1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: My creep brother in law professed his love for me 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: at my wedding to his brother. So I took revenge 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 1: in the best way possible. 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 2: Wow, pretty dramatic. 5 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: It is draumatic, but a lot is at stake. There's 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: a wedding, there's a wedding. It's a low. 7 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 2: He's trying to ruin it. 8 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: There was love in the air, but he's trying to 9 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: create despair. Don't go there because you might or beware, 10 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: Oh and beware nice, thank you all right? Poetry by 11 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: Sam and Sophia. Also, my sister's on the show. Hello, 12 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: she's on the show. She has a heart monitor, she's 13 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: ready to have her heart broken. Just can't be nice 14 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: to her. Okay. So I think I have done serious 15 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: damage to my marriage before it even began. Yikes. 16 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 2: Oh. 17 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: I met my husband through his brother, Chris, who I 18 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: had a crush on in college. I never was clinging 19 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: or never acted on my feelings, and I never really 20 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: allowed myself to get too close to him because I 21 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: knew my feelings weren't reciprocated. Chris knew, however, I had 22 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: a crush on him, at least he felt it. He 23 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: always would say that I was girlfriend and how he 24 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to lead me on, he wanted to have 25 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: fun before that. He would say this to others, but 26 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: even once. 27 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: To me he was stringing her along. 28 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: Sounds like a greade, a douche. Yeah. 29 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 2: Al. 30 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: On two occasions he would text me that he had 31 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: feelings for me, only to apologize later and retract his words. 32 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: But on Christmas four years ago, he texted me that 33 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: he was in love with me and wanted to take 34 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: me out on a date. 35 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god, unbelievable. This man. 36 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: He said he was done playing around and wanted a relationship. 37 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: He was invited to a New Year's Eve party that 38 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: my then roommate and I had. He told me he 39 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: wanted to talk to me. Then when he came to 40 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: the party, he had his brother with him. Chris spent 41 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: the party going out of his way to ignore me, 42 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: and later I saw him making out with my roommate 43 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 1: and they spent the night in her room. 44 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's awful. 45 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: So much for the confession of love. 46 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 2: I know he's a liar and on New Year's. 47 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: Eve with their roommate and with their roommate also does 48 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: it the roommate know that. 49 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 3: Doesn't she know? Anything about what's I mean. Maybe she doesn't, 50 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 3: maybe she's totally innocent, but the. 51 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: Fact that I mean, I mean, well, they invited him 52 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: to the New year'sy party, so yeah, I don't know, 53 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 1: but a little sketchy on the roommate party. Chris is 54 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: definitely a. 55 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 2: Maybe totally innocent, but Chris isn't the wrong anyway. 56 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: I decided there and then that I would drop it. 57 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: Enough was enough. Next morning he told me that he 58 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: fucked up and apologized, and during the party I got 59 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 1: to know his brother, who is the complete opposite of Chris, 60 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: which is a very good thing because no one wants 61 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: to be wants another Chris. No one wants another Chris. 62 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: We don't mean more Chris is in her life. Anti Chris, 63 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: Anti Chris. Delete Chris from your life. If you have 64 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: a Chris in your life, you know who he is 65 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: or she is. Control all deleites. 66 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: Get him out Christmas. 67 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Chris, miss because you're going to miss Chris exactly 68 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: on Christmas. You're gonna want to miss him, not miss him, 69 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 1: you want to like you want to miss him from 70 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: your life. It was like like avoid him. Yeah. He 71 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: was shy and hated attention and he was just the 72 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: and soon after he asked me on a date. A 73 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: guess what what? We are married now? 74 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: What's all? 75 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: Our wedding was last Wednesday? 76 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 2: That's so soon? 77 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: Well that last Wednesday? Oh yeah, so it was? It was, 78 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: I guess it was soon. From the time of the post, 79 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: it was soon in the past. I want to make 80 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: two things clear. I never went beyond a crush on Chris, 81 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: and it was only after I fell for my husband 82 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: that I understood what love is. He is everything to 83 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: me and I love him more than anything. I never 84 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: told anyone about my crush, and when I met my husband, 85 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: I didn't tell him either. Chris wasn't happy I was 86 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: seeing his brother, and he's been called towards me ever since, 87 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: even when it got serious between my husband and I. 88 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: Oh well, that actually clears the roommate. If she never 89 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 3: told anyone about her crush. 90 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: That does that does so Chris is the only douchebag. Yep. 91 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: So Chris held a speech on our rehearsal dinner and 92 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: he basically outed everything and ended with how he regretted 93 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: not asking me out sooner and how he will always 94 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: regret it. 95 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, Chris is just stringing everyone along. I object, 96 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 3: except he's not Shrek. 97 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 4: He's Lord Parkwad Yeah, Lord fark Quad Oh get him 98 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 4: burn like like the goneriea you should get from sleeping 99 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 4: around Chris. 100 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if he is sleeping around. 101 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: Well, I'm assuming he's a d bag and sleeping around 102 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: and he has goneriea and a wiener fall off. No, Chris, 103 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: that's what they call him. 104 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: That's the Chris that we see. 105 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: It was very awkward afterwards, and nobody talked, and on 106 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: our wedding day, my husband did everything to act normal 107 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: and he made sure everything was as planned, but I 108 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: could feel that he was hurt and angry. After the party, 109 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: he asked me if I loved Chris and if I 110 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: dated him for that reason. I started crying because it's 111 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: absolutely not true. We started dating and became friends, and 112 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: I made sure it was him I wanted before committing, 113 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,239 Speaker 1: and I never loved anyone like I love my husband. 114 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 1: I told him all this and more, and I apologize 115 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 1: so much for not telling him everything in the beginning. 116 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: I thought it was my own private and it didn't 117 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 1: feel like there was a need to discuss it with 118 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: a then stranger to me what a relationship evolved. I 119 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: just never thought Chris was relevant, and my crush seemed 120 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: like a silly thing. 121 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that doesn't seem like it's like you need to 122 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 2: bring it up. 123 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: I sound like they didn't date, they didn't kiss. 124 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, he like her brother, his brother stronger along and 125 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: that's it. 126 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: Like Sophia had a crush on Tom Holland. Are you 127 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: going to tell your future husband, Hey, there's something I 128 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,679 Speaker 1: need to get off my chest. I have a crush 129 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: on Tom Holland. 130 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh it's a current crush. 131 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, a past crush, A current crush? Is the 132 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: crush still going? 133 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I respect him as a person. He 134 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: seems like a cool guy. 135 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: Oh right, right, because he's in a relationship. In a relationship, 136 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: all right, But if he was single, would you be like, Yo, Tom, 137 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: Tommy call me? 138 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: But I call Tom Holland? 139 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: Would Tom Holland call you? Do you have him called me? 140 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: Tom? Would I have Tom Holland call me? How would 141 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: I have Tom? 142 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: He sees this video Sophia looking pretty cute, then they 143 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: you know, thanks. 144 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: I would never get between them. They're perfect each other. 145 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: Say, Sophia is is too nice, She's not. She's the Antichrist, 146 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: the anti Chris between Yeah, exactly. Now it's back to 147 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: bite me in the butt. My husband is very sad, 148 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: and he barely talks to me. We're leaving for a 149 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: honeymoon in two weeks. He barely speaks about it, the 150 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: thing we both waited for with so much anticipation and longing. 151 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I can't turn back time, 152 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: so I just don't know what to do. And Sophia, 153 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: there is an update we're gonna get into in a second. 154 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: But what do you think Opie should do? 155 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: I think Opie should get a divorce. 156 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: So always say you're always saying divorce. Chris seems like 157 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: a nice guy. 158 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 2: No, it's not Chris. Chris is sorry. 159 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: Chris Brother seems like a nice guy. Opie's husband, Opie's 160 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: husband seems like a nice guy. 161 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 3: He maybe not divorce, but he should get in trouble 162 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 3: because he like immediately was like, oh do you love 163 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 3: my brother? When she's made no, like she has not 164 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 3: shown any signs of not loving him, and he just 165 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: immediately like believed Chris over her. 166 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: It's pretty buttthole thing to do. 167 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: It's a pretty but whole thing to do, but put your. 168 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: Answers in the comments. What do you think OP should do? 169 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:05,239 Speaker 2: Divorce? 170 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: Now we're going to go into the update. 171 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 2: Did they get divorced? 172 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: So yesterday my husband and I were invited to my 173 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: in laws for a cookout. When we arrived, Chris saw 174 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: us and tried to scraper. I don't know what that means. Well, 175 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: nobody scar skirt escaper escape, I don't know. I think well, 176 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: nobody expected us to show up, and my husband wanted 177 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: to decline, but I insisted that we go. I caught Chris, however, 178 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: and loudly said, oh, I'm happy you are here because 179 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you. 180 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 2: Oh my, she's very competational. 181 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: I told Chris that what he did was a ditty 182 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: thing to do, and it didn't just hurt me, but 183 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: it hurt his brother even more, and that the only 184 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: reason I didn't speak up was because I was in shock, 185 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: but also didn't want to ruin our day by arguing 186 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: back and forth with an arrogant and selfish man who 187 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: always hid behind alcohol to explain his bad behaviors, like 188 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: he's some kind of tween. 189 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: Wow, she really went ran in also. 190 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: I mean like I didn't start drinking until I was 191 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: like eighteen. Yeah, drinking as a tween. 192 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, thats a problem. 193 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: But I guess like a drunk tween is like the 194 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: worst thing to be. So that's what you are, Chris. 195 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: You're a drunk tween. You have a drinking problem. Chris. 196 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: I told him that the only good thing about him 197 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: in my eyes, the only redeeming quality, is that he 198 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: decided to bring his brother with him that night. And 199 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: even if I was very angry with him now, I 200 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: will always be thankful to him, and I always will 201 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: be grateful that I crossed paths with him because it 202 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: led me to someone better. My husband. Yeah he did. 203 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: Do you. 204 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: Just mumble that he had so weird to go left? 205 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 2: Of course he did. He's probably drunk. 206 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: E coology, nothing, nothing, I'll be drunk. 207 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 2: I'll be drunk and a tween. 208 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, drunk tween past your bedtime, drunk queen. When we 209 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: got home, my husband, who's been sleeping in the living 210 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: room almost every night, hugged me and kissed me. 211 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 2: Unbelievable sleep in the living room. 212 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: You should come talk about it. 213 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't like, oh you like that was kind 214 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 3: of awful of my brother to do obviously, I believe you. 215 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I mean also, like I think both of 216 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: them just talk about it. Yeah, you should address the 217 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: elephants in the room. What happened? Yeah, I mean I 218 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: guess Op tried to do that. 219 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he didn't listener. He was like, oh, 220 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm going to sleep in the living room. 221 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: He hugged me and he kissed me, and it was 222 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: the first time he kissed me since the idea divorce, 223 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: divorce chan divorce. I felt my anger building up again 224 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: and I had another outburst. I told him that we 225 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: weren't okay and that he never has the right to 226 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: shut me out and give me the silent treatment for 227 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: so long. Ever again, if you wanted to stay married 228 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: to me, he needs to know that that's not good, 229 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: he said, I know, and that he regretted his coldness. 230 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: Too little, too late, a little too too late. Yeah. 231 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: I like Op though, Yeah. 232 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 2: Speak Yeah. 233 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: So this morning my husband woke me up with kisses 234 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: and hugs and apologized for hurting me and taking his 235 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: anger out on me. He said the shock was too 236 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: great for him and he was afraid that I didn't 237 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: love him and just settle for him because Chris is 238 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: the charmer and always had it easy to be loved 239 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: by people. 240 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: He sounds a little insecure. 241 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just insecure. Yeah, but he thought something more happened, 242 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: and he didn't dare ask because he wasn't mentally prepared 243 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: here that the love of his life maybe wasn't his. 244 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: He didn't dare ask. 245 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: Slacks this guy. We discussed therapy and we are planning 246 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: to start looking for a therapist after a honeymoon. But 247 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: for now, I just wanted to snuggle next to him 248 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: and feel his love. Is that euphanism? You want to 249 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: feel his love inside me, swell up inside me, fill 250 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: me with his love. He has a lot of making 251 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: up to do, so true, So I mean I want 252 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: to know from everyone in the comments, like what would 253 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: you do if you got the silent treatment from your 254 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: husband for like weeks after your marriage? Yeah, like almost 255 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 1: like two weeks. 256 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: Unbelievable. 257 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: That's a lot of silent treatment. 258 00:10:58,640 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 2: That's a lot of si. 259 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 1: But he was I mean he was hurt. 260 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 3: Though, Yeah, but like did hurt to hurt to talk 261 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 3: like he says that he didn't want. 262 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: To talk to her about it. That's crazy. 263 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: Well, I think I think where Opie's husband went wrong. 264 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: It's like you should talk, You should talk about it. 265 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: You shouldn't fear the worst. Yeah, you know, because then 266 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: you're just creating into like something that didn't happen. Exactly 267 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: what do you think op should do? Do you want 268 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: to follow Sophia's path of divorce instantly? And also, like, 269 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: I want to hear your crush stories before your significant other, Like, 270 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: does anyone have any weird crush stories that didn't come 271 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: to fruition? Any any story of people having crushes on you. 272 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: I want to hear your crush stories, and the people 273 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: that have had crushes on you put your answers in 274 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 1: the comments. I want to hear them all. And you're 275 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: allowed to have crushes on Sofia Rye. I have a 276 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: crush on a podcast host that is called okop. My 277 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: wife hates my thermostat temperature, so we might get a divorce, 278 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: but I've got a trick up my sleeve. 279 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 3: Oh that's pretty cold, silly burr. 280 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 1: Welcome my sister, Bobe, my wife twenty six months my 281 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: life and I twenty eight male have been married for 282 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: about half a year now, not long six months, you 283 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: can say six months, six months you don't have to 284 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: round up the like a you know year doing it boy. 285 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 2: Years candleful year. Yeah, that's six months. 286 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: When you have a baby. What you say? You say 287 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: six months? 288 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 2: I say nine months. 289 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: So we lived together in an apartment before getting married, 290 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: and now we live in a house I inherited from 291 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: my grandma. This summer has been quite hot, and so, 292 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: like most people, we've been running our air conditioning nearly 293 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: around the clock. Hashtag thanks global warming and. 294 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 4: Obama and Obama, Obama, Thanks Obama. 295 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: My wife and I have very different ideas of how 296 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: it should run, though, using Energy Saver recommendations, I like 297 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: to keep it around seventy six fahrenheit and on low. 298 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: My wife likes to turn it to sixty degrees and 299 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: blast it on the highest setting, then turn it off 300 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: when she gets old, then turn it back on when 301 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: she gets hot. 302 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 2: M that's a little chilly for me. I gotta be honest. 303 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: Sixty degrees is crazy, but kind of like seventy six 304 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: is on the upper end of what I'd be comfortable with. 305 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair. I mean, do you run a little 306 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: bit cold? I suppose what's. 307 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: Your ideal thermostat? 308 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. I like probably around like a seventy. 309 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: Two seventy two is eight respectable. I think I'm seventy 310 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: two to seventy two two. I've tried discussing this with her, 311 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: but there's literally nothing I can do or say to 312 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: convince her. She currently stays at home taking care of 313 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: the house while I go to work, and the second 314 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm out the door, the thermostat is messed with. 315 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: Wait, what is she taking care of the thermostat? She's 316 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 2: just taking care of the thermostat. 317 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, And she's like taking care of the 318 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: house under employment. 319 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 2: She just has thermist at. 320 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: I've tried showing her our exorbitantly expensive Powerville from May 321 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: of all months, so it is only going to go 322 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: up so like June, July, August. That's doubling. But she 323 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: doesn't care. She was like, I want my thermostat at sixty. 324 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: I don't care if it costs six thousand dollars. 325 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's managing the home. 326 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I control the thermostat. That is my job in 327 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: this relationship. 328 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:10,959 Speaker 2: That's her one job. 329 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: So you're gonna take this job away from me? No, 330 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: She says that she's at home all day, so she 331 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: should have control over it. 332 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 2: That's you know, that's true. 333 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: That is true. That is true, that's true. We've argued 334 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: about this on and off. In about three weeks ago, 335 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: I got a reservation for a new digital thermostat installation. 336 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: The guys finally came in a few days ago and 337 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: installed a new smart thermostat off our older air conditioning unit. 338 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: The first thing I did was what do you think? 339 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: The first thing he did was installed a password to protect, 340 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: so you would need a pin to change any of 341 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: the set. 342 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 2: The child locked it. 343 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,239 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a good look to childlock 344 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: things from your wife. 345 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 3: Your wife of six months, whose job is the thermostat. 346 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: My wife came home a few hours after she huh 347 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: where was she? She was not taking care of the 348 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: house or the thermostat. I feel this is coming off misogynist. 349 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: My wife came home a few hours after I had 350 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: set the pin and noticed the new unit. When she 351 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: tried to change the settings, she was met with a 352 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: request for a pin, and she asked me what it was. 353 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: I told her, I'm not going to tell you that. 354 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: How about no? Then she asked what she should do 355 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: if she gets hot. I responded that she can still 356 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: turn the air conditioning on and off without the pin. 357 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 2: Okay, just can't control the temperature. That's crazy. 358 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: The next morning I left her work as normal, setting 359 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: it to seventy six, a scorching seventy six. At least 360 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: said it to seventy three or seventy yeah sixte a 361 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: little minch. 362 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 3: They needed some sort of There was not a like, 363 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 3: there's not a single ounce of what's the word, what's 364 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 3: what word? 365 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: It's just the sea air conditioning. 366 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: Like they're trying to meet in the. 367 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: Middle, compromise, try to meet in the middle conditioning. So 368 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: when I got home in the afternoon, I found my 369 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: wife on the room for pantomiming a fainting spell. I 370 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: have fallen and I cannot get up. She mustered the 371 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: energy to say, help what. I ignored her? This has 372 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: been such He's awful. Even if my wife was faking fainting, 373 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Sophia is faked fainting so much time. 374 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: I have a heart monitor. 375 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 1: I'll have you know. 376 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: That's not a joke. 377 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: So I ignored her because you faint from heat, not in 378 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: a climate controlled room. When she realized I wouldn't give 379 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: her attention, she exploded in anger and yelled that she 380 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: could have died, prompting another argument. Okay, I think that's 381 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: been a little dramatic. I think everyone's big dramatic in 382 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: this story right now. Yeah, I think they're both in 383 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: She ended it with calling me controlling and hasn't said 384 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: more than a word to me since things have been 385 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: rough for the past couple of days. I feel like 386 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: what I did was completely justified. But was I an 387 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: asshole in this? I want to know what y'all think. 388 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments right now. We actually 389 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 1: also asked a question a while ago of what people's 390 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: ideal thermostat temperatures. I'll read some of those in a bit. 391 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: But Sophia, do you think op was an asshole? Do 392 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: you think the wife was an asshole? Do you think 393 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: everyone's an asshole? 394 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 2: I think everyone's an a hole. 395 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: Why? 396 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 3: Okay, One, the husband shouldn't be child locking the thermostat. 397 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: Not such. 398 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 2: My mom did that to me yesterday. No. 399 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 3: No, she left me in the tesla and put it 400 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 3: on dog mode. 401 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: I love my mom, and I love when she treats 402 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: me like an animal. 403 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 2: No. 404 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 3: But anyway, I think that he is in the wrong 405 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 3: because you need to communicate with your wife of six months. 406 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 3: But no, I think that they just aren't right for 407 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 3: each other. 408 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 1: I think that they're Sophia's like divorce. 409 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 3: I think they a divorced if that's their therapy. 410 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, before you're crying the divorce bells, maybe they 411 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: should just have a chat chat a compromise between sixty 412 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: and seventy, like thermostat at seventy two. 413 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: Seventy two, seventy like something. 414 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: OK. But what we want to do is we actually 415 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: asked you what your thermostat was set at. Last episodes. 416 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: We're going to read some of those right now. 417 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 2: Okay, the Moment of Truth. 418 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: So lovely and simply. Mica forty three eighty eight says, 419 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: thermostat is at sixty four. Lol. I pay my bills, 420 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: so I mean. 421 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 2: That's totally fair. That's a little chilly for me. 422 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: Saxy Baby four four eighty six says my thermostat is 423 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 1: at eighty because I'm poor. Well, ideally it would be 424 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: at seventy four. 425 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: That's fair. I don't have AC so I get I 426 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 2: get you. 427 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: Puffin Nuggins says thermostat is set to eighty two. Any 428 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 1: higher in my electricity bill would be five hundred dollars 429 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: a month. It's normally one hundred and fifty degrees in 430 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 1: the summer. Here, my goodness, Stay cool, y'all. You know 431 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: I want more. I want more thermostat stories about you 432 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: fighting for your life. Also, if if anyone passes out 433 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: a lot, I want to hear your passing out stories. 434 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, if anyone knows what's wrong, Yeah, me is passing out, 435 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 3: not a lot. 436 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: She doesn't know why. Diagnosed meno. I want all of 437 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: our internet doctors to come out of the woodworks. Anyway. 438 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: We love you so so much, like to the point 439 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 1: where both of our hearts are throbbing. Sophia is a 440 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: little less certain than mine, and we'll see you very soon.