WEBVTT - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (2-23-25)

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<v Speaker 1>Back with a Sunday sampler. Matt Stell in New Orleans.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you're here from me. We were at the

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<v Speaker 1>super Bowl and he played against Lebron James in high

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<v Speaker 1>school and his mom recorded over the video and so

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play that coming up in a second. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna hear clips of a bunch of podcasts here,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you like any of the stories, go check

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<v Speaker 1>out that individual podcast. I would recommend Doctor Josie's podcast

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<v Speaker 1>if you love animals and celebrities, and check out Morgan's

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<v Speaker 1>new podcast as well, called Take This Personally.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to start with this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an episode from the Bobby Cast this week with

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<v Speaker 1>country music superstar Matt Stell.

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<v Speaker 3>I moved to Nashville, finally got a publishing deal, and

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<v Speaker 3>about six months into that publishing deal, I think, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>prayed for You with a couple people in town and

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<v Speaker 3>my manager at the time, I'm and Alison Vell. Shout

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<v Speaker 3>out Alison the songs about her husband, and I wrote

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<v Speaker 3>pray for You, and I I thought we had written

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<v Speaker 3>a good song that day, but I I had no

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<v Speaker 3>idea it was like gonna be a life changing hit song,

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<v Speaker 3>and no idea, and so my publishing company were putting

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<v Speaker 3>out an EP and they're like, we should put these songs,

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<v Speaker 3>and my publishers like, man, you should put Prayed for

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<v Speaker 3>You on there too.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, well, let me stop you for

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<v Speaker 1>a second, because if you wrote write Pray for You,

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<v Speaker 1>you three were just together generally writing, and then your

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<v Speaker 1>publisher were just gonna go and pitch the song. You

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<v Speaker 1>aren't writing for anything specific. She didn't have anybody in mind.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think they were I mean, I think we

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<v Speaker 3>were kind of writing for We were writing for me,

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<v Speaker 3>because you know, the idea was like, we're gonna put

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<v Speaker 3>an EP together. I get, you know, pitched to lay.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see we get some traction.

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<v Speaker 1>But I wanted to know, like what was the purpose

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<v Speaker 1>of the right to me?

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<v Speaker 3>I was in there writing this song that is like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm proud to say it's a good song. I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>proud of that song. It's not the kind of music

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<v Speaker 3>that I thought I would be making, you know, from

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<v Speaker 3>what we just talked about. But I wrote that song

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<v Speaker 3>and I was, you know, cool, awesome, wrote.

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<v Speaker 4>A good song.

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<v Speaker 2>The day you finished.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think it was good?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was good.

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<v Speaker 1>It was for you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know, Like I had never written a hit

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<v Speaker 3>song before, Like I wasn't one of these guys that

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<v Speaker 3>just moved to town and like lighting it hits in

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<v Speaker 3>a battle.

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<v Speaker 1>Like thematically when you finished it were like nothing says Stelle.

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<v Speaker 1>I prayed for you, like I just wonder right, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it doesn't sound based on the things that you

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<v Speaker 1>heard that didn't resonate with you. And this is the

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<v Speaker 1>irony of it, is that, especially the music you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to make, you finished the song and it's like man

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<v Speaker 1>stamp of Stelle just right there exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, to be honest with you, Bobby, I

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<v Speaker 3>have I've tried to put more and be more me

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<v Speaker 3>in the music that I've made as an artist because

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't an artist at that, Like I wasn't a

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<v Speaker 3>person on the radio with then like we put that

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<v Speaker 3>song out in that EP out and John Marx was

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<v Speaker 3>at Spotify at the time, and my other manager emailed him.

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<v Speaker 3>They put that song on Spotify and it started. It

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<v Speaker 3>was like a million streams a week on without much

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<v Speaker 3>at all playlisting. And then it, I mean it organically

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<v Speaker 3>did it blew?

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<v Speaker 1>It went viral. Before that, it was that social media

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<v Speaker 1>was viraling songs to deals.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>For yeah, it was it went viral. Yeah, basically like

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<v Speaker 3>for me music, my socials have always followed my music.

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<v Speaker 3>They have not like my George Birds, you know, one

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<v Speaker 3>of my good friends, he's a little bit the other way,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, social media. He's really good at it, and

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<v Speaker 3>he's also very good at music, but his socials are

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<v Speaker 3>the are the the bell cow you know, that gets

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<v Speaker 3>all that great music to people. And me, I've always

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<v Speaker 3>my soles have always lagged behind whatever music I had.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, man, that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we shot it a single, like was it

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<v Speaker 1>in your mind? Because again, if you send it to

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<v Speaker 1>Spotify and John used to be the guy Spotify, was

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<v Speaker 1>it this? I guess singles a weird word if you're not.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually it was the single.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the song, It was the scene. It was

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<v Speaker 3>the one song we sent.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we were you trying to service it to

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<v Speaker 1>radio as well? Well?

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<v Speaker 3>At that point we were, you know, I was going

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<v Speaker 3>and playing some songs in some offices downtown, but I really,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, hadn't nailed anything. You know, we had a

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<v Speaker 3>little interest here and there, but I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 3>record deal or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like the song where you were like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good song, but I don't really want this

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<v Speaker 1>to be the single. Even though the song was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Did part of you not want to be the single

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<v Speaker 1>because it was love?

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<v Speaker 3>And in my you know, if I'm being honest, I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted that song to be a multi week number one

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<v Speaker 3>for Blake Shelton or for whoever. Like I thought that's

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<v Speaker 3>what I was doing because I thought we'd written a

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<v Speaker 3>good song that day. But man, you know, for me

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<v Speaker 3>in this business and how hard it was and to

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<v Speaker 3>get started and getting started late, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 3>have an opportunity, I've never been one that was so

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<v Speaker 3>confident in myself that I would be picking and choosy

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<v Speaker 3>about opportunities. And so when that song hit like it did,

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<v Speaker 3>we started getting calls from some labels. Then we got

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<v Speaker 3>a call and signed a deal and blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that led to you know, whatever, did.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to have like an internal conversation of this

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<v Speaker 1>is not exactly what I thought it would be, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is awesome, so we're gonna commit and just.

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<v Speaker 3>Go Yeah, Well I knew I just wanted to make

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<v Speaker 3>music that mattered to people. And I did struggle with

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<v Speaker 3>this a little bit earlier. Yeah, to answer your question,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I had, I always want to make music

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<v Speaker 3>that mattered to people. But I never thought I was

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be as someone who wrote like one of the

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<v Speaker 3>bigger wedding songs. I wasn't married. I mean, if it like,

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't even engaged at that time, I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>maybe you know, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Those those timelines seem like they're parallel, but they're different

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<v Speaker 3>tracks of mine.

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<v Speaker 5>But uh, yeah, I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>And now you know, now that I am married and

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<v Speaker 3>found somebody that I that I think those things about

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<v Speaker 3>that song makes even makes more sense to me now.

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<v Speaker 3>Number one, But number two, it is really really humbling

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<v Speaker 3>and special that people want to include that song, get

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<v Speaker 3>it tattooed on them, somebody has those lyrics on a

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<v Speaker 3>headstone like that. I that there's no amount of like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh wow, I wish this. I wish my famous song

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<v Speaker 3>was about whiskey. You know, Like dude, I'm just glad

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<v Speaker 3>to have made any music that matters to people. And

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I mean there was that the questions you're

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<v Speaker 3>asking were questions I asked myself, And these are the

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<v Speaker 3>answers to those questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Cast up little food for your song.

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<v Speaker 5>Life. It's pretty, it's pretty beautiful.

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<v Speaker 6>That for a little moth would it's exciting?

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<v Speaker 1>A course said he you're kicking it with full thing

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<v Speaker 1>with Amy Brown.

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<v Speaker 7>All right, let's talk about why we put things off

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<v Speaker 7>that we really want to do. Like I want you

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<v Speaker 7>to think about something that you really wanted to do

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<v Speaker 7>but you put it off, or that you currently really

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<v Speaker 7>want to do, but you are putting it off at

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<v Speaker 7>this exact moment, even though you know it's something that

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<v Speaker 7>you're going to totally enjoy and you want to do it.

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<v Speaker 7>I have done this many times now, about a year

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<v Speaker 7>and a half ago, I think it was maybe even

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<v Speaker 7>two years at this point. Time has been weird lately.

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<v Speaker 7>I took an improv class and I absolutely loved it.

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<v Speaker 7>I left it feeling energized, and I told myself that

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<v Speaker 7>I would sign up for another session soon. So they're

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<v Speaker 7>eight week courses. But guess what, I totally put it

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<v Speaker 7>off and put it off and put it off. I

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<v Speaker 7>originally signed up for after I had that teeny tiny

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<v Speaker 7>role in the Christmas movie Holiday harmony. My scene was

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<v Speaker 7>in the bathroom. Not sure if y'all saw it. My

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<v Speaker 7>kids thought that my bathroom scene was hilarious. My debut

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<v Speaker 7>in a movie and I had my lines in a bathroom,

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<v Speaker 7>but I loved the entire experience. So after that, I

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<v Speaker 7>decided to take improv lessons and acting lessons to you know,

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<v Speaker 7>hone in on my skills. I obviously should have done

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<v Speaker 7>that stuff before I filmed the movie, but I was

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<v Speaker 7>playing myself and it was sort of a last minute

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<v Speaker 7>thing that I got invited to do, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't have time to take any lessons. I'm just

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<v Speaker 7>gonna go for it. And I had no idea how

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<v Speaker 7>much I was gonna love the whole thing. So then

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<v Speaker 7>I decided I would like to pursue more of these opportunities,

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm gonna do the acting lessons, I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 7>the improv And I did all that and then just stopped,

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<v Speaker 7>stopped going, didn't pursue anything. And I really think it

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<v Speaker 7>boiled down to that. I the rejection, and I don't

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<v Speaker 7>know why we do this to ourselves, because I know

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<v Speaker 7>better than that I have heard from others. I've even

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<v Speaker 7>shared on this podcast I know that we have to

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<v Speaker 7>just go for things. We can't fear the failure because

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<v Speaker 7>even from the failure, obstacle is the way we will

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<v Speaker 7>learn from it. We will grow from it. We have

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<v Speaker 7>the question that Donald Miller gave us, what does this

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<v Speaker 7>make possible? So I know all the things? So why

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<v Speaker 7>was I putting it off? Like why did I quit?

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<v Speaker 7>And then why did I just ignore it even though

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<v Speaker 7>I've had it on my list for sure the last

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<v Speaker 7>six to eight months. Sign up for another improv class,

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<v Speaker 7>sign up for another improv class. Like when we know

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<v Speaker 7>we want something and then fear creeps in. Uh, it's

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<v Speaker 7>the worst when the fear wins. And that's what happened

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<v Speaker 7>to me. I feel like we easily convince ourselves that

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<v Speaker 7>we don't really want it because that's easier than failing.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's sort of what I started to tell myself.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, well, I guess it's not so something that

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<v Speaker 7>I really wanted, because if I wanted it, I would

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<v Speaker 7>be signing up for it. Or we tell ourselves that

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<v Speaker 7>we're going to wait for the perfect time, then the

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<v Speaker 7>perfect time never comes, and we think about doing it

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<v Speaker 7>so much that we exhaust ourselves before we even get started,

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<v Speaker 7>and that's exactly what happened to me. However, I had

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<v Speaker 7>a turning point today. I finally signed back up for

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<v Speaker 7>the improv classes. Like before I hit record, I made

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<v Speaker 7>myself go to the website. I signed up. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 7>be taking classes starting in March. It'll be for eight

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<v Speaker 7>weeks every Tuesday night, six thirty to nine thirty. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>sure I'll run into some issues there, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 7>have to navigate around that. This is something that's important

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<v Speaker 7>to me. So for the next eight weeks, that's where

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to be on Tuesday nights. You can't miss

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<v Speaker 7>more than two or you have to start over. And

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<v Speaker 7>I did level one a while back, and I got

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<v Speaker 7>to do level one again because so much time past,

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<v Speaker 7>I would feel ridiculous going into level two. So I'm

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<v Speaker 7>gonna start level one. I'm going to see how it goes,

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<v Speaker 7>and then if I still love it, I'm gonna roll

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<v Speaker 7>in to level two. But I'm proud of myself for

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<v Speaker 7>finally signing up for the class, and I hope that

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<v Speaker 7>that will encourage any of you right now, if there's

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<v Speaker 7>something you've been putting off, maybe even pause this right

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<v Speaker 7>now and go look up what it is you need

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<v Speaker 7>to do. Go to the website. Can you sign up

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<v Speaker 7>for it? Do you need to look at your calendar?

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<v Speaker 8>What is it you need to do?

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<v Speaker 7>Like, if you've been putting off something, ask yourself why

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<v Speaker 7>you're putting it off. Is it fear? Is it perfectionism,

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<v Speaker 7>is it lack of time, whatever it is, Acknowledge why

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<v Speaker 7>you're putting it off, and figure out a way to

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<v Speaker 7>make it work. When we do that, it will help

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<v Speaker 7>get us out of the what if cycle, which is

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<v Speaker 7>what I need to get out of. I will just know,

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<v Speaker 7>and I owe it to myself to give it a try,

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<v Speaker 7>and so do you.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do it. Live Oh the one, two, three,

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<v Speaker 2>sore losers?

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<v Speaker 5>What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most

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<v Speaker 5>about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my

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<v Speaker 5>sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.

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<v Speaker 5>It's Sison.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. I live

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<v Speaker 2>on the north side of Nashville with Bayser, my wife.

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<v Speaker 5>We do have a farm.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of crops, hopefully soon corn pumpkins. Rye I believe maybe

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<v Speaker 2>a little fescue to be determined over to you, coach.

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<v Speaker 5>And here's a clip from this week's episode of The

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<v Speaker 5>Sore Losers Jasmine with Nashville sc Hi. I'm just letting

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<v Speaker 5>you know I'm your new ticket rep.

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<v Speaker 2>How's it going, Jazzy?

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like okay, And she's like, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to call and see as a season ticket member. If

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<v Speaker 5>every if you're happy with everything that's going on and

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<v Speaker 5>every the process and everything. I said, well, I do

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<v Speaker 5>have a few questions here we go, Do I have

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<v Speaker 5>any comments? And she goes, are you just are you

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<v Speaker 5>looking forward to this upcoming season? I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>last season ended on a little bit of a rough note.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we were really pissed poor towards the end

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<v Speaker 5>of the year. What do you like on the in

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<v Speaker 5>the midfield? Like? What what did we do to address

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<v Speaker 5>the situation? She's like, excuse me, I'm like, like, how

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<v Speaker 5>are we going to score more goals? It seems like

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<v Speaker 5>it takes a lot of effort for us to score

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<v Speaker 5>just one goal. When we go to the games, we

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<v Speaker 5>don't really score a lot of goals and we get

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<v Speaker 5>beat two to nothing, three to nothing, and if we

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<v Speaker 5>score one goal, it's a it's a miracle. How what

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<v Speaker 5>have we done to improve that need? Somebody better than

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<v Speaker 5>muck tar And she's like, oh, sir, I'm just calling

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<v Speaker 5>about your season tickets.

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<v Speaker 2>That wasn't in her training class.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, yeah, I know you're calling about my

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<v Speaker 5>season tickets. But you said if I have any questions,

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<v Speaker 5>and I said, and I saw that we let our

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<v Speaker 5>backup goalie go. Do you know was there a reason

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<v Speaker 5>behind that?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Contract issues?

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<v Speaker 5>And she's like, I didn't make that decision. I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>your ticket rep. Like I'm just handling anything on your

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<v Speaker 5>season ticket sales, Like if you need any help with.

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<v Speaker 2>That, dude. She's just trying to draw check in the

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<v Speaker 2>box by your name.

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<v Speaker 7>Bro.

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<v Speaker 5>She has a list of people that she is supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to call now that she has this job, to introduce

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<v Speaker 5>herself and like get the ball rolling, like just so

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<v Speaker 5>you know who she is. And she can say, yep,

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<v Speaker 5>I did that, yep I did that. She reports or

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<v Speaker 5>a boss. I talked to all thirty people on my

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<v Speaker 5>list and they are all happy. And I just start

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<v Speaker 5>pestering her with questions. I said, you know, last year

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<v Speaker 5>was the first year we didn't make the playoffs. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>what's the you know mood around the office.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, at the office, we always like to network on Fridays.

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<v Speaker 5>She says, Well, we're really looking forward to this season,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know, we're really glad that you're a season

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<v Speaker 5>ticket member. Is there anything else I can do for you?

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, well, like, how are we going to

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<v Speaker 5>handle the firepower of Messi and his boys when they

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<v Speaker 5>come up from Miami.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I went to a couple of games with

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<v Speaker 2>the girls and drink.

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<v Speaker 5>She goes, if you do need me at a game,

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<v Speaker 5>I will be there if you you know, if you

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<v Speaker 5>tell me beforehand, I can come down to your seats.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, well, how is that gonna help us

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<v Speaker 5>stop Messi? And she's like, I don't I don't know that, sir, sir.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to get you to renew at your

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<v Speaker 2>rock bottom price of forty dollars for the season pass.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I hit her with like ten questions, cut

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<v Speaker 5>her on the phone for at least fifteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got to improve her life and how you view

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<v Speaker 2>your job. If she does enjoy ted Lasso.

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<v Speaker 5>I should ask her. I said, Hey, did ted Lasso

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<v Speaker 5>inspire you to apply for this.

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<v Speaker 2>I should have had that one because that does make

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<v Speaker 2>it cooler that she's working at a stadium and then

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<v Speaker 2>also can just go outside and watch the games. I

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<v Speaker 2>wonder if her offices are at the stadium. They have

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<v Speaker 2>to be.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, that's a great question.

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<v Speaker 2>Then that makes me jealous that they had the ted

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<v Speaker 2>Lasso life because that was pretty cool. How the one

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<v Speaker 2>lady whoever the owner of the Yeah, how she'd always

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<v Speaker 2>go into her office. Sum, Yeah, it was so great.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a pretty dope office.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that.

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<v Speaker 5>I wonder, my friend Jinny works for Austin FC, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'll ask her if her office is at the stadium,

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<v Speaker 5>because that would be so. I would have asked questions

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<v Speaker 5>like that. Instead you're being a dick and you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>so Hanni. Muktar and Zimmerman they weren't very social when

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<v Speaker 5>they would lose a game and then you guys would

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<v Speaker 5>have your meet and greets you, why don't you do

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<v Speaker 5>something constructive where you said, hey, it was really hard.

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<v Speaker 5>The one cool time was when my kids played basketball

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<v Speaker 5>with Muktar. There's been other times though, where they get

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<v Speaker 5>one hot dog and you guys run out, why didn't

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<v Speaker 5>you address that? I should have addressed Meet the Team Day.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, hey, so two years so fit with meet

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<v Speaker 5>the Team Day. Two years ago we went to Meet

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<v Speaker 5>the Team day and you, if you were a season

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<v Speaker 5>ticket member, you got to go and you got to

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<v Speaker 5>do all this stuff. But my kids didn't get to

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<v Speaker 5>do anything because everything we did was, oh, you have

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<v Speaker 5>to have a risk band for that, you have to

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<v Speaker 5>have a risk band for this, you have to have

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<v Speaker 5>this collar risk And there were no damn wristbands. But

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<v Speaker 5>no one said that on the copy, like how have we.

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<v Speaker 2>Worked to improve that? That would have been a good question.

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<v Speaker 5>That would have been a great question.

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<v Speaker 2>She would listen.

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<v Speaker 5>She would have been like, I didn't even know we

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<v Speaker 5>have fan Meet the Fan day. This is only my

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<v Speaker 5>second day on the job.

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<v Speaker 2>Sir, You're gonna hang up and listen. You're hanging up.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh So, I thought, I'm sitting there laughing to myself.

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<v Speaker 5>And I get off the phone and my wife was like,

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<v Speaker 5>who was that. I said, Oh, that was our new

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<v Speaker 5>season season ticket rep with Nashville. Escia's Jasmine. She goes, well,

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<v Speaker 5>what the hell were you asking her all those questions for?

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, oh, I thought I was being funny.

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<v Speaker 5>She goes, that is so awkward. I'm like, I cracked

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<v Speaker 5>myself up. She goes, She's not going to know the

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<v Speaker 5>answer to that. That poor girl is just trying to

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<v Speaker 5>do her job. She has so many more people to call,

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<v Speaker 5>and you just took up fifteen minutes of her time.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, I laughed to myself, And my question

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<v Speaker 5>is is that Jasmine girl When she gets off the

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<v Speaker 5>phone with me, was she laughing or was she was like?

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<v Speaker 5>What the hell did I get myself into? What you

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<v Speaker 5>did was funny.

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<v Speaker 2>The nation will think what you did was funny her

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<v Speaker 2>that was part of her job, so that you were

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<v Speaker 2>probably a nuisance. But I will say I love that

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<v Speaker 2>you had fun with people on the phone. I do

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<v Speaker 2>it a little too much to the now, the point

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<v Speaker 2>baser makes me go in the other room even if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ordering pizza, because I'll be like, hey, how's it going,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you What are you guys doing there at

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<v Speaker 2>the old pizza joint?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're just gonna do two pizzas, gonna try and

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<v Speaker 2>eat them up and sop up that beer. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. She gets so secondhand cringe that she'll

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<v Speaker 2>make me go in the other room and do it.

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<v Speaker 2>My wife said, I was suffering from second hand embarrassment.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes, that makes me so uncomfortable. You just gotta

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<v Speaker 2>do in the other room.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys have been there.

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<v Speaker 1>You do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You on the patio, you have a little fun with

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<v Speaker 2>the local pizza joint, whether it's a kid that smoked

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<v Speaker 2>a little too much or a guy that's a dead

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<v Speaker 2>end job. You can't just make these phone calls cut

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<v Speaker 2>and dried.

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<v Speaker 5>My last question to her was, uh, coach Callahan, Like

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<v Speaker 5>what has he been doing around Nashville in the offseason?

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<v Speaker 5>Is he getting it because we hired him midway through

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<v Speaker 5>the season, Like has he put down roots here? And

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<v Speaker 5>what's his attitude like? And she was like, I haven't

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<v Speaker 5>met the coach. That's surprising. Well, she's only been there

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<v Speaker 5>for like a week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh she really only had Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I'm your new ticket rep. I just

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<v Speaker 5>started with National sc I'm just reaching out to let

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<v Speaker 5>you know the h here's the list that this one

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<v Speaker 5>man asked me. I need to know all of this stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Apparently I'm supposed to call him back by Wednesday. Dude,

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know they're going to give you personalized calls.

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<v Speaker 5>I might need to become a season ticket member, dude.

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<v Speaker 5>They were pretty hands on. No, No, they only call

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<v Speaker 5>you when they first start the job to introduce themselves

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<v Speaker 5>and if you need anything. Do you have any questions?

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<v Speaker 5>She said, do you have any questions? And so I

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<v Speaker 5>had questions, how are we going to score more goals?

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<v Speaker 5>What did we do to improve our midfield? Why do

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<v Speaker 5>we let our backup goalie go that blocks all the pks?

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<v Speaker 5>And I want to know what the coach has been

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<v Speaker 5>up to.

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<v Speaker 2>If a place did call you after you went to

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<v Speaker 2>an event, a restaurant or anything, would it annoy you

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<v Speaker 2>or would it seem like the the fact she's calling

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<v Speaker 2>you seems like she cares what you're saying. It only

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<v Speaker 2>happens once a year and.

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<v Speaker 5>Once a year and it's like I get a new

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<v Speaker 5>ticket rep every four months. They don't stay around very long.

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<v Speaker 5>Is she trying to upsell you? I don't get hout

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<v Speaker 5>is How is it a base pay? No, it's it's see.

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<v Speaker 2>If I was her, i'd try to upsell you. Why

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<v Speaker 2>is she not trying to get you in a better seat?

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<v Speaker 2>I'd have turned it on you. Well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to be right next to coach and ask

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<v Speaker 2>those questions. We can get you in our premium seating

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<v Speaker 2>right on the first base line, which is also that's

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<v Speaker 2>I use baseball terminology. I'm not familiar with soccer, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's right along your visitors dugout zone the net pitch.

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<v Speaker 2>So dude, I'm gonna try and hit you like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't think. Like I said, they had the

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<v Speaker 5>chance for upgrades a couple months ago, like you could

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<v Speaker 5>change your seats, you know what I mean, Like they

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<v Speaker 5>already went through that. She missed that part.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's how I would have hit you. I would have

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<v Speaker 2>hit you with, sir, when you go to our games?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you getting the party pack? Uh? No, I just

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<v Speaker 2>get a hot dog and lemonade? Okay, Well are you

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<v Speaker 2>the cheap skate of your What if you got some

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<v Speaker 2>better seats? Is that can help with clients, your family,

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<v Speaker 2>your wife, your kids, getting a better view of the players.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's try and get you locked in today. See, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna upsell your ass.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not bad. Yep, Damn, I need to look into that.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you want to see the coach come on and

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<v Speaker 5>off the field where you can hear those questions. You

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<v Speaker 5>need to move to the other side of the stadium

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<v Speaker 5>where you're at. The coach will never even know you're

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<v Speaker 5>in the stadium.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, my seats are pretty high.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh yeah, I mean I do see him down

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<v Speaker 5>there when I pull out my binoculars and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Look and I can see him. And I got a

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<v Speaker 2>problem with our seats. They're in the sun. Sir, if

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<v Speaker 2>you do this upgrade today, I'm personally I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>deliver a pair of ray Bans to your office on Monday,

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<v Speaker 2>and you can wear those every time you come to

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<v Speaker 2>the game. Coach, I need to be in sales. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>at I'm in the wrong industry.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh man, So that that was my I thought I

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<v Speaker 5>was funny, but I don't know if Jasmine enjoyed my jokes.

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<v Speaker 5>My wife didn't. And so then I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 5>does everybody go through this where they they're in their

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<v Speaker 5>own head like this is so damn funny, Jasmine, what

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<v Speaker 5>are you wearing? No, I didn't ask that. I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>ask that. I didn't ask that you were in the

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<v Speaker 5>national sc uniform. Do you have that new jersey? By chance?

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<v Speaker 5>Can you send one over my way? Because you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a season ticket member and I never got one.

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<v Speaker 5>They used to send them to the station.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing, Jasm been here at work. They don't let us

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<v Speaker 2>wear sweatpants or hoodies anymore. What are you wearing?

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<v Speaker 5>What's the dress coat over there at NSC?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Just the high heels and slacks and then sometimes skirts.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes I wear some soccer shorts, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>And I put a jersey on.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Wonder how old Candae is doing over there?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, she don't work there anymore.

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<v Speaker 10>I think you told me that, Erica, thank you so

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<v Speaker 10>much for joining me.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you?

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<v Speaker 11>Thank you? I'm good. I've been really excited to talk

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<v Speaker 11>to you.

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<v Speaker 8>What's super frustrating on dating apps? Because you get on

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<v Speaker 8>there with great intentions.

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<v Speaker 12>When the constant pimpelling happens, you get very frustrated. Why

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<v Speaker 12>do you think it is that people find themselves in

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<v Speaker 12>this kind of rotating pin pal type situation.

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<v Speaker 9>I think most people are generally clueless. They don't know

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<v Speaker 9>how to how or when to transition from that conversation

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<v Speaker 9>to the date. And so if I can do anything

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<v Speaker 9>to help people speed that up, I certainly will. I

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<v Speaker 9>don't think people have I don't think I'm in general,

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<v Speaker 9>I don't think people have some nefarious intentions to just

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<v Speaker 9>waste your time on this.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people do.

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<v Speaker 9>Sure, some people are doing it for that validation. Oh

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<v Speaker 9>look at me, I'm still desirable. But I never want

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<v Speaker 9>to meet these people. Oh I'm just out of a relationship.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't actually want to date. I just want to

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<v Speaker 9>make sure people still like me. Yeah, of course there

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<v Speaker 9>are some people out there like that. But on the whole,

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<v Speaker 9>I think people generally do want to meet, and they

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<v Speaker 9>really just don't like no one taught this.

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<v Speaker 7>Skill in school.

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<v Speaker 11>It's a new skill, and so people really just don't know.

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<v Speaker 11>So I would say, give the benefit of it out.

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<v Speaker 9>That's why you're going to use your language to try

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<v Speaker 9>to get it closer to a date, or just ask

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<v Speaker 9>yourself and then you know from their answer, because they

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<v Speaker 9>could either just not answer you, in which case there's

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<v Speaker 9>clearly no date. They could ignore your suggestion of meeting,

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<v Speaker 9>in which case they either didn't understand or have no

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<v Speaker 9>interest in meeting, or they could grab.

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<v Speaker 13>It and run with it.

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<v Speaker 11>You win either way because you know exactly what your

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<v Speaker 11>next step is.

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<v Speaker 8>It's the basic skill of communicating, which.

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<v Speaker 11>It is, but but again, maybe it's not basic, Maybe

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<v Speaker 11>it's not common. Maybe it's not basic.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, you also have this step which I love and

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<v Speaker 12>I've incorporated into my dating and it's been super helpful

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<v Speaker 12>to find who really is a good communicator.

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<v Speaker 8>Is the ask two questions and then make a statement.

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<v Speaker 11>Oh my god? Yes, So tell everyone about it in

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<v Speaker 11>case they don't help.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I want you to tell them you're the expert.

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<v Speaker 1>You came up with it.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean you, you nailed it.

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<v Speaker 9>So okay, So let's have a mock conversation. So we

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<v Speaker 9>are on a dating app, we match and send me

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<v Speaker 9>a message. What would you ask me?

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<v Speaker 13>And what I've whatever? Anything?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi, Erica, what are your favorite genres of food?

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<v Speaker 11>I love Italian and tie?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh that's really exciting. What's your favorite place in town

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<v Speaker 8>to go to?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 11>There's this place called Regent Tie.

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<v Speaker 12>I really like.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh that's really good.

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<v Speaker 2>We did it.

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<v Speaker 5>We did it.

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<v Speaker 11>That was the exercise, So exactly what we did here.

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<v Speaker 9>You're engaging me in conversation, and I am shutting it

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<v Speaker 9>down at every turn by not asking you a question

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<v Speaker 9>back even an and you and you would be anything

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<v Speaker 9>would be so easy, and so my recommendation. I call

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<v Speaker 9>it two qs, two questions in a statement. So you

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<v Speaker 9>ask question one what type of food? I gave a

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<v Speaker 9>statement Italian and tie? Question two, oh, do you have

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<v Speaker 9>any favorite places? I gave a statement Regent tie. And

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<v Speaker 9>then you're not going to keep asking me questions. You're

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<v Speaker 9>not my interviewer here. And but the reason I do

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<v Speaker 9>have you answer that last message in a statement is

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<v Speaker 9>because I never ever want anyone.

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<v Speaker 11>To accuse you of ghosting them. We're not answering, and.

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<v Speaker 9>So we're simply closing out the conversation with a statement.

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<v Speaker 9>Sounds great, sounds delicious, Yum yum, I love pad Thai,

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<v Speaker 9>I don't care. So ninety percent of the time the

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<v Speaker 9>conversation was done anyway, and you're just sort of shutting

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<v Speaker 9>the door.

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<v Speaker 11>They already shut the door. You're just like putting the

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<v Speaker 11>deadlock on it.

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<v Speaker 9>Ten percent of the time the other person will come

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<v Speaker 9>back and ask you a question because they go back

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<v Speaker 9>to the conversation, realize there's nothing to talk about, realize, oh,

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<v Speaker 9>I didn't ask a question.

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<v Speaker 11>Half of that ten percent.

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<v Speaker 7>Will be how's it going or how's your day, which

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<v Speaker 7>is a non starter.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, and this week a movie Mike's Movie Podcast, I

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<v Speaker 4>broke down what I believe to be the five most

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<v Speaker 4>important superhero movies of all time, all throughout history. These

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<v Speaker 4>are the ones that were most important to the success

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<v Speaker 4>of the genre. I also gave my spoiler free review

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<v Speaker 4>of Captain America Brave New World that a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people disagreed with, but I had to say it. So

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<v Speaker 4>here's just a little bit of my top five list.

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<v Speaker 4>Be sure to go check out the full episode to

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<v Speaker 4>hear my full review, but right now, here's just a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit of movie Mike's Movie Podcast. At number one

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<v Speaker 4>is Batman nineteen eighty nine. Why I believe this is

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<v Speaker 4>the first most important superhero film is it created a

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<v Speaker 4>new public perception of Batman, and it legitimized the genre

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<v Speaker 4>and took Batman from being a comedic character to a

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<v Speaker 4>greedy character even by nineteen eighty standards. And this was

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<v Speaker 4>a big deal, more so than Superman that came.

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<v Speaker 5>The decade before it.

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<v Speaker 4>This is the one that I feel, without its success

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<v Speaker 4>would not have led to any other super We hear

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<v Speaker 4>a movie being made before this. Batman hadn't been a

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<v Speaker 4>gritty character. And even if you look at nineteen eighty nine,

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<v Speaker 4>now it's not as gritty as what we know to

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<v Speaker 4>be now as a gritty Batman, But at the time

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<v Speaker 4>it was revolutionary because everybody associated Batman with Adam West's

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<v Speaker 4>depiction of him, which was great at the time, but

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<v Speaker 4>that show was a comedy. It made him really zany.

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<v Speaker 4>It made the fight seems overly cheesy with the bam

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<v Speaker 4>zap Powell. It made Robin a very just one dimensional character.

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<v Speaker 4>And for the longest time this movie was trying to

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<v Speaker 4>be made in this way. Michael Uson, who is somebody

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<v Speaker 4>who was fighting for this. He had the rights to

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<v Speaker 4>Batman for a decade, maybe even longer than a decade,

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<v Speaker 4>and he was fighting for the depiction of the character

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<v Speaker 4>that he knew was out there. He was a fan

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<v Speaker 4>of Batman from when he was a kid, and he

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<v Speaker 4>was the person whenever that TV show debuted he was like,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, this is wrong, this is bad, this is

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<v Speaker 4>not the Batman I love. So he bought the rights

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<v Speaker 4>for such a little amount and kept trying to find producers,

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<v Speaker 4>kept trying to get a movie like this green lit.

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<v Speaker 4>And it wasn't until nineteen eighty nine's Batman that his

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<v Speaker 4>love of Batman, his complete nerd Hm actually came to

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<v Speaker 4>life and he was able to do it. So he

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<v Speaker 4>was this driving force trying to bring this darker, more

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<v Speaker 4>serious version of the character to life. And then you

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<v Speaker 4>combine that with Tim Burton and we finally got it,

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<v Speaker 4>and it changed the public perspective of not only what

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<v Speaker 4>Batman could be, but what superhero movies could be as

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<v Speaker 4>a whole. Now, even in nineteen eighty nine, these movies

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<v Speaker 4>were still being geared towards kids, with the idea being

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<v Speaker 4>you put out a movie and then you sell a

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<v Speaker 4>bunch of merchandise, which has always been the model. Star

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<v Speaker 4>Wars was the one who really made that a thing, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you put out the movie, then you sell a buttload

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<v Speaker 4>of toys. That was the model. So we weren't there

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<v Speaker 4>quite yet, but it did show that you can make

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<v Speaker 4>something for kids because it is a superhero movie, but

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<v Speaker 4>also that would appeal to the older audience. If you

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<v Speaker 4>look at this one at times, it doesn't feel like

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<v Speaker 4>a kid's movie. This movie moved on to Batman Returns,

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<v Speaker 4>and that one you had a public outcry from parents saying,

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<v Speaker 4>this is not a kid's movie. Whatsoever. You have penguin

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<v Speaker 4>biting at people's noses causing them to be all bloody,

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<v Speaker 4>and there was a big problem with that. But the

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<v Speaker 4>reason I believe that this movie was so important is

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<v Speaker 4>because it was the first movie to really usher in

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<v Speaker 4>this new era of superhero film and say, a movie

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<v Speaker 4>like this can be made and you can change what

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<v Speaker 4>everybody believes these characters to be. And you're gonna see

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<v Speaker 4>this theme throughout my list because whenever you set a standard,

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<v Speaker 4>everybody starts following that and then it almost takes somebody

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<v Speaker 4>else to break that mold yet again to re revolutionize

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<v Speaker 4>the genre. But this movie did that. It gave us

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<v Speaker 4>not only the gritty hero, but also the gritty villain.

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<v Speaker 4>Jack Nicholson's set the standard for creating a villain like

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<v Speaker 4>this made everybody who played the Joker after him have

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<v Speaker 4>some really big shoes to fill. So at number one,

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<v Speaker 4>I have Batman nineteen eighty nine. At number two, it

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<v Speaker 4>would come almost ten years after this in nineteen ninety eight.

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<v Speaker 4>My next most important superhero film of all time is

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<v Speaker 4>Blade from nineteen ninety eight. Why this movie is so

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<v Speaker 4>important one I feel it's underappreciated, it's underrated, and how

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<v Speaker 4>revolutionary this movie was and how important it was for

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<v Speaker 4>Marvel's success. It proved that you could make a superhero

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<v Speaker 4>movie a comic book character for adults. Because this movie

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<v Speaker 4>is R rated, it's bloody, it's violent, and it's cool.

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<v Speaker 4>And at the time, Blade wasn't even a popular character

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<v Speaker 4>in the comic books. Even after this movie came out,

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<v Speaker 4>his comic still struggled and they readapted them to fit

0:31:57.640 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 4>the movie character. More so, it wasn't even a top

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 4>tier character, not even the second stream character. Even now,

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<v Speaker 4>the character of Blade isn't as popular as all these

0:32:08.680 --> 0:32:11.200
<v Speaker 4>other Marvel characters, and you look at their model now,

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<v Speaker 4>and this is what later Marvel would bank on because

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<v Speaker 4>there had been attempts to make other character movies before

0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:21.760
<v Speaker 4>this be successful. You had pretty much made for TV

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:25.240
<v Speaker 4>movie with Captain America Spider Man, and those just never

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 4>quite worked out. This was the first successful Marvel movie ever.

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<v Speaker 4>It was the second one because before this, back in

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen eighty six, they made a Howard the Duck movie.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know why they decided to go with Howard

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<v Speaker 4>the Duck first, but that movie was awful, terrible, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was a long time until Marvel had success. So

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<v Speaker 4>this movie was important, not only for Marvel because without

0:32:47.520 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 4>its success, it was right there at the brink of bankruptcy.

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.320
<v Speaker 4>It had been fighting bankruptcy for so long because they

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<v Speaker 4>just didn't have a successful movie. This was their first

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<v Speaker 4>big hit, their first big taste the success, and it

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<v Speaker 4>also inspired and was the stepping stone for a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of R rated movies to come. If there wasn't Blade,

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<v Speaker 4>we would have never got Deadpool, we would have never

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<v Speaker 4>got Logan, we would have never got other comic book

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<v Speaker 4>movies outside of Marvel, like Watchmen and kick Ass or

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<v Speaker 4>even Suicide Squad. All of those movies' success had to

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<v Speaker 4>come from proving that you could make an R rated

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<v Speaker 4>superhero movie, even more so that you could do it

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<v Speaker 4>without a popular character. Now, at the time, Wesley Snipes

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<v Speaker 4>was a very popular actor, so that brought in some fans.

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<v Speaker 4>Vampires in the nineties were all so hot as well,

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<v Speaker 4>so that helped. And I believe this is what Marvel

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<v Speaker 4>started to do whenever they sold all the rights to

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<v Speaker 4>their main characters to Sony and to Fox, and later

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<v Speaker 4>when they're trying to build things, they decided, okay, well

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<v Speaker 4>we can't use our most popular characters. Let's build a

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<v Speaker 4>team of all of our second string and third stringers

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<v Speaker 4>and see if we can make something out of this,

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<v Speaker 4>and that proved to be successful. So it's working with

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<v Speaker 4>what you have and also ahead of its time because

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<v Speaker 4>you had a black lead in this movie in a

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<v Speaker 4>superhero film. He was the first successful black superhero in

0:34:12.760 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 4>mainstream cinema. Paved the way for Black Panther. And I

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<v Speaker 4>know X Men was already in development that would come

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<v Speaker 4>out in the year two thousand, but if it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>for the success of Blade, that wouldn't have set up

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<v Speaker 4>the X Men. And it made one hundred and thirty

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<v Speaker 4>one million dollars worldwide on a forty five million dollar budget,

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<v Speaker 4>and Wesley Snipe said it best in Dead Pull and Wolverine.

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<v Speaker 4>There will only be one Blade, so hopefully they still

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<v Speaker 4>bring this character back to life at number two from

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen ninety eight. I have Blade at.

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<v Speaker 5>Carylone. She's a queen talking.

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<v Speaker 6>He was so.

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<v Speaker 3>Not afraid to feel episode, so just let it flow.

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<v Speaker 3>No one can do it quiet carey line, its sounding

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<v Speaker 3>care line.

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<v Speaker 14>One thing I really do love to take is constructive

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<v Speaker 14>criticism and encouragement from people that have went through things

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<v Speaker 14>that I've went through.

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<v Speaker 13>That's why I really feel like it's very.

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<v Speaker 14>Important for artists in general to be behind one another,

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<v Speaker 14>creative people in general, specifically women. And yeah, I like

0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:34.760
<v Speaker 14>to get together with my female compadres in this industry,

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<v Speaker 14>and I think those are the safest places other than

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<v Speaker 14>true therapy, to talk about all these things that may

0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:45.759
<v Speaker 14>feel like first world problems and entitled problems to have.

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:48.400
<v Speaker 14>But when you have the load that you have on

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<v Speaker 14>yourself as an artist and as a creative, it's nice

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.120
<v Speaker 14>to be able to go to others and go I'm

0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:56.359
<v Speaker 14>tired of getting glammed every day and I've had four

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<v Speaker 14>hours of sleep and I am living the dream.

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<v Speaker 13>But it's much harder than I think this was gonna be.

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<v Speaker 14>And just you know, it's I think it's really nice

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<v Speaker 14>to get those little stressors off your chest.

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<v Speaker 13>By talking about it in safe spaces. I am a

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<v Speaker 13>big component of safe spaces.

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<v Speaker 6>Mmmmmm, So do you feel.

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<v Speaker 13>Like you have a safe space in life?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 13>What do you feel like? How did you This is

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<v Speaker 13>a cool thing I love to ask people. How did

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<v Speaker 13>you build your village? Like your people that you go

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<v Speaker 13>to for anything in life? But that community?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, okay, that's a great question. I started off, thank

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 6>you for turning the tables on me. Oh sorry, Now

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<v Speaker 6>I love podcasts because it's really this is coming back

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 6>to you too. I'll do mind briefly, but then we're

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<v Speaker 6>going we really want to hear about your village.

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<v Speaker 13>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm from Waco, Texas, and I grew up in a

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:47.520
<v Speaker 6>great family. Like my parents are great. They had great friends.

0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:52.520
<v Speaker 6>So I started off with friends of my parents' friends,

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<v Speaker 6>like the kids who are still my best friends to

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 6>this day. So I feel like I have like deep friendships.

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:02.160
<v Speaker 6>And then when I came to Nashville, it took me

0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:05.239
<v Speaker 6>a long time to find a village. I was absolutely

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:07.320
<v Speaker 6>terrified when I came here. I moved here when I

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 6>was nineteen, and I was just like super nervous, didn't

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:13.520
<v Speaker 6>know anyone. I was moved from my hometown of Waco,

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 6>Texas to hear and like was overwhelmed. I was also

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.000
<v Speaker 6>chasing the music industry and all of that, and just

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:23.080
<v Speaker 6>like super intimidated, and I didn't have a lot of

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 6>self worth back then. It's take me a long time

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 6>to get my self worth. I've had to really develop,

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:30.279
<v Speaker 6>but I've still like pursued all my dreams despite the

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 6>fact I did not feel worthy but I knew that

0:37:33.120 --> 0:37:34.400
<v Speaker 6>they were my dreams and I was supposed to do it.

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:36.399
<v Speaker 6>But I always felt like, oh my gosh, if people

0:37:36.440 --> 0:37:38.319
<v Speaker 6>find out then I'm really a fraud and I'm really

0:37:38.400 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 6>not worthy, then it's all going to be uncovered.

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<v Speaker 14>Or if they discover that you actually think you're good

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<v Speaker 14>at something. I was always if someone said something nice

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:46.840
<v Speaker 14>about you.

0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 13>I have to put myself down. Oh I have to

0:37:48.480 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 13>put myself down.

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<v Speaker 6>But see, here's the thing with you that's different. You

0:37:51.480 --> 0:37:53.839
<v Speaker 6>were born with this voice. So like a lot of people,

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:56.120
<v Speaker 6>like myself, I'll use myself as an example. I have

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:59.440
<v Speaker 6>a lot of things I'm good at, but like you

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<v Speaker 6>and your voice are in a whole other stratosphere. Like

0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:06.640
<v Speaker 6>you are just like that kind of singer, Like you're

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<v Speaker 6>like in the celeandons of the world.

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<v Speaker 8>Like you have like the voice that is like hand motion,

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<v Speaker 8>but it can't be.

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<v Speaker 6>Replicated, you know, although I do hear a little Dolly

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<v Speaker 6>Parton in your voice.

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<v Speaker 11>Do you hear that people love Dolly?

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:17.920
<v Speaker 13>It's just from being raised old her.

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<v Speaker 6>But like you have a voice though that like you

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<v Speaker 6>can't you can't learn to sing like you like, Yes,

0:38:23.360 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 6>I'm sure you can take lessons and you can learn

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:28.120
<v Speaker 6>things and like whatever, but like your tone, your texture,

0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:29.960
<v Speaker 6>the way it all comes out like that is like

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 6>a god given gift that you have. And so were

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<v Speaker 6>people hard on you about that growing up? Like? Were

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<v Speaker 6>people do they get jealous of that?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 14>I do remember one girl in high school when I

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<v Speaker 14>won the pageant, the school pageant, she I didn't know,

0:38:44.480 --> 0:38:47.239
<v Speaker 14>you know, I didn't own a BlackBerry. But I went

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<v Speaker 14>to school the next day and they said, did you

0:38:48.800 --> 0:38:51.640
<v Speaker 14>see what she wrote? And I guess BlackBerry had kind

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:54.520
<v Speaker 14>of like it's on Facebook coordever, you could put statuses

0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 14>and anyways you can tell I was a flip phone girl.

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<v Speaker 14>But the raiser, Yeah, so many of those.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this.

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<v Speaker 14>But the thing is I remember her saying, like, you know,

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:08.480
<v Speaker 14>I didn't realize it was a talent show. I thought

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<v Speaker 14>it was a pageant, And no, there's really I don't

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<v Speaker 14>know as if life was hard on me because of

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<v Speaker 14>my voice, I think I was harder on myself than

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<v Speaker 14>I ever really allowed life to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 14>Think a lot of the turmoil that I have went

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 14>through emotionally that has impacted me just as much as

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<v Speaker 14>true tragedies in my life is because I was too

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<v Speaker 14>hard on myself.

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<v Speaker 13>Really so very much.

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<v Speaker 6>So what are some of the things that you feel

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 6>like you were too hard on yourself that caused you turmoil.

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<v Speaker 14>Well, once people started to acknowledge my voice, you know,

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<v Speaker 14>I kind of went from the odd kid out to

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<v Speaker 14>all of a sudden people liked me, you know, and

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<v Speaker 14>I had something that was interesting.

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<v Speaker 13>And I just remember for so long.

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<v Speaker 14>As a young girl trying to be whatever I thought

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<v Speaker 14>people would like so that I could fit in and

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:10.920
<v Speaker 14>I could have friends and I could feel that connection

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:13.400
<v Speaker 14>that I always felt slightly like I was out on

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:17.760
<v Speaker 14>the outside and I couldn't understand it. And the minute

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:21.920
<v Speaker 14>that I started singing, I started to get accepted. And

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:23.840
<v Speaker 14>I know that sounds so bad, but then I started

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:27.000
<v Speaker 14>putting a pressure on myself that this is my personality.

0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:31.360
<v Speaker 14>If this is what it is that gets people to

0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 14>like me and to listen to me and to hear me,

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 14>I have to be the best. Then there's no alternative.

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 14>And then there's also that pressure of I can't mess

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:45.560
<v Speaker 14>this up. What if I messed my voice up? And

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:48.120
<v Speaker 14>then the one thing that all these people have invested

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:51.320
<v Speaker 14>in me and believed in me for I've lost it.

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 14>I've ruined it.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, So you were stressed out about your voice?

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<v Speaker 13>Oh very much so so.

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<v Speaker 14>Also, I have deafness that runs in my in my

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:02.319
<v Speaker 14>dad's side of the family, so I was always scared

0:41:02.320 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 14>I would lose my hearing.

0:41:04.440 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 13>I just was always panicked about it.

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 14>Once I realized that I had new gift, I realized

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 14>how sacred of a gift it was, and I was

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:13.880
<v Speaker 14>terrified to somehow mess it up. But I think a

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 14>lot of my life I have been terrified to mess up,

0:41:19.239 --> 0:41:21.279
<v Speaker 14>And at thirty years old, I can finally look back

0:41:21.320 --> 0:41:26.480
<v Speaker 14>and realize that I made things so much harder than

0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:27.160
<v Speaker 14>they ever.

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:30.800
<v Speaker 13>Actually had to be. It gets to be easy.

0:41:32.680 --> 0:41:35.160
<v Speaker 14>And I didn't realize that when I was younger. I

0:41:35.280 --> 0:41:39.480
<v Speaker 14>didn't realize that I could forgive myself. I didn't realize

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 14>that I could mess up and forgive myself. I didn't

0:41:43.080 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 14>realize that all the mistakes you make they're great stories.

0:41:47.800 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 14>When you get older, it's the stuff you laugh about

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 14>with your friends, you know, it's the stuff you write

0:41:53.600 --> 0:41:56.480
<v Speaker 14>songs about and people connect to and you can reach

0:41:56.600 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 14>people that are going through those odd moments too. As

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 14>a kid, I remember the first biography we ever had

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 14>written up and there was something in it that I

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:08.000
<v Speaker 14>had said in an interview, and it definitely didn't come

0:42:08.080 --> 0:42:10.239
<v Speaker 14>across the way I wanted, But I had said something

0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:14.320
<v Speaker 14>about I had always wanted a life that someone would write.

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<v Speaker 13>A book about because I loved books. I was just

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:16.799
<v Speaker 13>obsessed with.

0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:20.280
<v Speaker 14>Books from a young age, and so I wanted something

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:22.920
<v Speaker 14>that was exciting and riveting and would make you want

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:25.239
<v Speaker 14>to turn the page. And I don't think I really

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:27.400
<v Speaker 14>realized what I was signing up for by trying to

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 14>manifest that and praying to God every night, give me

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:32.920
<v Speaker 14>an interesting life. Really gave me something fun? Give me

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:34.720
<v Speaker 14>was that never let me get bored?

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