1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,039 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An. iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in today. I am solo. Well, 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: he sends in the room with me, but I'm solo. 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: Otherwise Tanya is ohoh out of office. But no fear, 5 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: because I have two very special guests who actually kind 6 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: of remind me of Tanya and I in a few 7 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: years to come. You know them, we love them from 8 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 1: The Golden Bachelor. Kathy and Susan are coming in to 9 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: scrub in and I couldn't be more excited. They have 10 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: a new podcast coming out, it's Under Bachelor Happy Hour 11 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: Golden Hour, and I'm so excited to talk to them 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: because if you have been listening to this podcast, you 13 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: know I loved The Golden Bachelor and these two, in 14 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: my opinion, were the stars of the show. So please 15 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: give a warm welcome to Kathy and Susan. I'm so 16 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: excited that y'all are here. 17 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: We're excited to be here, thrilled. 18 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: We were chatting before the episode started and I have 19 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: so many I wanted to get it all out there 20 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: with y'all, and then I was like, what am I doing? 21 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: This is podcast material? 22 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: Don't ye save it, don't give it a what I want. 23 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: To start with. First of all, you both look stunning, 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: just glammed and ready to go press day. Yeah yeah, 25 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: all the men, if you're listening. 26 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 2: It's better as go on. 27 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: How did the Golden Bachelor come about? How? What was 28 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: that process like going getting to the point where you 29 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: were cast it on the show? 30 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: The application process? 31 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, like did you did you get nominated? 32 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: Show it? For me? A girlfriend called It's four years 33 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: ago in March and she said, oh my god, Susan, 34 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: you have to fill out this application. They're having an 35 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: old people Bachelor. I was like, what, So I applied 36 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: and never heard from them. Didn't just thought they weren't interested. 37 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 2: Three years later they called me and said they had 38 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: shut down production due to the pandemic and they were interested. 39 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: Wanted to know if I was still interested, and it 40 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 2: took off from there. 41 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 3: Wow, mine was quite different. I was at my daughter's home, 42 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 3: who had just had a brand new baby, and I 43 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 3: was scrolling through Facebook and I saw a ad for 44 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 3: women of my age to a planethot I could do that. 45 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 3: I was like to submit And the next day I 46 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 3: got a phone call and at first my daughter thought 47 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 3: it was a great idea. But after the first two 48 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: or three interviews, Mom, you're not really gonna do this? 49 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:43,679 Speaker 3: Oh yes I am. 50 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: She's like, this is all fun and games until it's not. 51 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: How so when what was that? Just in twenty twenty. 52 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 3: Three, I fill out middle of May and they called 53 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 3: me the next day and left in July. 54 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: Wow. 55 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, two very different us, totally different. 56 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: I was telling y'all. I was saying, when I was 57 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: on The Bachelor years ago, I was nominated and they 58 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: called me the next day too, and I thought, out 59 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: of all the people, I have to take this chance. 60 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: Right. 61 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 3: Well, they said on our season there were thirty thousand 62 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 3: women that applied, and so they took twenty two of 63 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: us and Susan and I still can't find a date. 64 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 3: So I don't know what that song. 65 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: With that picture they said, we know Who's good TV? Yeah, okay. 66 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: My next question I was going to ask, what are 67 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: your kids now? After all a sudden done. Now you're 68 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: on this journey, You're having all these opportunities. What do 69 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: your kids think about this? 70 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: You want to go first? 71 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: Well, my kids are very supportive. Now I have a 72 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: couple of young grandchildren, so that interferes with babysitting duties 73 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 3: a little bit, but they're supportive. They would love for 74 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 3: me to find someone, and they know I'm having fun 75 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: and this is like the best time of my life, 76 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 3: so they're supportive. 77 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: My daughter is my biggest fan. She helps me, guides 78 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: me through Instagram and so on. And my son's a 79 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: step back for some of the things that I said 80 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 2: on television. Christopher didn't talk to me for the first 81 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: month when I got home, like he had very little Mom. 82 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: Did you why would you say that on TV? He's 83 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 2: my six inch comment? I said, but if you watch 84 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: women tell All, I would have never said that. Had 85 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: I known he would be so upset, I would have 86 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: said eight inches right from the game. 87 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I always think I'm always thinking about the 88 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: process and what it's like and thinking about watching my 89 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: cell phone. There was so so weird. The worst part, 90 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: the worst part I wanted to tell Yeah. 91 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 3: For me, it wasn't I mean, other than me telling 92 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 3: Teresa that Zibit had I've had to relive that a 93 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 3: million times, but you know, it wasn't bad to rewatch. 94 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 3: I think for us it's hard because we know our 95 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 3: children are going to be watching where the younger bachelor 96 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 3: of Bachelorette. You know it's that. 97 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, there is that flip of your parents, you know 98 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: I had. I was like, my dad's going to watch 99 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: me make out with somebody. This is unnatural. 100 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: Well that's true. I didn't have that problem with making 101 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: out with anyone. Gary was not. We were in the 102 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 3: friend zone so that I didn't have to worry about 103 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 3: that issue. 104 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: And for me, I was unapologetically myself and I think 105 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: I'm funny. Sometimes just two I am watching it back 106 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: is like, oh why did I do that? Oh well, 107 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: it is what it is. Come on. The beggest thing 108 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 2: was the weight. I felt like I looked so heavy 109 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: and then meet people in the grocery store and they go, 110 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 2: oh my god, you're beautiful in person. Oh my god, 111 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: how did you lose so much weight so fast? I said, 112 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: I lost three pounds. Are you getting me? 113 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: Do you know? The camera? 114 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 3: R really? And I get the same thing people all 115 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 3: on Instagram that yes, we all know Instagram. People behind 116 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 3: computers can say and do anything very brave or brazen, 117 00:05:56,800 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 3: whatever whichever. But I would say that they write things 118 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 3: all the time about wow, Kathy looks so great. Since 119 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: the show she had a facelift and cheek implants. I'm like, really, 120 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 3: have you I don't say it, but have you ever 121 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 3: had a facelift? I haven't, but I'm going to. You're 122 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 3: you're on a commission black and Blue for months. 123 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: I mean, oh yeah, they don't know what they're talking about. 124 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: And we celebrated yesterday that when we do have one, 125 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: we'll let you know. 126 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: We're black and blue here we are. 127 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: We want a podcast about it, absolutely tailed right now. 128 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: We don't have time for one. 129 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, we got to be camera ready at 130 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 1: all times right now. 131 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: But if the plastic surgeons are watching listening, and we'd 132 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: like a. 133 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: Group discount, please a two for one right. 134 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 3: Oh heck, are you kidding? We'll get everybody from the 135 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: twenty two of us. 136 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 2: We know people. 137 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: That's the TV I don't want to watch, just like 138 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: all the ladies do what they want to watch. 139 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: That's out here. I love those. 140 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 3: I love the Nightmare at the Mansion. 141 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: Honestly, Han and Mansion. I loved watching I was saying earlier, 142 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: I loved watching The Golden Bachelor, and I am dating 143 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: someone who she I went on the Bachelor and then 144 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: thought I could kind of just be done with that 145 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: part of my life. My girlfriend is a die hard 146 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: Bachelor fan, so I have watched every single season since 147 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: we've been together, and when we watched The Golden Bachelor, 148 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: it was just one of our favorite seasons of the franchise. 149 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: I think we've ever watched together. 150 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: Can I ask you what? It was so. 151 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: Wholesome in its own way, and I loved that all 152 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: of you guys had this bond that felt like, obviously 153 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: it's the competitive nature of dating one person, but I 154 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: felt like the friendship and the connection that all of 155 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: you had together was stronger than the competitive We're all 156 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: dating the same man. 157 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: And it was that's the thing. We all made friends. 158 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: We all were happy when when whoever it was, got 159 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 3: a one on one date, we celebrated each other and 160 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 3: we believed in the process, and we knew that we 161 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 3: weren't going to all leave because bigamy wasn't a thing. 162 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: We weren't all going to leave with him, but one 163 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 3: of us was going to leave with him. I think 164 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 3: that's what makes this show special, the friendships that came 165 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 3: from him. But what I find most interesting is the 166 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 3: audience that loved the show's It really is across generational 167 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 3: and the fact that young people want to hear what 168 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 3: we have to say. We're not invisible anymore. We have 169 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 3: things to say and that are of value to young 170 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 3: people and old people. And I love that. 171 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 2: And the difference between young and our age. We're not 172 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: afraid to talk about any subject. I mean, we've had 173 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:10,119 Speaker 2: life experiences and we're not out to prove ourselves to anybody. 174 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: We are who, we are, confident in our own skin. 175 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: And this is how it is, from menopause to sex 176 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 2: to child bearing years, all of. 177 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 3: It and and not and the and the sad things too, 178 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 3: you know, Susan's divorce, my husband died by suicide. Those 179 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 3: are really big topics that I. 180 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Think is about the people that come up to us, 181 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 2: Kathy and share the story and say, you know, my 182 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 2: mom had cancer or somebody passed, And what you guys 183 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 2: say and who you guys are give us an uplift 184 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 2: different And. 185 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 3: I think there's been so many topics in our culture 186 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: frowns talk. You know, people are afraid to talk about 187 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 3: menopause or suicide or all mental health, diabetes, right, and 188 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: and I think that we can be a platform to 189 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 3: help people feel more comfortable in discussing those things. 190 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it's people y'all's age, But also 191 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: I think there's you saying this is the best time 192 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: of your life. Earlier you said. 193 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: It is best. 194 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is my life, I've said. When I applied 195 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 3: for the show, I wrote down. They asked me something 196 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: about why I wanted to do it, and I said, 197 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 3: I'm mentoring the last chapter of my life. Hopefully it's 198 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: going to be fifty years long, but I want it 199 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 3: to be the best chapter of my life. And that's 200 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 3: what I feel like I'm living. 201 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: That's so I just find that to be so encouraging 202 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: for people our age, like obviously for people y'all's age 203 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: that are like maybe they feel like they've lived their 204 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: best years and now and they downhill from here. I 205 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 1: think it's so encouraging to hear that. But I also 206 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: think for people like me, who you know, with society, 207 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: the pressure of not wanting to get older, not wanting 208 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: to look older, not how you know, people who are 209 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: still single. Am I going to be single forever? And 210 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: that not necessary being doomsday? Right, I know. I think 211 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: it's really about. 212 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 2: Having a positive energy and believing in yourself and believing 213 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 2: that the good things are coming. Yeah, and the way you. 214 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: Think we were talking about this yesterday. If they don't 215 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 3: come today, stay positive, they'll maybe come tomorrow. You know, 216 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 3: it's just keep knocking on the doors, keep get up 217 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 3: off the sofa, keep trying new things, meet new people, 218 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 3: and all of a sudden you realize your life is 219 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 3: changing and you're happier and you're doing more things. And 220 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 3: I think you're exactly right. People got to a certain 221 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 3: agent thought their life was over. No, your life is 222 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 3: an over friends, it's just beginning. 223 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 2: Love. For me, I was on every dating site. I thought, 224 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I have an opportunity to fall in love. 225 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: I didn't know who he was going to be, but 226 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: when I went into the show, I used to believe 227 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: that I was a woman that needed a man. Now 228 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 2: I know I'm a woman that a man needs. So 229 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: there's a big difference. I'm not searching anymore. If it happens, 230 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 2: God bless all of us, and if it doesn't, it's 231 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 2: okay too. 232 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 3: But Susan, wouldn't you say we've talked about this, the 233 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 3: friendships that we've made. Susan and I didn't know each other. 234 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 3: She roommate and we just had this talk about instant connection, 235 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 3: not the romantic type for us, just friends, and. 236 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 2: We bought it. We finish each other sentence sometimes it's true. 237 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 3: It's true, and I wouldn't give exchange that for anything. 238 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 3: But we didn't know that was going to happen. Seriously, 239 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 3: the d MS you and I have had, they it's 240 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 3: very little, and the ones I've had thirty five forty years, like, honey, 241 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: I have children older than you. 242 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 2: We don't want to raise I don't want to raise 243 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 2: any more kids. I don't want to tea, I don't 244 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: want Yeah. 245 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 1: But for just a fun night, did you hear that? 246 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 3: Crickets? A fun night? A fun night is watching Netflix 247 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: with popcorn or going to ski on the night slope 248 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 3: of the lights. No, no, no. 249 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: So y'all are y'all are soulmates in the friendship way, 250 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: and you sometimes meet people in that in that way, 251 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: And and there was this weird experience that y'all had, 252 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: which is a very unique experience. I don't know if 253 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: people who haven't been on the Bachelor can understand what 254 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: it's like to live together twenty four to seven without 255 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: any outside contact. You kind of just me neither. It 256 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: was like sad when they gave my phone back to me. 257 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 2: You have no choice but to get to know each 258 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 2: other because you don't have any contact with the out 259 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 2: So I'll never forget after that last ceremony and going 260 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: to the hotel and turning on a TV for the 261 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 2: first time and Malli had burned down and I was. 262 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 3: We didn't know. 263 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 2: It was like, why did anybody tell us that? Because 264 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 2: they didn't want us to focus on anything else but 265 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: the people that were around us, And for good reason. 266 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think another difference for Susan and me was 267 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 3: we Gary's a great guy, nice guy, but we realized, 268 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 3: many of us realized pretty early in the process that 269 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 3: he wasn't our guy. Yes, And so for me it 270 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: allowed me, not that I've ever been accused of being 271 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 3: anything other than who I am, but it allowed me 272 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 3: to really be who I am and enjoy it and 273 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 3: have fun and not not worry about anything. So for me, 274 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 3: that the whole process, the entire time, was just fun. 275 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm helping everybody get ready, helping Teresa on the first 276 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: date doing her hair, and she tried to tell me 277 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: how to do it. I don't think so can. 278 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 3: I just say Susan is magic with a blow dryer, 279 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 3: a crowling iron, and a brush. 280 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: You had to have one of those girls in there, 281 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: like I did their hair. 282 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 2: Every day, every night, every rose. 283 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 3: Let me, let me just give you a little picture 284 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 3: of behind the scenes so you know how it is. 285 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 3: You have to be downstairs ready certain time. The last 286 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 3: one down always was Susan, not because she's late, but 287 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 3: because she was Bobby Pinny, straight eye iron. 288 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: Literally, Susan was like you to give me an extra 289 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 2: ten minutes. It takes three minutes to do my area. 290 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 2: You know it's true, but it was It's good. It 291 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: was nice. 292 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you about if you saw 293 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: Gary out in the wild, is he someone that you 294 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: would have been attracted to before the show? 295 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 2: I mean, he has a good look I would turn for. 296 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 2: I would definitely after speaking with him because of his 297 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 2: roots and where he's from and East Coast girls. I mean, 298 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 2: I have a big personality, you know, I feel like 299 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: friend zone, friend zone, friend zone. 300 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: After first you'd look, you'd have one conversation and say, 301 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: you know what, not my guy. 302 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 2: Maybe not one, maybe two. I mean because the first 303 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 2: conversation we had, I was like, oh yeah, those dreamy eyes. 304 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: He really paid it tension. He was a great guy, 305 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 2: he really was. 306 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 3: So my first conversation with him was I love to travel, 307 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 3: love to travel, and that's that's one of my criteria 308 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 3: for looking for my next partner is somebody who loves 309 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 3: to travel. So I was telling Garry about the fact 310 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 3: that I'd been in London, England visiting my niece and 311 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 3: for my birthday, and he said, oh, I don't think 312 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 3: we'd be a good match because I really don't like 313 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: to travel outside the United States. So I was like, Okay, 314 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 3: that's really rare. 315 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: Flag rid flash, and now I will just enjoy my 316 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: time here with the girls. 317 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 3: But then I thought to myself, could I see myself 318 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 3: in Indiana like running through a cornfield amazed, like, you know, 319 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: shucking corn I don't even know what they did there, 320 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 3: but it was kind of no. 321 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: You answered that yourself. That's right, Yeah, did you do you? 322 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: When you think about your cast of women there was 323 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: y'all were y'all had a bunch of standout one. I mean, 324 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: you had such a great cast, we did, but y'all 325 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 1: too seem to be the two that people kept referencing 326 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: and talking about. And now you have your own podcast 327 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: you're doing all this press. What do you think it 328 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: was about? 329 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 2: Do you think it's I think it was our energy 330 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: and them recognizing that we are true. 331 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 3: To our word. 332 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 2: We say it like it is. Well. 333 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 3: Also, Susan, come on, we are fast. Yeah, like you know, 334 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 3: I'm from Boston, she's from Philly. 335 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 2: Hundred percent Italian. Hit just flies and honestly. 336 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 3: I don't we talk about this all the time. We're 337 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 3: never sure what's coming out of our mouths, and you 338 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:41,199 Speaker 3: know it's either funny or they're going to arrest me. 339 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: I mean it's we immediately give them a podcast, which 340 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: I want to get into, but first we're going to 341 00:17:48,480 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: take a break. All right, we're back. So before we 342 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: took a break, we were talking about the podcast. So 343 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: I want to get into that because I can't imagine 344 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 1: that when you said yes to this adventure that you 345 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: thought you'd be sitting here a year later with a 346 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: podcast with someone that you dated the same man with. 347 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 3: Right, No, we didn't, not even a little bit. 348 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: Now, So it's just for everyone to clarify. It's under 349 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: the Happy Hour, the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast, Yes, and 350 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: it's the Golden Hour. 351 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 3: It's Golden Hour, Golden Hour, under it's the one of 352 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: the shows under Bachelor Happy Hour. 353 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 1: It's it's it's okay though, we're going to teach them 354 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: how because you go to your podcast wherever you listen 355 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: to podcasts, you search Bachelor Happy Hour, Golden Hour and 356 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: it'll pop up right there. So I want to know 357 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: when they approach you about doing your own podcasts, what 358 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,439 Speaker 1: was it an instant yes? Were you like, is this 359 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: a good idea? 360 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 2: An instant? 361 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: Are you and your yes era? 362 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah, I know a lot. I don't. I never 363 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 3: say no to an opportunity unless it's jumping off the 364 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 3: Empire State Building then. 365 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: But with the parachute, yeah, absolutely. 366 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 2: I believe it was from doing them and being interviewed 367 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 2: that we love it so much, and then when they. 368 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 3: Approached us, it was like, no brain and let okay, 369 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 3: let's call out the elephant in the room. 370 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: Yes, we both love to talk a little bit. 371 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: I love that though, because I think it's such a 372 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: good banter and I love that you both feel very 373 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: comfortable calling each other out. Even just on the first podcast, 374 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: I was like, this is gonna be really fun because 375 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: it was like whoa, whoa, whoa? You're not going to 376 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: ask me that without answer each other. 377 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. Sure. 378 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: So what for those who haven't listened or are interested, 379 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: what is the podcast going to be? 380 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 2: What is I mean? We're going to cover life from 381 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:02,239 Speaker 2: our journey on the show and maybe interviewing people that 382 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: were on the show all the way up to menopause 383 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 2: and dating love. 384 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, we want to really open up the airwaves for 385 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 3: people to find ways to live their best life. And 386 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,159 Speaker 3: to the extent that we can have the conversation, we 387 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 3: have a platform to bring up some of these issues 388 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 3: and make people stay a little brighter. You know, after 389 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 3: they listen to our podcast, we want them to walk 390 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 3: away with just a nugget of something that makes them happy, 391 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 3: makes them think about their life in a different way, 392 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 3: just an upbeat, happy way to look at life. 393 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: I love that. 394 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 2: Prior to us doing the podcast, from fans coming up 395 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 2: to us and sharing their stories. That gave us even 396 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 2: more encouragement to reach out. 397 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 3: So Susan my son got married two weeks ago, and 398 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 3: Susan married them. She was the officient and we were 399 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 3: at a brunch that now it was in Texas, because 400 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: I live in Texas. We were at a brewery the 401 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 3: next morning from brunch. That's what Texas does you know? 402 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 3: Anytime the day exactly. 403 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: There was a billion people. There was amazing, it was great. 404 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 3: But these this two girls came up to us and said, 405 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 3: to me, my mom died in September, which coincidentally, so 406 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 3: did mine. 407 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 2: So that number, ye did? 408 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 3: I said, how old? 409 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 2: Did? 410 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 3: I may have asked her how old is your dad? 411 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 3: She said seventy? I said, perfect, Send them my way 412 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 3: a little, a little soon, but she said, and she 413 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 3: started to tear up. She said that she hoped that 414 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 3: after watching us and listening to us, that her dad 415 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 3: would be able, their dad two girls would be able 416 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 3: to rebuild his life and find some happiness. And afterward 417 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 3: listening to us, she said she had hoped that it 418 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:54,959 Speaker 3: would happen that we almost started crying. Was tearing up. 419 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: Crier, she's a crier. So much empathy, it's terrible. 420 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a blessing and a curse. 421 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 2: It is it is. 422 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: I do find that you've the stories and people finally 423 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: feel like they have this chance of like and people. 424 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 1: It was really interesting watching the dynamic of people who 425 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 1: have lost their spouse or gotten a divorce, or you know, 426 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: just weren't together anymore. I think That was another thing 427 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: that I loved about the show is that you felt 428 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: these people, all of you, coming to life again and 429 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: it was such a beautiful thing to witness because we 430 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 1: haven't gotten to really see that half play out on TV, 431 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: especially in a series that's as big as The Bachelor. 432 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 3: So I think it's the age, though. I keep coming 433 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 3: back to that. We are all women of a certain age, 434 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 3: and we've had we've had some of the highest highs 435 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 3: and some of the lowest lows. But here we are 436 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 3: triumphantly living and feeling good about ourselves, and I think 437 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: that comes with age. 438 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. I love the fact that our audience went from 439 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 2: young to old even in the middle. Who are you 440 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: calling old now? Our audience, Oh, they're gonna love that. 441 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 2: I mean, we have we reached people of all ages. 442 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: I think a lot of it was curiosity, Oh my gosh, 443 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 2: we're gonna watch the old broads trying to get a 444 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: dude on TV, you know, but it really struck home 445 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 2: and they continued to watch. 446 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 3: But I think we're re finding look at us. I 447 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 3: think that's another comment we get. We don't I'm seventy 448 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 3: Susan sixty seven. We don't look or act our age, 449 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 3: because it's not about age, it's about being. 450 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: Tell me what that looks like. How do you look 451 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,120 Speaker 2: your age or act your age? There's no such It's true. 452 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: There's a stereotype of a certain and we are the 453 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 1: Golden Girls. 454 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 3: And then you're like, and we're going to break those 455 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 3: stereotypes modern day Golden Girls show. 456 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: I want in the future. Okay, right, how fun would 457 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: that be? 458 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 3: Who are you going to be? I know any of 459 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 3: the We're. 460 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: Not going to do the same exact characters, but we 461 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 2: could do that. 462 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 3: We could do that. 463 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 2: We could do that and entertain everybody. 464 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 3: Honestly, if we do it, we're living together on the show. 465 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 3: We still do my hair. 466 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: Oh go yes, and I'll cook as well. 467 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, metall, wait a second, I do dish. 468 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 2: We can get into that. 469 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 3: Oh please don't please let those meatballs die and refrigerat the. 470 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 2: Meat there we go sixty seven years of eating meatballs. 471 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 1: It wasn't the meatball. 472 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 2: We don't get gas from meatballs. People. 473 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: What if it was the water here? Now it was the. 474 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 2: Onions in there, and I think that's what did it. 475 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 2: The best walk I've ever had, Edith, I love you. 476 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: You can clear it up. You heard it here. First 477 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: it was not the meatballs. 478 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 3: Can I just say the meatballs and the walk were fabulous, 479 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 3: So he's cooking it. I don't care. I was the 480 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,479 Speaker 3: girl in the mansion doing the dishes. 481 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: I did the dishes too. There was a lot of dishes. 482 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 2: The dish are still broken, yes it is why and 483 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 2: two of the ovens and the oven. 484 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 3: But can I just say at the end, like when 485 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 3: I first came, I had dishpan hands, like I'm just 486 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: constantly washing. Then literally watch two cups No, don't remember, seriously, 487 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: two cups your toast, clean bedroom every day, made the beds, 488 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 3: little Nancy would leave it. 489 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: I'd be like tidying up the room, Susan. Literally such 490 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 2: a mom I would. 491 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,479 Speaker 3: I might call it a clean freak aintal but whatever. 492 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 3: But Susie at the end, as we're getting down more 493 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: days into the show, like you do the dishes and 494 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 3: you come back and they're like six coffee like pink. 495 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 2: So many people i'd call them out on it though. 496 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: I did it, I think two days in a row 497 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm done. 498 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:41,400 Speaker 2: Excuse me? 499 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: How many girls in here? Why am I doing all. 500 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 2: These ear cup when you don't have a dish wash. 501 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: With age being able to just be like, gett, you're 502 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: too old for this. We were all scared of each other. 503 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 3: And I have a question, though I am an eminem freak. 504 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:57,959 Speaker 1: The jars. 505 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,479 Speaker 3: Can I just say I'd even take a job filling 506 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 3: those jars because it would be one handful for me, 507 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,360 Speaker 3: one handful for that. 508 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: In the oreowil. 509 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 3: Oreos double stuff. I mean literally, they're sitting there cooking 510 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 3: chicken this and parmesan that, and I'm like, give me 511 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 3: those eminounums. 512 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,199 Speaker 2: This I found amusing. When we went they had all 513 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 2: these frozen meals and I was like, what is all this? 514 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 2: And they go, well, you know that's what they're used 515 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 2: to buying because the young people don't cook as much. No, no, no, no, no, 516 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,479 Speaker 2: where's the list? I need some fresh ingredients like and 517 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 2: then started, Yeah, it was a whole different Oh. 518 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 3: In Teresa, Teresa are green juice. She is she she 519 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 3: dorinks things that should be planted somewhere. I mean, she 520 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 3: is believable. She she it's Teresa plant. We just it's 521 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 3: these auctions in a power mixer. She's like trying. I'm like, 522 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 3: you gotta be kidding. 523 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: Straight from the ground. 524 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 3: And really straight. 525 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 2: It's something I would lire. 526 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 1: There was a moment in the mansion where were you 527 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: all playing Never Have? I? 528 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, this first time I've ever heard of 529 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 2: such a game. And they got me out of the pool. Wow, 530 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 2: because I knew I didn't have to be miked when 531 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 2: I was in the water, so I lived in the water. 532 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: It was freezing, and I just suffered through it because 533 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 1: it was like my mic. 534 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 2: One when I was there. But pulled me out of 535 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 2: the pool. 536 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 3: So I'm in the kitchen eating eminems and. 537 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,679 Speaker 2: And they're close ups with the no makeup, and the 538 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 2: lines are prominently. 539 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 1: Like I promise you were You know how people say 540 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 1: you notice your things yourself. I don't remember that one bit. 541 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 2: But then Never Have I go, isn't that a drinking game? 542 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 2: And they're bringing us ice cream, Sondra being lactose and okay, 543 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 2: So we're. 544 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 3: Sitting with this game and I think I grew up 545 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 3: in a nunnery because my mouth is I got no 546 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 3: ice cream. They didn't show this, but I finally said, 547 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 3: after all these things I'd never done, I'm mostly sexually related, 548 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 3: and you know, I'm not a prude, but some of 549 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 3: the stuff was like, crazy prude, I'll get you back. 550 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 2: Live a little, cups, live a little. She even made 551 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 2: out in the back seat of the car. 552 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 3: I didn't know, what are you kidding me? No, it 553 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 3: was like, you know, having sex with four people on 554 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 3: the top of a canopy bed. I mean, like, but 555 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 3: here's the thing I finally said, which never made the cut. 556 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 3: You're left in the cutting room floor and they're all eating. 557 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 3: They're chowing down on ice cream. They're sending out for 558 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 3: gallons because these people are gonna need another court. Yeah. 559 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 3: So finally I said, never have I ever done washing 560 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 3: and ironing on a Sunday night? Yes, I have. And 561 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 3: I started eating the ice cream like it was. 562 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 2: It was pathetic. 563 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: No, who had the were you up first? 564 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 2: I had to start it like I owned this game, 565 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 2: and it continued. It'll come with me for the rest 566 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 2: of my life, as well as the zipp things. So 567 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 2: when they were saying these things, yes, I kissed the girl, yeah, 568 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 2: she said a sexual relationship? 569 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: Did? 570 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 2: I was eating ice cream? I just yet everything. Then 571 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 2: everything turned up so down. 572 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: So I see what happened. She said, kiss the girl? 573 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: You said yes, And then it turned into. 574 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: It was a sexual It was like you want, I'm open. 575 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 3: Hey, so now the show at this point. 576 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: In time, how long would that clock go before I 577 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 2: might switch teams? 578 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: I mean gonna ask. So was it just that I 579 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: made out with a friend and it was a one 580 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: night I mean. 581 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 2: It was she didn't make kissed and I kissed the 582 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 2: girl and I liked it. That was it? 583 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: Remember you kiss the girl and you liked it. 584 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 2: But you know they didn't show all the content. Not 585 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 2: that I want to throw anybody. 586 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: They can't show everything. 587 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: One of the girls there when they were saying ever 588 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,239 Speaker 2: had a threesome and they're all looking at me like 589 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: they're ready for me, I said, no, this one's like, 590 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: oh yeah. 591 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 3: You've never had her threesome? 592 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:14,239 Speaker 2: No prude, rude? How does it feel? Susan? Wait the 593 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 2: backseat of the car when April said front seat, back seat, 594 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 2: steering wheel, dashboard, Like, yeah, I think April, she's done 595 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 2: it all got wait wait wait. 596 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: Also, the best line ever from April was I don't 597 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 3: ever want to be the wife. I always want to 598 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 3: be the mistress. The mistresses get treated the best. 599 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, like a Holidays, you're smarter than that. 600 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 3: These are things that it was all done and fun 601 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 3: and but so now since the show Susan who does 602 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 3: favor Chris Jenner and our friendship? Peoples right to me, 603 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 3: I'm Caitlyn Jenner. I am brace. I'm like, thank you 604 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 3: for the compliment. Caitlyn Jenner is a beautiful woman. She's stunning. 605 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 3: She is stunning, so. 606 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 2: More beautiful as a woman than she was. I think, well, 607 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 2: looks great. 608 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: Do people ever ask that, I guess there a connection 609 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: between two people? 610 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 2: Ask us, yeah, all the time. Now she's just my 611 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 2: best friend. 612 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 3: We're just friends. And you know if she does my hair, 613 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 3: own cooks for me. 614 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I doesn't have to have a 615 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: sexual element. I'm telling you so. 616 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 3: I think sometimes honestly been serious for a second, which 617 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 3: I really am, I think that people find it's hard 618 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 3: to find friends that click like we have clicked, and 619 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 3: especially at our age and life. And that's why I 620 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 3: feel so grateful. And I think sometimes people look at 621 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 3: that and like, yeah, that's not a real thing. 622 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: So my cousin Donna, and I quote Donna, I hope 623 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 2: you get to hear this, cousin don Donnas, you're not 624 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 2: allowed to accept any more friends. You have enough friends. 625 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: No more friends, there's not enough time. I've been on 626 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 2: stage all my life doing hair. I entertained people in 627 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 2: the salon for forty years. It's just who I am. 628 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 2: So this was just a continuation of who I am. 629 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 2: And I think it's difficult again for people out there 630 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 2: our age to make friends, especially you know, when you 631 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 2: move to a new city, you don't bond like best 632 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,719 Speaker 2: friends from college or school or from your workplace. You know, 633 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 2: it's more difficult. 634 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 3: And when I've talked to my daughter all the time 635 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,239 Speaker 3: about this because she just had a baby, and you know, 636 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 3: she says, gosh, what if we ever moved? How While 637 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 3: I make friends when you're young, if you have children 638 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 3: or your namehood, you're out at bars. It's so easy. 639 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 3: The gym, you have things to make friends. But when 640 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 3: you get to be our age, then those things are removed, 641 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 3: right And so I get out, I go to yogurt, 642 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 3: I go to a pilates class, and I work out 643 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 3: at the gym. But you really have to work harder 644 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: at making friends. So I'm thanking the Bachelor because we 645 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 3: had so many sweet friends. 646 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 2: And I recommend get stuck in a room for six 647 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 2: weeks with women. You'll find one you'll. 648 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 3: Like someone who will do your hair, and yeah, is 649 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 3: that why you liked me? Kat listen doing my hair? Wait? 650 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 3: Can I just say people have talked online about my hair? 651 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 2: Thank you. 652 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 3: Susan told me to cut it. Susan told me to 653 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 3: go darker, and Susan told me to get it straight. 654 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 3: And so let me say publicly, for the nineteenth time, 655 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 3: thank you Susan. 656 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: I was actually going to say, your hair looks so good? 657 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 1: How it is? I should have known it was due 658 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: to the advice. 659 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 2: It's a thing that I have. And I saw her 660 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 2: and she was getting highlights and it wasn't bad at all. 661 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 2: It was pretty. But I just said, you're striking. You 662 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 2: have beautiful cheekbones, great eyes. Her hair should be a 663 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:13,240 Speaker 2: certain length, and you know, I just know a lot 664 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 2: of my clients slash friends now have told me over 665 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 2: the years they were afraid to sit in my chair 666 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 2: for what I might say. 667 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 3: Can I just say the other night we were at 668 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 3: the iHeart Music Awards, which may I say, was the 669 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 3: most fun. Thank you, iHeart Radio the best. But Susan 670 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 3: is sitting next to me. I'm not sure we're not 671 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 3: going to mention any names, but she's pointing at the 672 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 3: performers going she used to change the haircut? Yeap that color, Susan. 673 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 3: Can we just enjoy this evening? Do you really have 674 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 3: to critique their hands? 675 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 2: It's something you can't help it. I couldn't tell you 676 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 2: what they had on the hair. Oh that shade is 677 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,399 Speaker 2: so I could make her. 678 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 1: Look You're never at peace, You're always watching. 679 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 2: If you ever go to church, and I used to 680 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 2: sit in the back of the church, I mean back 681 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 2: of the pew, and the lady in front of me, 682 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, did she not have a rear view mirror? 683 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 2: Or she got bed head down to here in the 684 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,399 Speaker 2: front sal tee? Stuff like what it's wrong? 685 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes I tell my girlfriends sometimes will leave the house 686 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: and I'll see the back of her head and I'm like, 687 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 1: did you that's none of That's none of my business 688 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: what my hair looks like. 689 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 3: To you, Because I'm one of those girls. I got 690 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 3: you to. Here's the thing. I want people to see 691 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 3: me coming and say, she looks great. I love. I 692 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 3: don't give us what they say. When I'm gone, I'm 693 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:34,959 Speaker 3: past them. It's over. 694 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 2: Unless you're my friends. 695 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: The interaction has happened, right, it's over. Okay, dating, do. 696 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 3: You hear those sounds? 697 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 2: We're both ready, you're both ready willing this stage. I 698 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 2: know exactly what I need in my life or I 699 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:55,240 Speaker 2: want in my life. 700 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 3: And it's different than when we were young. When when 701 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 3: I was young, and I got married at twenty and 702 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,439 Speaker 3: was married almost forty six years. So when I got 703 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 3: married and I married a great guy, I was very lucky, truly. 704 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 3: But when you're young and getting married, you're looking for 705 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 3: that partner to raise children with, to build a life with, 706 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 3: to work together, you know, financially, buy a first all 707 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 3: those things when you're our age. I can't speak for Susan, 708 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 3: but for me, I'm looking for someone to have fun with, 709 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 3: someone to travel with, someone to laugh a share sunsets with. Yeah, 710 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,879 Speaker 3: join me in this last chapter that. 711 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 2: The moment especial, but somebody that could understand and appreciate 712 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 2: who I am. Okay, but what my big personality and 713 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 2: laugh they had last sense of humor. 714 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,280 Speaker 3: We do not want to be a nurse or a purse. 715 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 2: Well, you know the nurse part does happen later in 716 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 2: life sometimes might be us. Will you take care of it? Jill, Kathy, 717 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 2: I heard somebody, but I'll visit and cook. 718 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 3: Women. 719 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 1: She'll support you. 720 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 2: Wait, I'll be therefore a. 721 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 3: Blue when I'm ninety. 722 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 2: Let me tell you when you're laid down the single. 723 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,240 Speaker 2: Bye everybody, you look good. I promise you you'll look I'm. 724 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 3: Never sayingle bye. But seriously, we would love to date. 725 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 3: But honestly, in my dms, and there's not been many 726 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 3: for either of us, but in mine it's been. I 727 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,959 Speaker 3: had a thirty five year old, a couple of forty 728 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 3: year olds, and they're good looking guys. But I've already rased. 729 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 3: I raised my husband. I'm not going back there. 730 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,240 Speaker 2: I'm not in teaching mode. 731 00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: It's not in teaching them for any any type of lesson. 732 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 2: Like waiting for thirty. My children are thirty five and 733 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 2: thirty children. 734 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: Would absolutely die either of you took those opportunities. 735 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 2: I would never do that. 736 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 1: Ever. 737 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, I'll flirt. Hold on, hold on, hold on, Susan, Yes, 738 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 3: yout you just told me. Age is only a number. 739 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 2: Oh it is? So how already did you back to 740 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 2: sixty seven years? 741 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: Know the age was twelve years and you're said ten. 742 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 2: Very good. I'm maybe fourteen if it was really special connection. 743 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,800 Speaker 3: But here's my thing. I want a guy who's retired, 744 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 3: because if you can't do fun things. 745 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 2: Your best friend, you want your buddy buddy. 746 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 3: You don't want sex. 747 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 2: Off the record, now, chill off the record never has Yes, 748 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,280 Speaker 2: I hope it still works. 749 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: I'm telling I'm being told it's time to wrap upt 750 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: sit here and chot for hours with you guys. But 751 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 1: I am so happy for you and it's been I'm serious, like, 752 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 1: I was so excited to do this podcast with y'all 753 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 1: because I'm a fan, and I also I am just 754 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: so happy that y'all are having the same experiences and 755 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 1: opportunities that that I've gotten to have having gone on 756 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: the Bachelor and everyone check out the podcast Bachelor Happy Hour, 757 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 1: Golden Hour. 758 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,359 Speaker 3: Golden Hour click follow, follow us sending your questions. 759 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 2: We love the questions. 760 00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, a question to me to Bachelor Nation dot com 761 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 3: okay slash Goldenour. 762 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation dot com slash Golden Hour. 763 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,319 Speaker 2: And they're starting to come in. 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