Speaker 3: That?
Speaker 1: Your your wife?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my wife?
Speaker 1: How like has been married?
Speaker 5: I would have married for two years.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, now I'll let you know that this is
Speaker 2: not a grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell
Speaker 2: and I'm from a radio show. It's called The Jewel Show. Yeah,
Speaker 2: whole show's here. I'm Nina and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: What.
Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on the show called to
Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other
Speaker 2: might be messing around, we can try to catch them
Speaker 2: by who they send flowers to and your wife.
Speaker 5: I don't think my wife is cheating on me, now,
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's not.
Speaker 2: That she suspects that you might be doing something and
Speaker 2: she's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: This is really strange. Babe, you're there. Hi?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 5: Hi. Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't baby, I would never, ever, in a million
Speaker 5: years cheat on you.
Speaker 1: Are you?
Speaker 5: What? What are you thinking?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 5: Why? Why do you think I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 4: Okay? So remember how I went to brunch with Max
Speaker 4: the other week. Yeah, he showed me your profile, Andrew, I.
Speaker 5: Don't understand which profile are you talking about? Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 4: The Grinder? The grinder?
Speaker 5: Okay? Oh my god, I get it. I get it.
Speaker 5: I completely get it. Wait did did he did he
Speaker 5: try to match with? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I have to figure out what you were up to.
Speaker 5: Oh my god. Oh I didn't see his request. I
Speaker 5: just honestly should have. That was been hilarious. Honey, babe,
Speaker 5: I am not gay and I am not cheating and
Speaker 5: full transparency. I am sorry I didn't tell you about
Speaker 5: this earlier. So a colleague of mine told me about
Speaker 5: real estate agents finding clients on these dating websites and
Speaker 5: dating apps. Really yes, no, no, it's completely like just
Speaker 5: for networking. There is no relationship, no dating, no sex involved,
Speaker 5: just potential clients and I legitimately just wanted to try
Speaker 5: it out and also full transparency. I'm on bumble and
Speaker 5: hinge too.
Speaker 1: People do do that. People do do that like it's
Speaker 1: like a marketing place now is crazy. I don't understand.
Speaker 1: Do they have to put a disclaimer on the bed?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, the match with people and then when they start messaging,
Speaker 2: it's like you promote whatever you want to promote.
Speaker 1: That doesn't feel right, But I don't think i'd want
Speaker 1: you to be my realtor. If I also try to
Speaker 1: hood up with you, it could be fun, but you know,
Speaker 1: oh okay, babe.
Speaker 4: Why would you tell me that.
Speaker 5: I'll be honest, it's it was a weird way of
Speaker 5: just introducing you to it, and I didn't know if
Speaker 5: there was actually going to go anywhere with some of
Speaker 5: these potential clients it actually has in a completely professional
Speaker 5: real estate centric way. Really, and yes, I've actually got
Speaker 5: sold a few properties based off matches I've had on
Speaker 5: a Hinge bumble as yet to hit and Grinder, I
Speaker 5: think twice. And I can show you these when I
Speaker 5: get home, Like, I feel free to go through my
Speaker 5: prof my taking profile. You're totally allowed. Huh.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry to ask this question, Andrew. I'd never heard
Speaker 7: of this before. So the people that mat would you
Speaker 7: understand that you're not trying to date them, that you're
Speaker 7: just trying to sell them.
Speaker 5: Yes, they do understand that, and maybe not right away.
Speaker 5: Like a few people have tried to flirt with me,
Speaker 5: but I very quickly sit down and like address what
Speaker 5: I'm looking for, which is very consensual sales.
Speaker 7: Also an ego boast. He's getting matched with all these
Speaker 7: people that are initially attracted to you. Okay, Andrew, ego
Speaker 7: and sales.
Speaker 4: I don't really want you like talking with other women
Speaker 4: who want to sleep with you.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that.
Speaker 5: I hear you. I hear you, And I can show
Speaker 5: you my opening line, which is always I am not
Speaker 5: here for anything romantic or physical. It includes verbiage like
Speaker 5: that in there. I make it very clear from the
Speaker 5: get go that none of this is to lead or
Speaker 5: can ever lead to anything romantic orifice, I promise you. Okay, Look,
Speaker 5: there's nothing to worry about from the money that I've
Speaker 5: been getting from this. I have actually been keeping well
Speaker 5: surprised from you, but I guess I can tell you here.
Speaker 5: I have booked us a trip to France. Whoa with
Speaker 5: all the money that I've gotten off this, and I
Speaker 5: want that to be proof of the pudding that the
Speaker 5: only romantic things to come out of all of these
Speaker 5: profiles is between you and me. We're good enough. France, France, France.
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, Kristin, he's not cheating. He is on the
Speaker 2: dating apps and you get I guess you have to
Speaker 2: prove to you that he's just there for real estate.
Speaker 2: But you also get to go to France.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 4: Wait when are we going to France?
Speaker 1: The Jewel shows it to catch a cheater