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Speaker 1: Second date. When you date online, some people connect over

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Speaker 1: shared interests or hobbies. Other people connect because they're both

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Speaker 1: freaking hot. But one of our listeners, Thomas, says he

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Speaker 1: connected with a woman online over their joint sadness. Oh

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Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, suck to Thomas, Thomas. Did you

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Speaker 1: meet her on tiermatch dot com or wasn't the Kleenex club?

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Speaker 1: Which one was? That's cute, Well that could go. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting paid by any of the services I use.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna given to be free advertising. But we

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Speaker 1: did meet online. Okay, what's the sadness you speak of?

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Speaker 1: My friend? Well, you know how you can put like

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Speaker 1: whether you're single or divorce. There's an option where you

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Speaker 1: can put separated, and so I thought I would be

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Speaker 1: what I do. But I think sometimes people don't want

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Speaker 1: want to even swipe on them. It's like single and

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Speaker 1: people sometimes put it's complicated. Yeah, you're obviously involved with somebody,

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Speaker 1: but some people think that's a turn on. They're like

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Speaker 1: a disaster people you usually want to date. Chef, Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He says that he matched with somebody

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Speaker 1: that was separated too. It sounds like, yes, her name

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Speaker 1: good feature. I mean, that's it's a good start though,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to change the subject to a quick it's

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Speaker 1: a good start that you guys are going through. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how similar it is, but a similar

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Speaker 1: life experience. So you're coming in with with understanding and

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Speaker 1: you probably don't feel like you have to explain a lot,

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Speaker 1: right sure, Well, I mean that's kind of like prefaces

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Speaker 1: into why I'm calling y'all. Um, we went on a

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Speaker 1: you know, well my VBX wife. Yeah, and um, she's

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Speaker 1: Slow down, because this is the first date out of

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Speaker 1: your marriage. Let me guess. Hold on, I'm a psychic.

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Speaker 1: You were nervous? No, he could have been feeling excited.

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Speaker 1: Worth the money, tell us, Yeah, I went all out.

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Speaker 1: You know, I got dressed to the nines like Jim

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound nervous, of course, of course. Yeah, you never know.

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Speaker 1: You've been out of the dating game for a minute.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just didn't read the room right anymore. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean I thought it was positive that, you know,

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Speaker 1: what you wanted to do. So how was the hug?

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Speaker 1: Was it like a quick huggle, like a sense you along?

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Speaker 1: She smelled your hair kind of like you don't have

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Speaker 1: We'll call Celia for you and try and get you

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Speaker 1: Actually exactly what I would condone. Yeah, so let's give

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Speaker 1: it Celia? Yeah? Sorry, I was really excited there. I

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Speaker 1: Now she's not answering a second to process. This is

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Speaker 1: probably a lot, right, I don't Who is it? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're so we're a morning radio show. We're called Brooke

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Speaker 1: a second date update. Oh no, thank you, that's okay, No, no, no, no, Celia,

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Speaker 1: Are got my nails? Dont my nails look good? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Your nails don't look goods does cost a lot? Don't

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Speaker 1: But if I learned anything from this, it don't date

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Speaker 1: Brook got sappy. God, but you know, two sides it.

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Speaker 1: But no, look, we do want to help connect you

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Speaker 1: if you do, you can always email the show. We'll

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