1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stump Mom Never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 1: From house top works dot com. Hello, welcome to the podcast. 4 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: This is Molly and I'm Kristen. Kristen. The topic for 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: today is the hot flash. I would say it's probably 6 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: the most famous or infamous uh symbol of menopause, and 7 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: it's it's so often used as a punchline. I feel 8 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: like that's how I knew. It's just those movies or 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: TV shows where uh, middle aged woman just starts banning 10 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: herself having a hot flash breakout in a sweat. But 11 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: the more research I did on them, it's no laughing matter. 12 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: It is no laughing matter. Hot flash is not a 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: pleasant experience that can last anywhere from two minutes, which 14 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: that's okay. I can handle two minutes a heat, but 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: how about a thirty minute hot flash? And you know 16 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: it's it's one thing just to say you get really hot. 17 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: But listen to this description that's on our website how 18 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: stuff works dot com. You experience a sudden wave of 19 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: intense heat rushing through your body within seconds of its arrival. 20 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: The strange feeling that you're experiencing causes you to sweat, 21 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: and you'd swear that your skin is on fire. As 22 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: foolish as it sounds, you feel like stripping off the 23 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: clothing that you're wearing and finding the coolest place you can, 24 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 1: even if it's the middle of winter. Within minutes or 25 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: even hours, in some cases, the feeling passes and this 26 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: od sensation disappears just as quickly as it arrived. I mean, 27 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: I oh, if I was experiencing that, get out of 28 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: the way, Just get out of the way. I just 29 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: was like, like, also like a stereotype of meeting like 30 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: a sexy stranger on a train. That's maybe that's the 31 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: way to like spice up the hot flashes reputation. Just 32 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: call it a sexy sexy visitor feeling. I don't think 33 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: menopausal women would appreciate it that much, because while hot 34 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: flashes can be brief, lasting only a few minutes, they 35 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: can come up over a period of five plus years. 36 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: Five plus years, Molly and well, and you know, it 37 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: varies so much from woman to woman, as as most 38 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: things tend to do, but that five plus marker can 39 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: be really scary when you're trying to figure out the 40 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: way that you're going to treat your hot flashes, which 41 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: we'll talk about a little bit later, but let's get 42 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: into why this happens, Christen, because everyone associates this phenomenon 43 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: with menopause, but what specifically is going on in the 44 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: body that causes the sexy visitor on the train feeling. 45 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: Hot flashes originate in the hypothalamus, and this is a 46 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: part of the brain that regulates the body's temperature and 47 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: it's linked so often to menopause because levels of estrogen 48 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: and testosterone will influence the hypothalamus, endearing menopause. When levels 49 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: of estrogen drop, the hypothalamus will think that the body 50 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: is overheated and going to overdrive. Right, all your blood 51 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: vessels dilate, which causes more more blood to rush through 52 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: the vessels very rapidly, which is what results in those 53 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: symptoms like a feeling of warmth or intense heat pressure 54 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: in your head as that blood really starts pumping, sweating, 55 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: the flash appearance, rapid heartbeat, and then um, it's like 56 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: if your body thinks it's overheated and it's cooling down, 57 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: that's why you get chilled. Almost immediately after the hot 58 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: flash ships sides, and this is experienced by women who 59 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: are going through menopause. No fun. But there are environmental 60 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: factors that can influence the frequency of hot flashes as well, 61 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: such as smoking. Women who smoke are more likely to 62 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: get hot flashes. Women with a high body mass index 63 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: tend to have more hot flashes people who are physically inactive, 64 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: and also ethnicity has a correlation to hot flashes UM. 65 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: According to Discovery Health, more African American women report menopausal 66 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: hot flashes, and they're also less common in women of 67 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: Japanese and Chinese descent. But I did you Christen that 68 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: they just don't know if that's because the Asian women 69 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: won't report a hot flash UM or if they really 70 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: do experience them less because you know, probably not the 71 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: easiest thing to talk about with your doctor, and it's 72 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: not it's one of those things that really can't be 73 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: measured per se. It's all about your subjective experience of 74 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: what what you're going through. And you might hear hot 75 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 1: flashes referred to as night sweats um in of women 76 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: who are going through menopause. Hot flashes or night sweats 77 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: will wake them up in the middle of the night. 78 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: Although we did come across the study that um it 79 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: tracked women who claimed they were frequently woken up in 80 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: the night by hot flashes, and they found that during 81 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: the first half of the night it was a hot 82 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: flash that woke the women up. During the second half 83 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: the night, when the women were in deeper sleep, the 84 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: things that were actually waking them up where things like 85 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: sleep apnea and restless leg syndrome. So that's it's instead 86 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: of solving a puzzle for researchers, that gave them something 87 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: else to work on, because right now, what people are 88 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: trying to figure out is how hot flashes and other 89 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: symptoms of menopaus are related to these other conditions that 90 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: women of a certain age experience. For example, depression is 91 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: a big one. Right there is seems to be huge 92 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: connection between depression, menopause, and hot flashes, and doctors have 93 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: tried to figure out whether or not depression precedes the 94 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: onset of hot flashes, or if hot flashes start and 95 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: then the depression begins. Because one of the main therapies 96 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: that doctors are now using prescribing for hot flashes are 97 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: different types of anti depressants. So what they did with 98 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: this study that was reported by Mass General hospital the 99 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: Center for Women's Health Is they examined whether depression came 100 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: first or the hot flashes came first. And according to 101 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: the study that lasted ten years, uh fifty seven of 102 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: the women of the seventy women who experienced both hot 103 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: flashes and depressive symptoms. Of the women expressed experience the 104 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: depressive symptoms first, experience the hot flashes first, so that 105 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: the symptoms emerge concurrently. So again, something's going. I mean, granted, 106 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: if you're having these really extreme hot flashes, I can 107 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: see how that brings depression on. But with women saying 108 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: they experienced the depressive symptoms first and nearly a quarter 109 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: saying that they happen at the same time, there's something 110 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: linked there. And you know, we always talk about hormones 111 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: or this mysterious thing that researchers can't quite figure out. 112 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 1: But this is another example of how, you know, doctors 113 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: and researchers aren't sure what's causing what, how they can 114 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: treat one and treat the other. It's it's very interesting 115 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: to see how they're unraveling these connections in the body. 116 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: And a recent study on the effect of the antidepressant 117 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 1: Lexapro on relieving hot flashes had a very interesting result 118 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: um that says a lot about this potential mind body 119 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: connection with with menopause. Uh. The researchers had one group 120 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 1: of study participants take the Lexepro for hot flashes, and 121 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: they gave the other group a placebo. Now, while the 122 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: study participants were taking their placebo or alexi Pro, about 123 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: the people on luxe Pro experienced a decreased by at 124 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: least half of hot flash frequency. And then for the 125 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: folks taking the placebo, about thirty of the women experienced 126 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: hot flash relief. But after they stopped taking their placebo 127 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: or the Lexapro, the women who had just been taking 128 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: the lexi Pro immediately experienced a resurgence in hot flashes. However, 129 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: the people who are taking the placebo pills continue to 130 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: have the lowered incidence rate of hot flashes. Right, really 131 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: interesting that maybe the mind can work some magic over 132 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: the body control these kinds of hot flashes. Although I'm 133 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: sure the amy woman who's had a hot flash says, 134 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: this is not in my mind, and if I could 135 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: control it with my mind, I would, right. But this 136 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: study is really interesting because antidepressants are one of the 137 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: main and therapy is being considered right now for hot flashes, 138 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: and to go back to Christian's uh pointing out that 139 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: these can last for more than five years. I mean, 140 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: to be on an antidepressant for five years is a 141 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: really scary prospect to some women. And that's I mean, 142 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: that's sort of what you have to weigh against these 143 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: odds when you consider some of the therapies available. For example, 144 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: one of the main therapies for some women who are 145 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: candidates for it is hormone replacement therapy. But because of 146 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: this landmark study that linked hormone replacement therapy with an 147 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: increase of rate of heart disease, stroke, blood clots, hormone 148 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: replacement therapy is only an option. You know, they tell 149 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: you to be on the lowest possible dose for the 150 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: shortest amount of time possible. So when you're thinking of 151 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: you know, you really can't do that for five years, 152 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: how are we going to deal with these hot flashes? 153 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: A lot of women don't deal with them. It's you 154 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: don't have to get treatment for them if they're not 155 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: affecting your life. So after the controversy surrounding hormone replacement therapy, 156 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 1: the market for natural remedies for hot flashes and other 157 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: menopausal symptoms have skyrocketed. There is an article in the 158 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: New York Times from two thousand nine reporting that, uh, 159 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: the market grew from two hundred and eleven million and 160 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: ninety nine to three hundred and thirty nine million dollars 161 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: in two thousand seven. And this is just for dietary 162 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: supplements associated with menopause. And a lot of those dietary 163 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: supplements will involve things like soy and red clover that 164 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: are supposed to sort of I guess performed the same 165 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: type of role as the estrogen replacement. And another one 166 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: that you'll see is black co hosh. And you know, 167 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: we have an article on our site Kristin called how 168 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: to Treat menopause with a rooman Therapy. So if you're 169 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 1: looking for another natural option, according to Kathy Hivill, essential 170 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: oils ease hot flashes included clary sage, lemon, and peppermint. Yeah, 171 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: especially geraniums. The essential oils from geraniums supposed to be 172 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: very relieving. But the fact that so many things can 173 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: start competing for our attention in this treatment spectrum when 174 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 1: we really don't even know of a full proof method 175 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: to treat things is you know, it's telling it's another 176 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 1: one of these conditions that affect women that uh, doctors 177 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,439 Speaker 1: haven't quite figured out yet and don't know exactly how 178 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 1: to treat. And that maybe why so many women don't 179 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: report hot flashes to their doctor or don't seek treatment 180 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: for them in any way. But women are not we 181 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,359 Speaker 1: should mention the only people who can experience hot flashes exactly. 182 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: Although we tend to associate hot flashes with menopausal women, 183 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: guess what, men, you can get them too. And a 184 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 1: lot of times men who get hot flashes are those 185 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: who have gone through prostate cancer or have had their 186 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: prostate removed for some reason. Because like the drop in 187 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: estrogen that triggers the hypothalmus going haywire and then setting 188 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: off the hot flashes and men, drops in testosterone will 189 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: also interfere with the hypothalamus and cause a similar effect 190 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: with body temperature. But process cancer is not the only 191 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: thing linked to hot flashes and men. A number of 192 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: conditions can also cause them, including hyperthyroidism, low blood sugar, 193 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 1: and hypoglycemia. And you know, menopausal women are not the 194 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: only women who have hot flashes either. About one and 195 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: one women will start experiencing the symptoms of menopause before 196 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: age forty, and this has linked to a condition called 197 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: primary O variant insufficiency or p o I, and it's 198 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: not not very common, but it's worth talking to your 199 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: doctor about. Other symptoms of this condition include irregular periods 200 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: because what will eventually happen with p o I s 201 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: you're usually rendered infertile and then you become at risk 202 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: for bone fractors and heart disease, which is why it's 203 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 1: important to start talking to your doctor about it. Um 204 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: And so women who experienced those really early onset symptoms 205 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: may have that condition. Now. The National Institutes of Health 206 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: noted that this used to be your or two as 207 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: premature menopause or premature ovarian failure, but research has since 208 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: shown that ovarian function is unpredictable a lot of times 209 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: in these women, and sometimes it can turn off, but 210 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 1: then also turn on and you will go um go 211 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: on to produce eggs. So menopause not the only thing 212 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: that can cause a hot flash, though. Se of women 213 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: going through a menopause do experience them, and like we said, 214 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: the treatment ranges from doing nothing and just trying to 215 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: alleviate environmental factors, you know, keeping the air conditioning on 216 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: even when it's winter. That that can be you know, 217 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: a simple fix breathing exercises to relax your body and 218 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: not eating spicy food or smoking if those are triggers. 219 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: But we want to hear from our listeners about what 220 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: has worked for you. I mean, we can read a 221 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: dozen articles that talk about wearing loose fitting clothing to 222 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: beds so you don't have a hot flash that wakes 223 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: you up. But we want to know what worked for you. 224 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: So email us at mom stuff at house stuffwork dot 225 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: com and we will share with everyone else your menopause 226 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: hot flash tips. So well. In the meantime, I've got 227 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: an email here from Helena and this is in response 228 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: to our recent podcast on lying, and she says, I 229 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:15,719 Speaker 1: actually paused the podcast to write this to you and 230 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 1: your podcast online. You say that people generally don't tell 231 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 1: lies about themselves that would make themselves look worse. However, 232 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: I've noticed, much to my dismay, that I've told lies 233 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: about my grades in college. I was the kid messing 234 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: up your curb. What can I say? Linear algebra just 235 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: spoke to me. I was good at it. Nonetheless, you'd 236 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: never catch me admitting it. When a group of fellow 237 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: students approached me to ask if I was the one 238 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: who got the A plus on the last test, I 239 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 1: deny it. When the professor would ask me how I 240 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: had gotten a certain answer to a difficult problem, I 241 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: shrugged it off as a lucky guest and made a 242 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: self deprecating joke to deflect attention. I was math girl, 243 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: but I guarded my secret identity like Clark Kent years later. 244 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: Looking back, I'm very annoyed at young math girl. People 245 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,839 Speaker 1: will still like you if you smart, little math girl. Boys, 246 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 1: We'll still ask you out, girls will still want to 247 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: be your friend. Lies to downplay your intellect are silly. Indeed, 248 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: I think we've all been guilty of that every now 249 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: and then. 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