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Speaker 1: So so tell our conversation for the day shots the
Speaker 1: Prima donna. You know what I mean, she's pushing up
Speaker 1: on us. All. Is it okay for your girlfriend? Your wife,
Speaker 1: your mother, the other person that you're in a relationship with.
Speaker 1: To have a best friend of the opposite sex. What's
Speaker 1: your thoughts on that? They're crazy? Inside it on Code
Speaker 1: at one time shouts the Big Homies House. That's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that bro different because you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like best friend, Like what you mean? It's good she
Speaker 1: has a good friend, bestie. Man show, the crown show,
Speaker 1: the see cutty women Like, I don't know what men.
Speaker 1: It's different with men, but we need women see Jade.
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying, Like she different because
Speaker 1: this is my dog. You know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: we're rocking, rocking, you know what I'm saying. So, but
Speaker 1: you got some female that's so vulnerable that a shoulder
Speaker 1: to crown lead to be a dick the suck on
Speaker 1: most of the time, I'm just keeping it one hundle
Speaker 1: like you have been a damned food to say you
Speaker 1: my bitch best friend. Like in real life, I don't
Speaker 1: give a funk That ship ends now, that ends time
Speaker 1: though I wouldn't give a damn. He's supposed to be
Speaker 1: respectable because I'm gonna get out of certain people. Wait,
Speaker 1: I got friends female friends too, But I ain't trying
Speaker 1: to be your bedfriend. Like every time you upset with
Speaker 1: your nigga, you called and I discussed this with you.
Speaker 1: How can I do that? But nobody said that's what
Speaker 1: you have to do with that male that. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you, if you get the best friends, I'm sharing
Speaker 1: everything with you, right. You don't want nobody outside of
Speaker 1: them to knowing all our business Like that nigga, I
Speaker 1: really don't want you to do that ship with female. Right.
Speaker 1: So he's doing this ship so people slick. So the
Speaker 1: manipulation is all, oh yeah he did. Look, look I'm
Speaker 1: gonna play that was advocate for both sides real quick. Okay.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to like the female perspective or whatever,
Speaker 1: like from me, like if I at the nigga like
Speaker 1: my nigga having a best friend, bitch, Like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not going for that because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I know me and I know like I know how
Speaker 1: I am with my best friends. So like I know
Speaker 1: that line, that thin line is gonna get crossed every
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying that it's gonna get crossed
Speaker 1: every time, but I know, like I know how I
Speaker 1: am about my best friends and about the guys that
Speaker 1: I love and that I care about. So I don't
Speaker 1: feel like if me and you are together that you
Speaker 1: need somebody else that cares about you. What I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I get it, trust me, I'm not think I think
Speaker 1: the conversation or the I think the conversation of the
Speaker 1: debate is what if that best friend that was just
Speaker 1: a best friend existed prior to y'all getting together. But
Speaker 1: it's like, at the end of the day, what type
Speaker 1: of bit friend? Though, like y'all every day hanging together,
Speaker 1: y'all land at the house still, and that we're not
Speaker 1: doing the best friends. We're not doing that because a
Speaker 1: lot of friends, a lot of best friends used to
Speaker 1: funk around. And you know what I'm saying, that's like,
Speaker 1: that's a that's like how That's why I agree. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's enough rule. You can be with the
Speaker 1: best friend you ain't got me with me can be
Speaker 1: ship all y'all talks how that bullshit. I just think
Speaker 1: that's bullshit because you have it. You have a close
Speaker 1: friend that she's talking to me but sound about my
Speaker 1: being and Jay don't talk to me about her. Dude.
Speaker 1: I will say that I will those type of best
Speaker 1: friends that your your My opinion is your opinion about you.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, Like if like how females
Speaker 1: is like when I see my cheek friends and I'm
Speaker 1: upset and me and my wife is going through some
Speaker 1: ship her friends don't like me. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Until we're back cool. They're not speaking to me a
Speaker 1: ship until we're back cool. So here come to manipulation.
Speaker 1: Should imagine this ship being a nigger doing this like
Speaker 1: you're mad at me for me with me and my
Speaker 1: bitch going through how are you gonna do that with
Speaker 1: a man? You get what I'm saying, especially this right,
Speaker 1: especially because you're discussing screen y'all, discussing our a b
Speaker 1: ageness to the point of you feel her because you
Speaker 1: love her too. You love my bit just like conflictive
Speaker 1: and that's what I just said. But you love swepting
Speaker 1: my niggative as much as I love my nigga Like,
Speaker 1: It's never gonna work. It's never gonna work, especially if
Speaker 1: you are talking about your relationships ship to each other.
Speaker 1: But the best friend you talked to about every everything
Speaker 1: that's ship. But does it change if the best friend. Okay,
Speaker 1: I think it makes it worse if they're trying to
Speaker 1: have a single best friend. You see what I was saying,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I wouldn't give it that the way where
Speaker 1: it was two best friends they both had a nigger
Speaker 1: in a bitch and they were still best friends and
Speaker 1: the ship still went left didn't go How So a
Speaker 1: single best friend and a fucking taking best friend, it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I don't know, though, to each his own perspective,
Speaker 1: reasons per perspectively, what no perspective? No for me? Right?
Speaker 1: I did I call like if I'm dating a guy
Speaker 1: and something I'll call my ain't friends though, But that's
Speaker 1: he know mostly everything about every guy. Let's see, let's
Speaker 1: see another thing to that I had that I had
Speaker 1: to realize, like put the camera right. But it's just
Speaker 1: like it's just it's just it all boils down to
Speaker 1: like when you are with somebody, or when you agree
Speaker 1: to be with somebody, and when you agreed to enter
Speaker 1: into a relationship or a situation or whatever y'all got
Speaker 1: going on, Like it's certain ship that has to stop
Speaker 1: out of respect. It's certain ship that hasn't stop out
Speaker 1: of respect, Like like it's a lot of just boundaries.
Speaker 1: It's just like, at the end of the day, I'm
Speaker 1: not like I said, I'm gonna saying again, I'm not
Speaker 1: about the goddamn be seeing her discussing my relationship with
Speaker 1: no fund. You get what I'm saying, because the way
Speaker 1: I feel, I feel different. I got different feelings for
Speaker 1: this person, so I'm not trying to let you see
Speaker 1: the hurt through my eyes. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So basically're gonna treat her the same way, y'all, relationship
Speaker 1: gonna be funked up, and then I gotta choose my bit.
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Unless someone telling you, like man,
Speaker 1: I just can't stand ahead, then you treat her like
Speaker 1: that when you see her and she catch a vibe
Speaker 1: from you you're been friend or your friend and want
Speaker 1: some bullshit, then bitch fuck you because I'm I'm with this.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. This is what my lord,
Speaker 1: So I ain't even I'm gonna keep that lying that
Speaker 1: that ain't got nothing to do it. And I'm saying
Speaker 1: my niggas or nobody like, I'm not gonna be discussed
Speaker 1: with you like get what she said to get what
Speaker 1: we that's not your motherfucking bia, that's not your business.
Speaker 1: Like straight up when you see this lady, you utmost
Speaker 1: and well y'all have y'all don't what's going on? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that I think I think niggle
Speaker 1: gonna cross the line. If you've been out them laying
Speaker 1: on the pillar airtime, you get ready to cry your
Speaker 1: bitch calling in and my tripping and my wrong on
Speaker 1: this shot ship and my wrong if I said this, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's bit you wrong for even calling me that. The
Speaker 1: same things change and then his words because they might
Speaker 1: not even talk to the person then with about the
Speaker 1: problem yet, so you get used to go talk to
Speaker 1: another nigga don't know how to work me. He don't
Speaker 1: even know the problem. He don't show you. You You know,
Speaker 1: I'm discussion with him how to work me with. Now,
Speaker 1: this nigga knows where you're vulnerable at, so he knows
Speaker 1: how to manipulate you based off of what you're going
Speaker 1: through with the person that you claim to love. Biggest facts,
Speaker 1: the biggest facts, biggest fact, the biggest fact getting phones
Speaker 1: and ship. Yeah, so now I'm on that ship like
Speaker 1: just it ain't but we don't we don't know everything.
Speaker 1: We say that we don't know everything. I just know
Speaker 1: the way I feel. Once again, a big fact, are
Speaker 1: a big fact. You can't be But people do this
Speaker 1: ship right, like people be having people be whole married
Speaker 1: and then their other can be out all night with
Speaker 1: somebody else. The food. I'm telling what happens. It happens
Speaker 1: in my life. That ship happens. I'm telling you you're
Speaker 1: right now smoking the best friend like. It's a difference
Speaker 1: with like, I guess, I'm just what they call it
Speaker 1: a different kind of like the wrong kind of need
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with. I guess because bet
Speaker 1: you can't even have no best mama against this ship.
Speaker 1: I know you don't call nobody to talk about my
Speaker 1: mother being about me like because you ain't doing them
Speaker 1: and making me. You know, when I see the folks
Speaker 1: be on something, okay, if y'all on it, I'm on
Speaker 1: that worser. Yeah yeah, it's funck y'all for life due
Speaker 1: to y'all doing this for her feelings, y'all trying to
Speaker 1: enlighten like y'all y'all trying to act like out me
Speaker 1: and stiff on me. I punched one of y'all out
Speaker 1: for stright up, straight up, and sever people are putting
Speaker 1: what the more what it is, the more the story is.
Speaker 1: Quit putting people in your being, your best friends and
Speaker 1: your being because you're gonna get your bed friend fucked up. Okay,
Speaker 1: that was high fact that on that because damn that
Speaker 1: best friendship. Man. The rebuttal, the robuttal, and this is
Speaker 1: social media ship. I think this case. So the rebuttal
Speaker 1: is that the woman might say the man is insecure.
Speaker 1: How you feel about the word what insecure? Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: you're saying you put me in a situation. Ain't got
Speaker 1: no trus It's an access. I'm not. You got the
Speaker 1: whole nigga, A regular nigga like me somewhere the blood
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, The funk out of here. Dog.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know I don't even try. You better have
Speaker 1: a but. I think best friends get different like with
Speaker 1: females though because I don't do that. What you mean
Speaker 1: different with female? With its not like real ship. I
Speaker 1: think it's different for females when it comes to like
Speaker 1: the insecure word, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: it's not us being insecure, it's us knowing how we
Speaker 1: are in that same situation and how she goes so
Speaker 1: it's like it's too clotse for comfort. Different like you
Speaker 1: you really like a you a street nigga to a
Speaker 1: certain degree. Like it's a different like I'm talking about
Speaker 1: you know ready, you just got a buy friend in
Speaker 1: twenty for twenty nineteen, first time in your life. So
Speaker 1: we tell about you know what we're saying, all I
Speaker 1: digress the girls who are there smoking? Who? Because all
Speaker 1: that you know, you know what somebody bro I got
Speaker 1: you like, who would do it? Yeah, listen that I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell that that ship ain't gonna work. How it
Speaker 1: just ain't gonna work. That's that Callie ship. That's what
Speaker 1: I mean to say earlier. That's that call ship. She
Speaker 1: callie there a little more free and how all the time,
Speaker 1: nigga gonna try that mount one night? Try to mount
Speaker 1: one night, you say your dad saying we we drunk?
Speaker 1: What else? Though? Yeah, yeah, come here man like that hook.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold it a little longer because you crying
Speaker 1: a little longer. But the bottle the back now like
Speaker 1: about this ship, big facts, but what I love. You're
Speaker 1: gonna say you're my best friend. I love you, like
Speaker 1: seriously for forward. If it's like that, why can't you
Speaker 1: just be with the best friends because you don't like
Speaker 1: them intimately? Oh my good No, no, no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: it ain't. They already know each other, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Like and it ain't got nothing really like because you
Speaker 1: told your bed friend and all the whole story to
Speaker 1: like like bed friend really hold too, Like on that
Speaker 1: nigga that ain't got nothing to do with intimate. It's
Speaker 1: just like and she know this digging hell whatever he is.
Speaker 1: But we can do that. We can hook up and
Speaker 1: do that and be bead freeing on another nigga time. Yeah, shot,
Speaker 1: trying to be bed freeing on the nigga time, Like, No,
Speaker 1: that friend need to find I'm a bed friend because
Speaker 1: you ain't it bit you got me fucked up, like
Speaker 1: for real, like no best friends on big facts. No,
Speaker 1: I'll say screens so you get that's what you need
Speaker 1: a friend? All you did every man? Every man? No,
Speaker 1: but I say I say something right and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say some real ship. This is important. Just watching social media,
Speaker 1: it's important for you not to fall off of being
Speaker 1: what the other person needs. Not once for the ones,
Speaker 1: but it's important for you not to neglect that person completely.
Speaker 1: But guess what, I'm the type of nega. But I
Speaker 1: get out your way. If you want a best friend,
Speaker 1: y'all go ahead and be best friends. You just said otherwise,
Speaker 1: I'm saying I would get out your weight completely friend.
Speaker 1: And you already all the type of when I met you,
Speaker 1: I told you he's going to be a problem, right, ain't.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna try to deal with that. Hey, man,
Speaker 1: you're that ship no boat yeah today, and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell him right respectfully, that ain't gonna work. Bro. Hey,
Speaker 1: but I don't call my bitch no moreever respectfully. Y'all
Speaker 1: need free no mo bro, don't be like all back.
Speaker 1: I'm with you, yo, yo, be friend with Dave. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what she's been free with. Take day like old
Speaker 1: playing that men even to goat this whole bad come on,
Speaker 1: go smoking talk to now. Let me ask you this
Speaker 1: screen one one last thing before we wrap up and
Speaker 1: get whatever. But okay, so, so how does it go
Speaker 1: if like the shoes on the other foot and it's
Speaker 1: the female with a nigga with a bitch best friend
Speaker 1: and the two bitches bump hands, is that like is
Speaker 1: that like to me, it's the same ship. Though. You
Speaker 1: gotta respect that, you know, That's what I said. So
Speaker 1: you put to make these people if you gotta like me.
Speaker 1: If I got a friend that's a female such as Jade,
Speaker 1: and I got my wife, I'm gonna make sure y'all
Speaker 1: quadrant cool. Y'all be cool for sure. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because anything else is gonna become a problem
Speaker 1: any female, even with even with Jade Hannah. Should I
Speaker 1: tell you all my female friends, y'all need to be
Speaker 1: friends because we're not in the competition because I don't.
Speaker 1: We're not doing that. You get what I'm saying, And
Speaker 1: it ain't a double standard, but it's it's it's how
Speaker 1: you presented. But there's no way you can present, no
Speaker 1: type of way for me to feel like you could
Speaker 1: be bes friend. No nigger. It probably a double standard
Speaker 1: or whatever, but it's probably be double standard. But there's
Speaker 1: no way you can convince me it was a business problem.
Speaker 1: Business cool, But you're not best friend. I'm talk about
Speaker 1: that two and two or three o'clock in the morning. See,
Speaker 1: that's a limit to my friendship. I'm not talking to
Speaker 1: you know, three four o'clock in the morning. You're a
Speaker 1: female unless you call me about something. I'm not doing,
Speaker 1: certain ship. What you're saying is this this man is
Speaker 1: always there twenty four. No, I'm not doing We're always
Speaker 1: there for your wife or girl doing that. He's the
Speaker 1: shoulder to crown, you know, the shoulder to crow. Don't
Speaker 1: lead to Yes. Come on, you've been too you've been
Speaker 1: too vulnerable as a friend. Yeah, right, A wrong, I
Speaker 1: love you, I ain't Yeah, I'm not with that ship period.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we over agree on this one. We
Speaker 1: have no statues, no debab what we're gonna do that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I call that if you called me at two o'clock
Speaker 1: in the morning and you gotta need look, man o women,
Speaker 1: I picked up two and mother women. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: beat ship. Kodak A savage though, colda a savage though.
Speaker 1: But I don't got no female friends. About that. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm just the girl got a bed friend. I'm pick
Speaker 1: up for them like that. Your girl got bed for
Speaker 1: you to about how they got a bad friend. But
Speaker 1: bad you're dude, got a big friend. I mean, what
Speaker 1: you got, you gotta do it or you got a
Speaker 1: situation like me, cash I always gotta cash locked in
Speaker 1: what cash from memphish, she'd be pimping, pimping. I'll just
Speaker 1: say that's that's that's the verdict. Cool Dot on the
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Speaker 1: Thank you all. Listen free you don't come in on
Speaker 1: a real spicy discussion today we have been disgussie. Can
Speaker 1: your other girlfriend, your wife, your husband, whatever, Can your
Speaker 1: other have a significant situation, whatever it may be, have
Speaker 1: a person of a best friend of the opposite set.
Speaker 1: Now we have vetoed best friends on Big Facts up
Speaker 1: to now, but we want to hear what you're gonna say.
Speaker 1: The best friend a bestie that's a female. I mean
Speaker 1: that bestie was that before me. I don't have nothing
Speaker 1: to do with it, but if they can't after me,
Speaker 1: then that's our bestie. We gotta share that best because
Speaker 1: that's the relationship that we're going it together. I don't
Speaker 1: know what she around you for us. She might be
Speaker 1: around you. You good because I ain't going I ain't
Speaker 1: going for it. What what what? What? What if they
Speaker 1: like it's different kind of best exactly? That's you gotta
Speaker 1: elaborate because bestie like they mad. That's the key word
Speaker 1: you said. Work. Oh yeah, work, Bestie's is fine. I
Speaker 1: don't care about the work bestie best but telling this
Speaker 1: girl y'all being and she acting mad when he made
Speaker 1: with you that type of besh. No, I ain't going
Speaker 1: for no best friend. No, no, no, no, no no,
Speaker 1: because it's gonna be the gender roles switching. You know,
Speaker 1: it's only one room in the house for the alpha.
Speaker 1: Whether there's the male other female, it ain't We're gonna
Speaker 1: clash facts. I can't hire you on the phone with
Speaker 1: him too through in the morn. I need him to
Speaker 1: through in the morning. After nine is naked time, y'all
Speaker 1: talk about Yeah, if she's gonna be that closer, come on,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, bitch, what's up? I don't understand that what
Speaker 1: they have in comment, you know, I mean like a
Speaker 1: sister you got, that's what your sister for. You want
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody, Go get your sisters some advice,
Speaker 1: Get your cousins some advice, Get Auntie some advice. It's
Speaker 1: probably a lot of women, because these are the people
Speaker 1: that if we get into it and I beat them up,
Speaker 1: we're still gonna have to deal with it. They have
Speaker 1: your blood, got no blood period? Like, And I ain't
Speaker 1: trying to cash okay, So I ain't trying to be
Speaker 1: on snapp I ain't trying to do it already. I
Speaker 1: know I'd be five two or three seconds with civilized,
Speaker 1: so I can't do it. So we have still vetoed
Speaker 1: besties and best friends on big facts, and I love it.
Speaker 1: Oh folling, we're falling off. What about you? You you
Speaker 1: let your girlfriend have a dude best friend? Is that
Speaker 1: she could talk to? Imagine lem say something like imagine
Speaker 1: yourself walking up with my bitch trying to introduce yourself
Speaker 1: as her best friend. That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 1: How you get this. I could better have a work
Speaker 1: best friend, male best friend already discovered. I don't even
Speaker 1: want you to have a bitch, daddy. I'm your dad
Speaker 1: and straight up that's just because that's not my husband.
Speaker 1: Don't even who wait what it's like you have to
Speaker 1: give me the green like the text nobody and they'd
Speaker 1: be like, it's not it's just respect, go ahead to
Speaker 1: text the person. I'm like, that's what our texts of
Speaker 1: get comfortable because other than that, ain't me. You know,
Speaker 1: it's just I don't know. Oh my goodness. So I
Speaker 1: got the interesting conversation. Yeah, So basically like that's that's
Speaker 1: that's what we were talking about like before you came.
Speaker 1: But now that you're here, I want you to like
Speaker 1: go into detail about your lineage, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like where your family originated from, like your African roots,
Speaker 1: and then I want you to talk about how it
Speaker 1: was growing up in Overtown good. You know, my dad's
Speaker 1: from Africa, so guyana, I'm half. My mama from Carolina,
Speaker 1: so gichy and then African. Now the thing about it,
Speaker 1: you're like a gumbo. Yeah. My dad used to pick
Speaker 1: at me for years. He used to tell me how
Speaker 1: americanized that was. I mean he used to force it.
Speaker 1: He's so I changed my assent. I don't think it
Speaker 1: was never there, you know, children grow up, they changed.
Speaker 1: But however the case maybe my family, my grandmother lives
Speaker 1: in London, my um, my father, my brother. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: off the Accora. I'm a Fonti my tribs, font Cape Coast. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so we're off for Accura and my anti o'nique. Oh
Speaker 1: it's a lot of them. But shot out the gun
Speaker 1: and shot out to my people. Yeah, my dad always
Speaker 1: get mad when I just tell you that he's said,
Speaker 1: I'm American. He was like, you just need to say gunna,
Speaker 1: you know Africa, I don't know about it, and you
Speaker 1: from because they're gonna say, spill it. Okay, I'm a
Speaker 1: Fonty girl. I'm a Fonty girl. So yeah, my daddy,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, everybody called him Africa. But however
Speaker 1: the case, maybe he always told me my roots. And
Speaker 1: I think that's really where the hustle just come from.
Speaker 1: Because then that man is said, your car, they don't
Speaker 1: move differently from West Africa. You're different. He's different, man,
Speaker 1: It's just different. And then just to see my grandmother,
Speaker 1: she's ninety six years old and my daddy is seven
Speaker 1: years old, and he looked like he's thirty years old.
Speaker 1: Like these people. They eat from the land. They know
Speaker 1: how to survive. He's not really into none of this
Speaker 1: stuff we eating like it's just different. But coming up
Speaker 1: from over town, now, ain't got your mama, and she's like,
Speaker 1: well that African I ain't in here, so you don't
Speaker 1: want to hear nothing. You're a queen to day. You
Speaker 1: got it going that clean that room. So you got
Speaker 1: the best of both worlds. Because she's a geaty. She
Speaker 1: come from another era of working hard Carolina and happened
Speaker 1: to be with her grandmother and all of them, and
Speaker 1: she raised by her grandparents, so they're very strict. So
Speaker 1: my daddy believing freedom, she don't believe in that. She
Speaker 1: believing that we live in the hood, stay as the house.
Speaker 1: He like, no, she should go let explore up. But
Speaker 1: that's the difference of that. But just coming out from
Speaker 1: over town. What's the what's the first thing that caught you,
Speaker 1: like when you first thought and feeling like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: telling me to figure out what I'm gonna do to
Speaker 1: support myself and get money. What's the first I guess professional,
Speaker 1: whatever you thought you thought you was gonna do, Like
Speaker 1: when you your first very first thought of getting money,
Speaker 1: I was started gonna be a rapper since I was
Speaker 1: a girl. Yeah, they got videos of me like you're
Speaker 1: living until a rapping And I just thought I was
Speaker 1: gonna be a like a rapper, and that's what everybody
Speaker 1: else thought. And then when I got old and got
Speaker 1: some money, I'm like, oh, they really don't really count.
Speaker 1: It don't matter last day earlier, like, because the talent
Speaker 1: is something that no matter what you know, professional career
Speaker 1: path I want to take in life, it's still gonna
Speaker 1: be there. So if I want to wrap ten twenty
Speaker 1: years fro now, I still can't because I could goes
Speaker 1: right whatever I want to feel like I want to do.
Speaker 1: So I left that alone because at some point you
Speaker 1: could chase your dream, but you also gotta wake up
Speaker 1: and say I got bills to pay. Yeah yeah we
Speaker 1: said this, and and she like mean to cut you
Speaker 1: off inside, but at the end of the day, like
Speaker 1: she still get wrapped money though, right, what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: don't get it funked up, like you could be you could,
Speaker 1: you could any and who's to say it probably would
Speaker 1: have end up. But now you gotta go on to
Speaker 1: figure this ship out. Now, who got time? We got time?
Speaker 1: To be sitting around waiting on some ship. You can't
Speaker 1: be an eternal dreamer. This ain't ain't paying me, man,
Speaker 1: paying that's what I want. And then when you start
Speaker 1: and let's get okay, and then let's let's keep all
Speaker 1: the way with hunting. And then when you do get
Speaker 1: really good, and then you do start making some noise
Speaker 1: in the rap game. Now you gotta deal with that paperwork.
Speaker 1: And that paperwork ain't talking to me because it's like
Speaker 1: I got that in my purse, Like it ain't nothing
Speaker 1: that's excited me about it. Are you just telling me
Speaker 1: you're gonna push me? I know the better myself. It's
Speaker 1: like playing a lottery. I know if I put a
Speaker 1: hunted percent into wrap, I'll win, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I know I got a solid dude behind me. We're
Speaker 1: gonna run through these screeps. If that's what we want
Speaker 1: to do, the chickling markets, whatever it is we feel
Speaker 1: like we want to do, I'll do it. But I
Speaker 1: did that, like I've been doing that for years, and
Speaker 1: I'm like a right not saying that. That's not what's
Speaker 1: for me. It's just like working for me right now exactly.
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna invest my time and energy into
Speaker 1: something that's not giving me back what I want, what
Speaker 1: I need. So you have to do something, because I
Speaker 1: tell people all the time, if you do something you
Speaker 1: don't love and it's not your passion, you're gonna get bored,
Speaker 1: You're gonna be tired, you're gonna be miserble, you're gonna
Speaker 1: be aggravated. I don't have time to be running around
Speaker 1: him man at the world because you won't play my
Speaker 1: song scream. I know I'm hard, I know I'm harding,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna compute myself to nobody. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna talk down to nobody because just because the industry
Speaker 1: is not feeling me, that don't make me less of
Speaker 1: a rapper. Because I know I could out wrap in
Speaker 1: bitch that come in the room on the spot, but
Speaker 1: that's not what I want to beat or that's not
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to go. So once you know what
Speaker 1: you want, I think people are confused. A lot of
Speaker 1: rappers to be confused. They want to be rappers, But
Speaker 1: if you ask them why, they don't know. Don't know.
Speaker 1: You have to you don't know what you want, bro,
Speaker 1: You don't you know what you want, but you don't
Speaker 1: know what you need. Yes, Like when I want to wrap,
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell my story. And then it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this ain't the genre or this ain't the error right
Speaker 1: now for what they want to hear my story. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a time when they want to hear my story.
Speaker 1: And then when you get the time, I'll do movies
Speaker 1: and act. Now I want to be an actress, that's next,
Speaker 1: not want to be. I'm gonna be what you're doing with?
Speaker 1: What would I do? YouTube? Since I got YouTube, but
Speaker 1: not do cooking YouTube and they love it and there's
Speaker 1: so weird. They liked my voice for some reason. I
Speaker 1: don't know why we do because you get cooked though.
Speaker 1: Niggas are still on recipes that sometimes he running and
Speaker 1: just hear that people get real money off ship like
Speaker 1: that though, saying exactly, that's the most comfortable ship and
Speaker 1: they can do. I got to you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: I got you there. I'm gonna popping back up. I
Speaker 1: have a YouTube, it's YouTube dot com prem on the Cooks.
Speaker 1: Right now it's just focusing on me cooking and doing
Speaker 1: meals and everything. But I'm gonna get back into the
Speaker 1: podcast people are can cook with you. We are doing that.
Speaker 1: We are doing cooking show though we are working on that,
Speaker 1: and the Cooking show is actually for me to help
Speaker 1: people in chefs and women and just everybody's scale and
Speaker 1: leverage on cooking because I know when I came into
Speaker 1: the cooking industry, it wasn't our resources for me. I
Speaker 1: still turned on the TV. I still see the same
Speaker 1: people on the cooking channels just fifty years ago. What
Speaker 1: you're gonna be cooking on? What? What network? Or what
Speaker 1: you mean? What am I going to be? I'm be
Speaker 1: cooking on PREMI like what you can't be sitting on
Speaker 1: a decker. We had the home passion like what fridgerator
Speaker 1: on the cookery Like I'm seeing big Like, man, how
Speaker 1: you how you choose what you like? What hustle you
Speaker 1: want to get into? Like what's the good question? And
Speaker 1: I'm dance serious, this is the funniest thing that ever happened.
Speaker 1: I'm only saying it because he could vouch for man,
Speaker 1: my husband. When I'm talking about was gonna sell the pot?
Speaker 1: I told about the pressure cookie was like what what
Speaker 1: she's talking about? And I had a good song. Never
Speaker 1: was my song was he never was doing real good,
Speaker 1: like just keep working the record, keep working the back.
Speaker 1: I'm not hey, I'm going to come out with a
Speaker 1: pressure cooker. Though, He's like what is that? And then
Speaker 1: he was just like if you know, because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, when you're married, it's our money.
Speaker 1: So you're like, yes, yeah, you know what language of
Speaker 1: talking and he like it's don't sound like that. And
Speaker 1: then you know you've been gonna be you've been attract
Speaker 1: the trailer. Well you've been doing all these old yeah up.
Speaker 1: But let me tell you what he did. He upse
Speaker 1: he he's us. He didn't know. I don't think you know.
Speaker 1: And I'm saying now he got on the phone like yeah, man,
Speaker 1: some pots or song, but I ain't man, she put
Speaker 1: him on to it. She don't go crazy with him.
Speaker 1: When he said that, I was like, oh, that's it
Speaker 1: that you said it, and and I just my sister
Speaker 1: it was green like like okay, well he supported it,
Speaker 1: like when we had that conversation you don't even remember.
Speaker 1: But just to switch the hustle up, it's that I know.
Speaker 1: I loved cooking and then when I was doing waste training, Um,
Speaker 1: I got pregnant, pregnant again, so it's kind of crazy, right,
Speaker 1: but anyhow, it's pregnant with my daughter and I was,
Speaker 1: and people just you cain't promote your your waiste game business.
Speaker 1: I have waste shapers, I have reshape, and I have fitness.
Speaker 1: I have everything that I can't do pregnant. I can't
Speaker 1: put a wat shape on over a baby. I can't
Speaker 1: be drinking the meals supplement. I'm depriving the baby of nutrition.
Speaker 1: So you know, what do you do? But I know
Speaker 1: what I can do. I can get in that kitchen.
Speaker 1: I could cook. I gotta cook every day for me.
Speaker 1: I gotta cook for these kids. So everybody's like, why
Speaker 1: are you making this? And it was so hard to explain.
Speaker 1: My mom and my dad Loki chimists on different levels.
Speaker 1: That's just what I'm gonna say. So I know how
Speaker 1: to men and mixed spices together, like that's something that
Speaker 1: was just given. So the season is that's why people
Speaker 1: go so crazy and they buy them because they're unique.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna find my seasons on the market because
Speaker 1: I made them. We made them this family tradition, this
Speaker 1: DNA recipes here. So I said, okay, well, I'm cooking
Speaker 1: and I don't like to be in the kitchen all day.
Speaker 1: So what we're gonna do now? And that's how the
Speaker 1: pressure cooker was born, because I'm like, oh, what if
Speaker 1: I reinvent this? Because I was scared of the pressure cooker,
Speaker 1: the old traditional one that wasn't electric. Oh no, I
Speaker 1: wasn't cooking with that because your grandmother know how to
Speaker 1: click in and do this, and I wan't doing all
Speaker 1: that the same one before. Well, I'm a shock. What
Speaker 1: they're gonna tank? Goddamn? What then were you thinking? Like
Speaker 1: on the shot you hole here to eat the whole
Speaker 1: pane of what that's what you want me to do?
Speaker 1: You know? The post got them go in all fut them.
Speaker 1: I could go in and you know that's the thing
Speaker 1: about life and okay, pop your ship you have about me,
Speaker 1: I'm not a materialistic chick. It's nothing. Everything paid for.
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, when I decided
Speaker 1: to go invest into something, I ain't losing nothing. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying you would think of right absolutely, So you
Speaker 1: what you said, your company right now? What you said
Speaker 1: the premiut the ship right now, the whole ship. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like, let me next to the next thing,
Speaker 1: because yeah, but you gotta have fun. I like doing this.
Speaker 1: See I tell people money is the motive. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: my motive. But that's not my motivation. You have to
Speaker 1: understand that I have a legacy I'm trying to leave behind.
Speaker 1: I got four children. Now, I got well aunties and daddies.
Speaker 1: They're gonna work my moment, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So this is for my kids, kids, kids, this generational wealth.
Speaker 1: A lot of times people do that and they sell
Speaker 1: real quick and then look at you and it dud.
Speaker 1: Did he swing him? Now he has see million for
Speaker 1: using his name. You can't it too quick, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You cannot sell that quick. Don't do that
Speaker 1: because your passion you have, it's up to you. If
Speaker 1: it's something I love to do, and why why would
Speaker 1: I do it. That's like telling you I'm gonna sell
Speaker 1: my wife to this man because this man want to
Speaker 1: lay now with you love all right, So why would
Speaker 1: you do it? I don't care if it's like he's saying,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a billion dollars right now. So
Speaker 1: that's my baby, that's my passion. I'm not selling my children,
Speaker 1: selling it back and not down the road. Man, let's
Speaker 1: getting better because you you're in the music in this
Speaker 1: yet that's like your artists. That's like an artist, the
Speaker 1: same thing. Okay, you got a good pop artist, right, artist,
Speaker 1: ain't pop off? They get a hit out of the blue,
Speaker 1: somebody come you. They want to buy your artists, but
Speaker 1: they don't want to be the master. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: they want the masters. There much thanking you what you
Speaker 1: want than what it won't. Ain't never doing want. But
Speaker 1: do they ever give you what they want exactly? Ye? Never? No,
Speaker 1: don't feel you don't feel like something that's priceless though
Speaker 1: we're talking yeah, something that's postles, but not saying most
Speaker 1: things they have a price on. I'm just saying I
Speaker 1: come from that sold the car in list than thirty minutes. Bro,
Speaker 1: I went to Peterbird, bought a car from nickname Black,
Speaker 1: came back to the hood. My nigga Richard lives. They
Speaker 1: seen the motherfucker Like, Bro, they'm motherfucker what he gave
Speaker 1: me two thousand over the value price I got out
Speaker 1: of it? Big ain't black. That's on the way back.
Speaker 1: I love this car. Yeah, two extra thousand to get
Speaker 1: me a nine exactly. Another one there you guys to
Speaker 1: go and I'm just saying, like no, but I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying and everything the play preu Mo motivational
Speaker 1: shoting like cause ain't no about out hustling you. Thank you,
Speaker 1: but it's just knowing where you come from. Though you
Speaker 1: don't want to go back. It's the circumstances once you
Speaker 1: tell yourself money to motive is not my motivation. So
Speaker 1: it's like, listen, I know what motivates me in the morning.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't have that in them. They
Speaker 1: don't even know why they're doing something. You want to
Speaker 1: make money, but why your bills only three thousand dollars
Speaker 1: and more? Why you want to be a man? Now
Speaker 1: you're cool, You're better than happen to me. And that's
Speaker 1: out here, don't you know that? Like people don't understand
Speaker 1: that they are selling their sand, they sending their piece
Speaker 1: of mind of luxury to get this this book. And
Speaker 1: once you get this this, y'all know because you're on
Speaker 1: them levels to this, then what you're gonna do? What
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Like I don't get it? So
Speaker 1: that's all they want to do. Being ready to put
Speaker 1: it on. Man, know we come from we keep look
Speaker 1: at you putting all right, now freight put up, y'all.
Speaker 1: Just put out that that fine man, you know what
Speaker 1: we do this ship I'm doing all the time. You
Speaker 1: know what we do this ship, man ship thinking ready
Speaker 1: to put on. Yeah, you can put out that evening
Speaker 1: that you gotta put that you go back in the house,
Speaker 1: you're gonna be put out, but putting and the same
Speaker 1: things you put off on. You know, got you come out,
Speaker 1: youre gonna be putting any man. The few they called
Speaker 1: on the phone, but I don't even fun that money
Speaker 1: look pretty speaking of putting on, My question and you
Speaker 1: is how did it feel when you got your first
Speaker 1: eight team wheeler versus when you got your first warehouse?
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good question. I think I think the
Speaker 1: warehouse feels better because I'm gonna tell you why. The
Speaker 1: trucks they moving all that. But you guys, you got
Speaker 1: a lot of maintenance and stuff you gotta keep up
Speaker 1: with you. But the warehouse, let me tell you why.
Speaker 1: I respect this because it gives you the room. See,
Speaker 1: when you have room, you can grow a lot of
Speaker 1: times we held down in that circumstance and position because
Speaker 1: we don't have no room. So when you go on
Speaker 1: this big white house and it's like, oh, they're are empty.
Speaker 1: They are empty. Now I'm I'm innovating. I gotta find
Speaker 1: something to feel it with, because that's my mind, the warehouse.
Speaker 1: This is something that's supposed to be making me money.
Speaker 1: So why is that spot empty? We need something right there?
Speaker 1: We got space, They're like, no, we're just clear that.
Speaker 1: I ain't no clear space. What we need clear space
Speaker 1: spot in business to make money, not just organized. This
Speaker 1: ain't Prema's organism, you know, but it just to have
Speaker 1: that leverage. And let me tell you, I only did
Speaker 1: that because the pandemic. We want to even have to
Speaker 1: get into logistics. If it wasn't for the pandemic, that's
Speaker 1: because the shipments were coming in. And you know, when
Speaker 1: you want to be the biggest, if you want to
Speaker 1: be the balls, you gotta, yeah, listen, to be over
Speaker 1: the top, you gotta do some over the top things.
Speaker 1: And that's just how you're gonna maintain because it's always
Speaker 1: somebody gunning for your spot. You gotta understand, I created
Speaker 1: a lane. It ain't no traffic in my lane. So
Speaker 1: you know it's coming, just because you don't see traffic
Speaker 1: right now, you know it's coming. It's about ten cars
Speaker 1: behind me. But so what do you do? I can't
Speaker 1: allow sit here and wait on these shippers because you
Speaker 1: lay my packages, to lay my orders to lay out. No,
Speaker 1: I gotta move on and we gotta make those investments.
Speaker 1: And that's what you do that real ship. One thing
Speaker 1: about creating a lane, that mean you automatic got a
Speaker 1: hit stought. Yeah, it's the same. Yeah, it's not that
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna come in your lane. But you gotta know
Speaker 1: you and you got a head start, so keep going
Speaker 1: you That means you change, you change the path, you
Speaker 1: change which way the direction is going. But as soon
Speaker 1: as you let somebody pass you, now it's day lane.
Speaker 1: And now you got the jilts and go to their
Speaker 1: map which way they're going because they don't switch to
Speaker 1: pass you? Why because you just wasn't You ain't playing right?
Speaker 1: I don't know what's the what's the soundtrack to this hustle? Like?
Speaker 1: What should be vibe into what you'd be listening to?
Speaker 1: What's on your playlists? What's the sound track to the ship? Oh? Man,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie I'm stuck on Lauren Hell. They
Speaker 1: hate it. I'll be listening to here all day, like
Speaker 1: all day, all night to Zion, yeah man and repair.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I love Lauren here, like I listened
Speaker 1: to her live acoustic sessions. See how out you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes that's the hood stuff. See that's what my day said.
Speaker 1: That's that you know, that's that over town. But um leah,
Speaker 1: I like listening to Lauren here and then yeah, I
Speaker 1: like listening to Noring here. That's really all I listened to.
Speaker 1: Like it's not repeat. I'm kind of stuck on it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. And I listened to myself sometimes and
Speaker 1: then I don't listen to nothing because if you sometimes
Speaker 1: when you're most a little bit, that ship cloud your job,
Speaker 1: a house just bad. But like, yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: just do a song one day, I swear I was
Speaker 1: looking at my nigger, like just listen to the words,
Speaker 1: like you know, it's just how you music. Like you listen,
Speaker 1: you change your whole path. I'm trying to make some
Speaker 1: money and I'm just listening to somebody over here cramback
Speaker 1: they ain't got no money. Or I'm listening to somebody
Speaker 1: saying yeah, walking to stow Smith fifty rags. I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I could do that, ain't you know? So it's just
Speaker 1: let me focus. So I got it awesome time. I
Speaker 1: don't Yeah, I don't know, y'all. And it's like it's
Speaker 1: like on top of that, like running an empire such
Speaker 1: as yourself with the cookwear, the waste trainers, the athletic gear,
Speaker 1: like all that kind of stuff is a majorly stressful
Speaker 1: task within itself. So how do you manage to balance
Speaker 1: that between being a mom, being at home and still
Speaker 1: being able to keep that spark popping with buck? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like it's the spot, don't pop, chicken, the light
Speaker 1: of just sho, I set your head, ain't feeling no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no, just just like you. No, it's hard,
Speaker 1: but to keep that spot, you know, you got a
Speaker 1: plan as cliche as a sound. I know this sounds
Speaker 1: like some with the kids and like everything now it's
Speaker 1: like a conversation or you know the good thing about it,
Speaker 1: I think traveling that's the only way we keep the spot.
Speaker 1: You gotta get away on the move. Yeah, space time, energy.
Speaker 1: Then I don't even care to the grocery store. If
Speaker 1: I go to the start spining around the mother sometimes
Speaker 1: for hour just to make a miss to me because
Speaker 1: he's seen me all day with the kids. Ain't at
Speaker 1: work a week. You know, we all have to balance that.
Speaker 1: I think that too much personal with people, for anybody
Speaker 1: is not good. Pandemic broke broke a lot of homes up,
Speaker 1: but nigh whoactly because now you get to see the
Speaker 1: true people you What if you were dealing with a
Speaker 1: woman be for the pandemic, you ain't know she's sleeping
Speaker 1: the bed all day to five o'clock. She tells you
Speaker 1: she going to work. You over there, you ain't seen
Speaker 1: I get up to my was home and be on
Speaker 1: the cook nothing. That's that's what you make it so
Speaker 1: easy for you. That's why I came out with him, recupes.
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is open the book turning. It's easy,
Speaker 1: I mean anybody, but I mean that's why I haven't
Speaker 1: figured it out. I don't even capt like that. When
Speaker 1: people expert relationship advice, always tell them, listen, you're gonna
Speaker 1: have some good days, you're gonna have some bad days,
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna have to as some thoughts. What
Speaker 1: is it that you like about this person? Because you
Speaker 1: it's a mature level, even when you're raising children, and
Speaker 1: even when you're trying to build a family, and even
Speaker 1: if no kids are involved, when you are intertwine with
Speaker 1: somebody and y'all love each other and like each other,
Speaker 1: y'all gotta figure out is this worth it? And if
Speaker 1: you know, then you could just dismiss any other thing
Speaker 1: because you got to that it's worth it level. Once
Speaker 1: you it's worth it level, nothing can affect you like
Speaker 1: the aggravation of the like I used to, hey, how
Speaker 1: heat you? I don't even hamm you no more. I
Speaker 1: don't know when the last time I learned you. Because
Speaker 1: it's worthy. You gotta get to that level. If you're
Speaker 1: girling to that level and she's still coming at you
Speaker 1: yelling about this, yell, you're like, yeah, damn, I've been
Speaker 1: doing this for five years, leaving the toilet up. But
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, if you're still on on
Speaker 1: own and own about it, so it's not worth it
Speaker 1: because you haven't got to that level of it's not dismissal,
Speaker 1: it's not sleeping under the rug. It's just it is
Speaker 1: being go there you go. That's just what it is.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people Damn, that's the worst part.
Speaker 1: You feel like you're gonna change the person like that.
Speaker 1: Why I say, like you can meet the day and
Speaker 1: see our smoke cigarette, but you like everything else, but
Speaker 1: you like, I hate the smoke cigarette. You're thinking in
Speaker 1: your head, he's gonna eventually stop no forever. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like whatever, you don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That stopping no time soon, I'm gonna get canceled and
Speaker 1: that that's cancer. It's to the relationship right there. You
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. But you gotta just that right now,
Speaker 1: I meet See that's the problem. You're right, let's get on,
Speaker 1: let's speak on it. You will meet somebody at something
Speaker 1: you know you don't like and you can't never deal
Speaker 1: with trying to dismiss it for your That's that's really
Speaker 1: being selfish and thanking you for the change of person.
Speaker 1: That's just like you go meet a hooker. It's been
Speaker 1: to the straight hook sail plussy. Yeah. Like I said before,
Speaker 1: when you go bro, what you're thinking this bitch profession
Speaker 1: is right? Yeah, that's what you know, because you can't
Speaker 1: take away something that somebody loves, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: If you meet somebody you know they're toxic, they don't
Speaker 1: clean up, they don't get better, counsel and may help
Speaker 1: and may not know you, but you can call by
Speaker 1: the person so much that you'll try to You'll put
Speaker 1: yourself through agony trying to act like you can stop
Speaker 1: smoking cigarette, but you know you're smoking me in the
Speaker 1: cart box. Yeah you got them. I'm trying to try me.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you get what I'm saying. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: That's that's all I have to say. But there's a
Speaker 1: part of it where you want the person to that's growth.
Speaker 1: Everybody don't have growth, and that's what you know, stuck.
Speaker 1: Every having some people who they are you deal with
Speaker 1: it at because even if they're trying to stop it,
Speaker 1: they're still not gonna give you their hole because they're
Speaker 1: not happy. You know what I tell people. A perfect
Speaker 1: example of how you can look at habit and how
Speaker 1: you can look at growth, it's find somebody. And I
Speaker 1: love doing this. You know why I do this so
Speaker 1: you could take the bullet off of me and start
Speaker 1: pop focus on people. You gotta find somebody else that
Speaker 1: they care about, right, stay gonna look at your auntie
Speaker 1: go look at your uncle. How long they've been doing that?
Speaker 1: You know, get you have to put that so they
Speaker 1: can really analyze your life. Damn really been out here
Speaker 1: planning for about that is some years, and you're trying
Speaker 1: to change somebody in three days three years. So you
Speaker 1: have to know the power of habit. You seen your
Speaker 1: grandma are geting with your uncle for the forty years,
Speaker 1: and here you go with one man you just got
Speaker 1: with and you've been with him about three five years,
Speaker 1: and you are going with him trying to change them.
Speaker 1: The man grandma can't change your own son, and you're
Speaker 1: trying to change your niggers. Get your ass down and
Speaker 1: change yourself. You If you can't change somebody, you need
Speaker 1: to change how you deal with them. You need to
Speaker 1: change how it bothers you. Or and and I and
Speaker 1: I know it's like, oh, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: the bigger and better person. It's not being a bigger
Speaker 1: and better person. It's the worth Like I said, is
Speaker 1: it worth it? If it's worth it, then you change
Speaker 1: your perception makes it worth it? Curious somebody else ask
Speaker 1: that I get it, But what makes it worth it?
Speaker 1: Worth has equated to you? I can't tell your worth.
Speaker 1: This pocket book maybe worth three thousand dollars, but to
Speaker 1: you it may be worth nothing. That's so worth is
Speaker 1: what your perception is? What do you what do you value?
Speaker 1: Your spouse says, I don't know. I know what what
Speaker 1: my value there is in my heart, But what do
Speaker 1: you value your people? And you know your worth may
Speaker 1: be equivalent to Let me see how you take care
Speaker 1: of my kids, how he thinks my car, how do
Speaker 1: you get up and go to work, How you take
Speaker 1: care of himself? I take care of his mama, How
Speaker 1: you take care? You equival this worth to you? You
Speaker 1: know how you take care has been this period. If
Speaker 1: that's something that adds stamps in your passport, then go ahead, baby,
Speaker 1: yeah real, you don't know? Yeah? When did you know what?
Speaker 1: Gonna call it? That? What did you know? It was time?
Speaker 1: Like this love of hip hop ship got to stop? Man,
Speaker 1: that moment when the chick stop coming? When check that
Speaker 1: won't because they don't never stop because they give me
Speaker 1: a check on that knows what I won't be that
Speaker 1: it was financial. It's not financial. It's let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. I tell people look at reality like it's
Speaker 1: a job. I'm not gonna even lie to you. I'm
Speaker 1: getting paid to do this. I'm getting paid at a
Speaker 1: certain way, so you may never see me in that
Speaker 1: form shape energy ever unless you on this platform and
Speaker 1: on this show. That's just what it is. What does
Speaker 1: it matter to you? I mean, but to be honest,
Speaker 1: I won't doing anymore because it's like I know exactly
Speaker 1: what the environment is based around, not the show it's
Speaker 1: saying we're going in the direction when he's saying you, well,
Speaker 1: when you're playing these games, you know then I think
Speaker 1: about it. But I know what it to go back to.
Speaker 1: I know the worth, I know what it's about. They
Speaker 1: fool me one that was shame on me. I went
Speaker 1: back again. Shame't on them. Think I'm gonna go back.
Speaker 1: Third m I went from Atlanta to Miami. You think
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back b l A. And they're gonna say, well,
Speaker 1: it's different. I don't know that's gonna That's just gonna
Speaker 1: be a risk you have to figure out. So I
Speaker 1: think you just get better, you know, you get to
Speaker 1: better understand that what it is exactly you're gonna do,
Speaker 1: because once you it don't matter, like it's just reality.
Speaker 1: I think if you got them just saw the podcast
Speaker 1: go to popping your ship. You're gonna get a big father.
Speaker 1: It's just me being personally because you got something to
Speaker 1: teach the young girl. Thank you? Like real ship? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: I do like real ship. Like I ain't gonna kep
Speaker 1: you down, like because I like cause I follow you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We follow each other on Instagram,
Speaker 1: so I see everything. Like the kids can really learn
Speaker 1: something that ship. Absolutely, you know. I try my best,
Speaker 1: and that's what I because there's so many people come
Speaker 1: from where we come from. They can only understand it
Speaker 1: from us, and that's where I try to cry to
Speaker 1: you know, that's where my voice is for you know.
Speaker 1: I try to do that and explain to it. But
Speaker 1: it's you know what I know learned about people. People
Speaker 1: don't see you from where you from. They see you
Speaker 1: where you at, no matter how how hard and how
Speaker 1: much I preach and tell you where I came from,
Speaker 1: they see me where I'm at. Don't matter to them
Speaker 1: no more. And then when I was at well, I
Speaker 1: was trying to tell you why to get you something.
Speaker 1: We're gonna try. Yeah you can you. I mean I
Speaker 1: did a couple of mentorships and it worked, so I'm
Speaker 1: sure the probably would. But yeah, that's what I was
Speaker 1: gonna ask you, Like, what do you have like as
Speaker 1: a message to leave with like females and girls, because like,
Speaker 1: you know, you've had your runnings, you know, with certain
Speaker 1: situations and you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, but
Speaker 1: that molded you into who you are as a person today,
Speaker 1: and it molded you into the owner of this empire
Speaker 1: and a multimillion dollar business entrepreneur. So what do you
Speaker 1: have like to leave with the young ladies that might
Speaker 1: be in the situation where they're stuck right now, they
Speaker 1: don't know what trying to figure it out. They you know,
Speaker 1: I've been there. I just tell them, you know, you,
Speaker 1: when you want something so bad, you gotta come to
Speaker 1: a place of dedication. And the only way you're gonna
Speaker 1: get to anything and achieve anything in life is you
Speaker 1: gotta be consistent. Just like you consistently hate on the motherfucker,
Speaker 1: you gotta consistently chase your dream. You gotta consistently I
Speaker 1: don't care will laugh at you, I don't care who
Speaker 1: don't believe me you because you know the problem with
Speaker 1: chasing dreams and trying to start a business everybody worrying
Speaker 1: about what somebody else gotta think of. Say, that's the
Speaker 1: only thing stopping you is another mother eff And once
Speaker 1: you can take that at your equations and get to
Speaker 1: the place where I don't care what you say, what
Speaker 1: you feel, how you feel, you invincible. And that's where
Speaker 1: you're consistency kicking, because now you're gonna start getting on
Speaker 1: your bully, getting on your game. Yeah it's hard. Nothing
Speaker 1: in life is easy, you know. I tell people now
Speaker 1: when you go to work, I had a job I
Speaker 1: used to work, you know, that's why I don't work.
Speaker 1: I was working for a customer service rep. This lady
Speaker 1: told me how promise she was actual. I go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom. She told me, no, you had a bathroom break.
Speaker 1: And that's when I just told myself, I ain't know
Speaker 1: about tell me when I could use the bathroom. And
Speaker 1: I know I needed the money, but that I also
Speaker 1: know I needed a piece of mind. I needed a
Speaker 1: freedom like hain't and jail. You're gonna tell me we're
Speaker 1: not gonna go use So that's it's something I gotta
Speaker 1: kick into you. You gotta be tied to your situation,
Speaker 1: tied to your circumstance, no matter what it is. So
Speaker 1: I would tell them the first thing they gotta do
Speaker 1: is eliminate. Eliminate everything. Man, you gotta take a mental ship,
Speaker 1: just like you gotta go to the bathroom, and you
Speaker 1: gotta go mentally and ship your brain out, shoot out
Speaker 1: everything you think about yourself. Because I could be telling
Speaker 1: myself I'm the baddest bitch, and I have one girl
Speaker 1: I walked out of doing. She just look at me
Speaker 1: like in that can turn my whole brain and then
Speaker 1: my mind gonna tell me, no, you ain't the baddest bitch.
Speaker 1: So now I got two opinions in my brain. But
Speaker 1: that gives me balance because it's up to me to
Speaker 1: choose which voice I want to listen to. I want
Speaker 1: to listen to. I'm the baddest bit, so I'm the
Speaker 1: baddest bitch. So people have to just eliminate and just ship,
Speaker 1: like ship your brain out. Man, just sit there and
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna you know, but sometimesn't work. You better
Speaker 1: do something that girl yeah yeah, now, but you have
Speaker 1: to mentor I can't explain it easier. And if you like,
Speaker 1: if you're frustrated, because frustration would kill you. People don't
Speaker 1: know that y'all scared of cancer, y'all scared AIGs, y'all
Speaker 1: scared everything, But you ain't scared of frustration. Moucker knocking
Speaker 1: down quick hall to tame like that because you're frustrated
Speaker 1: so mentally, ship bro, take a minute and just scream.
Speaker 1: I don't care. Just give yourself some time. Go lock
Speaker 1: yourself in the bathroom, find you a quiet place, because people,
Speaker 1: we still used the chaos and and the brain is
Speaker 1: just a function. It's it's a nerv system. It's a neuratic.
Speaker 1: So all your nerves bouncing off of each other. And
Speaker 1: here you go over here crazed up. And if you
Speaker 1: just would have shift at that morning when you was
Speaker 1: in the bathroom, ship Ship, take your brain toid. There
Speaker 1: you go, because no, I'm like you all nigga ain't
Speaker 1: na it's niggles. Niggles just took that in just a female.
Speaker 1: We asked for something. Female. Ship on my way I
Speaker 1: need motherfucker. Yeah, take a mental light show, the ship show.
Speaker 1: Imagine that's the one amazing. By the way, man, where
Speaker 1: you come, I don't know, I come to car coming
Speaker 1: the prayer that says the dude, hey yeah, turned up
Speaker 1: two shots. Yeah, saw that like all this ship hipopping,
Speaker 1: you know because seeing first, you know they doubt you.
Speaker 1: Now yeah, yeah stuck like that. We got over a
Speaker 1: hundred people already signed up contested, so they ship you know,
Speaker 1: Apolo ahead, we got like some golden ship on a
Speaker 1: lot of that's dope. Mean, that's like, I gotta colment.
Speaker 1: I got a comment any time after the pandemic and
Speaker 1: you know, you know, I just don't want to hear
Speaker 1: no compete you're coming up? You like that, man, But
Speaker 1: it's yeah, it's to us. But you know, I like
Speaker 1: to go place this one. I'm free and right now
Speaker 1: I gotta you know, the person inside of me, they
Speaker 1: don't responsible. I can get you to the you know,
Speaker 1: I can get you right if you want to be fluid,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I can get you on
Speaker 1: the stage that I ain't what it is he got
Speaker 1: me in want nobody around to breathe. Yeah, I enjoy
Speaker 1: looking at the clips on Instagram that it's like a show,
Speaker 1: so you should, like you keep telling me do my
Speaker 1: part to do that the show because I enjoy the
Speaker 1: whole plan. Like it's like a lot of people just
Speaker 1: catching up. Well, I ain't gonna turn into the ship
Speaker 1: very mind to see you. See. That's what y'all need
Speaker 1: to when you're trying to come up in the game.
Speaker 1: You gotta have a little modesty about your say, everybody
Speaker 1: here so big to the sky to who's gonna help you?
Speaker 1: Gonna help you? But you all in the class. I'm
Speaker 1: still right here. You just told me I know that person.
Speaker 1: I know that person all right? So what I could
Speaker 1: do for you? Because you know every about it? You
Speaker 1: know everything? So what can I do for you? And
Speaker 1: I hate that because that's a big misconception Where people
Speaker 1: meet me. They look at me all the time and
Speaker 1: they're like, well, she got everything, she got a husband,
Speaker 1: she got this, she got mom. What I could do
Speaker 1: for you? And I'm like, you could do a lot
Speaker 1: for me if you just ask. Hell, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you because and and that's the difference. You know.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that just because oh you're a milliona
Speaker 1: a thousand, that can't help me. No. Bit. You got marketing,
Speaker 1: you got hustle, you got something to me that I
Speaker 1: probably lost a couple of years ago. I ain't running
Speaker 1: behind her chase knees bank, but you still got that
Speaker 1: or you got something that you know how to do
Speaker 1: that I might not have tom exactly. And that's people
Speaker 1: a lot of opportunities like that. Yeah, most millionaims being
Speaker 1: they don't know how to do nothing, nothing nothing with
Speaker 1: that company doing like they just got the vote that
Speaker 1: work for them, know how to do that ship they
Speaker 1: don't know how to do them and get up and say, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're nate. Yeah right right. I'm a worker boss. I
Speaker 1: getting that and I go to work sometimes I go
Speaker 1: pack packages like I'm a worker boss. I like it.
Speaker 1: I like working like I never got into being an
Speaker 1: entrepreneur to be lazy. And that's why I go back
Speaker 1: when it kind of wrapping, when it kind of everything.
Speaker 1: Thats a lot of people feel like, oh I just
Speaker 1: want to be successful because I can be lazy. That's
Speaker 1: really what it is. They think if they have a
Speaker 1: lot of money, the money will equate from them to
Speaker 1: live a real life of doing anything. You do this,
Speaker 1: you do that, you this. They don't understand all that
Speaker 1: point the finger, what you do this, you do that.
Speaker 1: You gotta pay somebody to do this and do that
Speaker 1: so and mentionally, your money gonna be gone either way.
Speaker 1: There's no way to keep the money, man. Money is
Speaker 1: not money. Don't like to be held on too I
Speaker 1: call money a nigga. If you hold that bitch too close,
Speaker 1: that bitch gonna hit it. You gotta give us some space.
Speaker 1: Money like to be moved freely, and you gotta share it.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm serious. Money is not an entity that one
Speaker 1: to be kept. A lot of people feel like a
Speaker 1: savings account. Yeah, do a little bit, do enough, do
Speaker 1: some investments, but let the money flow. Money is a flow.
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Speaker 1: and you stuck. So you keep calling you a little
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