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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Melissa is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Austin.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Austin.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week.

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Speaker 4: So did you try to reach out to him?

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Speaker 3: I have, Yeah, I mean I just kind of distinct

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Speaker 3: him for a wonderfull time and I would love to

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Speaker 3: do it again soon. And I hadn't heard of anything,

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Speaker 3: but I thought, you know, our date was really solid,

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Speaker 3: so I'm I'm really surprised.

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Speaker 4: Sure, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 3: Sure? Okay, Well we met on bumble. You know, I

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Speaker 3: was instantly attracted to him, just to set you up,

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Speaker 3: you know, just to know the backstory a little bit

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Speaker 3: before the date, Like, you know, we had talked for

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Speaker 3: a couple of weeks and you know, we had some

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Speaker 3: really great phone conversations, so like then take a pation

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Speaker 3: to meet in person was like super high. We met

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Speaker 3: at an indoor mini golf arcade place and we like

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Speaker 3: kissed right away. It was it felt like we were magnets.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's hot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I really haven't felt like something like this before.

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Speaker 3: It starts for flying. The date was just super hot

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Speaker 3: and exciting, so yeah, I didn't want the night to end.

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Speaker 3: And we went back to Austin. We started talking about

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Speaker 3: life flowers staring at the sky from the falcony and

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Speaker 3: we hooked up.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, like the chemistry was just crazy.

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Speaker 4: When you kissed right away, describe like what what happened there.

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Speaker 3: So, since we were talking for a couple of weeks

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Speaker 3: and it was building up, I already felt really familiar,

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Speaker 3: like I've known him. So when I saw him waiting

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Speaker 3: for me at the front, I just like instantly like

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Speaker 3: ran up to him and he like scooped me up,

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Speaker 3: and it was like out of a movie.

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Speaker 5: Like oh wow, okay, sounds like yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: Like that dirty dancing scene, you know, like were you

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Speaker 3: you know, and it just felt so spontaneous and we

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Speaker 3: just instantly felt super comfortable.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: It was really sweet. So anyway, I left in the morning,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I told him verbally like I can't

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Speaker 3: wait to see him again, and you know, I joked that,

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Speaker 3: you know, he better call me and he said, of course,

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Speaker 3: and that was it. And I'm so confused.

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Speaker 5: Did anything happen like that would have made him not

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Speaker 5: call you back?

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Speaker 3: I mean, the only thing that I can think about

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Speaker 3: was like, I do have a kid, and I wasn't

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Speaker 3: completely upfront with him, but like I needed to know

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Speaker 3: like that something was really there, that it really was

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Speaker 3: real and human being met like I knew that it was.

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Speaker 3: It's just like a hard thing to slip in when

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Speaker 3: you're on an amusing leet. But as I was leaving,

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Speaker 3: I told him I I need to get home.

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Speaker 4: To my kid, and okay, and that's.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, And I kept it light. I didn't like

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Speaker 3: really want to get into it, just because I really

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Speaker 3: was in a rush. But I felt like maybe he

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Speaker 3: was like processing that news as I was leaving. I

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Speaker 3: don't know, he seemed like he internalized it, but it

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Speaker 3: seemed like we you know, I did say, let's talk

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Speaker 3: about it next time, and it seemed like that was

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Speaker 3: definitely a conversation like I'm open to have being NFL

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Speaker 3: Like he's someone that would also be open having that conversation.

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Speaker 3: That's just why I'm just surprised, because he seems like

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Speaker 5: Well, you could be processing though, because you know, if

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Speaker 5: real feelings are starting to develop at that point, then

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Speaker 5: you really have to ask yourself, like, Okay, you know

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Speaker 5: what role am I going to play with somebody that

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Speaker 5: has a child?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 4: How does that work? We'll see.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and seefa tell us why he's ghosting, maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, that sounds good.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song come back. Get your

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Speaker 2: first date follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Date follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Melissa is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and Melissa is getting ghosted by Austin. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call him and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Melissa,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So I met this incredible guy off of bumb

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Speaker 3: We talked for a couple of weeks. We went on

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Speaker 3: this like mind blowing date we hooked up. The chemistry

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Speaker 3: was off the charts, and lo and behold, I flippen

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Speaker 3: when I'm walking out the door, I tould get home

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Speaker 3: to my kid, and I feel like I sleeked him

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Speaker 3: been a week.

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Speaker 5: Because that was the first time that you told him

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Speaker 5: that you had a kid, was when you were leaving.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I do feel like we, you know, coming

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Speaker 3: in hot with our chemistry. I just felt like it

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Speaker 3: wasn't ever the right time to really unpass that. But

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's what a second seat would before.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Please, Okay, here we go. I man speak to Austin. Please, Austin.

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: This is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show. It's

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Speaker 4: called the Jewbil Show. Kay, Austin. I'm Nena also on

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Speaker 4: this I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 6: That's overwhelming.

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Speaker 4: How are you good?

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Speaker 7: Good?

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Speaker 6: So I'm on the call with three people here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?

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Speaker 6: I believe so. Well.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 2: First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a day with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can ask us to email you

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you, Austin, you have any idea who it would be?

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Speaker 4: If I feel like you do.

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's probably Melissa.

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Speaker 4: You are correct, sir, So you're intentionally ghosting her.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if I would use the word ghosting.

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Speaker 7: I kind of yeah. I did put some space there

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Speaker 7: and then call her.

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Speaker 4: Do you mind telling us why she wants to know? Oh?

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Speaker 7: Man, it's kind of complex. I feel like when people

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Speaker 7: want to get together that they should have a clean

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Please space?

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Speaker 6: So she's she's got a whole situation going on with her. Really,

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Speaker 6: I don't know if she's if she lives with her

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Speaker 6: she has, if she had a kid. I always say

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Speaker 7: So we we stay stayed together at my place, and

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Speaker 7: it was like in the morning, I'm half asleep because

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Speaker 7: we you know, we have some drinks. We had a

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Speaker 7: I'm and I'm like, is that my phone? No? No, no, Oh,

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Speaker 7: it's hers, okay, and you know, she's texting and doing whatever,

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Speaker 7: and then she picks up the phone. She thinks I'm asleep,

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Speaker 6: I'll be home soon.

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Speaker 7: And I was like, like what, And then before she

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Speaker 7: which to me was like somebody just said I love you, right,

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Speaker 7: And so I'm standing there like like what up.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if I can come.

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Speaker 7: From the radio, but like, you know, waiting for her

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Speaker 7: I don't know why you're telling me now, and you

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Speaker 6: But I'm waiting there for.

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Speaker 7: Her to explain further. But then she just leaves, and

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Speaker 7: I'm like, is she's going home to my husband and

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: She said something about a baby daddy, like I'm oh,

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Speaker 5: Though.

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Speaker 6: No, the conversation that.

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Speaker 7: She was happy, I couldn't make out exactly what she

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Speaker 7: I just got drunk. I'm staying at her friend's. I'll

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Speaker 7: be home soon. I heard her say i'll be home soon.

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Speaker 7: That's really messy.

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Speaker 6: And I had a.

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Speaker 7: Great time with her, and it was a very passionate

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Speaker 7: date and we really hit it off. Shockad, Wow, so

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Speaker 4: Well, thanks for telling us. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: And now I'll let you know that she's actually on

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Speaker 3: Hi, Austin, Yeah, happy to hear it. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 3: this was my idea to have you on the radio,

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Speaker 3: so I wanted to hear your side of the story.

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Speaker 3: All I can say is that, yes, my child's father.

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Speaker 3: You know, he is still in love with me, and

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Speaker 3: I just felt like it's best right now to keep

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Speaker 3: I play along, but we are definitely not together.

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Speaker 4: So he thinks you're together.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but for our.

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Speaker 3: just because we didn't work out that we have a

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Speaker 4: You're with him. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, like I said, like it's for our kid

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Speaker 3: right now, it's a temporary situation until it changes.

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Speaker 6: Well listen, listen.

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Speaker 7: Obviously, we had a great time and we connect at

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Speaker 7: a very deep level physically, We're drawn to each other,

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Speaker 7: like I can't even explain it with words. It's very

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Speaker 7: noble that you put your child first, but at the

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Speaker 7: end of the day, you basically have a boyfriend. He

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Speaker 7: It is just so dramatic.

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Speaker 3: It's like, like, for what it's worth, he knows.

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Speaker 7: That that's what you say. That's what you say, And

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Speaker 7: with all due respect, men don't.

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Speaker 6: See it like that.

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Speaker 7: They see it as you're just adjusting and he's going

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Speaker 7: to eventually get you.

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Speaker 6: And at the end of the day, you know, I know.

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Speaker 7: You say you're playing along, but obviously he said I

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Speaker 7: love you and you said you too.

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Speaker 3: So no matter what you yeah, I do the person I'm.

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Speaker 5: Lovely, So that's going to be an awkward thing to hear. Anyway,

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Speaker 5: you're laying next to somebody else.

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Speaker 7: I think if you clean up your situation, it takes

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Speaker 7: a little bit of growing and you make final what

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Speaker 7: the relationship is with him, Like if you're not with him,

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Speaker 7: he has to know that, and he can't think there's

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Speaker 7: a chance and hit me up sometimes. But Melissa, let

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Speaker 7: me ask you, what do you do you sleep in

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Speaker 7: the same bed.

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Speaker 3: With him, Melissa, I'm not gonna lie to you. Yes,

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Speaker 3: but it's for our kids.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So you have no business even talking to me.

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Speaker 7: And that sucks to say because I had a great

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Speaker 7: time with you, but you have nobody too.

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Speaker 3: I just know that I won't find chemistry like we

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Speaker 3: have ever again. And I hate to see that guy

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Speaker 3: and I feel like, I you know how to shoot

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Speaker 3: my shot? I guess you know. So you know I tried.

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Speaker 2: Well, Austin, would you like to go out with and

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Speaker 2: Melissa again? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I can't do that right now. I mean, in a year,

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Speaker 6: if things change, call me back up, give us a

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Speaker 6: free date.

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Speaker 3: But right now I respect that, and you know, I'll

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Speaker 3: clean up my situation and I hope you don't meet

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Speaker 3: someone else, and I'll call you however long it takes.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'll circle back.

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Speaker 4: Good luck, guys, Thank you.

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