1 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: tip is that life administration is real work that takes 4 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 1: real time, So a smart schedule takes that into account 5 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: and builds it in. Lately, I've been hearing from a 6 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: lot of people who confess that they are falling behind 7 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: on their personal to dos. Some things are quick. It 8 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: is easy enough to use that app from your hair 9 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: salon to schedule an appointment for Saturday, but some things 10 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,959 Speaker 1: are more involved. I recently registered my five year old 11 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: for kindergarten next year. This involved tracking down his birth certificate, 12 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: a recent utility bill, my real estate tax bill, and 13 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: his immunisation record, plus filling out a lot of different 14 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: information online. People sometimes wonder why these things just aren't 15 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 1: getting done. Sometimes people assume that chaos is the inevitable 16 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: result of having a lot going on, but I don't 17 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: think that's true. I think what's generally happening is that 18 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: people aren't scheduling any sort of time to do these things. 19 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: People figure they'll get to them at some point, or 20 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: they'll fit around the edges of everything else. But when 21 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: some people can take a chunk of time at work 22 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: when they're sitting at a desk and have a phone 23 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: and such. But if your work involves doing medical procedures 24 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: or driving a bus or installing refrigerators, that might not 25 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: really be feasible. Perhaps this personal work can be done 26 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: at home, but sometimes when people are home they are 27 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: taking care of small children. It is a cruel truth 28 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: that it is hard to focus on registered during a 29 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: five year old for kindergarten when the five year old 30 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: is asking you to get him a snack every three minutes. 31 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: To make progress on your personal to dos, you need 32 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: to recognize that life administration is real work and it 33 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: takes real time. As with all work, it is more 34 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: efficient when you aren't constantly being interrupted, so you need 35 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: a regular time to do it. For many people, this 36 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: might mean a slot during the week and on the weekend. 37 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: You could block out thirty minutes after the kids go 38 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: to bed on Wednesdays and then a one hour block 39 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: on Saturday while you and your spouse trade off kid coverage. 40 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: Or perhaps it's thirty minutes Tuesday night and thirty minutes 41 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: Thursday night. You want to designate a time so it's 42 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: not always an option and you feel guilty when you 43 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: aren't doing it, But when you get to that time, 44 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: you've managed your energy and you know it's time to 45 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: get going. This will work for most things, but some 46 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: personal tasks can only be done during business hours. For instance, 47 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: if you have a billing issue with your dentist that 48 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: needs to get resolved, you might need to call between 49 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: eight and five when they are open. If that's the case, 50 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: then maybe designate one window during the work week. If 51 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: you've got a work from home day, maybe you take 52 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: your lunch break and do it. Or perhaps if you 53 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: start work at nine, you could use the window from 54 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: eight to nine when a lot of places are open. 55 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: Or if you work until four pm but your day 56 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: care is open until five thirty, you might be able 57 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: to use the four p m To five pm window 58 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: once every week or two. Keep a running list of 59 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: personal to dos, and then split the list between things 60 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: that are more flexible and things that have to be 61 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: done during business hours. But don't just assume that these 62 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: things will happen at some point. Life administration is real work. 63 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: It takes real time. Even once I had all my documentation, 64 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: registering my kid for kindergarten still took thirty minutes. It's 65 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: not a ton of time, but it is not zero either, 66 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: so best to build these things in in the meantime. 67 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 68 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. 69 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach 70 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. Before Breakfast 71 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartMedia. 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