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Speaker 1: it came to video games, especially Minecraft. Matthew has had

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Speaker 2: They're gonna, you know, dig dig a love so deep

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Speaker 1: Pixels, blocks, block no one can. They will they their

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Speaker 3: That's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's pretty. He gave her a diamond

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Speaker 1: Last year. Matthew popped the question to Jennifer and she

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Speaker 3: So reading comprehensive questions.

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Speaker 2: So OPI and his soon to be our fiance, now

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Speaker 1: Who's Opie? And Opie's friend were playing Minecraft?

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Speaker 3: But is it you know now it's like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: So she was distant towards me. She wouldn't look at me,

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Speaker 1: is going to take place at Matthew's cabin two hours away,

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Speaker 1: to be crafting with mine. Oh no, he's mine and

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Speaker 1: Is there witches in Minecraft? Yeah? Since when?

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Speaker 3: Which is Enderman's dude, get get your update on it.

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Speaker 1: I am so bad that John is going to this

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Speaker 1: I know stuff.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Matthew and our friends found out, and I was

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Speaker 2: I would never if someone's like, I don't want you here,

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Speaker 1: Why would I want to be somewhere? I am not wanted,

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Speaker 3: So the other friends I feel like should be understanding

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: to Conspiracy Theory. Matthew said to Jennifer that he had

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Speaker 2: My conspiracy theory, Like, do you think they had some

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, I want to be married to you,

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Speaker 1: But it Waiting always felt this way, but she wanted

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Speaker 1: Could see it easily being like I'm gonna I'm I'm

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Speaker 2: sure in your conspiracy theory is that she'll start burning

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and is okay with Opie being close to We

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Speaker 4: I understand what she brought him. I just don't know

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Speaker 1: I think this is what this conversation was supposed to be. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Why drag yourself.

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Speaker 2: To a swamp that's full of witches when you could

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Speaker 1: And ride a few horses through the grass, beautiful thing.

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Speaker 1: So it was Matthew's sister who wanted to buy a dress,

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Speaker 1: Good hello to all. A lot of you have been

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Speaker 3: She probably hated that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and now that she's like, I don't have you

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Speaker 3: To Mama to get more control or control I think

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking that there was a mini confession where it's

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Speaker 2: And we were generally saying, like, just generally speaking, this

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, I wonder how long it's been going

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Speaker 2: and now she's going crazy. But if she was being

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Speaker 2: this controlling before, why would he propose exactly?

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Speaker 1: Which is probably mean that I think you just pushed

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Speaker 1: me towards it. Probably came out after the proposal. Yeah,

443
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Speaker 1: so I asked Matthew if you wanted to go with

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Speaker 1: us on vacation, but he declined, stating he wants to

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Speaker 1: be alone, which I understand. I go and I went

446
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 1: on vacation. I had a fun time. By the way,

447
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Speaker 1: I did wear the dress that I bought and wore

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Speaker 1: that to dinner with my boyfriend. He loved the dress

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Speaker 1: and had constantly complimented me the entire time. Well, when

450
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: we returned, Jennifer messaged me, which I was surprised by

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Speaker 1: as she never once did such a thing. She asked

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Speaker 1: me if we could meet.

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Speaker 3: Bring the boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Come on, do not bring your boyfriend?

455
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Speaker 3: All right?

456
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,719
Speaker 1: What's your guests? Does she bring the boyfriend or does

457
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: she not.

458
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 3: Bring the boy bring the boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: At first I wasn't sure, but I agreed, But first

460
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,199
Speaker 1: I was at schure, but I agreed. I brought my

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00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: boyfriend along first safety reasons, as I wasn't sure what

462
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: Jennifer's intentions were with me.

463
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 3: Quality time. I don't know many time.

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Speaker 1: Dude, this boyfriend is like, damn, I have to go

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Speaker 1: to this other thing.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you something. Do you leave your castle

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Speaker 3: without your axe?

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Speaker 1: It's true.

469
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 3: Always have your axe by your side.

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Speaker 1: I guess so, But I feel like this boyfriend will

471
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 1: become an axe if an axe boyfriend if this behavior continues.

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Speaker 1: Do you see the Sofia Sofia give it? Sophia intentionally

473
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: gives me nothing, and then she'll just be like, We'll

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Speaker 1: say it wasn't funny.

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Speaker 3: She does.

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Speaker 1: That to all the time. She is she is a

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00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: great yes ander until she is with me. She true, yeah,

478
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Speaker 1: just not the pote so feeble make me just live

479
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: in silence and misery.

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00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 3: She is equal no end as she has both both.

481
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: All the way outside of this pod, guys, but inside

482
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: the pod, guys, she will just be like, you don't

483
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: know about witches anyway. Going back to this story, so,

484
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: Jennifer told me that she wants to apologize for lashing

485
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: out at me at the store, for calling me names,

486
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: and for uninviting me to the wedding over something so small.

487
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 1: She explained that she allowed her jealousy to get the

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Speaker 1: better of her, and she was so scared of losing

489
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Speaker 1: Matthew that she ended up doing things that she deeply regrets.

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Speaker 1: Jennifer is going to therapy and said that she has

491
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Speaker 1: some trauma in her childhood that lingered into her relationships

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00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: in way she didn't expect. She also admitted that she

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Speaker 1: was insecure and found me to be a very beautiful

494
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: woman and we called it. And she was a bit

495
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Speaker 1: jealous when Matthew and I talk about our hobbies and

496
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: that made her feel left out because she isn't into

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00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: Minecraft or gaming. Maybe get into it.

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Speaker 3: Ugly and Lane damn sucks to suck.

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Speaker 1: I told her none of those things matter to me now,

500
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: since she has apologized and admitted what she did wasn't

501
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: right and that I forgive her, And my boyfriend says,

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Speaker 1: I forgive you too. Yeah, I don't worry. I forgive

503
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 1: you too. I'm a plus one on that one.

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00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,719
Speaker 3: I got your back. Mayby cakes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just all right, imagine this whole exchange coming out

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Speaker 1: between the two of them, and the boyfriend is just

507
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: sitting watching.

508
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just like, it's so weird.

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00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: It's so weird. Well as for Matthew and I his friendship,

510
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: we are now back to hanging out and playing games together.

511
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: Even my boyfriend has been hanging out with Matthew a lot,

512
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: and I've gotten closer. I decide to ask Matthew if

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Speaker 1: he ever did have a crush on me back in

514
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: the day, and he's said he never did and that

515
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: he was being honest. Jennifer moved her stuff out, and

516
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: as for the cabin where the wedding was supposed to

517
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: take place, Matthew, my boyfriend, myself, and a couple of

518
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: other friends will go there this upcoming weekend. I apologize

519
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: for taking too long. I think posting it on my

520
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: personal profile rather than on the subreddit is better since

521
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: I broke the character limit. I'm quite busy and I

522
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: know everyone was dying for an update. I also like

523
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: to thank everyone who has given me advice on how

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00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,719
Speaker 1: to handle the situation and my friendship with Matthew. I

525
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: also had a chance to read some personal stories some

526
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: of you have sent me, and it breaks my heart.

527
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: I realize I have such a big support group here

528
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: and that's one thing I love about Reddit, and that

529
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: is where this saga Wow ends.

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Speaker 3: If we've learned one thing this episode, it is bring your.

531
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: Boyfriend and bring your boyfriend everywhere.

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00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 5: Every obgyn boyfriend, boyfriend, boyfriend, job, interview, boyfriend, minecraft, convention, boyfriend,

533
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 5: your parents, if boyfrio, boyfriend, get him in there get

534
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 5: him in there. He should be watching, watching, just to

535
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 5: make sure, learning for safety, listening for safety reasons. Yeah,

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00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 5: mister Johnson wear protection. Yeah you might be old, but

537
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 5: I think you can still shoot some bullets.

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00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 3: And mister Johnson's Johnson is is.

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00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 1: Firing on all cylinders.

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00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: And that's no one do they call him mister Johnson?

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Speaker 1: Mister Johnson? What are you doing? Step Johnson?

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00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 4: What are these bits? What are these bits?

543
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: What? You're just mad because you can't?

544
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 3: Are you mad? Are you mad because you don't know

545
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 3: as much about Minecraft as I?

546
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 4: You're right, I have said I'm a fraud.

547
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: You are.

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00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: I have somehow managed to evade I Literally I don't

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00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: know if I ever played Minecraft once in my.

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00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 3: Life, I can tell uh No, you can't do. I

551
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 3: was crushing it. You didn't call me out, bro, yeah,

552
00:28:59,240 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: because it.

553
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: Was unscathed, unscathed. But that's where that story ends. Are

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00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: we ready for this next story?

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00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 3: Yes? I am