Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Day Podcast. We've got a brand
Speaker 1: new episode for you today. Yeah, and I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: kudos to this woman on the phone just for the
Speaker 1: sole reason of putting in the work to meet a guy.
Speaker 2: It really is she's doing the most. That's for sure.
Speaker 2: She got a second job in order to meet single men.
Speaker 3: Yeah, i mean, motivate yourself.
Speaker 2: You know she's motivated. Motivating. All right, you're gonna hear
Speaker 2: it in just a second. But comments, what do you got? Yeah,
Speaker 2: this and said, do you record your introt too early
Speaker 2: in the morning for Jeff? Or is he locked in
Speaker 2: the back office and you only let him out for
Speaker 2: the show?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: We definitely only let him out for they he is
Speaker 2: locked away. Aay, yeah, I mean it's really nice. We
Speaker 2: don't have hr around here.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: They used to be like let him out to eat,
Speaker 1: to let him out to breathe. Okay, all right, here's
Speaker 1: your brand new Second Date update. It starts right now.
Speaker 2: I'll go let Jeff out for this. Fine for a
Speaker 2: little while.
Speaker 6: Second Date update, Big day on the show, because Denise
Speaker 6: is back.
Speaker 2: I've been waiting for Denise.
Speaker 3: We all have.
Speaker 6: You may remember her from a Second Date update around
Speaker 6: six months ago or so, where her strategy was to
Speaker 6: find available men at the golf course. She decided to
Speaker 6: take up the hobby and she would go there and say.
Speaker 3: Oh, no, I don't know how to do this? How
Speaker 3: do I swing this long metal stick?
Speaker 6: And then well to do gentlemen would come over and
Speaker 6: help her. She ended up meeting one guy named Franklin
Speaker 6: who owned a couple of car washes. That whole thing
Speaker 6: didn't work out in the end, but Denise is not
Speaker 6: giving up.
Speaker 2: That's right, Denise, she is.
Speaker 6: Requesting our help once again, but not hitting the golf clubs. Apparently,
Speaker 6: according to your email, Denise, you've got a new strategy
Speaker 6: to meet guys.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, it do tell okay.
Speaker 5: I was thinking about other places that eligible single guys
Speaker 5: would be okay, and I realized that around the holidays,
Speaker 5: there's a lot of them around the perfume counter, shopping
Speaker 5: for their moms and their sisters and their aunts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, says keep the list going there.
Speaker 2: I buy for their moms.
Speaker 3: IM, but I have my mom chocolate strawberry. So there's
Speaker 3: a line next time to.
Speaker 5: Far fetch right.
Speaker 1: You know, we we actually are a little confused in
Speaker 1: these because most men buying fragrance.
Speaker 2: They're going to have a significant other.
Speaker 5: Most exactly exactly, or maybe he's helping his friend.
Speaker 3: We didn't think of that, bro.
Speaker 6: You can't see the look on Brook's face right now,
Speaker 6: but she is shaking her head, very skeptical about this
Speaker 6: entire thing.
Speaker 1: It's a reach, but it sounds like it works for
Speaker 1: you because you're on with us, and you must have
Speaker 1: met somebody this.
Speaker 5: Way, right, Yes, so I did get a part time
Speaker 5: job at a department store. I do have a full
Speaker 5: time job, but I'm just doing this at night to
Speaker 5: meet guys. I'd say it's I'm going to a bar
Speaker 5: and spending money to meet guys. I can have a
Speaker 5: job to get money and still the guy.
Speaker 2: So who'd you meet?
Speaker 5: Okay, so I didn't meet a guy. His name is Caleb.
Speaker 5: You know, while I was working there, I noticed that
Speaker 5: not Caleb, but like a lot of guys were married
Speaker 5: and they would slip their ring off.
Speaker 2: No, what sketchy?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's something about a really good conversation
Speaker 5: that gets these men going.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a conversation did they have? You
Speaker 2: can ask who they're buying it for straight out?
Speaker 5: Well, Okay, so towards the end of the night, that's
Speaker 5: when he came in, and I was kind of hoping
Speaker 5: that he wasn't the one, but you know, I was
Speaker 5: hoping that maybe.
Speaker 2: Did you say you were hoping that he wasn't the one?
Speaker 3: Single one? What do you mean?
Speaker 5: I mean not somebody like, oh my gosh, at first sight,
Speaker 5: I'm head over heels the one, but a really nice
Speaker 5: to die I like options.
Speaker 3: I like he surprised. He surprised you when he came
Speaker 3: over to the counter.
Speaker 2: It sounds like or he was the only option that
Speaker 2: was single.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, what really caught my eye was that he was
Speaker 5: very shy compared to all of the guys that I've
Speaker 5: seen all day, and he was actually getting perfume for
Speaker 5: his mom. Found they exist, okay, but he didn't know
Speaker 5: what to get her. So that's where I came into place, luckily, okay,
Speaker 5: and I took this opportunity to flirt with him, and
Speaker 5: I sprayed some on my head and all my neck.
Speaker 2: You had him smell your neck? Does this smell like
Speaker 2: your mom?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 3: All the moves, okay, all of it.
Speaker 5: He went to one of the perfumes and I rung
Speaker 5: him up and you know, he just kind of stood
Speaker 5: there while hanging around the counter because you know, he's
Speaker 5: so shy, and I was just initiating conversation, so I
Speaker 5: was very very direct and I said, if you want
Speaker 5: to ask me out, it's okay, you can.
Speaker 3: I wish every would green flag, like come on, buddy.
Speaker 2: No, because if they say no, that I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Go against rejections.
Speaker 4: Day.
Speaker 3: What did Caleb say?
Speaker 5: Well, he said, okay, will you go out with me?
Speaker 4: Cute?
Speaker 5: I said yes, and I wrote my number on his receipt.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 5: And then after he left he had texted me a
Speaker 5: couple of times. There hasn't been an official date, Timid.
Speaker 3: Did you bully him into a like?
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say bully, I would say strongly convinced.
Speaker 3: You could have said no to I totally can't.
Speaker 1: You weren't shy and you love that line that she
Speaker 1: just gave it, So maybe it's universal. Do you think
Speaker 1: he just doesn't know what to do on a day,
Speaker 1: like I'm being serious, like doesn't know where to go,
Speaker 1: what to play.
Speaker 5: I think because he is so shy, maybe all of
Speaker 5: this might be a little overwhelming for him. Maybe he
Speaker 5: doesn't actually like act women out on the regular, or
Speaker 5: do you.
Speaker 6: Think maybe he's taken already and was also being a
Speaker 6: little bit sneaky with you.
Speaker 5: I've seen cheaters, I know how they move.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, he's a MoMA's boy.
Speaker 6: It might be possible he put the perfume on his
Speaker 6: mom and then he was like, oh wow.
Speaker 3: What.
Speaker 2: Like we already did a lot of jokes that would
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying it's a possibility for a shy boys
Speaker 3: dating his mom.
Speaker 2: Now, shy boys want to hook up with their mom.
Speaker 6: Put everything on the table, and then we'll find out
Speaker 6: the truth when we come back. We're gonna call Caleb
Speaker 6: and find out who he really wants to go out with.
Speaker 6: Second dates rules for Jeff happening right after this second
Speaker 6: date update. If you're a shy boy who's buying perfume
Speaker 6: for his mom this holiday season, what be careful because
Speaker 6: it might.
Speaker 3: Be a trap.
Speaker 2: Maybe you want to trap death?
Speaker 6: You maybe do? And I say that because our listener
Speaker 6: Denise is a purposeful dater. She tries to put herself
Speaker 6: in situations so she can meet available men who aren't
Speaker 6: on the apps. Yes, like in a previous episode, she
Speaker 6: was trying to meet guys at the golf course. But
Speaker 6: now since it's around the holidays, she's been trying to
Speaker 6: meet single men at the Perfume counter by working there
Speaker 6: part time.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that is commitment.
Speaker 5: Perfume's not cheap, so I get kind of checks.
Speaker 6: Her boxes right available probably well success thoughtful gifts might
Speaker 6: be a little bit counterintuitive, but there are lots of
Speaker 6: clueless guys out there who need help shopping for presents,
Speaker 6: hopefully for their mother or for.
Speaker 1: Their sister, or maybe there's a guy out there that's
Speaker 1: buying perfume or colone for himself.
Speaker 3: For the homeless.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for chair homeless. They need other things first.
Speaker 6: Yeah, don't go around sprintsing the homeless. Not a good move,
Speaker 6: but it is how she met Caleb, and she even
Speaker 6: kind of pushed him into asking her out.
Speaker 3: The problem is he hasn't followed.
Speaker 6: Through with the actual date yet, So that's where we're
Speaker 6: gonna try and step in and help.
Speaker 3: Is that right, Denise?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 2: Okay, didn't recap.
Speaker 1: Worried that we're gonna scare him even further, like he's
Speaker 1: a shy guy.
Speaker 5: And then I mean it has been some weeks, so
Speaker 5: I definitely need the help. Okay, I can't do it.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna come off to pushing. I'll scare him away.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, if it's been weeks, what does she
Speaker 6: have left to lose at this point, he's gonna ghost
Speaker 6: her even more?
Speaker 2: The same thing, true, that's true.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll try to talk softly and not
Speaker 1: frighten him.
Speaker 2: No, it's.
Speaker 5: What was that?
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, we'll be delegate with a shy future boyfriend
Speaker 6: and we will try and get him to say yes
Speaker 6: to actually going out on this date with you.
Speaker 4: So here we go.
Speaker 3: Just need him to say that. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey, is this Caleb.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just Caleb.
Speaker 3: Hey man.
Speaker 6: This is a radio shows Strong jeff Good.
Speaker 3: Morning, Yeah, good morning, morning. We're a show.
Speaker 6: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. I don't
Speaker 6: know if you've heard of us before.
Speaker 4: I believe I heard of it.
Speaker 6: Okay, well maybe you've heard of the segment that we
Speaker 6: do that's called the second Date Update, where we try
Speaker 6: to reconnect listeners after they've met up once and they're
Speaker 6: having trouble seeing each other again.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So okay, okay, So that's what we're trying to do
Speaker 3: here with you.
Speaker 6: Because one of our listeners, Denise has been trying to
Speaker 6: get a hold of you to me.
Speaker 2: Remember, Denise smells good, Denise.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well this.
Speaker 4: Must be a joke because I've been texting her.
Speaker 3: Yeah I heard that.
Speaker 6: But Denise feels like you haven't made enough of a
Speaker 6: push to actually go out on the date.
Speaker 1: Like it almost feels like you're texting her out of obligation,
Speaker 1: not because you actually want to see her.
Speaker 2: Is she reading that right?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 3: No, I like her, you do, okay?
Speaker 4: Is yeah? I just I just can't come out with her.
Speaker 3: Oh no, ever is there a reason.
Speaker 4: No, it's I want to, It's just not the right time,
Speaker 4: not yet, Not yet?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does what does it mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I got some I have some things I'm working on,
Speaker 4: working on myself, and that's what I'm going.
Speaker 6: I mean, with all due respect, people are dating. They
Speaker 6: have busy lives, and sometimes they just can't wait forever.
Speaker 6: So we're just trying to figure.
Speaker 1: Out how long this self time is going to take.
Speaker 1: Exact we're talking in another week or are we talking
Speaker 1: two years?
Speaker 4: Uh? Well, I'm not exactly sure. I ordered some special
Speaker 4: supplements and I'm trying them out see whether they're affected.
Speaker 6: So you mean like health supplements some people do like
Speaker 6: skin like my buddy takes one fish oil or whatever.
Speaker 3: For sure? What what?
Speaker 6: What kind of supplements are we talking about? If you
Speaker 6: don't mind me asking.
Speaker 4: I probably shouldn't say more than I did, but okay.
Speaker 1: Oh, we didn't need to get into a private matters.
Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe hair loss. Is that what's going on?
Speaker 4: Well? Does that have to do with growing?
Speaker 5: What like went somewhere?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you mean like I'm doing fingernails right, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: could be it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I shouldn't say anymore.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, yeah, we really shouldn't ask anymore.
Speaker 4: Stop asking.
Speaker 6: You're testing out multiple supplements, it sounds like, and seeing
Speaker 6: what works.
Speaker 3: That's why you're waiting.
Speaker 1: Are you asking, Jeff? Because you're wondering what the results
Speaker 1: are for yourself.
Speaker 3: My motives are business like. Also, what are you taking?
Speaker 3: You're just results? Yeah, you're just.
Speaker 4: You're you truly want to be ready for Denise if
Speaker 4: it goes well.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I think supplements are no supplements you
Speaker 1: could do.
Speaker 2: That, you could be there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just.
Speaker 2: Trying to hype them up. I feel.
Speaker 3: To be one of the guys I've tried to make
Speaker 3: it feel better.
Speaker 2: I wanted to feel bad about whatever it is.
Speaker 3: I know what Brook's trying to say.
Speaker 6: She's trying to say, Caleb, Truly, a lot of people
Speaker 6: think that they have it in their mind. Oh I'll
Speaker 6: start dating once I lose five pounds or once my
Speaker 6: hair transplants come in. You're waiting for the perfect moment,
Speaker 6: but there really is never a truly perfect time. You
Speaker 6: just got to say, you know what, I like this person,
Speaker 6: I'm going to go for it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well they always say.
Speaker 6: Weve comes and you at least expect it, right, not
Speaker 6: when you play the most for it.
Speaker 4: I just think Denise is really gonna like it.
Speaker 2: I don't, but yeah, it's good.
Speaker 6: And I don't know if this is a if there's
Speaker 6: a good thing or a bad thing, but I have
Speaker 6: a feeling you would never go out with Denise unless
Speaker 6: I told you that she's actually on the phone right
Speaker 6: now listening to this whole thing.
Speaker 5: Hi, kleb.
Speaker 4: Embarrassed.
Speaker 5: No, it's say I'm flattered that you you know you
Speaker 5: really want to be ready for the tape? Yeah, thank you,
Speaker 5: of course, I mean you don't. You don't need to
Speaker 5: worry about that.
Speaker 4: Though I do.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no no. I just mean I
Speaker 5: thought you were cool the way you were where we met,
Speaker 5: and that's what attracted me to you. Like this physical
Speaker 5: mm hm.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, Yeah, I'm cool.
Speaker 3: Super cool dude.
Speaker 5: You know you don't need to take supplements or whatever.
Speaker 5: It is just because of you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I think he's like it.
Speaker 5: I want to respond to that. I hope I like it. iOS.
Speaker 4: I have a new one coming in this week and
Speaker 4: it's really promising.
Speaker 2: How many of you tried?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's called beard burst. I'm trying to get facial hair.
Speaker 2: What did you just say?
Speaker 4: Beard burst? It's her facial hair because beards are really hot.
Speaker 5: Right now, it's about facial hair. Yeah, have a cute
Speaker 5: faith without facial hair.
Speaker 6: I mean, oh my god, it so delicate.
Speaker 3: Kid with him? What I don't think I want to
Speaker 3: tell you. Yeah, I thinks are thinking the same.
Speaker 2: Listen to this back after yes difference.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh god, did you think I was trying to
Speaker 4: order drugs?
Speaker 2: Oh my god?
Speaker 4: But yes, yeah, I don't have facial hair and I
Speaker 4: wanted to get bigger and I just can't grow it.
Speaker 2: Okay, nobody tells about that.
Speaker 5: Listen I am pro wanting to feel better about yourself.
Speaker 5: So you know what, if you're on this bear journey,
Speaker 5: I will go on this journey with you.
Speaker 3: Wow, bear journey together.
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean you're going to grow your own right.
Speaker 3: Desperate this.
Speaker 5: As long as I can be your personal facial misogyn
Speaker 5: I think we can make this work.
Speaker 1: The best offer we brought tired of working at the
Speaker 1: perfume it's a.
Speaker 6: Much better offer than the one that I'm about to
Speaker 6: give where we're going to pay for your next date
Speaker 6: if you'll agree to see Denise one more time.
Speaker 4: Caleb, Oh yeah, absolutely, I really want to see her.
Speaker 4: I just I just hope you don't need a Hemsworth's
Speaker 4: at the perfume counter and kick my.
Speaker 5: No, I'm sure Hemsworth would have nothing on your seat heart.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, she's great, bro.
Speaker 2: Have you looked at the photo of them recently? She's
Speaker 2: great at line?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I did meet him at the perfume counter.
Speaker 3: Guy, okaydion of him. That's right.
Speaker 6: We started on a mission to get Denise a date
Speaker 6: from her perfume counter, and she found her perfect Hemsworth
Speaker 6: look alike.
Speaker 3: Well, soon soon they'll be looking like Helmsworth sounds like
Speaker 3: the opposite of Hemsworth. Caleb, you're the man, Caleb.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks, And tonight I'm going to delete my Tinder profile.
Speaker 3: All the ladies wore.
Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the Morning Man.
Speaker 6: Talking about out medical things on the radio, even even supplements.
Speaker 3: You really gotta be careful.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: The problem is is that when somebody says that you
Speaker 1: don't want to ask a lot of questions, but then
Speaker 1: that leaves it open to interpretation exactly, which was obviously wrong.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just I wish he would have just came
Speaker 6: out and told us beard blaster pills right at the
Speaker 6: start of the conversation because we could have avoid a
Speaker 6: lot of awkwardness.
Speaker 2: I thought it was like skin moisturizer at first.
Speaker 3: It's almost the same, like fish oil. Oh no, it's
Speaker 3: beard grower.
Speaker 2: Yeah right.
Speaker 6: The problem was he was talking about how Denise was
Speaker 6: really gonna like it, and he mentioned growth a few times.
Speaker 3: That just it led us into a weird space.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but good thing we called him. How long would
Speaker 2: it have taken to his beard group? It would have
Speaker 2: been half a year.
Speaker 3: Still not big enough to reach my knees.
Speaker 2: There's another whisker.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what we did it. We got him
Speaker 6: to go out on a date. So hopefully they reach
Speaker 6: out to us again and give us an update.
Speaker 2: On their issuation. Yeah, reminded us of where our minds
Speaker 2: always go to.
Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely send us photos of the beard when it
Speaker 6: comes in, Caleb, but that was I'm still worried. Okay,
Speaker 6: just send them right to me. But that was a
Speaker 6: special holiday second date update. If you want to hear more,
Speaker 6: you can go to Spotify, iHeart Apple, wherever you get
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