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Speaker 2: My latest one was bad Ants in the House.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what did you have to do so

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Speaker 3: an ants? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's a full intelligence briefing every morning. It's intense.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're doing in there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what'd you tell it? Never mind? I will start

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Speaker 1: the Roe. Fred's Show is on Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: April twenty second. The Fred Show is here. Hi, Kaylen Morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Let's debase your relationship drama waiting by the phone this morning.

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Speaker 1: Kicky lost yesterday in the showdown. Your record now twenty

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Speaker 1: one and fourth still really good. One hundred bucks is

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Speaker 1: the prize and remember if you if you win between

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Speaker 1: now when Shelley comes back, what do we say June first, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: something like that. Then you can keep the money.

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Speaker 4: It's April okay and April okay, so you know, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you have five weeks left something like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm counting, so.

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Speaker 1: You could win. You can still win one thousand bucks. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I think I just did the math quickly in my head.

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Speaker 1: I haven't had enough coffee, so I'm not sure if

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Speaker 1: that's true. What are you working on for reports this morning? Ky?

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Speaker 5: A couple of things I will tell you who says

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Speaker 1: You want to do a morality Monday on a Tuesday

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Speaker 1: because I think we should. Yes, So how would you

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Speaker 1: feel about this? Eight five five five N one one

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Speaker 1: three five. A groop to be recently shared his dilemma

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Speaker 1: on Reddit, which is where I get a lot of these.

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Speaker 1: I must I must give credit where credit is due.

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Speaker 1: I don't know it. I know some a holes, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know enough to be able to do I

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Speaker 1: know some immoral people, but I don't know enough to

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Speaker 1: do morality Monday on a Tuesday every week unless I

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Speaker 1: did a lot of research. Yeah, so I could do it.

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Speaker 2: Just all your friends every week?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just which one of you wanted to be immoral Keevans. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so this happened to somebody, though it didn't really, So

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Speaker 1: here's this is the gist of it. A dude's fiance

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Speaker 1: plans to wear her late husband's wedding ring on a

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Speaker 1: going to she wants to wear the wedding ring. I

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Speaker 1: the next guy, Okay. She says it's a quiet tribute

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Speaker 1: to the guy she once loved, who passed away in

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Speaker 1: that part of her past into the new chapter. But

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Speaker 1: her fiance is not feeling great about him. He says

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Speaker 1: like he's somehow second place. And people on the forum

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Speaker 1: are torn. Some stood with the groom, saying the wedding

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Speaker 1: should be about the new relationship, not the old one.

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Speaker 1: Other suggested a compromise, like a symbolic gesture instead of

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Speaker 1: wearing the ring, I would if I'm being one percent transparent,

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Speaker 1: if I'm keeping it on on the reel, one hundred

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be one hundred with you as opposed to

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Speaker 1: the ninety nine I usually am. I'm gonna be a hundred.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I know Fred, You weak, little, weak little nugget.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine if Hobby in Vegas at the wedding

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Speaker 3: No, I'd be upset. I'd be bothered for sure. But like,

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Speaker 3: it's sad if that person tragically died. I mean that's awful.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's saying that's not sad or awful. But like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: why are we I mean you're married me? Now? Like

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Speaker 1: Why are we still reflecting on this person. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: this person died. I'm sorry this person is not in

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be standing here. You never would have chosen me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it takes a special kind of person to be

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Speaker 5: bachelorettes I have coming up, her previous boyfriend passed away

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Speaker 1: It's something. It'sn't even marrying a widow, like, uh, it's

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Speaker 1: Everything's great, and I wonder, like I wondered, does that

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have any of this. Like maybe I would have

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Speaker 1: that's an insecurity, but that would get to me, I think,

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Speaker 1: But but it's that that's life. But now I got it.

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Speaker 1: Now you got to have like something tangible with you

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Speaker 1: sure resemble him, Like guys, we're moving on.

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Speaker 3: Like right at the wedding, probably not to see. If

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Speaker 3: Hobby did that, we wouldn't beat the little White wedding chapel.

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Speaker 3: I think we'd be honestly in therapy to work through that,

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Speaker 3: because it's like, why would you want to include that

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Speaker 1: Are you really ready to do this? If we're still

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Speaker 5: Have anything from their previous you know, marriage or like

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Speaker 3: Mean, and how it exists, like we can put them away.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying I don't want them, you know, like

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Speaker 3: walk in. Probably not, but I would still understand that

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Speaker 3: this happened, Like you said, it's a part of his history, right,

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Speaker 3: I mean she didn't do anything to me.

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Speaker 2: I mean she passed away.

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Speaker 3: Right, Theoretically, in this theory, we're doing like she passed away,

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Speaker 3: and I don't want him to forget her, But on

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Speaker 2: This is today is about us because you're loving a

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Speaker 5: Part of their heart will always be with the spouse

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Speaker 2: And that's totally fair.

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Speaker 3: But like you know, on our special day, at least

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Speaker 3: you know it's my wedding too, right, it's a two

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Speaker 1: It's you know, for yourself. I watched a multiple.

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Speaker 3: It could be correct, it can be, but my mind,

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Speaker 5: Right, that's I'm saying, I don't think everyone can handle

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Speaker 2: I really don't think that. I agree, just my opinion.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what, Jason, you're over here with this look

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Speaker 1: so Mike the mechanic wants to marry you, and he's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: but this dude I hooked up with on grinder a

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Speaker 1: that I he left his chain in my house.

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Speaker 7: It's a little different, but for multiple years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But honestly, though, do you want a person who

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Speaker 1: is who is essentially you're replacing them? I mean, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: imagine this, imagine imagine Okay, you're my beloved coworker, right you,

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Speaker 1: my beloved co worker. God forbid, I hate this example,

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Speaker 1: but God forbid, you decide I'm going to I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: going to move on. I'm going to go and be

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Speaker 1: Britney Spears's manager, and everyone's happy, well sort of happy

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Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, I mean, like it's a little late

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Speaker 1: in the game for that, but you know, still okay,

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Speaker 1: so you're going to be Britney Spears's manager. We're also

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Speaker 1: happy for you. We're clapping or whatever, and then you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's wonderful. It's a wonderful day, like you know,

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Speaker 1: here's to the jolly goodfellow whatever. Okay, So then we

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Speaker 1: have to replace you. Sadly, it's terrible. But we have

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Speaker 1: a picture of you right there in your chair that

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Speaker 1: stares at the new person every single day and it says,

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Speaker 1: we miss so we miss you so much Jason Brown,

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Speaker 1: you know, to the greatest person to ever sit in

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Speaker 1: this chair, Jason Brown, you know. And the new person

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Speaker 1: has to sit there and stare at that all morning.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it might be true, but what I'm saying

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Speaker 1: is nobody wants that daily reminder that like there was

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Speaker 9: That's completely it is not it is not at all.

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Speaker 9: It is completely different. This is someone cass Away, I

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Speaker 9: people I've somehow found them. But that's so different. There's

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Speaker 7: That pain is.

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Speaker 9: Like, I can you even think about how that makes

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Speaker 9: You can feel all you want? But I would have

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Speaker 9: to be fine with It's not like it's competition. He's gone, Yeah,

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Speaker 9: but don't. Don't my feelings about this matter. I'm marrying

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Speaker 1: But I feel like if we're honoring your ex husband

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Speaker 9: Say anything about the grief and how she deals with it.

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Speaker 1: Gets to do. Yeah, at your wedding. At your wedding,

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Speaker 7: If someone died that they were married to, who am

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Speaker 1: Honestly, the new husband goodness pink.

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Speaker 4: So quiet over here, Oh, because I was trying to

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Speaker 1: Right, it's welcome. It's nice over here.

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Speaker 2: Because Fers is dead.

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Speaker 4: So like, literally, they're never going to be your competition,

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Speaker 10: Never.

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Speaker 4: First of all, it's just I'm wearing a symbol of

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Speaker 5: Yes, it, I mean for you would have to walk away,

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Speaker 1: She's not wearing his chain, She's wearing his wedding ring.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what do you want me to do? Yes? Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to do I'm not trying to destroy

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Speaker 1: What did you want to say? This is nuts? You

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Speaker 11: I agree with either Why did he why is he?

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Speaker 11: Why is he comparing himself to a ghost?

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Speaker 11: Why did you feel like he's in competition with him,

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Speaker 1: But isn't memory enough? I mean, Bud, what, Roberta, are

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Speaker 13: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Would you have been okay with your husband honoring another

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Speaker 1: It's a fun time in your life. But me, so

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Speaker 11: It's like a tattoo if somebody had.

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Speaker 12: A tattoo, do you know what I say?

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Speaker 11: Or the tramp stamps, you know, like it's so little reminder.

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Speaker 11: But why are you like he knew a tramp stamp?

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Speaker 1: Who's getting a tram stamp with him?

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Speaker 1: What kind of tattoos you got? I'm worried about you.

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Speaker 11: I got a lot. How you doing oh, you know

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Speaker 11: that some women get their their spouses names on them,

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Speaker 1: Right? Why am I being reminded of him? I guess

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Speaker 1: it's going to be hard enough to just came on's

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Speaker 1: I would wonder if we're doing this, are you really

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Speaker 11: But do you not think that they had the conversation beforehand?

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Speaker 11: at some point, so he should have had that in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he also he's gone to read it because

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Speaker 11: He's a man, he doesn't know how to communicate.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he wrote very clearly, I read it so

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Speaker 1: good day. I don't think anyone's saying that you don't

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Speaker 4: And then I'm back at this wedding place where I

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Speaker 1: Why is your dead husband your comfort? I'm your comfort.

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Speaker 5: It takes a special kind of person and it's okay,

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Speaker 8: If it's not working for you, that's okay, that's okay period.

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Speaker 1: Okay to wanna Hi, Hi, Hey, so sad that you

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Speaker 12: Thank you.

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Speaker 10: I was with to one for ten years We had

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Speaker 10: almost five years later, I met someone else. We were married.

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Speaker 10: My system off from my previous marriage was my matrid

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Speaker 1: No to what, I wouldn't, But I also I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: I guess I can tell you I wouldn't expect to

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's the time and the place. I'm

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Speaker 1: that's all reasonable. I just don't know why. You know,

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Speaker 1: we have the ice sculpture of the man at the rehearsal,

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I sculpture might be a little much. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: I don't think we needed any closest to the virgin

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Speaker 10: Perspective your friend, and I hope that everything turns out

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Luckily I don't know this person,

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Speaker 1: to the wedding. Hey, Kyle, how you doing? Good morning? Hey,

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Speaker 1: turn the radio down, Kyle, please, Okay, there you go,

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Speaker 1: Hey man, what do you want to say? Go ahead?

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Speaker 12: Hey, I'm just saying I agree with you. I mean

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Speaker 12: because hey, this is my day. Like why do you

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Speaker 12: You gonna have a whole feet Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that would go over very well with

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Speaker 1: good day. I appreciate you now. But somebody said, here's

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Speaker 1: Fred isn't ready to marry a widow because he's not

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Speaker 1: isn't a breakup, this isn't a divorce. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: I guess it'd be the question that I'm asking because

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Speaker 1: It didn't say. And by the way, someone says that

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Speaker 1: I'm insecure about it.

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Speaker 2: I'm very honest, I am.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I know it's an unpopular opinion. I'm

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Speaker 2: Think, and I respect that. I respect that. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I think we should all be able to say our opinion.

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Speaker 2: That's okay.

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Speaker 1: And you guys can clant on me all day, but

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Speaker 1: that's what I think. Oh, I have agree with you,

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Speaker 1: and it would be it would absolutely be an insecurity.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely it would be.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I don't know if you ever get over

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Speaker 5: that because it wasn't there's no closure, there wasn't any problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: So it's like you say, she's not over it. I

441
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Speaker 5: wonder if you ever do. I mean, who knows. I

442
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Speaker 5: couldn't speak on it.

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Speaker 1: But let's see the biggest stories of the day. Next.

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Speaker 1: God got Bruno mars Now back in three minutes. It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Fred's Show is on Friend's biggest Stories.

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Speaker 7: Of the day.

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Speaker 1: People are texting like, well, you know you're never gonna forget.

448
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Speaker 1: I'm not asking you to forget. Can we not do

449
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Speaker 1: it on my birthday and my wedding day? Did you mind?

450
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Speaker 1: As hard as it is Christmas?

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Speaker 12: Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think we needed to have like

453
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Speaker 1: a full play setting for the guy, you know, but

454
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Speaker 1: gifts under the tree from Bob, like he got a

455
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Speaker 1: better Christmas present than I did and he's dead, Like

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Speaker 1: what are we doing? No? No, no, that's Bob set like

457
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Speaker 1: a full on offering, like could I have seconds to

458
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Speaker 1: know those? I'm sorry that's for Bob.

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Speaker 10: Man.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, especially if the dude were like awesome,

461
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And that tends to have

462
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Speaker 1: when people pass away too. It's like we only remember

463
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Speaker 1: the really really amazing thing, which is fine. I mean,

464
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Speaker 1: I tell I want to be remembered not from all

465
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Speaker 1: my moronic things that I've done, but like for the

466
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Speaker 1: better things I've But you know, that would I just

467
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Speaker 1: think that would be really hard. You know, You're at

468
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Speaker 1: like family dinner and everyone's like, oh, man, yeah you

469
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Speaker 1: know so and so, Oh yeah he was he was

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Speaker 1: a great He was in you know, grated skiing. He

471
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Speaker 1: was a great skier. You know, he was actually was

472
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Speaker 1: really good. He could have gone pro with it, I think,

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Speaker 1: you know, and you're just sit there going.

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Speaker 8: Damn it, I can't even go down the bunny here.

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Speaker 1: I can't. I'm like, I'm out here with the what

476
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Speaker 1: do they say that like the cheese greater cheese? Really?

477
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Speaker 1: Like really? Okay, so I don't add up to the guy,

478
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Speaker 1: got it?

479
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I remind you, Bob, barbecue was so much better.

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Speaker 1: And then I'll just get you're talking about how in

481
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Speaker 1: a fight you'd be like, well, Bob, Bob never would

482
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Speaker 1: have acted this way like honoring.

483
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Speaker 7: Now you're just being toxic weapon where I no longer.

484
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Speaker 2: Here, Jason wants to make sure I know he's not

485
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Speaker 2: with me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, biggest choice of the day. A certificate has been

487
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Speaker 1: issued by the Vatican lists the cause of Pope Francis's

488
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Speaker 1: death as a stroke that prompted irreversible heart failure. The

489
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Speaker 1: certificate officially lists the cause of death as cerebral stroke,

490
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Speaker 1: coma and cardio circulatory collapse heart failure. I guess now

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Speaker 1: there you go. Now that's something I'd like to see

492
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Speaker 1: all these guys going, oh man, all these cardinals getting together.

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Speaker 1: Oh so sad about Francis.

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Speaker 8: But it should be me, you know, you can bet

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Speaker 8: on it.

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Speaker 1: It should be men.

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Speaker 2: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, I forgot that was you who

498
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Speaker 2: sent it to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't taking bets on which cardinal it's going

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Speaker 1: to be I thought it was an Italian guy. Shoo

501
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Speaker 1: the Canadian. Oh, so the Canadians jumping ahead.

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Speaker 7: I can't say his name.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Jason's on the pulse of this. Let's go on,

504
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Speaker 1: Let's go line to the Vatican now, Jason Brown out

505
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Speaker 1: in front of the the papal conclave. Jason, what is

506
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Speaker 1: the latest on the race to be the Poe?

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Speaker 9: According to the you know the betting websites that I'm

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Speaker 9: always on and following out here in the Vatican, here

509
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Speaker 9: is that Italy I'm at it, Cardinal Pietro Parolene is

510
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Speaker 9: the slight favorite to succeed.

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Speaker 1: He's Canadians.

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Speaker 9: Yep, wait, maybe not. Oh, I thought Canadian is cardinal

513
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Speaker 9: I saw is from It's uh, he's Italian.

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Speaker 1: Gee, he's always an Italian. Always go with the Italian,

515
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Speaker 1: I know. That's What about Steve Smith? What about Cardinal

516
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Speaker 1: Steve Smith?

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Speaker 2: Kansas City?

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Speaker 1: Right? Why are we not looking at him?

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Speaker 7: He's also seventy years old, so old as hell.

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Speaker 8: That's the last time I believe him for my bets.

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Speaker 2: You told me he was Canadian.

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Speaker 7: I saw the sea with Canadian.

523
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Speaker 1: Well we shouldn't, because you would have bet on the Canadian. Yeah,

524
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Speaker 1: never before. I don't believe he has been a Canadian pope.

525
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Speaker 1: I don't think they're right.

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Speaker 5: There should be either, very fair, but he was my

527
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Speaker 5: sports reporter and now this is familiarly.

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Speaker 2: Like a lineup I can see, like a starting lineup.

529
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, there may be.

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Speaker 2: I I'm just curious to see who's up for this job.

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Speaker 2: And they one of them picks the hats.

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Speaker 1: If you want to know about this though, it's the

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Speaker 1: Papal Conclave. I guess. The movie Conclave is now on

534
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Speaker 1: Amazon Prime as of like today, so nice, nice timing.

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Speaker 1: There won a bunch of awards. I might have to

536
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Speaker 1: watch it, though, But the pontiff his funeral has been

537
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Speaker 1: scheduled for Saturday. After nine days of morning events, cardinals

538
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Speaker 1: from around the world will meet at the Sistine Chapel

539
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Speaker 1: will conduct a secretive vote to elect the new pope.

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Speaker 1: The process takes two to three weeks and all ballots

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Speaker 1: are burned afterwards. What is going on in there that

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Speaker 1: we can't know about it whil you are sworn for

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Speaker 1: eternity not to tell anybody what happens in there? What

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Speaker 1: are we doing in there? How are we determining which

545
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Speaker 1: one of these people is the best. I don't love that.

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Speaker 1: And are they campaigning? You think Number one on the

547
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Speaker 1: list is calling his boys and being like, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what you know. You hook me up with this,

549
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Speaker 1: I'll make sure that you're a saint. Like literally, I

550
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Speaker 1: can make you a saint. Like I'll do that for you.

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Speaker 5: It's change like an unfair advantage because like it's all

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Speaker 5: the way over there.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I'm really not sure. But yeah, then

554
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Speaker 1: there will be white smoke that will rise from the

555
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Speaker 1: chapel's chimney, signaling a new era of leadership for the

556
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Speaker 1: world's one point four billion Catholics. So there's that. Another

557
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Speaker 1: day of the plane story a couple for you. A

558
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Speaker 1: Delta Airlines plane with almost three hundred people on board

559
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Speaker 1: caught fire at the Orlando International Airport on Monday, but

560
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Speaker 1: the airline says that it was safely evacuated with no

561
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Speaker 1: reports of injuries. Also, passengers on a recent Delta flight

562
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Speaker 1: from Atlanta to Chicago were forced to hold up the

563
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Speaker 1: plane ceiling after it collapsed mid air. The boweing seven

564
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Speaker 1: to one sevens panel was later a fixed into place

565
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Speaker 1: by attendant so customers didn't have to manually hold it

566
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Speaker 1: up during the fly. No injuries reported during the flight.

567
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Speaker 1: I have to say this, as far as this is

568
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Speaker 1: concern from the picture that I saw, and I don't

569
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Speaker 1: know anything about this seven seventeen, but you know, i'd

570
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Speaker 1: look like a trim piece fell and those things are

571
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Speaker 1: meant to come off so they can inspect the oxygen masks,

572
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Speaker 1: inspect everything that's behind there. So I mean, this is

573
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Speaker 1: not like a critical thing, but I would not feel

574
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Speaker 1: great if I'm flying along on the ceiling just because

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, what else did we? Did we miss

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Speaker 1: any other nuts or bolts? You know, It's like me

577
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Speaker 1: at the end of a Lego set where there's like

578
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Speaker 1: five or six pieces left, and I'm like, I really

579
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Speaker 1: hope those weren't essential to anything. You know, do you

580
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Speaker 1: think this the airplane took off and the mechanics were like,

581
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Speaker 1: oh man, we forgot to screw those things in, didn't we? Okay,

582
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Speaker 1: But as far as like it would be like the

583
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Speaker 1: ceiling tile falling in the thing, like the building's not

584
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Speaker 1: going to collapse, the ceiling tile felt. It's not awe

585
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Speaker 1: inspiring by any means, but like, how nice my.

586
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Speaker 2: Trail mix with my hand? Holding the ceiling.

587
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Speaker 1: You have to trade off with the guy next to you.

588
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: Come on, you know, be like, I'll tell you what,

589
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Speaker 1: or maybe the middle seat has to do it because

590
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Speaker 1: the middle seat, you know, you're just the unlucky one.

591
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Speaker 7: Right.

592
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Speaker 1: This is disgusting and it's a whole new generation of bullying.

593
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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like we all grew up with

594
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Speaker 1: people just saying mean things. And you know, you go

595
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Speaker 1: to school and there were the bullies and the insecure

596
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Speaker 1: people and they would say mean things to you or

597
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Speaker 1: tell you that you were a or not good at

598
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Speaker 1: sports or whatever like that was hard.

599
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Speaker 7: Right.

600
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: Well, now you can't escape it because social media and

601
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: tech and all this stuff. The latest teams are using

602
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: artificial intelligence to create realistic nude images of their classmates

603
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Speaker 1: and then share them. So with just a headshot, often

604
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: lifted from a yearbook photo or social media platform, these

605
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: AI apps can fabricate explicit, deep fake images that appear

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Speaker 1: scarily real, and it's happening in schools. Last summer, the

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Speaker 1: San Francisco City Attorney's Office said that sixteen people were

608
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Speaker 1: sued for so called Newdify websites for allegedly violating laws

609
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Speaker 1: around child to exploitation and non consensual images, but they

610
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: escape past some stated laws. In Minnesota, they're trying to

611
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Speaker 1: pass legislation to hold them accountable. A whole different level

612
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Speaker 1: of bullying and it's terrible. Gen Z grads, I think

613
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: a lot of people can relate to this, say their

614
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: college degrees were a total waste of time and money.

615
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: Nearly half of gen Z grads say that their degrees

616
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: have are been made obsolete by the rise of generative

617
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: AI tools like chech ept, and they're wondering why they

618
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: even bothered to attend college and new Indeed report found

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Speaker 1: forty nine percent of gen Z job hunters think that

620
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Speaker 1: their college education has lost value in the job market

621
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Speaker 1: thanks to AI. Only one third of millennials feel the

622
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Speaker 1: same way, and one in five boomers have similar regrets.

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Speaker 1: If you went to college thirty years ago and I

624
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Speaker 1: went to college twenty years ago, at this point you

625
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Speaker 1: should expect that whatever you know, I don't think I

626
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Speaker 1: can ride on when they do it temmy HTML. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't think I should still be making money on

628
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Speaker 1: that now. I probably should have evolved, but I would

629
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Speaker 1: I will say the amount of money that was invested

630
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Speaker 1: in a college degree. Did I have to have it?

631
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Speaker 1: I hear you to be successful in this business, I

632
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: would tell you probably not. However, and I was talking

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Speaker 1: to my sister about this the other day because the

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Speaker 1: college that we went to is now eighty five thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars a year. She and and my mom actually went

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Speaker 1: to the same college. Yes, eighty five thousand dollars a year,

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Speaker 1: all in to go to college there. And that's just

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Speaker 1: live there and eat and go to school and buy

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Speaker 1: the books or whatever. I don't know, I guess iPads

640
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: or computers, whatever it is. Now, that's not the travel

641
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: back and forth. That's not all the rest of it,

642
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: the cars and whatever else you might need. And my

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Speaker 1: sister has two kids, and that's now, and they're fourteen

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Speaker 1: years away from doing this. I can't imagine what it's

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Speaker 1: going to cost. And so let's say let's say it's

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Speaker 1: let's say it's one hundred thousand. Let's say let's just

647
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: around numbers, it's gonna cost a million dollars to send

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Speaker 1: both those girls to school. And you have to ask

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00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: yourself at some point, is there a return on investment

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Speaker 1: for that? Like, it's not gonna be is probably going

651
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Speaker 1: to be four hundred thousand dollars ahead of everyone else

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Speaker 1: if we send her to college and pay that much money,

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Speaker 1: my answer would be probably not. And then you could say, well,

654
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Speaker 1: you know, for those people who I know, Kaylin, you

655
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: did and and I did, you know, moved far weall

656
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: you didn't move too far away, but I moved a

657
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: thousand miles already to go to college, you know. And

658
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: it was and my parents were like, you anywhere you want?

659
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: You nowhere in Arizona, nowhere or any neighboring state, Like

660
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: you need to go far enough away you can can't

661
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: drive home, like this is part of the deal. N

662
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Speaker 1: And so we went and we did that, and I

663
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Speaker 1: did that, and I would argue that that was a

664
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Speaker 1: transformational time in my life. But was it worth that

665
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Speaker 1: much money? If you've got it, maybe, But if you don't,

666
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Speaker 1: if you're sending your kid to college because you think

667
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Speaker 1: they're going to get a better job and make a

668
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Speaker 1: bunch more money off the bet, I'm not sure if

669
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Speaker 1: that's true anymore.

670
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Speaker 2: It's just crazy. Eighty thousand dollars a year.

671
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 3: And then these people are applying for jobs that pay

672
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Speaker 3: like eighteen dollars an hour, so like it's just the

673
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 3: math's not math thing. And I feel like AI is

674
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Speaker 3: doing a lot of stuff in the work in the workforce,

675
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Speaker 3: like it's changing a lot of jobs and opportunities for

676
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Speaker 3: people too.

677
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 2: It's you know, essentially like eliminating jobs.

678
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Speaker 3: So I don't know where the where the fairness is

679
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Speaker 3: for kids who are going to college.

680
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Speaker 2: I want my kid to go to college.

681
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 3: I do, but I'm also got a post to her

682
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 3: doing other things like if gig shows, for example, my daughter,

683
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: if she shows, you know, interest in makeup, whatever it

684
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Speaker 3: might be, and she's good, we might be going to

685
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: a cosmetology school, you know what I mean, trade schools

686
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: that or something specialized like computer program and my brother

687
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Speaker 3: in law did that.

688
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: He makes a very good living.

689
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: Some of these kids are just good at certain things,

690
00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 3: like I said, the makeup, or they are going to

691
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 3: computer work and computer stuff.

692
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what it's called. That's how good they are.

693
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: I don't even know how to call that.

694
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Speaker 1: I don't even know what it's done. That's what we got. Now.

695
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: Karen went to college and she's a genius. The actual

696
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: men's a genius. So yeah, but that she was a

697
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: genius for she went to college, Okay, she was born

698
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: that Yeah, she was born that way. I got saying

699
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: that song about her. Yeah, it's true. I don't know.

700
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Speaker 1: It's a luxury. I think it's long been a luxury.

701
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: And if you've got the money, great, Yeah, I just

702
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I don't know about if

703
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: you want to be a doctor or a lawyer, you're

704
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: going to have to do it, you know, therapist, any

705
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: kind of you know, you need to graduate degree for it.

706
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: You're going to have to do. It's the way it is,

707
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: and we probably should. But I don't know. I don't

708
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: know if it's you know, if it was automatic. It

709
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: seemed for everybody that I grew up with, and now

710
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if it should be for that much money.

711
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 8: It's great for life skills, but I was going to say.

712
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: Right, but for a half a million bucks, like, I

713
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 1: don't know, I'll tell you what i'll take. I'll take

714
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: half of that or less than half of that. I'll

715
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Speaker 1: buy you an apartment in a big city, and it

716
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: will get you a nice online gets you a nice laptop,

717
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: and you can get some online training, get you a job,

718
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: and honestly, like, okay, we can we can do a

719
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: lot of the same things for less money, and it

720
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: will get you some life experience, like we'll throw you.

721
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Speaker 2: Into You're not wrong.

722
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: But here's the thing about college, right. The thing about

723
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: college is it's kind of like supervised responsibility because no

724
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: one's holding your hand. But like freshman year, you get

725
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: our age. You got people to make sure that you're

726
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: like getting out of your room. Eventually. If you don't

727
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: go to class, someone's gonna call somebody and call your

728
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: parents eventually and be like, where is so and so.

729
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: So there's a little bit of accountability. So it's kind

730
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: of like sheltered independence. You can still totally screw up

731
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: your life, you can't. But then but at the same time,

732
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: like there's a limit to how far it's gonna go

733
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: before somebody finally calls mom and dad and goes, hey, yeah,

734
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: little Timmy hasn't shown in three months, you know, right,

735
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: you better go get little Timmy out of you know,

736
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: Sam's pub down the street or whatever.

737
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Speaker 2: I don't know, to be honest, you like i'd rather invest.

738
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: Don't know how you can do this in like life

739
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 3: skills essentially putting my kid in a situation where she

740
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Speaker 3: learns how to like bes a room or like work

741
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Speaker 3: the room, meet people. I'm a big believer it's about

742
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 3: who you know, not just what you know. And I'm like, well,

743
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 3: how do I get my kids to like be that.

744
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 3: I don't want her to be shy and just like

745
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 3: always closed off. I want her to be able to

746
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 3: walk into your room and just bes the crap out

747
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Speaker 3: of it.

748
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Speaker 2: Send her out with Jonathan.

749
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: Honestly, but you could argue you throw them into the

750
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Speaker 1: real world in some kind of like nurtured way, and

751
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: they're first they're forced to sink or swim like they

752
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: have to. They have to figure this stuff out. You know.

753
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: It's like you can't really teach that street smarts. You

754
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: kind of have to.

755
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 2: Like, that's a good point.

756
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: I gotta wrap this up though. On Chipotle. Mexican grill

757
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: might have Mexican in its name, but it hasn't gone

758
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: to Mexico until now. Chipotle is opening up in Mexico

759
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: City early next year, and I'm sure they're super excited

760
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: about it.

761
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 11: Xico.

762
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: They can't wait. I'm sure the people in Mexico City

763
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: are like I've been waiting for their santange Quis the.

764
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Speaker 2: Best street tacos in the world.

765
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: Arguably in Yeah, so they have James Beard Street tacos.

766
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Speaker 1: But go, here's the thing. Chippotle is delicious. I don't

767
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: know that it represents some form of textmax. It's its

768
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: own lane, you know. So like not to say that

769
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: they won't enjoy it there, but maybe we don't call

770
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: it a Mexican grill there. Maybe we just call it

771
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: Chipotle and we just serve the food and you enjoy it.

772
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: And the most unhealthy fast food burger in America is

773
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: at five guys, which apparently it's just like the normal

774
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 1: cheeseburger is super unhealthy. It's one of the most unhealthy cheeseburgers,

775
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: if not the most unhealthy, with a fifty point unhealthiest score.

776
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: They also waited as the unhealthiest fries, Waterburger, smash Burger,

777
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 1: and Carl's Junior trailed behind in the ranking. Five Guys

778
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: had seventy three percent more saturated fat than any other

779
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: fast food cheeseburger on the list. Now, remember Carls Junior

780
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: is the place that takes the cheeseburger and deep fries

781
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: it and then rolls it in a pizza like that

782
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: snl skit and then deep fries it again. And then

783
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: rolls it.

784
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 2: In ranch and ladies and bikinis right.

785
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: And then serves it to you. You know, well, the

786
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: whole thing goes down your right in a bikini and

787
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: goes down your face. So anyway, it's a school bus

788
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,959
Speaker 1: Driver Appreciation Day, National Jellybean Day, National Girl Scout Day,

789
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: and today is Earth Day as well. All right, let's

790
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: see stare go. We'll debate some relationship drama. We'll get

791
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: to an entertainer report at some point. I promise there

792
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: were too busy talking about the youth of America and

793
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: whether enough to go to college that show it's on,

794
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: Stay or go. Let's debate some relationship drama in just

795
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: a second. The entertainer report, A hundred bucks show biz

796
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Speaker 1: kikiS still a very good record in the game. But

797
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: you've never lost two in a row, So we'll see

798
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: what happens today. People are texting that a lot of

799
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: the like AI digital recruiting sites or application sites where

800
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 1: you apply for jobs, will eliminate people who don't have

801
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 1: at least in associates, which is crazy, but I guess

802
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 1: I would argue in the years to come, like, are

803
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: we going to rethink that because people are going to

804
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: if they haven't already, are going to stop being able

805
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: to afford this, or they're going to say I just can't,

806
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: like I cannot start my life with a half and

807
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: a lot of people in this room and otherwise no,

808
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: like I can't start my life with a half a

809
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: million dollars in debt at ten percent interest or whatever

810
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: it is. I don't know what the interest rate is, but.

811
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, about that part, you know.

812
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: And then you look at my sister. She wanted to

813
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: be a therapist. She went to undergrad masters, worked her

814
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: ass off, makes X. My brother in law went to

815
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: computer coding class I think for three months and he

816
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: makes the X two X I'm sure you know, and

817
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 1: we joke about it all the time, like good for him,

818
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: it's amazing, you know whatever. And he's had to run

819
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: with that and make it into something more so that

820
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: he could do that. Well, But then you know, my

821
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: but my sister had no option. You want to be

822
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: a therapist, that's what you got to do. Your mom

823
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: knows that.

824
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 4: Has anyone ever asked you to see your degree before

825
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 4: they gave you a job?

826
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: Never? No. But I've also only interviewed for one job

827
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: in my professional life. And it was for this company

828
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: twenty four years ago.

829
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Speaker 2: I don't know anybody who had to shut there, nobody.

830
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: I never No one asked for a resume, Nobody asked me,

831
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Speaker 1: No one asked me to prove that I had a

832
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: degree exactly.

833
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 8: Pollina brought hers. Yeah, I brought my.

834
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: Nobody even you physically brought him to this job interview,

835
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: not for not to be on the radio, but she

836
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 2: work in sales.

837
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: He brought the you like the physical piece of paper.

838
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 2: Nobody tells you not know that's real?

839
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: Right?

840
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 2: Nobody? Hey, I woke my ass off. Yeah, I'm bringing

841
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: this piece of paper, was right?

842
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: Howbody you know where mine is?

843
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 7: All this money? I don't even know where to find.

844
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: But they sure know where to find me to ask

845
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 1: for more money?

846
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 11: Right?

847
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: Didn't you get a number my parents' money already? Why

848
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 1: are you calling me now?

849
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 4: More?

850
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: Fread Show? Next, it's the Frend Show. Good morning? What

851
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one music station. I

852
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: still have this visual of Paulina walking in to her

853
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: interview to be an admin for for Bill Barker in

854
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: Premiere radio advertising sales, and you walk in with an

855
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: entire frame degree like little tackle too no, you brought

856
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: the Why what you brought? Did you wear your capin gown?

857
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: Did you show up and cap and down? Oh my god? Yes, Hey, I.

858
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: Worked really hard for that. And you're gonna see this,

859
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: Bill Barker, You're to see that. Look at me now.

860
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: Well, I did think it was weird is hanging up

861
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: on the studio wall. But you know, I was wondering

862
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: why you wore that hat with the tassel every day.

863
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: Oh Pauline, I love you so much. I don't blame you,

864
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: like it was hard work, but I also don't know,

865
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: right who does that mean? I think I think, you know,

866
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: they can verify it if they have to know.

867
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 2: Nobody's verifying nothing.

868
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, you don't have to You don't

869
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Speaker 1: know it is. People were asking like, how did you decide? Well,

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Speaker 1: Yes, I have one. So there's a place across the street, right,

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Speaker 1: and boy, we could go a little further out, like

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Speaker 1: Duncan on on Madison. It's not far I could walk there.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, there will be another one this year, right,

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Speaker 1: we'll do one in the.

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Speaker 7: Fall maybe, yeah, fall time.

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Speaker 1: Maybe in the fall. And for those asking about a

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because those are the questions I've been

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Speaker 9: Maybe we need to do the Tangent Live in a

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Speaker 9: breakfast spot that seems to be the working Yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, hold on, full of beans. Could have a

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Speaker 1: Well in the city. I think it's gonna be Okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel good about it.

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Speaker 2: Well, ye last time you did say that last year?

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Speaker 1: now to Zimbabwe and what are the economic situations. Let's

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Speaker 1: go to Carl. Carl, what are the economic situations in Zimbabwe? Mkeitha.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report this hour. What are you working on?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Calen, that's coming up. Thank to you in

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Speaker 1: Let's debate so much relationship drama. In two minutes after

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Speaker 1: commercial free Fresh show is on. It's Stay or Go

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Speaker 1: all right, Daniel is here, Hi, Daniel, Good morning, Good morning, Daniel.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this is you're a married man, okay,

960
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: and you got some kids and your wife is up

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Speaker 1: to something. You think, maybe what's the situation, So.

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Speaker 13: To get some advice, you know, relationship advice. So my

963
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 13: youngest daughter mentioned something to me about mommy's new friend,

964
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Speaker 13: Jeff's house. So I was, you know, kind of caught

965
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Speaker 13: off guard by that. So I asked my wife. She

966
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Speaker 13: told me their kids. You know, my daughter made friends

967
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Speaker 13: at the park with this girl, and they went over

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Speaker 13: to their house, the new friend's house, for a playdate,

969
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Speaker 13: and Jeff is their dad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jeff is all right, all right, So the kids

971
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Speaker 1: are playing and they go over to Jeff's house. Okay. Yeah.

972
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Speaker 13: And so I was just a little put off by that,

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Speaker 13: Like my wife didn't tell me. I had to find

974
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Speaker 13: out through my daughter, and so I guess my way

975
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Speaker 13: I'm feeling.

976
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Speaker 7: Am I wrong to be bothered at?

977
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Speaker 13: My wife was married to me, obviously went over to

978
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Speaker 13: a single man's house.

979
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Speaker 1: This is a single dad, and I didn't know anything

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Speaker 1: about it. I don't think this is a problem. Why

981
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: is this a problem?

982
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Speaker 2: It's not.

983
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Speaker 1: Why is this a problem? I mean, the kids are

984
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Speaker 1: playing like it's not the kid's fault that you know

985
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Speaker 1: Jeff got divorced or what. Sorry for your look, I mean,

986
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Speaker 1: right right, I'm sorry. What if Jeff's gay? Do we know?

987
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: What do we know about Jeff? How much do we

988
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: know about this man? I mean, I mean, I'm being honest.

989
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not invalidating your concern. I just I think, like,

990
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Speaker 1: do you do you always? Are you always fully briefed

991
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Speaker 1: on the on the relationship status of the parents of

992
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: the playdate? Honestly? And I'm not again, Daniel, I'm not

993
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 1: making funny here, but I'm serious.

994
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 7: No, I mean, And.

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Speaker 13: I confronted my wife and she said, you know, it's

996
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Speaker 13: not a big deal. She just the fact that she

997
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Speaker 13: didn't bring it up, you know, being suspicious, and you know,

998
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 13: obviously I'm a little insecure about it. And I you know,

999
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Speaker 13: I think if the tables were turned and I was

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Speaker 13: stay at home dad and I went to a single

1001
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Speaker 13: mom's house, I would be, you know, have the wherewithal

1002
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Speaker 13: to tell my wife, Hey, I'm going over to you

1003
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Speaker 13: know whatever, Stacey's house and you know, hang out with it,

1004
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 13: you know, just so you're aware of what's going on,

1005
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 13: the fact that it wasn't you know he mentioned to

1006
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Speaker 13: me put me off.

1007
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Speaker 7: I had to find out through my daughter.

1008
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Speaker 13: And then the way she said, she's like mommy's new friend.

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Speaker 1: Jeff. Okay, Well, the wording of that was a little like,

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00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna put a crazy one

1011
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: out there for you because I am crazy, so I

1012
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: can do that. Let's say that your wife went over

1013
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: to Samantha's house and Samantha had a couple of kids.

1014
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: We're not worried about that, right, We don't say anything

1015
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: about that about Samantha single mom.

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Speaker 13: Right, Sure, No, I'm not worried about that, because.

1017
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Speaker 1: It turns out Samantha's and lesbian. Ooh, it turns out.

1018
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: It turns out his wife is exploring, experimenting. Turns out

1019
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: not to say, I'm just saying if it were a woman,

1020
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Speaker 1: we wouldn't say anything about this, and we wouldn't say

1021
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: anything because we don't think there's a sexual threat, because

1022
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Speaker 1: that's what this is about. This is about the potential

1023
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: for a sexual threat when really it's about the kids playing. Now,

1024
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: I admitted last hour, I'm an insecure person. This doesn't

1025
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: bother me because why I'm married to this person. Why

1026
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: are they automatically cheating on me if they're alone with

1027
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: a single person, that could be happening anywhere.

1028
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 4: Why old house, Why are you in the house where

1029
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 4: it's supposed to play at a park?

1030
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Speaker 2: The kids play at a park.

1031
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 4: You don't need to be in Tim's house or John's

1032
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 4: house without telling me anything.

1033
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: John could be a serial killer.

1034
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 4: And you got you and my kids in that house

1035
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 4: and no one has said anything to me.

1036
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: Absolutely not.

1037
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: But Samantha could be a serial killer.

1038
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 4: Jamantha, Samantha could, But I know John might be for real.

1039
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 4: I'm not no, no, no, no, My man doesn't need to

1040
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 4: be in any other woman's house without my knowledge.

1041
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: You guys, if she were alone, if she were like,

1042
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: if the kids weren't there, yeah, that's.

1043
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 4: Know that the kids might have been in the basement

1044
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 4: playing at her And what timmy.

1045
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 2: What's his name?

1046
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: Jeff? Yeah, mom's friends Jeff MoMA.

1047
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 2: Yep, upstands playing.

1048
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 3: People are texting that, they're saying, why are they saying

1049
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 3: Jeff's Mommy's friend Jeff's house and not my friend Susie.

1050
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 2: Right, like you know the age of the kid, Like,

1051
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: maybe that's.

1052
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: You, guys, I am a look, I am insecure in relationships.

1053
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: I have a lot of unreasonable thoughts about what I

1054
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: am into and what I'm not into, and what I

1055
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: think is cool, what I don't think is cool. But

1056
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 1: I have to tell you when it comes to the kids,

1057
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: I mean, there's there are going to be situations where

1058
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: one parents there are the other parents, not single parent,

1059
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: moms at work, dads at work, you know, soccer practice

1060
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 1: moms there, dad took the kids, mom, mom.

1061
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: And sister wives, everybody.

1062
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, why do we automatically jump to there

1063
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: has to be infidelity?

1064
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 2: I don't think infidelity my bag. Well, my concern is

1065
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: maybe I over communicate with my husband. But do people not.

1066
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: Talk at the end of the night where it's like

1067
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 3: you're in bed, you want to, you know, tuck yourself in.

1068
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: Oh how was your day? All was good.

1069
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 3: We went to Jeff's house and little Susie played with

1070
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 3: little Jimmy and they had a great time. Like, why

1071
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 3: are they not telling each other this? I tell my

1072
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: husband everything. I'll be like, oh, yeah, I was here today.

1073
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Speaker 1: I mean, did be more concerned Paulina if it were

1074
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: over explained to me? Now, Jeff's a single dad, but

1075
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: you have nothing to worry about it because the kids.

1076
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: I'd be like, wait a minute, hold it, but he's gay.

1077
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 2: No, not even that.

1078
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 3: It's just like I feel like you just communicate with

1079
00:47:58,239 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 3: your partner and say, how is your day?

1080
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 2: What did you do? Would you see where to go? Like,

1081
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 2: I don't know a little panter?

1082
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: No, do you have any suspicion of your wife? Otherwise

1083
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: I think I'm not invalidating your feelings because there are

1084
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: a lot of people apparently that agree with you, that

1085
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: think it's inappropriate. I guess when it comes to the kids,

1086
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: I guess I don't necessarily think you get to choose,

1087
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: you know, the marial status of the parents of the

1088
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 1: kids that your friends befriend, right. I tend to agree

1089
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: with your co hosts.

1090
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 13: I think everything should be out in the open and

1091
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 13: have an open line of communication. If there's nothing to hide,

1092
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 13: then use nothing you can't say then just to be

1093
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 13: open and just whether and if she went to a

1094
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 13: female's house. I'd like to know that too, just for

1095
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 13: the fact that we're married, we're life partners. Our lives,

1096
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 13: you know, do revolve around each other and our children.

1097
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 13: So it's nice to know if God forbid, something does

1098
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 13: happen where she was what she's doing, So I think

1099
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 13: that's only fair an open line of communication and a

1100
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 13: marriage to me, and I would offer her the same

1101
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 13: respect from my vantage point. If the tables were turned

1102
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 13: me not getting it. It's just alarm bells went off. Yeah,

1103
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:04,399
Speaker 13: and I hear what you're saying. I just think there

1104
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 13: are far more sinister ways to conceal infidelity than play

1105
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 13: dates out. And maybe it's maybe it's, like you know,

1106
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 13: right out in the open, maybe you should be worried

1107
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 13: about this because it's just so obvious that.

1108
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: But at the same time, if you don't suspect your wife,

1109
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: if you don't suspect she's a cheater, if you've never

1110
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: suspected she's a cheater, then why are we putting that

1111
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: on her now? In this one situation that is pretty

1112
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 1: easily explainable, the kids met at the park, they hung out.

1113
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 1: It's not as though you can say, no, kids, I'm sorry,

1114
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: but we can't go over to that house because Daddy

1115
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: says that Jeff's a predator and Daniel, I'm just I mean,

1116
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: it sounds ridiculous, and again not making fun of you,

1117
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: but like, come on, you know what I mean. It's

1118
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 1: not as though she. I don't think we targeted the

1119
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: guy in the playground. Hey kids, go play with those

1120
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: kids because daddy's hot, you know what I mean. I

1121
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: find it a respect.

1122
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 13: I wouldn't do that on my end. I wouldn't go

1123
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,959
Speaker 13: to a single our female's house, whether single or mayor

1124
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 13: just to me, it would be just putting yourself in

1125
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 13: a situation where it's not necessary.

1126
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 7: So I just wouldn't do that.

1127
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 13: So I feel like I should be given that in return,

1128
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 13: as you know, equal boundaries, and it's just not even

1129
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 13: putting myself in the situation. It just temptation isn't even there.

1130
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 13: There's no you know, because that's what leads to others things.

1131
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 13: It's just it can easily go down that path. So

1132
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 13: I'd rather not even dabble.

1133
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 2: Just this is ridiculous.

1134
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, communicate with your partner at the end

1135
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 3: of the night, when you're having your tea, whatever you

1136
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 3: guys do together at night.

1137
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 2: Your wine. Just say this is how my day when

1138
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:30,919
Speaker 2: that's all I'm saying.

1139
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 3: But he's taking it too far now, just because you're

1140
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 3: a single mom all of a sudden, like you're attempted.

1141
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 4: Come on, like, relax, what's at Jeff's house that's not

1142
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 4: at our house?

1143
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: Maybe Jeff, maybe he's a cool guy with the bounce

1144
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 1: house or the nipol.

1145
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 4: Maybe you gotta be the loop because they were in

1146
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 4: the backyard. They say we were in their hat. Hey,

1147
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 4: why what's in Jeff's house that is not our house?

1148
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: I come on, he don't know.

1149
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, guys, I don't leave your wife.

1150
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 4: But you need to investigate. You need to go to

1151
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 4: work and circle to block and pop up with you.

1152
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: Guys, we can't just suspect our partners of cheating all

1153
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: the time, just automatically because we're alone with another single person, Like,

1154
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: we just can't do that. What it does? Let me

1155
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: take some Let me take some phone Callst. Daniel, have

1156
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,720
Speaker 1: a great day. Thanks for calling.

1157
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't even know. They don't have to be

1158
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 3: single for things to happen. Also, there's so many other

1159
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 3: ways this could be sis. And I'm just guys, come

1160
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 3: on and people are like, Fred, you're wrong. But guys,

1161
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 3: last hour, I told you I'm insecure. At this hour,

1162
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 3: I'm like.

1163
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: Not a ghost.

1164
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: I'mbout a ghost with this hour, guys, I can't. I cannot.

1165
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: If I'm married to someone, I cannot constantly police who

1166
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: they're with and win and why. Okay, so she goes

1167
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: to work and there's a single guy the cubicle next

1168
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 1: to her. They're doing it.

1169
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 4: No, No, they're at work. There at work, they're not.

1170
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean anything. Did you see the Storian shore

1171
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: last week and the people who have work and they

1172
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: go to the top of the parking garage and they're

1173
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: doing it in the back of the car line and

1174
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: it went viral in all of the world, all over

1175
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: TikTok because these people were doing it in the middle

1176
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 1: of work.

1177
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 2: Imagine what they doing in the back of before runner

1178
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 2: where there's a bend. Imagine what you write.

1179
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: You guys, come on, Megan, Hi, Megan, good morning, Hi,

1180
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: good morning.

1181
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 15: I cannot believe I got through. But anyways, I think

1182
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 15: it definitely needs to be a conversation. I'm not saying

1183
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 15: he needs to go, but there needs to be more

1184
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 15: of a conversation. The little girl said, mommy's new friend.

1185
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,720
Speaker 15: The little girl didn't say my new friend.

1186
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 2: That's right.

1187
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 11: I think it doesn't.

1188
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 15: Matter like kids, No, like kids, kids are smart, and

1189
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 15: so I think that the way that the little girl

1190
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 15: phrased it. She didn't talk about her new friend Susie.

1191
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 15: She talked about mom's new friend, Jeff's house.

1192
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 10: Whether Jeff has kids or Jeff's.

1193
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 15: Single, it doesn't matter one way or the other. The

1194
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 15: way that this was set up was Mom was going

1195
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 15: to her friend's house. Little girl didn't go to her friend.

1196
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 5: My sister thought she was a horse when she was

1197
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 5: a toddler, you know, like she Maybe she just phrased

1198
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 5: it that way.

1199
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,479
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I mean, you're right, maybe there's

1200
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: a raw honesty from a child that you know is

1201
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: truly revealing. But someone texted, I'm being disrespectful or insensitive

1202
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: about this. No, I'm not. What I'm doing is I'm

1203
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: not automatically running to infidelity just because you're not he

1204
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 1: he did. That's his concern, and I'm not being I'm

1205
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: not being insensitive, but I'm I'm I'm arguing that I

1206
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: don't think that's fair to her, a person who he's

1207
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: married to and trust and had kids with, and says

1208
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: admittedly on our show, he's had no reason to doubt her,

1209
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: and now all of a sudden, their kids meet a

1210
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: single dad, and now automatically, he's they're they're they're sleeping

1211
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 1: with each other. Guys.

1212
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 8: That's I'd want to invest.

1213
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 15: I'd want to talk to the kid more and be like,

1214
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 15: where did you meet this person? Because mom said, oh,

1215
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 15: the kids met at the park. How you know the

1216
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 15: kids really met at the park. The mom can tell

1217
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 15: the kid, oh, yeah, this is the friend you met

1218
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 15: at the park the other day.

1219
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 1: Megan, thank you, and I appreciate the call. Have a

1220
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: good day. I'm a single guy. I've been single my

1221
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: whole life. I have tons of married friends whose husbands

1222
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: are at work, and sometimes we'll go to lunch or

1223
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: sometimes I've even gone to stuff. I've even gone to

1224
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 1: stuff with mom and kid when dad's out of town.

1225
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: And I'm not pretending to be the dad. I'm just

1226
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: accompanying because you know, hey, we got this thing in

1227
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 1: the park. You know you went. I'm not sleeping with

1228
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: these people. I'm not saying with these people, but like

1229
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,840
Speaker 1: it would be, look at you. I think it's unfair

1230
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 1: to me as a single guy that we automatically always

1231
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: target me as the guy who's up to something. I

1232
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 1: can't just be friends with a woman who's married without

1233
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: sleeping with her, it's impossible.

1234
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:47,479
Speaker 13: Ound.

1235
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think you're being insensitive me, like casting

1236
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: me as a bad dude or Jeff over here. I

1237
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: don't think. But we don't know. Maybe Mage Jeff is

1238
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: a dirty dog. Maybe Jeff it was gay. Yeah, we

1239
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: really don't know. True, he could be a dirty dog.

1240
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: But if he's getting a dirty dog and he's dirty

1241
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 1: dog in somewhere.

1242
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 2: Don't think it's cottail Jeff's house.

1243
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: I know. I think it is insensitive to automatically jump

1244
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: to infidelity every time your spouse or girlfriend or partner

1245
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: is doing something with another human being of the opposite sex. Yes,

1246
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Tanya, Hi.

1247
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 2: Hi there, good morning.

1248
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 16: I honestly feel like he should invite have his wife

1249
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 16: invite Jeff to their house and see if Jeff is

1250
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 16: open to meeting them together, because I kind of get

1251
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 16: the feeling that maybe, like the mom and Jeff had

1252
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 16: this thing going on and they were like, hey, I

1253
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 16: want to be able to see you, you know more.

1254
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 16: Maybe we can have a playdate for our kids.

1255
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 11: At the park and they can like, you know, and

1256
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 11: then we can have an.

1257
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 16: Excuse to get together. I honestly think it's kind of fishy.

1258
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: I guess. But I you know, I mean, that's a

1259
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: different level of awful. If this woman is using the

1260
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 1: children to play in the other room while she cheats

1261
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: on dad, Like, that's a whole different thing. Wow, we

1262
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: have apparently Jeff and mom, the woman that he's married to,

1263
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: that he committed to life. Apparently she's the worst human

1264
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: being to involve her children in fidelity. Like, guys, this

1265
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: is crazy.

1266
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 9: I have didn't ask for any of this, and all

1267
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 9: of a sudden we're like making you, like come over

1268
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 9: and meet the family.

1269
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 1: You know, I think there can be do I think

1270
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: there could be better communication? Absolutely, But you guys, we

1271
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,399
Speaker 1: cannot just jump to the worst. We cannot just put

1272
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: this on people all the time, Like why is everyone

1273
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: to cheat her?

1274
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 16: I have young kids, and I will tell you this.

1275
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 16: They do not know people's names. Like my kids don't

1276
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 16: know their friend's parents' names. So the fact that they

1277
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 16: know the parent's name is kind of suspicious to me.

1278
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 16: My kids to learn their friend's name.

1279
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you know, tell me these are all

1280
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 1: good points. I appreciate that saying thank you for listening,

1281
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: have a good day.

1282
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 2: You're not laughing at you.

1283
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: And by the way, we weren't laughing at her at all.

1284
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 1: It's just stirring it up. Oh yeah, yeah, you say that.

1285
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,839
Speaker 7: Look like you've done these people. Everyone is cheated.

1286
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: Telling me, why are we? Who is being insensitive? No

1287
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: one's being insensitive. I just don't think that it's fair

1288
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: to label this person as a cheatter for this. We

1289
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 1: don't know that Aaron high. Hey, Fred, how are you Aaron?

1290
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,959
Speaker 1: We can't just call everybody you cheatter? Every time Kiki.

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Speaker 7: She does, she will.

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Speaker 1: How did you want to say, Aaron?

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Speaker 17: Please please tell it about I hate to be if

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Speaker 17: I'm taking side to your friend. I'm kind of against you.

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Speaker 17: I hate to say it.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, I'm used to it.

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Speaker 17: I don't think they should go. I think there were

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Speaker 17: two questions that are important that you didn't ask, and

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Speaker 17: the first one was the age of the child does matter?

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Speaker 17: Because of how she phrased it of Jeff's friend if

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Speaker 17: she's three or four and saying that it's different than

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Speaker 17: if she's eight insane. Yeah, friend's house. So that's number one.

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Speaker 17: Number two is i'd be a little bit questionable. I

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Speaker 17: hate to bring this up. The income of the families.

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Speaker 17: I kind of have a I talked to a lot

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Speaker 17: of people, and I am aware that people that are

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Speaker 17: more affluent, that have more money, are very open to

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Speaker 17: open relationships and families.

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Speaker 1: So now that now they're richen swinging, Aaron, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Now they're rich and swinging.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: You had a whole pla farm in front of his

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Speaker 1: ask so much fantastic. So so it's possible that there's

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Speaker 1: socioeconomic status.

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Speaker 17: I'm speaking again. I used to teach it, ok Park

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Speaker 17: and that was very common in the affluence.

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Speaker 1: Okay, no, fair enough, there's there are some freaky things

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Speaker 1: when I'm in the suburbs out there. Hey, Aaron, thank you,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. No problems you guys. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just I I can't with this. So

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Speaker 1: we got to do a full vetting process before my wife,

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Speaker 1: if I were married, before my wife can take my

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Speaker 1: kids to hang out with.

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Speaker 2: Just to see his taxes.

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Speaker 1: He can we do a full STD and blood panel

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Speaker 1: on this guy. I want to know. I want to

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Speaker 1: know what Jeff's lippi's are like.

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Speaker 2: The lady was like, just ask the toddler, Like, let's

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Speaker 2: give a toddler that trauma.

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Speaker 1: Like, does he have loci. If he has loci, nothing's

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Speaker 1: going on.

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Speaker 14: Here somehow, Bianca, Hi, Bianca, out of control?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Bianca, sorry, bank, Yeah, Hi, it's your turn. Please

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Speaker 1: say something. Yes, of course, yes, Bianca.

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Speaker 2: Go Hey, hey, hey.

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Speaker 6: I was calling them to say there's no way a

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Speaker 6: mom with a couple of kids because having an affair,

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Speaker 6: just because she goes to Jeff's house. We are so tired.

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Speaker 6: We are just glad to have people who want to

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Speaker 6: be with our children and entertain our kids. And if

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Speaker 6: I'm giving the choice between sleeping with somebody else or

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Speaker 6: taking a nap, I'm always going to take the nap. Bread.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I just again, I think it's really unfair to

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Speaker 1: just say, oh, two people man and a woman.

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Speaker 7: Now you're taking it.

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Speaker 2: You're taking a nap bad Jeff's house.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm gonna be taking a nap.

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Speaker 11: If I'm going to hang out with my.

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Speaker 6: Kids and play, I am totally down.

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Speaker 4: I am in bed.

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Speaker 1: Be you're not helping anything to get out of just bed.

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Speaker 1: Get thank you a good day.

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Speaker 16: I'm in my car.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go.

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Speaker 18: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Now you're doing it in the car. Do it in

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Speaker 1: the car while the kids playing. Now you're a negligent

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Speaker 1: parent too. Somebody calls me with an oh my god, honey,

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Speaker 1: don't walk outside. You might the Maleman single. You guys,

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Speaker 1: you guys are crazy. I love hey. I'll tell you

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Speaker 1: what if we find out If we find out that

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Speaker 1: this woman is cheating, and I take it all back

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, and I will publicly apologize, and I'll

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Speaker 1: be roasted at the at the square. You can stone

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Speaker 1: me at the square if this is what happened. But

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Speaker 1: I just don't. I think it's a I think we're

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Speaker 1: really jumping here. And let me tell you something else.

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Speaker 1: If I went on the air and I said, and

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Speaker 1: if I were married with kids, and I went on

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Speaker 1: the air and I said, yeah, my wife, you know

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Speaker 1: my my my kids have a school friend and you

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Speaker 1: know he's a stay at home dad, and they were

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Speaker 1: over there yesterday while I was at work. They were

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Speaker 1: having brunch and playing in the backyard and she's obviously cheating.

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Speaker 1: You guys would crush me. You would crush me back.

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Speaker 1: They we don't know the location. We don't know the

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Speaker 1: venue of the hangout.

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Speaker 4: You's at a school friend that has history there, they park.

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Speaker 1: If I went on the air Polina and I said,

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Speaker 1: my wife was hanging out with our kids and a

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Speaker 1: single dad. Obviously she's up to something. You guys would

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Speaker 1: destroy me to pieces. And all I'm saying is we

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Speaker 1: don't know that. And so now you're gonna go, you're

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Speaker 1: an accuser of cheating. You're gonna accuse her of cheating

1385
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Speaker 1: in front of the kids, using the kids as a decoy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a lot of accusations.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of work to spin the block.

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Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what if she didn't. If she's

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Speaker 1: doing all that, she is a bad human being.

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Speaker 2: And she smashes on the first date.

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Speaker 1: The park, I mean great, Yeah, it was more of

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01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: a second day thing. So totally classic, way classy the

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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report and showed his kicking. Next fread show Cain's

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Speaker 1: Entertainment Report, He's on the.

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Speaker 2: Fread Show Hall of Fame.

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Speaker 5: Tight End and ESPN broadcaster Shannon Sharp has been accused

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Speaker 5: of sexual assault and battery in a new lawsuit. A

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Speaker 5: woman filed this under the alias Jane Doe, and in it,

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Speaker 5: she accuses Shannon of sexually assaulting her multiple times over

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Speaker 5: a two year quote rocky consensual relationship, and she's seeking

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Speaker 5: fifty million in damages. Hours after the lawsuit was filed,

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Speaker 5: Shannon's legal team released a statement denying the allegation, saying

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Speaker 5: the lawsuit filed by Jane Doe and orchestrated by her

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01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 5: attorney Tony Busby a name that we know a la

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01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 5: some ditty accusers, is a blatant and cynical attempt to

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Speaker 5: shake down mister Sharp for millions of dollars. It's filled

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01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 5: with lies, distortions, and misinterpretations are excuse me, misrepresentations, and

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Speaker 5: it will not succeed. They went on to share several

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Speaker 5: explicit text messages from Shannon's accuser, arguing that the messages

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Speaker 5: to mister Sharp clearly indicate the nature of their relationship

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Speaker 5: was consensual and sexual in nature, and in many cases

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Speaker 5: initiated by her with specific and graphic requests. Dead Mouse

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Speaker 5: is apologizing for his Coachella performance, saying that he was

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Speaker 5: so drunk he doesn't remember it. His set was cut

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Speaker 5: short actually after he got noticeably intoxicated. He was slurring

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Speaker 5: into the mic, taking shots during his set, which I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I feel like he's not a sat.

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Speaker 1: Marshmallow had. I can't see his eyes crossed.

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Speaker 5: I don't know right how he get it up there

1420
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 5: also not uncommon for DJs to be drinking, I think

1421
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Speaker 5: during their set. A day later, though, he posted a

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Speaker 5: photo of a water bottle, writing I don't remember a thing,

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Speaker 5: but I don't think I had a sig, so that's good.

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Speaker 2: I guess going back to bed. Wake me up.

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Speaker 5: Around Thursday ish later, he posted again, writing sorry about

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Speaker 5: last night.

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Speaker 2: Lol.

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Speaker 5: To be fair, I felt the first quarter was great,

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Speaker 5: so it's honest, and he got a little tipsy and

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Speaker 5: that's that I'll swear. At Coachella, new video shows Justin

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01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 5: Bieber Bieber excuse me, smoking a joint next to his

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Speaker 5: fifteen year old brother, and if you saw any video

1433
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Speaker 5: of Bieber at Coachella, it's very concerning. In the video

1434
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Speaker 5: that is now circulating on x UC, Justin's wife Haley

1435
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 5: putting her hand on Jackson's shoulders and trying to steer

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01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 5: him in the opposite direction so that he doesn't see

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01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 5: his older brother acting the way he was or smoking

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Speaker 5: whatever he was smoking, by the way. Yesterday, Haley also

1439
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Speaker 5: shared that she has been diagnosed with two overian cysts

1440
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 5: after giving birth to their baby son, jack She wrote,

1441
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 5: currently have two ovarian cysts. If you deal with them.

1442
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 5: I'm right there with you, and they are very, very painful.

1443
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 2: And yeah, so I don't know.

1444
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 5: I'm worried about Justin Bieber, though I think I'm not

1445
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 5: the only one. By the way, if you missed any

1446
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 5: part of our show, just hype the Fred Show on

1447
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 5: demand and set us as a preset on the free

1448
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 5: iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: You guys are funny. These texts are amazing today. Yeah, well,

1450
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: friend of you, if you had a girlfriend, you would know. Okay,

1451
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 1: you're right, I don't know what I don't know.

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01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 9: Right, I have a boyfriend and I've been cheated on

1453
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 9: in the past, and I still wouldn't think that he's

1454
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 9: cheating if this was my situation.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know how we can jump to that.

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01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: I just don't think that's fair. I think there's either

1457
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: more to the story. But I did ask the man.

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01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:01,959
Speaker 1: I asked him, point, Blake, do you have concerns about

1459
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: Have you ever had concerns about infidelity and infidelity in

1460
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 1: your relationship? He said, no, So why are we jumping

1461
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: to that? I don't know. Could there have been better communication? Absolutely,

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01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: But I almost think it's more insensitive to her that

1463
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,919
Speaker 1: we're just jumping right, So she's sleeping with this guy.

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01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, if she's not, that would really suck to you.

1465
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: I would be very upset if that's the way that.

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01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: If I'm if I'm with my kids and I'm with

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Speaker 1: another woman and we're out doing something and immediately it's

1468
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: you're you're a cheater, I'd beg wait a minute, what,

1469
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 1: like I didn't even do anything. You know, you can't

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Speaker 1: do that. I don't think it. I don't think you

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Speaker 1: can do that. And for those of you who would

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Speaker 1: like to hear about my insecurities, we went into that

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01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: last hour. I have lots of crazy insecurities about people

1474
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: who aren't even alive anymore. Okay, so whatever deceased. Yeah, right,

1475
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Speaker 1: I am intimidated. I am more intimidated by the ghost

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Speaker 1: of a man than I am by this particular situation.

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01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:57,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is true.

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01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 1: And again I may be totally wrong. Maybe this is

1479
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Speaker 1: just eyes wide open man, and and and here it is.

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01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 1: They're just they're they're doing it right in front of us,

1481
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: and I am giving her the benefit of the doubt.

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01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 1: I just don't think it's I don't think it's good

1483
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: in a relationship to immediately every time you feel insecure

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01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 1: acus someone of cheating. I don't think it's an idea.

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Speaker 1: I don't, Kik, what's that? I can't do that?

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01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, my woman bet not be in Jeff's house.

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Speaker 15: That's all.

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01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 2: We're a house.

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Speaker 1: She Kiki's up next. Fred Show is on the radio

1490
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: and the iHeart app live and anytime starts put a

1491
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: Fred's show on demand. Make us a pre set. Please,

1492
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: let's come back next a little bit late.

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Speaker 17: We'll do.

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Speaker 1: We've been on time lately, but not today. Sorry. We

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Speaker 1: just had a lot lots to talk about Kiki with

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Speaker 1: a lot of her theories. What I mean, you are

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Speaker 1: a different level of horrible human being if you take

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Speaker 1: your kids to your to your side pieces house and

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01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: they play in the other room while you do stuff,

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Speaker 1: Yes like that that we are really like. I would

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01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 1: be so mad if I doing anything and you're like,

1502
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: not only do you think I'm cheating because I'm trying

1503
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: to occupy my children during the day, but now you

1504
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 1: think I'm cheating in front of them? Yes, like the

1505
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 1: level of like, you know, what kind of human beings

1506
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: do you think I am?

1507
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:15,360
Speaker 7: You married me?

1508
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 10: Right?

1509
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 12: What?

1510
01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 10: Right?

1511
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. That's what I mean.

1512
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 2: I need to see Jeff.

1513
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: Now if I'm a cheater, or we've been having problems,

1514
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 1: or we know that Jeff and I have had a

1515
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: pass or you know whatever, all kinds of different things

1516
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: that he could have said, here's here is my basis

1517
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: for feeling this way. But I asked him point blank,

1518
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:38,759
Speaker 1: and people are like, what about emotional cheating? You guys,

1519
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:41,440
Speaker 1: we could sit here all day and talk about hypotheticals.

1520
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:43,480
Speaker 1: But I asked the guy, have you ever been insecure

1521
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 1: about infidelity before? In any case? He said no. So

1522
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 1: now we're gonna go to you. Took my kids to

1523
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: your side pieces house. Well, you guys got it on

1524
01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 1: and they played Nintendo Switch of the other room the

1525
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: other room.

1526
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 2: Is he from Oak Park though?

1527
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 17: Okay?

1528
01:08:57,880 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 19: There?

1529
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 1: Does he have any money? Does he live in Chapel Hill?

1530
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 10: Oh?

1531
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 1: He does? Off. Well, I talk to a lot of people.

1532
01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 7: I know.

1533
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I know what's going on here? Show Miss

1534
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 1: Kiki one hundred bucks, never lost two in a row?

1535
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 1: Will it happen? Next? And waiting by the phone? Why

1536
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: did somebody get ghosted to say more? Thread? Show next?

1537
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 7: Hey, wake up?

1538
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: You can learn Chinese in less than thirty minutes, apparently me. Yeah,

1539
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: the Bread show is on crisis averted Kiki, you don't

1540
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:39,919
Speaker 1: have to learn Chinese or any other language. Okay, TikTok

1541
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:40,719
Speaker 1: is gonna be safe.

1542
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 2: Yes, that's all I want. I don't ask for much.

1543
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 1: I'm worried about all the other things. As long as

1544
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: long as you take TikTok away from us, leave me,

1545
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna be okay. Hi Kiki, Ka, Hi Kaitlin, good morning,

1546
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 1: Hi Jason, Hi Pee, Hi Bella I mean is here.

1547
01:09:56,200 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: We'll get to show miss Kiki in just a second.

1548
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 1: Five pop culture questions A little bit late. One hundred

1549
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: bucks is the price you lost yesterday? Twenty one and four?

1550
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 1: Is the record never lost? Two in a row? Filing

1551
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 1: in for show Bis, Shelley, We'll see what happens. The

1552
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 1: entertainment report after waiting by the phone, Why did somebody

1553
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 1: get ghosted? Headlines and fun fact all coming up? What

1554
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 1: are you working on?

1555
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 2: K amazing news for Sizza.

1556
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:19,280
Speaker 5: Another couple that says they have never fought and a

1557
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 5: big announcement is coming. But Fred, you're gonna have to

1558
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 5: watch American Idol Who to get the announcement.

1559
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:34,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Fred, show you have what you can

1560
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,599
Speaker 1: I already watch it twice every time. No, that's right, DVR,

1561
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: you know, watch it live and then watch it again

1562
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:46,640
Speaker 1: in case I missed any Easter eggs. Oh, all right,

1563
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 1: you're feeling good.

1564
01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:50,879
Speaker 2: You know I'm nervous.

1565
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: I hope today's not a history I know.

1566
01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to make history today.

1567
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 1: No, I don't want that for you. Eat a Crystal

1568
01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: is your challenger. Good morning, Crystal? How you doing? Goomar?

1569
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 10: Guys?

1570
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: How are you Do you know a guy named Jeff?

1571
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 1: You ever been to a guy? If your kids ever

1572
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: met aganam Jeff?

1573
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 11: Well know I heard that conversation, so thank god it

1574
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 11: was not me. I'm nervous to girl have to make

1575
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:17,599
Speaker 11: history today?

1576
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: So I yes, you could make history today. Five pop

1577
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 1: culture questions, and if you listen to the show, then

1578
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 1: you have all the answers because in the you know,

1579
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 1: we pull the questions from the last couple of days

1580
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 1: of the entertainment Reports. All you have to do is listen.

1581
01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 1: If you want to win, let's play. Good luck, guys,

1582
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 1: good audios. Get out of here, Kiki, you gotta go

1583
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 1: walk to the sound boof Foo Fencer within okay, Crystal.

1584
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:42,640
Speaker 1: Question number one, which fast food chain is saying they

1585
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 1: won't apologize after trolling Katie Perry and her Blue Origin Flight.

1586
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 2: Three take a guest to.

1587
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 1: Tim Allen said that Toy Story five will focus on Jesse,

1588
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 1: who does Tim play in the movie franchise Green Day.

1589
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: Drummer Trey Cool I like that and Tray Cool responded

1590
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: to this brat singer after she wore a sash that

1591
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: said miss should be a headliner at Coachella, named the singer.

1592
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:19,400
Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, I have no idea.

1593
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 1: All right, you got two left. We're gonna clean this

1594
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 1: up right here. It's can be fine. Which actress Hard

1595
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 1: launched a relationship with Billy ray Cyrus on Easter, leaving

1596
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: some fans shocked, including me, I'm a fan of hers

1597
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:38,599
Speaker 1: that he is for the record. Two okay, all right,

1598
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 1: and you're gonna get this from Crystal. You got this

1599
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: right here. George Clooney's wife, Amal Clooney claims that he

1600
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 1: and his wife have never had an argument. Who is

1601
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:48,040
Speaker 1: his wife?

1602
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 10: I have no idea.

1603
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 1: I just told you say, you got to listen to

1604
01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 1: the questions. I gave you the answer. Okay, she got

1605
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 1: it one apparely. Oh but that's okay. Crystal's a genius.

1606
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:06,640
Speaker 1: She is, she's having an off dack. Oh no, you

1607
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: better have this n you only have to get it one.

1608
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 2: Okay, let's fingers crossed.

1609
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 1: Which fast food chain is saying they won't apologize after

1610
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 1: trolling Katy Perry and her Blue Origin flight Wendy Wendy's

1611
01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: just right. Tim Allen said the Toy Story five will

1612
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 1: focus on Jesse, who does Tim play in the movie

1613
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:31,559
Speaker 1: franchise Woody No a buzz Light Yeah. Green Day drummer

1614
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: Trey Coole responded to this brat singer after she wore

1615
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 1: a sash that said miss should be a headliner at Coachella,

1616
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: named the singer Charlie X. That's right. Which actress Hard

1617
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 1: launched her relationship with Billy Ray Cyrus on Easter, leaving

1618
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 1: some fans shocked.

1619
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 2: Oh something, hurry.

1620
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 1: You look at a MILLI I'm gonna tell you. Elizabeth

1621
01:13:55,280 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 1: Hurley and I have the same theory with Chobis Shelley

1622
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 1: that once you've won and once she's one, she just

1623
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:06,799
Speaker 1: gives up. And she says, she claims that's not true,

1624
01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 1: but if you pay very close attention, once she's already

1625
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 1: got it. Sometimes she cares him. Sometimes she doesn't I

1626
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:14,559
Speaker 1: feel in the same thing about you. You already won, see

1627
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 1: like I don't know what exactly. George Clooney claims that

1628
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: he and his wife have never had an argument. How

1629
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: could that be? Who is he married to?

1630
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's literally her face is in my face.

1631
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:29,720
Speaker 18: I mean, what's her name to? Your face is in

1632
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 18: her Her face is in your face. One Cloney, you

1633
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 18: know what, Kiki, I need you to. I need you

1634
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:36,760
Speaker 18: to play to your level. You know you can't. You

1635
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 18: can't play to the competition here. You won, but barely

1636
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 18: please movie questions is.

1637
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 11: Just like mine today.

1638
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 1: Girl, Yes she won. So that's one fifty tomorrow win

1639
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 1: number twenty two. Only four losses you did not lose

1640
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 1: to in a row. So history the crisis averted. But

1641
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 1: you have to say, Crystal, my name is Crystal. I

1642
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,880
Speaker 1: got showed up on a showdown, and you know the rest.

1643
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 10: My name is Crystal, and I got showed up on

1644
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 10: the showdown and I can't hang with the keek.

1645
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 1: I was good. That was Crystal.

1646
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 19: Can't hang with the key, can't cat cat cat cat cat,

1647
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 19: can't catch that out to a mall and George, now.

1648
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: Keep going if you want Okay, you did that. I

1649
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: keep going. I want to pass all the way out.

1650
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 1: As opposed to seeing my I could see my childhood.

1651
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 1: I just that's why I stopped. I see my childhood.

1652
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:41,799
Speaker 1: That's why I started screaming, Crystal. Hang on a second,

1653
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thanks for listening, for playing, Thank

1654
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:46,760
Speaker 1: you you too. I stay right there. Let's get to

1655
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone after a hold here in three minutes.

1656
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:54,200
Speaker 1: Why if somebody get ghosted? We'll investigate the entertainment report, headlines,

1657
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day, and the fun fact

1658
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,880
Speaker 1: all coming up. It's the Fred Show. We're live on

1659
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 1: the radio in the iHeart n. We can also catch

1660
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 1: up search for the Fread's show on demand and the

1661
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: tangent new episode is on there too.

1662
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:10,560
Speaker 14: Has ever been left waiting by the phone?

1663
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show. Hey BB, good morning, welcome to

1664
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:14,320
Speaker 1: the program.

1665
01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:15,759
Speaker 11: How are you guys?

1666
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 1: We are super excited to have you here. So waiting

1667
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 1: by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out

1668
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 1: why you may have been ghosted BB, So why don't

1669
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 1: you tell us about this guy Max, how you met?

1670
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 1: Give us any background and then kind of where things

1671
01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: are now and so we can figure out how we

1672
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 1: can help.

1673
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1674
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 11: So, I mean I met on the app. You know,

1675
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 11: that's a lot of us do day.

1676
01:16:41,160 --> 01:16:46,439
Speaker 20: So yeah, we started talking and to connect fairly well.

1677
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,800
Speaker 11: You know, he was witty, he was funny, so I was.

1678
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 20: Like, okay, and then you know, we kept talking and

1679
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 20: it started to get a little flirting and then he

1680
01:16:55,800 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 20: asked me, asked me for my actual numbers. So we moved,

1681
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 20: you know, off the app started actually you know, texting

1682
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 20: and flirty, and we decided to go out and I

1683
01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:09,439
Speaker 20: was really excited about that, and we went out.

1684
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:13,720
Speaker 11: It was great, Like underdos are never that good. I

1685
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:17,760
Speaker 11: was happy, shocked that it was going this well. And

1686
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:19,720
Speaker 11: I mean, you know, I.

1687
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 20: Even ended up, you know, sleeping over at a place

1688
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:22,639
Speaker 20: at the end of it.

1689
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 11: Believe me, I wouldn't.

1690
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:26,760
Speaker 20: See this often, and it was I was shocked that

1691
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 20: it went as well.

1692
01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, No, so you have no idea after this

1693
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked

1694
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,640
Speaker 1: up and everything. So this is all good stuff. And

1695
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 1: then since then you have not heard from him, Have

1696
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:41,240
Speaker 1: you reached out to him, have you tried to contact

1697
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:41,680
Speaker 1: him at all?

1698
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:46,559
Speaker 20: I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted

1699
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 20: him once because I didn't, you know, want to see

1700
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:50,839
Speaker 20: too much. I had already tried calling.

1701
01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: I mean, it would be nice to know after you

1702
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:56,679
Speaker 1: hook up with somebody, why you know, why they're not interested.

1703
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: I guess they don't necessarily owe you that, but it's

1704
01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 1: always nice to know I have some closure. It's respectful, sure.

1705
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:05,120
Speaker 20: Especially after you hook up with someone. You know, if

1706
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:09,479
Speaker 20: we haven't pluck together, Okay, see whatever, but at least.

1707
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:10,439
Speaker 10: Why you know?

1708
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 1: I get it. I get it. Ideally you'd like to know.

1709
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 1: And that's where we come in. So we'll call. We'll

1710
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,720
Speaker 1: call Max. You'll be on the phone at the same time.

1711
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything right at first,

1712
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: because we're gonna try and get some info for you.

1713
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: But at some point you're welcome to jump in and

1714
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:24,720
Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's going on. Maybe we

1715
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:27,600
Speaker 1: can patch things up, I don't know, any kind of

1716
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: disconnect and get you guys set up on another date

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01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: that we pay for. Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna

1718
01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 1: play one song and then we'll come back in two

1719
01:18:36,520 --> 01:18:38,519
Speaker 1: minutes and we'll call this dude and figure it out.

1720
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:40,639
Speaker 1: Let's see what's going on. In part two of waiting

1721
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 1: at the phone right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter back

1722
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: in two minutes on the Friend Show. Don't move, Brita Carpenter.

1723
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:48,719
Speaker 1: It's the frend Show on the radio on the iHeart app.

1724
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: Listen live and anytime. You can catch up all day

1725
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 1: and search for the Friend Show for that and make

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01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 1: us a preset. Hey bb Yeah, Hi, Bby, welcome back.

1727
01:18:57,320 --> 01:18:59,439
Speaker 1: Let's call Max. You guys met on one of the

1728
01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 1: dating app and you chatted and he went on this

1729
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 1: this date that you thought went really well, so well

1730
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 1: that you slept over in his house, you know, so

1731
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:11,360
Speaker 1: that's good. However, since then you haven't heard from him.

1732
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:14,839
Speaker 1: You've reached out once, he hasn't responded. I can understand

1733
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:17,679
Speaker 1: why that might bother you, because you want to know why.

1734
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 1: You want to know what happened? Where's this guy? Where

1735
01:19:19,479 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 1: did he go? Right?

1736
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 20: Yeah, I mean I just want to know why, you know,

1737
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:26,599
Speaker 20: at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well.

1738
01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 2: But at least let me know why.

1739
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:39,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now, good luck Boebe Hello,

1740
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 1: Hi is this Max? Yeah? Hey Max? Good morning. My

1741
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show on one

1742
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:47,559
Speaker 1: of three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother.

1743
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:49,400
Speaker 1: I do have to tell you that we are on

1744
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

1745
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we chat for a

1746
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 1: couple of minutes on the show?

1747
01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:56,320
Speaker 18: Yeah?

1748
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 1: That's fun, Thank you so much. I'm not sure if

1749
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 1: you've heard this before, but we're actually called on behalf

1750
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:04,080
Speaker 1: of a woman named Phoebe who says she met you

1751
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 1: on one of the dating apps. You guys went out

1752
01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 1: recently and had a what she described as a really

1753
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 1: successful date. To remember her, Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember. Okay,

1754
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 1: all right, well, so what she told us that you

1755
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 1: know that you guys were flirting again long, Well, she

1756
01:20:18,439 --> 01:20:21,839
Speaker 1: did say that she slept over at your house. However,

1757
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 1: she said she can't get a hold of you. You're

1758
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 1: not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her.

1759
01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: We had no problem getting ahold of you, So what

1760
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 1: you know, can you kind of would you mind filling

1761
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,320
Speaker 1: us in on where you're at with her?

1762
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:35,120
Speaker 21: Yeah?

1763
01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, the date was good.

1764
01:20:37,640 --> 01:20:42,160
Speaker 21: The everything else that happened after was good. It was

1765
01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 21: just actually it was it was sort of what happened

1766
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:48,639
Speaker 21: after after was what was kind of weird. I woke

1767
01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:51,080
Speaker 21: up like just in the middle of the I just

1768
01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 21: had to pee and I was like hearing noises from

1769
01:20:54,479 --> 01:20:57,679
Speaker 21: my living room and I walked it into my living

1770
01:20:57,760 --> 01:21:00,640
Speaker 21: room and she was watching, like.

1771
01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:06,120
Speaker 1: She did she fire up the fifty inch and like,

1772
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 1: you know, share it to the street like.

1773
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,719
Speaker 21: Yeah, like we had just soaked up like an hour

1774
01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 21: before that.

1775
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:18,640
Speaker 1: There's just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable.

1776
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 1: Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round. Uh. Well,

1777
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 1: you know what, I forgot to mention that bbes here.

1778
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:32,360
Speaker 1: I I don't know what. I always have this laps

1779
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:34,800
Speaker 1: in my memory. I forget to mention that part the

1780
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:37,479
Speaker 1: BB's here, Max. You guys know each other. BB. So

1781
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,720
Speaker 1: what was going on on the couch after afterwards? And

1782
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:41,719
Speaker 1: why was it so loud?

1783
01:21:41,920 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me.

1784
01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 1: Okay, well he did. So why an hour after you

1785
01:21:51,400 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 1: hook up with the guy, are you in the other

1786
01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:56,799
Speaker 1: room watching you know those kind of videos?

1787
01:21:57,080 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 2: Well why do you think so?

1788
01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:03,479
Speaker 1: You didn't? Oh you did so, Pauline is right, So

1789
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 1: you didn't. It wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory. The experience

1790
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:09,799
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even.

1791
01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that though I had a great experience,

1792
01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 20: like it was a really fun time.

1793
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 2: Didn't, girl, You didn't.

1794
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:24,519
Speaker 1: You didn't get to the high the highest hype.

1795
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:28,600
Speaker 20: Guys, I did not finish so and I did not

1796
01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:31,360
Speaker 20: expect him to walk in and catch me.

1797
01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 11: You know, that was never my interest.

1798
01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 1: I guess in the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah,

1799
01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:45,320
Speaker 1: I you know, I I I might conceal what I'm

1800
01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 1: doing a little better if I didn't want any chance

1801
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:50,360
Speaker 1: that the guy I liked or girl I liked or

1802
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:52,880
Speaker 1: whatever would find out. I mean, because I get it.

1803
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:55,479
Speaker 1: You know, it's you don't always get to that point.

1804
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 1: But Max, Man, you're awfully quiet on this whole thing.

1805
01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:00,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you hear what this is the reason? Why

1806
01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 1: would what say you?

1807
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:06,240
Speaker 21: Yeah, I don't know. I I guess I get it.

1808
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 21: It's just it was just kind of weird. I definitely

1809
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 21: didn't expect it.

1810
01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:11,759
Speaker 1: You don't seem real surprise.

1811
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 11: I thought I thought it would great, like we did.

1812
01:23:16,560 --> 01:23:18,800
Speaker 11: I'm not saying I don't.

1813
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 20: I'm not saying it wasn't a great time. That was

1814
01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 20: not at all what I'm trying to say here.

1815
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: I will say this is a difficult concept for most

1816
01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 1: men to understand. Myself included, we're like operating an appliance,

1817
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:34,760
Speaker 1: you know, on off. It's not that tricky. Women typically

1818
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 1: are a little it's a little more complicated women. I

1819
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:40,960
Speaker 1: think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for the

1820
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 1: most part, that it can be a little trickier. And

1821
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:46,639
Speaker 1: I think men, just because we're we're used to most

1822
01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: of the time, we get to that point, and I

1823
01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:52,360
Speaker 1: think we just expect that we can give that to

1824
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,120
Speaker 1: our partners only. And I think many men are of

1825
01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 1: surprise to find out that you guys can have a

1826
01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:01,320
Speaker 1: great time and enjoy the experience, but not automatically get

1827
01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 1: to that height. M m. Yeah, So I think that's

1828
01:24:03,680 --> 01:24:05,960
Speaker 1: it's a hard thing for guys who understand. Yeah, yeah,

1829
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:06,599
Speaker 1: I get that.

1830
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:10,560
Speaker 21: I just like washing porn on like my couchrack. I

1831
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:12,599
Speaker 21: don't know, I just I was right next to her.

1832
01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, I.

1833
01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 2: Don't know, so finished like what a gentleman.

1834
01:24:17,880 --> 01:24:19,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have been more offended that I wasn't

1835
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 1: invited to that party, you know. I would have been like, well,

1836
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 1: I mean I can help with them. But then again,

1837
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 1: it didn't. It didn't work the first time, all right, Well, look, Max,

1838
01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 1: I mean, so since you say you have an understanding

1839
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 1: of this whole concept, so why are you ignoring her?

1840
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 1: Are you embarrassed by it? Are you I don't know what,

1841
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: what did it hurt your masculinity somehow? I mean, I

1842
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,160
Speaker 1: don't mean to generalize her, like I don't mean to suppose,

1843
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:47,280
Speaker 1: but what why wouldn't you call her again after that?

1844
01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:49,920
Speaker 21: I don't know, it was just a little weird to me.

1845
01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:53,960
Speaker 21: It was, uh, it just it was just really off putting,

1846
01:24:54,600 --> 01:24:57,559
Speaker 21: and I don't know, it was just really weird and

1847
01:24:57,600 --> 01:24:58,800
Speaker 21: it just it threw me off.

1848
01:24:58,880 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 12: And I'm sorry.

1849
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 21: I'm not good at, you know, just not talking to people,

1850
01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 21: so I tend to just not talk to people. I'm

1851
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 21: not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff,

1852
01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 21: so I tend to just not respond.

1853
01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: And I know it's clearly not good and here we are.

1854
01:25:14,760 --> 01:25:18,040
Speaker 1: But well, that's that's nice, you know. There you go, Bb,

1855
01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 1: So that was the issue. I don't know that every

1856
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:22,559
Speaker 1: guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's

1857
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 1: admitting that he's not really good. I think I think

1858
01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 1: many of us are not good at that. At that

1859
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:28,680
Speaker 1: phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way,

1860
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 1: I don't like you, not that that's how you say it,

1861
01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:33,760
Speaker 1: but you know it sounds like that's the issue here,

1862
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 1: so boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's gonna work out.

1863
01:25:36,600 --> 01:25:39,760
Speaker 2: Well fair enough, man, I know.

1864
01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:42,840
Speaker 1: He doesn't seem too surprised by all this. I don't know.

1865
01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 1: It just maybe it's just not a it's not a match.

1866
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 1: But guys, thank you so much for your time. Best

1867
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:47,240
Speaker 1: elect to both of you.

1868
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:48,040
Speaker 6: Thank you.

1869
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:51,080
Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report headlines the biggest stories of the day

1870
01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:54,400
Speaker 1: and the fun fact All next Fread Show's Entertainment Report.

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01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:55,719
Speaker 1: He's on The Fread Show.

1872
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 2: That's a rapper.

1873
01:25:57,160 --> 01:26:00,280
Speaker 5: Slim Sug thought Megan the Stallion had a crush on

1874
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:02,799
Speaker 5: him and wanted to hook up with him simply because

1875
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 5: she played some of his songs during Weekend one of Coachella.

1876
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:08,439
Speaker 5: She decided that she was going to clear some things

1877
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:11,679
Speaker 5: up during her Weekend to Coachella set, She started playing

1878
01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 5: one of his songs and said, and no, Slim Thug,

1879
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,920
Speaker 5: this doesn't mean that I like you or I want you.

1880
01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:17,879
Speaker 2: It just means I like your music, babe.

1881
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:21,160
Speaker 5: He responded to the story on Instagram with a bunch

1882
01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 5: of laughing and fire emojis. So no, just because someone

1883
01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:26,320
Speaker 5: plays your music does not mean that they want to

1884
01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:29,680
Speaker 5: go on a date with you. Unfortunately, Sizzu, we just

1885
01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:31,240
Speaker 5: played Teddy Swims. I've been trying to get him to

1886
01:26:31,240 --> 01:26:31,960
Speaker 5: go out with me forever.

1887
01:26:32,160 --> 01:26:35,479
Speaker 2: I think yes, I mean I think that you want him. Yeah,

1888
01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:37,240
Speaker 2: because you played his song.

1889
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,639
Speaker 1: I think I know that you want him. You should

1890
01:26:39,760 --> 01:26:44,760
Speaker 1: know he know that you want him. Yeah, he's smooth too. No, yes, yes,

1891
01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 1: I agree.

1892
01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 18: No.

1893
01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:49,960
Speaker 5: Sissa's SOS album continues to break all kinds of crazy records.

1894
01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 5: Most recently, it surpassed Adele's twenty one for the most

1895
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 5: week spent in the Billboard Top ten for an album

1896
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:58,400
Speaker 5: by a woman. The album notch it's eighty fifth non

1897
01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 5: consecutive week in the top ten, and Adele's twenty one

1898
01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 5: album from twenty eleven was last in the top ten

1899
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:07,439
Speaker 5: for its eighty fourth and final non consecutive week.

1900
01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:08,759
Speaker 2: In twenty sixteen.

1901
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 5: Saysas album now ties Peter Paul and Mary's a self

1902
01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:13,120
Speaker 5: titled album for.

1903
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:14,519
Speaker 2: The third most weeks in.

1904
01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 5: The top ten among albums by a singular artist, and

1905
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:20,600
Speaker 5: they both trailed two albums by Morgan Wallen Dangerous, the

1906
01:27:20,600 --> 01:27:22,839
Speaker 5: double album with one hundred and fifty eight and One.

1907
01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:24,280
Speaker 2: Thing at a Time with one hundred and six.

1908
01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 5: George says that he and his wife, Oh, I'm sorry,

1909
01:27:27,240 --> 01:27:30,000
Speaker 5: George Clooney, we're not on a first name base.

1910
01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:34,080
Speaker 1: I just call him George George when I'm talking to him.

1911
01:27:34,160 --> 01:27:36,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I probably needed to give you the last name there.

1912
01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:39,599
Speaker 5: So George Clooney says that he and his wife Amal

1913
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 5: never fight, and they never have during an interview with

1914
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:45,040
Speaker 5: Gail King So another one of these. He recalled telling

1915
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 5: Gale in twenty twenty two that they have never had

1916
01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:49,600
Speaker 5: an argument, and he said the same holds true to

1917
01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:51,639
Speaker 5: this day. He took, we're still trying to find something

1918
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 5: to argue about.

1919
01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 1: Really, I'm surprised that Gail will even talk to his

1920
01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:58,000
Speaker 1: person who hasn't gone to space. Well, yeah, maybe that

1921
01:27:58,040 --> 01:28:00,519
Speaker 1: the interview was before she went to space. It's just

1922
01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:03,240
Speaker 1: I don't know why she would bother with that. She

1923
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,200
Speaker 1: speaks to just a mere mortal.

1924
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:07,439
Speaker 8: She said, don't talk to me, Yeah, unless you've been

1925
01:28:07,520 --> 01:28:07,960
Speaker 8: to space.

1926
01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 5: So there's not a day that goes by where he

1927
01:28:10,360 --> 01:28:12,040
Speaker 5: doesn't feel like he's the luckiest.

1928
01:28:11,640 --> 01:28:12,360
Speaker 2: Man in the room.

1929
01:28:13,400 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 1: He's been sustainable, Like, is that real, Like who can

1930
01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 1: actually be in a relationship where there's no conflict ever?

1931
01:28:20,720 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 1: Like healthy, normal conflict. I don't think that's real, not

1932
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Speaker 1: this house. Give me the secret, right please, I don't know.

1933
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:30,240
Speaker 1: I think you've got to get stuff off you. How

1934
01:28:30,280 --> 01:28:31,880
Speaker 1: could you be with someone for years and years and

1935
01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 1: years and live with them and have kids with them

1936
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:36,680
Speaker 1: and all them and not have healthy conflict. I'm not

1937
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 1: saying neal, nasty stuff, of course, I just mean you'll

1938
01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:41,000
Speaker 1: get your grievances out.

1939
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Speaker 17: All right.

1940
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:43,120
Speaker 5: Come on, let's mix it up a little, get a

1941
01:28:43,160 --> 01:28:44,160
Speaker 5: little sassy with each other.

1942
01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:45,880
Speaker 2: Let's figure it out.

1943
01:28:46,240 --> 01:28:47,880
Speaker 5: By the way, if you missed any part of our show,

1944
01:28:47,920 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 5: just like the Fred Show on demand and set us

1945
01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:52,160
Speaker 5: as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.

1946
01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:55,800
Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on Friend's Fun Fact.

1947
01:28:55,680 --> 01:29:03,920
Speaker 8: Fred Fun so much.

1948
01:29:05,240 --> 01:29:09,040
Speaker 1: Guys. Did you know that the nerf ball was invented

1949
01:29:09,080 --> 01:29:11,599
Speaker 1: by Parker Brothers in nineteen seventy, or at least that's

1950
01:29:11,600 --> 01:29:14,320
Speaker 1: who distributed it. I think there was a documentary or

1951
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 1: a thirty for thirty or something about the guy who

1952
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:19,240
Speaker 1: actually invented the nerf ball. Now did he get as

1953
01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:20,680
Speaker 1: rich as he was supposed to? I can't remember the

1954
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:23,920
Speaker 1: story about though. Anyway, they wanted the public to be

1955
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:27,600
Speaker 1: aware of how safe the four inch foam choy was.

1956
01:29:27,640 --> 01:29:30,400
Speaker 1: To do that, they included text on the box that

1957
01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:34,280
Speaker 1: told buyers throw it indoors, you can't damage lamps or

1958
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:36,840
Speaker 1: break windows. They also added you can't hurt babies or

1959
01:29:36,880 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 1: old people. Set it right on the box, you can't

1960
01:29:40,640 --> 01:29:42,639
Speaker 1: hurt babies or old people.

1961
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 8: I'm not finding a documentary lots of history though.

1962
01:29:46,360 --> 01:29:48,800
Speaker 1: I think it was something on ESPN about the guy

1963
01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 1: who invented it, maybe like people didn't want to they

1964
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:53,600
Speaker 1: didn't believe in it, or thought it was stupid, and

1965
01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:55,640
Speaker 1: then he wound up, you know, selling a gazillion of

1966
01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:57,720
Speaker 1: him or something like that. But yeah, right there on

1967
01:29:57,760 --> 01:30:00,240
Speaker 1: the box, you can't hurt babies or old people. That's

1968
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:00,880
Speaker 1: a selling point.

1969
01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:04,840
Speaker 21: I like more Fread Show next.

1970
01:30:04,920 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they say. These are the

1971
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:11,960
Speaker 1: radio blogs on the Fread Show, like running in our diaries,

1972
01:30:12,000 --> 01:30:14,120
Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call the blogs.

1973
01:30:14,200 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 2: Kaylino, thank you, dear blog.

1974
01:30:17,520 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 5: So my girl Paulina has long been saying that the

1975
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:24,080
Speaker 5: Catholic Church needs a rebrand. Okay, I have long been

1976
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:26,479
Speaker 5: saying that baby showers need a rebrand.

1977
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:29,639
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me more so. I will tell you more so.

1978
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 5: I have long complained to you guys that I think

1979
01:30:33,240 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 5: it's very funny that the women, you know, just because

1980
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 5: we are born women have to go to the baby shower,

1981
01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:43,479
Speaker 5: have to play, you know, guess the chocolate and the

1982
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 5: diaper and who can hug the baby bottle the fastest.

1983
01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:49,400
Speaker 5: But the men don't have to go to baby showers. Okay,

1984
01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 5: so that's my first issue. They get to, you know,

1985
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:55,599
Speaker 5: either show up at the end and do the fun part,

1986
01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:58,920
Speaker 5: or do nothing, or go out and drink and go congrats, bro,

1987
01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 5: you're having a baby. So I just think that maybe, ladies,

1988
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:05,280
Speaker 5: I'll go to your baby shower. But we need to

1989
01:31:05,320 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 5: switch it up, okay, because a lot of the same format.

1990
01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 8: Is copy and paste. It's a floral print.

1991
01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:14,479
Speaker 5: You can win, you know, some lotion if you guess

1992
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:17,519
Speaker 5: the accurate you know, waight of the baby or who

1993
01:31:17,520 --> 01:31:20,080
Speaker 5: the baby's gonna look more like, you can win a

1994
01:31:20,160 --> 01:31:23,840
Speaker 5: nice candle. And you have to dress the same. Don't

1995
01:31:23,840 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 5: get me started on baby shower attire. It is very

1996
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 5: hard to dress for baby showers, especially if the weather

1997
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:31,760
Speaker 5: is not cooperating because you feel like you got to

1998
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:36,639
Speaker 5: wear a you know, certain floral dress whatever. I went

1999
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:40,040
Speaker 5: to a baby shower that was a sound bath, and

2000
01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 5: I would just like to praise my friend for switching

2001
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,639
Speaker 5: it up. I got to go to this baby shower

2002
01:31:45,960 --> 01:31:49,679
Speaker 5: in comfy clothes. I got to lay on the floor

2003
01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 5: on a yoga mat in a blanket. I got to

2004
01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:56,040
Speaker 5: bring a pillow. I got to chill. There were no games.

2005
01:31:56,680 --> 01:31:59,720
Speaker 8: We just we got to chill, and the vibe was relaxed.

2006
01:31:59,720 --> 01:32:02,400
Speaker 5: And I just would like to say, ladies, let's think

2007
01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:05,600
Speaker 5: outside the box for our baby showers. Let's switch it

2008
01:32:05,680 --> 01:32:08,200
Speaker 5: up a little, you know. And I just want to

2009
01:32:08,200 --> 01:32:10,800
Speaker 5: applaud my friend. You know, we switched it up.

2010
01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:14,280
Speaker 1: If fairness have only been invited to one baby shower,

2011
01:32:14,560 --> 01:32:16,880
Speaker 1: right in fairness.

2012
01:32:16,680 --> 01:32:19,679
Speaker 5: Right, And that's where in lies the problem. Why don't

2013
01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:21,760
Speaker 5: men have to go to baby showers? I think men

2014
01:32:21,840 --> 01:32:24,040
Speaker 5: should have to throw their bros a baby shower.

2015
01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:24,840
Speaker 2: I agree.

2016
01:32:24,920 --> 01:32:26,600
Speaker 1: I thought the baby showers like, I thought that was

2017
01:32:26,600 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 1: a girl thing, Like I don't I've never why, No, well,

2018
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 1: you guys invented it. I don't know. No, I don't know. No,

2019
01:32:32,520 --> 01:32:34,040
Speaker 1: No guy he's never said to me, like, no, how

2020
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:37,040
Speaker 1: about a baby shower for me. I've no, it's never said.

2021
01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:38,800
Speaker 8: That, but I want you guys to have to go

2022
01:32:39,120 --> 01:32:40,200
Speaker 8: and get with you bros.

2023
01:32:40,360 --> 01:32:42,400
Speaker 1: So you don't like them, so we should have to

2024
01:32:42,400 --> 01:32:42,760
Speaker 1: go too.

2025
01:32:42,920 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 2: It's not that I.

2026
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:45,800
Speaker 5: Don't like them, it's that you're asking a lot of

2027
01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:48,760
Speaker 5: money to be spent. I agree, you're asking for traveling.

2028
01:32:48,960 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 5: You're asking for me to get all done up, only

2029
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 5: to do the same thing. I don't mind baby showers.

2030
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:56,519
Speaker 5: I love celebrating you in your baby shower. I'm just

2031
01:32:56,680 --> 01:32:59,320
Speaker 5: encouraging us to think outside the box a little bit

2032
01:32:59,439 --> 01:33:02,200
Speaker 5: to make this mom sit up there and open gifts

2033
01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:05,120
Speaker 5: and have the same reaction the entire time.

2034
01:33:05,520 --> 01:33:06,639
Speaker 2: They don't want to do that either.

2035
01:33:06,760 --> 01:33:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they want the diapers, and they want the gifts,

2036
01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:10,360
Speaker 1: and they want all the stuff. So that's how you're

2037
01:33:10,360 --> 01:33:10,760
Speaker 1: going to have.

2038
01:33:10,680 --> 01:33:11,040
Speaker 21: To do it.

2039
01:33:11,120 --> 01:33:12,599
Speaker 2: No, you send it directly.

2040
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,280
Speaker 5: The new thing is you send it directly to the

2041
01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:16,680
Speaker 5: couple's house and they don't have to open it.

2042
01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:18,519
Speaker 2: In front of people. I'm just saying, let's think outside

2043
01:33:18,560 --> 01:33:18,840
Speaker 2: the box.

2044
01:33:19,040 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, you weren't at my baby shower, Kalin, but I

2045
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:23,280
Speaker 3: feel like your friend and I really aligned on this.

2046
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:25,600
Speaker 3: My baby showers on a sound bath. I heard about this.

2047
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,080
Speaker 3: I love the idea. I'm not having more kids, but

2048
01:33:28,120 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 3: if I did, I do that, huh. But mine was

2049
01:33:30,600 --> 01:33:33,160
Speaker 3: a what was my baby shower like a party? I

2050
01:33:33,160 --> 01:33:36,320
Speaker 3: had a bar time and a drag I had if

2051
01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:38,280
Speaker 3: I was there, I was there.

2052
01:33:37,560 --> 01:33:40,880
Speaker 1: That's probably the only second I've ever been to in

2053
01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:41,400
Speaker 1: my whole life.

2054
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:43,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like I made it easy because

2055
01:33:43,400 --> 01:33:44,960
Speaker 3: my whole thing is I just want to make things

2056
01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 3: fun and easy for people were not And I didn't

2057
01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:50,000
Speaker 3: open one gift. And also gifts are very very kind,

2058
01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:51,960
Speaker 3: like you're not obligated to give anybody anything. And I

2059
01:33:52,000 --> 01:33:53,960
Speaker 3: think that's so sweet that people did that. I did

2060
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:55,840
Speaker 3: a diaper raffles the only game I did. Love that,

2061
01:33:55,880 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 3: and I had the dazzled done Julio bottles. Okay, See,

2062
01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 3: they fought for those they fought. You are walking the walk.

2063
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,559
Speaker 5: And I just want to I just want to tell you,

2064
01:34:03,600 --> 01:34:05,439
Speaker 5: thank you for being part of the cause.

2065
01:34:05,760 --> 01:34:06,439
Speaker 1: Thanks for walking.

2066
01:34:06,479 --> 01:34:09,960
Speaker 2: So I was born in.

2067
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 5: Specific Genitalia, and because of that, I am expected to

2068
01:34:13,320 --> 01:34:15,559
Speaker 5: do these baby showers, and I'm just saying, just have

2069
01:34:15,600 --> 01:34:17,720
Speaker 5: a drag queen every once in a while, have some

2070
01:34:17,840 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 5: drinking every once in a while.

2071
01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:21,080
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, you can't drink, but I can't.

2072
01:34:21,120 --> 01:34:22,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Okay, that's what I'm saying.

2073
01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:24,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, if you expect me to show up

2074
01:34:24,520 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 1: to an event that is basically four gifts, then you

2075
01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:30,240
Speaker 1: need to you need to provide me with a venue

2076
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:32,200
Speaker 1: that is something I would like to attend, right, Like,

2077
01:34:32,640 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 1: come on, come on, why are people throwing showers? It's

2078
01:34:35,960 --> 01:34:38,559
Speaker 1: to receive gifts, and it's great, you're yourself me. There's

2079
01:34:38,560 --> 01:34:39,160
Speaker 1: a baby coming.

2080
01:34:39,200 --> 01:34:40,240
Speaker 2: It's ex baby.

2081
01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:42,599
Speaker 1: It takes a village, the whole thing. But if I'm

2082
01:34:42,640 --> 01:34:44,759
Speaker 1: going to go, there better be good food and beverage.

2083
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 5: One hundred percent. I if I ever, you know, get

2084
01:34:47,439 --> 01:34:49,280
Speaker 5: lucky enough to be pregnant, I will be having it

2085
01:34:49,320 --> 01:34:50,960
Speaker 5: at a gentleman's club.

2086
01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:51,599
Speaker 2: I will.

2087
01:34:51,640 --> 01:34:52,720
Speaker 8: I've already decided that.

2088
01:34:52,840 --> 01:34:56,560
Speaker 2: Yep, it's been done. I love it. It has it,

2089
01:34:54,840 --> 01:35:00,719
Speaker 2: you have it. I mean I see there. So yeah,

2090
01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:01,840
Speaker 2: you guys will have a time.

2091
01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:05,720
Speaker 4: Just bring some singles, just have some meat dolls, meatballs, yeah,

2092
01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:06,960
Speaker 4: baby shower meatballs.

2093
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:08,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2094
01:35:09,000 --> 01:35:10,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you still haven't sold me. I'm not going

2095
01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:12,080
Speaker 1: that's right.

2096
01:35:12,200 --> 01:35:13,839
Speaker 2: You let's go play golf, right.

2097
01:35:14,640 --> 01:35:17,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right. Yeah, no, that's a good deal. Celebrate baby.

2098
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:18,800
Speaker 1: Let's go play a team.