Speaker 1: Second date, up date, Alexis, let me ask you and
Speaker 1: just be honest here, have you ever gone out with
Speaker 1: a guy just to get something out of him for free?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: Like a meal or of coffee? Duh?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, Jeff, why would you Sorry?
Speaker 2: I didn't mean.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean every single time you've ever spoken to
Speaker 1: a guy. I just meant like once or twice. But
Speaker 1: sure for you, Alexis, you didn't think anything of that.
Speaker 1: You feel like they deserved to pay for your steak
Speaker 1: dinner and the fourteen white claws just to enjoy the
Speaker 1: privilege of being next time I am fun company.
Speaker 4: Think about the guy? What is he left with?
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what dating is, Jeff.
Speaker 1: It's a large credit card bill too, okay, with nothing
Speaker 1: to show for it. But one of our listeners, John,
Speaker 1: says he feels like he may have been used when
Speaker 1: he went out with a woman the other night, and
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and help him out.
Speaker 3: What does he expect? I mean? Okay, all right, John,
Speaker 3: you're getting sympathy from today. What do you want in return? There? John? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Why don't you actually rand over your credit card information
Speaker 4: to us now before we get started? Okay?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know relationship guarantee that'd be more fun.
Speaker 4: Can you not judge them? He hasn't even gotten to
Speaker 4: say hello to us. It's like John, what's that man?
Speaker 3: John away?
Speaker 5: Bro?
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm here. I don't know. I feel like maybe
Speaker 2: I've been years.
Speaker 3: So usually, what what were you used for?
Speaker 2: All right, we'll back it up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us
Speaker 1: about this woman that you met, how you met her,
Speaker 1: what her name is, and then lead us into the story.
Speaker 3: If you say, Alexis, I swear to change my name.
Speaker 4: What's her name?
Speaker 2: Now you're sake her name? I guess her identity is
Speaker 2: probably safe if I just get coded the first name
Speaker 2: Nikki we had after last name.
Speaker 3: We've got a caller, bro, Like that's how.
Speaker 4: They said that. Okay, her name is Nicky? And how
Speaker 4: did you meet her?
Speaker 2: Okay? Uh, you know I met her online?
Speaker 3: Okay? And was there any red flags? Seeing that you
Speaker 3: think you got used?
Speaker 2: I mean it was cool at first. She's cute. She's
Speaker 2: not like strangely hot where you know it.
Speaker 3: She doesn't look like a bot, is what you're saying?
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So we were having trouble getting together because
Speaker 2: I have that schedule. Okay, we're getting casino. I'm in
Speaker 2: the surveillance room.
Speaker 3: You have like a crazy schedule.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a problem.
Speaker 5: It's funny that a guy who works in surveillance thinks
Speaker 5: he may have gotten scammed.
Speaker 2: It was ironic.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so, I mean your schedule must be hard
Speaker 1: to like find a good time to go out with
Speaker 1: somebody that you really like.
Speaker 4: What did you end up doing with Nikki?
Speaker 2: So it was cool. She goes, all right, you come over,
Speaker 2: I'll make you a nice dinner before you're going to work.
Speaker 5: Oh are you complaining about being scammed?
Speaker 6: About that?
Speaker 3: It was so.
Speaker 4: Awesome and it sounds amazing.
Speaker 5: And she trusts you right, like, because she's inviting you
Speaker 5: to your place before she's even met you exactly.
Speaker 2: I thought that was cool. I'm not like a criminal
Speaker 2: looking guy, so.
Speaker 5: I don't think it's looks on that one. Yeah, there's
Speaker 5: a lot of good looking guys, and also you can't trust.
Speaker 4: But yeah, sure, so she invites you over.
Speaker 1: She opens the door, she tells you here, put your
Speaker 1: wallet over here, and.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not so blatant, okay, like salmon and wine. Oh yes,
Speaker 2: it was awesome. There's nothing this movie too fast we're
Speaker 2: just having a nice dinner. It was the first step.
Speaker 5: It's cool, great, Well, you have to go to work later,
Speaker 5: so it's not even like you can have a drink
Speaker 5: or two, you know.
Speaker 3: It's like nothing's going to happen during.
Speaker 2: That date, right right, But okay, so there, and then
Speaker 2: she mentions the fact that her bathroom sink is gripping
Speaker 2: a lot, and she's like she did the scene where
Speaker 2: it was like she mentioned it like twice and stop.
Speaker 4: Oh she keeps bringing up that darn sink.
Speaker 5: Oh that's funny, right, Okay, it was like enough of
Speaker 5: a pump where I'll was like, you want me to
Speaker 5: look at it?
Speaker 2: She did, and I'm like, yeah, cool. I was happy, Honestly,
Speaker 2: I was like, cool, Okay.
Speaker 3: Are you a hand to feel helpful? Are you a
Speaker 3: handy guy? Did she know that about you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I think that's like maybe why she did
Speaker 2: mention it because I mentioned that I renovated my place.
Speaker 3: I see what the using I think is going to
Speaker 3: come into play here.
Speaker 4: But it may not be using.
Speaker 6: Still, she may still be into you and be like, look,
Speaker 6: while you're here, I don't go on a lot of dates.
Speaker 4: Just look for me. Yeah, Okay, So did you go
Speaker 4: look at the sink?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I did, and I fixed it in like ten minutes.
Speaker 3: So yeah, how did the date end?
Speaker 5: Did you just like fix the sink and you're like,
Speaker 5: all right, well it works here done?
Speaker 2: No, I mean it ended like I thought we were
Speaker 2: totally vibing, got the hug, got a kiss, but there
Speaker 2: was like thirst strain kiss. You know, I kind of
Speaker 2: initiated it, and uh, okay, it's.
Speaker 4: Gonna be a little awkward.
Speaker 1: So she cooked you a meal, she gave you a kiss,
Speaker 1: you fixed her sink in like ten minutes, and you
Speaker 1: feel like that was the scam.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm wondering. I can't help but wonder because
Speaker 2: I thought the day was good. You know, I texted her.
Speaker 2: I texted her again.
Speaker 5: Okay, she's not responding exactly, but like, maybe she just
Speaker 5: doesn't like you like you like it doesn't mean that.
Speaker 3: She's using you for them. I want to give you
Speaker 3: a to do list of things that.
Speaker 6: It makes it.
Speaker 5: Sound like you didn't want to do it as a favor,
Speaker 5: Like it just sounds like a friendly favorite thing to do,
Speaker 5: like you expected something in return.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's sound like I expect her to do something
Speaker 2: in return. But it comes down to this, right, it's
Speaker 2: you that she's not into be don't ask me to
Speaker 2: picture shaken.
Speaker 3: I don't want to waste her night. She wouldn't give
Speaker 3: you a full dinner if she already knew that. That's
Speaker 3: a good point, you know, like she wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that's what a scam is, I hope
Speaker 1: that somebody scams.
Speaker 4: Open first. I got you so good with that five
Speaker 4: course meal.
Speaker 1: Oh, let's find out once and for all, maybe there
Speaker 1: is a nuggative truth to this. We're gonna call Nikki
Speaker 1: for you and try and get you a second date
Speaker 1: update right after this.
Speaker 4: Okay, a right, all right, man, hold on second date update.
Speaker 5: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 5: and we're gonna find out how.
Speaker 3: The couple is doing right after you here Part two.
Speaker 4: To be scammed or not to be scammed? That is
Speaker 4: the question.
Speaker 1: Because one of our listeners, Noble John, foundeth himself at
Speaker 1: the apartment of the beautiful and fair Nikki Ah and
Speaker 1: during the dining date, she exclaimth oh down, noblest of
Speaker 1: John's my Sinketh doth leake it?
Speaker 4: Can you fix it perchance? Which he did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's nice of him, it was very nice ten.
Speaker 1: Minutes, and then he went on his way to work
Speaker 1: because he does the night shift over at the casino
Speaker 1: inside of the surveillance room. Has not heard from Nicky
Speaker 1: though in eight days. Yeah, why don't you guys applauding
Speaker 1: the performance that I had.
Speaker 3: The Shakespeare halfways?
Speaker 1: Well, I only had a small role in anyway. John
Speaker 1: feels like maybe Nikki took advantage of his handyman skills
Speaker 1: and had planned on using him for free plumbing work
Speaker 1: the entire time.
Speaker 3: But it's not free, John, she paid for the salmon.
Speaker 3: That's expensive.
Speaker 4: We don't know that she paid for that salmon.
Speaker 3: Fisherman using men all over time, time is money.
Speaker 4: She cooked the salmon. She put an effort.
Speaker 5: I mean, you didn't text her anything like hey, are
Speaker 5: you using me or anything like that.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not like texting your accusations and stuff, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm just like, hey.
Speaker 4: It's okay.
Speaker 1: We don't have to read all the texts that she
Speaker 1: sent to her. But you've tried to reach out and
Speaker 1: she's not responding back, and that's enough for us to
Speaker 1: give her a call. Yeah, let's find out once and
Speaker 1: for all whether or not she's a scammer here.
Speaker 3: We don't think she's a scammer.
Speaker 5: If you're gonna do something nice for someone, then you
Speaker 5: shouldn't expect anything in return.
Speaker 3: That's the nice part. Do you see what I'm saying, jeff.
Speaker 4: Don't do nice things for other people.
Speaker 1: That's okay, let's just call that's the nice thing we're
Speaker 1: gonna do for John. Maybe John, you can get us
Speaker 1: back when we're done. All right, here we go.
Speaker 4: I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hey, is this Nicky?
Speaker 4: Yes it is Hey, Nikki.
Speaker 1: I apologize for the weird call that we're pushing you
Speaker 1: into here, but you're on the radio right now.
Speaker 3: Oh hey, Nikki?
Speaker 6: Uh did I wait for something?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 3: I mean you could at the end of this.
Speaker 1: At this moment, what we're doing is something called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and that's a segment where we try
Speaker 1: and help out lit steners who've gone out with someone
Speaker 1: and they're not getting.
Speaker 4: A callback afterwards, to help him figure out why.
Speaker 6: Who did you say you were?
Speaker 5: Again?
Speaker 3: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning is the name
Speaker 3: of the show.
Speaker 4: That's not what she She asked who I was? She
Speaker 4: wants to know who the stars are.
Speaker 3: I think she meant in the room.
Speaker 4: Now, She med me.
Speaker 1: I'm Jeff, and I would like to ask you about
Speaker 1: a date you went on eight days ago with a.
Speaker 4: Guy named John.
Speaker 3: Did you say, John, yeah, John, that you cooked him dinner?
Speaker 3: You cooked him a lovely salmon dinner.
Speaker 6: He said, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 6: I went on a date with with John.
Speaker 1: Right, we heard that you made him dinner and you
Speaker 1: guys hung out right before he had to go to
Speaker 1: his work, his like night shift. He says that you
Speaker 1: haven't responded to any of his texts in the last
Speaker 1: eight days. And I'm just gonna be honest. He says,
Speaker 1: he feels like he was used by you were going
Speaker 1: to scammed.
Speaker 6: Wait if he thinks he's being scammed, I mean he's not.
Speaker 2: I think I was the one being scammed.
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's it.
Speaker 5: Wait a statement I didn't expect to hear from you. Wait,
Speaker 5: you think you're being scammed by him?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't understand. We know that he fixed your sink.
Speaker 3: That's the way he thinks he was being used for.
Speaker 1: He feels like you knew that he's good at being
Speaker 1: like a handy guy, and so you invited him over
Speaker 1: just for that.
Speaker 6: What No, and also like he thinks he fixed my thick,
Speaker 6: but I tried it out and it was fine. Then
Speaker 6: we were ending the day and he goes to leave
Speaker 6: and then he's like, oh, can I go to the
Speaker 6: bathroom of fat And I was like okay. And then
Speaker 6: later on that night, I go to the bathroom and
Speaker 6: the stick's like broken, like the hot water isn't turning on? What?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 6: I mean the weird part about it was that later
Speaker 6: on he started texting me like, hey, if you have
Speaker 6: any other problems, like, I'm totally there for you, I'll
Speaker 6: come around and fix it.
Speaker 3: That's nice though, Yeah, but why would she have more problems?
Speaker 3: It's like I think she's saying he's using it as
Speaker 3: an excuse.
Speaker 5: It's like the classic like girl leaves, you know, to
Speaker 5: at said man's house, like he breaks her sink.
Speaker 3: So that right, is that what you're thinking, Nikki?
Speaker 6: Yeah, he like fixed it and then he purposely unfixed
Speaker 6: it to invite himself back into my house.
Speaker 3: The oldest plumber trick in the book. I don't know
Speaker 3: if that's true.
Speaker 4: That's it's kind of a stretch.
Speaker 1: He thinks that you're scamming him, You think that he's
Speaker 1: scamming you.
Speaker 5: Maybe it's maybe it means you're meant for each other.
Speaker 5: Two scam artists on the one day.
Speaker 6: I never scammed him. I invited him over for dinner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on your side.
Speaker 1: Well, let's find out for sure, because we do have
Speaker 1: John on the other line, who's been listening to this
Speaker 1: entire conversation secretly.
Speaker 3: What another But don't you want to know? John?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, guys, I'm here.
Speaker 4: What's going on with the sink?
Speaker 5: Dude?
Speaker 3: That's a big accusation that she laid down there? John,
Speaker 3: did you.
Speaker 4: Mess with the sink before you left?
Speaker 2: I mean, hold, dude that has a patience a little
Speaker 2: light cute sabotage.
Speaker 3: I knew it.
Speaker 6: I knew I knew that that was the case. And
Speaker 6: you met me there with no hot water, Like you
Speaker 6: made my life worse by doing to.
Speaker 3: Wash your hands in cold water. Can you imagine if
Speaker 3: you would have.
Speaker 2: Invited me back the next day? It would have been.
Speaker 4: John romantic when you put it that.
Speaker 5: But is there like a string of women out there
Speaker 5: with plumbinesses because of you?
Speaker 2: The THERMT? So I'm joking, it's.
Speaker 3: Really hard to that's a good joke.
Speaker 1: Maybe does that make you feel special that, out of
Speaker 1: all the women he's dated, you're the only person to
Speaker 1: sink that he has sabotage.
Speaker 4: He wants to come back.
Speaker 3: That jo sabotage very.
Speaker 6: Cute, said, I mean, he's breaking things instead of fixing them.
Speaker 6: And I had to call my neighbor and like inconvenience
Speaker 6: people because of him. I mean, oh, man, John, you
Speaker 6: don't have to call your gamer.
Speaker 2: I live close.
Speaker 3: Oh do you not feel bad?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 2: I don't feel bad. I'm fixed the main problems. You
Speaker 2: don't have a leak anymore.
Speaker 4: It's just turning enough.
Speaker 1: I mean, would you blame a woman for purposely leaving
Speaker 1: something at a guy's house?
Speaker 4: Would you call her a bad person for doing that?
Speaker 5: I mean if she called the radio station and accuse
Speaker 5: the guy of using her first, I would call her
Speaker 5: a kind of a crappy person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, judge, I would Oh, hold on, everybody's like paying
Speaker 2: me is the bad guy? Certainly you did turn off
Speaker 2: her hot walk? Yes, yeah, well, I mean just barely.
Speaker 4: GA mean, it's really up to you.
Speaker 1: Could you find it in your heart to forgive him
Speaker 1: for just doing a little cute sabotage because he really
Speaker 1: wanted to see you that badly one more time?
Speaker 4: Could you see that and maybe give him one more chance.
Speaker 4: It's kind of.
Speaker 6: Funny, he is kind of funny. We did have a
Speaker 6: good time.
Speaker 4: This is crazy.
Speaker 2: Come on, Nikky. Maybe it looks in a certain light
Speaker 2: that I did something less than above board, but come on.
Speaker 7: He said, yeah, come on, yeah, how can you say
Speaker 7: no to this romantic You.
Speaker 6: Know what, life too short?
Speaker 5: Let's do it.
Speaker 2: She wants a little.
Speaker 4: Extra punishment for you.
Speaker 6: You too.
Speaker 3: Don't invite me back to your house. Never let a
Speaker 3: look on your car.
Speaker 4: You just scam us for a day.
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, he did, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Well it took some convincing, but we got Nikky to
Speaker 1: agree to give John one more chance, and now look
Speaker 1: what happened. Months later, here we are doing an update
Speaker 1: update with the cute saboteurs themselves.
Speaker 3: I know, I want to know who's simming this time.
Speaker 4: Welcome back to the show, guys.
Speaker 2: How are you guys?
Speaker 4: We're doing okay? The question is how are you guys doing?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Are you both on the phone?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 5: Sounds scared John? Are you guys dating? What's going on?
Speaker 6: Yeah? After we talked on the phone and you all
Speaker 6: told me to give him a second chance. Something really
Speaker 6: funny ended up happening.
Speaker 4: Okay, what happened?
Speaker 6: Okay, So he got ticket to a show and he
Speaker 6: picked me up and it was awesome, Like we had
Speaker 6: a great time.
Speaker 3: That's a good review, John, good job man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okayante, Okay.
Speaker 6: All of a sudden, when we got back to my place,
Speaker 6: I'm like doing the dishes and stuff, and then my
Speaker 6: garbage disposal decides to just break down.
Speaker 3: John, did you break something down?
Speaker 2: Nothing to do with me in the world. I came
Speaker 2: and switched it.
Speaker 3: Oh, you're a hero. Sounds like you know exactly what
Speaker 3: was wrong with it.
Speaker 6: But I'm like, every single time that something breaks down, Now,
Speaker 6: you know, I'm always going to be wondering if he
Speaker 6: totally did that so he could come over.
Speaker 3: I mean, in your dating I think you can hang out.
Speaker 6: Whenever he.
Speaker 2: So.
Speaker 1: Now that's like the running joke between you guys that
Speaker 1: if anything ever breaks down.
Speaker 6: Running out of appliances.
Speaker 4: Yeah on the freeway.
Speaker 5: Breaks went out again. But it sounds like you guys
Speaker 5: are doing good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys are happy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're still dating and it's been going great.
Speaker 1: We'll keep us updated on your budding relationship, if if
Speaker 1: your phone doesn't break down because Jonathan sabotaged it, but.
Speaker 4: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, y