WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: We Built This Thing Together

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<v Speaker 1>It's always kind of a special week when we get

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<v Speaker 1>an update update. Yes, so today we get it. Check

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<v Speaker 1>in with one of our iconic Second Date Update couples

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna hear that in just a second. But

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<v Speaker 1>first I gotta say thank you to Matthew who wrote

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<v Speaker 1>us on our Second Date Spotify page and it says,

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<v Speaker 1>Right let's get there right now. Okay, we're baked and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Enjoy your update update. It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date Update. Sometimes in the dating world, you realize

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<v Speaker 2>the ideal person that you have built up in your

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<v Speaker 2>mind isn't necessarily the ideal person for you in real life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>rip that right out of Brook's wedding vows.

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<v Speaker 1>To her husband.

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<v Speaker 2>But that could be the case for our listener, Rob

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<v Speaker 2>Today's so rude. Well you said them, who says he

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<v Speaker 2>met a different type of woman than the one he

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<v Speaker 2>would normally go for. He described her in the email

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<v Speaker 2>as someone who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, is one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>percent vegan, and must be in bed every night by

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<v Speaker 2>eight forty five pm.

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<v Speaker 1>Rob, discipline woman.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you let this party animal slip through your fingers?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, I don't know. I just found it endearing.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought she was kind of wholesome and not really

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<v Speaker 3>the type of girl that I would normally go for.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting because it could be wholesome, or it

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<v Speaker 1>could be that she's done all those things so much

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<v Speaker 1>that she can't do them anymore, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>On the party life? Okay, well what's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Name's Maggie.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, how did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 3>We met online? But I just thought her pictures were

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<v Speaker 3>so natural. She was very naturally beautiful. The pictures weren't photoshopped,

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<v Speaker 3>and she wasn't out at the club. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>pictures of her hanging out with her friends, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just thought it was nice normal, or it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was such a good photoshop you didn't notice. Can I ask,

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<v Speaker 1>are you any of the things she is like?

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<v Speaker 3>Dry?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, no smoking, vegan?

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<v Speaker 3>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be in opposite of track sort of situation

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<v Speaker 2>where you like mesh together over time and bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it could be the reason she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what'd you guys do when you guys went out?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's weird. We went on two dates back to

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<v Speaker 3>back over a weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that makes sense because she has to be in

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<v Speaker 2>bed bait forty five, so that's not very much the

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<v Speaker 2>first one.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, how did that work?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so she doesn't like to drink, so we got

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<v Speaker 3>ramen and then we've got ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, took the vegan to ice cream.

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<v Speaker 3>Well I learned that they actually have vegan ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh cool, so you checked it.

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<v Speaker 3>To me.

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<v Speaker 2>But for her that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, like coconut milk ice cream.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, yeah, and it actually tastes the pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>She was probably impressed that you like put some effort

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<v Speaker 1>in to find a place that could fit her.

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<v Speaker 2>So how did date number one end?

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<v Speaker 3>So there was no kiss at the end, but it

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<v Speaker 3>was like a long hug and then she actually suggested

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<v Speaker 3>that we go out again. The next day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, okay, she suggests, no kidding, So what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do the next day?

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<v Speaker 3>So the next day, I was like, you get to

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<v Speaker 3>pick where we want to go. So we went to

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<v Speaker 3>a vegan restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool, okay, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not vegan, but one of my favorite places to

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<v Speaker 1>eat is a vegan restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>And my neighborhood is scary, Like I'm a foodie and

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<v Speaker 2>even someone going to a vegan restaurant it's kind of intimidated.

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe it's like the ice cream shop where they

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<v Speaker 2>have the one vegan option where one plate for the medal. Bloody.

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<v Speaker 2>How was it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was okay, I didn't mind it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they How is the connection between you two?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean after that date, we definitely kissed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, your first two dates sounds like they went great.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so then after the date, she starts texting me

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<v Speaker 3>and like it's text like I can't wait to see you.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of love gifts and uh memes about love,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was really accentuating the love aspect of everything,

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<v Speaker 3>and uh, you know, it was a little bit much.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get why he's on with us if it

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<v Speaker 1>was freaking.

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<v Speaker 3>You out calling you back, Yeah, well what happened was

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<v Speaker 3>she sent me a Spotify song. It's a song by

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<v Speaker 3>Starship called we Built This Thing Together. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if you guys know that song.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this string together, Nothing's gonna stop us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good song.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone knows.

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<v Speaker 1>She trying to like force a couple songs already more organically.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, like what have we built? We were on

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<v Speaker 3>two dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Like did you say that to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I said, oh, that's a nice song. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>really into the song though, it's I'm not really a

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<v Speaker 3>big fan of it, and I totally changed things for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you slammed her taste in music.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she was trying to convey something. It's like when

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<v Speaker 1>I used to make mixed CDs and like put in

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<v Speaker 1>secret songs for different dudes I like and be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that one hit. You basically turned her down

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<v Speaker 1>by not liking the good Honestly, maybe she needed.

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<v Speaker 2>Together, but you said that changed things between you two.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I mean I wasn't trying to put her down.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a little confused by it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so what do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Want our help with do you want another date or

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<v Speaker 1>do you not?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I just want to see where she's at, and

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<v Speaker 3>I hope I didn't offend her, and I just want

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<v Speaker 3>you to check for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, I'll see on it. Yeah. Maybe if she

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<v Speaker 1>knows how you feel, she can lay off the love

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<v Speaker 1>gifts and the songs.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, I don't know how to tell her that politely.

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<v Speaker 3>If she is that kind of person, I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>want to change her, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll let Brook tell her to cut that crap out.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do the second date update right after this second

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<v Speaker 2>date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, we're back to the nineteen eighties again.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this the song?

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<v Speaker 2>The Decade of Love?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Sixteen Candles, Dirty Dancing, Wow, Ghost, all the best love movies. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I can honestly say that we built this thing together.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing lasts forever. I think that nothing was gonna stop us.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that's a song. Unless Maggie doesn't answer the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>then that would kind of stop us and we'd be screwed.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you all forgetting it's a song that she sent

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<v Speaker 1>to him.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the song from the nineteen eighties that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of soured the relationship after Rob went on back to

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<v Speaker 2>back dates with Maggie, both of which went great, but

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<v Speaker 2>this Spotify song ruined it because Rob said, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>really a fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean it's pretty cheesy.

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<v Speaker 2>But Brooke had a good point. He was trying to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really like this song. Maybe Maggie took it

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<v Speaker 2>as he doesn't like my love. He's rejecting our relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I would take it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sure, but that's not the case. So that's why

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<v Speaker 2>Rob has reached out to us, hoping we can re

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<v Speaker 2>spark this, get this going again, maybe do a little

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<v Speaker 2>ghost love scene situation. Right Rob, that's right, pottery class.

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<v Speaker 1>You no alcohol, very vegan, you know, be perfect shirtless though,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wanting to apologize to her for your response?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean the way you put it, I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of see it like I was being a

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<v Speaker 3>little rude, So yeah, I would like to apologize.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, we don't know for sure if she took

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<v Speaker 2>it that way. That's just Brook's opinion, and you know

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<v Speaker 2>how valuable that is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had to throw a dig in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, we don't know. Yeah, let's let's find

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<v Speaker 2>out once and for all. I'm and I call it

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<v Speaker 2>right now here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this Maggie?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>This is she?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 2>We gotch Uh? Sorry? I mean I'm happy that you answered,

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<v Speaker 2>is what I meant to say. Because we're a radio show,

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've

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<v Speaker 2>been dying to talk to.

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<v Speaker 3>You, okay or what I mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Why what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Because we're doing a segment here called a Second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's where we try and help out our listeners

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<v Speaker 2>if they've kind of stalled out in their dating life

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<v Speaker 2>with somebody. We're trying to help somebody named Rob.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, Rob, Okay, I see?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Rob said you had two great dates together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. He actually told us that he felt really good

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<v Speaker 2>about it. How did you feel?

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<v Speaker 4>I felt really good about it too. I felt like

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<v Speaker 4>we had this instant connection and potential to really go somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I was really really excited to keep things going with him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there something that made that change? Because it does

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you're talking in past tense.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean, I'm the type of person who wants

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<v Speaker 4>a guy who's going to be my prince charming and

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<v Speaker 4>come in and ride in on the horse and professes

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<v Speaker 4>love to me and just go all out and then

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<v Speaker 4>we ride off into the sunset together.

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<v Speaker 2>You like grand romantic gestures, that's what you like? Yes, exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>that's totally fair. It could be a lot, though, for

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<v Speaker 2>some guys to process that after just one weekend hanging out,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and not a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Of guys are romantic at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Well they should be, and I made that very clear

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<v Speaker 4>on my profile.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, it's on your profile.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you say on your profile?

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<v Speaker 4>I want someone who's sweet. So if I want you

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<v Speaker 4>to send me messages and let me know that you

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<v Speaker 4>appreciate me, because that's my My love language is affirmation's

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<v Speaker 4>words of affirmation. So I love giving those out and

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<v Speaker 4>I want that back in return.

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<v Speaker 3>Got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? And you feel like Rob was not fulfilling those

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<v Speaker 2>needs for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Correct?

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<v Speaker 4>Especially came down to where you know, I sent him

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<v Speaker 4>what I saw was our first love song or potential

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<v Speaker 4>first dance, and I just envisioned us already there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, does that be a lot for anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>So we did hear about that text and the being

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<v Speaker 2>sent to him. Honestly, here is what I worry about

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<v Speaker 2>for you, Maggie. Along the way in your life, you've

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<v Speaker 2>come up with this idea for a fairy tale romance

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<v Speaker 2>in your mind. Okay, right now, it's totally okay to

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<v Speaker 2>have these ideals in your head, but you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to adjust to other people, because no one

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<v Speaker 2>is going to match up perfectly with everything that you've said.

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<v Speaker 1>It's already adjusting. I mean, she was already going out

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody who wasn't a vegan. She was already going

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody that drinks when she doesn't enjoy.

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<v Speaker 2>But she said the problem was he didn't like one song.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she said the problem was he wasn't romantic Jack.

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<v Speaker 2>But the thing is, that's the conversation. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>go off of the two great dates that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>had together. That is not easy to do in the

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<v Speaker 2>modern dating world. We never hear about that. That's special

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<v Speaker 2>and that's something that you should actually hold on to,

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<v Speaker 2>not that he didn't like a song that you texted

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<v Speaker 2>him one time. Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I can see.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was just my favorite song, and I

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<v Speaker 4>just you are getting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah if you can hear it, and I think Jeff's played.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too easy for people to just ghost right now

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<v Speaker 2>on these dating apps over one dumb little thing. You

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<v Speaker 2>have to remember two great first dates. Hold on to

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<v Speaker 2>that cherish that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you drink this morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Brook?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need your love hate right now. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to build a love tower. And that's why I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I need to tell you, Maggie. Rob is

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone right now. You like a grand romantic gesture.

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<v Speaker 2>Here it is. He is waiting to talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Hey, Maggie, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>Rob?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good, How are you.

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<v Speaker 3>Good? You know, I just I wanted to apologize for

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<v Speaker 3>blowing off your song. I didn't realize that it meant

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<v Speaker 3>so much to you. But you know, I hear what

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<v Speaker 3>you're saying about being more romantic. It's you know, we've

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<v Speaker 3>only been on two dates, so maybe I need a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of a build up, take my time a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Rob is a little bit more of a slow burner,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's willing to burn a little bit faster for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean, I do appreciate that and I felt

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<v Speaker 4>like I was very transparent on my profile. I can't

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<v Speaker 4>change who I am, and I would appreciate if you

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<v Speaker 4>could try a little more.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook's been saying that same thing to her husband for

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<v Speaker 2>the last ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>I think every woman has said it in any relationship

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<v Speaker 1>we've ever been probaf.

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<v Speaker 4>You could send me kind of a love song. What

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<v Speaker 4>would it be?

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<v Speaker 3>It would be that song Maggie by Rod Stewart.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake Up. That's just her name, right, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think that's after Maggie leaves him.

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<v Speaker 1>A one night stand.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea super romantic guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying, all right. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What's amazing is he's not scared away right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're gonna find that.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd like to offer to send you guys out one

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<v Speaker 2>more time, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's do it. That'd be great.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true what they say, you can build this love together.

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<v Speaker 2>Some things do last forever. Nothing's gonna stop us now

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<v Speaker 2>except we're running out of time to do the second

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<v Speaker 2>date updates, so we got to stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Months ago. We convinced him to give it another try,

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<v Speaker 2>and it sounds like they did. Because both Rob and

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<v Speaker 2>Maggie are back with us today on this show.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I vote them most likely to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. Yeah. Well, I just you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>needed the effort, and he sounded like he was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to deliver.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's find out, Rob, were you able to step up

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<v Speaker 2>the romance for Maggie?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Guy? Was? You know? After being on your show?

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<v Speaker 3>Like she pretty much told me she wanted me to

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<v Speaker 3>be more romantic. Yeah. So we went on a second

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<v Speaker 3>date and I kind of went over the top. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I hired I hired like this twenty person flash mob.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa wait a flash mob?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? And then after that, I hired this horse drawn

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<v Speaker 3>carriage who to take us back home?

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<v Speaker 2>Dude?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I had. I had her favorite song playing on

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<v Speaker 3>my phone. You know, we built this thing together.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but we asked you. Did you do anything romantic though?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I bet Maggie was over the moon.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, after I did all that, she didn't talk to

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<v Speaker 3>me for like two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait.

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<v Speaker 4>Why Yeah, well he was trying way too hard and

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<v Speaker 4>I could tell he wasn't being himself.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't want that.

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<v Speaker 2>You said, he wasn't trying hard enough when we had

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<v Speaker 2>you on the phone before.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like Goldilocks and the Bears or something with

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<v Speaker 1>the porridge like pick a tep?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, it's true, it's true.

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<v Speaker 4>But honestly, I really I learned something about myself and

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<v Speaker 4>that I just really don't like low effort guys. But

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<v Speaker 4>I also don't like the super over the top, cheesy

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<v Speaker 4>high effort guys either. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Has he struck the right chord by this time?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and so I I did ask, can you just

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<v Speaker 4>be in the middle, just be yourself and kind of

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<v Speaker 4>meet in the middle, and that's perfect?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Yeah, I made her. I made her this photo

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<v Speaker 3>scrap book of pictures of us. There's only like two pictures, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Too many.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was really sweet. It just starting.

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<v Speaker 4>I liked it. It was genuine.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was really cute pamphlet.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are together then?

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<v Speaker 3>Still, yeah, I think so, I hope she likes it.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's trying not to come on too strong with his affirmation.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well, you know, I'm trying, and I'm also not trying,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I'm keeping it in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, there you go. Look Jeffrey in the morning,