1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Arlene and Philly. Arlene says, 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: I let my friend house sit for me while I 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: was gone to visit my son for a month. She 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: has the most irresponsible sixty four year old that I know. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: She had a party in my backyard on a weeknight 6 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: and the neighbors call the cops after she wouldn't turn 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: the music down. I got fined because it's my house. 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: My friend refuses to pay the fine, so I'm holding 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: all of her raggedy clothes and her liquor that she 10 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: left at my house. She says she's not responsible for 11 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: the fine. How do we resolve this mess? 12 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: I don't know how much to fine is, but if 13 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: them clothes is raggedy, it ain't worth much. And I 14 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 2: don't know how much liquor people leave at party. Doesn't 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: them got to be a couple of coners in some bottles, 16 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: but it ain't no fool of bottles left. 17 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 3: Why do you have a sixty four year old friends 18 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 3: that throw backyard. 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 4: Polished on a weeknight at old house a week thank 20 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 4: music glassing. I love it. 21 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 3: Too, that John sleep, you know. 22 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: But you know what though, here's the deal. Sometimes and 23 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 2: I have had to learn this myself. You have to 24 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: buy some people out your life. Yeah, and this is 25 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: a good time to pay the fine. 26 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: For her raggedy clothes. 27 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: Thank her, because if she don't see that she should 28 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 2: pay the fine off. Something she did in calls and 29 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 2: you weren't even there. That's not a friend or a 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 2: quality person that you need to be involved with. So 31 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 2: I would write off, I pay the fine and give 32 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: her her raggedy clothes. I'll keep the liquor and then 33 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: just tell her go on about her business. Well, I 34 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: got some look over there. Don't worry about that liquor. 35 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, she already says she's the most irresponsible sixty four year. 36 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: Old that she knows. It's like dealing with the kids. Steve. 37 00:01:59,240 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know. 38 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,279 Speaker 2: But see here's the thing with friends, you pick them. 39 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 3: Yep. 40 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. This 41 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: is from Jarvis in New Orleans. 42 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 3: Now. 43 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: Jarvis says, my girlfriend lives with me, and I came 44 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: home the other day and her male cousin was walking 45 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 1: around my house barefoot. I didn't like it one bit, 46 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: so I told him that I don't know him and 47 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: he was too comfy in my home. He said that 48 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: it's his cousin's house just as much as it's my house. 49 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: I beg to differ. What do you think does my 50 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend have the right to bring men into my home 51 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: without telling me first? 52 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 3: This is your girlfriend? 53 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, they lived together. He and his girlfriend lived together. 54 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: And I'm trying to figure out how you and him 55 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 2: wasn't fighting. That's a part I'm trying to see. You're 56 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: so stupid. You have the audacity to tell me, as 57 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 2: the owner that this is her house too, Na, homie. 58 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 3: No, I'm the man. 59 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 2: I got rules. I don't know you. You're too comfortable 60 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: in my house. Well it's her house too, slap. 61 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: But it's family. That doesn't make a difference. It's family. 62 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 4: No. 63 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: See, you know, I guess I'm old school. Once we're 64 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: in my house, yeah. 65 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 3: It's my way. There's no exceptions to. 66 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 4: The rule period. 67 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 3: But you got the audacity. See, but he comfortable enough. 68 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: It's these new school cats that think they can talk 69 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: back and all this here. 70 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 3: I'd have had something for you, though. 71 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 4: I don't get that because it's it's her family. 72 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: It's her cousin, his girlfriend, yeah, her cousin. 73 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: No, No, you ain't the wife. 74 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm telling you it's levels to this, y'all missing it. 75 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 3: It's levels to this. 76 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: Since my girlfriend, who are you were not related in 77 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: any way? I mean the girl ain't even related. 78 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: Now would it matter if it was a female cousin? 79 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 4: Would you care? 80 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 3: It would have mattered? No? 81 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 2: No, I mean it would have been easier. But it's 82 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 2: a man and another man's house that he don't know. 83 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 2: Men are territorial. We don't do that. You can't go 84 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: in another man's house and not honor his rules. You 85 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: know that, you're supposed to know that as a listener. 86 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: Just walk in barefoot, Like Junior can't come over here 87 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 4: and take his shoes. 88 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 3: Though he couldn't do that. 89 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 4: Why in the world that's your friend? 90 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 3: Why not he's been for him. He can't come over 91 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: here and take his shoes. That's too. 92 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 4: That. 93 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that. All right? 94 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 95 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: more on the Steve Harvey Territorial Morning Show. 96 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 4: Right after this. 97 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 3: Wow, clicking your toes together, rubbing 98 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: Your feet, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.