1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: So you know what's happening in those four days. 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 2: I'm either blown it out thinking this is the end 3 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: of my life, or I'm in a fetal position We're 4 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: not sure, or you know it well and we'll get 5 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 2: to it at some point. You go and meet your 6 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: friends at Dan Tana's, get blackout drunk, and then decide 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 2: to do other things, have the spins and vomit at night. 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 2: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 9 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, are we all? Hey? Hey girl, Hey, welcome 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: to Calm Down. You know one thing we didn't talk about. 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 2: We wanted to recap really quick because you were there 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 2: the Bellmont. Oh my god. In the final result? You okay, 13 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: how was it your first horse race? You've ever worked? Correct? 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 2: First horse race I've ever worked, As you know, I've 15 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: been to an innumerable amount of them, and thank you. 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: You're so cute, which just a sidebar here, there's nothing 17 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: better than a supportive girlfriend like truly, and you know 18 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 2: how much I love you and appreciate you. 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: But look a million different sporting events, but. 20 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: Every time I see you on TV, I'm like, oh, 21 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: like I guys, never seen you before, and it was 22 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: so cute and little how how like she Aaron did 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: something very sweet on our Calm Down Instagram. If you 24 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: are not a participant, please do you know for all 25 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: the content subscribe like and whatever. 26 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: But anyways, it was very sweet. I had the best time. 27 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: It was one of those things that I have always 28 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: wanted to work one and Fox now has the Belmont 29 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: six for the next ten years, so I was so excited. 30 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: Got to see mutual friends. Of course that Anna and 31 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: introduced me to the wonderful Phipps family, so that was 32 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 2: fun to see them, and it just it's so much 33 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: fun in horse racing, as evidence by the winner, arch Angelo, 34 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: who wasn't the favorite. He wasn't in fact the bear 35 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: and I talked about it on the gambling segment. He 36 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: was like, I don't see any upside here, but there 37 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: is always a chance. Well, this is why we love 38 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: sporting events, because there's always a chance. And there was 39 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: so many subplots within this horse. So this is a 40 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: horse that its owner had to supplement the entry fee 41 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: because he didn't even get into photes to get into 42 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: the Belmont. Then of course you had the jockey Jenna Antonucci, 43 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: the first ever woman to win a Triple Crown race, 44 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: So yay, I love the quote that you put up 45 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 2: and if you don't get a seat at the table, 46 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 2: you make your own table, and like, just awesome's here. 47 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 2: And then also you had Javier Castellano, who was the 48 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 2: jockey who was zero to fourteen in Belmont races. 49 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: He lives five minutes down the road. 50 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: He had just won the Derby, so he bookended the 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: two Triple Crown races. But he was like, yes, of 52 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 2: course it's amazing to win the Derby, but the Belmont 53 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: he's like, my kids go to school and they think 54 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: like their dad's not a good jockey because they have 55 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 2: I haven't won the Belmont. So for him to win that, 56 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 2: it was just so special, like all facets of it. 57 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: It's why we love sporting events. 58 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: It's why I've always loved horse racing because again, on 59 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: any given Sunday in quotes, or any day Saturday in 60 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 2: this particular case, anyone can win, and it's just magical. 61 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 2: And those horses are so and like I know there's 62 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: all the subtexts and it's not worth getting into, but 63 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: saying those horses are so magical and they are treated 64 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 2: so amazing, and they are just the greatest athlete, Secretary. 65 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,119 Speaker 2: It was the fiftieth anniversary. Can I take a breath? 66 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: I get very excited to talk about this fiftieth anniversary 67 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 2: of Secretariat's run, which still is the second most memorable 68 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: sporting event, right behind Wilt Chamberlain's hundred point game. So 69 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 70 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: When people are like, oh, horses aren't athletes. 71 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: Oh you tell me, you freaking tell me that the 72 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 2: record that is held up for fifty years and will 73 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 2: never be broken, in my opinion, hasn't even come close 74 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: to being broken. I just loved it. And by the way, 75 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: is the race. I could go on and on. The 76 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: race is over, Caesa, wrap it up. It was great, 77 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: you know, I have to be honest. I watched the 78 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: derby quite a bit. I was interested in the belmont 79 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: A because Fox had it. Wanted to be supportive. Was 80 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: so excited to see you and Chris Alika on set. 81 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: Wanted to hear what you were talking about. I don't 82 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: know a lot about it. I know our friends, like 83 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: you mentioned the Phipps family are obviously huge. How would 84 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: you say, in the horsing world figures in the horsing world, 85 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: but they are icons. They have a race named after them. 86 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: They are like, yeah, gold Standard, love them so much. 87 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 2: But I I enjoyed watching the coverage. It was great. 88 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean we've talked about it before. It's 89 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 2: not that we're not raw raw into females, but it's like, 90 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: you know, we kind of put our head down, go 91 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: to work and do our thing. You got to be 92 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: able to kind of gel and it's not like we're 93 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: not like votes for women and all that stuff. But 94 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 2: something really spoke to me on Sunday, her reaction, her 95 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 2: screaming for him to run, I mean it got me emotional. 96 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: Her post race interview where she made that comment about 97 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 2: the seat at the table, she dropped I think an 98 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: F bomb where she was like, you know, she either 99 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: said that or shit or something, and it was just 100 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: and then the gentleman at the desk with Kurt had said, look, 101 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 2: this is a male dominated sport. It just it spoke 102 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 2: to me. It was fucking awesome. I loved it. I 103 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 2: loved it so much. It was and all you have 104 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 2: to do to point to I don't know a women's 105 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: supporting women is our friendship and this podcast there's no 106 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 2: one that wants to support women more than what you do. 107 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 2: But I know what you're saying. Where sometimes like we 108 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 2: get in the sports that we cover, in covering the NFL, 109 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: like yeah, male dominated headlines, but we are the number. 110 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: I am so frickin' happy to cheer for women who 111 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: make history in any respective sport and for her to 112 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 2: do that, and just I can't imagine how she feels. Yeah, 113 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 2: and by the way, you know how we've done this before. 114 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: It's a little bit of like everyone, go yourself. I 115 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 2: do belong at your table and my own that I've 116 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: excited to make off the side. So yes, thank you 117 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 2: for your support. It was really fun, great, so much happening, 118 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: so our last podcast, so fun to get back in 119 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 2: the mix. We had a bunch of stuff that we 120 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: weren't able to talk about because there's so much time 121 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: in the day. One of the big headlines was scanned 122 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: of all. I know, we're like a week late, everyone's 123 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 2: already had their take on it, but you go, you. 124 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: Are into it from the beginning. 125 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: I finally am all caught up your thoughts, big picture 126 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: and let's dive in. Look. I was, I will say it. 127 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: I was shook after the final reunion episode and my 128 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: former hair colorist friend Justin Anderson. If you don't subscribe 129 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: to his ig page, please do. He broke it down 130 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: perfectly for everyone that watched that final reunion show and said, wait, 131 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,799 Speaker 2: I thought there was a big surprise. What's the big deal? 132 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? He put it like this, 133 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: He felt like, Raquel sat there, Rachel, I will call her. 134 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,239 Speaker 2: Rachel sat there, watched the interview, watched how this group 135 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 2: of friends basically ganged up on her, not ganged up, 136 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: stuck up for Ariana and said, you shouldn't have done it. 137 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 2: I was shocked how she wasn't emotional. I've seen her 138 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: Andy Connor or Rache. Rachel may have been medicated. I 139 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: think you had to have been, because she just didn't 140 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 2: even tear up. Well. Then they cut to, obviously the 141 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: final parts where then she's admitting to having sex in 142 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,559 Speaker 2: their house, doing it after a funeral, having sex multiple times. Yeah, 143 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: for people not to think that shocking and you already 144 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 2: knew it. I don't know what world do you live in. 145 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: It's gross. 146 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 2: The thing that got me the most was the T 147 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: shirt comment that Tom said about having sex with Ariana 148 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: with her T shirt on and how hot it was 149 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: after she's been so upfront throughout the entire show about 150 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 2: having body insecurities. Who doesn't, by the way, and if 151 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 2: you don't all have some of what you're having, that's crazy. 152 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 2: So I just it was a lot. I couldn't sleep 153 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 2: that night, it was so much. It is incredible how 154 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: everyone has kind of rallied around this cast and they're 155 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: supporting Ariana. And I think, you know, I said it 156 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: before on our pregame show. I think Sandoval, whoever was 157 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: supporting in him, he lost everyone when he made the 158 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: T shirt comment. It got me in the chest, man, 159 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: it just got me. You go, Okay, So a couple 160 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: things on this and backing up, I am never someone 161 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:45,239 Speaker 2: to throw rocks in a glasshouse. I've spent I would 162 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: like to believe most of my life being very transparent 163 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 2: about things I've done right, things I've done wrong. And 164 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: so backing up on like the cheating stuff, like I've 165 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: been cheated on, I've cheated and like recently had a 166 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: revelation where my ex boyfriend of almost a decade to 167 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: go randomly called me and we caught up on stuff 168 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: and he like fully admitted because this was a guy 169 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: who's gonna marry, like he had reached out to my mom, 170 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 2: like showed the wedding ring. We were in Hawaii, I 171 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: intercepted text finding out that he was cheating on me. 172 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: I left Hawaii devastated, thinking like this was my guy, 173 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 2: but the reality was like I had already cheated on him, 174 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: thinking he was going to cheat on me, which is 175 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: a whole other conversation for another day. 176 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: And I would love. 177 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 2: To take this to the streets because I was in 178 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 2: a relationship where I knew, like I shouldn't ever marry 179 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 2: this guy, and I thought, maybe not to draw complete parallels, 180 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 2: but like we were together for whatever four or five 181 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 2: years at the time, Arianna's with Tom for ten years. 182 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: Whatever it is, relationships get stagnant, they get stale. 183 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: We get it. You're not banging on like, you know, 184 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: every fricking five seconds. Everything's not sexy, Like maybe you 185 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: get a little complacent. And her honesty about like their 186 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: own relationship, well, that happens to everyone's relationship at some point. 187 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: You have to work at it. 188 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: And my mom and dad like talk about it all 189 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 2: the time. They've been married for forty something years. You 190 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 2: still have to date your partner, Okay, So staying on 191 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 2: track here with the story is that it was nice 192 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: to have the conversation a decade later with my ex 193 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: boyfriend who had cheated on me and I had cheated 194 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 2: on him in fear that he would cheat on me, 195 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 2: because there's always vulnerability in a relationship, and like I 196 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: look back on that as being like, oh, I was 197 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 2: so scorn. Well I was the fucking asshole too, like 198 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 2: we both were doing something wrong. I think why this 199 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 2: situation resonated so much with the general public. And again, 200 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 2: I love a reality TV show, but I'm not like 201 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: all in every week. I don't have like appointment viewing, 202 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 2: but I think this one really like hit home with 203 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: people because a of the friendship I albeit fake or 204 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 2: not with this Rachel chick, Like that's your best friend. 205 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: Like that would be like if you and I. 206 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 2: Had You're sleeping with my boyfriend ten years old, I'm 207 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 2: sleeping yeah exactly, and then finding out and also too 208 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: then when you watch back all the episodes and like 209 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 2: dressing up is her for Halloween and Arian is like 210 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 2: I helped you pick it that costume, like the lightning yeah, yeah, 211 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: the light the necklaces, all this stuff. 212 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 1: So it's just you feel so. 213 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: Like, not only are you embarrassed that your boyfriend cheated 214 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: on you, but now it's with your best friend. And 215 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 2: now to your point, the Rachel chick call whatever her 216 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: real name is, she's not even showing any remorse. No, 217 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 2: like she must have been on something because to your point, 218 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 2: like I cry if I hurt your feelings, even inadvertently, 219 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm so sorry because I care about you. 220 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 2: If you really care about someone, you should show some emotion. 221 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: And I just I don't know. I felt for her 222 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: on every arian I felt for her on every level. 223 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: But by the way, in the end, good fucking riddance, 224 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: Like all due respect to the ex boyfriend that called me, 225 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to be with you and you don't 226 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 2: want to be with me. Ten years later, like trust 227 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 2: that everything happens for a reason, and this chick arian 228 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 2: is going to be so much better off in the end. 229 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: And to La LA's Lala needed to relax little. She 230 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 2: was like acting like she had been cheated on. I 231 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: was like, Laala, you just sit down, like stop. But 232 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: that's the thing where it's like in the end, this Ariana, 233 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 2: like like I know her is going to be better 234 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 2: off and kudos. 235 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 1: For her the way she handled it. I watched the 236 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: Handle Today show. She was so classy. 237 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 2: Has handled it like I would have been a crazy 238 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: bitch on that reannew show. I would have like I 239 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 2: would have had to get security out there to like 240 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 2: hold me back from wanting to punch this girl. Fuck 241 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 2: how they sat in their seats is beyond me. I've 242 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 2: never heard anyone say go at yourself with the cheese grater. 243 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 2: He was like, Wow, that's a good one. I've never 244 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 2: heard that one before. No, she did a very very 245 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: good job. Also, Schwartz putting his head in his hands 246 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 2: when Sandoval said the T shirt comment, and he's like, dude, 247 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 2: I also think white nail polish should be banned forever anywhere, 248 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 2: which because I love white polish. Ruined it. He's ruined mustaches, 249 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: he's ruined nail polish. I'll tell you what I love. 250 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 2: I love a little monetary retribution when Ariana has like 251 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 2: seventeen ads and I'm like, good for fucking you, you 252 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 2: know what, like lemon made out of lemons in that situation, 253 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 2: because something bad happens and you turn that frown upside 254 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 2: down and turn that bank account balance up, so I agreed. 255 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: My final thought is I heard La La say, I 256 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: think on watch what happens now? She said, you know, 257 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: I do hope she's getting help. But I don't think 258 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 2: that reality TV is for her. Meaning Rachel, I think 259 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 2: so too. I don't think she has the mental capacity 260 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: for this to sit there with that. I think she's 261 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: a Oh well, of course she is. Give her a 262 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: cocktail and she says the craziest stuff. I mean she is. 263 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 2: She's a Dancing with the Stars dream, she's a bachelor dream, 264 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 2: she's a vander Pump dream. But I mean, girl, I know, 265 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: at some point, why are you setting your life on fire? 266 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where you need someone that cares about. 267 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 2: Take those tags off that dress? We're with the tags on? 268 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: Was she returning at tags where she was getting undressed 269 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: in front of him? This is what I'm telling you. 270 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,599 Speaker 2: I want to talk about this later. Where were the 271 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: top for the kids? She was getting undressed and yeah, 272 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 2: they zoomed in and she had the tags right on. Well, 273 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 2: I hope they don't return that. We know what the 274 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 2: return policy is on those things. Return to send her 275 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: for her exact friendship. 276 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: No, but she's a. 277 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: Producer's dream By the way those producers got her to 278 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: say anything they wanted. They kept like crobing. 279 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: She was not hard to get. 280 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 2: Also, I don't believe there were tears in the blue dress. 281 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: I don't when she had that blue dress on with 282 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 2: the hair and a fitting by the way, wow, no tears. 283 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 2: Whenever we keep doing this, we're not crying. You're not frying. 284 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: I mean, we've seen ugly criers. This girl is one. 285 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: Kim k owns it. Ugly crier. You're not crying enough. 286 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: You're not crying crying. I'm crying. 287 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: You need a stylist, that is rude. You need more 288 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: than a stylus. Yeah, there's just a lot. 289 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: I just think sometimes though, like it's so ridiculous. 290 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: We oh, I felt better about this Jessica Chastain sidebar. 291 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: When I was in New York, I had a night free, 292 00:13:58,080 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 2: so I got to go into the city and I 293 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 2: saw her in a doll's house. Holy. I have loved 294 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 2: Jessica Chastain ever since I saw her in Molly's Game Again. 295 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 2: Everything goes back to gambling for me. The story of 296 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: Molly Bloom incredible. Her performance was and I don't know 297 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: why Jessica Chastain doesn't get more credit from the actress 298 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 2: that she is. 299 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: She's phenomenal. Anyway, I didn't know much. 300 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: About you obsessed, Like Julia is my number one Julia Roberts. 301 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 2: You know, she's on a pedestal untouchable. It's like the 302 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: Michael Jordan but like the one A is Jessica Chastain. 303 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 2: She is. 304 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: It put her in any situation and the way her 305 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: performance in this play was unreal. But anyways, she was saying, 306 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: and this makes me feel better. 307 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: She's like Juliard trained, like very like sophisticated. They had 308 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: asked her. I think it was on Everything comes back 309 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: to the Today Show. Apparently Today, Today, Tomorrow and yesterday. 310 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: They had said, like, well, how do you get away? 311 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 2: You play these like very emotional roles and like they're 312 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: so heavy, Like what do you do to get away 313 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: from it? She's like, I love Bravo, and like that's 314 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 2: what makes me feel better because sometimes in like our life, 315 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: when we're just dealing with like heavy shit, whether it's 316 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 2: stuff we've went through anything professionally, sometimes it's nice to 317 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: just be like, give me a good fucking scandalal situation. 318 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: Not an expense of Arianna, but give me something like 319 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: that to escape my fists and then also be like, 320 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 2: you know what, our life is pretty good it is 321 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 2: now anyways, go down. Jared's never watched the show. I 322 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: mean he's seen snippets. He knows Jack's has been at 323 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: King's games before, like stuff like that. But I made 324 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: him watch the one episode where it all came out 325 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 2: and shit hit the fan. I'm like, you gotta wash this. 326 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 2: He had never seen it before, and you know, he 327 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: was like, this is so sad, like the comment she made, 328 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 2: I would have followed you anywhere. Oh that was so sad. 329 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 2: We were walking the dog later on that night and 330 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 2: we were just he just sat out loud, babe, if 331 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: you're ever unhappy like that with me, will you just 332 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 2: tell me? And I know he communications the best, and 333 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: he goes, it's like Sheena said, He's like quoting it 334 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: like Maya Angela. He goes, it's like Shena said, I mean, 335 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 2: do you even know? She right up there? Martin Luther 336 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 2: King Junior, JFK By Angelo and Sheena Jarrett what a cutie. 337 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: You know what? 338 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: Where's Charie Rachel did? Oh you're real crying, real tears. 339 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's too funny. 340 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what's not funny doctor stuff. We both 341 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 2: have a few doctor stories to tell. Now. I will 342 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: preface this by saying, I love my caregivers. I love 343 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: my general practitioner, I love my n that you're right, 344 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 2: you're I love my bed handholder. But I do help 345 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: up to my. 346 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: God. 347 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: Speaking of that, so I will I know you have 348 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: a story. I was trying to be really proactive. My 349 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: dad in twenty twenty before COVID had a massive heart attack. 350 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: My dad is so healthy. He's a vegetarian, he works 351 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 2: out every single day. We found out my dad had 352 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 2: coronary artery disease, had no clue of it. Unfortunately, it's genetic. 353 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 2: So I really want to stay on top of it. 354 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 2: And I just went and had a full physical last week. 355 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: Did the blood, did all the things, did an ekg. 356 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 2: I'm just proud of you for doing you. I just 357 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 2: went and everything came back great. I just went to 358 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 2: an imaging center this morning to go actually see my arteries, 359 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: how my arteries are doing. Because my dad before he 360 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 2: had his heart attack, coincidentally, he went to the doctor 361 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: and they were like, your cholesterol is great. Boom. He 362 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 2: suffers from this, so I wanted to see if there 363 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 2: was any blockages, right, and if there are, you go 364 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 2: on medication. Blah blah blah. It's genetic. I want to 365 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 2: like make sure we're good. So I go today and 366 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: the two things about the test five minutes long. It's 367 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: in a really really nice building. But as you know, 368 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 2: everything here in La takes forty five minutes to an 369 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 2: hour and a half to get to so there was 370 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 2: some time. You can't drink coffee before, which was real bummer, 371 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 2: and you can't work out, so I'm like in a 372 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 2: mood and need caffeine. I get there, show up five 373 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: minutes great, so excited to get coffee afterwards. Call my dad, 374 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 2: call my sister, tell my husband. I'm like, this place 375 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: was awesome. I highly recommend it. Super clean, great, easy, 376 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: five minutes. Good to go. Running some errands earlier. All 377 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 2: of a sudden, I get a call from the imaging center. Hey, 378 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 2: so the doctor wanted me to call you. We need 379 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: you to come back today for further images. I'm like, 380 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: talk about like heart stop, I start getting chest pains. 381 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 2: I go, I'm out of red light. I'm driving by 382 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 2: the way, and I said, can I ask why we 383 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 2: need you to come in right now today for images, 384 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: and I'm like, holy shit, my dad's gonna shit. This 385 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 2: is really bad. So I just said, can I speak 386 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 2: to someone asaph? Yeah, hold on, hold five second. I 387 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 2: can't feel my arms, I can't feel my legs. I'm 388 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: testing my deodorant. It's a thing. Yeah, she's busy. We're 389 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 2: going to call you back. Red light. I could have 390 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: been arrested for texting at the red light. I text 391 00:18:59,920 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 2: my doctor. I'm like, hey, apparently, can you get in 392 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 2: on this? Yep, fine, in on it. Supervisor calls me back. 393 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 2: I'm hello, Hi, Yes, I just came in. You guys 394 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 2: need more? Am I? Okay? Do you need my doctor? Now? 395 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: You think you're dying at this point? 396 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 2: Dying? I'm so glad I did not call my dad, 397 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 2: my dad saying final goodbyes. Yeah, I'm the worst case. 398 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 2: Ye right, forget having like coffee or working out to 399 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 2: get your heart rate up. Just call me and say 400 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 2: you need extra imaging and come right now. So, sorry 401 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 2: to bother you. Our computer accidentally erased your images. We 402 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 2: just need to take some new ones. So why don't 403 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 2: we just say that on the phone when we call 404 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 2: you the first time? Well, I mean, obviously I'm not 405 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 2: into the although I'd love a picture retake day in elementary, 406 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: in this particular case, I do not love a retake. 407 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 2: But why don't we say that on the phone so 408 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 2: you're not having a heart attack, that your arteries are fine, 409 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 2: but they cause the heart attack with this. 410 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:54,919 Speaker 1: See Okay? 411 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 2: Well good, because so Erin and I have a thing 412 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 2: on Monday when we record our podcast, I try not 413 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 2: to talk to you ahead of time because I want 414 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,160 Speaker 2: first reaction results. Everything that happened. I was late getting 415 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 2: on because my freaking computer I needed updates seven hundred. 416 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: And fifty five for Chrome. We know how that happens. 417 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 2: But I got on and I had said, like, oh, 418 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: I just got a call from the fertility clinic. Same 419 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 2: kind of thing so I have, which will be a 420 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: story for another day. It's too long to get into 421 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 2: now Teas and the biz. I had an appointment at 422 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 2: the fertility clinic to do some stuff. 423 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: Me we get it. 424 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, they called, They're supposed to. I'm so I called back. 425 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 2: Today I leave my yoga class, I'm all zen, I'm like, 426 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 2: you know what I'm going to go through my to 427 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 2: do exactly. I'm feeling great, I'm like, so productive. Now, mistake, 428 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 2: no mistake, Yeah, let me go down, let me see. 429 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: Oh that's right, I said I need to call and 430 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: follow up on that. So I called and I'm like, kai, yeah, 431 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 2: I was supposed to get a call from the nurse 432 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 2: giving the results of the test that was done last week. 433 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 2: And she goes like this, hold on, you know what 434 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 2: should date of birth comes back on after the five 435 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 2: minute hold and that causes anxiety. It does wait for 436 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 2: any sort of results. I don't care if I wasn't 437 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 2: tested for some life threatening disease. I've diagnosed myself with it, 438 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 2: So get on and tell me. I'm fine. 439 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 1: This one's in a deep dive Google. 440 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 2: I'm not as hysterical with that kind of stuff, but 441 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 2: she's making me feel like I should be sometimes. 442 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there, la la la. She comes back on. 443 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: She's like, ooh, actually we're gonna have to have the 444 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 2: nurse call you. 445 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: Oh what do you mean. 446 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's a Larry David episode like ooh like 447 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 2: she's not here or ooh, you're never going to have 448 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 2: a kid, Like what's that? You very different as this exactly, 449 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, can you just give me an 450 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 2: idea of what this is about. 451 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 1: She's like, no, it's also this. Oh yeah, what's the team? Yeah, 452 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: so she's just the nurse. 453 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 2: So the nurse is going to have to explain explain 454 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 2: that's also the the nurse is going to. 455 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:53,880 Speaker 1: Have to explain this to you. 456 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 2: Well, who are you the operator? Who? 457 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: Because what I mean, my good I didn't. 458 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 2: Press zero for the front desk, actually pressed the rate 459 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 2: to talk to a nurse and you're answering the phone line. 460 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 2: Can you shift me over to room service because I'd 461 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 2: like to order something there too? 462 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: What hotline is this? And they call it a triage system. 463 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 2: I don't need to tell you about the freaking nine 464 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 2: hundred times that you've had to wait online there. Oh yeah, you've. 465 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: Implemented a trioch. 466 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 2: I need to hate the music. I hate them, hate 467 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 2: them that make me anyways, So I'm sitting here, I 468 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: don't have an answer. The nurse is still trying to 469 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 2: call me, no miss calls from that, and I don't know, 470 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 2: so uh yeah, let's let's not have the uh uh results. 471 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 2: Give me an indication. Just tell me right now if 472 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 2: this is going to be a great day or a 473 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,360 Speaker 2: really shitty day. Because I'd like to deal with it. 474 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: Some things you never do. Breathe through your teeth, do 475 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 2: the ooh, and uh, you need to come in right 476 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 2: away for new results. Let me get the supervisor on 477 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: the phone and put you on a five minute hold 478 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: and then have them call you back. Hey, guys, it 479 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 2: can't be this hard. We went to school for our jobs. 480 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 2: We're not saving lives over here. It can't be that hard. 481 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 2: Is it that hard? The only thing that's worse than 482 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 2: what I dealt with today and what you don't. 483 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:06,880 Speaker 1: Oh, there's a lot of things worse. 484 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be hysterical here, but what I'm 485 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: saying is, yeah, for all intentsive purposes of saying like 486 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 2: messages left by nurse is to actually leave a message 487 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 2: on my voicemail. Hi, this is the nurse from the 488 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:21,239 Speaker 2: California Fertility Partner place or insert here and say we 489 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: have a problem. Can you give us a call back? 490 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 2: A problem? And now you're closed on weekends? Oh yeah, 491 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 2: I gotta wait till Monday, and Monday is a holiday. 492 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 2: I got Tuesday. I got three days to sit on 493 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 2: this information, and no one is answering me. And there's 494 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 2: no late night hotline, no buck. So you know what's 495 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 2: happening that those four days. I'm either blown it out 496 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 2: thinking this is the end of my life or I'm 497 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 2: in a fetal position. We're not sure, but you know 498 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: it well, and we'll get to it at some point. 499 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 2: You go and meet your friends at Dan Tana's, get 500 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,239 Speaker 2: blackout drunk, and then decide to do other things, have 501 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 2: the spins and vomit at night. We'll get to that 502 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 2: one after the break. That is a story that will 503 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: definitely be told on this podcast, because when you're told 504 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 2: that you're gonna get really big reservation and they're not 505 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: giving it to you for another twenty four hours, well 506 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 2: that gives us a lot of time for some nonsense. 507 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 2: I'll tell you another time. No, we're not out of it. 508 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 2: This is another one. This isn't the fertility clinic that 509 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,479 Speaker 2: you and I go to, now, this is a former 510 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: one that I went to. Here's a real doozy as well. 511 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 2: And I wrote this when we were taking our little 512 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 2: hiatus from the podcast that I wanted to bring it up. 513 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,159 Speaker 2: I love the old You know, when you freeze your eggs, 514 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 2: you have storage fees, So I obviously had transferred everything 515 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 2: to a new fertility clinic. I'm getting the old thousand 516 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 2: dollars bill from the old clinic saying I still owe 517 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 2: them money, and I'm like, why, I don't have anything 518 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 2: there unless you're telling me I have something there and 519 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 2: you haven't told me. They have billed me three times, 520 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 2: and I've tried to call them and ask them, why 521 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 2: are you billing me? Do you still have I have 522 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 2: something of mine and you're not telling me about it, 523 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 2: not something of yours, the most important thing that you 524 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 2: could have in your entire life as a woman. Story exactly. Yeah, 525 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: this isn't the public storage with that. We're holding some 526 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 2: boxes from college. Oh no, miss, you're just on a 527 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 2: reoccurring payment and we forgot to take it off. Forgot 528 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 2: to take off the thousand dollars payment every time it's up. 529 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: It is crazy, what's going on? Bottom line? You have 530 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 2: to be your own advocate, well, or you have caretakers 531 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 2: like Aaron has, so her caretakers are making sure that 532 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 2: she's well tended to. 533 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: But no, you do. You do need to be your 534 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: own patient advocate. 535 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 2: But I'll say this and then put this conversation to 536 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 2: bed and yeah, pin and it dropped the pin. It's 537 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,959 Speaker 2: better than what I had, because I'm the asshole who 538 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: loses her fucking amex every other day. The woman at 539 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 2: the coffee shop today, not this one, this is the 540 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 2: green juice, but the coffee shop over here. Look that 541 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 2: has the condensation from the coffee from god knows what time. 542 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 2: Look at that condensation. Ah, he was a coaster. She 543 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 2: had to run out of the coffee place today giving 544 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 2: me my card because I had left it in the 545 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 2: little dul too. So I had my AMEX for the 546 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 2: reoccurring charges for freezing those bad boys, and thank god, 547 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 2: thank god, they actually left a message that didn't seem 548 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 2: like I was dying, and they're like, oh, I would 549 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 2: like to update your credit card. Can you imagine all 550 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 2: any of the eggs that I have are completely unthought 551 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,960 Speaker 2: because this girl's credit card. 552 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 1: I've had to hearing about that three am. 553 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 2: I got. Everybody that's done IVF has had fears, Oh 554 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 2: my god, if I paid for the storage fee abs 555 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,360 Speaker 2: of preaking lutely I've had those from three to four 556 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 2: am multiple times in my life, which is why I'm 557 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 2: getting my heart chat. 558 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'm really really proud of you to bring this back. 559 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 2: I am you. You have opened up my eyes with 560 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 2: so many different things health wise. I definitely procrastinate on 561 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 2: things like that and I should do them. So I'm 562 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 2: going to go do all the things you did too, 563 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 2: because there's nothing like being proactive. And we know from 564 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 2: different people in our lives how important that is to 565 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 2: get out in front of those things. We've got about 566 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 2: five minutes left and I just have to bring this 567 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 2: back real quick and end on a note of levity. 568 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 2: Erin before we got on here was like I burned 569 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,199 Speaker 2: my face from a curling eron video on TikTok. Please 570 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 2: explain what is going on right now? That doesn't look good, babe. Well, yeah, 571 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 2: it's not. So we all know. Back in the day 572 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: when we were curling our bangs and all that, I 573 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 2: would even curl the hair back here and burn myself 574 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 2: on the side of my head, on the top of 575 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 2: my forehead. Everyone would think it's a hickey. This, my friend, 576 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: is not a hickey. So my husband went to Europe 577 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 2: for the last week to work on hockey stuff. Came back, 578 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 2: but I went down the road of TikTok. I don't 579 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 2: have an account, I where has an account and all 580 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 2: those things. But I wouldn't know how to edit a 581 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 2: video if I went back to the University of Florida 582 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 2: Journalism college. Can't do it. Not happening, But it is 583 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 2: pretty interesting, and my girlfriend Lauren is like, I spend 584 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 2: hours on it, like it's crazy. Instead of television. I 585 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 2: just put in the search beachy waves because I do 586 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,239 Speaker 2: my own hair on the road, and I was like, 587 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 2: I gotta get rid of this hairdo, Like what am 588 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 2: I doing on the sideline? 589 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: So we got hair, amazing hair do. 590 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 2: Okay, you do have some curly tendrils. She'd like to 591 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: talk about that, a cascading like mine down the my face. 592 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 1: I tried. 593 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: And my hair girl, hate Kylie, who does my hair 594 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: for a lot of shoots. She doesn't travel with me 595 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 2: because I'm a diva and a bitch. No, that just 596 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 2: sounded crazy. She I do my own hair for games 597 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 2: and features, and so I was like, I got to 598 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: try something else. So I was looking at all these 599 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: young girls and their tutorials and all the things, and 600 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 2: the twist, the twist, the twists. We yesterday we went 601 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 2: to go run some errands and I was like, I'm 602 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 2: gonna do this beachy wave thing for Jared WHOA got 603 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 2: really too excited burn the crop out of my face. 604 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 2: When I did it, I didn't think it would leave 605 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 2: a mark. We were having lunch and Jared goes, how's 606 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 2: that burn on your face doing? I'm like, it's really hot, 607 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 2: Like remember when you did this shit in high school? Yeah? No, 608 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 2: I did it actually at a very inopportunity time in 609 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 2: my life. And I can't mention it because of an NBA, 610 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 2: but it was on my That should have been my 611 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 2: first thought to run from the thing I had to 612 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 2: go to because I got a huge, massive burd mark 613 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 2: on my neck. But yeah, look like a hickey. I 614 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 2: need to go back to this. You're adorable. Did you 615 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 2: just say you wanted to do your hair for Charrett 616 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 2: before you went to run errands. Well, we went to 617 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 2: run errands and have an afternoon lunch. 618 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: Okay, you're so cute. So I gotta tell you this. 619 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 2: I fully got ready today after yoga, I put on 620 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 2: I dried my hair. 621 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: I didn't do a beechy wave. I use that con 622 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: air thing right now. 623 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 2: I have my extension back in And if anyone hasn't 624 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 2: used this before, I didn't learn this off TikTok. I 625 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: just use that con air thing that's like a it's 626 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,479 Speaker 2: like a blow drive. It's probably from like the eighties, 627 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 2: but it works great. Fully got ready and put makeup on, 628 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 2: and I was like running around town like just you know, 629 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 2: doing different things, calling the Fertility of clinic, and I'm like, 630 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,360 Speaker 2: why am I fully ready? I'm not going in anywhere 631 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: after this. I'm not doing anything. I'm doing a podcast. 632 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 2: I feel like that sometimes. 633 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: Well that was just it. 634 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 2: I was like, you need to not be in workout 635 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 2: clothes after your workout and like make it empty and 636 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: put some saddy exactly. 637 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: But then this is what I do. 638 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 2: I come right back home and throw my hair up 639 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 2: and throw a T shirt on, and I need to 640 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: make more of an effort. But you're adorable for doing that. 641 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 2: And the TikTok conversation is not over because I need 642 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 2: to know what the whole hysteria. It's probably better off 643 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 2: that I'm not on it. It is because I don't 644 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 2: want to. I ended up the other day watching a 645 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 2: Kristin Cavalry makeup tutorial. No offense against Kristin, but on 646 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 2: this is on Instagram. Why do I care what color 647 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 2: lipliner you're using? Kristin I don't. I don't give two 648 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 2: shits what color lipliner and you're using. That's an Instagram situation. 649 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 2: So if you give me TikTok and beachy waves, I'm 650 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 2: going to be there all day the things I can 651 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 2: find on TikTok and I feel like my parents who 652 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 2: are just discovering their phones and like YouTube and all 653 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 2: this stuff. I mean, what the kids have on leash 654 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 2: on TikTok is ray. So I obviously was trying for 655 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 2: a beachy wave that, as you can tell, went so, well, 656 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 2: how am they treating this? Can we put a neo 657 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 2: scorin on this or what are we doing? Don't touch it? 658 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 2: I know it's bad, So that's happening. There are makeup tutorials. 659 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 2: I have tried new skims products because of it. But 660 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 2: let me tell you the biggest thing I've searched on 661 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 2: this thing and I don't even know how this ended 662 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 2: up on my damn feed. Maybe because they know I'm psycho. 663 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 2: I've always had a bit of a crime murder investigation. 664 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 2: You're a very big dateline kind of gal, but yep, 665 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 2: I can't follow with dateline unless I start from the beginning. 666 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 2: But all of a sudden things have started to come 667 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 2: on my feed, like the story in New Mexico of 668 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 2: the nineteen year old that claims she was a virgin 669 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 2: but all of a sudden gave birth in the hospital 670 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 2: and then tied the newborn up in a waste paper 671 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: can and then she's I mean. Jared came home from 672 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 2: Europe and he goes, hey, what have you been up 673 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 2: to watch anything? And I was like, yeah, yeah, this 674 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 2: crime thing on TikTok, I said, I've got all the 675 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 2: footage from the depositions, from the housekeeper who found the baby, 676 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 2: to the doctor, to the mother who like, wasn't even 677 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 2: a national baby dare. 678 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: Or just on TikTok. Yes, what am I missing here? 679 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 2: Today? I was driving home before I got the notification 680 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 2: that I needed more hard tests, obviously telling my mom, Mom, 681 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,479 Speaker 2: did you know about this story in New Mexico? I 682 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 2: saw it on TikTok. My mom was like, what are 683 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 2: you talking about? Then I found out this other story 684 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 2: about a twelve year old that had stabbed her six 685 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 2: year old brother. Like I'm watching nine footage all on 686 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 2: TikTok from me making cupcakes, beach waves and murder lions 687 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 2: and tigers and bears sounds like an afternoon well, it 688 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 2: sounds like you know what Ttorial and speaking of makeup 689 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 2: have about me texting Carson yesterday from makeup. 690 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: I said, hey, would you mind sending me the makeup 691 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 1: that you like? 692 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 2: This is the adorable twelve year old Yeah, who sends 693 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 2: me a text this long? 694 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: God bless her of all of the products, because I'm 695 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: sure you have a good mass scara. But I also 696 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: suggest this one. 697 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: I said, this is so helpful by the way, me 698 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,959 Speaker 2: going online guest or immediately talk carsas we're gonna make 699 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 2: a cartle thing for her. She's twelve, she speaks like 700 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 2: a thirty five year old because she learns from TikTok. 701 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 2: She asked me about my skincare routine when I was 702 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 2: in the Bahamas with her a couple months ago. I said, 703 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 2: exqueeze me my skincare routine. What are you talking about? 704 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 2: She's so cute I can't handle. Well, maybe you turn 705 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: to her next time for beach waves and you keep 706 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 2: the TikTok out of your hand, in the curling iron 707 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 2: out of your life because this needs a rake. We're 708 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 2: kind of tips. 709 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 1: Did she give you hold on? Oh my leave no 710 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: kind of tips. 711 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: This is let me just give you a quick little 712 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 2: snippet to get a nice tan look for the daytime, 713 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 2: but also needs forty SPF. Is the glow screen. You 714 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 2: have many shades, but I prefer the Golden Hour shade. 715 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 2: She's twelve. Last, but not least for lip gloss. I 716 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 2: add absolutely all caps love the door lip oil in 717 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 2: shade pink or universal clear. She's twelve. Your e KG 718 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 2: is clear, but my brain scan isn't because my mind 719 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 2: was blown after that text message. Look at this little 720 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,440 Speaker 2: cutie full on tips and tricks. Who need to tell 721 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 2: when you want? Carson Phipps, Yeah, tell everyone what she 722 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,919 Speaker 2: said when you said where are you going? When at 723 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 2: the race and she goes where she was headed to? Oh, 724 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 2: oh yeah, I go, I go? Where are you going 725 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 2: right now? She goes, Oh, the Winter Circle. Why wouldn't 726 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 2: you be get to the Winter Circle and meet you there? 727 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 2: Because I don't want to be anywhere else. Because you 728 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 2: are a winner. Carson Jenna Antonucci, we love you, congratulations 729 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 2: on an incredible victory and shoulder to shoulder into the 730 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 2: all sit at your table anytime, Dora send. 731 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 1: They'll singing grateful chorus. 732 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 2: Well done, miss Suffragette K. 733 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: By the way, I got seventy five more things I 734 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: want to talk about. We'll say this for next week. 735 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 2: Love you guys, Thanks for the questions, comments and concern. Aaron, 736 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,240 Speaker 2: take that TikTok app off your phone and take that hand. 737 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: Off that face. 738 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,400 Speaker 2: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 739 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 2: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 740 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts.